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The Deposition with Objeckshun
by Objeckshun
B's random thoughts and musings on games, movies, music, cars, life, etc.Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
Episodes
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Season 4 Episode 21 - Head in the Clouds
On a trip home, I got to thinking about how we never really think about the tops of clouds, which got me thinking about environments we don't explore, but can somehow affect. Have a listen. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 20 - Rest Versus Procrastination
I catch myself with ideal conditions and still put things off, and I use other interruptions as justifications. But sometimes a little effort goes a long way, especially when it comes to fighting procrastination. So with a new year starting for me, let's rap about it for a little. Find me here:...
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Season 4 Episode 19 - The Importance of Role Players
I caught myself overplaying my role recently, and it got me evaluating the importance of role players, both on and off the court. Give it a listen and let me know what you think. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 18 - I'm Learning How to Be a Disappointment
This one is a bit personal. I am purposefully trying to work on getting more comfortable with letting people down. I know that sounds bad, but stay with me. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Epidode 17 - Pattern Recognition and The Will to Fight
My pattern recognition is indeed my greatest superpower as well as my greatest curse. Been thinking a lot about it and wanted to rap about it a bit. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 16 - The Streets
The ways in which we communicate have often been referred to as streets, specifically two-way streets, but is that all there is to it? I think it might be a bit more complex then that and is something worth discussing. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 15 - The Game of Basketball
Every week I hoop. I record my warm up and share it with peeps every so often, and I caught myself thinking about how I would answer some questions that I get asked about them often, and how those answers may pertain to other things. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 14 - I'm Tired of Being Sad
We've been through a lot, but I wonder, the things that we experience that affect us positively, can they ever carry the weight of the things that affect us negatively? Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 13 - Hands off Leadership -or- How to be a Quiet Pillar.
I've been shrinking, but it's been intentional. Why? Let me yap about it. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 12 - There Is A Cost That Must Be Paid...
I've been thinking a lot about how we assign blame when we have a tough experience. I used to believe that most people's negative experiences in my space were my fault. I'm learning that in many ways that's a selfish mindset. There is a personal cost to life. Sometimes our experiences are a part…
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Season 4 Episode 11 - The Fine Line Between Confidence and Audacity
This week marked the third time that someone else's wild parasocial connection with someone else caused them to come at me incorrectly, so I decided to take a different approach today and talk about the difference between addressing something with confidence versus audacity. Find me here:...
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Season 4 Episode 10 - The Prodigal Children
So I recently realized that sometimes excitement or admonishment can have the appearance of favoritism, which directly contradicts my normal edict of fairness. I wanted to talk about celebrating the Prodigal Peeps without disrespecting the Day 1s. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 9 - The Time It Takes To Understand
I have a hard time understanding certain things...and if we're being honest it has been a long time in the making. So let's chat about it. Really embarassing story included lol. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 8.5 - Loyalty, the Sequel Pt. 2
This is the second half of the recording. I apologize for them getting disconnected, but basically it's me yapping about unhealthy loyalty and double standards...and hopefully how to fix it. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 8 - Loyalty, the Sequel Pt. 1
So I have been experiencing some rage lately, and as usual it's tied to some weird feeling of a double standard. So I decided, as I am want to do, to chat it out. However, mid recording, I had to stop, and start a second part, so this will be a two parter. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 7 - Catalysts
This was going to be last episode's topic, but I'm glad I decided to record it this week cause it seems like I can always tie it into things that I have experienced lately. Time to live, and in many cases, living doesn't always mean burning everything down. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 6 - Space is OK
I have been giving a lot of thought to healthy space, and some things that I have learned about my ability to be supportive. Sometimes we are greedy with support, and we only support people in ways that we would feel supported, not how they would...so I decided to yap about it. Find me here:...
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Season 4 Episode 5 - Roadmap: How did I get here?
The days blur together lol. I had a couple of things burrowed into my mind that I was able to work through, so I wanted to talk about it. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 4 - Fragments
Far too often lately I am noticing that we only accept the parts of one another that benefit us. We have to start accepting each other as a whole, even if that means that compatibility takes a hit, and we fall away. Better a healthy disconnect than an unhealthy trap. Find me here:...
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Season 4 Episode 3 - The Simmer Point
Right now, there is a lot happening that seems to be driving rage among the masses. But what if I told you that there has been rage there, for a long time, for decades even, but when people tried to express it they were called 'savages'? I wanted to offer my take on current events and what my…
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Season 4 Episode 2 - The Unexpected, The Unknown, and The Dangerous Road that Got Us Here
I heard a song over a decade ago which had lyrics that stuck with me. And they have me questioning what I valued versus what I should have been valuing. So let's chat about it, cause I keep seeing it more and more each day. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 4 Episode 1 - My Reply to Uncomfortable Situations
Happy New Year and Happy New Season!! A friend and I were chatting about occupying uncomfortable spaces. At the time, I couldn't quite articulate my reply, but after giving it a few days to think, I think I know what I want to say. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 3 Finale - Time Marches On
Well, here we are, Christmas and a New Year on the horizon. But what about 2025? After all that's said and done, that's come and gone, is that it? Well I'm not so sure. A whole bunch happened this year, some wonderful, some terrible, but what did we learn from all of it? Let's talk about it. Find...
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Season 3 Episode 25 - Passes
I have often had friends tell me various things that amount to "I am too lenient with people", and as of late with a lot of what I've experienced this year, I have to ask 'why?' It would be easy for me to get back, or at the very least wish I could...but that's just not me. So let's chat about…
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Season 3 Episode 24 - Avoiding the Addiction to Battle
There is this strange addiction to fighting that has kind of taken the world by storm. It seems like people are going to great lengths to engage in battle...but why? Let's chat about it while we cruise. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 3 Episode 23 - Avoiding Silos and Groupthink, and The Truth About Toxicity
A conversation with a buddy let me to making the statement "I wish people could enjoy the things they enjoy without having to degrade something else", and the ensuing conversation got me thinking about self awareness, hypocrasy, and toxicity. So I rambled a bit about it. Find me here:...
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Season 3 Episode 22 - Sonder, Limerence, and Navigating Too Much vs Too Little in the Parasocial Space
This past week, right up to Sunday, has been a massive lesson in the limits of my body versus my mind. Earlier this week after over caffeinating in an attempt to have enough energy to spread myself fairly thin, I ended up crashing pretty hard for a few days, and really taking some time to think...
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Season 3 Episode 21 - As Exhaustion Approaches Exasperation
I don't think it's any secret that I've been exhausted, but looking into the exhaustion and a lot of the things that come with it I've noticed that I have been slowly tiptoeing toward exasperation. I can feel it in gameplay, see it in interactions, feel it in my work...it's everywhere...but how…
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Season 3 Episode 20 - Remembering to Forget
In a world that seems to move on so rapidly from things, when people want to bury the past, what do those of us who can't do? How do we move forward? Well, it takes doing, but it is possible, however yes, sometimes it will come back and sting. Let's talk about it. Find me here:...
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Season 3 Episode 19 - Needless Competition and Even More Needless Rage
The last few weeks have been heavy but eye opening. Give this a listen, and maybe head back and give some of my others a listen too. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 3 Episode 18 - Ending Pursuit
I have realized that one of my biggest shortcomings is chasing after people whom have no desire to connect with me in the way that I want to connect with them. So, I'm learning how to stop chasing. It's just that simple. Want to chat or connect with me? Now you get to initiate. Find me here:...
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Season 3 Episode 17 - Square Peg, Round Hole
TW: Brief mentions of suicidal ideation and bullying I'm learning that I've let people get used to a version of me whom wouldn't speak up or speak out. I am getting to an age where it is time to change that. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 3 Episode 16 - I Forgive You
I've spent a lot of time as of late realizing that I have been swallowing problems that I've had for a peaceful life, and while I've been doing it, it just seems that not much is changing. So for me, it is time to observe the things that I don't like and to try to let them go. Forgive does not…
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Season 3 Episode 15 - The Line
As hard as it is, I have gotten to a place where it has become difficult to navigate the battles being fought sometimes in the online spaces that we populate. However there is massive truth in the saying 'a friend to all is a friend to none'. So what I am having to learn, in a lot of cases, is…
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Season 3 Episode 14 - I'm Angry, But I Don't Hate
As I work on my journey to climb the mountain of healing, I am learning it is not as linear or binary as I believed it to be. I know that things take time, but so often we forget about the 'steps back' we tend to take when making our way forward. Especially into uncharted territory. The truth is,...
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Season 3 Episode 13 - Anger Management
Hey gang. So a lot of this weeks episode is to illustrate how hard I am trying to ensure that the things that I say are not taken as anything other than the statements that they are. Far to often lately I am accused of being angry at people when the only things that are really upsetting to me are...
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Season 3 Episode 12 - Acceptance
I am trying a new reframing, where instead of bucking everything that goes against what I stand for, I am going to try to be better about accepting how I am percieved versus trying so hard to prove things that the ones whom matter know I am not. This was a rambly one, but it all helped me arrive…
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Season 3 Episode 11 - Trigger Warning: Analyzing Abuse and Manipulation
TRIGGER WARNING: I WILL BE DISCUSSING SPECIFIC TYPES OF ABUSE AT A HIGH LEVEL. In what is easily probably the longest episode of this podcast I have ever recorded, I decided that today was going to be the finale of essentially a week long debate with myself (and some others subconsiously) about...
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Season 3 Episode 10 - My Gift. My Curse.
As we continue the series around my difficulty connecting, I decided that I was going to offer a bit of a roadmap into the work that I am doing. I started realizing that a lot of my desire to isolate has come from the instances in which a disagreement was formed based on a percieved attack. A…
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Season 3 Episode 9 - Just Because You're Different, Doesn't Make You A Burden
This week, I kinda wanted to take a minute and just remind everyone that no matter who or what they are, that their experience does not make them a burden. I am also fighting allergies in this recording, and emotions lol. Hopefully it is a good listen. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 3 Episode 8 - The Blame Game
So this week, I wanted to discuss this pattern of behavior I have noticed with connections where it seems (now that I have recorded) that there is this sort of energy around seeking reasons to be mad at someone as it relates to their own personal behavior. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 3 Episode 7 - Time is an Illusionist
A statement I heard once told me that Time creates the illusion of difficulty...but I wanted to expland on ALL the things that time can create the illusion of. Especially in the creation space where parasocialism runs rampant. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 3 Episode 6 - I'm concerned, but I'm no longer worried.
These past few weeks have been a ride. I won't get into the deep particulars, but I will say that while I have massive concerns going on about the world, and the world around me, I am not worried. Let's talk about it. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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Season 3 Episode 5 - Beacons
I cannot express the inherent value of someone whom you consider to be a beacon in your life. During such a dark time in our world, having proverbial lighthouses is such an important way to let those who are trapped in their own darkness know that there is light out there. Find me here:...
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Season 3 Episode 4 - The Importance of Separation
Lately, a LOT of my friends and community members have been experiencing some level of separation and isolation. And normally I try to bridge gaps and bring peeps together, but it might be time to take a look at some of the good that can come from taking distance, a break, or letting something or...
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S3 Episode 3 Part 2 - Season 2 Episode 27 - Once Again, I am a Lesson
Then In July, I recorded something similar and said this: "Lately I have seen a lot of what I will refer to as people upset over missed opportunities with others. People watching others receiving treatment they wish they had received. Naturally, I have been experiencing the same, so I thought we...
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S3 Episode 3 Part 1 - Season 2 Episode 4 - Once Again, I am a Lesson
Almost a year ago, I recorded this and said the following: "The truth is, it's very difficult to feel like a lesson that someone else has had to learn, but I have found some interesting ways to to mitigate the feelings that can arise from feeling like one has been treated differently, especially...
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S3 Episode 2 - Navigating Failure
Today was a challenge to even get this recorded tbh. I have a lot of personal battles I am fighting, and it feels like I am losing them lately. So I figured I would get some of the bigger ones out of my heart and into the world...cannot attack what I cannot see. Find me here:...
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S3 Episode 1 - Be Wary Of Darkness
There is some darkness out there that is being well hidden, but being shinobi, my eyes have become more keen to seeing that which is hidden in plain sight. However for my community, I wanted to discuss welcoming darkness as opposed to being infiltrated by it. And the caution to be taken when...
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S2 Finale - New Year, Same Old.
I want to go into 2025 with the same sense of hope I have every new year, but with this years challenges, how? Well I was driving and took some time to discuss it, so here we are. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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B's random thoughts and musings on games, movies, music, cars, life, etc.Find me here: https://linktr.ee/Objeckshun
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