The Disciple-Making Parent AudioBlog

At the heart of good parenting is a balance between authority and affection. In this we imitate our heavenly Father's relationship with us. Is your parenting reflecting these two aspects?To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/children-need-affection-authority/

You can navigate storms in your parenting, if your eye is on the North Star. For Christians, the Great Commission is the North Star of our parenting.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/parents-follow-this-north-star/

I asked our adult daughter about the ways our family strove for unity. Her answer? “You forced us to be kind to one another.” Listen in as I unpack this.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/forced-to-be-kind/

Forgiveness is gospel glue that help ensure our children maintain good relationships as adults. Here are some ways we can instill it in them now.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/teaching-our-family-to-forgive/

Did you know that you were made to rule and to reign? Some insights on our biblical authority.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/made-to-rule-and-reign/

Wisdom from Proverbs on establishing our households.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/by-wisdom-a-house-is-built/

Proverbs has a lot to say about our speech. Here is a selection of verses that can help us use it wisely.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/12-proverbs-on-communication/

Proverbs has a lot to say about our speech. Here is a selection of verses that can help us use it wisely.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/12-proverbs-on-communication/

How do we know when to "pull the fire alarm" and enlist help for a conflict in our marriage? Listen to find out.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/pulling-the-fire-alarm/

A number of solid principles to guide couples in unity as they make important decisions.To read the original post, visit: https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/guidance-for-couples-in-making-decisions/

The example of Joseph in the Old Testament can teach us how to view temptation, and how to fight it. To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/handling-temptation-like-joseph/

Those who call themselves Christians often don't act like it. This can be confusing to our teens. But rather than negating Jesus' teaching, it actually confirms it.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/an-apologetic-for-the-christian-mess-12-things-i-wish-i-had-known-as-a-teen/

Twelve truths to consider about repentance and why it needs to be recovered by today’s millennial who grew up in a Christian home and today’s parent who is raising children. Part 2.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/repentance-twelve-reasons-to-recover-this-biblical-idea/

Twelve truths to consider about repentance and why it needs to be recovered by today’s millennial who grew up in a Christian home and today’s parent who is raising children. Part 1.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/repentance-twelve-reasons-to-recover-this-biblical-idea/

Its easy to overlook our own blind spots from a position of authority. Here are some ways we can seek help.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/overcome-blind-spots-in-our-parenting-and-leadership/

True hypocrisy is not falling short of the high commands of Christ. So what is it, and why does it matter in our parenting? Listen in to learn more.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/am-i-a-hypocritical-parent/

Memorized scripture can be of real benefit to the believer! Listen in to hear about 7 ways this is true.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/7-benefits-of-memorizing-scripture/

Are you feeling distant from God? Learn how to draw near again. To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/feeling-distant-from-god/

How did Jesus model active learning for us? Listen in to learn more.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/the-godly-quality-of-active-learning/

As followers of Jesus, we want to think like him and feel like him. How did he view the Scriptures? That's how we want to view them also.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/how-did-jesus-view-scripture/

We live for God's glory. But what does that mean? And how can it fuel our Christian life?To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/glory-understanding-a-confusing-religious-word/

In this two part series, we explore the subject of emotional blackmail. If you are the parent of a prodigal or involved in some other difficult relationship, this will be of interest.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/emotional-blackmail-and-self-absorption/

In this two part series, we explore the subject of emotional blackmail. If you are the parent of a prodigal or involved in some other difficult relationship, this will be of interest.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/emotional-blackmail-and-self-absorption/

In this audioblog, I examine this common criticism from our questioning youth.To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/why-are-christians-so-judgmental/

Young people can believe that suffering disproves the existence of God. This podcast gives a brief answer to that objection.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/a-short-answer-to-the-objection-of-suffering-in-the-world/

Ministering to the grieving and shut-in can be a way to train our children to serve. Listen in for a few thoughts.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/funerals-grieving-and-discipleship/

Learn from Mordecai's watchful care of Esther how we too can pray for our children.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/a-sentry-keeping-watch-in-prayer/

How can I expect my children to honor me, when I'm a sinner too? I discuss this question from a concerned mother.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/how-can-i-expect-my-children-to-honor-me-since-i-am-a-sinner-too/

Join me at we take a look at this important verse. With a clearer translation of one word, I think you will find this verse of even more importance.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/a-second-look-at-2-timothy-316-17/

In this episode, I discuss how our intentional parenting can help us grow in these two areas.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/loving-and-leading-your-children-can-teach-you-patience-and-persistence/

Do you know the difference between vacation and a family trip? The distinction is crucial to having a good time, glorifying God, and discipling your children.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/vacations-family-trips-and-family-discipleship/

We want our children connected with others, right? Here are two more suggestions for encouraging that.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/two-tips-for-connecting-your-children-with-spiritual-mentors/

In this episode, I discuss one helpful phrase to help gracefully manage the fallout from your child's behavior in public- "We're working on that."To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/were-working-on-that/

Sometimes there can be some confusion on the interplay with mom or dad correcting the children. This is a quick take to help resolve what can be a thorny issue.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/who-should-discipline-mom-or-dad/

We discipline our children because God disciplines us. Discipline is an act of love as you will see when we walk through Hebrews 12.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/principles-of-discipline-from-hebrews-12/

This is a quick overview of the longer podcast with Dr. Rick Horne on his excellent book, Get Outta My Face.

Don't make the same mistake I made for many years. Even as we take the Bible seriously, we also want to be wise. Listen in.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/should-you-let-the-sun-go-down-on-your-anger/

Learn a litle bit about history and at the same time learn a spiritual metaphor that will stick with you.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/from-slave-to-free-soldier-a-metaphor-of-the-christian-life-from-rhode-island/

Summer is fast approaching. Since we make disciples as we go about life, family discipleship continues. Learn how one cookout impacted my son.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/cookouts-family-and-discipleship/

Here are some important principles of power and authority to remember no matter who is in office.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/what-are-you-teaching-your-teens-about-politics/

With significant wars in the news, here are some ways to consider the principles that guide a just military.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/understanding-just-war-theory/

Standing stones were meant to build faith in Israel. They recount God's actions when things are more quiet. They can help build faith is us as well. Learn how.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/where-are-your-standing-stones/

Can we overpraise our children? One grandmother and school teacher asked me this question. I agreed. Listen to my whole reasoning.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/are-we-dishonest-in-our-praise/

In this written interview, I was able to tell some of the reasoning behind The Disciple-Making Parent. I think you will enjoy it.To read the original post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/faithful-parenting-successful-parenting/

Do you want to connect to the heart of your children? A donut date is one way to do that. Learn how in this episode.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/nine-elements-of-an-effective-donut-date/

As dads, our words are powerful. Listen for how we can use them to minister well to our children.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/seven-things-good-dads-say/

A young father confessed he was loving his work but not his young children. This was my response to an honest, heartfelt admission.To read the original post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/dad-secret-love-work-family/

Is a strong-willed child a problem or a blessing? Listen in to a few thoughts that might change your perspective in the midst of the battle.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/thoughts-for-the-strong-willed-child/

Children's directors and children's Sunday School teachers often have heart for helping parents but don't know how. In this episode, I make a number of suggestions.To read the original post, visit: https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/how-childrens-directors-and-teachers-can-help-parents/

One way to grow in patience is to slow life down and reflect on the upsets. An anger journal does just that. Learn more in this podcast.To read the original post, visit https://www.theapollosproject.com/using-an-anger-journal-to-grow-in-godliness/