The Experience Podcast

In this episode Sir Inq discusses how those more experienced in sexual endeavors though a good thing can be harmful when interacting with a sexual novice and specially if your in the lifestyle of kink and bdsm one needs to take their time introducing certain acts, toys etc into the bedroom with those less experienced.

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how suits or any other type of clothing does not automatically make you Dominant. What makes a man Dominant is not aesthetics but what’s inside you, your mind, your rules a man’s code of ethics!

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses what a stellar man is and the process it takes to become stellar as well asthe benefits stellar men have over other men.

We dove into the raw side of the lifestyle. Silver Foxxxy spilled the details on swinger parties, but her real pro tip? Bring a hoe bag. We didn’t shy away from what’s inside: condoms, toiletries, clean gear, and that little edge to stay ready for anything. It was blunt, it was unapologetic, and it was exactly what people need to hear if they’re stepping into that world.

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how mens attraction is more through our eyes and how women also see physical attraction their level of engagement and what they feel as attraction goes deeper than just the physical plane.

This episode starts innocent… and then Silver Foxxxy casually drops that she went from a vanilla marriage straight into gangbangs 😳🔥 Sir InQ pulls it all out of her—dating apps, unsolicited dick pics, and how one night with a Dom completely flipped the switch on everything she thought she knew 💦 She walks through the exact moment she stepped into the lifestyle… and how quickly things escalated from curiosity to full-blown exploration 😏 We’re talking kink, consent, power exchange, and what actually happens behind the scenes in the swinging world. And just when you think you’ve heard it all… yeah, you haven’t 

In this episode Sir Inq discusses 10 points of view from how a male views sex and performance to how women feels and connects to men through the entire experience.

In this episode Sir inQ discusses how he's the single friend that welcomes his once married friends and clients back into the dating world and updates them on all the changes and nuances in todays dating market specially if they're above 40yrs old cause the old world is just that old and the values have changed.

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the advantages of paying for sex specially if you're in a sexless relationship, in a relationship and want sex outside your dynamic or you're man consumed with work and do not have the time to commit to a relationship and is tired of failing with connection.

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of men specially younger men to have a singular focus and minimize the multitude of distractions and how that focus helps to build a sustainable life, win in their personal lives and build a legacy.

In this episode Sir Inq elaborates on a story he was told about a man engaging a woman at a bar and tried to exchange information with a potential date with a cracked cell phone screen and how that reveals a persons character and he might have killed the vibes before he had a second chance. Remember you never get a second chance at a 1st impression!

In this episode Sir Inq discusses those first encounters with sex and the errors in who introduces us and the affects it carries on longterm

In this podcast Sir Inq responds to a listeners response to one podcast as the follower grapples with ED issues within a second time marriage to a very sexually open woman. 

In this podcast Sir Inq dives into a conversation he had with Layla about her dating experience and how even 60yr old men who are thought to be mature and savvy but are running the risk of becoming just like their younger counterparts with wanting to see nudity before meeting in person. 

In this episode Sir Inq discusses his sexual resolutions for 2026 and how those resolutions are a continuation of the things he's been working on since 2024 and 2025.

In this episode Sir Inq gives his review on the red pill content, whats missing, and how the conversation needs to graduate to less arguing amongst the sexes to more connection between men and women for better experiences, relationships and outcomes.

In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how to seduce the woman of your desire, discusses how to set the mood and walk her into your world seamlessly.

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his version of Curious Girls “pair and a spare” which he likens to dating tiers and uses rooms as an example to explain his remix of her theory. #dominance #submission 

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how to look at the videos she sends not only for your viewing pleasure but its a good view into what pleases her and how to make her climax when you're ready to take her there!

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses why men suffer from erectile dysfuntion, the things we use to combat them ie ED pills and drinks, but also discusses the mental side as well as the physical health side that most men ignore that's the actual canary in the coal mine!

In this episode I discuss how men with good intentions that are overly negotiable end up suverting their leadership role to their wife or girlfriend and are not in control of their relationships, family and finances.

In this podcast I discuss how seasoned men do not pursue women for sex but for true connection in a way that is healthy and is willing to provide an environment and or experience that allows his poteintail date to be themselves so they. can get to know each other with less to no pressure. A thoughtful man understands in todays time with social media and the lies that are told for the conquest of sex it's important if you value connection their are healthier ways to approach it and being like everyone else just won't do it!

In this episode I discuss the wonderful world of bj's, soul snatchers, the wrong way to do it and what makes it so awesome that most men can't deny wanting them when done correctly.

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his latest observation on the dating game and so how many single people aren't fully equipped to date properly and why it's important to step ones game up and in what areas need one needs to focus on themselves. #dominance #submission

Sir Inq reminisces over quotes he’s heard since a young man until present time and how they have such deeper meaning today then when he first heard them! #dominance #submission #sirinq

Sir Inq discusses the difference between those you like the bdsm lifestyle for just the kink not the discipline and relationship aspect of it. #dominance #submission #sirinq

Sir Inq responds to a follower’s question on “what are some non sexual things that make men feel desirable?”. #siriq #dominance #submission

Sir Inq discusses why it’s important to find a way to decompress and compartmentalize your work stress for the sanctity of your home life. #sirinq #dominance #submission

In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how men grow in their sexual prowess and skills from being a young man into his more seasoned years of 40+, also how some men never evolve and for them it’s about having an orgasm not actually pleasing their partner.#sirinq #dominance #submissionhttps://www.instagram.com/a_polite_savage?igsh=MXV3YWxhMXhhbGJn

In this episode Sir Inq questions the smart ladies on why they accept so much bs when they absolutely know better! Y'all read all the blogs, listen to podcast after podcast, engage in the groups on Facebook and more yet some of y'all go for the bs and lie to yourselves openly and quietly which is dangerous in todays dating market!

Sir Inq discusses that thin line between wanting a partner for love an companionship and needing a a partner for survival and future stability and growth that one has not successfully created for themselves due to self inflicted negligence and not taking their future serious enough in their 20's,30's and wake up in their 40tys only to realize their in a shrunken dating market and feel the pressure to stop playing around and settle in.

In this talk Inq discusses if a Dom can be only a mentor to a sub without a loving relationship or claiming said submissive. Also discusses the importance of having a Dominant in your life as a mentor regardless of any other aspects of the lifestyle.

In this podcast Inq discusses laziness in relationships and the problems it leads to, and what you can do as a Dom to get out of that rut!

In this podcast Inq responds to a followers question of “is there love in BDSM?” and of course his answer is “yes” but hear why.

In this podcast Inq discusses the difference between bdsm and kink and what are some of the ways you can tell the difference between the two and how one has less than the other.

In this podcast Inq discusses if a regular man can become a Dominant man within the lifestyle.

In this podcast Inq discusses how many Dominant men do not represent the lifestyle openly and many may not participate in many aspects of kink, role play etc but at the core dominants and go about their lives without wanting attention or recognition. #domination #submission #sirinq

In this podcast Inq discusses how our own selfish wants and dream of love and relationships not only blinds us to certain realities but also binds us to disfunction and bad outcomes. #domination #submission

In this podcast Inq discusses why before the new year he takes inventory of his friends, relationships, business affairs etc and how he weeds the one out that no longer serve his overall purpose and goals, and how it’s not easy and not all endings are bad and actually allow room for growth. #domination #submission 

In this podcast Inq discusses the importance of practicing your side f the dynamic even when you're without a D or s.

In this podcast Inq discusses the reasons and causations behind being rejected, how to view rejection and why it isn't always a you issue.

In the podcast Inq discusses the various differences in how some Dom's punish and think differently in their dynamics.

In this podcast Inq discusses the difference in Dom's that are more flexible and those that "Dom down hard" and are less tolerant with their submissive's access to certain things.

In this podcast Inq compares the classic story of the tortoise and the hare to relationships and having life goals that keeps an individual focused and not sloppy and all over the place.

In this podcast Inc discusses the difference between men that have their ish together and the ones walking around with their shirts (swag) untucked and how it makes a mess of not only their lives but the lives of others!

In this podcast Inq calls the ladies to the carpet on trying to fix a man that is set in his way but it's also a diversion for them to not focus on themselves.

In this cast Sir Inq delves into the foundation of each Dom and sub as some mask who they are in the title and surface acts but who one truly is can not be hidden for long and it's best to be who you are unapologetically for the best outcomes!

Let's discuss the importance of investing in the lifestyle as a way to expand your experience and avoid hitting a wall within your dynamic. There is a reconning that comes when you get yourself into such an expansive lifestyle and try to lowball what comes with it! #submission #domination

In this podcast I briefly discuss why timing and context is important to avoid uncomfortable moments, arguments and public embarrassment. Many intimate conversations do not need to be had in public spaces or in front of others that add no value to the situation at hand. #submission #domination

Let’s discuss why it’s important to control your environment to maximize on the experiences you desire and stay away from moments and people less desirable. #domination #submission