The Experience Podcast
by The Inq well
Pull up a chair and join Sir InQ for candid conversations about relationships, power, intimacy, culture, and the experiences that shape us. No rehearsed answers, no subjects off-limit--just honest perspectives, a little humor, and plenty to think about. sirinq.substack.com
Episodes
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What does Sexually Unsophisticated mean?
In this episode Sir Inq and his guest Erin Alexander discuss female sexuality, why they're able to be more sexually fluid than men and why men do not want to come across as Sexually Unsophisticated. https://substack.com/@mserina Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Q & A on Male Sexuality and Relationships
Listen in to our Q&A on male topics that range from sexuality to relationships and all else in between. Erin Alexander, Sexologist Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Men Want to Know You Want to fck Us!
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Where Porn Does not Stick the Landing
In this episode Sir Inq discusses the things in porn films over the years that does nothing for him nor have heard many men gloat over in their sexual prowess and stories. He also responds to some questions thats been prposed to him on the subject. Get full access to The inQ Well at...
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The errors of Sexual expansion and Age Gap dating
In this episode Sir Inq discusses the errors of too much sexual expansiveness and the realities of age gap dating in the modern world. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Why Men Struggle With Sex, Connection & Relationships | Erin Alexander
Why do so many men struggle with intimacy, sexual performance, and emotional connection? In this episode of The Experience Podcast, Sir Inq sits down with psychologist, sex therapist, and deception detection expert Erin Alexander for an honest conversation about the challenges many men face in...
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How Sexually Going 0-100 can go wrong
In this episode Sir Inq discusses how those more experienced in sexual endeavors though a good thing can be harmful when interacting with a sexual novice and specially if your in the lifestyle of kink and bdsm one needs to take their time introducing certain acts, toys etc into the bedroom with...
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The Suit Didn't Make Me Dominant
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how suits or any other type of clothing does not automatically make you Dominant. What makes a man Dominant is not aesthetics but what’s inside you, your mind, your rules a man’s code of ethics! Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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The Stellar Man
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses what a stellar man is and the process it takes to become stellar as well asthe benefits stellar men have over other men. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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We Are All Narcissist!
In this video Inq discusses how we all have egos and most egos are driven by some level of narcissism, thus a narcissist calling another narcissist a narcissist! Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Hoe Bags and Swinger Clubs
We dove into the raw side of the lifestyle. Silver Foxxxy spilled the details on swinger parties, but her real pro tip? Bring a hoe bag. We didn’t shy away from what’s inside: condoms, toiletries, clean gear, and that little edge to stay ready for anything. It was blunt, it was unapologetic, and…
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How men SEE attraction vs a woman
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how mens attraction is more through our eyes and how women also see physical attraction their level of engagement and what they feel as attraction goes deeper than just the physical plane. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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The Night She Stepped Into Kink..And Never Looked Back
This episode starts innocent… and then Silver Foxxxy casually drops that she went from a vanilla marriage straight into gangbangs 😳🔥 Sir InQ pulls it all out of her—dating apps, unsolicited dick pics, and how one night with a Dom completely flipped the switch on everything she thought she knew…
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What she's feeling vs what he's thinking
In this episode Sir Inq discusses 10 points of view from how a male views sex and performance to how women feels and connects to men through the entire experience. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Story time!
In this episode Sir inQ discusses how he's the single friend that welcomes his once married friends and clients back into the dating world and updates them on all the changes and nuances in todays dating market specially if they're above 40yrs old cause the old world is just that old and the…
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Pay problems away!
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the advantages of paying for sex specially if you're in a sexless relationship, in a relationship and want sex outside your dynamic or you're man consumed with work and do not have the time to commit to a relationship and is tired of failing with connection. Get...
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Message to younger men
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of men specially younger men to have a singular focus and minimize the multitude of distractions and how that focus helps to build a sustainable life, win in their personal lives and build a legacy. Get full access to The inQ Well at...
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Cracked cell phone screens reveal character
In this episode Sir Inq elaborates on a story he was told about a man engaging a woman at a bar and tried to exchange information with a potential date with a cracked cell phone screen and how that reveals a persons character and he might have killed the vibes before he had a second chance....
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The first moment men receive bad sex advice
In this episode Sir Inq discusses those first encounters with sex and the errors in who introduces us and the affects it carries on longterm Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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When doubling down goes foul!
In this podcast Sir Inq responds to a listeners response to one podcast as the follower grapples with ED issues within a second time marriage to a very sexually open woman. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Too early for a breast request!
In this podcast Sir Inq dives into a conversation he had with Layla about her dating experience and how even 60yr old men who are thought to be mature and savvy but are running the risk of becoming just like their younger counterparts with wanting to see nudity before meeting in person. Get full...
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Inq's 2026 Sexual resolutions
In this episode Sir Inq discusses his sexual resolutions for 2026 and how those resolutions are a continuation of the things he's been working on since 2024 and 2025. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Inq's Red Pill review
In this episode Sir Inq gives his review on the red pill content, whats missing, and how the conversation needs to graduate to less arguing amongst the sexes to more connection between men and women for better experiences, relationships and outcomes. Get full access to The inQ Well at...
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The Seducer MINDSET
In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how to seduce the woman of your desire, discusses how to set the mood and walk her into your world seamlessly. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Does she deserve to see the sky or stand outside in line to get into the lobby?
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his version of Curious Girls “pair and a spare” which he likens to dating tiers and uses rooms as an example to explain his remix of her theory. #dominance #submission Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Learning her while watching her touch herself
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how to look at the videos she sends not only for your viewing pleasure but its a good view into what pleases her and how to make her climax when you're ready to take her there! Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Why can't he last?
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses why men suffer from erectile dysfuntion, the things we use to combat them ie ED pills and drinks, but also discusses the mental side as well as the physical health side that most men ignore that's the actual canary in the coal mine! Get full access to The inQ…
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Topping from the bottom
In this episode I discuss how men with good intentions that are overly negotiable end up suverting their leadership role to their wife or girlfriend and are not in control of their relationships, family and finances. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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A space where you can be yourself
In this podcast I discuss how seasoned men do not pursue women for sex but for true connection in a way that is healthy and is willing to provide an environment and or experience that allows his poteintail date to be themselves so they. can get to know each other with less to no pressure. A...
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Bj's and soul snatchers
In this episode I discuss the wonderful world of bj's, soul snatchers, the wrong way to do it and what makes it so awesome that most men can't deny wanting them when done correctly. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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The dating tool shed
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his latest observation on the dating game and so how many single people aren't fully equipped to date properly and why it's important to step ones game up and in what areas need one needs to focus on themselves. #dominance #submission Get full access to The inQ...
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Quotes that have impacted my life
Sir Inq reminisces over quotes he’s heard since a young man until present time and how they have such deeper meaning today then when he first heard them! #dominance #submission #sirinq Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Some come for the kink not the discipline!
Sir Inq discusses the difference between those you like the bdsm lifestyle for just the kink not the discipline and relationship aspect of it. #dominance #submission #sirinq Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Ways men crave to be desired beyond sex.
Sir Inq responds to a follower’s question on “what are some non sexual things that make men feel desirable?”. #siriq #dominance #submission Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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How mentally bringing work home can ruin the sanctity of it.
Sir Inq discusses why it’s important to find a way to decompress and compartmentalize your work stress for the sanctity of your home life. #sirinq #dominance #submission Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Men’s sexual evolution and the negative side of not evolving.
In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how men grow in their sexual prowess and skills from being a young man into his more seasoned years of 40+, also how some men never evolve and for them it’s about having an orgasm not actually pleasing their partner. #sirinq #dominance #submission...
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How did smart women became stupid?
In this episode Sir Inq questions the smart ladies on why they accept so much bs when they absolutely know better! Y'all read all the blogs, listen to podcast after podcast, engage in the groups on Facebook and more yet some of y'all go for the bs and lie to yourselves openly and quietly which is...
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Dating out of desperation
Sir Inq discusses that thin line between wanting a partner for love an companionship and needing a a partner for survival and future stability and growth that one has not successfully created for themselves due to self inflicted negligence and not taking their future serious enough in their...
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Can a Dom only be a mentor?
In this talk Inq discusses if a Dom can be only a mentor to a sub without a loving relationship or claiming said submissive. Also discusses the importance of having a Dominant in your life as a mentor regardless of any other aspects of the lifestyle. Get full access to The inQ Well at...
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Laziness in relationships
In this podcast Inq discusses laziness in relationships and the problems it leads to, and what you can do as a Dom to get out of that rut! Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Is there love in BDSM?
In this podcast Inq responds to a followers question of “is there love in BDSM?” and of course his answer is “yes” but hear why. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Is there a difference between bdsm and kink?
In this podcast Inq discusses the difference between bdsm and kink and what are some of the ways you can tell the difference between the two and how one has less than the other. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Can you become a Dom?
In this podcast Inq discusses if a regular man can become a Dominant man within the lifestyle. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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The hidden Dominant
In this podcast Inq discusses how many Dominant men do not represent the lifestyle openly and many may not participate in many aspects of kink, role play etc but at the core dominants and go about their lives without wanting attention or recognition. #domination #submission #sirinq Get full…
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Selfishness and the daydream phantom
In this podcast Inq discusses how our own selfish wants and dream of love and relationships not only blinds us to certain realities but also binds us to disfunction and bad outcomes. #domination #submission Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Tis the season for endings?
In this podcast Inq discusses why before the new year he takes inventory of his friends, relationships, business affairs etc and how he weeds the one out that no longer serve his overall purpose and goals, and how it’s not easy and not all endings are bad and actually allow room for growth....
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Practice!
In this podcast Inq discusses the importance of practicing your side f the dynamic even when you're without a D or s. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Rejection
In this podcast Inq discusses the reasons and causations behind being rejected, how to view rejection and why it isn't always a you issue. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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The various versions of Dominants
In the podcast Inq discusses the various differences in how some Dom's punish and think differently in their dynamics. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Dom down hard or no?
In this podcast Inq discusses the difference in Dom's that are more flexible and those that "Dom down hard" and are less tolerant with their submissive's access to certain things. Get full access to The inQ Well at sirinq.substack.com/subscribe
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Pull up a chair and join Sir InQ for candid conversations about relationships, power, intimacy, culture, and the experiences that shape us. No rehearsed answers, no subjects off-limit--just honest perspectives, a little humor, and plenty to think about.
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