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Emily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic. So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating? Listen in as Scot gets some outside opinions on the matter to start out with. From there, prepare to be surprised and challenged by what you hear, because as usual nothing is left on the table and no stone is left unturned. Do we finally get a good, bitter argument outta these two this time? Well, of course not...but at least you can predict there'll be an Episode 34 that way.

Special Guest Sean Stephenson (www.timetostand.com). You look around you and see couples who can't seem to get along. Then you wonder how they ever got together, let alone stay together. In this episode Scot and Emily define what settling is all about and provide real solutions for helping you stay out of that trap...forever. Never, ever settle...ever again!

Special Guest David Wygant (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/wygant). Why is it so many people can't stay attracted to someone who used to seem so hot to them? And how can you prevent this from happening? Scot and Emily have heard one too many stories from listeners who have managed to somehow extinguish the flame after a relationship starts. Worse...it's often the case that they can't exactly pinpoint what went awry. True secrets unveiled, along with a few other surprises.

Special Guests Jon and Laurie Weiss (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/happy). We all know that men and women are supposed to be 'happy' together. But what does that mean? Emily and Scot look at the big picture, welcoming some gold-plated advice from a pair of guests who happen to have nearly fifty years' worth of experience at both relationship coaching AND relationship happiness. Don't miss this chance to hear the voice of real experience (and a very bad Regis Philbin impersonation).

Special Guest Marie Forleo (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/marie). There's a lot of talk about how to create attraction. But what is there to remember about maintaining that attraction once you actually HAVE someone in your life? Discover the hidden mistakes that all too many people make and find out what it takes to keep the fire burning for a LONG time to come.

Finally...something the 'perfectly imperfect' co-hosts don't exactly agree on. Emily thinks that men should give women LOTS of flowers, early and often in a relationship. Scot, while not exactly against giving women flowers altogether, has a completely different outlook on the subject. No guests or 'man-on-the-street' interviews in this episode, just the two hosts mano-a-mano. Tune in for something completely different and get ready to be fully polarized...whether these two 'kiss and make up' at the end or not.

Special Guests Joseph "Thundercat" Matthews (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/thundercat)plus AJ and Jordon from PickupPodcast.com. The terms "pickup" and "seduction" mean different things to different people. Emily and Scot have an honest discussion of both the good AND the bad, while taking a detailed look at "The Seduction Community". Expect the unexpected as the hosts and the guests alike express some shocking ideas that openly challenge stereotypical thinking.

Special Guest Amy Waterman from 000Relationships (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/amy). Back in Episode 23 Scot and Emily covered Masculinity. But...ahhhh...they've truly saved the best for later. This episode covers all the wondrous intricacies of feminine wiles. Listen in as the hosts tell it as they see it without any regard for 'political correctness'--only a great respect for the way in which the world has revolved since the beginning of time...

Special Guest Grant Adams from Net2Bed/Net2Wed (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/grant). What has taken so long for THIS episode to happen? After all, Emily and Scot met on Match.com and have considerable online dating track records under their respective belts. And that's not all they have under their belts...find out what the big news is along with a cavalcade of innovative tips and strategies for getting YOU the kind of online dating success the hosts and their guest have enjoyed.

NEW ENHANCED SOUND QUALITY! Special Guests Michelle Penney from Kissing 101 (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/kissing)and Janet Morehead from Mojo-Maker.com. The two hosts of this podcast have each long since overspent their respective 336 hours spent making out by the average human being. So it's no wonder this discussion of what great kissing is all about became an episode of record length for X & Y On The Fly.

Special Guest Carlos Xuma from Dating Dynamics (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/carlos). Any guy can be MALE, but what does it take to be a MAN in today's world? Idiot/Jerks, Mama's Boys, Nice Guys, and Macho types abound, but where have the REAL MEN gone? Scot and Emily go in search of them and find REAL answers.

Special guest Homer McDonald from StopYourDivorce.com . It's a common natural fact that dating may very well lead to a long term relationship or EVEN... (deep breath) marriage. Scot and Emily hash out the differences between what makes a relationship last blissfully into the future versus what makes marriage feel like a prison that only a divorce lawyer can get you free from.

Special guest Matt DeReno from Flirting.com. So what's the deal with flirting, anyway? Is it really so hard? And who tends to be better at it, women or men? Emily and Scot talk about the differences between how men and women flirt, and what makes for truly world-class skill. Emily offers a nice demo, and Scot needs to stop hitting the desk as he's talking, huh?

It's the first day of 2007 and the start of a new beginning. So what better time to talk about endings? Emily and Scot break DOWN all the reasons why people break UP...or SHOULD break up. Yet another touchy subject hit head on by X & Y On The Fly. Tune in for your regularly-scheduled rapid-fire info bonanza on the most action-packed podcast in the dating world.

It has been a full month since Episode 18, and during that time Emily and Scot have (in order) hosted a house full of people, gotten married and gone on a world freaking tour (aka "The Honeymoon"). FAIR WARNING: This is NOT your typical X & Y On The Fly Episode. That said, Scot and Emily talk about the wedding and their worldwide misadventures but--of course--get around to discussing what it means to pick a lifetime mate (as does Scot's 87 year old grandmother). Oh...and check it out--X & Y On The Fly has officially gone mobile. Enjoy several LIVE clips from the wedding! (So THAT'S how it is between you two, huh?)

Okay, enough about what NOT to do... How does someone go from being "good" at dating to being truly excellent...and therefore memorable? WARNING: This discussion goes way beyond "paint-by-numbers" dating tips and exposes what it takes to be a TRUE artist when it comes to attraction! (And yes...we finally got the iPod image to work. It's about time, right?)

Why is it so many people are willing to give up on dating completely? Find out in this episode what the top ten excuses for dating failure are, and how to get over them--ANY of them. Just say "no" to being alone!

Okay, so women want men and men want women. But aren't there some "boyish" and "girlish" qualities that remain amazingly sexy even when we're of "legal" age (and older)? Find out as Scot and Emily confess what is hot and what is not when it comes to being youthful vs. downright immature.(Note: Learn about our new Frappr map and our MySpace page also!)

So is being a "brat" a good thing or a bad thing? Well, it all depends on whether you are a toddler at Wal-mart or someone's partner in a relationship. Find out the difference between being spunky and being flat-out spoiled. Both Emily and Scot have their points on the subject...but do you think either is about to let the other get away with that kind of attitude? (Note: This podcast is now produced with higher sound quality!)

Facing rejection is bad enough, but how about having to dish it out? Emily and Scot talk about how to break the bad news in the best way possible. But what if someone just really deserves a dose of bluntness? Well, there's a difference of opinion there. Find out more as this podcast hits the ground running (...or is that "hits the road"?)

Whether you call it the "willies" or the "heebie-jeebies" it's just flat-out creepy. In "lucky" episode number 13 Emily and Scot talk about all the weird things that wacked-out people say and do on a first-date...you know, exactly the sort of stuff that absolutely, positively means there will NEVER be a second date! Learn the "lucky thirteen" things people say or do on dates to make sure their date can't get away soon enough.

Okay, we all know that bars and clubs are great places to meet someone. But what if we're not into that sort of thing? Emily and Scot come up with all kinds of places to meet people, with practical steps on how to go about it. And we all think Scot has spent too much time in airports!

Well...not all of us can be Ken and Barbie, but that doesn't stop us from trying, does it? Scot and Emily talk about why people try to be perfect, and end up figuring out that perfection probably isn't all it's cracked up to be anyway. Get the lowdown on all of this right here in this week's ever-unpredictable episode.

At long last--and after a considerable number of requests from listeners--this is the 'introcast' episode. Recorded nearly a year after Episode 1 was first published in June of 2006, Emily and Scot introduce themselves, share some of their background, recount how they met, describe what makes their relationship great and--of course--tell all about X & Y Communications. If you are a new listener, this is a great place to start. If you are a longtime listener, we realize this is long overdue. Enjoy.My Odeo Channel (odeo/f76b938e07bba4a8) My Podcast Alley feed! {pca-c69da4177b4e354f29ef8140a3ec458c}