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The Family Mess
by The Family Mess
Welcome to The Family Mess! We're a family of 4 that get at each other all while loving each other, but that's how all families work. Follow us as we talk about our struggles, successes, and everything in between. Look out for new episodes every other Tuesday.
Episodes
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One Child, Two Lives: Comparing Single and Married Motherhood Part 3
Part 3 of One Child, Two Lives brings listeners deeper into Arteshia and Dekerria's personal experience with motherhood. They breaks down the contrast between single-mom and married -mom's life-especially during those exhausting young-children years. The episode emphasizes the power of…
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One Child, Two Lives: Comparing Single and Married Motherhood Part 2
Ever wonder if motherhood comes with a manual? Spoiler alert: it doesn't. In Part 2 of "One Child, Two Lives," Nathalie and Ian sit down with Arteshia (single mom) and Dekerria (married mom) to spill the tea on the chaos, the meltdowns, and the moments that make you question you life choices.…
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One Child, Two Lives: Comparing Single and Married Motherhood
Part of a powerful three-part series exploring the diverse paths of motherhood.In this series, we sit down with two moms -one single, one married-who share their raw unfiltered sotories of growth, regrets, opportunities for change, and deep self-reflection. This interview uncovers the challenges...
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Sleep Divorce Part 2: Separate Beds, Stronger Bonds
Can sleeping in separate beds actually strengthen your relationship? In this follow-up to Sleep Divorce, Ian and Nathalie explore the emotional and practical impact of five nights apart. From better sleep quality to surprising intimacy insights, they unpack how sleep boundaries can support…
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The Sleep Divorce: Is It Saving Relationships?
From snoring wars to midnight tossing and turning, Nathalie and Ian get real about the “sleep divorce”—when couples choose separate bedrooms to reclaim rest and revive romance. Is this a sign of trouble, or a smart move toward healthier connection? Tune in for personal stories, expert insights…
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The Assisted Living Search
What do you do when you can't provide care to your parent anymore? This podcast is a powerful and candid account of my search for an assisted living facility for my dying father. We pull back the curtain on the difficult decisions surrounding elder care, from the financial strain of long-term…
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Grief Isn't Clean: Losing a Difficult Parent
This is a podcast about mourning what was — and what wasn’t. About grieving a parent whose love came with conditions, whose presence felt heavy, and whose absence doesn’t bring peace, only questions.When a parent dies and the relationship was painful, complicated, or incomplete, the grief that...
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Grief, Caregiving & The Silent Strain on Relationships
In this deeply intimate episode, Nathalie and Ian confront the raw aftermath of grief and the immense pressure of caregiving. Nathalie navigates mourning the death of her mother, while Ian battles a frustrating healthcare system to care for his dying father.As they speak, they uncover the painful...
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Change is Hard Part II
In Part II of Change is Hard series, the journey deepens. We catch up as she reclaims her strength—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally. From breakthrough moments in counseling to reshaping what “healthy” really means, this episode is about building a life rooted in clarity, courage,...
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Change is Hard Part 1
What happens when the reflection in the mirror feels like a stranger—and the silence in your mind grows louder than your motivation?In this episode of the Family Mess Podcast, we follow the deep personal story of a young woman, Arteshia, navigating one of life’s hardest pivots: choosing to fight...
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The Unconventional Path: Parenting, Education & What Success Truly Means
In this heartfelt episode on parenting a child with learning differences, Nathalie and Ian open up about the immense emotional and financial investment that shaped their son Noah's journey to high school graduation. From early behavioral challenges to finding specialized programs, they candidly...
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What A Life ADHD Part II
Raymond has traveled thousands of miles, carrying his thoughts as heavy as the cargo he hauls. But now, the journey isn’t about highways—it’s about healing. In this second episode, Raymond opens up even further about his struggles, reflecting on his past and questioning his future. Is he ready to...
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What A Life ADHD Part I
Raymond has seen it all—from the towering skylines of America’s biggest cities to the vast solitude of the open road. As a trucker, he’s traveled coast to coast, experiencing the beauty of National Parks, the buzz of urban life, and the quiet mystery of forgotten towns. But beneath the miles,...
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Finding Connection: A Podcast About Family and Communication
What started as a simple way to coordinate a family reunion has evolved into something far more meaningful. In this episode, Nathalie and Ian explore how their WhatsApp group became a digital gathering space for raw emotions, struggles, and frustrations.But it’s more than just venting. Over time,...
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The Midlife Shift: A Podcast on Meaning, Purpose, and Success
What does success truly mean? In this personal episode, Nathalie and Ian reflect on their younger years, when they equated success with material wealth and high-end living.Now, approaching midlife, they've realized the true importance of relationships, kindness, and treating everyone with…
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The Courageous Life: Overcoming Fear and Taking Action
What's the secret to breaking free from what holds you back? In this episode, Nathalie and Ian use the Gayle King and Blue Origin story as a launchpad to discuss the power of mindset. They explore the difference between letting your fears control you and choosing to act with courage. This is a...
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When Terminal Illness Changes Everything
Join Ian and Nathalie as they navigate the emotional, financial, and practical challenges of caregiving for their aging parents. With Ian candidly sharing his struggles with anxiety and mental health, this podcast pulls back the curtain on the harsh realities many families face—balancing work,...
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The Kindness Revival: Rediscovering Empathy and Generosity
In a divided and fast-paced world, is kindness becoming a lost art? Join Nathalie and Ian as they explore why compassion is fading and how we can still build a world rooted in empathy. Through heartfelt conversations, real-life stories, and expert insights, we uncover the power of small acts of...
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Marriage Is a Lie: Commitment & Its Challenges
Are you questioning marriage? Welcome to The Family Mess. We're the unconventional relationship podcast that explores the hard work, unwavering commitment, and sacrifices behind tying the knot. Join us for honest conversations about dating, divorce, and the complexities of modern relationships."
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The Fear of Failure: Raising Boys in a World of Uncertainty
As a parent, it’s impossible not to worry about the path your teenager is heading down—especially when you fear they might grow up to be a shadow of what you hope for them to become. In this episode of The Family Mess Podcast, we dive deep into the tough, raw feelings that come with raising…
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Sex with Robots
In this episode of The Family Mess, we dive into a futuristic yet highly relevant question: Is having sex with robots considered cheating? The line between human intimacy and technological companionship is becoming increasingly blurred. We explore the ethical, emotional, and psychological...
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Aging Parents
In this episode of The Family Mess Podast Nathalie and Ian discuss taking care of sick parents and what its like becoming full time caregivers.
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We Are Back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
After a year off, Ian and Nathalie return to explain what happened. There was some soul searching, vacations, caregiver moments and that just scratches the surface. Join Nathalie and Ian as they explain what really happened to them. Some of it serious but moments of laughter to keep you…
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Soul-Changing: The Final Chapter of My Sedona, Arizona Healing Journey
In this final episode of our four-part Sedona, Arizona series, I explain my soul-changing experience and the profound impact of my journey after Christmas 2023. I share the emotional and spiritual breakthrough of finding my purpose and the incredible feeling of finding myself again.My last…
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My Soul Journey to Sedona: Emotional Release Through Breathwork
In this episode of our Sedona, Arizona series, I continue my soul journey with an exploration of breathwork. As I begin this intense and life-changing experience, I share my raw and honest reactions to what I've heard is a powerful healing modality. I also receive a much-needed full-body massage…
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Sedona Series: A Nature Walk for Personal Growth and Healing
This is part two of our Sedona, Arizona series. Join me on my morning nature walk as I confront a significant trauma from my past and discover a path to healing and personal growth. I'm introduced to the incredible power of sound healing and frequency therapy, learning how these ancient practices...
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The Pursuit of Freedom: A Spiritual Awakening Journey to Sedona, Arizona
Do you remember the last time you felt free? What about the last time you began to question your life? Does it feel like you're repeating the same "dream life" pattern every day, but nothing new is happening? Are you an emotional wreck looking for answers that seem so far away? It sometimes feels...
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Vegas Baby!!!!!!! Part II
Check out our Vegas trip in the second part of this episode. We ventured outside the strip to see what else there was to do in this great city.You Tube Pagehttps://youtu.be/-bow4Qqh1To
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Vegas Baby!!!!!! Part I
Nathalie and I are in Vegas again but we didn't do the typical hang out on the strip thing. We ventured outside of the strip and decided to see what else Vegas had to offer.Join us on the youtube link belowhttps://youtu.be/-bow4Qqh1To
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Who Decides What Women Wear? A Conversation on Gender and Fashion
In this episode, Nathalie and Ian dive into the viral controversy surrounding actress Keke Palmer and the public commentary on her outfit while on stage with Usher. We explore the broader debate of what women should wear and whether there should be rules for public attire. The conversation gets...
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Beyond the Fear: The Benefits of Solo Adventures and Personal Growth
Have you ever thought about solo travel and what it truly means? Maybe you're too scared, or you don't know where to begin. Whatever the reason, traveling alone can be both daunting and incredibly fulfilling. In this episode, Nathalie and Ian discuss their personal reasons for embarking on solo...
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College Pressure: A Teen's Unfiltered Take
Did you feel parental pressure to go to college? Or maybe you're a parent trying to navigate your child's future. In this episode of The Family Mess, we get a teen's unfiltered perspective on college planning from Nathalie's nephew, Tristan. We're asking the tough questions: Is college worth it?…
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Where We've Been... and Why
The Family Mess is back! After a two-month hiatus, co-hosts Nathalie and Ian return with honest, candid conversations about their lives. Join us for personal life updates and our signature banter about all the crazy stories from the past two months. We're talking about everything from work and...
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The Family Mess: Unpacking Modern Marriage Roles
Welcome to The Family Mess, where we talk about the unequal workload in marriage. Are gender roles changing? We explore societal pressure on women, what happens when the woman makes more, and the modern marriage dynamics behind who's really doing everything. If you're looking for an honest,...
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Couples goals
Do you ever wonder how those powerful couples on TV, social media, even your next door neighbor hold it together? It just seems like they don't have any worries in the world. Every time you see them, it looks like they got their crap together while you and your partner are dying. Is this really...
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Communication in the Bedroom: Part 2 on Relationships and Sex
In part two of this two-part series, we continue our candid and entertaining discussion on sex, relationship taboos, and intimacy. Building on our last conversation about bedroom dynamics and expectations, we dive deeper into what couples "really like." This episode explores sexual communication,...
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Relationship Expectations: Taboos and Intimacy
In this episode, Ian invites Nathalie's cousins to the podcast, and things get a little crazy. Inspired by a post he saw on social media, Ian has some candid questions about adult positions, relationship expectations, and the taboos surrounding intimacy. This is part one of a two-part series on…
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Worst Relationship Mistake
Have you wondered if you made the worst decision of your life? You are years into your relationship and you're still having problems. Why does he never listen to me? Why does she think I don't care? If you're feeling like this or ever felt like this, take a listen to our podcast.
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Just Graduated Now what
Nathalie's niece, Elan joins the show to speak about her life experiences after graduation. Elan first joined the show as a sophomore in college. Her experience as a young college student sounds similar to young students across the country. Now she's graduated, has anything changed? Did she…
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The Messy Truth: A Podcast on Family Secrets
Welcome to The Family Mess, where we dive into the juicy family secrets you can't tell anyone else. This is the relatable podcast that explores the awkward and hilarious side of dysfunctional families. From odd family traditions to the mysterious stories of our past, we share unfiltered...
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Who Loves Finances
Who's in charge? Who makes the money decisions? If I make most of the money, I can spend what I want...... right???? I want my own bank account. These statements are important concerns in relationships. In this episode of The Family Mess Podcast, Nathalie and Ian discuss finances and it's impact…
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Will and Jada - Would you lay down a Pimp slap for your partner
The slap heard around the world.... Yup, it happened, Will Smith slapped Chris Rock during the Oscars. I can't believe this happened!!!!!!! No one really should care but we do. Nathalie and Ian discuss defending your spouse. Would you defend or stand up for your spouse like Will? Would you expect...
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Drugs or No Drugs
Do you find it hard to balance everything in your life? How overwhelmed do you feel right now? Sometimes when the world around us seems to be going in multiple directions, we want to run and hide. Our mind is attempting to balance everything and do everything but we don't seem to be any further...
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Family Discounts
Do you need help with repairs to your home, your air-conditioning, or your car. Maybe you need someone to give you a quote on some home improvement projects. It's hard to find good help these days and it turns out to be very expensive. It turns out many of our family members can help us in these...
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The Travel Life
In this episode of The Family Mess Podcast, Nathalie and Ian interview Pang Van. Pang is one of Nathalie's close friends from middle school. Pang was a first generation born-Hmong-American of Hmong refugee parents that came to the USA in 1976. She was born in Philadelphia, lived in Michigan until...
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Recap of 2021
How was your 2021? Did you begin a new career? Maybe you said it's time to get healthy. Did you go somewhere you've never been before? Whatever changes you made or didn't, 2021 was another crazy year for so many people across the world. There's so much to talk about but in this episode of The...
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The Christmas Show!!!!!!!!!!!
Join Nathalie and Ian on this special Christmas episode. This is our first Christmas spent in Florida in the past ten years. Why was this year so different? What happened to change this long-lasting tradition? Listen to how we celebrated this special day and will we begin a new tradition.
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Nathalie's Testimony
In this episode, Nathalie tells about her experience meeting God. This was a learning process and gave Nathalie a new perspective on life and her relationship with God. Are you searching for answers? Do you know something is missing from your life? Listen to this podcast and give us feedback on...
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WEIGHTLOSS & EXERCISE
Are you finally ready to lose weight? Maybe it's time to give the gym another try. What's stopping you from getting into shape? Is it the food, your job, business or other priorities? What is it that's really holding you back from getting the body you want? Join Ian and Nathalie as they both...
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What do you Regret
Do you wish you took that job 10 years ago? Maybe you were too scared to start a business. Or maybe you didn't ask that person out because you were too shy to ask them. Whatever excuse you have, we all have things we regret. If we had a chance to do something different, most of us would. Nathalie...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to The Family Mess! We're a family of 4 that get at each other all while loving each other, but that's how all families work. Follow us as we talk about our struggles, successes, and everything in between. Look out for new episodes every other Tuesday.
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Welcome to The Family Mess! We're a family of 4 that get at each other all while loving each other, but that's how all families work. Follow us as we talk about our struggles, successes, and everything in between. Look out for new episodes every other Tuesday.
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