The Family Oasis Podcast | Christian Parenting
by The Family Oasis
Not regretting something we can change today has been a daily reminder to prioritize our family life and put first things first in our own home.This has meant that for over 18+ years, we got to encourage, equip, and inspire multiple families with freedom tools.Our passion to see families thrive and attaching hope to their story have been a beautiful, life-giving mission.Official WEBSITE ➡︎ https://www.thefamilyoasis.comALL IN ONE ➡︎ https://app.tribuscard.com/company/FamilyOasis/668
Episodes
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How To Hear God’s Voice: Are You Too Busy To Listen?
Do you long to hear God’s voice, yet find silence uncomfortable? The problem may not be that God has stopped speaking, your life may simply be too loud to recognize His voice. In this personal teaching, Shamira asks whether worship music, sermons, podcasts, and even good Christian content can...
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Avoiding Conflict In The Family: Is It Really Peace?
Is your home truly peaceful or have you simply learned to avoid conflict? A quiet home can still hide fear, passivity, resentment, and children who never learn healthy boundaries. In this honest conversation, Hugues and Shamira explore the difference between keeping the peace and becoming…
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What Raising 3 Kids Taught Us About Marriage After 26 Years
Having children did not simply grow our family, it exposed our marriage. After 26 years of marriage and raising three children, we can see how parenting revealed selfishness, unresolved wounds, exhaustion, and very different ideas about family life. We learned that parenting is rarely 50–50....
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After Months Of Searching, God Gave Us A Home In Switzerland | Our Miracle Story
Five months. Thirty apartment viewings. Countless hours on the road and one closed door after another. Then God gave us a home in Switzerland in a way that left our family in awe. Returning as missionaries made finding an apartment especially difficult. Yet we knew God had called us back, and we...
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What Every Single Parent Needs To Hear When Parenting Feels Overwhelming
Being told, “You’re so strong,” can feel painfully empty when you are exhausted from carrying everything alone. This message is for every single parent who needs more than encouragement to simply keep pushing. First, please hear this clearly: you are a family. Your household may look different…
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7 Strange Things We Do In Our Marriage That Actually Work After 26 Years
Some marriage habits may look strange from the outside but after 26 years, a few of ours have quietly protected our connection, unity, and faith. From sharing one duvet to scheduling intimacy and making decisions that make no sense on paper, these seven practices have shaped our Christian…
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HOW WE MET: Fell In Love And Began Our Life Together
What if the person God has for you entered your life when you were not looking at all? Our story began with a mission trip, a church introduction, an unexpected move and two people who had no idea they were beginning a lifelong journey together. In this personal conversation, we share how we met…
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26 Years Of Marriage: Honest Wedding Anniversary Q&A About Love, Parenting, Conflict
What does it really take to remain married for 26 years? Not perfection, effortless compatibility, or a life without conflict but grace, growth, honest communication, and a commitment to keep choosing unity. For our 26th wedding anniversary, we sat down for an intimate Christian marriage Q&A…
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This Kind Of Punishment Is Hurting Your Child More Than You Think
Not every punishment produces wisdom. Some methods may secure obedience for a moment while quietly producing fear, shame, and emotional distance in your child. Could one of these harmful discipline patterns be present in your home? In this honest conversation, we examine five approaches that can...
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BIG FAMILY UPDATE: Did We Finally Find Our Apartment In Switzerland?
Twenty-eight apartment visits. Closed doors, unanswered applications, rising hopes, and painful disappointments. Did we finally find our family’s new home in Switzerland? In this vulnerable family update, we take you behind the scenes of our apartment search—and share what God is teaching us…
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We Made Celebration Part Of Our Family Culture, And It Changed Our Home
What if celebration was not reserved for birthdays, achievements, and answered prayers? What if it also became your family’s response during waiting, transition, and hardship? In this honest conversation, we share why we intentionally made celebration part of our family culture—and how this…
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Your “Good” Child May Be Becoming A People Pleaser - The Hidden Signs Most Parents Miss
Is your child truly learning kindness or quietly learning to fear rejection? Sometimes what looks like good behavior is actually people-pleasing, driven by the pressure to keep parents and everyone else happy. In this honest conversation, we explore how Christian parents can unintentionally teach...
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What Summer Exposed In Your Family The Questions Every Parent And Single Parent Must Ask To Change U
Summer can be beautiful, but it can also expose what school schedules and busy routines were quietly holding together. More sibling conflict. Screen time drifting out of control. Disrespect. Exhausted parents. Unrealistic expectations. A lack of structure, prayer, and healthy family rhythms.…
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Summer Parenting Q&A: Screen Time, Boredom, Routines & Family Peace
Do you feel responsible for keeping your children happy, busy, and entertained throughout the entire summer? When the whining begins, screens become the easiest solution, or your children seem to be doing “nothing,” parental guilt can quickly whisper: “Maybe I’m a bad parent.” In this honest and...
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WILL THEY FORGET EVERYTHING? How To Prevent Summer Learning Loss Without More Schoolwork
Are you worried your child will forget everything they learned before school begins again? Summer learning loss can feel frightening, but preventing the summer slide does not mean turning your home into a classroom or filling the holidays with worksheets. In this podcast, we share how Christian...
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STOP SUMMER SCREEN MELTDOWNS How to Beat Summer Screen Battles Without Constant Arguments
Summer screen battles can turn a peaceful home into a war zone fast. One minute your child is watching “just one more video,” and the next minute there are tears, arguments, disrespect, and exhausted parents wondering what went wrong. In this podcast, we talk about how Christian parents can stop...
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You Only Get So Many Summers With Your Children | A Wake-Up Call For Parents
You do not have an unlimited number of summers with your children. And sometimes, parents need to hear this clearly: summer can become a precious season of connection… or a lost season filled with screens, exhaustion, arguments, and autopilot. In this podcast, we talk about an important reminder...
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Are You Helping Your Child Or Accidentally Holding Them Back?
Are you truly helping your child, or could you be accidentally holding them back? As Christian parents, we want to protect our children, guide them, and make life easier for them. But sometimes, without realizing it, our love can turn into over helping, rescuing, controlling, or stepping in too...
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How To Raise Strong Children, Advice From An Experienced Dad
Being a Christian dad is not about being perfect. It is about being present, growing with God, and learning to lead your family from the overflow of His presence. In this Father’s Day episode, we sit down for 20 spontaneous questions about fatherhood, faith, family, and legacy. From the joy of...
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Ten Parenting Lies That Are Stealing Your Joy
Are you carrying parenting expectations that God never asked you to carry? Many Christian parents live under the pressure of believing myths that sound true but quietly steal their joy, confidence, and connection with their children. Maybe you've wondered if you're failing because you lose...
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Is AI Quietly Changing the Way We Parent? What Every Parent Needs To Know
Are Christian parents slowly outsourcing their parenting wisdom to AI without even realizing it? What starts as a quick question at midnight can quietly become the main voice shaping how we respond to our children. In this podcast, we talk honestly about AI, parenting, and the subtle danger of...
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Ten Questions Every Parent Secretly Wants to Ask An Experienced Mom
What if motherhood is not something that slows down your calling, but one of the most powerful ministries God has placed in your hands? In this heartfelt Mother’s Day conversation, Shamira answers 10 spontaneous questions about her mother, motherhood, legacy, prayer, joy, and what it means to…
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The “Naked Mom” Trend: What Christian Parents Need To Know
Are Christian parents unknowingly opening doors in their homes that affect their children for years to come? In a culture that constantly pushes new parenting trends, it can be difficult to know what is truly healthy, biblical, and life-giving for our families. In this podcast, we talk honestly...
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NO PHONE. NO PROBLEM. How I Survive In A Phone-Addicted World
Have you ever wondered if your phone is quietly stealing your peace, your presence, and even your family moments? In a world where parents are constantly distracted, overwhelmed, and pulled in every direction, this podcast is a gentle but honest wake-up call. In this podcast, I share why I have...
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When Family Life Changes - How To Navigate Transitions Without Losing Peace
Transitions can test a marriage more than we expect. Moving, changing seasons, financial pressure, saying goodbye, starting again — all of it can reveal where we are trusting God and where we are trying to stay in control. In this podcast, we share honestly about moving five times in seven years,...
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Parenting Mistakes We Regret… And What We’d Change
What would we do differently if we could start parenting all over again? After more than 20 years of raising children, supporting families, and walking with God through the messy, beautiful reality of family life, we can honestly say this: some lessons came later than we wish. In this podcast, we...
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Toddler Prefers One Parent? What To Do About Favoritism, Attachment & Building A Stronger Bond
If your toddler only wants Mommy or Daddy—and everything turns into a meltdown when the other parent steps in—this is more than just a phase… it can quietly create distance in your family. In this podcast, we unpack why this happens and how to respond in a way that strengthens—not divides—your...
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God Will Provide — Even When It Seems Impossible (Part 2)
We didn’t expect this… (Part 2) A simple family trip, and suddenly everything shifts. Delays, uncertainty, tension… and that feeling that the situation is completely slipping out of our control. To better understand… When War Interrupted Our Vacation… Trusting God In Uncertainty (Part 1)...
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When War Interrupted Our Vacation… Trusting God In Uncertainty (Part 1)
We didn’t expect this… (Part 1) What started as a simple family trip suddenly took a turn. Delays, uncertainty, tension… and that unsettling feeling of losing control. In this podcast, we share what really happened during our stop in Abu Dhabi, when war unexpectedly became part of our journey.…
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How To Handle Toddler Jealousy After A New Baby
Bringing a new baby home… and suddenly your sweet toddler is melting down, clingy, or acting out? You’re not failing—this is a real transition. And what looks like jealousy is often a deeper question: “Do I still belong?” In this podcast, we show you how to handle toddler jealousy after a new…
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My Baby Keeps Hitting Their Head—Here’s What It Means
Does it scare you when your baby hits their head on purpose?Your heart drops, your mind races… “Is something wrong with my child?” Let’s bring truth, peace, and clarity into that moment. In this podcast, we’re unpacking why babies and toddlers hit their head, what’s actually going on in their...
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Teen Vaping Talk: What Every Parent Needs To Say
Is your teen vaping… or just surrounded by it? Before fear takes over and conversations turn into conflict, there’s a better way to lead your child with truth, wisdom, and relationship. In this podcast, we’re talking about a growing reality many Christian parents are facing today: vaping among...
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How to Stop Toddler Power Struggles (Without Yelling or Giving In)
Ever feel like every “no” turns into a battle with your toddler? You stay calm… they push harder… and suddenly it’s no longer about the remote, the dog bowl, or bedtime — it’s a full power struggle. If you’re tired of yelling, repeating yourself, or giving in just to keep the peace, this podcast…
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So, We’re Playing “Who’s Most Likely To…”
Feeling busy, stretched, and a little disconnected as parents?Sometimes the best way to reconnect isn’t another serious conversation — it’s simply laughing together. In this podcast, we’re playing a simple and fun game for parents: “Who is more likely to…? ”We read each question and point to the...
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Correct Without Crushing: A Guide to Child Discipline
You want to correct your child… but you don’t want to crush their spirit. You don’t want fearful children. You don’t want entitled ones either. So how do you discipline in a way that builds their heart instead of breaking it? In this podcast, we talk about how to correct without crushing — a...
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Why We Started The Family Oasis (A Message Every Christian Parent Needs)
What if the greatest mission field God has entrusted to you… isn’t your job, your church, or your calling out there—but your home? What if the most powerful revival starts around your kitchen table? In this podcast, we share the story behind The Family Oasis—why we started, the unexpected road…
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Love, Loneliness, And Real Life: Valentine’s Day For Couples & Single Parents
Valentine’s Day hits differently when real life is involved. For some, it’s flowers and romance. For others, it’s quiet… heavy… and lonely. And the truth is, February 14th doesn’t feel the same for every Christian family. In this podcast, we talk honestly about love, loneliness, marriage…
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My Biggest Challenge as a Dad (And What It Taught Me)
Are you a dad who loves his family—but feels stuck, hesitant, or unsure how to truly lead at home? In this podcast, I share my biggest challenge as a father—and how God used it to expose fear, heal old wounds. We talk honestly about what many Christian dads struggle with but rarely say out loud:...
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New Mom Identity Crisis: Finding Myself in Christ
If motherhood has made you feel like you disappeared, this podcast is for you. If you’ve ever thought, “Who am I now?”—you’re not crazy, and you’re not alone. In this episode, we talk about one of the biggest struggles many Christian moms quietly carry: an identity crisis after becoming a mom.…
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Your Grandparent Role Matters: Pass On the Faith Without Overstepping
Feeling unsure about your place as a grandparent? Wondering if your prayers still matter—or how to pass on faith without crossing lines? This podcast is for you, and it could strengthen your whole family. Today on The Family Oasis, we’re talking about the grandparent role God designed: how to…
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Why Your Home Feels Like a Battlefield - and How to Change It
If your kids keep fighting, you’re not failing—you’re worn out. The yelling, the arguing, the constant “Moooom!” can make your home feel like a battleground instead of a place of peace. In this podcast (Part 2), we’ll show you practical, Christ-centered ways to reduce sibling conflict without...
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Who Are We? 10+1 Things You Didn’t Know About Our Family (Faith, Calling & Mission)
You don’t need another perfect parenting formula. You need real people, real faith, and a reminder that God works through ordinary families. That’s exactly what this podcast is about. Today on The Family Oasis, we’re doing something a little different: 10 fun, honest, and unexpected facts about...
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Kids Always Fighting? Christian Parenting Tips to Calm Conflict and Bring Peace Back Home
When your kids won’t stop fighting, it can feel like your whole home is at war. You’re walking on eggshells, breaking up arguments, and wondering, “Is this ever going to get better?” If you’re a Christian parent longing for peace but stuck in constant sibling conflict, this podcast is for you. In...
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The One Resolution That Matters… For Christian Parents Who Want A Christ-Centered Home
What if the only resolution that could truly transform your family… wasn’t on your to-do list, but in the presence of Jesus? If you’re tired of New Year’s resolutions that collapse by February and leave you feeling like you’ve failed again, this podcast is for you. In this podcast, we talk about...
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When Christmas Isn’t Perfect | How to Restore Peace, Joy, and Jesus at the Heart of Family Christmas
Christmas doesn’t always feel “wonderful” when you’re exhausted, the kids are arguing, and your home looks nothing like the perfect ads. In this The Family Oasis podcast, we talk honestly about when Christmas isn’t perfect—and how to restore peace, joy, and Jesus at the heart of your family...
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Christmas Traditions For Families: What Your Children Will Remember (And Talk About) As Adults
What are your Christmas traditions?Have you actually chosen any… or are you just surviving December on autopilot? In this podcast, we talk about why kids don’t remember the gifts — they remember the rhythms. The smells, the songs, the silly moments, the things “we always do as a family.” And if…
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Christian Marriage Reboot Part 2 - Powerful Points You Can’t Miss (But We Almost Did!)
Hey guys, we missed those two points last week. We can’t keep the fun to ourselves! First, start with last week’s video: https://youtu.be/gBxehIO_FO0 Be honest… when was the last time you really laughed together? Not a polite smile — real joy, tears-in-your-eyes laughter. After 25 years of...
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Christian Marriage Reboot - Faith Filled Ideas To Reconnect With Your Spouse And Revive Your Love
Be honest… when was the last time you really laughed together? Not a polite smile — real joy, tears-in-your-eyes laughter. After 25 years of marriage, we’ve seen too many couples drift from lovers to strangers. The enemy fights the home because he knows a strong marriage shapes disciples, legacy,...
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Reconnect With Your Spouse in Busy Parenting Seasons
How do you stay close as a couple when parenting feels like constant survival mode? If you feel like you’re living as “teammates running a household” instead of husband and wife building a life, this video is for you. In busy parenting seasons, it’s easy for your marriage to slip into the...
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Gratitude Changes Home – The Simple Daily Practices That Calm Your Family
What if gratitude could actually change the atmosphere of your home? In this podcast, we talk honestly about how thankfulness is more than “being positive” — it’s a Kingdom posture that can shift your family from tension and complaining toward peace and connection. We’ll look at what the Bible…
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About this show
Not regretting something we can change today has been a daily reminder to prioritize our family life and put first things first in our own home.This has meant that for over 18+ years, we got to encourage, equip, and inspire multiple families with freedom tools.Our passion to see families thrive and attaching hope to their story have been a beautiful, life-giving mission.Official WEBSITE ➡︎ https://www.thefamilyoasis.comALL IN ONE ➡︎ https://app.tribuscard.com/company/FamilyOasis/668
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