The Get Transformed: Navigating Jewish Divorce

A mashup is when two songs come together to make something cool and new. What does this teach us about how people can blend and separate? Here is the song that inspired the episode: https://youtu.be/ooZR4LSuppk?si=FEhUJOE3QUdKbEX_ Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.thegettransformed.com/⁠⁠⁠  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal ⁠⁠⁠https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/⁠⁠⁠  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  ⁠⁠⁠www.elliebass.com⁠⁠⁠  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.  Join Da-vid Rosenthal and Ellie Bass for a weekly conversation around the journey and experience of Jewish Divorce with a focus on internal transformation, self development and shifting our understanding of what it means to move forward. Find out more at ⁠⁠⁠www.thegettransformed.com/⁠⁠⁠ Please share, rate and review our show so that those who might need this type of a resource can more easily find it!

Moving out and moving days are some of the culminating milestones of the divorce process. Finding a place, dividing up stuff, figuring out logistics and also navigating the emotional turmoil of transition and change. Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: ⁠⁠https://www.thegettransformed.com/⁠⁠  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal ⁠⁠https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/⁠⁠  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  ⁠⁠www.elliebass.com⁠⁠  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.  Join Da-vid Rosenthal and Ellie Bass for a weekly conversation around the journey and experience of Jewish Divorce with a focus on internal transformation, self development and shifting our understanding of what it means to move forward. Find out more at ⁠⁠www.thegettransformed.com/⁠⁠ Please share, rate and review our show so that those who might need this type of a resource can more easily find it!

This is a short episode on the process of getting a Jewish divorce called a Get. What do you need to know, why is it important, what will the process be like and how to prepare yourself emotionally and more. Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: ⁠https://www.thegettransformed.com/⁠  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal ⁠https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/⁠  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  ⁠www.elliebass.com⁠  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.  Join Da-vid Rosenthal and Ellie Bass for a weekly conversation around the journey and experience of Jewish Divorce with a focus on internal transformation, self development and shifting our understanding of what it means to move forward. Find out more at ⁠www.thegettransformed.com/⁠ Please share, rate and review our show so that those who might need this type of a resource can more easily find it!

Navigating the divorce process and being divorced is hard in normal times, but how do we deal with the lonliness, fear and emotional and physical challenges during this intenst time of war and uncertainty for the Jewish world? Da-vid and Ellie discuss some of the issues and challenges particular to being in the midst of a divorce or being alone and parenting during this time. Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.  Join Da-vid Rosenthal and Ellie Bass for a weekly conversation around the journey and experience of Jewish Divorce with a focus on internal transformation, self development and shifting our understanding of what it means to move forward. Find out more at www.thegettransformed.com/ Please share, rate and review our show so that those who might need this type of a resource can more easily find it!

Who wants to forgive their ex?? Especially if they haven't said sorry or even acknowledged they've done anything wrong? As a special Yom Kippur episode Da-vid and Ellie discuss forgiveness, why it's hard, why it's necessary and what that looks like in a healthy way that doesn't betray our own needs. Find more information, blog posts and more resources at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.  Join Da-vid Rosenthal and Ellie Bass for a weekly conversation around the journey and experience of Jewish Divorce with a focus on internal transformation, self development and shifting our understanding of what it means to move forward. Find out more at www.thegettransformed.com/ Please share, rate and review our show so that those who might need this type of a resource can more easily find it!

There is so much rhetoric and conversations about divorce that center around a feeling that when you get divorced you failed at marriage, or relationships, or sticking it out. But is staying in an unhealthy marriage also a failure? How do we view failure in a Jewish sense and how can we notice our need for perfection in what is not a perfect situation? Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.  Join Da-vid Rosenthal and Ellie Bass for a weekly conversation around the journey and experience of Jewish Divorce with a focus on internal transformation, self development and shifting our understanding of what it means to move forward. Find out more at www.thegettransformed.com/ Please share, rate and review our show so that those who might need this type of a resource can more easily find it!

This week Da-vid and Ellie dive into the winning and losing paradigm of competing with our ex during a divorce process. Who is the better parent? Who gets the house? Who is the worst? Why do we do this and can we ever really win this way? Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below. 

How do you begin to move on after divorce? What is part of the natural grieving process of a break up and what isn't? Da-vid and Ellie discuss the ins and outs of letting go, moving on, getting over and beginning again. Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below. 

This week Da-vd and Ellie are expanding on how to know if you should get divorced or start dating again after divorce by exploring how we understand our own roles in the breakdown of a relationship. We are also starting a new segment of the show called Tachlis 10 where we outline some very practical ideas for when your are going through a divorce. This week we are going through 10 Things To Know When Moving Out is Happening. Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below. 

Are you thinking of going on a date now that you're divorced? This can be the first time in a long time many of us have put ourselves out there or started getting to know ourselves and other people in this way and it can come with a LOT of questions and concerns. Are you ready? Let's dig in and see how you can discover some of your answers and ask some deeper questions. Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below. 

In this episode we are opening up how to navigate wondering whether divorce is the path for you at this time? What are the questions to ask and under which conditions is it best to begin to seriously consider this? Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below. 

In this episode Da-vid and Ellie explore the grief of divorce, what it means and how to navigate it effectively. Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below. 

In this episode we are giving an overview of who you will need on your team as you navigate a divorce experience and what you need to know in order to use that team to it's fullest potential. Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below. 

In this episode we are exploring the challenges, changes and new aspects of a relationship with God as we go through the divorce experience. Find more information, blog posts and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below. 

In this episode: Da-vid and Ellie are investigating and discussing navigating the Jewish holidays as a divorced parent or newly single person, addressing different religious levels, meals, kids moving back and forth and how to use a clear schedule and healthy boundaries to really make what is often very stressful more meaningful and kind. Check out more blogs, information and more at our website: https://www.thegettransformed.com/ Find Da-vid: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below. 

In this episode: Da-vid and Ellie discuss the importance of support and support networks, how to find them, what do we really need in terms of support and how to find friends as an adult. Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/  Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com  Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below. 

In this episode: Da-vid and Ellie are helping our family, friends and communities know how to really support someone going through a divorce (hint, it's not asking for all the tea or being more upset than the person getting the divorce) and helping people who haven't had this experience understand the upheaval and intensity of change that is going on. This is a great one to send to family, friends and Rabbi's so they can be a part of your team.  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/ Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.

S1 Ep5: In this session Da-vid and Ellie are responding to a client question about what to do when their ex is in crisis? How much do we help and how much of that is no longer our job or responsibility? What is the right way to support them or not support them? Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/ Find Ellie here:@elliemichalbass  www.elliebass.com Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.

In this episode: Answering a client question about why they get upset during small seemingly easy interactions with their ex leads us down a path exploring how self trust allows us to understand what's happening in relationships, we also digress on what it means to be in our bodies and what IFS and parts work is.  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal and https://www.davidrosenthalcoaching.com/ Find Ellie here: www.elliebass.com Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.

In this episode: Our clients have been asking us is divorce the end of the road? Why is it so hard and what is our life about now if not building our relationship? We are exploring different types of growth, getting to know ourselves and the curses and blessings of divorce.  Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal Find Ellie here: www.elliebass.com Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.

In this episode: Da-vid and Ellie dive into a client question around what to do when you are in the thick of a really difficult discussion with your ex and how to make it work for ourselves in each situation. Find Da-vid here: @coach_rosenthal Find Ellie here: www.elliebass.com Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.

S1 Ep1: What are the three things we wish we knew when we entered into our divorce process? Using examples from our own lives and our clients struggles we are sharing with you some of the fundamentals that will transform your divorce experience.   Find Da-vid here: On Instagram @coach_rosenthal Find Ellie here: www.elliebass.com On Instagram @elliemichalbass Send us questions and comments at [email protected] or leave us a voice message through the link below.