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The Gist With Tobi

by Adekunle Mercy Oluwatobi

A place where you get interesting gists about relationships and general life happenings.

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Episodes

  1. The Importance of Compatibility in Relationships.

    On this episode, we talked about the need to have a compatible partner and we also highlighted the compatible angles to look out for.

  2. How to identify a guy that wants commitment.

    Being committed in a relationship is a big deal, this episode gives you signs to watch out for in order to avoid a terrible heartbreak.

  3. 5 Reasons Why People Don't Like you.

    This episode describes possible reasons why people are trying to avoid you and stay away from you.

  4. Random Gist With Tobi (Season Two)

    Things are happening oooo my people What do we say about human and dog having intimate relationships? This is a packed full episode on personal experiences and happening's around the world.

  5. Healthy ways to become less of a manipulator.

    A manipulative being is a control freak, there are people who are not aware of their manipulative state and they need to be awakened to this fact, these set of people need help to become a better version of themselves and that is what today's episode hopes to do.

  6. Staying with a manipulative person could affect your self-esteem, recognize the signs now.

    There are traits to watch out for in people you consider friends, lovers and close associate's. This episode unveils the mask and exposes true friendship and manipulative individuals.

  7. Sharing funny random life happenings

    From my house hunting experience, to my waist bead experience..... Join me on today's podcast as I bring smiles to your beautiful faces.

  8. Is social media display a yardstick to measure a perfect relationship?

    Find out what my guest and I have to say about this interesting and engaging topic. Instagram handle: gistwithtobi Mail: [email protected]

  9. On this episode we are answering questions related to social media display in a relationship.

    There is so much conflict in various relationships because one partner wants to be shown off to the world while the other feels there is no need for it..... Listen to my opinion as well as that of Okikiola and Mirabel on today's epsiode..... Grab your popcorn and have fun guys.

  10. What to expect when meeting your Nigerian Inlaws.

    In today's epsiode, we had a lengthy discussion on meeting Nigerian Inlaws based on personal experiences..... Instagram: gistwithtobi Mail: [email protected]

  11. Hey friends, before you get carried away with the high class romance, have you checked out these....

    While love is beautiful, it remains very important for us to look out for how the future would look like for the person we are involved with, check out these red flags and feel very free to seek help where neccessary. Find me on instagram @gistwithtobi. Mail: [email protected]

  12. Do you think you are compatible with your partner?

    There are moments when you need to let go of someone you love in order to have a future of bliss. Before you agree to a lifetime of commitment, ensure that you are compatible with your partner. Communication is extremely important.

  13. Should we blame anyone when a married man cheats?

    Some people feel that the wife of the married man should be blamed for the act, some feel that the side chicks are extremely tempting and cannot be overlooked. On this episode, Mirabel and I did justice to the topic, share your opinion with us also.

  14. Keeping financial records is extremely important.

    When we understand the way money is coming in and going out, we become highly responsible for every financial plan we make.

  15. Loving yourself is a great deal... Don't joke with it.

    Loving yourself is a serious life issue, you need to love yourself in order to survive and grow.

  16. Some Ladies have extremely questionable characters and you have to be careful about whom you date.

    Relationship should be beautiful and it should bring out the best in you, if your relationship isn't doing that, then you should have a rethink about the relationship.

  17. Spreading love in a wicked generation makes life worth living.

    Doing good is a very great necessity, spreading love makes life worth living for everyone.

  18. You can be calm and smart.

    Those who have a calm personality are often regarded as being dumb and silly and that is a wrong perspective. If you are calm, I want you to understand that you are amazing just the way you are and you do not want to be someone else as a result of societal standards.

  19. How will you handle a rude bank official?

    The reason why Nigeria bank officials are usually rude and disrespectful is one thing I don't understand? I think some of these bank officials should be called out and dealt with.

  20. The worth of men is often attached to the things they are able to offer and men deserve more love.

    Welcome to the gist with Tobi, let me begin the podcast this morning by sincerely appreciating you my lovely listeners for the support and sweet words of encouragement, you guys are amazing. The world we live in today has made it look like men are not supposed to ever show their weak and…

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  21. Supporting your partner is extremely important (Let's talk about Simi and Adekunle Gold)

    Hi guys, welcome to another amazing episode of the gist with Tobi, it feels so good to have you around. If today is your first time, thank you for coming and welcome to the family. To my ever supporting listeners, thank you so much for always listening and sharing this podcast. I love you so…

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  22. Depression slides in slowly, you need to watch out for the signs in your life and your loved ones...

    Let’s talk about depression. We actually live in a world of complete uncertainty, we practically have no idea about what could happen the next minute and the way things changes within the shortest time possible is actually way out of this world. I believe depression is really important and it is…

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  23. Would you stay in a relationship where you are feed with soothing lies or one with blunt truths?

    Hello hello my people… How are you all doing? Like play like play we have approached another weekend oooo, d way time is running fast ehn, it just keeps reminding me that we really need to put significant effort into everything we do. So, today we will be talking about sincerity in a…

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  24. Love is beautiful but sometimes there comes a twist.... Listen to this heartbreaking Love story 💔💔

    Hey guys, welcome to today’s episode of the gist with Tobi, I am extremely excited to have you on the show today. Today’s topic needs total interaction, so I will be expecting you my intelligent audience to make use of the comment section to drop your feed backs. I am sure that by now, you guys...

  25. It is very important to always look beyond your flaws and focus that energy towards the areas of str

    Hey guys, how are you doing? It is another beautiful week. I am grateful for the opportunity to speak to you and I am even more grateful to have a beautiful soul like you who listens to me. You are beautiful and special, thanks for trusting me enough to listen to this programme. We live in a…

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  26. The level of pressure received from Nigeria parents concerning marital issues is very alarming.

    Let me begin today's podcast by sincerely apologising to you my lovely listeners for the long silence, I apologize from d depth of my heart. The messages I received from you guys asking about my well-being made me feel loved and I want u to know that I do not take your act of kindness for…

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  27. I am spreading hope on this episode, I want to remind you that things will get better.

    People are very quick to make judgmental statements whenever there is a little downtime in other people’s lives. Social media is even making things amplified, just a little down time in business or life in general and almost every blog is talking about it which makes me wonder how these popular...

  28. You are at peace when you know that no one owes you anything.

    The crazy feeling of entitlement that people have towards other people's wealth and fortune is increasing on a daily basis and I feel that is a very terrible idea. It is wrong for you to think that other people should give you what they have worked for.

  29. Getting engaged in relationships these days can be really tricky and there is a need for questions.

    There are several misconceptions that happens to one in life but matters of the heart needs to be genuinely clarified, you need to be sure that you are in a relationship with a partner who feels the same about you and not just deceive yourself in the process.

  30. Do you know stories of good people who just fall for the bad ones? Then here is another one.

    Life isn't really fair especially when it comes to matters of the heart. I believe that real love still exists but I feel it is just very scarce. People really just want to eat their cake and have it all the time.

  31. This is a great guide to lead you through what you need to do when things are not working as planned

    Life isn't all smooth and rosy and our reaction to the periods of storm will determine our outcome. Keep the faith and continue to improve all the time.

  32. Are you getting comfortable with your current position, then you need to listen to this podcast now.

    With the urge to earn more financially, it is easy for us to neglect the place of growth and up skill, but growing and setting better standards has never been old. It is necessary for us to constantly develop ourselves and become better all the time.

  33. Act nice even to those with low financial capacity.

    We live in a society where people think it cool only to act to the wealthy ones and that is one reason why people are pushed to engage in criminal activities. It is great to act cool and respectful to people irrespective of their social stand and financial status.

  34. Self love can never be over mentioned, loving yourself is a great neccessity.

    Self love provides us with the strength to move on with life, self love provides us with the courage to fight battles and win on all grounds.

  35. Do you love yourself enough?

    The value that you give to yourself is the way other people will value you. Love yourself enough to believe in yourself, get the courage to correct past mistakes and jump to making things better.

  36. Learn how to add value to the lives of those you call friends.

    It is very easy to slide into the category of someone who just loves to collect from friends and then add nothing back to them. Life should be a circle of give and take, learn how to make contributions to other people's lives no matter how little it is.

  37. In life irrespective of who you choose to listen to, you are still to be blamed for the end result.

    People always provides you with several suggestions but you are the one who gets the blame for the end product, you need to be extremely careful about whom you choose to listen to and whom you authorize with the power to direct your life.

  38. How much detail do you think you need to spill as a guy in order to allow a lady fall for you?

    Trying to boast about your financial achievement is not a yardstick for you to find love at all so if you are still doing that I feel it is completely unnecessary.....

  39. Be positive and intentional about the things that you say.

    Every word that proceeds out of our mouth carries serious power and we must be very careful about the things we say to ourselves and to the people around us.

  40. Nigeria parents usually feel they have to scream at a child in order to correct him.

    Growing up in Nigeria is a completely different ball game and screaming seem to be a part of this training process, although not all Nigerian parents are the same but for most of them, it's the same old story.

  41. You really need to learn how to maintain a cool and calm spirit for the sake of your sanity.

    The world that we live in is filled with extremely crazy people and of course some of us do not have the energy to fight back or act crazy like them, this episode will guide you on how to keep calm even if everything around you seems crazy.

About this show

A place where you get interesting gists about relationships and general life happenings.

Hosted by

Adekunle Mercy Oluwatobi

Frequently asked questions

How many episodes does The Gist With Tobi have?

The Gist With Tobi has 42 episodes on PodParley. The most recent episode was published on May 23, 2022.

What is The Gist With Tobi about?

A place where you get interesting gists about relationships and general life happenings.

How often does The Gist With Tobi release new episodes?

The Gist With Tobi publishes weekly, based on its 42 episodes since May 2021.

Who hosts The Gist With Tobi?

The Gist With Tobi is created and hosted by Adekunle Mercy Oluwatobi.
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