The Good Love Podcast
by Katrina "Boots" Rainsong
Welcome to The Good Love Podcast, an audio resource presented by The Good Love Project. We believe everyone deserves good loving and anyone can be a good lover. We offer Playful, Powerful and Positive Sex and Relationship Education. So kick back, relax and soak up the Good Lovin'!
Episodes
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Ep 33 Kink Journeys in the LS Playground with Josh Fink
In this episode of Kink Journeys, I sit down with community builder and LSPlayground founder, Josh Fink. We dive deep into how a backyard BBQ during lockdown sparked one of Colorado’s most inclusive and thriving lifestyle communities. Josh Fink shares their path from early explorations in kink…
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Episode 32 - Testing Kinky Tests with Surprise Guest Sir Aiden Charming
Can an online quiz really tell you who you are in BDSM? How long does it take three neurodivergent kinksters to take a test together (and just how many Barbarella references can we fit into our commentary)? Charlie and I decide to take the (in?)famous BDSM Test and compare it with another…
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Episode 31 Boudoir Breakthroughs in Self Love with Nicole Nichols
We're back with a new interview episode! I invited my dear friend and metamour, Nicole Nichols, to talk about her amazing work as boudoir photographer. From creating safe spaces for women (and men!) to rediscover and celebrate their bodies to building community traditions in self love, Nicole has...
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Episode 30: Kink Journeys - Sadism, Community, and Self-Discovery with Jonnyace
In this installment of of Kink Journeys, I sit down with BDSM educator and certified life coach, Jonnyace. Together, we explore the power of consent, the importance of community, and why representation for sadists matters. Jonnyace shares their path from martial arts and polyamory to kink…
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Episode 29: A Ministry of Freedom through Pleasure with Mistress Pain
In this episode of The Good Love Podcast, I interview the founder of Denver's House of Pleasure, Mistress Pain. Mistress Pain shares her Kink Journey from trying to 'pray the gay way' to creating spaces of erotic exploration and self expression. We also discuss her community vision focused on...
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Episode 28: Hard (or not-so-hard) truths about male sexuality with SexCoachSam
In my last episode we did a deep-dive for International Female Orgasm Day, including busting through some of the many misconceptions around female sexuality. So this week, I'm bringing on my friend and colleague, Sex Coach Same, to unpack some of the inaccurate and harmful messaging around male...
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Episode 27: International Female Orgasm Day!
August 8th is International Female Orgasm Day! So I’m diving into history, bad science, and reclaimed pleasure. Where did this holiday came from? What is the orgasm gap (and why does it still exist)? How can we push back against a society that tries to control our sexuality? I'm unpacking all…
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Episode 26: Kink Journeys at DomConLA with Lady Sheba
In this episode (recorded live at DomCon LA) I interview Lady Sheba, a powerful Black kink educator and leather community photographer. Sheba shares her journey from curious submissive to confidence-wielding Dominant, exploring how kink helped her reclaim her femininity after trauma. Together we...
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Episode 25: Edgeplay Discovery with Carnivore
In this powerful episode, I talk with Berlin-based kink artist and educator, Sven Brandy aka "Carnivore". Sven shares his journey from nude photography to immersive kink art, emphasizing consent, authenticity, and cultural differences in kink between Europe and the US. They discuss "play…
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Episode 24 - Kink Journeys with Smokey the Babe and Vana X
Kat is joined by two guests, Smokey the Babe and Vana X . They dive deep into the evolution of embracing one’s true self within the kink community, share their personal journeys, and discuss the importance of informed and enthusiastic consent. From nostalgic stories of discovering kink to...
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Episode 23 - Solo Exploration: Discovering Your Own Pleasure
In this episode of the Good Love Project Podcast, Katrina and Charlie dive into the importance of solo exploration and how it can deepen self-awareness, boost confidence, and enhance both personal and partnered pleasure. They debunk common myths—like the idea that solo pleasure is just a...
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Ep 22 Navigating Personal Boundaries and Desires with Pleasure Mapping
Welcome to another insightful episode of The Good Love Podcast, where we delve into the realms of personal growth, relationships, and confidence. In today's episode, "Pleasure Mapping," your hosts, Katrina Boots Rainsong and the ever-insightful Charlie Sharp, explore the concept of understanding...
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GLPod Ep 21 Unlearning Shame - Busting Myths & Embracing Authenticity
In this episode, Kat and Charlie tackle the complex and often silenced topic of sexual shame. Listen in as they deconstruct societal myths around non-normative sexual preferences, explore the damaging impact of cultural and religious expectations, and emphasize the importance of embracing your...
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GLPod Ep 20 Bonus Episode: Intro to Kink class Teaser
Curious about kink? This bonus episode offers an exclusive excerpt from Katrina's popular "Intro to Kink" class, where you'll get a glimpse into the essentials of consent, communication, and creativity in BDSM. It’s a tantalizing taste of the full recorded class, available to Patreon subscribers…
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GLPod Ep 19 Why Sexual Confidence Matters
Happy New Year, It's Season Three! We're trying something new this year; themed seasons to boost your learning and inspiration! Sexual confidence is about more than just feeling good in the bedroom—it’s a foundation for authentic self-expression and deeper connections in all areas of life. In…
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Episode 18: Silly, Sleepy Reddit Reads
In today's episode (which is a past recording), Katrina and Charlie are feeling a little under the weather after getting their COVID boosters in preparation for the highly anticipated Sex Geek Summer Camp. But don't worry, they're not letting a little vaccine fatigue stop them from bringing you...
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Ep 17: The Complex World of Cuckqueaning with Amy The Poly Realtor
In today's episode, we're excited to welcome a very special guest, Amy the Poly Realtor, who's not only a kinkster and current president of Arizona Power Exchange but also a proud, self-identified Cuckquean! Amy opens up about her unique relationship dynamics and discusses the nuanced differences...
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Ep 16 - Who's Watching What? The Pornhub Year-End Review!
This week, I bring my girlfriend on to talk about the (infamous?) PornHub year-in-review report! We pore over the intricacies of global and US search terms, laughing our way through state-specific curiosities—from car sex in sunny Arizona to body swap fantasies in the hustle of New York—while...
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Ep 15 - Reflecting on Kink, Identity, and Influence with Vana X
It's Season Two of The Good Love Podcast, where we dive deep into the world of intimacy, relationships, and everything in between! For this 15th episode, I have a special treat for you. Joining me in the studio is the ever-insightful Vana X, here to explore the multifaceted world of kink and…
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Ep 14 Riding the Edge of Pleasure and Power - Let's Talk About Orgasm Control!
In today's episode, I'm exploring the practice of Orgasm Control. From the intense power exchange of submissive handing over their orgasms to their Dominant, to the thrilling play of edging and denial, there's so much to discover. I'll delve into the various forms of orgasm control, including...
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Ep 13 Pleasure in Restraint: Exploring the Depths and Rewards of Chastity Fetish
In today's episode titled "Pleasure in Restraint: Exploring the Depths and Rewards of Chastity Fetish", we delve into the intriguing world of chastity kink. We explore the concept of chastity, its origins, and the reasons why some people find pleasure in the erotic denial of sexual activity. We...
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Ep 12 - BDSM on Film: Belle De Jour
My spicy model friend, Kinky Kupcake, joined me to watch Luis Buñuel's French erotic-drama classic Belle de Jour (1967), starring Catherine Deneuve as Severine, a kink-curious young woman who takes on a double life to explore her fantasies of submission and degradation. Get a taste of my new…
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Ep 11 - Domestic Discipline and the Joys of Spanking with Miss Chris
Last week, I got to chat with one of my favorite kink educators, Professional Disciplinarian and self-described "Dominurtrix", Miss Chris! We talk about the variety of Domestic Dynamics one can explore and disspell some of the many misconceptions around her favorite actvity... Spanking! Whether...
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Ep 10 - Understanding Consent and Embracing Vulnerability: Insights from The Good Eggs
In today's episode, we have some incredible guests joining us: Emma, and Cody from The Good Eggs organization. Get ready for a thought-provoking conversation as we dive into topics like vulnerability, consent, and harm reduction. We start off by discussing Southwest Flow Fest 2023 and its unique...
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Ep 9 - What is Medibation?
Can solo pleasure be a meditation practice? What can we learn from observing ourselves in a state of sensation or pleasure? Does semen retention REALLY have benefit? This week we're talking about Masturbation and Meditation aka Medibation! Follow Me: website: http://www.goodloveproject.com...
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Ep 8 - Dispelling Misconceptions: "Tight" Vaginas
Our society is obsessed with the idea of "tight" vaginas and full of misconceptions that there are many ways to "ruin" them. This week, I'm talking about some of the most common, and incredibly pervasive, misinformation around the dreaded "loose pussy". Follow: website:...
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Ep 7 - Altered States: DomSpace and SubSpace
What does it mean to "fly" in scene? How does BDSM affect our states of consciousness? This week, we're talking about the altered headspaces we can get into through kink, namely, Domspace and Subspace and I share my own first experience. Got a juicy story you'd like to share? Send it to...
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Ep 6 - Decadence in the Southwest Pt 2: Surviving a Leather Conference
Part two discussing my experience at the inaugural event, Southwest Decadence! We talk about what you should know and how to survive your first con. Digressions include: Charlie's review of Kat's new Kitten Play toy. Conferences and Events Mentioned: https://www.southwestdecadence.com/ My Guest:...
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Ep 5 - Decadence in the Southwest Part 1
I get interviewed by my girlfriend about my experience at one of the newest Leather/Kink conferences in the U.S., Southwest Decadence! I also answer questions about what happens at a kink convention, what draws people to them, and the differences between Leather and Kink. Digressions include:...
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Ep 4 - Ask A Good Lover: Answering Listener Questions
Will a vibrator ruin me for the "real thing"? How many partners is "too many"? How long should I spend on foreplay? This week I'm sharing clips from my video series "Ask A Good Lover", where I answer real questions from listeners just like you! Got Questions about sex, pleasure, or relationships?...
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Ep 3 - What is Dominance?
Curious about Dominance and submission? What does it mean to be Dominant? What traits do you look for in a Dom? We're exploring the left side of the slash in D/s relationship dynamics! Follow Me: website: http://www.goodloveproject.com facebook: http://www.fb.com/GoodLoveProjec instagram:...
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Ep 2 - 10 Tips for Coming Out Kinky
How do you tell you partner you want to try something new? What if they're freaked out? What if they have questions? In this episode, we'll go over 10 tips for introducing spicy, new elements into an established relationship. Follow Me: website: http://www.goodloveproject.com facebook:...
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Ep 1 - Sex As A Mindful Practice
How do you keep the spark going in a long-term relationship? How can you make your first experiences with new partners better? In this first episode of the Good Love Podcast, we'll talk about how to get out of your head... and out of your own way to deeper intimacy and increased pleasure through...
About this show
Welcome to The Good Love Podcast, an audio resource presented by The Good Love Project. We believe everyone deserves good loving and anyone can be a good lover. We offer Playful, Powerful and Positive Sex and Relationship Education. So kick back, relax and soak up the Good Lovin'!
Hosted by
Katrina "Boots" Rainsong