THE HUMAN:NOW

In this inspiring episode of THE HUMAN:NOW, Parry sits down with Pat MacFie, powerhouse entrepreneur and co-founder of WeAreManaaki. Pat shares the raw and real journey of his upbringing—a story of street smarts, grit, and perseverance that shaped the leader he is today.From overcoming challenges to connecting authentically with people, Pat’s story is a masterclass in leadership, resilience, and purpose. He opens up about the power of leading teams, building strong communities, and the lasting impact he hopes to create for future generations.If you're looking for motivation to overcome adversity, lead with heart, and make a meaningful difference, this episode is a must-listen.

Are you constantly trying to meet the expectations of others? In this episode Kash and Parry break down the exhausting cycle of people-pleasing and the power of saying NO.We talk about how draining it is to maintain a false version of yourself just to keep others happy, and why true freedom comes when you reclaim your happiness. There’s strength in setting boundaries without doubt, and it’s okay if not everyone agrees with you—because not everyone will.If you’re tired of putting yourself last, feeling guilty for setting limits, or struggling to say no, this episode will give you the mindset shift you need to step into your own power.🔔 Subscribe for more conversations on self-growth and empowerment.

Kash reconnects with Fraser Grut, the creator of the inspiring 10,000 Dreams Project, for his third appearance on the podcast. Fraser opens up about life after marriage, the emotional highs of working with A-list celebrities, and how he stays grounded in reality through it all. We discuss the importance of serving others, maintaining genuine happiness, and how Fraser’s wife has become his true measure of success and joy. This episode is raw, honest, and filled with powerful takeaways about balancing ambition, relationships, and life’s purpose. Tune in for an incredible conversation with one of the most genuine and visionary creatives today.

Kash reflects on his recent visit to the luxurious Te Arai Links Golf Club for a work Christmas party. The experience wasn’t just about enjoying a beautiful setting—it also inspired deeper thoughts about manifestation, vision creation, and stepping into your future self. Kash and Parry explore the idea that life is a game, and sometimes achieving your goals means playing a role, putting on the suit, and stepping into character. It’s okay to embrace ambition, as long as you stay grounded in awareness and purpose. Tune in for a motivational discussion on how to envision a life you want and take steps toward making it a reality.

Kash and Parry tackle the difficult yet inevitable part of life: outgrowing relationships. Whether it’s due to misaligned values, drifting apart, or a desire to prevent hurt, moving on from relationships is never easy. But it’s also a key step in personal growth. This episode offers 8 actionable tools to help you navigate these changes and reflect on the deeper purpose of the connections in your life. Imagine holding your happiness in a cup. Who do you trust to hold it for you? Some relationships are seasonal, but each one leaves an impact for a reason. Tune in for insights and strategies to help you embrace change and evolve beyond the relationships that no longer serve you.

In this heartfelt episode of THE HUMAN:NOW, Kash and Parry open up about their personal journeys as husbands and Parry about his journey in fatherhood. This honest conversation covers their thoughts, challenges, and insights on how to serve and care for those closest to us. From balancing love with responsibility to prioritizing time for the people who matter most, this episode dives into the importance of family and connection. Join us for a candid discussion on love, family, and how to be present for the people we cherish. If you’re looking for genuine perspectives on balancing relationships and responsibilities, this episode is for you!

Kash and Parry discuss the importance of opening up and embracing vulnerability. They explore how self-acceptance and demasking the walls we create can help us realign with our true selves. Vulnerability not only strengthens our relationships but also empowers others to embrace their authenticity. The episode highlights the value of simply being there for others—listening and giving time without always needing to have the answers. Discover the beauty and strength in vulnerability.

In today’s episode, Kash and Parry continue the theme of self-alignment, exploring what one may truly discover when reaching their potential. Is happiness found in external achievements like new homes, cars, or relationships, or are these simply illusions? Kash and Parry debunk the myths surrounding happiness and offer logical steps for reflecting on and analyzing your own source of fulfillment. Tune in for practical insights on how to stop chasing illusions and start taking control of your happiness.

In this follow-up to EP 083, Kash and Parry break down the spiritual wisdom shared by Swami Aparokshananada (Chinmaya Mission Perth) and Br. Ishaanji Chaitanya (Chinmaya Mission Auckland). They explore the idea of aligning with your essential nature—just as water’s nature is to be wet, what is your true nature? This episode offers simple, actionable steps to help you connect with your true self and purpose. Tune in for practical insights and make your 1% shift today!

Have you struggled to figure out what makes you unique? In this special episode, we’re joined by Swami Aparokshananada (Chinmaya Mission Perth) and Br Ishaanji Chaitanya (Chinmaya Mission Auckland) to help you discover your true potential. Learn how to make a 1% shift in your life, uncover your purpose, and start living more meaningfully. This is our best episode yet, packed with spiritual wisdom and practical insights that you’ll want to revisit again and again. Don’t miss out!

Kash and Parry explore the thin line between genuine service and the pursuit of validation. Are we truly serving others, or are we simply feeding our egos? Discover how to lift your ideals, differentiate between motivation and inspiration, and avoid burnout. Tune in to learn how you can break through limitations and make your 1% shift today

Feeling stuck and unable to recognize your own greatness? Sometimes, all it takes is a little nudge from the outside world to set you on the right path. Join us for a quick catch-up between Kash and Parry as they reflect on their aspirations and dive into deep planning for the future. In today's episode, we discuss the power of recognizing our potential and setting big goals. As we prepare to hibernate and come back stronger, our aim is to radiate your life with positivity. Tune in now for insights and inspiration to fuel your journey!

Prepare to be captivated by the extraordinary tale of resilience and redemption. Join us as we unveil the riveting story of New Zealand's very own Dumpling King, Shane Liu. From facing near-blindness after a brutal assault to rising as an unstoppable force of inspiration, Shane's journey is nothing short of awe-inspiring. Delve deep into the inner workings of Shane's mind and discover the raw determination that propelled him from adversity to triumph. This is more than just a story – it's a testament to the power of human resilience and the transformative potential within us all. Tune in now to be uplifted, inspired, and moved by the incredible saga of Shane Liu.

Even the mightiest heroes have heroes of their own! Who inspires you to reach new heights and become the best version of yourself? Is there a secret ingredient to becoming a hero, just like the legendary Dragon Warrior? Today, Kash and Parry embark on a journey into the significance of having heroes and the profound impact they can have on our lives. They open up about their own sources of inspiration and share heartfelt stories. Plus, get ready for an extra dose of motivation as they watch an inspiring clip from one of the greatest movies of all time – Kung Fu Panda! Join us for a captivating episode filled with wisdom, laughter, and the quest for greatness.

Ever feel like you're the odd one out in the room? That nagging voice telling you that you don't belong or that you're just waiting to be exposed as a fraud? Well, you're not alone. In today's episode, Kash and Parry dive deep into the paralyzing grip of imposter syndrome. They share personal experiences and insights on how to overcome this debilitating feeling and cultivate genuine self-belief. Because here's the truth: You belong in that room, and you have every right to be heard. So, let's banish those doubts and fears, armed with the truth and all the receipts to prove it. Tune in as we tackle imposter syndrome head-on and empower ourselves to rise above.

Welcome, everyone, to the moment you've all been waiting for! The challenge was set, the heat was on in the kitchen, and tensions ran high. Today's episode is an exclusive breakdown of The Yellow Dinner challenge, meticulously executed by Akash. From last-minute preparations to cakes teetering on the brink of disaster, they leave no stone unturned in this candid exploration. But amidst the chaos, profound moments of connection and heartfelt stories emerged over the dining table. Get ready for a dissection of this culinary adventure. Let's dive into The Yellow Dinner debrief.

Ladies and gentlemen, prepare to meet the man, the myth, the legend himself! We're honoured to have the godfather of positivity, Darren Pereira, joining Kash and Parry on today's podcast. Darren opens up about his journey, sharing his struggles with insecurities during his childhood, his path to embracing his authentic self, and his transformative journey to spirituality. As the coach and founder of Success Integrated, Darren travels across Australasia, inspiring students and educators alike to foster positive relationships with learning. A pivotal member of THE HUMAN:NOW team, Darren's unwavering support, meticulous attention to detail, and insightful analysis have been instrumental in our journey. Get ready for an episode filled with laughter, and nostalgic beats from Notorious B.I.G., Ludacris, and the legendary MJ. Brace yourselves for a rollercoaster of laughs, profound insights, and 100% positivity. Darren, thank you always for your time, energy, and boundless love.

Welcome back to another uplifting episode, where we're here to illuminate the ever-burning flame of positivity in our universe. Today, Kash and Parry take us on a journey through their own challenges, exploring the power of gratitude and the mechanics of happiness. Parry introduces us to the insightful concept of the circles of concern, influence, and control, while Kash wraps things up by reminding us of the enduring presence of hope in our world. As always, our aim is to bring joy into your life and boost your morale, leaving you feeling like you can conquer anything and be a perfect 10!

Are you someone who struggles to unwind, feeling like you're missing out on opportunities when you take a break? Join Kash and Parry today as they delve into the rollercoaster ride of productivity. They'll share insights on achieving a balanced and sustainable lifestyle, exploring the fine line between pushing boundaries and avoiding burnout. Tune in as they uncover strategies for safeguarding your mental and physical well-being in the pursuit of productivity.

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to sit in the same room as us while we record? Today Kash and Parry discuss how they plan to bring the audience into the podcast by hosting a live event. They discuss all the important questions - the WHO, WHAT, WHY, WHEN, WHERE and HOW.

Welcome back for another week for your dose of positivity! Today the boys review a scene from the 2015 Pixar movie 'The Good Dinosaur' in which Arlo's dad teaches him about the beauty of the world once one gets through their fears. Kash and Parry also list the 5 celebrities they would invite to dinner! If you could invite any celebrities to a dinner, who would you invite? Who would be on your top 5 and what questions would you ask them, what activities would you all do? Who is going to make your list and who are you going to cut?

Welcome to 2024! Today the boys discuss how we can all make this our year. Whether it's going for a run, reading a number of books or getting to the gym, you will get there if you take it one day at a time. The team will equip you with their anchors for you to borrow or inspire you to find your own to help you get out of the lowest of lows. Time to grab the year by the reins and come out on top. YOU GOT THIS BABY!

Today Kash and Parry reflect on the journey to date, they share some feedback and review their performance. They answer questions put to them by listeners about setbacks and what to do when situations don't work out in their favour. The team at the HUMAN:NOW really want Parry to recreate a video discussed in EP 068. If you see value in what we do please get your mum, dad, son, daughter and even your pet to follow the team on Instagram. We have less than a month to get just under 500 followers.

What gets you raging like an angry bull? Do you suffer from road rage? Today the guys share what drives them up the wall and how they tolerate the situation. They also opened up the community chest putting on their thinking caps to discuss a question posed by a listener about success.

On today's episode, the boys discuss their TOP 10 FEEL-GOOD MOVIES of all time that they turn to when they need a quick pick me up or get them out of a rut. They also set each other some personal challenges and finished off with a new segment called the community chest. We hope you enjoy this episode.

The team had the absolute pleasure of hosting the powerhouse and phenomenon, Ella Kumar. While she fulfils her role as a wife, mother and grandmother, Ella talks about how a softball game changed the trajectory of her life. A simple bus ride has the potential to bring about confidence and how serving the community is the secret to unlocking the endless supply of energy! Thank you for your time, love and guidance Ella.

Most of us think of ourselves as failures and not that failure has happened to us. We embody the identity of limitation and trauma and don't always see it as an event or moment in time. In the follow-up to the previous episode, the team delve into how one can begin disassociating from trauma, limiting beliefs and failure as identities.

Is there a movie quote that hits differently? Has King Mufasa appeared in the clouds to remind you who you are? Today the boys break down a scene between Simba and Rafiki from the 1994 classic Disney animated movie The Lion King. This confronting yet playful scene takes the boys deep into finding who they really are.

On today's episode, Kash and Parry share more about themselves, discuss the importance of making decisions and imagine living in a world without fear. They bring their experience in architecture and personal development to the table and give us simple hacks to improve our lives in seconds. It's an easy listen and one filled with laughter, realness and maximum positivity.

WE'RE BACK BABY! MAXIMUM POSITIVITY. MAXIMUM HAPPINESS. MAXIMUM ENERGY. We've been on a break, as things sometimes do, but LIVING A POSITIVE LIFE hasn't stopped. Kash and Parry are back to bring you your dose of positivity. We hope you enjoy episode 63.

Jack and Morgan are the beautiful souls who host the UP2 AOTEAROA PODCAST. Today we got a chance to catch up and discuss their podcasting, professional and human journeys. The world is in need of positivity and it's their mission to bring light into this world through connection and conversation. We talked about life as parents, transitioning from high school and uni into the workforce and the purpose of the UP2 brand. Thank you for your time, energy and soul on this one team. It was my absolute pleasure to have you on.

Today we met the one and only Sam Rigdhal from BETTER THAN BEFORE. After being made redundant and making some significant lifestyle changes, Sam took his life by the reigns and seized the opportunities offered to him. We talk about his journey of creating a brand to Better the Lives of 1 million people and the work that is involved to get there. We get vulnerable, the energy is high and we have a great time. I hope you enjoy today's episode. 

If completing 2300KM run over the span of a year wasn't enough, Harry Sanders is back in the studio. We discuss his next mission of running 7 MARATHONS IN 7 DAYS all in the hope of raising funds for underprivileged children living in west Auckland, New Zealand. We talk about how one needs to dig deep to make it through the darkest of times and that a strong and clear purpose is the way to achieve any goal. This is an inspirational episode that will get you off your feet and moving. Please show Harry some love as he embarks on his 7 in 7 journey. If you would like to donate or support Harry and his cause in any way please message THE HUMAN:NOW team and we will direct you accordingly.  Much Love.

It's been a moment! It's episodes like this that remind me to get back into the grind and remind me why I love creating podcasts. Today's episode reminds me why it's important to not only celebrate the highs and the lows throughout the week but to be vocal and share our thoughts and feelings about them. We all have an opportunity to learn and grow. We must share so one, we can don't hold onto any unwanted energies and secondly so that others learn through our experiences. If we didn't share how we felt the world would truly be a quiet place. This episode is a reminder to me, to keep going when faced with doubt and insecurity.

Today we went further into our journey of the 365 DAYS OF POSITIVITY. We took it all the way back to DAY 001 and talked about our thoughts, reflections and learnings from our very first post. This podcast comes as a timely reminder as we move closer to the new year and set our goals for the year to come. We cover ways to set realistic achievable goals, and that there is no better time than the NOW to start realising your dreams. Everything in your life can be achieved if you simply take it step by step, day by day and breath by breath. Let's keep lifting the vibration of positivity team.    REMEMBER: YOU ARE LOVE YOU ARE HAPPINESS YOU ARE THE UNIVERSE YOU ARE HUMAN YOU ARE NOW

Today we had Alister and Vinay in the studio to talk about how money and relationships. For some money is nothing but utility and for others, it's the maker and breaker. No matter how we feel about money, it is there. We talked about the different forms of agreements one could have when dealing with large amounts of money and the types of conversations that come from it. This was another great episode and we are so grateful to have the experience and knowledge from the BetterCo. team.

Today we met Harrison Sanders, a man on a mission to run a total of 2300km across the length of the year in the hopes of raising the level, vibration and awareness around Mental Health, Alzheimer's and Epilepsy. Running almost a marathon a week, Harry talks to us about his journey, what he has learnt and the way he is creating positive energy in his life. If you would like to contribute to Harry's mission please follow the link to his Give A Little page: https://givealittle.co.nz/fundraiser/harrys-2300km-for-my-23rd-birthday

Today we met Connor Pritchard, a creative who has grown to follow the beat of his own drum. Rules are simply societal constructs in his world and sometimes one must be willing to take risks and leave all comforts to chase a dream or passion. Through our discussion, we learn that school isn't for everyone and service back to the community is a way to keep our ideas fresh and our minds young. If you don't know who Connor is, you would have surely seen his work across the New Zealand music scene. Thanks, Connor for dropping in and sharing your love, time and energy with our team.

Today we met Tom Grut, a fellow video and photo creative in the New Zealand music scene. We sat down and had a chat about how life is a big experiment, how everyone is just making it up and no matter what age you are, it's never too late to find what you want to do. Perfection is an unsustainable habit and maybe there is more to life than walking the lonely road towards mastery in one arena. Tom brought with him a fresh perspective and certainly gave us plenty to reflect on. We hope you enjoy this podcast.

Today we caught up with an OG from Roskill, none other than Randy Sjafrie. Randy popped back onto our podcast to talk about his year on the radio and how he continues to explore his creativity in various outlets such as music, fashion and the podcasting world. Randy talked about wanting to inspire those who felt like they could never achieve and that it didn't matter where you grew up or what your circumstance, greatness is destined for you if you are willing to work hard and chase it. Thanks for lifting the vibration of positivity in this one Randy, we appreciate you.

In today's episode, we caught up with a fellow creative, Devan Narsai. You may have had remembered him from our previous episode where we talked about his journey as a photographer and videographer for the New Zealand fashion label I LOVE UGLY. Since then, he has taken a step back from the full-time job to experiment and see what opportunities he can create and what life has to offer. Today we talked about his experience as a social media manager for New Zealand's leading music band Six60 and his experiences being on tour as a photographer and videographer. Devan takes us behind the scenes and shares his experiences in the hopes that it may inspire the creative within you to take the leap and do the same. Thanks for your time Devan, we loved having you on.

Today we met Charles and Cameron from Geoffery Co., a brand and identity on the pursuit to connect a creative world. They believe all humans harness the power of creativity and through their work, Geoffery wants to help share stories of people excelling in creative spaces, enabling others to try and learn new skills and most importantly share the message of positivity. This episode is filled with little nuggets of knowledge, some great banter, many laughs and will definitely leave you with an itch of wanting to create. We had the pleasure of having these guys on the show, we hope you enjoy it

Today we welcomed back someone who has been an inspiration to the HUMAN:NOW podcast, Fraser Grut. Fraser came back to give us an update on how his last year has been. He highlights his progress with his book, why quitting would never be an option and how life isn't always easy all the while fulfilling a lifelong task. We talked about growth and the evolutions of passion, redefining why he gets up in the morning and what it means to film a dream every day. Thanks for your time Fraser, we look forward to seeing what you achieve.

Today we had a chance to catch up with Auston Huggins most commonly know as Finding Huggie! He is a Tik Tok influencer inspiring acts of kindness and positivity through a global treasure hunt, bringing people together and lifting the vibration of positivity through his videos and creative content. Huggie is a force of energy and takes us through his journey travelling across the world. His stories include meeting new people, ending up in unexpected situations and creating the person we know as the powerhouse of positive energy - Huggie. The positivity was vibrating high in this session, we hope it inspires positive action

Today we introduced Anish Aya, a friend and teacher on a quest to learn and spread the knowledge of Vedanta. As a follow on from our previous episode, we asked Anish to help us understand destiny and how it plays its role in our lives and how we determine what it will be? Is it something that is completely out of our control and decided by others, God or chance? Or is it something that is determined from within? We would love to thank Anish for his time and guidance as he so beautifully explains how and why things happen in our lives and how to manage them. We hope you enjoy it.

We are gearing close to the halfway mark of the year and for some, our resolutions may have dropped off and for others, they may be riding the wave on the high. Today we were back with the OG team discussing ideas around passion, purpose and a whole lot more? Does our environment control where we end up in life or do we have the ability to break through the cycles depending on our attitude and outlook in life. We head into some pretty deep territories in this episode so we hope you can follow along. There will mot definitely be a follow-up episode to break down some of the ideas discussed today. We hope you enjoy today's chat.

Today we caught up with Paresh Nama from the Inessence Movement. He would be a familiar face to many who have tuned in to our past episodes. In today's we dug beneath the surface and got to know Paresh just a little bit better. We usually hear the story of one's journey after they have made their accomplishments, however, we talked about the struggles faced, the up's and the downs and how all these factors have contributed to make him the person he is right now and the person he wants to become. Life isn't about what happens to us but it is about how we deal with it. Life isn't about doing and attaining things, it's about becoming someone. Paresh is a growth-hungry individual with a passion for learning and a mind set on bettering the world around him. It doesn't matter where you are in life this episode is for everyone. We hope you enjoy it.

Today we were back with the OG crew discussing the year that was 2020.  We talked about how we got through it and how it affected us. We then looked to the new year and spoke about the changes and adaptations we would make. This episode was shot near the end of 2020 so some things may have changed. None the less this episode has brought about a pause to step back and assess whether or not we are living up to our new goals and aspirations. How is your 2021 going so far? Did you want to make any changes, is it time to reset and change things around? This episode is short and sharp, we hope you enjoy it.

Today we introduced Sarah Kelsey from THE ONE UP PROJECT, a brand that is more than just a podcast. Risking it all after being in full-time work after 3 months, Sarah left her job to do what she felt was right, helping people. Sarah has created a platform that helps to fill in the gaps about the things we should have been taught but weren't. She makes learning easy and understandable for people of all ages, because who really knows what mortgages are and how KiwiSaver really works? Thank you for your time, energy and for doing what you are doing Sarah. You are definitely lifting the vibration of positivity in this world. We hope you all enjoy today's podcast.

Today we brought back the OG gang. We take a moment to step back and look at where we have come from and what we have achieved. We talk about how we started the podcast and our initial thoughts deciding to do something we knew nothing about. Having the team back is always special and reminds us that no feat is ever achieved alone. We will always be grateful for the time, energy and love given to the HUMAN:NOW from the whole OG gang.