The Kehillah RVA Podcast

What happens when life gets in the way of doing the right thing at the right time? And what happens when “second chances” go too far?From ancient ritual law to modern community life, this episode unpacks a core tension: responsibility vs. reality.UPCOMING EVENTSSee you for Shavuot! Marking both the harvest festival and the giving of the Ten Commandments, it'll feature an interactive storytelling experience highlighted by a “Mount Sinai–sized Mountain of Ice Cream,” along with a musical performance by Rabbi Patrick and musician Robin Rio. Attendees can enjoy pizza and refreshments while supplies last, plus family-friendly art activities in partnership with Art Factory and a free Jewish kids’ bookstore with books to take home. FREE but please support with a donation. RSVP: https://kehillahrva.org/calendar/Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

For ancient people, words had material power. Today, communication is the greatest form of world currency. Let's tie all that together, along with a beginners guide to arguing the holiest way possible.Follow along here: https://voices.sefaria.org/sheets/241948?lang=biDonate to support Kehillah: https://kehillahrva.org/donate/Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Tiktok is garbage and influencers are just that...influence peddlers. How about we trust people we actually can know, especially about Israeli and Palestinian issues?Here are six people Rabbi Patrick trusts -- including three locals -- because relationships are the heart of learning.https://www.youtube.com/@CoreyGilShusterAskProjecthttps://www.yelp.com/biz/jerusalem-market-and-deli-richmondhttps://www.facebook.com/tal.bahar.shlicha.rva/https://artfactoryva.com/admission/https://realignforpalestine.org/Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Another round of Kehillah questions answered, inspired by the 80 people (!!!) we had for Passover and the questions I was asked before or during seder. This includes, but is not limited to:Why does God kill the Angel of Death in Chad Gadyah? (thanks Eitan K.!)Are you/is Kehillah Zionist? ("thanks" Reddit!)And who cooked this food? (thanks everyone else!)Kol hakavod to all our volunteers, to Commonwealth Autism, and more for making it possible. Make sure to join us at Second Arrow, Art Factory and Brittney's house for Shabbat and Shavuot!Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

DOUBLE CHAI! Episode 36 has Rabbi Patrick rambling about Passover...How to kasher a kitchen when your family members have multiple, competing opinions about what is kosher or notThe pro/con on going to a community seder or hosting your ownWhat do they do? Rabbi answers questions about how his family observes the holidayAnd some notes about kitniyot, pizza, RSVPs, Kehillah recipes, aluminum foil and Jewish food panicThis episode is sponsored in honor of Frank Caras, of blessed memory.A big thanks to Jessica Borda for her leadership this Pesach holiday, and to all the volunteers at Kehillah making our seder possible.RSVP FOR PASSOVER (4 Tickets Left): https://www.tickettailor.com/events/kehillahrvaDONATE TO SUPPORT FREE PASSOVER: https://kehillahrva.org/donate/Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Get the inside secrets on what it's REALLY like to be a rabbi.• What “work” means when your job is community  • Coffee with the rabbi as pastoral care and first contact  • Protecting lunch time, health, and sustainable boundaries  • Shabbat prep realities, hosting at home, and security logistics  • Volunteer culture, delegation, and learning to say "I need help"• Unexpected calls from hospitals and outside community requests  • The limits of a part-time role and the tradeoffs behind saying no  • Weddings, funerals, and lifecycle work as service and income  • The long-term dream of a dedicated prayer and event space next to a gym and we'll call it S A N C T U A R YIf you can, please go to kehillahrva.org/donate to keep this podcast flourishing. And if you have questions, email [email protected].  Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Avi Remetz is the Director of Philanthropy and Engagement for Next Gen, the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond’s initiative for young adults to connect, lead, and make an impact. They bring together individuals in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s to build meaningful relationships, strengthen Jewish identity, and create a vibrant future for our community. Reach out to Avi: [email protected] UPDATECome hang out with Kehillah at Commonwealth Autism for both nights of seder. RSVP: https://tinyurl.com/passrvaGot questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

“Who knows? Perhaps you have come to royal position for just such a time as this.” (Esther 4:14)What if where you are right now isn’t accidental? What if this moment — complicated, uncomfortable, demanding — is precisely the one you’re meant to step into?The conversation begins with the surprising parallels between Inglourious Basterds and the Book of Esther — and a cute story about Rabbi and Rebbetzin's second date.Along the way, we explore Purim’s strange joy, its moral tension, and the deep Jewish instinct to turn revenge fantasy into generosity.Purim begins Monday evening, March 2, and Kehillah is marking it with gatherings for both families and adults in Midlothian: https://kehillahrva.org/calendar/Maybe you’re here for such a time as this.Chag Purim Sameach.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

In this episode, Rabbi Patrick speaks directly to those who feel hurt, betrayed, or disillusioned by famous Jewish men in the news — whether in politics, philanthropy, or Jewish communal life. The rise of antisemitism online is, in some part, caused by their actions. And we the innocent are paying the price for it.Drawing from the Prophet Amos, the story of Eli the High Priest, and even Battlestar Galactica, Rabbi Patrick explores a hard truth: corruption, hypocrisy, and moral compromise are not new to the Jewish story, but there is a way out of it.Note: while this podcast episode is not explicit and does not make mention of the crimes specifically, this podcast may not be appropriate for people who have experienced trauma.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Regretfully the audio from this recording was messed up. We chose to publish it anyway, because this interview is just too fun. If you'd like to help us, we could really use someone who likes audio and video production. Volunteer by emailing [email protected] -- free tickets to events for your help!Meet the Rabbi's Kid!Javon is Rabbi Patrick and Rebbetzin Stefanie's son, who joined the family at age sixteen. He talks about what it's like to be adopted into a rabbinical family (no big deal), his favorite Jewish holiday (because who doesn't like pretending to be Pharaoh?) and how new people at Kehillah can find themselves and building friendships. Javon talks about his work for a variety of nonprofit organizations across the US, his upcoming work at Camp Dream, and his goals for the future (trade school > law school).You can meet Javon at Kehillah events in Midlothian. Find something you'd like to go to here: https://kehillahrva.org/calendar/You can also check out Rabbi & Son, the podcast with Javon and Rabbi Patrick (not affiliated with this podcast).Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Take a journey through the inner world of your soul and the outer world of the earth. Welcome to Tu Bishvat -- an obscure holiday made living through kabbalistic teaching.In this episode, Rabbi Patrick guides you through one (of many) approaches to Tu Bishvat, and asks important questions about how the skills we have learned to survive may not be the skills we need to thrive. And yes, there is fruit and nuts, too.We end on the question of the earth and Judaism: what if instead of synagogue, nature is your sanctuary? Rebbe Nachman agrees and offers you a special prayer.Join us for our Church Hill's first Tu Bishvat Seder: https://kehillahrva.org/tu-bishvat-seder-at-kavaclub/Big thanks to Second Arrow for the space: https://kehillahrva.org/our-locations-jewish-life-in-richmond-va/Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

From Ashton’s experiences working with children with special needs and navigating higher education, to Nick’s path through mechanics, military service, and spiritual reflection, explore with our Kehillah friends in this podcast takeover how their backgrounds, passions, and personalities shape the way they approach life.Along the way, they reflect on leadership, responsibility, and integrity—asking how confidence and humility coexist, how trust is built, and how personal growth happens through challenges. The conversation is honest, relatable, and sprinkled with humor, giving listeners a window into who Ashton and Nick are, what drives them, and how their experiences inform their values today.Also in this podcast:The Rabbi Makes You Dinner & Breakfast! Join us for some Shabbat events in MidlothianShabbat at Pam's in Three Chopt/Henrico. Coolest house ever!Do you wish this podcast was video? Do you have content ideas? People we need to interview? Let us know AND support the podcastAnd drumroll please ...We're excited to announce our new CHURCH HILL community, based out of Second Arrow. Think coffee shop meets healing space meets physical therapy and yoga. We're THRILLED about the opportunity to be here. Big thanks to Dr. Leah Johnson and her team for granting us this incredible venue for worship, learning and friendship.Our first event is Tu Bishvat Seder, an earth-based, mystical Jewish experience you don't want to miss.Take a spiritual journey as we connect our inner journey with our outer worldEnjoy a plant based dinner (mostly gluten free, too)Wine pairings (with non-alcoholic options courtesy of Point 5) served throughoutA Kehillah Tu Bishvat Seder Haggadah to take home and so much moreRSVP at KehillahRVA.org -- and enjoy our first event at Second Arrow.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Are you tired of being forced to "pick a side"? In a world that feels increasingly polarized—Red vs. Blue, Us vs. Them—we often feel trapped in a binary that doesn’t actually fit our reality. In this episode of the Kehillah RVA podcast, we explore the life-changing power of believing that when two things are true at once, a third way is needed.🧵 The "Third Way" of ThinkingDrawing on the wisdom of Jewish legends and Carl Jung, we dive into why the "tension" between two opposites isn't something to avoid—it’s actually the birthplace of something new. Jung called it the "transcendent function." We call it liberation.In this episode, we discuss:The Global & The Personal: How we navigate the complex narratives of Israel, Venezuela, and even our personal family life by accepting two competing realities are true at the same timeThe Love Paradox: Can someone love you deeply and still not love you the "right" way? Processing the complexity of our most formative relationships, rabbi gets super personal on this oneBreaking the Binary: Why choosing between "Mexican or Chinese food" might actually mean you should order IndianEscaping Tribalism: instead of choosing a side, confront what you are really trying to accomplish, and suddenly you'll notice it's OK for people to disagree with one another (and you)💡 Key Quote:"The confrontation of two positions generates a tension charged with energy and creates a living, third thing... a new level of being." — Carl JungListen now and learn how to stop arguing and start living in the "Third Way."It's the rabbi's birthday! Rabbi Patrick turned 43. Care to give $43 to support Kehillah? You know what to do: https://kehillahrva.org/donate/Upcoming EventsShabbat Dinner and Service at the Rabbi’s: Friday, January 23 Shabbat Dinner at Pam's (Henrico/Three Chopt): Friday, January 30Shabbat MorningTorah Study at the Rabbi's: Saturday, January 31RSVP: https://kehillahrva.org/calendar/#KehillahRVA #Kehillah #TwoThingsCanBeTrue #CarlJung #Mindfulness #Tribalism #LetThem #PodcastLife #RichmondVA #RVA #JewishRVAGot questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

In this podcast, we challenge both the Americanized “Hanukkah as Jewish Christmas” approach and the backlash against it...Because Hanukkah’s story is far more complicated than either side admits.Hanukkah is ultimately a blend of civil war memory, Temple rededication, rabbinic theology, and ancient seasonal tradition. That mix is what makes it meaningful.So while we respect concerns about “Christmas-ifying” Hanukkah, we also accept that living in America means cultural blending. As long as we keep the story and rituals alive, we say: enjoy the aesthetics, light the menorah, and Hanukkah Sameach.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

If Seinfeld was a show about nothing, then this episode is a podcast about nothing.That's because in this episode of the Kehillah RVA podcast, we get to listen in on a an unedited conversation between Rabbi Elisha Paul, Head of School at RTA - Richmond Hebrew Day School and Rabbi Patrick Beaulier from Kehillah.The conversation goes into every kind of topic -- from demographic shifts in Israel to the Jewish landscape in Richmond, what it means to be religiously observant (or not), the challenges that come with building community that's all over the map and more.This isn't an interview. It's friendship. And it's fun.If you enjoyed this episode, we hope you'll get to know Rudlin and consider giving a donation to support their work.Big thanks to Rabbi Paul, Rivka Skaist and everyone at RTA for making this episode possible. Note that this was filmed on location, so there are some unfortunate audio issues. We hope that this further drives home the authenticity and sincerity of this podcast. If you'd like to see us improve the production value of the Kehillah RVA podcast, we won't say no to new equipment -- so drop us a donation and we'll get to work on getting some discounted gear during the holiday shopping season.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Want some dad advice from Rabbi Patrick on dating Jewish in Richmond, VA? Well...you're getting it! In this episode, Rabbi Patrick takes the collective observations of Kehillah's singles and offers up spiritual wisdom around places having energies, about Jewish matchmaking, love, companionship, and finding a sense of home where you are and who you are with. Upcoming Events:Latke Making with Brittney: Tuesday, December 9Shabbat Dinner & Service: Friday, December 12Shabbat Morning Torah Study: Saturday, December 13Hanukkah at Art Factory: Saturday, December 20RSVP: https://kehillahrva.org/calendar/FREE TICKETS: https://kehillahrva.org/kehillah-cares/Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Get to know Kehillah member Shawn Harris as we discuss the life of a creative person, her big moves from the west back to Richmond, the power of imagination, storytelling and world building.Learn more about her project Bizarro Torah: https://bizarrotorah.wordpress.com/This is part of a series of interviews with Kehillah members including Lori Levy and her parents, Arianna Rose, and Rebbetzin Stefanie. Want to be interviewed? Send us fan mail.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Get to know Kehillah member Arianna who you've likely seen around, but have not had a chance to chat with one-on-one. In this episode we discuss growing up as a teen in West Virginia, her move to RVA, a shared love of music, and what it's like for her as a neurodivergent person (and what she needs your brutal help with).Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Tired? Burned out? We get it. Kehillah is perfect for you.This episode starts with talking about tents and biblical translations, introversion, the crisis of people flaking out on plans, and tells a private story about Rabbi Patrick being cordially un-invited to something (and it was HIS FAULT!)Join us as we explore being a congregation who's tired...and made for each other.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Across America, more and more people are asking the same question: What’s the point? Faith has faded, connection feels shallow, and the old ways of belonging don’t seem to fit anymore. But in the Jewish tradition, a crisis is never the end — it’s a birth.So let's get into it.===UPCOMING EVENTSRebbetzin’s Jewish Prayer Bootcamp (Midlothian): Thursday, November 6 @ 6PMShabbat Dinner and Service at Ellen and Ross’s (Short Pump): Friday, November 7 @ 6PMBagels + Torah Study at Rabbi’s (Midlothian): Saturday, November 8 @ 10AMRSVP HERE: https://kehillahrva.org/calendar/VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIESAlright RVA, we need space for Shabbat on December 12 (dinner) and 13 (morning Torah study). Got a living room? We've got the rest! Reach out to [email protected] THE PODCASTWe need your support to make this (and other) episodes happen. Donation link below. $5 makes a huge difference.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Meet Kehillah members Sandra and Benjamin, otherwise known as Lori Levy’s parentsIn this episode, we’ll hear from the eighty-plus year old couple about everything from chicken soup to civil rights, the Black and Jewish experiences in the south and more. Recorded a few days before Rosh Hashanah.Want to be on the Kehillah RVA podcast? It’s not hard! Reach out to [email protected] Sandra and BenjaminSandra Ungar was born in 1940 in Wilkes-Barre,  PA to orthodox Hungarian immigrant parents.  She pursued her degree in education at Wilkes College. Born in 1937 in WestChester, NY, Benjamin Levy grew up in Scranton, PA. He attended the University of Scranton and Fordham University where he earned his Master's degree in History. Sandra and Benjamin married in 1961 and had two daughters, Lori and Devorah. Sandra was an innovative, enthusiastic 4th grade teacher for 28 years in Fairfax County, VA. She has always been a wonderful cook and has a knack for writing funny poems. Benjamin Levy spent the first part of his career as a teacher and then a Park Ranger with the National Park Service. He continued his NPS career in Washington DC and was promoted to the role of Senior historian and worked in the Historical Landmark's division. He worked for NPS for 36 years and was afforded many travel opportunities while he researched historical places. Sandra continues to be a wonderful mother and kind hearted soul who looks for opportunities to help others and make them feel welcome. Benjamin remains the smartest and kindest man Lori knows and continues to thirst for knowledge but is not afraid to be goofy and laugh heartily.  Volunteer OpportunitiesWe're looking for homes to host Shabbat dinner and Shabbat morning torah study. All you have to do is provide the space -- we do the rest! Dates are November 8, December 12 and 13. Reach out to [email protected] questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Recovering from Yom Kippur with this kavanah (intention) to Make Judaism Weird Again! Because we can’t just hand people bagels and lox and expect commitment.A few requests:We need Metro RVA homes for Home Hosted Shabbat. If you have some space November 7 in the evening or November 8 in the morning, we’d appreciate the locationIf you’re interested in adult education, reach out to [email protected] to help create those opportunitiesIf you’d like to see us record on a more regular schedule, consider supporting us. Until then, you get what you get.And of course, Chag Sameach! Happy Sukkot.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

What is the point of a synagogue? A few words for Rosh Hashanah.Event tickets: https://kehillahrva.org/calendar/Free tickets & support: https://kehillahrva.org/kehillah-cares/Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

This episode contains content that may be alarming to some listeners.Difficult times lead us to ask: what is God and why do bad things happen?In this two part podcast, Rabbi Patrick gives us some ideas from Jewish tradition about the nature of the Divine. In part one, we talk about the many, varied and unusual ways God is understood to exist in this world.In part two, we get into the hard stuff: what would God want from us, and why do bad things happen?Readings/sources for this podcast found on Sefaria: https://www.sefaria.org/sheets/156492?lang=biIf you or someone you love needs help, please reach out to Kehillah Cares: https://kehillahrva.org/kehillah-cares/Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Difficult times lead us to ask: what is God and why do bad things happen?In this two part podcast, Rabbi Patrick gives us some ideas from Jewish tradition about the nature of the Divine. In part one, we talk about the many, varied and unusual ways God is understood to exist in this world.In part two, we get into the hard stuff: what would God want from us, and why do bad things happen?Readings/sources for this podcast found on Sefaria: https://www.sefaria.org/sheets/156492?lang=biIf you or someone you love needs help, please reach out to Kehillah Cares: https://kehillahrva.org/kehillah-cares/Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Did you know 10% of congregants (of all religions in the USA) will LEAVE their community at some point? That's normal!But if you are someone who left, and you feel that tug at your heart to come back, and you're not sure how -- then this podcast episode is for you.YOU CAN COME BACK! Inspired by the story of Joseph and some practical wisdom about the weirdness, awkwardness and emotionally tricky nature of going-then-coming-back, this podcast episode hopes to make you feel comfortable returning to your Jewish community.🍏🍎 HIGH HOLIDAYS SCHEDULE 🍏🍎Services held at Commonwealth Autism unless noted:Rosh Hashanah Evening Service | Sept 22 - 6:30PMRosh Hashanah Day Service | Sept 23 - 9:30AMHHD Shabbat Dinner at Rabbi’s | Sept 26 - 6PMShabbat at VA Pridefest! | Sept 27 - NoonHigh Holidays Kids Event at Art Factory | Sept 28 - 5:30PMKol Nidre Yom Kippur Evening Service | Oct 1 - 7PMYom Kippur Day Service | Oct 2 - 10AMYom Kippur Concluding Evening Service | Oct 2 - 6PM (Service followed by a catered breaking-of-the-fast meal)🎓 Use coupon code KEHILLAH for free high holidays classes: https://tinyurl.com/hhdpodcast 🎬 High Holidays playlist so you can learn the prayers https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL-FGkvtwGOynxf5aBdJ-r7AvLzg4SZwUS&si=etsMyF7GxqjNi8QJGot questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Sneak preview of all our High Holidays events, details on free tickets and more.TICKETS AT KEHILLAHRVA.ORGRosh Hashanah Evening Service | Sept 22 - 6:30PMRosh Hashanah Day Service | Sept 23 - 9:30AMShabbat Shuvah Dinner at Rabbi’s | Sept 26 - 6PMShabbat at VA Pridefest | Sept 27 - Noon-8PMHigh Holidays Kids Event at Art Factory | Sept 28 - 5:30PMKol Nidre Evening Service | October 1 - 7PMYom Kippur Day Service | Oct 2 - 10AMYom Kippur Yizkor/Neilah Service & Break Fast | Oct 2 - 6PMThank you to Rebbetzin Stefanie (tefillah), Robin, Sophia, Matt, Austin and Avi (service leadership and support), Pam (food and beverage), Jessica (kids), and all our volunteers. FREE TICKETS for volunteering. Just go to Kehillah Cares and fill out the form.FREE ONLINE LEARNING! Use coupon code KEHILLAH for free downloads of some awesome High Holidays lessons.Services held at the offices of Commonwealth Autism unless otherwise specified.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Live from the tiki room, it's Rebbetzin Stefanie! Stefanie discusses why she likes running a synagogue out of her house (although she wishes she had more Star Wars themed furniture), the value of community building, and shares some stories from the early days of dating Rabbi Patrick.Get to know your rebbetzin with this very special episode.QUESTION: are you more of a Halloween or Thanksgiving person? Make sure to answer the questions using Fan Mail! Stefanie wants to know.DONATIONS: we could use them! This podcast only exists if you make it happen. Give a gift to support episodes like this, and we'll do a shout out on the next episode.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

“Love your neighbor as yourself” is one of the most famous verses in the Torah. But what if your neighbor drives you crazy? What if you disagree about politics, values — or even reality?In this episode, Rabbi Patrick explores what the Torah actually means by “love,” drawing on Leviticus 19, teachings from Rabbi Akiva, and wisdom from Pirkei Avot. You’ll learn how ancient Jewish values—like honoring others, subduing the ego, and treating the stranger as equal—can guide us through the fractured relationships of our time.We also get practical: using Jedi-level communication tools like mirroring, labeling, and active listening, you’ll discover how to talk to people you don’t understand (or maybe even like) with curiosity instead of contempt.💬 Whether you’re struggling with family tension, community division, or just trying to be a little more mensch-y, this episode gives you tools to do the work of loving your neighbor—starting with listening.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Corruption isn’t just a political problem — it’s a human one.Drawing on texts about bribery, justice, and moral courage, Rabbi Patrick helps us explore how unchecked corruption corrodes not only institutions but relationships and communities, and what it really takes to live a life of integrity, and to pursue justice the right way.Because doing the right thing is never easy — but it’s always worth it.Show notes can be found on Sefaria: https://www.sefaria.org/sheets/519905?lang=biUPCOMING EVENTSAdult Learning Class at Rabbi’s: Tuesday, July 22Home Hosted Shabbat at Rabbi’s: Friday, July 25Shabbat Morning Torah Study at Rabbi’s: Saturday, July 26Spiritual School: Wednesday, July 30TICKETS: https://kehillahrva.org/calendar/Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

How do people make friends as adults?In this episode of the Kehillah RVA Podcast, Rabbi Patrick explores why true, lasting friendships are so rare — and so essential — in our adult lives. We’ll talk about:Why adult friendships feel impossible sometimesHow to tell the difference between a true friend and a “frenemy”What Balak and Balaam teach us about blessings and cursesHow showing up for others creates more than connection — it creates lifeDrawing on Parshat Balak (Numbers 22:2-25:9), he reflects on what it means to be a friend who delights in others’ blessings, and how choosing abundance over competition changes everything.Whether you’re craving deeper connection, or trying to be a better friend yourself, this episode will inspire you to choose blessing — and friendship — every time.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

You have questions—we have answers.In this episode of the Kehillah RVA Podcast, Rabbi Patrick tackles some of the most thoughtful, funny, and heartfelt questions sent in by listeners. From what’s changed at Kehillah over the years, to how to build a Jewish library, to the best bagel in Richmond, no topic is too big—or too small.We also talk about living in an interfaith family, what it means to be a secular Jew, how to stay open and kind in a demanding role, and how different generations connect (or don’t) to Jewish life. And yes, we even dig into movies and shows that get Judaism right… and wrong.Consider this your guide to Jewish questions that everyone’s thinking—but not everyone’s asking.And don’t forget: RSVP now for the next Home-Hosted Shabbat at Brittney and Austin’s in Midlothian on July 11 at 6 PM. Tickets are on sale now—kids are free, and you don’t need to bring a thing! And there are free tickets through Kehillah Cares. Email [email protected] for FREE tickets.===July 7th is your last chance to order kosher meat from our friends at Hiddr Meats VA. Place your order on their website.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Being Jewish comes with beauty, belonging—and fear.In this episode of the Kehillah Podcast, we explore the quiet ways Jewish anxiety shows up in everyday life. From wondering whether to hang a mezuzah to deciding how (and when) to prepare our children for hate, Rabbi Patrick offers a reflection on what it means to be visibly Jewish in a world that doesn’t always welcome us.With wisdom from Midrash, the Book of Ruth, and community voices, this episode is about more than fear—it’s about resilience, complexity, and the deeply spiritual act of showing up as ourselves, especially when it isn’t easy.Links to content inspiring this week's episode:https://www.sefaria.org/sheets/513882?lang=bihttps://www.sefaria.org/sheets/474052?lang=biNote: this episode was recorded at the start of the 12 Day War and has not been updated.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Rabbi's out of town, but here are a few important announcements:Want to be on the podcast? Reach out: [email protected] hosting our Ask A Rabbi Anything on Sunday, June 29thPlease donate to support this podcastSee you soon!Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Want to become Jewish? Rabbi Patrick explores the meaning of conversion in Kehillah and Progressive streams of Judaism—everything from Jewish identity, practice, bet din, mikvah, and ultimately belonging. Whether you're on the path or just curious, this episode (hopefully) brings clarity, compassion, and insight.📚 Follow along with Rabbi Patrick's show notes on Sefaria.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Stressed out? Overworked? This can help.We live in a world that’s constantly demanding more—more hustle, more speed, more screens. But Shabbat offers a sacred pause, and one ancient word changes everything: vayinafash.In this episode, Rabbi Patrick unpacks the spiritual, linguistic, and revolutionary depth of Exodus 31:16–17, asking: What does it really mean to rest like God?What did it mean for God to “catch His breath”? And what would it mean for us to do the same?From the wisdom of Rashi to the modern research of Johann Hari, this episode weaves together Torah, neuroscience, burnout culture, and the idea that rest isn’t a luxury—it’s a birthright. Welcome to the Vayinafash Revolution.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

We aren't lazy Jews.Progressive Judaism isn’t a trend—it’s a centuries-long conversation between tradition and modernity. In this episode, Rabbi Patrick explores the foundational document of Reform Judaism, and uses it as a doorway into what it means to live a Judaism that changes without breaking.From the radical roots of Classical Reform, to the spiritual boldness of Jewish Renewal, to the thoughtful middle ground of Conservative and Reconstructionist movements, this episode reflects on what it means to belong to a Judaism that embraces egalitarianism, modern ethics, and a love of community over conformity.You’ll also hear reflections on the paradox of mitzvot as chosen sacred acts and how Humanistic and cultural Judaism are shaping the next generation✨ Thank you to Penn Markham for suggesting this topic. 💬 Got an idea for a future episode? Email: [email protected] in time for Shavuot! If you like this podcast, please donate via https://kehillahrva.org/donateGot questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

In memory of Sarah Milgram and Yaron Lischinsky, who were killed outside of the Capital Jewish Museum in Washington, DC, on Wednesday, May 21st. May their memory be a blessing, and may their families be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Yerushalayim.---God didn’t create a perfect world—God created a complex one. And in that complexity, we become creators, too: of meaning, of art, of relationships, and of kindness.Suffering is real. But so is strength. So is human solidarity. And so are we.Rabbi Patrick explores Genesis 1:1–5 and how the Torah’s opening verses aren’t just about creation, but about transformation. With a nod to astrophysicist Sara Imari Walker's Assembly Theory and artist Justin Curfman (Feedings Fingers), we reflect on the role of imagination in a universe that moves from darkness to light—not once, but always.🙏 Shout out to the Curfman family in Napoli, Italy 🎧 Topic suggested by Penn Markham. Thanks, Penn!Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

Life. Sustained. Place. Time. Gratitude in the Moment.In this episode of the Kehillah Podcast, we zoom out—and then way in. Through the lens of Shehecheyanu, Rabbi Patrick shares a deeply personal reflection about his late father Art Beaulier (of blessed memory), the fragility of existence, and the spiritual practice of saying: "We’ve arrived. We survived. We are here now."With a nod to Lisa Plotkin and PJ Library, and a reflection on the power of metaphors made physical, this episode explores the transcendent and the concrete: from the near-impossibility of the universe to framed antique paintings to what it really means to be present.Because sometimes, just being here is the miracle.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

When we show up for one another, something sacred happens.In this first episode of the Kehillah Podcast, we explore the meaning of Ecclesiastes 4:9–10, the power of Kehillah (community), and the idea that you matter—spiritually, intellectually, and socially. Rabbi Patrick reflects on the divine presence that’s made real through relationships, and how being part of a community fills the “God-sized hole” the universe leaves when we live in isolation.This episode is about more than Torah—it’s about connection, vulnerability, and why no one should have to do life alone.Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.

This is the story of Kehillah—the bold, independent Jewish community in Richmond, VA. Hosted by Rabbi Patrick Beaulier, each episode explores the spirit behind Kehillah’s gatherings, social action, holidays, spiritual moments, and the people who make it all real.From meaningful Shabbat dinners to mystical holidays at kava bars, Kehillah is about connection that inspires spiritually, intellectually, and socially.✡︎ You Matter ✡︎Got questions? Send us a text and we'll read it on the showSupport the show🕯️ Learn more about Kehillah: kehillahrva.org 💛 Support Kehillah: kehillahrva.org/donate 📲 Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/kehillahrva 📘 Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/kehillahrva 🔁 Share this episode with a friend and help build something sacred together.