The Light Stand

Ser padre y madre hoy en día es difícil, y todavía se complica mas como va pasando el tiempo. En un mundo de redes sociales, pantallas 24/7, parece que toda cosa compite para obtener la atención de nuestros hijos. En una buenísima platica nos acompaña nuestra amiga Karla Gutierrez que es maestra de escuela secundaria; y comparte lecciones aprendidas, errores cometidos, tips y como aprender de nuestros errores como papa y mama. Temas que se tocaron:​como ayudar a que tus hijos se acerquen a Dios?​como aplicar disciplina sin enojo?​como manejar la corrección en temas delicados?​como escuchar a tus hijos sin alejarlos?​mucho mas!No te quieres perder este episodio!

Was Jesus Christ a real person? Did he actually resurrect from the dead? Is there any evidence or proof? There are other religions claiming to be the truth, how can I trust the Bible? Is Christianity the one-true religion?This episode's target audience is the skeptic, the atheist, the agnostic seeking truth. For our believer friends, we hope this will equip you to answer some questions you've faced but weren't sure how to engage.Andre and Steven join us to discuss, don't miss this one!

Andre and Priscilla join us to share their testimony and passion for the Lord. They are entrepreneurs, owners of "Casa Pizza" in El Paso, TX. After living in Guadalajara, Mexico for 2 1/2 years, they came back to El Paso to continue serving God and growing their ministries.We knew this episode was going to be good, but they knocked it out of the park to a whole other level. Tune in and don't miss it!

Nuestros amigos Adan y Miish nos acompañan y comparten su hermoso testimonio. Adan es musico y parte del grupo de alabanza De la Iglesia Vino Nuevo en El Paso, y Miish es encargada de comunicaciones y parte de logística de Vision Global; que es organización de misiones. En este episodio hablan de como fue que Dios los junto y les dio una vision en común y corazón para compartir el evangelio en todo el mundo como misioneros. Se tocan temas de noviazgo, matrimonio, milagros, iglesias Multi-culturales, batallas espirituales, como evitar el cementerio del misionero, y mucho mucho mas.No te quieres perder este episodio de impacto!

Nos acompañan nuestros amigos Samuel y Nala Castillo donde comparten su historia y testimonio. Esta pareja hermosa son nuevos padres, casados 2 años y tienen un mensaje que no te quieres perder... desde como llegaron a los pies de Jesus ha como honrar y dar gloria a Dios en matrimonio y noviazgo también. Hablan de lo que han aprendido del matrimonio, como manejar a las familias cuando uno se casa, y todas las dinámicas que vienen con juntarse con tu cónyuge.No te lo pierdas!

Josh and Denise Herrera join us to share their story! Their awesome testimony proves that nothing is impossible with God. It's possible to overcome your past. It's possible to beat depression and win the mental health battle. It's possible to have a beautiful marriage coming from two distinct backgrounds.Sometimes, God gives you a unique story with a big purpose. There are people in the world that ONLY your story can impact, God doesn't make mistakes. Don't miss this incredible episode!

Let's face it, being single and Christian in a non-Christian world is not easy. There is all kinds of temptations and influences that throw mixed signals at us causing confusion, distorting the original design that God had in mind. Add in the over-sexualized entertainment industry plus social media full of "influencers" that have manicured pictures and videos into the mix, it is understandable how Christian singles are like on a remote island without a map.Our friends join us to chat about it all!Some topics discussed:*Do you have to share the same religion or beliefs?*When you “don’t feel peace” is it really because it’s not God’s will? Or could it just be fear?*Alot of people say christian’s standards are too high… thoughts?*What are non-negotiables? Can they be different for everyone?*Is there a THE ONE? Or does God let you choose?*Is it true that you have to fully surrender your desire to marry & then you’ll get it?*What’s the role of a boyfriend in a relationship? Many want to “lead” while dating, is that bad?

Nuestros amigos Joel y Midy García nos acompañan para compartir su historia desde conocerse a casarse y ahora ser pastores juntos. Empresarios exitosos; Joel tiene su propia compañía de construcción y Midy dueña de propiedades AirBnB y también consejera familiar cristiana.No te quieres perder esta conversación!

We've all been there probably. In some fashion or another. You tell your mom how you really feel and she says "well, I guess I'm just a terrible parent" or the "after all I've done for you, that's how you treat me?". How about when you say you don't want to go to that family gathering because uncle Frank always gets wasted, and starts to get too touchy and makes you uncomfortable? "Oh honey, but that's just uncle Frank! He doesn't mean anything by it, it's just how he is! You'll be alright..."The list goes on and on... so many examples of toxic family. This episode is made to give you tools and language to finally set healthy boundaries, and learn that word you were too afraid to use as a child... NO.The episode starts with several examples we've seen & heard, the "how-to" part starts around the 45:00 mark. Segment 1: Spotting the ToxicitySegment 2: Why It’s So HardSegment 3: The How-To GuideStep 1: Set Clear BoundariesStep 2: Communicate Those Boundaries—Firmly, Calmly, and Without ApologyStep 3: Expect PushbackStep 4: Limit or Cut Contact (If Needed)Step 5: Do the Inner Workf this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might need to hear it. And if you’ve got a story or tip about dealing with toxic family, DM us! We'd love to hear from you.

Send us a textIrving y Angeles son unos amigos que conocimos en la iglesia y son parte del equipo de alabanza. Tienen corazón para adorar y servir a Dios, se refleja en todo lo que hacen. Ellos han viajado a varias partes del mundo de misioneros para predicar el evangelio a los que nunca han escuchado de Jesus. Acompañanos en este episodio donde comparten varias historias de sanacion, milagros y hasta cuando Dios resucito a 2 hombres!No te lo quieres perder, bendecirá tu vida!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textNo te pierdas esta platica! Alejandro y Rocio son buenos amigos nuestros que abren su corazón y platican su historia y perspectivas. Alejandro es interprete en los tribunales federales de inmigración, Rocio es locutora de Radio Manantial y Vida Unida; ambos con ambición empresarial. Mudarse a ciudad nueva por el amor? Servicio a Dios aunque incomode? Ser transparentes con mentores de confianza para matrimonio? Como navegar quebrantamiento en dificultades familiares? Como salir adelante después de un divorcio? Este testimonio refleja como Dios en su gracia utiliza nuestras lecciones para llevarnos acercarnos a El.Esto y mucho mas con este episodio!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textNuestro amigo Enoc Iglesias comparte su testimonio, batallas y victorias en la vida. El es un empresario exitoso como agente y dueño de agencia de aseguranza, y también musico talentoso tocando piano. Platica de como creció en familia cristiana siendo hijo de pastor. Su pasión por la musica lo llevo a aprender el piano desarrollando su talento a nivel profesional, llegando a colaborar con varios grupos de alabanza incluyendo a De Hombre a Hombre.No te lo pierdas!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textSometimes life doesn't go exactly as one would have wanted. It's easy to look back and get lost in all of your mistakes and shortcomings, wishing it could've been different. It takes a strong individual to push forward anyway, and not allow the enemy's lies to hold you hostage to your past. Join us as Nathalie courageously shares her testimony, from growing up in church and music to God giving her victory over struggles and temptations. Her favorite verse is Psalm 139, and a quote near to her heart is "hay esperanza"... there is hope.Trust us, this is one testimony you do not want to miss.Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textSome things are easier to forgive than others. Maybe someone stood you up. Maybe someone promised to pay you back, and disappeared. Maybe your spouse had an affair... maybe multiple affairs. Maybe it was physical or sexual abuse... can we forgive?Tune in and find outSupport the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textTony Moreno es un padre de familia, casado 11 años y sirve al Señor en el ministerio de alabanza. Nos acompaña para compartir su historia y testimonio de como se encontró con Jesus, y como Dios utilizo momentos en su vida donde el pensaba que eran para mal, fueron de bendición. Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textYes, we're back!!! Signs were dropping left and right, and finally God gave His stamp of approval to continue. 2025 is going to be absolutely amazing... stay tuned!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textAcompañanos en escuchar los testimonios de Josh y Adriana Arreola! Josh es dueño de la barbería "Identify Studios" en El Paso, TX. Ellos son padres de 6 hijos; nos comparten de todo corazón de como se conocieron ellos y aceptaron a Jesus en sus vidas. Gran testimonio de como Dios siempre obro en sus vidas y como ellos fueron obedientes y las bendiciones, fruto de esa obediencia a Jesus. Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textWhat a testimony! We are joined by our friend Edna. She is a UTEP graduate with a degree in Cellular & Molecular Biochemistry, a worship leader, wife and mom of fur-babies August and Birdie. Edna valiantly shares her story, and how God has impacted her life. In this episode:Edna's story and backgroundPassion for worship and musicImportance of marrying the right spouseLearning about mental health and traumaEmotions are not sinSelf growth and healing with therapyAdvice for couples considering marriagemuch more!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textWe catch up with long time friends Moises and Brenda Rico about life! These guys use vulnerability like a superpower. Their courage and bravery to keep it raw and honest will inspire and impact you, we have no doubt. Moises is a mental health coach for men via his platform MentallyStrongMan. They have 4 beautiful children and a marriage that we can all admire.Enjoy!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textDisclaimer: This one isn't for the easily offended. We discuss the much talked about and criticized commercial that aired during the Super Bowl, "He Gets Us"; depicting people of diverse backgrounds having their feet washed. At the end of the commercial it says "Jesus didn't teach hate, He washed feet". You can check out their website on your own here:https://hegetsus.com/en/articles/what-is-foot-washing-and-what-does-it-symbolize?utm_medium=vanity_url&utm_source=love_your_neighborDoes Jesus love you if you're a drug addict? A thief? A prostitute? LGBT+? A cheater? A liar? A murderer? Tune in to find out.Let us know in the comments what your thoughts were on that commercial!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textWe are joined by our friends Manny and Andrea Pedraza! They are a young, sharp, ambitious couple who are celebrating 2 years of marriage. They love God and serving at the church worship team. Both soon-to-be CPA's, they are open, honest and vulnerable about their upbringing, how they met, their experience with therapy sessions, Jesus  and He's shaped who they are.One of the best conversations we've had, tune in!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textThe last episode of the year wraps up with a tool to rocket-launch your 2024 and make it the best year yet!We discuss how to set goals with the S.M.A.R.T. system and how to maintain once achieved. It all starts with your WHY... Tune in!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textNo, this isn't the Blink182 song... rather we dive into the discussion of staying together for sake of the children. If your marriage is failing, should you stay together FOR the kids? Is it healthy? What are the circumstances? When to stay? When to go?What are the consequences for my children if I do decide to stay in an abusive situation?Tune in!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textReading through the book of Jonah, we identify several lessons we can all learn from.Enjoy!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textIn this episode we are joined by Alec and Angelo Ontiveros, our sons! They help us parents understand the current slang, dive into some good memories and most importantly; give advice to parents out there struggling to connect with their kids.Enjoy!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textThank you all for sending us some questions to engage you with! We have to say, some had NO chill but we love it! We are transparent and open, there will be more episodes to cover all your questions because some were too good to rush into 1 session. Hope you enjoy!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textNo one is perfect, no matter how hard some want to pretend it to be. Life has ups and downs, hills and valleys. Sometimes you feel like you can touch the sky, others it feels like you got punched in the face. Either way, through it all, God is with you. He has felt every emotion you have. He's with you in your highest and your lowest... it's ok to not be ok sometimes. We are human. God never promises a perfect trouble-free life, but He does promise to be with you through it all. You are not alone.Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textWhat are generational curses? Can you really pass down a "curse" to your children, and their children? Adray joins The Lightstand to dive in!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textIn this episode we discuss some of the habits and patterns that happily married couples establish and practice. Being in love, staying in love takes work, ALOT of it. Hollywood always ends it at the wedding, real life knows that the wedding is the starting point.How to grow stronger as a marriage and continue to make your love flourish? Here's a few tips:Set boundaries with familyBe friendsCreate a safe space with each other to discuss tough topicsHave difficult conversations, and get good at itFightCherish each others quirksDon't let yourself goSupport the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textWhat would you do if God told you to go give a speech to the ruler of a nation, but you had a stutter problem? What if He asked you to challenge the number one UFC heavyweight contender, who is 9 feet tall; and you're a kid? What if He asked you to sacrifice your son? There are so many bible stories that showcase characters up against incredible odds having to take huge steps of faith; and God always rewards your trust in Him. In this episode we share moments in our life where we went on faith and trusted God, and the fruit it bared afterwards.Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textTo the ones who got picked last, who no one believed in, who were told they didn't have what it takes and made too many mistakes to turn it around. To the ones who felt like you weren't enough, were too short, too young, too old, too this or that... who you've even question God like "why am I even alive?"..... This one's for youSupport the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textThey are back! The Lewis' join us once again by listener demand to help us understand how to read the Bible.Who wrote it anyway? How do you know it's God's word for sure? How can you rely on its accuracy? How can we be sure that this book is THE one over all the other options out there?What's the Trinity?How can Jesus be God and the Holy Spirit at the same time?These and so many other questions are addressed in our awesome time and conversation together. Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textWORSHIP! ALABANZA! Why do we worship God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit? What is it? How do we do it? It is a weapon to fight our spiritual battles, and God grants us the victory.We are joined by our amazing friends Abby Talavera, Rocio Chavez and her sister Lily Chavez. Tune in as they share their hearts, love for the Lord, and their stories of why they do what they do.Our longest podcast so far, this conversation couldn't be stopped. We pray that it blesses you as much as it did us.Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textRegresan con nosotros nuestros amigos Pepe y Jessica Martinez para platicar del Espíritu Santo, y la santidad en el matrimonio y la familia.Como invitas al Espíritu a tu matrimonio? Como escuchas su consejo cuando tienes que hablar con tus hijos de drogas y pornografia? Como tener fe que en la escuela mis hijos no serán llevados por mal camino y influencias negativas?Como orar por mis hijos? Por mi futur@ espos@?Como le hago para sentir su presencia y dejarme guiar por El? Como evito la tentación sexual en el noviazgo? Como puedo asegurarme llegar al altar con mi virginidad? En este episodio ellos comparten consejos con mucha sabiduría e historias que llenaran tu corazón. Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textFather's Day Special, the POPScast! This episode we are joined by some heavy-hitters, amazing men and awesome examples Mike Richards, Chris Acosta and Luis Talavera. These dads came onto the pod to chat about the power of a father. Besides the biblical evidence for father's in their children's lives, we dive into statistics such as:The #1 common trait among male/female ISIS fighters is an absent fatherStudents from father-present families score higher in math & science, even if coming from weaker schoolsBoys who are dad-deprived are more likely than their sisters to be unemployedFather absence predicts the profile of both bullies & the bullied: lower self-esteem, lower grades, poor social skillsChildren living with their married biological father as opposed to a stepdad did significantly better academically & had stronger chances of graduating high school & collegeBy 1st grade boys & girls with present fathers had significantly higher IQ scoresBy 3rd grade boys with fathers scored higher in all achievement tests & got higher grades71% of high school dropouts are from fatherless homes90% of homeless are fatherlessLiving in a home without a dad has a greater correlation with suicide among teenagers than any other factorAmong the youth in prison, 85% grow up in fatherless homesToday 18.3 million children in the US live without their father, compromising 1 out of 4 childrenJoin us as these men discuss why fathers are so important. Happy Father's Day!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textShort episode on the power of gratitude, along with some key studies with scientific evidence of positive effects on the brain.What can you be grateful for today?Enjoy!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textAle Macias joins us to share her testimony of how she came to Jesus, it is absolutely powerful. We share a message for both Christians and non-Christians alike. Disclaimer! What is shared is not the popular opinion, it might even upset you; nonetheless it's truth that needs to be said. Tune in!In this episode contains:Ale's storyChildhood traumas and therapyAddictions and alcoholismAbortions and teen strugglesBreaking generational cursesChristians being judgementalWhat Christians should be doingWhat's our job as Christians?Spiritual warefareWitchcraft The armor of God (Ephesians)What happens when you obey GodWhat happens when you rebelWhen you allow yourself to be utilized for God's purposeSubmitting ourselves to His willPlus so much moreWe pray that this helps you be the light to someone, and that it inspires you to leave people better than you found them. Be a blessing!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textCarlos y Maria regresan! Temas que se tocan en este episodio...Como se conocieron celebrando 31 años de casados y como seguir enamorados el papel del hombre y de la mujer en matrimoniomatrimonios sanos vs toxicoscomo crecer juntos para seguir adelantecuando la mujer tiene un carácter fuertehombres pasivos y tímidos mucho mas!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textThis episode is super special to us. Our brother and sister Luis and Liz Talavera join us to share their story and testimony, from how they met and grew/developed their family to literally facing death and beating COVID-19. God allows you to experience different seasons in life, all for good. Sometimes it doesn't feel that way especially if it's a particularly harsh winter per-se, but nonetheless His purpose is for your benefit and blessing in the end.Tune in, grab some tissues, and open your heart... this is a message you DO. NOT. WANT. TO MISS.Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textCarlos y Maria Juarez son pastores principales y fundadores de iglesia Templo Kairos en Ciudad Juarez, Mexico. Tienen 5 hijos varones y también son abuelos de un nieto! Nuestros amigos desde 14 años, han sido un tremendo impacto a nuestra vida. Ellos tienen una pasión por Dios, y ayudar a familias y matrimonios en consejería. No se pueden perder esta platica!Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textSteven & Cynthia tell us their story. How they met, recently getting married, to sex within marriage as God designed it. While the topic of sex might still be taboo and lightly treaded-on inside church walls around the country, we dive right in!Why God designed sex to be enjoyed in marriageHow to communicate with your spouse about your needs and likesSpicing up your sex life and not allowing it to get stale or boringExpectations vs RealityHow culture skews and blurs what sex should beHMO- Hear Me Out...Fathers asking children for forgiveness. Generational healingHow to handle abusive/toxic relationshipsCreating a new family cultureAnd much, much, much more...Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textWe are joined by Nancy Castañeda, Clinical Mental Health Counselor. She specializes in teenagers, crisis, trauma and is currently working on obtaining her MA in Psychology. Tune in as she shares her perspective on:Trauma and it's effects in your lifeHealing wounds from your pastMental healthEffects of social media on teensDepression and AnxietyGender and SexualitySupport the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textYou know that one place in the basement that's dark, a bit dusty, untouched... that some people are kind of afraid to walk-by? That's this episode. Honest, vulnerable and raw. Our story from high school sweethearts to going on 14 years married. How we came about knowing God and living for His glory. We pray that as we share the ugly truth about our beginning and everything we learned along the way, you see that with God anything is possible.Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textPrimer episodio en español! Pepe y Jessica Martinez son una pareja con una historia y testimonio impactante. Padres de familia, lideres y pastores de servicio en la iglesia Vino Nuevo; también Jessica es la encargada de grupos en REAL. Acompañanos en escuchar de su vida desde cuando se conocieron hasta como llegaron a encontrar a Jesucristo, y como Dios a obrado en sus vidas. Si tu necesitas una palabra de animo, si no estas segur@ de la existencia de Dios, este episodio es para ti.Hay varios que creen en las coincidencias. La coincidencia es cuando Dios hace un milagro y elige permanecer anonimato. Eso se llama DIOSidencias ;-)Recuerda que en Jesus hay esperanzaSupport the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textThis message you do NOT want to miss. We are joined by our friends Abby Talavera and Adray Carrillo with a special message for Gen Z, and their parents! Both Abby and Adray are Youth Leaders at church and are very involved in sowing into the next generation of young adults. This talk is for the BOOKS, diving into everything affecting Gen Z such as family, culture, social media, depression, anxiety, dating, parenting, the list goes on. If there's an episode you absolutely must listen to, it's this one. Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textValentines Day themed... Willy and Esme are back! We dive into a lot, Valentines Day, romance within a marriage, dates, do's and do NOT's of love and yes... PORNSupport the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textIn this episode we dive into living together before getting married. Is it a good idea? Bad? What can go wrong?Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textWhy The Light Stand? Art & Nat share the purpose and vision behind this Podcast.Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/

Send us a textWilly and Esme share their story, from being high school sweethearts to being together 23 years strong. They discuss their struggle and victory journey becoming parents at a young age, social pressures from family and church, to becoming successful in the real estate arena while raising three childrenSupport the showhttps://www.instagram.com/the_lightstand/