The Melinda Eitzen Show

Episode SummaryIn this episode of The Melinda EitzenShow, Melinda Eitzen is joined by Duffee + Eitzen associate attorneys Josh Dossey and Caden Jackson to discuss the growing role of digital evidence in family law cases. From text messages and social media posts to videos, financial records, and artificial intelligence, they explore how technology is changing the way evidence is gathered, presented, and challenged in court.The conversation covers practical issues attorneys and clients face when dealing with digital evidence, including authentication requirements, concerns about AI-generated fabrications, courtroom technology challenges, and strategies for effectively introducing evidence under strict time limitations. They also discuss the risks of social media activity during a divorce, the discoverability of financial transactions, and the increasing impact of AI tools on both litigation and settlement negotiations. Throughout the episode, Melinda, Josh, and Kaden emphasize the importance of preparation, credibility, and understanding how digital information can influence the outcome of a family law case.About the GuestsJosh Dossey is an associate attorney at Duffee + Eitzen whose practice focuses on family law matters, including divorce, child custody disputes, property division, and post-divorce modifications. Josh works closely with clients to navigate both litigation and settlement while helping them effectively present evidence in court.Caden Jackson is an associate attorney at Duffee + Eitzen who represents clients in a variety of family law matters.Key Takeaways About Digital Evidence in Family LawDigital Evidence Is Everywhere: Text messages, emails, videos, social media posts, financial transactions, and online communications frequently become evidence in family law cases.Authentication Matters: Before digital evidence can be considered by the court, attorneys must establish that it is authentic and accurately represents what it claims to show.AI Creates New Challenges: Artificial intelligence can generate convincing fake communications, making verification and comparison with original records more important than ever.Context Is Critical: Screenshots rarely tell the whole story. Attorneys should review complete communication histories whenever possible.Preparation Prevents Problems: Testing videos, audio files, and courtroom technology in advance can help to avoid costly delays during hearings and trials.Social Media Can Be Powerful Evidence: Posts, photos, and comments can impact issues involving parenting, credibility, relationships, and financial claims.Nothing Is Truly Deleted: Many digital communications remain recoverable through cloud storage, backups, and hard drives, even when users believe they have been erased.Financial Records Tell Stories: Credit card statements, Venmo transactions, gambling activity, and other digital financial records can reveal important information about spending habits and asset use.Time Management Matters: Attorneys often have limited time in court, making strategic decisions about which evidence to introduce especially important.AI Is Also a Valuable Tool: When used appropriately, AI can help attorneys analyze large volumes of financial and documentary evidence more efficiently.Notable Quotes"Give me the whole conversation, not just the screenshot you think helps your case.""Judges are much more aware today that digital evidence can be fabricated.""Don't panic when evidence doesn't work the way you planned—ask for help and keep moving forward.""Nothing is ever really deleted.""Preparation is what turns digital evidence from a headache into a powerful tool.""Never surrender when it comes to getting important evidence before the court."

Melinda Eitzen welcomes longtime colleague and mental health professional Brad Craig to The Melinda Show for a thoughtful discussion about co-parenting, parenting facilitation, and helping families navigate high-conflict family law situations. Drawing from decades of experience in the mental health and family law communities, Brad shares the mission behind his Between Two Homes co-parenting course, book, and workbook—resources used by courts, attorneys, therapists, and parents across Texas and beyond.Throughout the episode, Melinda and Brad explore the emotional realities families face during divorce and separation, particularly from a child’s perspective. They discuss common co-parenting mistakes, including placing children in the middle of conflict, using children as messengers, and unintentionally creating guilt through language such as “I miss you.” Brad explains how education, empathy, and communication skills can help parents shift from being litigants to functioning co-parents focused on their children’s wellbeing.About the GuestBrad Craig is a licensed mental health professional, educator, author, and nationally recognized expert in co-parenting and high-conflict family dynamics.Brad provides parenting facilitation, co-parenting consultation, mediation support, supervised visitation services, and expert witness work throughout Texas. Through his new company, Between Two Homes Direct Services, he works with families, attorneys, and mental health professionals to promote healthier communication, reduce conflict, and prioritize children’s emotional wellbeing during and after family transitions.To contact Brad Craig, please visit Childreninthemiddle.com and Betweentwohomes.comKey Takeaways About Co-Parenting and Parenting Facilitation● Children Should Not Be Put in the Middle: Parents often unintentionally involve children in adult conflict by using them as messengers, investigators, or emotional support systems.● Small Language Changes Matter: Replacing phrases like “I miss you” with “I love you” or “I’m excited to see you” can help reduce feelings of guilt for children moving between two homes.● Education Creates Better Outcomes: Parents who complete co-parenting education often gain a better understanding of conflict, communication, boundaries, and child-centered decision-making.● Parenting Facilitation Supports Communication: Parenting facilitators help parents improve communication, resolve disputes, and focus on cooperative problem-solving rather than continued litigation.● High-Conflict Families Need Structure: Clear communication models, boundaries, and guided negotiation techniques can help reduce escalation between co-parents.● Mental Health Professionals Need Family Law Training: Brad emphasizes the importance of ethical, informed mental health practices within court-involved family cases.● Collaborative and Child-Focused Approaches Matter: The goal should be helping families function more effectively after separation—not increasing conflict through litigation.Notable Quotes“Education in advance is empowerment.”“It seems so innocent to say ‘I miss you,’ but children can internalize guilt from that.”“We want parents to focus on being a family instead of litigants.”“Our job is to educate, empower, and eventually wean families off the need for intervention.”“The number one complaint I hear is: ‘I wish I had taken this sooner.’”“We all make mistakes. We just try to make new ones.”