PODCAST · society
The Messy Inbetween
by TMI podcast
Hosts - Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M.This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy.In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey. #tmipodcastke #themessyinbetween #itsmessedupInstagram handles - @tmipodcast_ @_lydiakm @murugi.munyiGet in touch with us - [email protected]
Episodes
-
Sex Hills We’re Willing to Die On | Episode 233
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beduc.at/bg2635-tmipodcast It’s Friday🤩! And you know we’re back with another fire episode🔥 On today’s episode, we’re discussing the sex hills we’re willing to die on😂 And guys, please let us know… are we exaggerating?😭 Someone…
more -
Things That Work in Relationships But Social Media Says Leave | Episode 232
Happy new month, Inbetweeners. May your September be filled with love, kindness, positivity, peace of mind, laughter, healing, and plenty of good days. Today’s episode is all about those things that are working perfectly fine in your relationship, but according to social media, y’all should have...
-
What Would We Do If…? | Episode 231
What’s good, Inbetweeners? Happy episode day! Thank you for all the love on our last episode. We appreciate every like, comment and share❤️. We’re back with another episode of dilemmas, but this time, we’re switching things up a little. These aren’t your usual “My boyfriend has been cheating on…
more -
Hey Big Sisters | Dilemma Epd | Episode 230
Another Friday, another mess to unpack 👀 And today’s mess is your dilemmas. Oufff, they were HEAVY😭 We went through some of the dilemmas you sent us via DMs on TikTok and Instagram, and Kenyan male celebrities, y’all are NOT safe! 🤣 Girls are out here doing some crazy things! Some of the...
-
Money Mistakes We've Made in the Name of Love | Episode 229
Click here to buy Tides movie tickets: https://kenyabuzz.com/movies/preview/tides Happy Friday Inbetweeners!🎙️ We have guests on today’s episode! The talented Sarah Hassan and Brian Kabugi, who play Salma and Biko in the movie Tides, joined us for a conversation about the money mistakes we’ve…
more -
Sex Mistakes We've Made in the Name of Love | Episode 228
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment, take the quiz: https://beduc.at/bg2631-tmipodcast Happy new month, Inbetweeners!✨ Wishing you nothing but great wins this August❤️. Now... today's episode😭...A lot of us can relate to this one because, at some point, we've all made sex...
-
Reacting to Messy Mondays | Episode 227
Happy Friday! How are you all doing? We hope you're doing great wherever you're tuning in from. Hee... Messy Mondays! You guys are messyyyyyy. If you're new here, Messy Mondays is our weekly segment where Inbetweeners confess the wild, funny, awkward, and downright questionable things they did…
more -
Is the Group Chat Ruining Your Relationship? | Episode 226
It's Friday🤩! And you know we're back with another fire episode. First, thank you for all the love on the last one. We appreciate you so much❤️🥰. So... is your group chat ruining your relationships? When you're dating or married, does your partner know everything you're saying…
more -
Hot or Cringe...Sex Edition | Episode 225
Discover your path to greater sexual confidence and fulfillment. https://beduc.at/bg2627-tmipodcast Your ribs will be aching after this episode. It's that funny🤣🤣 Happy Friday, Inbetweeners! Hope your day is going great. Today's episode is all about Hot or Cringe? Sex Edition. Is being called…
more -
Things People Say to Single People That May Seem Supportive but Are Actually Annoying | Episode 224
TMI is FIVE 🥹🤩❤️ 5 years of The Messy Inbetween, honest conversations, and a community that's become home. Our Inbetweeners, we appreciate you so much, thank you for loving and supporting this thing we built. Singles, come to the front right now 😭 you know those things people say that sound...
-
The Do's & Don'ts of Male Female Friendships | Episode 223
Happy New Month, Inbetweeners! You made it to July 🎉 May this new month bring you peace, love, comfort and so much happiness. Today's episode is all about opposite gender friendships, how to navigate them, and the do's and don'ts. We had very differing views on this one and honestly the…
more -
Hey Big Sisters | Dilemma Epd | Episode 222
Happy Friday Inbetweeners! 🎙️ We promised you guys a dilemma episode every so often and we're keeping that promise. This one had everything: getting bored of your partner after a month, deadbeat partners, guns, betrayal etc. Thank you to everyone who sent in a dilemma, we see you and we'll be...
-
An Inbetweener Once Said... | Episode 221
It's Episode Friday Inbetweeners🖤 We're back with one of your most loved episodes — An Inbetweener Once Said. This time we went through your comments from our previous episodes and... yeah, you guys do not hold back 😭 Would we still be friends if TMI never happened? Being too available for your...
-
Questions People Are Secretly Googling About Sex & Masturbation | Episode 220
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beduc.at/bg2618-tmipodcast Happy Friday! How are you all doing? We hope you're doing great wherever you're tuning in from. We're back with another one, and this episode is really everything TMI stands for. Honest, unfiltered, a…
more -
First Date Fails: Men's Edition | Episode 219
Happy TMI Friday Inbetweeners! 🎉 Before we get into it, we have some EXCITING news. We just launched the TMI x Enkata Galaxy Collection and we are so obsessed with how the watches turned out. They are absolutely beautiful and we could not be more excited about this partnership. You can shop the...
-
Deinfluencing You From Internet Advice That's Ruining Your Relationship | Episode 218
Hey Inbetweeners, happy Friday! Long time no see. Life really comes at you fast. Murugi recently lost her close uncle and we had to take some time off, which is why we have been away for a bit. Thank you for being patient with us. But we’re back and today’s episode is one you’ll probably want to...
-
Reasons Why You’d Want to Be Our Friend | Episode 217
It's Friyay!! 🤩🥳 Happy episode day Inbetweeners! Thank you for all your comments on our last episode...Some of y'all are STRICTTTT! but that's very okay, we get it. Today's episode is a fun one. We're talking about all the reasons you'd actually want to be our friend. And trust us, by the end…
more -
Reasons You Wouldn’t Want to Be Our Friend | Episode 216
Happy Labor Day, Inbetweeners 😊✨ How’s your Friday going so far? Ours at TMI is already off to a great start, because we’ve got a hot new episode: Reasons You Wouldn’t Want to Be My Friend. “I like to be invited to places but I will not go.” Guess who said it👀? “Everything is trauma?” Who…
more -
Hey Big Sisters - Dilemma Epd | Episode 215
Long time no dilemma episode… but we’re back🤩. And this one? It’s one of those episodes that stays with you🫂. We love doing dilemma episodes because one story is rarely just one story. What one person is going through is often something so many others are quietly dealing with too. So every time...
-
My Sexual Partner Once Told Me...| Episode 214
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beduc.at/bg2624-tmipodcast Happy Friday🤩🤩!Eeeey Inbetweeners😌...Who are you guys dating though? We asked you on Instagram to finish the sentence “My sexual partner once told me…” and wow… the submissions? Wild 😭. But also, small...
-
Things Women Don't Get Enough Credit For | Episode 214
Happy Episode Day! 🤩 Last week’s episode had y’all triggered but we’re not getting into that today👀. Women, what don’t we get enough credit for? EVERYTHINGGGGGGG. The PMS, the period itself, the cramps, pregnancy and the pressure to “bounce back.” The list is never ending for sure. What did we...
-
Things Good Men Don't Get Enough Credit For | Episode 213
Happy Easter Weekend, Inbetweeners🐰🤩🎉. Your weekend is already sorted because we have a brand new episode out today🥳. We filmed this one at the beautiful Dusit Princess Nairobi in Westlands. The hotel is stunning, the rooms are spacious, and they have a heated pool, a well-equipped gym, and...
-
Unexplored Pathways To Pleasure | Episode 211
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beducate.me/bg2612-tmipodcast Let's get out of the ordinary and into the unexplored path ways to pleasure... Staying naked more often! That does some magic on unlocking your relationship with your body and your self in general.…
more -
Things We're Still Figuring Out In Our 30's...|Episode 210
Happy Friday, Eid Mubarak to all our Muslim Ibetweeners🥳🌙We hope you’re having a really soft, beautiful day. Let’s get into today’s conversation… There are still things we’re figuring out in our 30s. It might not always look like it, but trust us… there’s a lot we haven’t quite cracked yet.…
more -
Sex Toys...Where Do You Draw The Line? | Episode 209
Happy Friday Inbetweeners🤩. Let’s talk about the toy drawer💦👀... Where do you actually draw the line? In this episode we share our sex toy stories, how we first discovered them, what the experience has been like for us, and the boundaries we have had to set so that pleasure does not turn into...
-
Things You Need to Decenter as a Woman | Episode 208
Good afternoonnn, It’s lunchtimeee and TMIII just dropped a new oneeee🎶🎵 Flow with u💃💃 Anyway, Happy International Women’s Day, Queenbetweeners. Our true ride-or-dies, thank you for being such an integral part of our movement… The Messy Inbetween. We appreciate and love you so much❤️.In line...
-
Q n A | Episode 207
It’s definitely… TMI Fridaysssss 🤩🤩 New episode. New montage. And yes...we finally delivered the new montage we’ve been promising 💃💃(For the audio gang, its on our YouTube) On today’s episode, we’re answering some of the questions you sent us on Instagram. Also… can we talk about Messy…
more -
Unhinged Feminine Beauty Hacks | Episode 206
Your daily dose of happiness is here! TMI FRIDAYSSS🤩🤩.Today’s agenda? Unhinged Feminine Beauty Hacks. And listen… some of them are wild. For example...Speaking affirmations to your water before you drink it, marrying the right person(apparently stress = wrinkles 😭), good sleep, eating your...
-
Things We Assume Come Naturally, But Actually Don't... | Episode 205
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment. Take the quiz: https://beducate.me/bg2608-tmipodcast Happy Valentine’s❤️. How are you spending yours? Date night with your manz? Galentines? Or you and your popcorn catching feelings over strangers on the internet🤭? In case you missed it,...
-
Our 2026 Ins & Outs | Episode 204
Surpriseeeee🤩🎉 No, you're not dreaming , it’s actually a new episode, dropping on a Friday! Hey Inbetweeners! Happy New Year 🥂 How have you been? We missed you so much during our two-month break, so we decided to come back quietly with a likkle sumn’. This is our first episode of the year and...
-
From the Peaks to the Pits...Our 2025 Recap | Epd 203
The last episode of 2025! We did it, Inbetweeners! Happy Wednesday and welcome to our final episode of the year. What. A. Year. We’ve both had our fair share of lows including losing loved ones and some really beautiful highs. Jo launched her lip product business (The Lip Tribe!) and stepped into...
-
Movie Moments That are Red Flags in Real Life |Epd 202
Get your annual Beducated subscription for just $69 this November! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2522-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast69 Climaxing together in one minute, falling in love in two days… umm, absolutely not. Today we’re talking about the things movies sell to us as...
-
Less of… & More of… Sex, Relationships & Friendships |Epd 201
Get your annual Beducated subscription for just $69 this November! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2542-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast69 Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! Less penetration, more everything else — spanking, choking, toys 👀 In the spirit of Black November, we’re getting...
-
Big Girl Jobs, Older Men & Friendship Breakups |Epd 200
200 episodes in the bag💼🤩✨We did that!🥰 The giveaway post goes up on our Instagram this week, so keep an eye out and make sure you participate. This week, we’re continuing the conversation on canon events that shape you as a woman, from the boyfriend who was secretly your biggest hater, to the...
-
Canon Events That Shape You as A Woman |Epd 199
Your weekly source of joy is here! Happy Happy Wednesday! We’re talking about the canon events that shaped us as women — the moments that completely changed how we see the world. From realizing that what happened to you was actually sexual assault, to that sudden frontal lobe upgrade that,...
-
What's Destroying Relationships More Than Cheating? |Epd 198
Get 50% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2538-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast We’ve always thought cheating was the biggest relationship destroyer but baby, there’s a lot more shaking things up nowadays. From addiction and neglect to lack…
more -
Abortion Truths No One Talks About | Epd 197
Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! You guys sent us so many questions after our “Stranger Removal” episode and we heard you❤ This week, we’re answering some of them and breaking down some of the biggest myths around abortion. To help us unpack your questions, we sat down with Dr. John Nyamu, a...
-
How to Ruin a Date 101 |Epd 196
Hey Inbetweeners💖 We missed you last week but guess what… we’re back with another banger 🎉 This time we’re talking about the things that can completely ruin a date. Like imagine pulling up cute and ready only for him to ask you to pay for your own meal 🍽️😩 or spend the whole date talking…
more -
Unspoken rules of Situationships |Epd 195
Let’s talk situationshipssss! The real pandemic among the youth 🤣. On this episode we’re getting into the tea: what actually makes a situationship different from a relationship or FWB, plus the unspoken rules (like knowing it’s time-limited, and safe sex is a must 👀). We are doing the work of...
-
So…Are you really happy with your sex life right now? |Epd 194
Get 50% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2534-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast ✨ Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! ✨ We recently asked you on our Instagram: “What’s one thing you’d change about your current sex life?” and whew🥲the answers told...
-
STRANGER REMOVAL |Epd 193
“CTRL+Z” aka abortion...That’s the conversation on today's episode. Recent trends show just how alarming the rate of unsafe abortions in Kenya is, some even calling it “stranger removal.” In this episode, we’re shining a light on the realities behind this, from the education gap in our society,...
-
An Inbetweener Once Said...|Epd 192
It’s TMI Wednesday✨ Today we’re reacting to your comments from episode 190: Life is Messy. You guys shared what life is teaching you, from learning to slow down, to trusting that things will always work out and honestly, we had the best time reading through them🫶🏽 Enjoy the episode & we'll see...
-
Hey Big Sisters-Dilemma Epd | Epd 191
It’s been a minute since we did a dilemma episode, but the wait is over! First, thank you for being so open with us—sharing your dilemmas really helps us figure out what conversations we need to lean into more. Got a dilemma? Slide into our DMs! We might reply to you directly, share it...
-
Life is Messy!!! | Epd 190
This one wasn’t even supposed to happen 😅 We sat down to shoot a dilemma episode, but ended up just catching up — and it turned out to be the conversation we didn’t know we needed. Hope you love it as much as we did recording it 💕 And don’t worry, the next one is definitely your dilemmas!…
more -
We’ ve tasted employment & self-employment, We highly recommend a rich, generous husband | Epd 189
Rich generous husband, any day everyday!😅 We recently came across this trend and decided to hop on it: "I have tasted X, I have tasted Y & I highly recommend Z. Do you agree with the ones we’ve shared in the episode? Drop your own examples in the comments — we’d love to hear them! Link to…
more -
Why is the Worst Man Always the Best in Bed?👀| Epd 188
Get 60% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated!🔗: https://beducate.me/bg2530-tmipodcast Today's episode is all about Sex! The different kinds of sex people have depending on the season of life they are in. Make-up sex, Toxic sex...the one with the worst man you know, but somehow it's the best...
-
I knew I couldn’t marry him when…|Epd 187
Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! 🎊 Today we’re talking about that moment you realized you could never marry him… We asked you on Instagram to submit your responses and you guys did not hold back! From “he sent the exact amount for Uber money” to “he said sometimes you have to slap a woman,” some of...
-
Growing Through It |Epd 186
Guess who’s backkkkk? Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners — we’ve missed you so much! We’re officially back, and what better way to ease in than with a good old catch-up? Life has really been happening, whew! In this episode, we’re discussing what it’s been like "growing through it" for the last couple...
-
Propaganda I’m Falling For |Epd 185
It’s TMI Wednesdayyy! In today’s episode, we’re getting into the propaganda we’re totally falling for 100%, from romantic love and contraception, to financial literacy, zero days, and even some sexual preferences we’re lowkey warming up to 👀 Definitely an episode you’ll want to watch! What is a...
-
Propaganda I’m not falling for…| Epd 184
Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! Propaganda is a sustained effort by a group of people to get you to believe or try something. Has alcohol overconsumption been glamorized a bit too much? What about bleaching? Minimalism? These are just a few of the things we unpack in today’s episode as we discuss…
more
We're indexing this podcast's transcripts for the first time — this can take a minute or two. We'll show results as soon as they're ready.
No matches for "" in this podcast's transcripts.
No topics indexed yet for this podcast.
Loading reviews...
ABOUT THIS SHOW
Hosts - Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M.This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy.In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey. #tmipodcastke #themessyinbetween #itsmessedupInstagram handles - @tmipodcast_ @_lydiakm @murugi.munyiGet in touch with us - [email protected]
HOSTED BY
TMI podcast
Loading similar podcasts...
Frequently Asked Questions
How many episodes does The Messy Inbetween have?
The Messy Inbetween currently has 238 episodes available on PodParley. New episodes are automatically indexed when they're published to the podcast feed.
What is The Messy Inbetween about?
Hosts - Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M.This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy.In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey. #tmipodcastke #themessyinbetween #itsmessedupInstagram handles -...
How often does The Messy Inbetween release new episodes?
The Messy Inbetween publishes regularly with 238 episodes available. Check the episode list for the typical release schedule.
Where can I listen to The Messy Inbetween?
You can listen to The Messy Inbetween on PodParley by clicking any episode. We provide an embedded audio player for direct listening, and you can also subscribe via your preferred podcast app using the RSS feed.
Who hosts The Messy Inbetween?
The Messy Inbetween is created and hosted by TMI podcast.
URL copied to clipboard!