The Sassy Show

Join Bethany on The Sassy Show as she sits down with renowned photographic artist Ajamu X in his studio for an intimate conversation about black queer bodies, pleasure, sensuality, and the radical act of gentleness. From his post-punk roots in Northern England to his darkroom practice, Ajamu shares his philosophy on creating softer representations of black masculinity, his inspiration from the artist Rotimi Fani-Kayode, his love of old-school African-American porn magazines, and why he'd rather be called punk than queer. Expect honest talk about foot fetishes, the sensuousness of image processing, navigating the art world as a black queer artist, and why his advice to younger artists is simple: be kinkier, be sexier, push it further. This is a conversation about feeling rather than just seeing - from the darkroom to the dungeon, honey. Get to know Ajamu's work on ig @ajamustudios and via his website ajamu-studio.com Interview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2 Filmed by Ciaran Christopher @ciaran.christopher Produced and edited by @_thesassyshowKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

In this powerful episode, award-winning podcaster and South Asian feminist Sangeeta Pillai joins The Sassy Show to discuss her debut memoir Bad Daughter. From growing up in Mumbai's slums to landing on Times Square billboards, Sangeeta shares her journey of breaking cultural conditioning, surviving mental health struggles, and challenging the white middle-class gatekeepers of UK publishing. After 39 rejections despite her success with the award-winning Masala Podcast, she self-published her book 'Bad Daughter' - and she's here to tell other creatives why they should stop waiting for permission. We dive into healing beyond therapy, the power of being a "bad daughter," and why resilience isn't just about surviving - it's about becoming bigger, bolder, and more yourself. This conversation will inspire you to choose your own path, no matter who tells you it's impossible. Get your hands on Sangeet's book Bad Daughter worldwide Follow her on IG @soulsutras Check out her website: soulsutras.co.uk Head to the Bad Daughter websiteKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Roxanne Murray - aka the Multiple Sclerosis Fashionista - has spent nearly two decades transforming personal pain into powerful advocacy. After eight years of misdiagnosis rooted in medical racism, Roxy finally received her MS diagnosis at 26. Now she's on a mission to reclaim pleasure, joy, and visibility for disabled communities. "I want my pleasure back," she declares. Through her work, she's challenging systems, breaking taboos, and insisting that disabled people deserve it all - pleasure, access, and representation.From quickfire questions about porn and nudity to deep conversations about racism in healthcare, Roxanne shares her journey from misdiagnosis to becoming a powerhouse voice for change. Discover why disabled people are "hot as f***," how orgasms are part of wellness, and why the remote control proves accessibility benefits everyone. Expect mesh, latex dreams, hot vampire vibes and radical pleasure advocacy.Keep up to date with Roxy's work by following her on IG @multiplesclerosisfashionistaHear Roxy's episode on Myelin & Melanin hereAnd catch Roxy's monthly column 'Roxy's Radar' on New PathwaysInterview and portraits by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

This week, we're joined by Inu, a shibari enthusiast and inclusive kink advocate who's shattering myths about asexuality, desire, attraction, and pleasure. Tune in to hear Inu discuss why being Ace doesn't mean being a robot, how asexuality exists on a spectrum within kink spaces, and why "friends with benefits" means exactly what you think it does. From navigating dating apps to finding liberation in rope bondage, Inu shares his journey of unapologetic self-discovery, the power of communication, and why being a "power bottom" is all about earning respect. Expect myth-busting, philosophy, and some seriously sassy quick-fire rounds about what it really means to be asexual in alternative lifestyle communities. Follow Inu on their IG account @xshibarinux and find him on fetlife at xPuppy_Princex for more sassyness. Interview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Bethany sits down with kink educator and content creator Alice Lovegood (Better Sx Blog) for a candid, funny, and deeply honest conversation about polyamory, pleasure, kink, going viral online, and creating real-life spaces for people to connect. Alice shares her journey from OnlyFans to education, the challenges of visibility, and how she’s reshaping conversations around sex—one video, one workshop, and one event at a time. Since recording this episode, Alice Lovegood has her her ig account @bettersx.blog wrongfully suspended. You can help by appealing directly via IG.  Find out here.Get to know Alice's work below:Follow her new IG @alicelovegoodwhoWebsite - bettersx.blogBound to Meet EventInterview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

This month on The Sassy Show, BxSassy is joined by two trailblazing burlesque superstars who are redefining what cabaret can look like: Miss Terri Boxx and Mama Mamba. From MMA cages to cabaret stages, Miss Terri Boxx has lipsynced her way into the drag and burlesque scene as a bearded queen who defies mainstream ideals and captivates audiences with fantastical, magnetic artistry. Mama Mamba brings her own fire in the most horny and shocking ways from staple guns to feathers and glitter, no performance is ever quite the same. Together, they share how burlesque has shaped their confidence, why representation matters in an industry still dominated by cis, white, skinny performers, and how they are using their performances to inspire others to embrace their own sassy, liberated selves. Expect a conversation full of laughter, honesty, and a peek behind the glitter — from stage nerves and community love, to the radical power of queerness, creativity, and self-expression. 👉 Follow Miss Terri Boxx: @miss.terriboxx 👉 Follow Mama Mamba: @mama.mambaKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Photographer Tigz Rice joins the Sassy Show to talk all things body empowerment, sexy poses, and how going viral reshaped her mission to make all bodies visible. From burlesque beginnings to building a global community, Tigz is showing us what radical self-acceptance really looks like—one shot at a time.Tune in and get to know Tigz online @TigzRice   Website: https://www.tigzrice.com/Interview by Bethany BurgoyneProduced: The Sassy ShowStudio: OSR StudioKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

The Sassy Show is back, honey! Season 10 kicks off with a bang as BxSassy welcomes Lola and January to the sofa. Known for their bold presence in the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and kink scenes, this episode dives deep into what it means to be nesting partners, to love consciously, and to build community with intention. From confronting mainstream relationship myths to the beauty of sober kink spaces, this chat is equal parts cheeky and wise. We get the lowdown on Lola’s event Lucid—a sober, inclusive play party—and an exclusive on their biggest event yet, happening 29th November. Tune in for raw truths, playful confessions, and a whole lot of sassy inspiration.Save the Date: Lucid’s next big event – 29 NovemberFollow @miss_masochist_ and @lucid_sober_events for updatesKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Welcome to a world where independent makers shine, where kink is celebrated with confidence, and where shopping becomes an experience of self-expression. This week on The Sassy Show, we talked with Alexandra Houston about her journey creating Charmskool - a vibrant, female-led marketplace championing independent businesses. With the new launch of Charmskool Showroom, we get an inside look into it's constantly growing and evolving selection of the very best handpicked international brands showcasing everything from fetishwear to fashion, to erotic art, quirky gifts, homewares and toys. Whether you're interested in fashion, supporting independent businesses, or finding your own path to bold self-expression, this conversation offers inspiration and practical insights from someone who's created a space where creativity thrives.Keep up to date with Alexandra's work via her IG @charmskool.showroom and @charmskool.shopInterview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2 Podcast Sponsored by JOYclub.com - we'd love you to join us over on JOYclub where we have our own special group for sassy conversations, uncensored and open-minded. Use our code for a free premium membership - 2BXS4Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

From rope art to app design, Anna Kii is transforming sexual taboos through creativity.Step into the creative studio of Anna Kii on this episode of The Sassy Show. As founder of Figure of A, shibari educator, and co-creator of the innovative Phantasies App, Anna is on a mission to elevate kink from underground subculture to mainstream appreciation. Bethany and Anna discuss the beautiful intersection of rope art and fashion, building a supportive business community, and using technology to create safe spaces for fantasy exploration. From her graphic design roots to becoming a confident performer and entrepreneur, Anna's journey shows how embracing our desires can lead to both personal fulfillment and professional success.Big love to our sponsors JOYclub.com who offer a safe and friendly space for those sassy connections to flourish. Sign up as a premium member for FREE using the code 2BXS4 Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

This week on The Sassy Show, Bethany welcomes the incredible Reed Amber – a trailblazing force in sex education, adult content creation, and media production as the brilliant co-creator of Come Curious. Reed shares her fascinating journey from TV production student to multifaceted media professional, revealing how her genuine curiosity about sex led her through every role in the adult industry from runner to performer to director. With characteristic honesty, she opens up about creating spaces like her Tickle Enthusiasm event where people can embrace their authentic desires, how turning 30 transformed her relationship with confidence, and why sobriety has supercharged her creativity.Reed's mission to destigmatize conversations about bodies, pleasure, and taboo desires shines through as she discusses the importance of finding your community and embracing what makes you unique. Tune in for a candid, educational, and utterly sassy conversation that will leave you feeling inspired to explore your own authentic self..Big love to our sponsors JOYclub.com who offer a safe and friendly space for those sassy connections to flourish.  Sign up as a premium member for FREE using the code 2BXS4 Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Award-winning journalist Anna Lekas Miller is transforming how we understand global migration and conflict through an unexpected lens: love stories. In her latest appearance on The Sassy Show, she offers a compelling glimpse into her work as both a storyteller and someone who has lived the complexities of cross-border relationships.Known as the journalist who 'spices up migration stories with tales of love and romance,' Anna shares intimate insights into her journey from covering war zones to writing her debut book 'Love Across Borders.' She reads the captivating opening chapter, revealing her own cross-border love story and accidental marriage proposal, while discussing how meeting her Syrian husband Salam transformed both her personal life and reporting perspective. With warmth and humor, Anna explores the challenges of international relationships, visa restrictions, and how finding love helped her discover a new way to tell stories of resilience, hope, and human connection in conflict zones.Buy Love Across Borders online or at your local bookstore.Catch Anna's work online via her IG @annalekasmiller and subscribe to her Substack pagePodcast Sponsored by JOYclub.com - we'd love you to join us over on JOYclub where we have our own special group for sassy conversations, uncensored and open-minded. Use our code for a free premium membership - 2BXS4Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

This episode of The Sassy Show we’re diving into the world of shibari with Frayed Knots—a rigger, performer, and all-round sass pot with a wealth of experience in the kink community. But this isn’t just about rope. It’s about queerness, masculinity, risk, and the responsibility we all have in creating safer, more inclusive spaces.Frayed Knots speaks candidly about what it’s like to navigate the kink scene as a cis man, how queer spaces have shaped him, and why being accountable for your actions is far more important than fearing ‘cancel culture.’ Reminding us that "mistakes happen—but it’s how you handle them that matters." Learn more about Frayed Knots via his IG @frayed_knots_Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

This week on The Sassy Show, we welcome Giap Tongsayor, a transformative facilitator specializing in conscious embodiment practices and healing rituals. Weaving together breathwork, sound healing, sensory stimulation and kink dynamics, Giap shares with us her mission to create inclusive healing spaces, particularly for women of color. And offers her insights about empowerment through conscious kink. Having moved from Thailand to the UK as a teenager, Giap is currently in the process of writing a book exploring how cultural experiences such as sex tourism and being a Pro Domme shaped her approach to sex, the body and her healing work. We hear the fundamental reasons behind Giap’s mission to create sacred spaces, and how ritual can be a pathway to releasing shame and trauma.Get to know Giap Tongsayor and let her knowledge wash you with a mind opening perspective of psychology, sensuality and a touch of BDSM.Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

This week we're joined by Logan Star, a curator of pleasurable experiences and founder of queer kinky rave Quench. Logan is known on the scene for his work in making kinky spaces accessible to the BIPOC community and opening dialogue for vulnerable conversations. We hear Logan tell Sassy about the fundamentals of safeguard monitoring on the scene and how his own upbringing has shaped his vocal advocation for the safety of people entering kink spaces.Tune in, get to know and evolve in your own ways to, as Logan would say, "light up".Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Join us for a raw and revelatory episode of The Sassy Show featuring Ishmael Kirby, the multifaceted artist behind the politically charged drag persona CYRO. In this intimate conversation, Ishmael opens up about his journey through political theatre, punk music, and drag artistry, discussing the complexities of authenticity in the entertainment industry and the power of choosing oneself. From performing at Glastonbury to co-hosting Europe's largest drag king competition Man Up!, Ishmael shares profound insights about artistic integrity, community support, and the transformative power of drag. This episode delves deep into the intersection of art, identity, and activism, offering a compelling look at the reality behind the stage lights. Tune in or watch along on YouTube.Ticket link here for BOOBLESS fundraiser 18th January Sponsored by JOYclub - our home for all things EXTRA Sassy!Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Join The Sassy Show as we dive deep into the groundbreaking Fetish and Kink Summit run by Seed Talks, bringing listeners exclusive interviews with leading experts and advocates who are dismantling misconceptions about human sexuality. This extraordinary collection of conversations features powerful voices from diverse backgrounds—including disability rights advocates, psychotherapists, and community organizers—exploring the nuanced realities of desire, consent, and personal empowerment. Through raw, honest storytelling, these speakers challenge societal norms, amplify marginalized perspectives, and create a radical space for understanding the multifaceted nature of sexual expression, identity, and connection.Featured speakers from the Fetish and Kink Summit:Munjeeta Sohal (Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist)Website: munjeeta.comInstagram: @kink.and.cuddles | @munjeetaElle Adana (Clinical Psychologist & Kink Specialist)Instagram: @the.constellationshipLibby Oliver (Disabled Rights Advocate & Founder of House of Arcane)Instagram: @arcanely2Roxy Murray (Disability Rights Advocate & Sex-Positive Activist)Instagram: @multiplesclerosisfashionistaPhopy (Intersectional Advocate)Katie Evans (GSRD Therapist)Website: www.kecounselling.co.ukInstagram: @kecounsellingWatch the full series of interviews over on YouTube .Audio and Visual by Angelina CageEdited and presented by Bethany BurgoyneThis podcast is sponsored by our friends joyclub.com - the online kink-positive community bringing like minded folks together. We have a special sassy group for uncensored conversations for our JOYclub members so come join us - The Sassy Show Listeners!Sign up for a free premium membership today by hitting the link and using the code 2BXS4Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

April Fiasco is a powerhouse of intersectional activism, wielding her talents as a burlesque performer, comedian, writer, host, and stripper to challenge societal norms and amplify marginalized voices. More than an entertainer, she is a dedicated activist committed to decriminalizing sex work and revolutionizing sex education. Through her multifaceted artistic practice, April creates spaces of radical education, challenging audiences to reconsider deeply ingrained misconceptions about sexuality, labor, and bodily autonomy.In a raw, unfiltered conversation with Bethany on The Sassy Show podcast, April Fiasco pulls back the curtain on the complex world of sex work, challenging societal misconceptions and celebrating the artistry, skill, and resilience of sex workers. As well as introducing us to Cybertease - an online socialist stripper collective founded by a group of sex workers seeking to create an alternative to traditional strip club models. Tune in or watch via YouTube.Connect with April:- Instagram: @aprilfiasco- Twitter: @aprilfiasco_- Cybertease website and @cybertease_ on Instagram and Twitter Catch their upcoming shows Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Join host Bethany Burgoyne as she dives deep into the world of kink, cinema, and liberation with Venus Raven and Amy, the dynamic duo behind the London Fetish Film Festival (LFFF). Celebrating its fifth anniversary, LFFF is the ultimate fusion of fetish and film, born from Venus’s passion for cinema and her unapologetic embrace of BDSM culture. In this special episode, Venus and Amy share their journey, inspirations, and vision for this year's festival at Islington's Hen and Chicken's Theatre, where they’ll showcase films that are as provocative as they are empowering.Fueled by a mission to dismantle harmful BDSM stereotypes and create an inclusive space for the LGBTQIA+ kink community, LFFF explores everything from the sensual to the subversive. Expect uncensored conversations about freedom of expression, fetish’s role in filmmaking, and how LFFF has carved a unique space for taboo topics on screen.This episode is brought to you by JOYclub, your community for alternative lifestyles and kink culture. Tune in and get ready for a revealing conversation about the intersection of art, identity, and desire—only on The Sassy Show.Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

In this episode of The Sassy Show, cohosts Asha and Sassy are joined by the vibrant and soulful Jared Philippo—an underground DJ turned founder of Pinky Promise where intimacy, pleasure, and connection are liberated in a festival, cabaret inspired environment. Together, the three of them dive into a conversation about the magic of creating spaces where sensuality and creativity flourish, exploring how playful exploration and soulful intimacy can help us heal, connect, and rediscover joy.Jared shares his unique journey from the underground music scene to hosting transformative events like Pinky Promise, where people come together to heal, explore their desires, and experience connection without pressure. Whether you're curious about sensuality, interested in self-discovery, or just looking for a space to be your true self, this episode is for you.Sponsored by JOYclub.comThis episode touches on themes of sensuality, body positivity, and being pleasure-positive in a world that often underplays joy and exploration. If you're looking to dive deeper into the world of connection, joy, and soul-nourishing experiences, then head to Pinky Promise's website & become inspired.Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Join us on The Sassy Show as host Bethany Burgoyne welcomes Angel, the visionary founder of Catnip, a groundbreaking party for the FLINTA community—those who identify as Female, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans, or Agender. In this episode, Angel shares her journey from feeling excluded in traditional nightlife to creating a vibrant, inclusive space where everyone can feel welcome. Listen in as Angel discusses the challenges faced by marginalized communities, the transformative power of belonging, and the innovative ways Catnip fosters connection and joy. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that celebrates community and creativity in queer nightlife! This podcast episode was sponsored by JOYclub - the online sex-positive community that brings together curious, kinky wonders from all walks of life.Learn more about Angel via her ig @angel_in_a_cage_80Follow Catnip on ig @catnip_productions_londonKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Pushing boundaries, celebrating bodies, and fostering a community of inclusivity, Posey’s Big Fat Cabaret champions the art of drag with a fresh, fat liberationist twist.Posey, also known as Mitzi Fitz, is a dynamic genderqueer performer, drag artist, and founder of Big Fat Cabaret. Their work blends drag, clowning, and kink-focused burlesque to create performances that celebrate body diversity, humor, and queerness. They sat down with Sassy host Bethany Burgoyne to discuss their journey so far and what motivations them regarding performance, community and kink.Tracklist:Big Spender - Shirley BasseyPink Pony Club - Chapelle RoanTempo - LIzzo ft Missy ElliotPursuit of Happiness - Kid CudiChelsea Hotel No 2 - Leonard CohenKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Tune in to hear how Phil Samba is Breaking Barriers in Sexual Health Advocacy and Fighting HIV Stigma.Phil Samba, a passionate HIV activist, educator, writer and host of The Other Blue Pill podcast, is on a mission to shed light on the lesser-known history of PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) and its delayed introduction into the UK’s National Health Service (NHS). Through his work, Samba aims to dismantle systemic inequalities in healthcare, especially within Black and LGBTQ+ communities, while raising awareness about the importance of sexual health education and the need for inclusive, stigma-free healthcare services.Phil sat down with Sassy founder, Bethany Burgoyne, to discuss the learning curves and motivations of his work weaving his personal life into the professional field he moves within.Keep up to date with Phil Samba's work via IG and X @idiosyncraticxlInterview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2For more information check out the links below:The Love TankQueer HealthPrepsterKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

The B behind BxSassy - meet our founder, Bethany Burgoyne.Want to know more about the sassiest person behind The Sassy Show? Your dream has come true honeys! Bringing you an exclusive interview with our sassy founder, Bethany Burgoyne aka @bxsassy2 in conversation with new cohost and delicious friend Asha aka @pat__elle We hear about who Bethany Burgoyne is beyond the internet: her quirks, her deep fear of falling in love and how vocal healing with @teshaymakeda_ changed her life. As well as songs that have kept her company over the years including tunes from Billie Holiday @agaama_ and @charlottedossantos_ Head to @_thesassyshow to learn more about @bxsassy2 and co-host @pat__elle in the features section on our website.Tracklist:In this life - AGAAMA @agaama_Holding Back - Prince of Falls @princeoffallsSmile - Meakoom @meakoomTake It Slow - Charlotte Dos Santos @charlottedossantos_ Intro - Summer Pearl @iamsummerpearlDark July - Kenzie TTH @kenzietthSummer Soft - Stevie WonderGirl Blunt - Leikeli47Intro (Like Velvet) - Nao @naoI SAID NO - BxSassy @bxsassy2There is No Greater Love - Billie HolidayI Heard Love Is Blind - Amy Winehouse (Live)Lonely Lover - Xenia Rubinos @xeniarubinosKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

From tantra to storytelling: Founder of the School of Sensual Arts, Henika Patel, is inviting a worldwide community to come together and grow in personal, collective knowledge regarding sensuality. Busting through taboos and gathering around topics such as shame, Henika is all about diving more deeply into sensual spirits which she describes as being “our innate life force and expression; it’s how we see, taste, touch and feel." In the SOSA, Henika uses somatic practices and ancient philosophy informed by her own culture to carry out the work she does “I’m Indian so I bring through some tantric and yogic philosophy which support the practices and help to instill them all the time”. She explains how “tantra is about making your life the meditation so it’s more this path of modern spirituality that you can do in the everyday” which allows people to engage and connect wherever they may be.With a new book, Sensual, fresh on the shelf Henika Patel talks to us about the process to writing her debut work. She shares the way grief and wanting to turn her body back online led her on a sensual, spiritual journey, descfribing sensuality as being “this innate force within us and how it’s naturally there to be unraveled”. Through connection to a senseful lifestyle, Henika guides people through a combination of personal stories, practical exercises and ancient philsophy for everyone to engage with and learn from.Order your copy of Sensual today (Amazon, Waterstones) and get to know more about Henika's School of Sensual Arts by visiting the website.Keep up to date with Henika's work via IG @henika.x And check out @siblinglosscommunity Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Strong, bold & confident: meet the homegrown label exploring leather as kink , Subculture. We sit down with founder and designer Randhir Pratap Singh to discuss how his love of leather led to witnessing a gap in the Indian market for clothing and accessories.  Having founded Subculture in 2020, Randhir has generated a movement of leather lovers and kink explorers, providing high quality, handcrafted products for all to enjoy. As an alternative fashion brand , Randhir discusses the many barriers that Subculture faces including censorship and finding artisans to work with. As well as the supportive queer community who have jumped on the Subculture train and are in for the ride!Be sure to check out Subculture's website and give them a follow on IG @leathersubcultureInterview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2Tracklist:Helm of the Night - Subculture campaign videoKabhi Aar Kabhi Paar - Shyama, Guru Dutt, Shamshad Begum, Aar Paar SongPiya Tu Ab Toh AajaTroye Sivan - RushElvis Presley - That's All Right (Prince From Another Planet, Live at Madison Square Garden, 1972)Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Brand Designer Priya and Voice Actor Alekya are two incredibly sassy friends whose relationship not only uplifts their personal lives, it also generates encouragement and perseverance in their creative pursuits. As BFF's, Aleyka and Priya drive forward one another's careers with comfort, sassyness, care, and creative support underlying the time they spend together. Having met Sassy host Bethany in the South of India, she couldn't resist hearing more about Alekya's journey into being a voice artist and actor, and Priya's path to being a brand designer and artist.Tune in to hear them discuss carving their own way into the arts, cherishing the way community plays a role in creating supportive networks for others to find support emotionally and artistically. As well as the societal barriers they've had to overcome, using fear as courage to move confidently into their careers, and the motivations behind their personal projects for holistic artistic care. Be sure to check them out on IG @priya.kolluru and Aleya @bohoo_ladyInterview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2Tracklist:Yun Hi Chala Chal - Udit Narayan, HariharanPhir Se Ud Chala - Mohit ChauhanEe Galilo - Wilson Herald, Nikhita SrivalliRehna Tu - A.R. RahmanVienna - Billy JoelKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Meet Aili Seghetti, the intimacy, dating and relationship coach helping people who are struggling with engaging in deeper connections (emotionally or physically). Aili works extends to helping people who are wanting to enhance their experiences of intimacy, this can include kink and alternative lifestyles (think polyamory, ENM). Having trained to be a somatic sex coach, Aili started her own business 'The Intimacy Curator' bringing people together from around India, running events  and providing coaching services. From friendly non-monogamy events to foot fetish celebrations, sensual exploration to education, The Intimacy Curator is all about busting taboos and creating space to address those sassy curiosities.In this podcast episode we hear host Bethany Burgoyne ask Aili about the plethora of ways to engage in intimacy, how living in India for almost two decades led Aili to Buddhism helping her grow as a person. As well as learning more about the ever expanding community for kink exploration and the changes in conversation about gender and sexuality.Be sure to visit The Intimacy Curator website or give them a follow on IG @theintimacycuratorTracklist:Kabhi Kabhi Mere - Lata MangeshkarEast Aur West India Is the Best - Anu MalikZindagi Meri Dance Dance - Alisha Chinai, Vijay BenedictBoom Boom - Nazie HassanBeparda - Rekha BhardwajKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Kinjal Gosar is the founder of Drocer Record - an online vinyl record store distributing new and pre-loved treasures to music lovers throughout India and beyond. As a music fanatic, Kinjal turned her passion into a business, fostering a growing community and leading the way in bringing vinyl back into the lives of many. "We're the one stop shop solution for customers - we don't just sell records, we sell record players, sleeves, everything around records." - Drocer RecordAhead of Record Store Day, bringing together fans, artists, and thousands of independent record stores around the world, we hear Kinjal discuss her journey as a business owner.  Tune in to hear about the high and lows of starting out as a women in a male dominated industry, and how her love of electronic engineering  has fused together with her joy of rock and metal leading her into a prosperous and joyful entrepreneurial life.Visit Drocer Record website here or on IG @drocer.recordInterview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2Tracklist:The Dave Brubeck Quartet - Take FivePink Floyd - The Great Gig In The Sky Queen - Let Me Entertain You Advaita - MoFunkKhruangbin -  White GlovesKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Burlesque performer Pat Elle talks to us about developing herself within the scene and sharing her culture as British-Indian performer. When deciding to perform, Pat Elle set the intention "to make people of my culture and South Asian heritage proud of how their culture is being portrayed". Embracing individuality and being authentic are two hot topics we hear Pat discuss, and how dancing (and undressing) helped her step into her sassy side.Be sure to check out Pat Elle's work on IG @pat__elleInterview by The Sassy Show founder Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2Tracklist:Choli Ke Peeche - Alka Yagnik & Ila ArunChhoti Si Aasha - A.R. Rahman MinminiBilly Rani - Pritam, Anand Raj Anand & Richa SharmaPiya Tu Ab To Aaja - Asha Bhosle & R.D. BurmanKhalasi (Coke Studio Charat) - Aditya Gadhvi & AchintMere Sapnon Ki Rani - Kishore KumarKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Aneesha Kotwani is best known for two things - her work on radio spotlighting South Asian artists and her single handed development of running events within Mumbai bringing a diversity of artists to a growing crowd of music lovers . Having found herself on the dancefloor, she places music at the forefront of all the work she does. This extends to managing female musicians and helping them grow in their career, and bringing artists to India from around the world.Having been part of the scene for over ten years, Aneesha talks to us about the highs and lows of paving her own route into the role of cultural ambassador, manager and event coordinator. As well as her personal experiences of maintaining a close knit community of friends and family around her.In this episode we hear music from KAVYA, Ditty, Traumer, Sheherazaad, and SiRGet to know about Aneesha's work via her platform WAVLNGTH or via IG @aneeshakotwaniInterview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Artist and somatic healing coach, Hansika Jethnani is using a variety of methods to help others go on a journey of deep, emotional expression.  From breathwork to body movement and painting, Hansika is weaving together various practices as a journeyer - taking people on a journey towards themself.Having come from a photography background, before becoming known for their queer friendly zines, Hansika talks to us about the role art places in her life, in parallel to breathwork and connecting with the body.  Tune in to her Hansika describe their experiences as a "third-culture kid" and how moving to India has allowed her to continue her journey of self-discovery.Get to know more about Hansika's work on IG @hansikajethnani and @healingwithhansikaTracklist: Mul Mantra - Gurunam SinghKaa - Project DamruSapu Lidi - Catur Hair WijayaMay The Love We Share - Sarka EliasBlessed We Are - PeiaInterview by Bethany BurgoyneKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Meet two of India's most renowned Voguing dancers - best friends Krish and Sunil. Having established their place on the dance scene in Mumbai, Krish and Sunil founded their own collective 'Voguing in India' inspiring others to learn the dance form and liberate themselves through freedom of expression. Tune in to hear our host Bx Sassy interview Krish and Sunil, shining a light on Mumbai's rich culture of dance and performance (hello @houseofluna__). We hear about their individual journeys to embodying movement and the collective way they are moving against the grain so as to shine bright in their talents. As well as the role models who have inspired their journey and their pursuit of dance as a career and lifestyle. Featuring Krish and Sunil's music selection from Whitney Houston, Ben Platt, Harry Styles and Donna Summer.Learn more about Krish and Sunil via IG @sunil_bormahela and  @kristheticcBe sure to follow @voguinginindiaKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Storyteller, Poet and Dancer Maxaroni N. Cheese is all about showing resistance through authenticity. Known for their empowering performance and shiny presence within the queer community, Maxaroni sits down with our host Audacious Alexa to discuss drag joy and queer liberation.Tune in to hear Maxaroni and Alexa discuss the importance of pride and how laws across the US are impacting the artistic expression of the LGBTQ+ community. Maxaroni tells us about the recent banning of drag in Texas, discussing the destructive nature of anti-trans movements, compared to the tight knit community within Portland. Alexa and Maxaroni share with us the plethora of opportunities for those wanting to perform on the west coast and the role it plays in helping folks celebrate being themselves within the queer community.Get to know Maxaroni N. Cheese via online @twinkjoy Keep up with Audacious Alexa via IG @audacious_alexaKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

The multigenre DJ  blending the sounds of her Black, Queer and POC communitiesWe're ending the sassy year in conversation with this month's guest LO-LOW. Tune in to hear LO-LOW discuss club culture, kinky communities and her journey of getting behind the decks and djing. As well as her mission to platform music from Black and POC artists. This is a fabulously uplifting conversation about growing in confidence, pursuing passions organically and stepping out of the shadow to be liberated through dance and music. So what you waiting for honeys? Get listening and check out our photoshoot with LO-LOW on The Sassy Show website.Interview recorded and aired on Islington Radio.Tracklist:Sunset - Georgie Anne MuldrowBEDBUGZ - OURAARushing - Joanne Of Art5 AM - Nesta StephanTiempo - FedzillaAlgoriddim - OkvshoSugah Daddy - Dewstiny-s CHildKeep Moving - Jaymie SilkRiding Senses - NIKSTake You There - Eliza RoseRun 2 U - TYGAPAWAct Bad - BASHKKAI Felt Love - Blue HawaiiKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Meet Pereko Makgothi and Samantha Russell,  co-founders of Last Looks Beauty;  an Afro hair and makeup agency connecting  artists (the majority of whom are women of colour) with jobs on sets. From films to advertisement, catwalks to photoshoots, Last Looks Beauty is all about providing talent and models with artists who are confident to work on various hair textures and skin tones. Having met while studying acting, Samantha and Pereko founded Last Looks Beauty after experiencing inconsistencies of hairstylists capable of styling their Afro hair on production sets.​​ We talk to them about the fundamental changes they are pushing for within the industry to avoid neglect and harm (emotionally and physically) towards people of colour.  As well as the success and challenges they've faced developing their business while living in different continents across the world.Sassy soundtrack:Victoria Monét - On My MamaAsake - OrganiseSolange Knowles - Don't Touch My HairPriya Ragu - Black Goose / Let Me Breathe (COLOURS show)Novelist and DJ Lag- BulldozerTune in to the full interview to learn more and head to Last Looks Beauty to book them for their services todayKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Accessible, experienced information, supported by Bijoux Indiscrets; Amber Mallery has been working throughout the US and Europe, researching and supporting educational conversations around pleasure and pornography. Having made a name for herself delivering a thought-provoking TED talk titled "Can pornography be a part of sex education", Amber is focusing on how to protect and support sex workers, while creating an equitable system for ethical pornography to be made. We've had the joy of connecting with Amber through her role as a sex educator for Bijoux Indiscrets - a sexual wellness store of erotic cosmetics and sensual accessories.  Tune in to the podcast interview or read on to hear Amber discusses her work with Bijoux Indiscrets and the experiences that led her to writing her current PhD.Tracklist-Release Some Tension - SWVKiss It Better - RihannaFashion Freak - Isabella LovestoryWhy Don't You Do Right - Lil' Green, Remastered 2002Woman's Touch - Yussef Dayes, Jamilah BarryKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

The Sassy Show is back on Islington Radio and this month @bxsassy2 us joined by special guest @revoltingrosy. As a performer and workshop facilitator, Rosy is all about finding ways to put the 'silly' back into life. Tune in to hear them discuss Rosy's love for poetry leading to her infamous smutty letters class. As well as her journey into playful performance, and navigating a healthy relationship with eating and bodily appearance. Its a hot, steamy, uncensored episode (as always) so prepare to sassify yourself in the BEST kind of way.Tracklist includes:Unchained Melody - The FleetwoodsFour Seasons, Spring - Recomposed,by Max RichterChampagne Shit - Janelle MonaeTime - DJ Nomi, Rapturous, SCHEMELZERLOOOVE - Travis Scott, Kid CudiHugging You - Tom Roesenthal, Billie MartinKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Meet the Burlesque artist encouraging colourful compassion.  As the producer of ‘Fetlesque’ - a night showcasing exceptional talent on the UK burlesque and drag scene - Purrsia continually prioritises the representation of her LGBTQ+ community. Alongside her work on stage and screen (Purrsia has a gorgeous modeling portfolio of sassyness), she is also committed to her activism in raising awareness of hidden disabilities and supporting those who, like her, have multiple access needs. We had the privilege of interviewing Purrsia about the work she does and her passion for nurturing community spirit.Tracklist:Song 1) Disco Housewife - Kumari SurajSong 2) True Honey Buns - Bahamadia Song 3) 4 Page Letter - AaliyahSong 4) Weak - SWVSong 5) You're Always On My Mind - SWVKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Alexa chats with sassy wonder Bramble about their kinky side and what the scene looks like in Portland. As a non-binary erotic content creator on various platforms, they discuss the economic pros and cons of sex work. As well as the sexualisation of young AFAB bodies, particularly within religious spaces.Tune in for an uplifting conversation about community and to get inspired by Alexa and Bramble's uncensored sassy sides!Catch Bramble on IG @sirboi_bramble_ or on FetlifeKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

The Sassy Show is back and this month host Bethany Burgoyne is celebrating a year on Islington Radio's airwaves. To join the party is director and filmmaker Derrick Kakembo Tune in to hear them discuss the launch of Derrick's debut short film 'KOJJA', described as a love letter to Black male parenthood, and how Derrick's Ugandan heritage continues to shape his depiction of brotherhood in London. As the founder of his own film production company Reform The Funk, be sure to catch Derrick's words of wisdom about creative leadership and how he aims to have an impact on the future of art and culture.We've got a banging line up of music, including a new release from Kumari Suraj, fresh creations from Rasha Nahas and iconic songs from SheebahCHAPTERS:01:00 Bethany introduction feat tracks Somethin' - Theo Crocker, Ego Ella May, Jeff Parker, Caribbean Baddie - Devin Di Dakota, Jericho - Iniko18:00 Kumari Suraj new single - Disco Housewife26:00 Blow - Nuri 29:00 Ya Binti - Rasha Nahas33:00 Elmagd - Dina El Wedidi39:00 Derrick Kakembo 51:00 Balo Balo - Mudra D Viral "This is the sound of the youth in Kampala, the kids are banging it out!" 60:00 Kojja, short film 71:00 Sitya Danger - Alien Slim Official75:00 Derrick's journey into the film and media industry80:00 Get to know Reform The Funk90:00 depicting the Luganda language on screen99:00 Chips Na Ketchup - Vinka “this is a big anthem in the Ugandan community”103:00 motivations and missions110:00 Kano Koze - Winnie Nwagi “this is a marriage song in Uganda, big anthem!”114:00 Quickfire round120:00 Quinamino - Azawi “a new Ugandan artist you need to get to know”Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

 Tune into our monthly show on Islington Radio: This week Bx Sassy is joined by dramaturg, director and photographer Myah Asha Jeffers (@myahismyname). They discuss Myah’s exploration of black interiority and the way she aspires to document authenticity within her creativity. As well as her Bajan identity and how telling her own stories allowed for a deeper connection of self.We’ve got a hot lineup of music waiting for you to enjoy including new tunes from @nabihahiqba, some golden oldies from Alice Coltrane and some classic Whitney Houston.Catch previous episodes of Cum Bx Sassy via Islington Radio's Mixcloud Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Meet Jasmine Gardosi, the spoken word poet and beatboxer livening up the scene through their punchy, musical exploration of issues regarding LGBT experiences and gender diversity. As the current Birmingham Poet Laureate, Jasmine has been building a name for themself touring their show 'Dancing to Music You Hate' combining poetry, beatbox and Celtic dubstep (think folk music on top of bassy beats).Having seen Jasmine perform in London at the Cockpit theatre backed by an incredible group of musicians, we were eager to learn more about the collaborative approach they take to creativity and the way language shapes the perspectives we have of ourselves within society. Expect uplifting conversations about defying gendered stereotypes and using art as a tool for rebuilding past relationships. Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Meet artist and mental health facilitator Naala - Alien Fairy whose energy for life is infectious! From the colourful dancing presence she embodies to the chorus of song and poetry that passionately flows from her lips, there isn't anyone quite like Naala, aka Naala Alien Fairy.As a multidisciplinary artist and founder of HOPE - a mental health organisation that benefits the diaspora within the Black community - Naala leads by example, pushing against the silencing of creativity that she sees limits others. Tune in to hear about Naala's unwavering mission to encourage others to be themself, and share how her experiences of managing a chronic illness have shaped her relationship to God and praying.Podcast sponsored by JOYclub.comKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Get to know the bassist and singer lighting up Turkey's jazz scene: Ceyda Köybaşıoğlu's reputation precedes her; known around town for being a highly talented bassist and rocking out to a combination of Prince, Erykah Badu and jazz-infused rnb tunes, Ceyda delivers an outstanding, characterful performance.We interviewed Ceyda to learn more about her journey as a bassist and singer. As we walk through Istanbul, Ceyda tells us about the liberation and limitations she faces as a songwriter and producer moving between rnb, soul, funk, jazz, and traditional Turkish music. Tune in to her Ceyd describe how her fluctuating mood impacts her stage performances and her motivations to reach a further audience outside of her city.Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Get to know the fashion brand created by Maya AmoahCelebrating eclectic West African richness is the brand BATIK BOUTIK created by designer Maya Amoah. Through clothing and accessories, BATIK BOUTIK is for all genders to embody contemporary designs mixed with a traditional African flair. Each piece is a fun, stand-out creation, created on a made-to-order basis that prioritises the sustainable practises of ethical fashion. While visiting Accra, we had the chance to sit down with Maya and discuss her journey of developing BATIK BOUTIK and the impact of returning to Ghana from Canada (where she was brought up) has reawakened a deeper connection with her creative self.Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Meet Lady Blue Phoenix - a self-confessed rock head with a passion for diversifying the Burlesque scene. Having worked their way up through the industry for the past decade, LBP is intent on providing fellow Burlesque beauties with a fresh example to look up to. As a self-confessed rock head, LBP's performances reflect their love of grunge and freely explore topics that sink right to the coreAs they step into their tenth year of performing Burlesque, Lady Blue Phoenix is shaking up the game one more time by launching her own inclusive, culturally informative organisation - School of Anarchic. Through this project, LBP will be bringing workshop facilitation and mentorship to the performance community, as well as offering a supportive community for all, particularly those who have been historically marginalised within the industry. In this way, they are taking it back to the industry's satirical roots while contemporising the world of performance through an inclusive and respectful awareness on and off stage.  Read on and tune in to learn about how Lady Blue Phoenix's experiences shape their motivations and the mission behind the School of Anarchic.Podcast sponsored by JOYclub.comKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

The multidisciplinary artist inspiring creative confidence within Istanbul.Hilal Can's paintings are an amalgamation of curious characters and surreal landscapes, brought to life through intricate brushwork and multilayered narratives. This dreamy, otherwordly approach to painting also appears in Hilal's other forms of creativity. From her tattoos to her installations, her music to her live performances, there is a consistent thread of morphing reality with surrealismHaving connected with Hilal while visiting Istanbul, our Sassy founder Bethany Burgoyne was invited to her studio to learn more about Hilal's artistic path within Turkey and how her travels abroad have shaped the approach she takes today.Tune in and get inspired by Hilal Can's motivations to create and how valuing her own art has led to greater success both in personal and professional ways. We hear music from Hilal's previous collaborative projects and get a taster of the poetic nature her sonic waves carry. Podcast sponsored by JOYclub.comKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

The Feminist Activists Using Theatre to Create Change: Drama Queens is a theatre nonprofit in Accra, Ghana.  As a collective, they bring to life stories that center women in Ghana creating plays that tell the stories of revolutionary Ghanaian women who contributed to independence and feminist movements. Alongside their theatre, Drama Queens also provides community engagement through their speakeasies and facilitate creative writing and consent workshops in schools.Member of Drama Queens, Michella tells us about her journey to joining Drama Queens and the activist role that she embodied today. As well as discussing the reality of politics that goes alongside protests in Ghana and the global movements that Drama Queens aligns itself with. For more information head to thesassyshow.comPodcast sponsored by joyclub.comKeep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!

Audacious Alexa is joined by erotic content creator Jackie J. They discuss moving into a position of love regarding body hair and how Jackie's decisions have led to her feeling a more truthful connection to herself.  As well as the policing of women's bodies and the importance of laws giving women agency over their decisions. Tune in and get ready to hear Jackie and Alexa unpack the cis male lens of mainstream porn and the racist reductive nature of BBC fantasies. For the full uncensored video, head to thesassyshow.com Keep up to date on all the sass via thesassyshow.com or follow us on IG @_thesassyshowCome join the family!