THE SCOOP with Hershe Sundae

What’s up, beautiful people… tonight’s episode is a real one.From being in a room full of confident, celebrated plus-size women to unpacking the reality that even the most “ideal” woman can still be disrespected in love… we’re getting into it all.I’m sharing my experience at the Plus Size Girliee Link-Up here in Chicago and what it meant to feel seen, safe, and celebrated in a world that constantly critiques women’s bodies—especially Black women. Then we shift into what’s been bringing me comfort lately, including my thoughts on You, Me & Tuscany, the Michael biopic, and Kehlani’s new album.But the heart of tonight’s conversation?Meg Thee Stallion. Klay Thompson. And the hard truth that you can be beautiful, successful, loyal, and still deal with someone who doesn’t have the character to value you properly.So what becomes clear?At some point… you have to choose yourself.This episode is about self-worth, walking away, and being honest about what you will and won’t tolerate—no matter how it looks to the outside world.If you’ve ever felt overlooked, played, or forced to question your value… this one’s for you.💌 Follow me on Substack: The Scoop with Hershe Sundae🎧 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube💬 Don’t forget to like, comment, share, and subscribeAnd as always… be gentle with your heart.I’ll talk to you soon, after dark. 🌙✨Follow Hershe Sundae:https://open.substack.com/pub/thescoopafterdarkhttps://linktr.ee/hershesundaehttps://www.tiktok.com/@hershesundaehttps://www.instagram.com/hershe_sundaehttps://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/hershe-sundae/https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-scoop-with-hershe-sundae-after-dark/id1663691153

In this episode of The Scoop with Hershe Sundae: After Dark, we’re sitting down with Coach Earnest “Coach E” Horton—CEO and Co-Founder of Black Baseball Media and a true pillar in the Chicago community.From growing up on the South Side to pouring over a decade into coaching and mentoring youth across the Chicagoland area, Coach E shares his passion for baseball and the deeper mission behind his work—creating opportunities, building confidence, and changing the narrative for young Black athletes.We also dive into the highly anticipated Chicago HBCU Baseball Classic, making its debut at Wrigley Field. ⚾🔥 Coach E breaks down what inspired this moment, what it means for the culture, and what the community can expect from this historic event.This conversation is about more than just baseball—it’s about legacy, mentorship, access, and showing the next generation what’s possible.✨ Tap in, get inspired, and be part of the movement.🎙️ The Scoop with Hershe Sundae: After Dark💬 Real conversations. Real culture. Real connection.Support and Follow Coach Earnest and Black Baseball Media: ⁠https://www.blackbaseballmedia.com⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blackbaseballmedia⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/hbcubaseballclassic⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/coach_e_of_guru⁠📍 Follow & stay connected for more episodes📣 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!Follow Hershe Sundae:⁠https://linktr.ee/hershesundae⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@hershesundae⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/hershe_sundae⁠⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/hershe-sundae/⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-scoop-with-hershe-sundae-after-dark/id1663691153⁠

What’s up, beautiful people 💫In this episode of The Scoop with Hershe Sundae: After Dark, I sit down with Chicago-based author Arnetta Randall, the brilliant mind behind the novel Have Sex Like a Man.We dive into Arnetta’s writing journey—what inspired her to start, how her experiences and observations shaped her storytelling, and the bold concept behind her book.Have Sex Like a Man follows Chloe Howard, a journalist navigating heartbreak, ambition, and the idea of approaching relationships without emotional attachment. What starts as a personal challenge quickly turns into something much bigger—and much more complicated.In this conversation, we explore:✨ What inspired the book✨ Dating dynamics and modern relationships✨ The process of writing and bringing characters to life✨ Real-life influences behind the story✨ And what it means to create bold, thought-provoking work as a Black woman writerThis is a fun, insightful, and honest conversation you don’t want to miss.If you enjoy conversations around love, culture, storytelling, and real-life experiences, make sure you like, comment, and subscribe.📚 Support Arnetta Randall & her book:Have Sex Like a Man https://a.co/d/0dqvHJhK🎙️ The Scoop with Hershe Sundae: After DarkReal conversations. Real stories. Real connections.📩 Got something on your mind?Send anonymous questions to: [email protected] (#AskHershe)Follow Hershe Sundae:https://linktr.ee/hershesundaehttps://www.tiktok.com/@hershesundaehttps://www.instagram.com/hershe_sundaehttps://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/hershe-sundae/https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-scoop-with-hershe-sundae-after-dark/id1663691153

Caregiving is often called an act of love… but what happens when that love comes with exhaustion, sacrifice, and emotional strain?In this powerful and deeply honest episode of The Scoop with Hershe Sundae: After Dark, Hershey sits down with Bernadette Evans, creator of The Caregiver Collaborative, to unpack the real, unfiltered truth about caregiving.After spending over a decade caring for her parents—and recently navigating the loss of her father—Bernadette opens up about the emotional, mental, and physical toll of being “the strong one.” From difficult family dynamics and lack of support, to burnout and the decision to finally choose herself, this conversation is raw, necessary, and healing.Whether you are currently a caregiver, have been one, or may become one… this episode is for you.💭 In this episode, we discuss:• The reality of long-term caregiving• Navigating complicated parent-child relationships• Caregiver burnout and mental health• Grief, loss, and processing emotions• Setting boundaries and choosing yourself• The importance of support systems• Advice for current and future caregiversThis is more than a conversation—it’s a safe space for truth, reflection, and understanding.✨ If this episode resonates with you, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations.📩 Have a question or topic you’d like featured on the show?Send it anonymously to: [email protected] (use #AskHershe) 

This week on The Scoop After Dark, I’m getting real about turning 37—what that day felt like, what it stirred up in me, and the quiet reflections that come with growing older.We talk about the things that brought me comfort this week, the emotions that came with my birthday, and the question we’ve all heard before… is age really just a number? Or does it carry weight, meaning, and lessons we can’t ignore?This episode is about honoring where you are, embracing the beauty of aging, and sitting with the truth that time doesn’t just pass—it shapes you.And of course, we’re ending the night the way we always do… with a soft, reflective bedtime story to bring it all home.So get comfortable, take a deep breath, and let’s get into it 🌙✨YouTube | Spotify | Apple PodcastsGot something on your mind?Send anonymous questions to: [email protected]

In Part 2 of this conversation on The Scoop with Hershe Sundae: After Dark, we continue the powerful and eye-opening story of Renee and the man she once knew as her Nigerian husband from Italy.In Part 1, Renee shared how their relationship began — from meeting on an international dating app to falling in love, getting married, and building a life together in the United States.But as time went on, the truth began to surface.In this episode, Renee opens up about the red flags she started noticing, the discoveries that changed everything, and the emotional reality of realizing that the man she married may not have been who he claimed to be.We talk about trust, intuition, the challenges of international relationships, and what it takes to rebuild yourself after love turns into something unexpected.This conversation is honest, reflective, and ultimately a reminder that sometimes the most important relationship you can rebuild is the one you have with yourself.Scoops, this is the continuation of a story that many people can learn from.So settle in, grab your tea, and join us as we unpack the rest of Renee’s journey.

In this episode of The Scoop with Hershe Sundae: After Dark, we’re getting into a real story that feels almost unbelievable.My guest Renee joins me to share the story of how she met her husband on an international dating app — a man she knew online as “My Nigerian Husband from Italy.” What started as a whirlwind romance turned into marriage, relocation, and a life together in the United States.But as time went on, things began to unravel.In this conversation, Renee opens up about the red flags she didn’t see at first, the sacrifices she made for love, and the shocking truths that came to light after the marriage. From hidden secrets to discovering parts of her husband’s life she never knew existed, this story is a powerful reminder of how complicated love can become when trust is broken.This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation where we unpack the beginning of Renee’s journey — how they met, how the relationship developed, and what ultimately led to the truth being revealed.So Scoops… grab your tea, get comfortable, and join us for a story that’s equal parts love story, cautionary tale, and real-life lesson.Part 2 of this conversation will be released soon.🎙 Listen to The Scoop with Hershe Sundae: After Dark on:YouTubeSpotifyApple PodcastsDon’t forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe to support the show and join the conversation.

In this weeks episode we will be discussing the beauty, depth, and complexity of a woman's voice. Story time is also on the agenda and we have all made it to a new Month...the Month of celebrating women! If you have any questions you'd like for me to answer anonymously, email me at [email protected] #ASKHERSHE

In this episode we will be discussing Breaking Generational Curses, Love amongst the Fam, and why Chosen Family is just as important. As always if you have a question that you want me to answer anonymously email [email protected]

In this week's episode continuing on this Love train we will discuss Love amongst friends! I'll share how my friends have helped me throughout the years and why this "Director's Cut" version of a Fairy Tale is important. Also if you want to be apart of the "Still Awake" crew, email me at [email protected] with the hashtag #STILLAWAKE

This week we are discussing LOVE!!! 💕 We will dive into safe love after trauma, finding the romance again after years have passed, and music to set the mood.

On this first episode we'll talk about revamping and pivoting in life and in other facets.

In this week's Sundae Sitdown episode we catch up and speak with new author Krystal aka E.F. Williams of "Healing Echos". We discuss her motivation for writing, what led her to healing echos and more laughs and inside scoops of what's to come.

In today's episode we interview Daniel aka Danielfunnyashell the bonafide Hairstorian of Tiktok! He stopped by to speak with me and we had an absolute ball!

In this weeks episode we discuss the 59th Super Bowl and Kendrick Lamar's Halftime performance, Kanye West and his Fat Topics, LiAngelo Ball leaving Ms Nikki Baby...after she had his baby and so much more.

In this episode I discuss the 2025 Grammy's recap, How we don't play about Babyface, Kanye and his puppet, plus much more!

Hey Scoops! In this episode I have one of my Best Friends Q co hosting as we discuss the end of the Clock App, Health, Wealth, and remaining stealth.

In this new episode of 2025 we discuss a small end of year recap, the journey of being a pet parent, cinematic ebbs and flows, who I'd love to see more of on the big screen, and the legend known as Luther Vandross.

In the new Season of The SCOOP with Hershe Sundae, Krie guest stars as we discuss relationships, boundaries, and inside jokes that we refuse to explain.

Hey SCOOPS! This episode is a bit of a catch up but also a conversation that has hit home for a lot of women,

On this episode I'm joined by some of my best friends and a dynamic couple hailing from the big TEN! During my visit to their lovely home, Krystal, Biff, and I discussed Nostalgia and the importance of the content that were shown to us as kids/teenagers growing up! This episode brought so many memories and laughs, so buckle up for a walk down memory lane.

In this episode we will discuss our Beyonce' concert experience, Jonathan Majors and his MAJOR break in his case, Lizzo, her big girrls and the banana in question, and the thunder from down under brawl known as the Montgomery Massacre plus, much more!

Hey Scoops!!! This episode we will discuss Keke Palmer's baby daddy vs the internet, Beyonce's mama getting jacked, and what someone has to say about Kanye West's ex wife.

This weeks episode is featuring Oakland's own Chef Daphani. Tune is as we discuss Titan's water sport hunger games, Johnathan Majors and Megan Good, Kirk and Messie C's messy marriage, and so much more!

In this Sundae Sit Down we speak with DaeTara Davis, an accomplished business woman, mother, friend and recent divorcee. We discuss the feelings of conflict within ourselves as well as the need to let go of a fruitless relationship or marriage.

Hey SCOOPS! Ya girl is back with a new show and some hot topics! Tune in for all the juiciness!

On this week's episode we are join again by none other than Nikki Devereaux and we discuss EVERYTHING! From Lovers and Friends turned Foe's, Queen Charlotte and why we love Bridgerton, Brian McKnight is a villian, Love after Lock up recaps and so much more! Sit back and get comfy because this show is THIICCC!

On this "Sundae Sit Down" we speak with Nickola Wells, a well known and sought after Chicago Real Estate Mogul. On this episode we give laughs, love, but most of all education on breaking into and thriving in the Real Estate market as a Broker!

On this "Sundae Sit Down" we speak with a dynamic business woman, stylist, and pillar to the community Raquel as she walks us through her life and what inspired her to start her own non profit organization. This is a sensitive topic and conversation so *trigger warning* for those listening as we discuss domestic violence, sexual assault and more.

On this episode I'm joined by my fabulous friend and co host Julia as we discuss last weeks topics. We talk about Jonathan Majors (again) and his latest text message, Chloe Bailey's new album, Julia joining Beyonce' during her tour concert and so much more!

In this week's episode our co host is my dear friend and the "Jaqueline of all Trades" herself Eljeepi!!! We are discussing it ALL, Lori and Damson's world wind short termed romance, The Real Aunties of R&B Tamar Braxton, Kandi Burress, LaTocha and Tameeka Scott and their Dramas, Jonathan Majors super concerning and disturbing tea and the serious conversation on the perception of Plus Sized individuals and prejudice regarding how we are treated, plus so much more!

In this episode I sit down with Entertainment Journalist Myra Ali who's been trail blazing celebrity interviews and the ability to dig deeper than the day to day questions. Speaking with A listers such as Tom Holland, Zendaya, Colin Farrell, and most recently Michael B. Jordan and Jonathan Majors, I get to sit down with this amazing woman, and ask her a thing or two myself!

In honor Women's History month, I co hosted the show with none other than Mrs. Nikki Devereaux! We discuss low maintenance friendships, Jonathan and Michael's bromance, Chris Rock's comedy special and so much more!

In this Episode, we have our very first guests on the show! Joy New and Taylor B the dynamic mother-daughter duo of their Podcast "Girls, Gems, and Giggles" stop by to live, laugh, love with me and talk about this week's SCOOP!

In this week's episode we discuss Rihanna's Halftime show, Chloe Bailey's new single, Passport brothers and their foolery, Antman and my man Jonathan Majors.

In this weeks episode we discuss my health journey and need for a DND moment, Beyonce's tickets and why I ain't going lol, Rihanna singing at this Super Bowl, Jonathan Majors making me cry, and so much more!

Happy Black History Month! In this episode we talk about Beyonce' and her tickets, How ya'll be trying us on Black History Month, Love after Lock up and who's the most stable couple, The Grammy's/Roc Brunch, Question of the Day and so much more!

In this episode we discuss Chloe Bailey's new single "Pray it Away" and her "sexy image", Stella Williams vs Jordyn Woods, (Fake) Nurses and their scams, TJ Holmes and Amy Robach...again. Keith Lee and how we don't play about him! Also a serious discussion about the murder of Tyre Nichols and how it was done by the hands of 6 police officers.

On this week's episode we discuss the Lawsuits that have kicked off for the new year, Beyonce' and her kitten-heel couture in Dubai, Steven A Smith done ran his mouth (again), Lori Harvey and her Love Potion #9,  our very 1st anonymous Question of the Day, plus tons more!

In this week's episode I will discuss the Tiktok drama, the "Rich Auntie" and why ashy men are pressed about her, Angela Bassett making history and of course my newest guilty pleasure (no pun intended...) LOVE AFTER LOCKUP!!!