The Shattered Mindset

He got fired from a wildlife job — then built a business, a farm, and a family so intentional that a filmmaker spent a year documenting it. That film beat 11,000 others and won at Sundance. This is what living differently on purpose actually looks like.What happens when a man decides formation matters more than convenience?In this episode, Melvin Larry sits down with Nehemiah Ray — biologist, minister, beekeeper, and owner of ASAP Pest and Wildlife Removal in metro Atlanta. Nehemiah's story runs from flipping rocks in Riverdale, Georgia, to a life of what he calls "riotous living," to a 21-day fast where an encounter with God shattered the limiting beliefs that fear had built.Today, he and his wife Eliza are raising their two sons on a working farm — sheep, chickens, pigs, and bees — living what they call Raised Wild: a family choosing to live differently on purpose. Their life caught the eye of a filmmaker on Instagram, and the resulting documentary, The Boys and the Bees, was one of just 7 films chosen from 11,000 and won the Short Film Jury Award at the Sundance Film Festival.In this conversation:The internship that ended his veterinary dream — and the fear underneath the excuseThe bedroom encounter during a 21-day fast that changed everythingHow getting fired became the doorway to entrepreneurshipThe roach story: teaching a one-year-old to conquer fear (and building a marriage on trust)32 success principles from the beehive — and why royal jelly is a warning about what you consumeThe biggest lie young people believe: "I have time"Formation over convenience: why he lets his sons struggleSharing the gospel at Sundance — and how his boys stayed grounded through the spotlightWhat men 35–55 get wrong about keeping the main thing the main thingIf you've ever drifted instead of decided, this episode is your wake-up call.*Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/ADJD6jCL5GA*Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19534628ResourcesConnect with Nehemiah Ray: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raysdwildWebsite: https://www.raysdwild.com |Email: [email protected] ASAP Pest and Wildlife Removal: https://www.removeasap.com The Boys and the Bees — Short Film Jury Award: Nonfiction, Sundance Film Festival Books mentioned: Amazon Link:  https://amzn.to/4wYKibm- Launch by Jeff Walker- Leaders Eat Last- Start With Why by Simon SinekConnect with MelvinInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X: https://x.com/MelvinLarry Website: https://www.theshatteredmindset.comRecommended EpisodesThe Mental Toughness Advantage (Ep. 51): https://youtu.be/ceHvqLcpCQUStep Back and Look at Your Work: (Ep 110): https://youtu.be/coomlXgi3f4#ShatteredMindset #NehemiahRay #Sundance #FaithAndFamily #Fatherhood #Beekeeping #Entrepreneurship #OvercomingFear #LiveOnPurpose #MindsetShiftCall to ActionIf Nehemiah's story spoke to you, Share this episode with a father, a young man, or anyone stuck waiting for "later." Subscribe, leave a review, and keep adapting, keep evolving, and keep reaching for those new horizons. Take care. Take charge. And God bless.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

You can either inspect your own work — or life will inspect it for you. And life's inspections are a whole lot more expensive.When Melvin told his lawn guy to step back and look at his own work, he wasn't talking about the grass. He was talking about self-accountability — and in this episode, he turns that same question on you.In this solo conversation, Melvin Larry gets real about why so many of us wander through life angry and frustrated — not because of what happened to us, but because we never pursued our purpose with intention. He shares the awareness lesson he's learning from his own children, why he hopes you fail early and fail fast, and the framework he teaches his mentees: the Action–Clarity–Confidence Loop™ — because confidence doesn't come before movement. Confidence follows movement.🔁 FREE TOOL: Get the Action–Clarity–Confidence Loop™ one-pager and run one commitment through the loop this week: https://go.theshatteredmindset.com/loopIn this episode: 00:00 – The lawn story: step back and look at your work 02:08 – Inspect your own work before life inspects it for you 02:50 – Why we wander angry and frustrated 04:31 – Seeing through my children's eyes 06:20 – No, it's NOT going to be easy — fail early, fail fast 08:00 – The Action–Clarity–Confidence Loop™ 13:00 – My calendar is my boss 14:08 – Even I have to remind myself — the structures that catch you 16:20 – The prayer: awareness for now, vision for the future 17:00 – Your one-week challengeWatch 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube: [YouTube link]Listen 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19501387Resources 🔁 The Action–Clarity–Confidence Loop™ (free one-page tool): https://go.theshatteredmindset.com/loopConnect with Melvin 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 👤 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry 🐦 X: https://x.com/MelvinLarry 🌐 Website: https://www.theshatteredmindset.comRecommended Episodes Episode 51 – The Mental Toughness Advantage (the endurance and discipline that self-accountability demands): https://youtu.be/ceHvqLcpCQUEpisode 108 – Who Are You Becoming?https://youtu.be/09x9r82_nko?si=8ocUiHDE5a48PTgA #ShatteredMindset #SelfAccountability #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #LeadershipCall to Action If this episode spoke to you, share it with somebody who needs to hear it — somebody in your circle is wandering right now. Subscribe so you never miss an episode, and grab the free Action–Clarity–Confidence Loop™ at go.theshatteredmindset.com/loop.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

He was a security guard at one of Miami's most exclusive nightclubs — serving celebrities, invisible to the world. Then one wealthy client looked at him and said, "You're more than this." What happened next changed everything. Marvel Bishop joins Melvin Larry on The Shattered Mindset Podcast. What does it take to go from a nightclub door in Miami to a 14-city national tour, a 100-member academy, and nearly 100,000 Instagram followers? According to Marvel Bishop, it starts with one thing most people overlook — genuine connection.In this episode, Marvel gets real about growing up without his parents, the "not good enough" wound he's carried since childhood, how that same wound became the fuel behind everything he's built, and why presence beats perfection every single time.He breaks down how he transitioned from luxury concierge services for the 1% to building a media brand that serves everyone — and why he says the framework was never really different.If you've been waiting for the right moment to go all in on your vision, Marvel has two words for you: You're going to die.This one hits different.Watch: on YouTube: https://youtu.be/PRk2WwB7grUListen: on Buzzsprout & all major podcast platforms: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19467784Connect with Melvin 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1  👤 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry  🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118  💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry 🐦 X: https://x.com/MelvinLarry | 🌐 Website: https://www.theshatteredmindset.comRecommended Episodes Ep. 105 — The Four Stages of Competence: Why Most People Get Stuck Without Knowing It Ep. 106 — From Punta Cana to the Podcast Chair: with Gary Jenkins on Life, Leadership & Leveling Up #ShatteredMindset #MelvinLarry #MarvelBishop #OverlookedToOverbooked #EntrepreneurMindset #PersonalBranding #PodcastInterview #LeadershipPodcast #MindsetMatters #LimitingBeliefs #MediaConsultant #ConvosWithBishop #OnlyTheBES #VisibilityMatters #EntrepreneurLifeCall to Action If this episode hit home, subscribe so you don't miss what's coming next. Drop a comment below with the moment that landed hardest for you. And share this with someone who needs to hear it — because somebody in your circle is waiting on the permission to go all in.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

You've been so focused on what you're building… you may have missed what's being built in you. That's what Episode 108 is about. What is life quietly producing in you while you're busy pursuing everything else?That's the question Melvin Larry has been sitting with — and in Episode 108, he unpacks it in one of the most reflective solo episodes of The Shattered Mindset Podcast yet.This isn't about goals or achievements. It's about the person being quietly formed through ordinary days, difficult seasons, and the small responses no one sees. It's about the difference between performance and identity. Between what you're building… and what's being built in you.In this episode, Melvin explores:Why the most important growth in your life is almost invisible while it's happeningThe danger of drift — and how comfort can quietly convince you that you've grown enoughHow influence works even when you don't know anyone is watchingWhy every season leaves something behind — and not everything that stays belongs with youThe difference between responding to today and reacting from yesterdayWhat it means to become the same person in every roomIf you've ever looked back on a season of your life and realized it was shaping you in ways you didn't recognize at the time — this episode is for you.Watch ▶️ Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/09x9r82_nkoListen 🎧 Listen on your favorite podcast platform: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19434361Connect with Melvin 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 👤 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry 🐦 X: https://x.com/MelvinLarry 🌐 Website: https://www.theshatteredmindset.comRecommended Episodes 🎙️ Episode 105 — You Don't Know What You Don't Know 🎙️ Episode 106 — [Punta Cana guest episode with Gary Jenkins] #ShatteredMindset #MelvinLarry #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #Leadership #SelfAwareness #WhoAreYouBecoming #LifeLessons #PodcastEp108 #OvercomingLimitingBeliefs #Identity #CharacterDevelopment #MindsetShift #GrowthMindset #PurposeDrivenCall to Action If this episode hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. Subscribe so you never miss an episode — and drop a comment below: What is life quietly producing in you right now?Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

"What if building wealth isn't about making more money... but thinking differently about the money you already have?"Most people spend their lives working for money.Very few ever learn how to make money work for them.In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry sits down with nationally recognized tax sale expert Tiffany Tyuse for a conversation that goes far beyond real estate.Together they explore the mindset of ownership, why so many people remain trapped in consumer thinking, and how everyday people can begin building wealth without waiting for the "perfect time."Whether you're interested in investing or simply changing the way you think about money, this conversation will challenge long-held beliefs and encourage you to see opportunity where others never look.Highlights• Why ownership begins with mindset• The difference between chasing income and building assets• Why most people never build generational wealth• How limiting beliefs keep people financially stuck• Why your job can become your greatest investment partner• The costly lesson Tiffany learned from emotional decision-making• Why building wealth starts with changing how you thinkSometimes the greatest investment you can make...is changing your perspective.Watch the full conversation with Tiffany Tyuse on The Shattered Mindset Podcast.🎧 Listen to The Shattered Mindset Podcasthttps://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19399605✅ Watch on YouTube@TheShatteredMindsetRecommended Episodes▶ Ep. 105: The Four Stages of Competence▶ Ep. 104: The Inner and Outer Game of EntrepreneurshipConnect with Melvin YouTube: @TheShatteredMindsetInstagram: @MelvinLarry1Facebook: Melvin.LarryTikTok: @MelvinLarry118LinkedIn: Melvin LarryX: @MelvinLarryConnect with Tiffany TyuseInstagram: @tiffanytyuseFacebook: Tiffany MsmakeitHappen TyuseYouTube: @tiffanytyuseWebsite: TiffanyTyuse.comBooks:• Scale Your Ownership• 10 Ways to Save Your Home From Foreclosure#TheShatteredMindset #TiffanyTyuse #Mindset #WealthBuilding #Ownership #FinancialFreedom #RealEstate #PersonalGrowth #EntrepreneurshipCall to ActionLIKESUBSCRIBESHARELEAVE A COMMENTWhat's one mindset shift you've made that changed the way you think about building wealth?Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

For over 100 episodes, Melvin Larry has been asking the questions. In this episode, the tables turn — and the man behind the mic finally sits in the hot seat. What do you really know about the host of The Shattered Mindset Podcast? In Episode 106, longtime friend, business partner, and show editor Gary Jenkins flips the script — interviewing Melvin Larry about his life, his mindset, and the journey that led to 100+ episodes and counting.Recorded live in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic during an all-expenses-paid incentive trip, this conversation gets real, personal, and raw. Melvin opens up about his lowest professional moment, overcoming introversion as a youth, the belief that held him back the longest, and why commitment — not just a decision — is the only thing that makes change real.If you've ever listened to this podcast and wondered who Melvin Larry really is beyond the microphone, this is the episode for you.In this episode:Why Melvin almost didn't become a podcaster — and what changedThe corporate career moment that derailed a path to senior leadershipHow he overcame introversion and low self-esteemThe difference between plan-do-review and plan-do-reportWhy affirmations without action are just noiseThe one question Melvin wishes more people would ask himWhat legacy and "mattering" really mean to himWatch Episode 106 on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KBBA16RBdycListen on your favorite podcast platform: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19364273Connect with Melvin📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 👤 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry 🐦 X: https://x.com/MelvinLarryRecommended Episodes Ep. 105 — You Don't Know What You Don't Know (Four Stages of Competence)Ep. 63 — Lessons Life Has Taught Me  #ShatteredMindset #MelvinLarry #PodcastInterview #MindsetShift #OvercomingLimitingBeliefs #LeadershipMindset #PersonalDevelopment #Entrepreneurship #NetworkMarketing #LegacyBuilding #GrowthMindset #PodcastHost #RealTalk #SuccessMindset #LifeLessons If this episode hit home, subscribe to The Shattered Mindset Podcast so you never miss an episode. Leave a review, share it with someone who needs to hear it, and drop a comment below — what's one commitment you're going to make today?Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Most people aren't stuck because they're lazy. They're stuck because they can't see the gap that's holding them back. In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, mentor and entrepreneur Melvin Larry breaks down the Four Stages of Competence — a powerful framework that explains the psychological journey from total ignorance to effortless mastery.Whether you're in business, leadership, or personal development, understanding where you are in this process could be the most important thing you do today.In this episode you'll discover:✅ Why you can't fix what you can't see — and what to do about it✅ The stage where most people quit — and how to push through it✅ Why comparing your Stage 3 to someone else's Stage 4 is robbing you✅ What mastery actually looks like — and how you get there✅ The honest truth about where Melvin is right now — and why it matters to you DM Melvin on Instagram or Facebook with the word STAGES and he'll send you something to help you take the next step. No cost. No pitch. Just the next step. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ RECOMMENDED EPISODES▶️ Ep 103: When Growth Quietly Stops → https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19252137▶️ Ep 97: The Cost of Not Changing → https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19024011━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━WATCH FULL EPISODE ON YOUTUBEhttps://youtu.be/0HHP4AFGQEILISTEN TO THE PODCASThttps://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19328494━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━CONNECT WITH MELVIN📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1👤 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry🐦 X: https://x.com/MelvinLarry━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━The Shattered Mindset Podcast drops every Thursday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.LIKE  |  SUBSCRIBE  |  SHARE  |  LEAVE A COMMENT#ShatteredMindset #MelvinLarry #Mindset #PersonalDevelopment #Leadership #GrowthMindset #PodcastForMenTagsfour stages of competence, unconscious incompetence, conscious competence, unconscious competence, mindset podcast, leadership development, personal development podcast, Melvin Larry, shattered mindset, overcoming limiting beliefs, entrepreneur mindset, growth mindset, self awareness, life lessons, podcast for men, mentorship, blind spots, mastery, success mindset, conscious incompetenceCall to ActionDid this episode hit home? DM me on Instagram or Facebook with one word — STAGES — and I'll send you something to help you take what you heard today and actually put it to work. No cost. No pitch. Just the next step. Find me @MelvinLarry1 on Instagram or Melvin Larry on Facebook.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Most entrepreneurs think they have a strategy problem.What if the real issue is the conversation happening inside your own head?In this episode, Melvin Larry explores why mindset often determines whether a person applies the skills, systems, and opportunities already available to them. If you've ever felt stuck despite doing "all the right things," this conversation may help you identify what's really holding you back. Success in entrepreneurship isn't just about marketing, sales, systems, or leadership.Those things matter.But before the outer game comes the inner game.In Episode 104 of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry explores why two people can face the same opportunity, the same rejection, and the same circumstances—yet produce completely different results.You'll learn how your interpretation of events often matters more than the events themselves.Melvin introduces two of his original frameworks:• The S.I.F.T. Process™ • The Confidence–Action–Clarity Loop™You'll also hear a powerful perspective on what Melvin calls your real IQ—your "I Quit" level—and why persistence often determines success long before visible results appear.If you've been waiting for confidence, clarity, or perfect conditions before making your next move, this episode is for you.ResourcesFree S.I.F.T. Process™ Workbook A Guide to Clarity Through Reflection:  https://tinyurl.com/jdnnmb8vFree Confidence–Action–Clarity Loop™ Workbook Identify where you're stuck, take action, and build momentum through movement. (https://tinyurl.com/yc6pat38WatchWatch on YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/fCAYqrZIH4wRecommended EpisodesEp 102: When Success Becomes a CeilingEp 103: When Growth Quietly StopsListenListen to The Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19291767ConnectConnect with Melvin on Social MediaInstagram: Instagram @MelvinLarry1Facebook: Facebook - Melvin LarryTikTok: TikTok @MelvinLarry118LinkedIn: LinkedIn - Melvin LarryX: X @MelvinLarryIf this episode challenged your thinking, take a moment to:LIKESUBSCRIBESHARELEAVE A COMMENTWhat part of the inner game has challenged you most in your entrepreneurial journey?And if you know someone who is working hard but feeling stuck, share this episode with them.#TheShatteredMindset #EntrepreneurMindset #PersonalGrowth #Entrepreneurship #MindsetMattersSupportIf you enjoy The Shattered Mindset Podcast and would like to support the show:• Subscribe on YouTube• Follow on your favorite podcast platform• Share episodes with friends, family, and colleagues• Leave a review and ratingEvery share helps us reach more people who are navigating life's turning points and defining moments.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

What if the greatest danger in life isn’t failure… but slowly stopping your growth without realizing it?Sometimes people don’t stop growing because they lack ability. Sometimes they stop because life slowly shifts them from growth mode into maintenance mode.In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry explores how what's called the Peter Principle extends far beyond business and corporate life. This conversation dives into emotional stagnation, identity, inherited programming, comfort zones, limiting beliefs, adaptability, disappointment, and the quiet ways people stop evolving while still functioning successfully on the outside.This isn’t about failure. It’s about awareness.If you’ve ever felt emotionally paused, disconnected from growth, or trapped in an old version of yourself, this episode will challenge you to reflect honestly and become open again to growth, learning, movement, and becoming.Topics explored in this episode: Growth vs maintenance mode  Why stagnation can look successful  Emotional ceilings and limiting beliefs  The danger of inherited programming  Adaptability and reinvention  Why awareness changes patterns  Internal alignment vs external success  Becoming emotionally open again  Challenging the ceilings we’ve accepted This episode is reflective, conversational, and deeply personal — designed to help you think differently about growth, identity, and the life you may still be capable of creating.ResourcesDownload the Mental Toughness Advantage Journal here FREE: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Ro8QknBgdaaPjAL_FmpCwPmfGQ-3-y5x/view?usp=sharingRecommended Episodes Ep 97: The Cost of Not Changing  Ep 90: The Identity Gap Watch the Full Episode on YouTube:The Shattered Mindset YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/WhbvWxMd-e8ListenOn Buzzsprout https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19252137Connect with MelvinInstagram: @MelvinLarry1 Facebook: Melvin Larry Facebook TikTok: @MelvinLarry118 LinkedIn: Melvin Larry LinkedIn X: @MelvinLarryIf this episode spoke to you, take a moment to reflect on where growth may have quietly slowed down in your own life.Then LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT about one area where you want to become open to growth again.#TheShatteredMindset #MindsetGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #SelfAwareness #GrowthMindsetSupport the ShowLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

What if the very thing you worked hard to build… is now the thing quietly limiting your growth?Success is supposed to feel like freedom. But what happens when success slowly becomes a ceiling?In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry unpacks a conversation many successful people avoid having with themselves. This isn’t about failure. It’s about the subtle ways comfort, familiarity, routine, and old identities can quietly keep us from evolving into the next version of ourselves.Melvin reflects on: the emotional weight of staying recognizable  how success can reduce urgency  why some people feel guilty for changing  the difference between functioning and growing  the danger of maintenance replacing expansion  why reflection matters in every season of life  and how limiting beliefs can quietly become emotional ceilings This episode speaks directly to leaders, entrepreneurs, providers, creators, and anyone who has spent years building a life — only to realize something inside is still asking for growth.If you’ve ever wondered: “Have I become too comfortable?” “Am I still evolving?” “Has what once worked… started limiting me?”…this conversation is for you.Resources LISTEN: to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19205869WATCH: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetRecommended Episodes Ep 97: The Cost of Not Changing  Ep 99: Urgency vs Expectancy - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry - X: https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this episode challenged you or helped you reflect on where you are in life right now, make sure to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT.What part of your life may have become too comfortable to keep growing?#TheShatteredMindset #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #SelfDevelopmentSupport the Show: LIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

What happens when a kid selling candy in Washington, D.C. grows up to promote Mike Tyson fights, build multimillion-dollar businesses, and discover that money alone isn’t the real prize?In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin sits down with entrepreneur and business leader Marty Wynn for a powerful conversation about mindset, mentorship, marriage, entrepreneurship, residual income, failure, legacy, and the lessons behind success. Marty Wynn’s story is bigger than business.Before the boxing promotions… before the real estate success… before the entrepreneurship and leadership journey… there was a young man in Washington, D.C. trying to figure life out while watching the people around him hustle, survive, and dream bigger. In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Marty Wynn shares the real journey behind the success: Growing up in a two-parent household in inner-city Washington, D.C.  Selling candy and sodas as a child  Getting fired from McDonald’s at 14 years old  Learning entrepreneurship through observation and environment  Working with Don King  Promoting major boxing events  Building wealth through real estate  Experiencing the pressure behind success  Discovering the importance of residual income and mentorship  Building legacy, marriage, family, and long-term vision This conversation goes far beyond money.Marty opens up about mindset, fear, leadership, relationships, mentorship, failure, entrepreneurship, and what truly matters when the applause fades and life gets real. If you’ve ever questioned your direction… If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re too late… If you’ve ever tried to build something bigger than yourself…This episode will challenge the way you think about success, purpose, and legacy.Key Topics Entrepreneurship mindset  Mentorship and leadership  Residual income  Real estate investing  Network marketing  Direct sales  Business ownership  Marriage and entrepreneurship  Legacy building  Financial literacy  Mike Tyson promotion story  Working with Don King  Overcoming fear and failure  The power of environment  Personal growth and reinvention Recommended Episodes Ep 99: Expectancy vs Urgency  Ep 97: The Cost of Not Changing Listen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/19174381Watch on YouTube:Connect with MelvinInstagram: @MelvinLarry1Facebook: Melvin.LarryTikTok: @MelvinLarry118LinkedIn: Melvin Larry on LinkedInX / Twitter: @MelvinLarryConnect with Marty WynnInstagram:  @ceomartyFacebook:  Marty Wynn on FacebookIf this episode challenged your thinking or encouraged you in some way:LIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTAnd share this episode with someone who’s building, rebuilding, or trying to figure out their next season in life.Your support helps us continue sharing wisdom from life’s turning points and defining moments.#TheShatteredMindset #MartyWynn #Entrepreneurship #Mindset #ResidualIncomeSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

She started with her last $150, came from one of the poorest cities in America, lost businesses during COVID, became a mom, and still built communities generating monthly recurring revenue at scale. In Episode 100, Billionaire Brooklynn breaks down the mindset, pivots, faith, and leverage that changed her life.What happens when life forces you to start over?In this milestone Episode 100 of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin P. Larry sits down with digital entrepreneur and community builder Billionaire Brooklynn for a powerful conversation about mindset, resilience, recurring revenue, and building a life of freedom.Brooklynn shares her journey from growing up in Erie, Pennsylvania — one of the poorest cities in America — to building online communities, SaaS businesses, and multiple streams of income that changed her life.This conversation goes far beyond money.They discuss: Overcoming limiting beliefs  Growing up in lack and scarcity  Betting on yourself  Pivoting after COVID shut down her salons  Becoming a mom and entrepreneur  Why recurring revenue matters  Building communities vs audiences  Faith, affirmations, and mindset  Delegation, leverage, and freedom  The emotional pressure of maintaining success  How ordinary people can monetize their knowledge and experience Brooklynn also breaks down: SaaS (Software as a Service)  GoHighLevel  Digital Boss Academy (DBA)  Building online communities  AI opportunities  Why “doing it scared” matters This is one of the most transparent and insightful conversations ever featured on The Shattered Mindset Podcast.WATCH, LISTEN, LEARN… and most importantly, APPLY.🎙️ Episode 100 is here!ResourcesConnect with Billionaire Brooklynn: - Instagram: @billionairebrooklynn - Skool Communities: DBA & DBC - YouTube: Billionaire BrooklynnRecommended Episodes to Watch Next: Ep 96: The Confidence–Action–Clarity Loop™ Explained  Ep 97: The Cost of Not Changing Watch: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListen: Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Connect with Melvin:- Instagram: @MelvinLarry1-  Facebook: Melvin.Larry - TikTok: @MelvinLarry118 - LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry-  X/Twitter: https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this conversation impacted you, make sure to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT.What was your biggest takeaway from this conversation with Billionaire Brooklynn?#TheShatteredMindset #BillionaireBrooklynn #Mindset #Entrepreneurship #RecurringRevenueSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Are you moving because it’s time… or because you feel pressure?After a powerful conference experience, Melvin found himself caught between two competing forces—urgency and expectancy. One pushed him to move fast, take action, and seize opportunity. The other called him to slow down, reflect, and trust the process.In this episode, Melvin breaks down the tension between movement and alignment, revealing how urgency can sometimes be driven by emotion rather than direction—and how expectancy, when misunderstood, can lead to inaction.This isn’t about choosing one over the other. It’s about learning how to align urgency, reflection, and expectancy so your movement has purpose, clarity, and staying power.You’ll discover: Why not all urgency is instruction  How reflection filters decision-making  The danger of using reflection as an excuse to delay  Why expectancy must show up in your actions—not just your thoughts  How to avoid the cycle of starting strong but losing momentum If you’ve ever found yourself between moving too fast and not moving at all, this episode will help you find the balance that leads to real progress and intentional growth.ResourcesConfidence–Action–Clarity Loop™ Worksheet https://go.theshatteredmindset.com/confidence-loop-worksheetWatch: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListen: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Recommended EpisodesEp 96: Confidence–Action–Clarity Loop™ Explained Ep 97: The Cost of Not ChangingConnect with MelvinYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X: https://x.com/MelvinLarryLIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT#ShatteredMindset #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #Leadership #SelfDevelopmentSupport the Show - LIKE - SUBSCRIBE - SHARE - LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

What if burnout isn’t the problem… but a sign you’re out of alignment?In this powerful and transparent conversation, Melvin Larry sits down with Angel Stephens—former U.S. Army Captain and founder of A-Game Expert—to unpack what really happens when momentum stalls, clarity fades, and burnout sets in.Angel shares her journey from military structure to corporate leadership to entrepreneurship, revealing a deeper truth: many people aren’t stuck because they don’t know what to do… they’re stuck because they’re operating from an identity that no longer fits.This episode goes beyond surface-level motivation. It explores clarity, alignment, decision-making, and the courage to pivot—even when it doesn’t make sense.You’ll hear real stories about rebuilding, recognizing misalignment, and learning how to trust yourself again. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things but still not moving forward, this conversation will meet you right where you are.Key Takeaways: The difference between burnout and misalignment  Why clarity accelerates progress and eliminates confusion  How identity—not strategy—is often the real issue  The power of stopping, auditing, and realigning your actions  Why starting again is not starting over Angel’s message is simple but powerful: Start again. Believe again. Win again.ResourcesFree Gift from Angel Stephens: agamepowermoves.com/forwardslashfreegiftWatchWatch more episodes of The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListenListen on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Connect Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X: https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this conversation helped you see something differently, take a moment to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this episode with someone who needs it. And drop a COMMENT—what part of this conversation spoke to you the most?#ShatteredMindset #EntrepreneurMindset #PersonalGrowth #Clarity #LeadershipSupport the ShowLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTRecommended Episodes (Aligned—No Repetition Issue) Ep 96: The Sequence That Changes Everything (Confidence–Action–Clarity Loop™)  Ep 95: Why You’re Doing the Work But Not Seeing ResultsSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

You might just be successful enough to stay the same. But what is that really costing you?Sometimes the biggest risk isn’t changing… it’s staying the same.In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry breaks down a powerful truth most people overlook—the hidden cost of not changing.Success can be deceptive. When things are working “well enough,” there’s no urgency, no alarm, no obvious reason to shift. But beneath the surface, patterns are forming, opportunities are passing, and growth is quietly being delayed.This episode explores how staying the same can: Keep you operating with outdated thinking  Create invisible costs that compound over time  Limit your potential without you even realizing it Melvin shares real-life insights on leadership, entrepreneurship, and personal growth, including the moment he recognized that what worked before would not take him where he wanted to go next. If you’ve ever felt like you should be further along… If you’ve been tolerating something that no longer serves you… Or if you know deep down it’s time for a shift…This conversation will challenge you to ask a better question:What is it costing me to stay the same?Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListen on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/Recommended EpisodesEp 95: Why You’re Doing the Work But Not Seeing Results Ep 96: The Sequence That Changes Everything | Confidence–Action–Clarity Loop™Connect with MelvinYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X: https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this episode made you stop and think, share it with someone who needs to hear it.#ShatteredMindset #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #LeadershipDevelopment #SelfImprovementSupport the Show LIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

You don’t need more effort—you need the right sequence. Once you see how progress actually unfolds, you stop waiting… and start moving differently.At a certain point in life, the question is no longer “Can I do it?”—you’ve already proven that.The real question becomes:How do I move to the next level with intention?In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry breaks down a powerful shift in thinking that changes how you approach growth, decisions, leadership, and personal development.It’s not about doing more.It’s not about trying harder.It’s about understanding the sequence that drives real progress.You’ve already experienced it…You just may not have had language for it.Melvin introduces the Confidence–Action–Clarity Loop™—a framework that reveals why clarity often comes after action, not before it, and how high-level performers use this pattern to move forward with confidence, even in uncertainty.This episode will challenge how you think about:- Confidence and readiness- Decision-making at higher levels- Personal growth and identity- Leadership and influence- Taking action without full clarity*Now, if you want to apply what you heard in this episode, download the Confidence–Action–Clarity Loop™ Worksheet.This resource will help you:- Identify where you are in the loop- Clarify your next step- Move forward with intentionAccess it here:https://go.theshatteredmindset.com/confidence-loopRecommended EpisodesEp 95: Why You’re Doing the Work But Not Seeing ResultsEp 94: Your Habits Are Deciding Your FutureResourcesWatchSubscribe on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListenAvailable on all major podcast platforms via Buzzsprout:https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Connect with MelvinYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarryX (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarryLIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT#ShatteredMindset #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #LeadershipDevelopment #EntrepreneurMindset #SelfImprovement #SuccessMindset #GrowthMindset #Clarity #Confidence #Discipline #LevelUp #HighPerformance #LifeLessons #PodcastSupport the ShowLIKESUBSCRIBESHARELEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

You’re putting in the work. You’re showing up. You’re doing what you said you were going to do… so why aren’t the results showing up the way you expected?You’re not lazy. You’re not lacking effort. In fact, you may be doing more than most people around you. But if we’re being honest… the results aren’t matching the work.In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry breaks down a hard truth that many people overlook: effort alone does not guarantee progress.Sometimes, the real issue isn’t how hard you’re working… it’s what you’re working on and how it’s aligned with where you’re trying to go.This episode dives into the hidden patterns behind stalled progress, including: Why consistency can still lead you in the wrong direction  How repetition shapes outcomes more than intention  The difference between being active and being effective  Why awareness and adjustment are required for real growth Melvin also introduces a powerful concept—The Confidence–Action–Clarity Loop™—and explains how skipping one part of the process can keep you stuck, even when you’re putting in the work.If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right but still not seeing results, this episode will help you step back, evaluate, and realign your approach so your effort actually moves you forward.ResourcesListen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset Website: https://theshatteredmindset.comRecommended Episodes▶️ Ep 93: Don’t Confuse Movement with Progress ▶️ Ep 91: When Clarity Shows Up LateConnect with Me on Social Media: Facebook: melvin.larry Instagram: @melvinlarry1 TikTok: @melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this episode made you stop and think, take a moment to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT. Let me know what stood out to you or where you may need to make an adjustment.#ShatteredMindset #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #SuccessHabits #SelfAwarenessSupportLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Your future isn’t decided in big moments—it’s shaped by what you repeat every day. The question is… are your habits taking you where you actually want to go?There’s something happening in your life right now—and most people don’t even realize it.  Your future is already being decided.  Not by one big decision. Not by a breakthrough moment. But by what you do every single day.In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry breaks down a powerful truth:Your future does not respond to intention… it responds to repetition.Through real-life experiences, reflections, and lessons learned over time, this episode challenges you to take a closer look at your daily patterns, your habits, and what they’re quietly building behind the scenes.  Because what you repeat, you reinforce.  And what you reinforce… builds your direction.If you’ve ever wondered: Why progress feels slow or invisible  Why good intentions don’t always lead to results  Or how small decisions shape long-term outcomes This episode will help you see it differently.  Not with pressure. Not with perfection.  But with awareness.  And once you see it… you can begin to change it.Resources🎯 Download the Direction Clarity Guide™ https://go.theshatteredmindset.com/direction-clarity-guide-pageRecommended Episodes▶️ Ep 93: Don’t Confuse Movement with Progress https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset If you’re staying busy but not seeing results, this episode will help you understand why activity alone doesn’t create direction.▶️ Ep 91: When Clarity Shows Up Late https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset If you’ve been waiting for the “right time” or clearer direction, this episode will shift how you think about taking action before clarity arrives.Watch full episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListen on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Connect with Melvin: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this episode made you think differently, do this: LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENTTell me—what’s one habit you’ve noticed shaping your life lately?#MindsetMatters #PersonalGrowth #SuccessHabits #Discipline #ShatteredMindsetSupportLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

You can be busy every day… and still be going nowhere. Here’s how to know the difference between movement and real progress.At the end of the day, you might feel productive… but are you actually moving forward?In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry breaks down the critical difference between movement and progress—and how many people unknowingly stay stuck in motion without real direction.Through real-life insights, business experience, and powerful analogies, Melvin challenges the idea that staying busy equals success. From operating in fast-paced corporate environments to personal moments of reflection, this episode uncovers how activity can become a distraction from clarity.You’ll learn how to recognize when you’re solving the wrong problem, why progress often feels slower than movement, and how focus, intentionality, and alignment are the keys to moving forward.If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I really getting anywhere?” — this conversation is for you.What You’ll LearnThe difference between movement and meaningful progressWhy staying busy can actually hold you backHow to identify when you’re solving the wrong problemThe role of focus, elimination, and alignmentWhy progress requires decisions—and sometimes letting goRecommended EpisodesEp 91: Clarity After MovementEp 92: 7 Signs It’s Time to Change DirectionListen on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetConnect with Melvin on Social Media: Facebook: melvin.larry Instagram: @melvinlarry1 TikTok: @melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarry#ShatteredMindset #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #SuccessPrinciples #EntrepreneurMindsetLIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Sometimes the biggest changes in life don’t start with a crisis. They begin with quiet moments when something inside you whispers that the direction you’re moving may no longer feel right.In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry explores seven signs that often appear when life may be asking you to pause and reconsider your direction.There are moments in life when everything appears to be working on the surface, yet something inside you begins asking deeper questions.The job may be stable. The accomplishments may be real. The responsibilities may be meaningful.But quietly, a thought begins to surface:Is this still the right direction for my life?In this episode, Melvin Larry explores seven signs that often appear when it may be time to reconsider the direction you're moving in life, career, leadership, or purpose.This conversation is not about rushing into change. It’s about learning how to recognize the signs that growth may be inviting you into a new season of clarity.Whether you're an entrepreneur, leader, or someone navigating a season of reflection, this episode will help you step back and examine your direction with intention.The 7 Signs It May Be Time to Change Direction• Progress stops feeling meaningful • The energy you once had begins to fade • You begin imagining a different path • Success no longer feels fulfilling • Curiosity begins pulling you somewhere new • Your environment begins to feel smaller • Staying begins to feel heavier than moving forwardDownload the Direction Clarity GuideIf today's conversation made you pause and reflect, you can go deeper with the Direction Clarity Guide, a reflection tool designed to help you evaluate the signals that may be showing up in your life.This guide will help you slow down, ask honest questions, and begin gaining clarity about your next steps.Download it here: [Insert Direction Clarity Guide Link]Recommended EpisodesEp 90: The Identity Gap — Who You Believe You Are vs. Who You're Becoming [Insert YouTube Link]Ep 89: Cause and Effect — The Invisible Forces Shaping Your Life [Insert YouTube Link]Connect with MelvinYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListen to the Podcast https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Instagram https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1Facebook https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larryTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarryX https://x.com/MelvinLarrySupport the ShowLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTYour support helps this message reach more people who are navigating life’s turning points and defining moments.#ShatteredMindset #LifeDirection #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #PurposeDrivenLifeSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Most people believe clarity should come before the decision. But what if clarity actually shows up after you start moving?Many people believe they need perfect clarity before taking action. They wait for certainty, confidence, or the perfect plan before making a move. But in real life, clarity rarely works that way.In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry explores why clarity often appears after movement, not before it. Drawing from personal experience, leadership insights, and the evolution of Netflix under Reed Hastings, this conversation reveals how progress is often built through adjustment, engagement, and real-world feedback rather than perfect planning.If you’ve ever felt stuck waiting for clarity before taking the next step in your career, business, or personal life, this episode will challenge that thinking and encourage you to move forward with the next honest step.Clarity may not arrive before you begin—but it often appears once you do.Business example discussed:Netflix Founder: Reed HastingsWatch: The Shattered Mindset Podcast on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Recommended EpisodesThe Identity Gap: Who You Believe You Are vs Who You’re BecomingCause and Effect: The Quiet Law Shaping Your LifeConnect with MelvinYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetInstagram https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1Facebook https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larryTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarryX (Twitter) https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this episode resonated with you:LIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTYour support helps more people discover the message behind The Shattered Mindset Podcast.#ShatteredMindset #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #EntrepreneurMindset #LeadershipSupportLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

You’re not stuck. You’re not behind. But something inside you hasn’t quite caught up yet.That quiet tension? That’s the identity gap.There comes a point in life when you realize you’re no longer who you used to be — but you haven’t fully stepped into who you’re becoming either.In this Episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry explores The Identity Gap — the space between experience and expansion, wisdom and permission, responsibility and reinvention.This isn’t about starting over. It’s about recalibrating.Through powerful metaphors like climbing Mount Everest with Sherpas, renovating a home while still living in it, and the quiet power of keeping your eyes open, this episode speaks directly to those in the middle of life who feel capable of more — but are learning how to step into it without abandoning what they've earned.If you've ever felt restless, restrained, or quietly unfinished — this conversation will resonate.ResourcesListen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083📘 Shattered Mindset: Breaking Barriers and Building Success (Book in progress)Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListen on Buzzsprout.com and all major podcast platforms.Recommended Episodes 🔹 Ep 89: Cause and Effect 🔹 Ep 46: The Art of Letting GoConnect with Melvin- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry - X (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this conversation resonated with you:LIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTLet me know — where are you in your identity journey right now?#ShatteredMindset #IdentityGap #PersonalGrowth #MidlifeClarity #MindsetShiftSupport the ShowIf you value these conversations and want to see the podcast grow:LIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTYour engagement helps this message reach the people who need it most.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “How did I end up here?” What if the answer isn’t random… but traceable?Some outcomes feel sudden. Others feel unfair. Most don’t feel connected to anything we remember choosing.In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry breaks down cause and effect — not as a textbook principle, but as the quiet law shaping our work, relationships, health, finances, and decisions over time.This isn’t about blame. It’s about clarity.You’ll hear real-life stories, practical examples, and grounded insight on how small patterns quietly compound — and how awareness gives you leverage to change direction without shame.If you’ve ever felt stuck, confused by repeating outcomes, or unsure why certain results keep showing up, this episode will help you reconnect the dots.ResourcesThe Slight Edge by Jeff Olson (Referenced for its insight on simple disciplines, small choices, and long-term compounding)WatchWatch the full episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListenListen to the podcast audio version: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Connect Connect with Melvin Larry:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarryX (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this episode resonated with you:LIKESUBSCRIBESHARELEAVE A COMMENTAnd send this episode to someone who keeps asking, “Why does my life keep turning out this way?”#TheShatteredMindset #CauseAndEffect #LifePatterns #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowthRecommended EpisodesEp 88: The Journey Is Teaching You Something Ep 87: Procrastination Isn’t the Problem — Misaligned Systems Are Support the ShowLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

What if the restlessness you feel isn’t dissatisfaction… but direction?Most of us don’t suddenly decide to change our lives. It begins quietly. A restlessness. A subtle sense that something no longer fits. Not panic. Not crisis. Just awareness.In this episode, I talk about the quiet pull many of us feel — the nudges, the detours, and the seasons that didn’t make sense while we were living them. What if those weren’t distractions? What if they were preparation?You don’t connect the dots looking forward. You connect them looking back. The experiences, choices, relationships, and seasons that once felt random may actually be shaping you for what’s next.If something in you feels stirred, this episode is for you.SUPPORT THE SHOWLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTYour engagement helps this message reach someone who may need it.Connect with Melvin:Listen on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X: https://x.com/MelvinLarryRecommended Episodes:Ep 86: What Shaped You Before You Ever Knew It Ep 87: Procrastination Isn’t the Problem — Misaligned Systems AreSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Procrastination isn’t a character flaw—and it’s not a lack of motivation. In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry challenges the way we label ourselves when we feel stuck and offers a deeper, more compassionate reframe. If you’re capable, experienced, and still finding yourself hesitating, delaying, or overthinking, this conversation is for you. This episode explores why procrastination is often a signal of misalignment, friction, overload, or outdated systems—and how clarity usually follows movement, not the other way around. This is a grounded, reflective episode for people navigating the middle chapters of life, work, and purpose—where motivation fades, but meaning still matters. Listen for insight on: Why motivation is unreliable and systems matter moreHow overthinking and perfection quietly create delayThe role of environment, structure, and identity in momentumWhy procrastination is feedback, not failure #ShatteredMindset #Procrastination #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #SystemsOverMotivation  Support the Show LIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENT  Watch / Listen 🎥 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset 🎧 Listen to the podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 Connect with Melvin 📲 Instagram: @MelvinLarry1 📘 Facebook: Melvin.Larry 🎵 TikTok: @MelvinLarry118 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry 🐦 X (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarry Watch Next ▶️ Ep 51: The Mental Toughness Advantage ▶️ Ep 42: Why Your Past Is Not Your Prison (Aligned themes: mindset, friction, identity, and movement.) If this episode challenged how you’ve been interpreting procrastination, take a moment to reflect—not on what’s wrong with you, but on what might be out of alignment. Then LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT with what resonated most. Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

We like to believe we chose who we are. But much of how we think, react, and decide was shaped long before we were aware it was happening.In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry explores the invisible influences—culture, upbringing, environment, education, and life experiences—that quietly form the beliefs we carry into adulthood.This isn’t about blame. It’s about clarity.Because once you understand where your mindset came from, you’re finally in a position to decide what still belongs—and what no longer serves the person you’re becoming.In this conversation, you’ll hear:Why mindset isn’t about motivation or positive thinkingHow culture and environment silently teach us what’s “possible”The role exposure and mentors play in expanding beliefWhy awareness—not motivation—is the real starting point for growthHow to reclaim authorship of your life instead of living on autopilotIf you’ve ever felt like certain patterns keep repeating, or that parts of your thinking don’t fully reflect who you want to be today, this episode will help you see your story more clearly—and choose what comes next.🎧 Listen to the Podcasthttps://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083▶️ Watch on YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset📲 Connect with MeFacebook: Melvin.Larry Instagram: @MelvinLarry1 TikTok: @MelvinLarry118 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X / Twitter: https://x.com/MelvinLarryRecommended EpisodesEp 42: Why Your Past Is Not Your PrisonEp 51: The Mental Toughness AdvantageSupport the ShowLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Some experiences don’t change your direction — they confirm it. In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry reflects on his second year attending Podfest 2026 in Orlando. This is not a recap of sessions or speakers. It’s a reflection on what becomes visible when growth matures, urgency fades, and clarity begins to lead. Through quiet moments, meaningful reconnections, and honest self-observation, Melvin explores how growth often becomes less about adding and more about refining. You’ll hear why clarity matters more than volume, alignment matters more than activity, and why quiet seasons don’t mean you’re stuck — they often mean you’re integrating. This episode includes two embedded video reflections recorded during Podfest, along with a short in-the-moment conversation with Alicia Couri, offering continuity from a relationship first formed at Podfest the year before. If you’ve felt things getting quieter in your life, business, or creative journey — this conversation may help you understand why that’s not a setback, but a signal. 🎧 Listen to the full podcast audio on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 ✅ Subscribe and watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset 📲 Connect with Me on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarry  Support the Show LIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENT  Recommended Episodes Ep 83: Quiet Signals Before ChangeEp 51: The Mental Toughness Advantage If this episode resonated with you, don’t rush past it. Let it sit. Pay attention to what’s been getting quieter in your life — and what that may be telling you. Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

What if success isn’t the problem — but silence is? What happens when you’ve checked all the boxes… and still feel disconnected?In this deeply reflective conversation, Melvin Larry sits down with Daniel Kobryner, a former global business leader turned Mental Fitness Coach and host of Redesign Your Life Today.Daniel spent more than three decades living a high-performance life filled with responsibility, travel, and outward success — yet quietly felt something was missing. In this episode, he opens up about the subtle inner shifts that often come before major life change, the hidden cost of perfectionism, and why productivity without purpose eventually leads to disconnection.Together, Melvin and Daniel explore:Why burnout often shows up as quiet disengagementHow early life conditioning shapes adult patternsThe role of saboteurs like perfectionism, hyper-achievement, and fearWhy procrastination is emotional, not lazyThe difference between chasing success and attracting alignmentWhat it truly means to be heard, seen, and understood — without judgmentThis conversation is not about doing more. It’s about listening more honestly — to yourself, your life, and what’s quietly asking for change.If you’re accomplished, capable, and still sensing that something is “off,” this episode will meet you right where you are.ResourcesFree Saboteur Assessment (via Daniel’s site)Atomic Habits by James Clear (Referenced in conversation)Watch🎥 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListen🎧 Listen on Buzzsprout & podcast platforms: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Recommended Episodes:Ep 38: From Pause to Power: Overcoming Procrastination and Reclaiming Your MomentumEp 83: Quiet Signals Before ChangeConnect with Melvin:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetInstagram: @melvinlarry1Facebook: melvin.larryTikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarryX (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarry📲 Connect with Daniel Kobryner:Website: https://danielkobryner.comPodcast: Redesign Your Life Today (YouTube & Spotify)LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook (via his name)Call to ActionIf this conversation resonated with you: LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT. Let us know what part of this episode stayed with you.#TheShatteredMindset #MentalFitness #QuietSignals #PurposeOverPerformance #PersonalGrowthSupportLIKE · SUBSCRIBE · SHARE · LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Life doesn’t usually force change out of nowhere. It whispers first — and most of us explain those whispers away.Life rarely shocks us without warning.In this solo episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry explores the quiet signals that appear long before life forces change — in business, career, relationships, health, and personal growth.These signals don’t arrive as emergencies. They show up as repetition, emotional flatness, internal tension, over-rationalizing, resentment, and a shift in how time feels.You may be succeeding on the outside, advancing in your career, or maintaining important relationships — yet sensing something feels off. This episode unpacks why that feeling isn’t restlessness or failure, but information asking to be acknowledged.Melvin explains how discipline without awareness can turn into endurance for the wrong thing, how limiting beliefs disguise themselves as wisdom, and why learning to listen earlier allows change to be thoughtful instead of forced.You’ll also hear about The Quiet Signals Guide, a reflective companion resource designed to help you recognize these signals before life gets loud.This episode is not about drastic decisions. It’s about awareness, honesty, and listening to what’s been quietly showing up.#ShatteredMindset #LifeLessons #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #CareerClarity🎧 Listen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast (Audio): https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetRecommended Episodes :Ep 78: When Life Whispers Before It ShoutsEp 80: Tenacity Is a Business SchoolConnect with Melvin LarryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larryInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarryX (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this episode resonated with you, LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT with what you’ve been quietly noticing in your own life.SupportLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

 What if your body isn’t failing you—but communicating with you? In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry sits down with Dr. Leona Allen for a powerful, grounded conversation about how mindset, life lessons, and limiting beliefs show up physically in our lives. This isn’t a conversation about men’s issues or women’s issues. It’s about human issues—identity, rejection, performance, pressure, and the silent beliefs we carry from childhood into adulthood. Dr. Leona shares how early experiences shape our beliefs, how achievement alone doesn’t heal internal wounds, and why the body often becomes the messenger when we ignore what’s happening beneath the surface. Together, they explore: How limiting beliefs form earlier than we realizeWhy many people try to “perform” their way into acceptanceHow pain can become a pathway to powerWhy movement, awareness, and belief matter more than credentialsHow emotional and mental stress shows up physicallyWhat it means to stop owning labels like “my diabetes” or “my blood pressure”This episode is especially relevant for men and women navigating middle of life transitions—changing health, shifting identity, evolving purpose, and the quiet realization that something deeper needs attention. If something in this conversation resonates, don’t rush past it. Sit with it. That’s often where real transformation begins.  Guest Information Dr. Leona Allen Website: https://www.drleona.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrLeonaAllen Podcast: The Heal Deal Podcast (available on all major platforms)  Support this Show - LIKE - SUBSCRIBE - SHARE - LEAVE A COMMENT Your engagement helps this message reach the people who need it most.  Recommended Episodes Ep 80: Tenacity Is a Business SchoolEp 79: The New Middle  LISTEN to the podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 WATCH on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset Connect with Melvin: 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry 🐦 X (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarry Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

There are moments in life when you stop rushing forward and finally pause long enough to notice where you’ve been, what shaped you, and who you’re becoming.In this deeply reflective episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry sets aside teaching, tactics, and structure to simply talk out loud. No polished outline. No agenda. Just a thoughtful look at life, work, faith, discipline, purpose, legacy, and the quiet lessons that only time can teach.Recorded during the holiday season, this episode explores what happens when you:Stop performing and start believingLook at your whole life instead of one chapterRecognize that discipline, commitment, and humility shape us long before results doUnderstand that contribution matters more than being knownRealize that presence, not titles, is what people rememberThis is not an episode about having everything figured out. It’s about letting people overhear you thinking, reflecting honestly, and giving yourself permission to pause.Whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond, this conversation is an invitation to slow down, assess your direction, and recommit to what truly matters.Support the ShowLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTYour engagement helps this message reach others who may need it.Connect with Melvin🎧 Listen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset📲 Connect on Social Media: Facebook: Melvin.Larry Instagram: @MelvinLarry1 TikTok: @MelvinLarry118 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarryRecommended EpisodesEp 80: Tenacity Is a Business SchoolEp 79: The New MiddleSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

 What if the real education for success doesn’t come from books, seminars, or certifications? In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin P. Larry breaks down a powerful truth that emerged from a simple observation—and a single Instagram comment that resonated with thousands: “Tenacity, by itself, is a business school.” This episode explores why so many intelligent, talented, and capable people quit early—not because they can’t do the work, but because their “I Quit” level shows up before commitment does. You’ll hear reflections on: Why tenacity is trained, not just inheritedThe difference between staying enrolled and actively engagingHow unfinished projects quietly erode self-trustWhy finishing builds identity, not just resultsThe hidden cost of passive endurance versus active commitmentThis is a grounded, reflective conversation for entrepreneurs, leaders, and anyone navigating the middle of life—where clarity is earned through pressure, not motivation. If you’ve ever felt stuck, stalled, or quietly disengaged from something that once mattered, this episode will help you reconnect to the discipline of finishing and the integrity of your own word.  🎧 Listen to the Podcast https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 ▶️ Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset 📲 Connect with Melvin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarryX (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarrySupport the Show LIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENT  🔁 Recommended Episodes Ep 51: The Mental Toughness AdvantageEp 36: Confidence in Uncertainty #Tenacity #MindsetMatters #PersonalGrowth #Discipline #Leadership Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

We’re living in a moment where the ground is shifting under all of us. You’re not who you used to be, but you’re not yet who you’re becoming. And the world you grew up prepared for is not the world you’re living in today.In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry dives deep into the new middle — the space between who you were and who you're becoming.This is the reality for millions of people today: careers shifting, identity evolving, AI shaking up industries, and a world that keeps moving faster than the instruction manual we were handed. Whether you’re in your 40s, 50s, 60s, or navigating a major life transition, the middle can feel uncertain, challenging, and even confusing.But it can also be the most transformational place you’ll ever stand.Inside this episode, you’ll learn:Why the “middle” season of life is more important than everHow AI is reshaping identity, work, and opportunityWhy the gig, creator, and reinvention economies are changing everythingHow to rethink risk, stability, and purpose in a new eraThe truth about career reinvention in your mid-life yearsWhy mindset, not industry, determines successSeven practical steps to navigate the middle with clarityA challenge to ground your next chapter in purposeIf you’ve been feeling stretched, pulled, uncertain, or in transition… this episode speaks directly to where you are.Watch More EpisodesThe Shattered Mindset Podcast Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListen to the PodcastBuzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Recommended Episodes:Ep 65: Lanyards, Lessons, and Legacy and Ep 51: The Mental Toughness Advantage.Connect with MelvinYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetInstagram: @melvinlarry1Facebook: melvin.larryTikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarryX/Twitter: https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this episode spoke to you, don’t keep it to yourself. LIKE the video, SUBSCRIBE to the channel, SHARE it with someone navigating their own transition, and LEAVE A COMMENT about the lesson the middle is teaching you right now.Your engagement helps this message reach more people who need clarity for their next chapter.#MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #ReinventionSupport the ShowLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Life doesn’t always speak in big moments. Most of the time, it whispers. A nudge. A pattern. A restlessness. A moment that keeps returning. And if you’ve been feeling pulled, pressed, or unsettled lately… this episode is for you.Today’s conversation is all about recognizing the messages inside the moments you often overlook—those subtle, quiet signals that guide your purpose, your peace, and your next chapter. Strength isn’t always loud, and clarity doesn’t always come quickly. Sometimes it shows up in the silence you’ve been avoiding.This episode will help you tune in, slow down, and hear what life has been trying to tell you… long before it ever has to shout.Listen in as we explore: • How life speaks through repetition, restlessness, and resistance • Why most people miss the messages meant for their growth • How real strength is tied to listening, not pushing • The difference between noise and guidance • What changes when you finally hear the whisper beneath the chaos • The challenge that will help you reconnect with clarity this weekIf you’re in a season where life feels unsettled, unclear, or heavier than it should be—this is your moment.WATCH NEXT • Ep 77 – Problems vs. Situations https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uVowd6XcYyo• Ep 51 – The Mental Toughness Advantage https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ceHvqLcpCQUCONNECT WITH MELVIN- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset-  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melvinlarry1 - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melvin.larry - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melvinlarry118 - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry - Twitter/X: https://x.com/MelvinLarryPodcast on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083SUPPORT THE SHOWLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTYour engagement helps this message reach more people who need it.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

What if most of what you call a “problem” is really just a situation you’re walking through? In this episode, Melvin breaks down the difference and shows how that simple shift can change your peace, your decisions, and your life.DescriptionAre you carrying everything in your life like it’s a crisis?In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin shares how losing two sisters, a best friend, and close family members in less than 18 months forced him to see life differently—through the lens of problems vs situations.He breaks down how mislabeling what you’re facing makes life feel heavier than it needs to be, why imagined situations create real stress, and how grief can be honored without surrendering your purpose.You’ll learn:Why the words “problem” vs “situation” change the weight you carryHow hard seasons can be honored without shutting your life downHow imagined situations create real stressHow to separate the facts from the storyThe S.I.F.T. Process™ for seeing clearlyA 5-step process to keep situations from turning into bigger problemsIf you’ve been feeling stretched, heavy, or overwhelmed, this conversation will help you breathe, think clearly, and respond with intention instead of reaction.WATCHWATCH this episode on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetLISTENLISTEN to The Shattered Mindset Podcast on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083CONNECTCONNECT with Melvin and The Shattered Mindset:YouTube: www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetBuzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Facebook: Melvin.LarryInstagram: @MelvinLarry1TikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarryX (Twitter): https://x.com/MelvinLarryResourcesThe Shattered Mindset Podcast – All Episodes (Buzzsprout): https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083If this episode helped you see your situation differently, share it with someone carrying a lot right now.Drop a comment below: What have you been calling a “problem” that might actually be a situation you’re walking through?#theshatteredmindset #mindsetshift #problemsvssituations #mentalresilience #lifetransitionsSupport the ShowLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENTYour support helps this message reach more people who need it.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Life is loud. Stress is real. But sometimes the truth about where we are shows up in the simple, everyday moments we’ve been walking right past.Life doesn’t always speak through the big dramatic moments. Sometimes it tells the truth through the everyday scenes we tend to ignore — kids playing, families relaxing, friends laughing, dogs pulling their owners like they’re late for a meeting.In this episode, Melvin breaks down how ordinary moments reveal what’s really going on inside us — our pace, our stress, our joy, our presence, our connection, and the mindset we carry into our daily lives.This is a lighter episode with depth, warmth, and perspective — a needed reset after heavy conversations. You’ll walk away seeing your world differently… and maybe noticing a few things you’ve been stepping over.If you’ve been moving fast, carrying a lot, or feeling disconnected from yourself — this conversation will help bring you back to what matters.WatchWatch more episodes of The Shattered Mindset Podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetListenListen on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083ConnectWebsite: www.theshatteredmindset.com Instagram: @melvinlarry1 Facebook: melvin.larry TikTok: @melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry X/Twitter: https://x.com/MelvinLarryIf this episode brought you insight or a moment of clarity, share it with someone who needs it. Leave a comment and let’s keep this conversation going.Hashtags#MindsetShift #LifeLessons #PersonalGrowth #MenAndMindset #ShatteredMindsetPodcastSupportLIKE • SUBSCRIBE • SHARE • LEAVE A COMMENTSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

“Most men don’t want to stop living — they just want to stop hurting. And that silent pain? It’s taking lives every single day.”When was the last time you heard a man say, “I’m not okay”? In this episode I open a conversation most men avoid — the silent pain behind strength. From the armor boys are taught to wear, to the depression that doesn’t end life but ends living, this is a call for honesty, connection, and healing.I share real stories: a neighbor lost to heartbreak, a soldier battling invisible wars, a father crushed under pressure, and a pastor hiding behind shame. He also unpacks the rising suicide rates among men — especially within the Black community — and the unspoken depression that steals purpose long before it steals life.You’ll hear how men can support each other without threatening pride, why therapy is not weakness, and five practical ways to know you’re not alone.This isn’t about softening men. It’s about saving men — and learning to live differently, to live honestly.Resources Mentioned988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 (24/7 confidential help)Veterans Crisis Line: Dial 988 then press 1 or text 838255HeadsUpGuys.org – mental-health resources for menNAMI ( National Alliance on Mental Illness ) – nami.org/helpManTherapy.org – humor-driven support for menFind a Therapist: psychologytoday.comWatch NextEp 74: Why Most People Quit Before the BreakthroughEp 51: The Mental Toughness AdvantageListen to the Podcast🎧 The Shattered Mindset Podcast → https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083Connect with MelvinYouTube: @TheShatteredMindsetInstagram: @MelvinLarry1Facebook: Melvin.LarryTikTok: @MelvinLarry118LinkedIn: Melvin LarryX (Twitter): @MelvinLarrySupport the ShowLIKE SUBSCRIBE SHARE LEAVE A COMMENT Your engagement helps bring light to silent battles and hope to hurting hearts.#MensMentalHealth #TheShatteredMindset #StopTheSilence #FaithAndHealing #SuicidePrevention #PodcastForMen #MentalHealthAwareness #MelvinLarrySupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Why do most people stop right before the finish line? In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry unpacks the hidden cost of comfort and how it keeps so many from experiencing their next breakthrough.You’ll discover why comfort feels safe but slowly steals your confidence, clarity, and calling. Melvin shares real-life lessons from entrepreneurship, leadership, and personal growth—revealing how to push through resistance, prepare for the dips, and trust the unseen process that leads to lasting transformation.This episode also explores:The emotional slide that leads to quittingWhy pressure doesn’t break you—it reveals youThe difference between motivation and disciplineHow consistency compounds even when results aren’t visibleWhy mindset without movement isn’t really "set"Whether you’re an entrepreneur, leader, or someone standing on the edge of change, this episode will help you stop retreating into comfort and start pressing forward with purpose, faith, and resilience.📚 Books Mentioned in This EpisodeThe One Thing by Gary Keller & Jay PapasanThe Power of One More by Ed Mylett🎯 Support the ShowLIKE • SUBSCRIBE • SHARE • LEAVE A COMMENTYour feedback and engagement help spread the message of The Shattered Mindset Podcast.🔗 Listen to the Full  Episode:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/episodes/18138544 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.YouTube.com/@TheShatteredMindset📲 Connect with MelvinFacebook: melvin.larryInstagram: @melvinlarry1TikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: Melvin LarryX (Twitter): @MelvinLarry#ShatteredMindset #MindsetShift #Breakthrough #PersonalGrowth #EntrepreneurMindseSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

From Spanish Harlem to Hollywood — Lydia Nicole’s story is one of faith, grit, and purpose. She didn’t just find her way; she built it.DescriptionIn this episode, Melvin Larry sits down with Lydia Nicole — actress, comedian, producer, and truth-teller — for a deeply personal and inspiring conversation. From her beginnings in Spanish Harlem to building a multifaceted career in Hollywood, Lydia shares how faith, persistence, and purpose shaped her life’s journey.She opens up about growing up in chaos, finding God at an early age, carving her path in radio, comedy, and film, and learning how to turn great ideas into God ideas. Her story is raw, real, and a masterclass in resilience.In this conversation:How growing up in Spanish Harlem shaped her fire and faithBreaking barriers as a Latina in comedy and entertainmentThe difference between performing for acceptance and performing from truthAligning your gifts with your callingWhy mindset, persistence, and faith matter more than timingHow to find peace and purpose when life feels stuckWhether you’re an artist, entrepreneur, or someone seeking a fresh start — this episode reminds you that your past is not your prison.📺 Watch more episodes: 🔗 https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset🎧 Listen on Buzzsprout: 🔗 https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083📲 Connect with Melvin Larry:YouTube: @theshatteredmindsetInstagram: @MelvinLarry1Facebook: Melvin.LarryTikTok: @MelvinLarry118LinkedIn: Melvin LarryX (Twitter): @MelvinLarrySupport the Show: LIKE • SUBSCRIBE • SHARE • LEAVE A COMMENT#LydiaNicole #ShatteredMindsetPodcast #FaithAndResilience #HarlemToHollywood #MindsetShift“Share this conversation with someone who needs to hear that it’s never too late to rise, rebuild, or begin again. Subscribe for more stories of faith, growth, and legacy.”Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

In this episode, Melvin Larry sits down with Kendall Ficklin, a man whose journey from cutting hair to business leader is as inspiring as it is transformative.Kendall opens up about his early years, his entrepreneurial drive, and the defining moments that shaped his mindset — from corporate success and personal struggle to rebuilding through faith, family, and purpose.This conversation explores what it really means to grow through life’s middle seasons — where grace meets grind, and maturity means learning to lead at home, in business, and within yourself.🎯 Key Themes Covered:From the barbershop to the boardroom — lessons on leadership and legacyOvercoming vices, failures, and fear with faith and accountabilityRedefining manhood in midlife: from grind to graceBecoming the “Chief Example Officer” at home and in businessFatherhood, marriage, and building generational traditionThe mindset shift from success to significanceThis episode isn’t about the hustle — it’s about the human behind the hustle.Featured Guest: Kendall Ficklin — CEO of Grindation & Ficklin & Associates | Speaker | Author | Leadership Coach Watch NextEp 71 – The Power of Reflection with Tony J. ReeseEp 70 – Shattering Plateaus: Why Growth Feels Stuck (and How to Break Through)Support the ShowLIKE | SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | LEAVE A COMMENT Join the conversation — your support helps more people break through limiting beliefs and live with purpose, clarity, and courage.🎧 Listen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 ▶ Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset 📲 Connect with Melvin on Social Media: Facebook: melvin.larry Instagram: @melvinlarry1 TikTok: @melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: Melvin Larry X (Twitter): @MelvinLarryFollow Kendall: https://www.kendallficklin.comInstagram: @kendallficklinYouTube: @kendallficklin#TheShatteredMindsetPodcast #KendallFicklin #MindsetMatters #GraceAndGrind #LeadershipAndLegacyLIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT — it helps more people find The Shattered Mindset Podcast and join this movement of growth and legacy.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

In this powerful episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry sits down with Tony J. Reese — Greatness & Growth Consultant, pastor, entrepreneur, and Kingdom leader from Fort Worth, Texas.Tony shares his journey from pain to purpose — growing up without a father, breaking generational curses, and building a Kingdom-centered legacy rooted in faith, family, and leadership. Together, Melvin and Tony talk about:The connection between pain and purposeHow mindset and faith work hand in handFatherhood, manhood, and the power of vulnerabilityWhy men struggle with therapy but thrive with coachingBuilding Kingdom families and raising children with vision and valuesBalancing calling, business, and being present at homeHow technology and AI can serve faith-driven entrepreneursLessons in self-care, rest, and leadershipTony also discusses his book Breakthrough, co-authored with Les Brown, and his upcoming project “Becoming a Rich Dad When You Had No Dad.”This episode is real, heartfelt, and filled with wisdom for men, families, and leaders seeking balance, healing, and growth in a changing world.SUPPORT THE SHOWLIKE • SUBSCRIBE • SHARE • LEAVE A COMMENT Your engagement helps the show reach more people who need these messages of growth and mindset transformation.WATCH NEXT🎧 Ep 69: Resilience in Transitions – A Compilation 🎧 Ep 70: Shattering Plateaus – Why Growth Feels Stuck (and How to Break Through) 🎧 Ep 60: Faith, Fear, and Forward MotionLISTEN ON BUZZSPROUT🎧 https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083CONNECT WITH MELVIN📲 Social Media LinksYouTube: www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetInstagram: @melvinlarry1Facebook: melvin.larryTikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/melvinlarryCONNECT WITH TONY J. REESE🌐 www.tonyjreese.com 📸 Instagram: @tonyjreese 📘 Book: Breakthrough by Les Brown & Tony J. Reese#TheShatteredMindsetPodcast #TonyJReese #KingdomFamily #FaithAndLeadership #MindsetAndLegacySupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Have you ever felt like you’re doing everything right but still not moving forward? In this episode, Melvin P. Larry explores what it really means to hit a plateau — and why feeling stuck doesn’t mean you’ve failed.You’ll discover:The hidden value behind slow seasons and silent progressWhy smooth surfaces don’t give you traction — and how friction fuels growthHow to turn frustration into focus when your momentum stallsThe mindset shift that transforms plateaus into launchpadsThrough real-life lessons and powerful metaphors — from mountain climbs to rubber bands and growing pains — Melvin reminds us that the resistance we feel isn’t there to break us, but to build us.Because sometimes, the hardest seasons aren’t holding you back — they’re preparing you for your next breakthrough.🎧 Listen now and discover why you’re not failing — you’re forming.🔗 Resources🎧 Listen on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 ✅ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset📲 Connect with Melvin:Instagram: @melvinlarry1Facebook: Melvin.LarryTikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: Melvin Larry▶️ Watch NextEp 69: Resilience in Transitions – A CompilationEp 60: Faith, Fear, and Forward Motion💡 Support the Show LIKE • SUBSCRIBE • SHARE • LEAVE A COMMENTYour engagement helps The Shattered Mindset Podcast reach more people who are ready to grow, evolve, and build a mindset for success.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Have you ever faced a season of transition — leaving behind the familiar to step into the unknown?In this special compilation episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry weaves together extended clips from Episodes 19, 37, 51, and 46, showing how reinvention, pain, mental toughness, and letting go all connect to build true resilience.From leaving the corporate world for entrepreneurship, to learning from pain, to showing up with mental toughness when life presses hard, and finally releasing what no longer serves you — these defining moments reveal the through-line of resilience.Listen in, reflect on your own journey, and ask yourself: What season are you in right now? And what mindset will carry you through it?Resources🎧 Listen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 ✅ Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset📲 Connect with Melvin on Social Media:Facebook: melvin.larryInstagram: @melvinlarry1TikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarrySupport the ShowLIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT to keep growing The Shattered Mindset Podcast!Watch also:Ep 19: The Art of Reinvention: Thriving Through Life’s TransitionsEp 37: Interpreting Pain – Lessons, Growth, and Moving ForwardEp 51: The Mental Toughness AdvantageEp 46: The Art of Letting Go: Releasing What No Longer Serves You#Mindset #Resilience #Transitions #PersonalGrowth #ShatteredMindsetSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Have you ever stopped to wonder why you see the world the way you do? Why you believe what you believe about success, failure, money, family, or even yourself?In this powerful episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry explores the invisible forces that shape us — culture, environment, education, and personal experiences. Discover how these influences mold our beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors, often without us realizing it.Melvin breaks down the difference between mindset and philosophy, draws on insights from Dr. Carol Dweck (Mindset: The New Psychology of Success) and Dr. Benjamin Hardy (Be Your Future Self Now), and shares how his own life experiences — from family and corporate life to entrepreneurship and legacy — shaped his mindset.This episode challenges you to move from living by default to living by design, and Melvin closes with five proven steps to help you intentionally shape your mindset and your future.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:What a mindset really is and how it differs from a philosophyHow culture and environment create the foundation of your beliefsWhy education and exposure to new ideas can transform your lifeThe balance between past shaping the present vs. present shaping the futureFive actionable steps to shape your mindset with purpose*Listen to the full episode and reflect on how the invisible hand has been shaping your journey — and how you can start shaping it for yourself. Available on all podcast platforms → Buzzsprout*Resources MentionedMindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck → Amazon link: Be Your Future Self Now by Dr. Benjamin Hardy → Amazon link: *Listen on Podcast Platforms Through: Buzzsprout*Connect with MelvinYouTube: @theshatteredmindsetInstagram: @melvinlarry1Facebook: Melvin.LarryTikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: Melvin Larry*Support the Show LIKE this video SUBSCRIBE to the channel SHARE it with someone who needs to hear it LEAVE A COMMENT with your thoughts>Take a moment this week to reflect on the invisible hands that have shaped you. Is it culture, environment, education, or experience that’s influenced you most? Drop a comment below and let’s start that conversation.#MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #ShatteredMindsetPodcastSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Reverend Albert Johnson joins me for a powerful, transparent conversation about calling, identity, leadership, decision-making, and why men need real mentorship and accountability. We dig into his journey from trucking to chaplaincy, lessons from strong male role models, the balance between church and nonprofit work, and how family remains the foundation for a thriving society. If you’re a man in that 35–55 core range (or love one), this one’s for you.What you’ll learn:Personal mission, core values, and keeping family firstHow near-miss moments clarify calling and purposeMentoring vs. advice: asking better questions and building trustChurch culture, nonprofit partnerships, and community impactWhy men struggle to open up—and how to build accountabilityDecision-making (knowledge, skills, desire) and protecting your focusMoving through life’s phases with wisdom, integrity, and faithIf this conversation resonates, don’t miss these related episodes:Ep 60: Faith, Fear and Forward Motion — on moving with courage when the path isn’t clearEp 61: Old Keys Don’t Open New Doors — on releasing outdated identities and stepping into the next chapterConnect with Melvin (social & podcast): *Listen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083*Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry Instagram: @melvinlarry1 Facebook: melvin.larry TikTok: @melvinlarry118Support the Show LIKE • SUBSCRIBE • SHARE • LEAVE A COMMENT#mensmentorship #faithandleadership #mindsetmatters #personalgrowth #manhood Don’t just listen—act. If Reverend Johnson’s story sparked something in you, take a moment today to reflect on your own mission, your values, and your mentors. And if this helped you, LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE, and LEAVE A COMMENT below with one lesson you’re carrying forward. Watch Next Ep 60: Faith, Fear and Forward MotionEp 61: Old Keys Don’t Open New DoorsSupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

Are the 7 Deadly Sins still relevant today? Absolutely—and not just in the way you might think. In this powerful episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, host Melvin Larry breaks down ancient wisdom and reframes it for our modern lives. This isn't a sermon—it's a real conversation about the patterns that shape us.Pride, Greed, Lust, Envy, Wrath, Gluttony, and Sloth aren't just "sins"... they're stories we tell ourselves—stories that either hold us hostage or wake us up. But what if we looked deeper? What if we leaned into their opposites?Join Melvin as he unpacks each of these deeply human struggles and pairs them with transformational virtues like humility, generosity, love, and diligence. With real stories, honest reflection, and legacy-driven truth, this episode invites you to shift your patterns and rewrite your path.If you're ready to shatter old beliefs and build a mindset rooted in growth, this one's for you.Don’t forget to Leave a COMMENT, LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE! Your support helps spread this message to those who need it most.*Listen on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083*Watch More Episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset*Connect with Melvin on Social Media:Facebook: melvin.larryInstagram: @melvinlarry1TikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/melvinlarry#ShatteredMindsetPodcast #PersonalGrowth #MindsetMatters #SelfAwareness #LegacyLiving“If this episode spoke to you, hit that like button, share it with someone who needs it, and make sure you’re subscribed so you never miss another breakthrough conversation.”Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

This episode starts with a handful of lanyards — but it quickly becomes a masterclass on what it really means to learn, grow, and apply.Melvin Larry unpacks decades of training, workshops, books, and conferences to deliver hard-earned wisdom on why growth isn't automatic and learning is more than showing up — it's about doing something with what you gain.Whether you're flipping pages or listening on the go, this one challenges you to stop collecting information and start applying it.In This Episode:Why lanyards represent more than attendance — they represent intentionalityThe real difference between reading and listeningWhy application > informationHow to know if you’re growing — or just spectatingHow storytelling, humility, and sharing your lessons impacts generationsAlso Mentioned: Check out Ep 64: Lessons I’ve Learned in Life for more timeless truths.––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– *Listen on Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083*Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset *Connect with Melvin: Facebook: melvin.larry Instagram: @melvinlarry1 TikTok: @melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarrySupport the Show: LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, COMMENT, and SHARE Before this week is out, share one thing you've learned with someone in your circle — your children, grandchildren, or a peer. Then, drop a comment below and let us know what that was. Let’s grow forward together.Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

"Every one of us wakes up with something pushing us forward — but what really drives us?"DescriptionWhat truly drives us? In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry explores the 10 Human Drives from Brendon Burchard’s book The Charge — but through his own lens of experience, growth, and mindset.Discover how control, competence, congruence, caring, connection, change, challenge, creative expression, contribution, and consciousness shape our lives — and how mastering them helps us live more fully, love more deeply, and lead with purpose.Want to dig deeper? Grab the book The Charge by Brendon Burchard here (Amazon Affiliate link): https://amzn.to/45NW7oIListen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetConnect with Melvin on Social Media:Instagram: @melvinlarry1Facebook: melvin.larryTikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/melvinlarrySupport the Show: LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE#MindsetMatters #PersonalGrowth #TheShatteredMindset"Ask yourself: How alive am I right now? If this episode spoke to you, LEAVE a COMMENT, LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE it with someone who needs to hear it."Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

In this episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, Melvin Larry opens up about some of the most powerful lessons life has taught him. From the difference between joy and happiness, to health, parenting, money, relationships, and legacy—these timeless truths are reminders to live with love, wisdom, and strength.You’ll hear personal stories about:Why joy is deeper than happinessHow your health is really in your handsWhy excellence matters more than perfectionThe importance of sharing stories with children and grandchildrenParenting with love, wisdom, and strengthLessons about money, growth, and lifelong learningHow to define your future self and legacyMelvin also shares five practical steps you can take this week to apply these lessons and live more intentionally.Listen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindsetConnect with Melvin on Social Media:Facebook: melvin.larryInstagram: @melvinlarry1TikTok: @melvinlarry118LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/melvinlarrySupport the Show: LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE#MindsetMatters #LifeLessons #TheShatteredMindsetPodcastFive things I want you to do this week. Not next year. Not someday. This week.”Reflect and Write Take 10 minutes and write down one lesson that’s been shaping your life. Don’t just think it—write it. When you put it on paper, it becomes real.Share a Story Tell one of your children, grandchildren, or even a close friend something they may not know about you. Your stories are part of their inheritance—don’t hold them back.Take One Step Toward Health Skip the fried food. Drink more water. Walk an extra 15 minutes. Small steps add up, but you’ve got to start.Practice Excellence, Not Perfection That thing you’ve been sitting on because it’s not “ready”? Just take the next step. Progress beats perfection every time.Invest in Your Future Self Describe who you want to be remembered as. Write it down in one sentence. Then ask yourself—what can I do today to move closer to that version of me?“That’s your assignment. Don’t just listen—apply it. Because wisdom unused is just information. But wisdom applied—that’s transformation.”Support the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support

What if your journey wasn’t just about money—but meaning?In this powerful episode of The Shattered Mindset Podcast, host Melvin Larry sits down with entrepreneur and author Max J. Pilet for a heart-centered and eye-opening conversation about freedom, legacy, and faith-driven success.Max shares his story of going from college grad to entrepreneur without ever clocking into a traditional 9-to-5. He opens up about:How personal development saved his mindsetWhat it really means to forgive from the heartHis evolving relationship with his mother and fatherThe blessing of time freedom in caregiving and marriageLaunching his new book and course, Posts to ProfitsThis episode is a testament to growth, faith, and living a life that aligns with your values. Whether you're a man navigating purpose in midlife or a young entrepreneur chasing clarity, there’s something here for you.📚 Grab Max’s book: https://www.poststoprofits.com 💼 Pre-register for the course: https://www.poststoprofits.comListen to The Shattered Mindset Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@theshatteredmindset Connect with Melvin on Social Media: Facebook: Melvin.Larry Instagram: @MelvinLarry1 TikTok: @melvinlarry118 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/melvinlarrySupport the showWATCH VIDEO EPISODES on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheShatteredMindsetSUPPORT THIS PODCAST AT:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2397083/support