The Soul Care Podcast

Episode #11 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest Host: Connie Lamb Guest: Alisa Keeton   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren and special Guest Host Connie Lamb welcome Alisa Keeton, founder of Revelation Wellness, to discuss the transformative power of viewing our bodies as gifts rather than problems. Alisa shares her personal journey from a life entrenched in diet culture to one that embraces faith and wellness. The conversation delves into the harmful effects of body shame, the importance of community in healing, and the distinction between valuing our bodies for their abilities rather than vanity. Alisa emphasizes the need for compassion and curiosity in our relationship with our bodies, encouraging listeners to embrace their identity as God's creations.   Takeaways Alisa Keeton emphasizes that our bodies are gifts to be stewarded, not problems to be solved. The journey to wellness involves breaking free from toxic shame and diet culture. Community plays a crucial role in healing and self-acceptance. Curiosity about our bodies can lead to compassion and understanding. Fitness should focus on the ability of the body rather than vanity. The church has a responsibility to address body image issues and promote healthy perspectives. Perfect love from God casts out fear and shame associated with body image. Healing cannot occur in isolation; we need each other. Understanding the nervous system is one key to achieving wellness. Our identity in Christ is foundational to how we view our bodies.   Relevant Links Mentioned Resources The Body Revelation: Physical and Spiritual Practices to Metabolize Pain, Banish Shame, and Connect to God with Your Whole Self (Alisa Keeton) Revelation Wellness (Alisa Keeton’s website) Revelation Wellness (YouTube Channel) Healthy & Whole Podcast (Apple Podcast link, but found on most podcast platforms) Heir to the Crown: A Mind-Body Devotional for the Daughters of God (Alisa Keeton) What Do You Think of Me? Why Do I Care?: Answers to the Big Questions of Life (Ed Welch)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “You can’t heal what you hate. Hatred closes the door to transformation and leaves us in a pool of toxic shame.”

Episode #10 Show Notes Hosts: Kimberly Willess, Warren Lamb Guest: Melissa Daugherty   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly and Warren talk with Melissa Dougherty, an author and apologist, about her book 'Happy Lies' and the New Thought movement. Melissa shares her spiritual journey from New Thought to Christianity, exploring how seductive New Thought beliefs can be and how they appear in modern Christianity. The conversation explores the meaning of suffering, the importance of surrender in the Gospel, and the false idea of human goodness. They also examine how consumerism affects spirituality and why true healing comes through Christ. Melissa mentions her future research plans, including a detailed examination of influential figures in the New Thought movement and their impact on Christianity.   Takeaways Melissa Dougherty's book 'Happy Lies' explores the New Thought movement. She shares her journey from New Thought to Christianity. New Thought beliefs are often mistaken for Christian teachings. The seductive nature of New Thought makes it difficult to identify. Suffering is viewed differently in New Thought compared to Christianity. The need for surrender to God's will is emphasized in the Gospel. Human goodness is an illusion in the context of sin. Consumerism influences modern spirituality and instant gratification. True healing comes through a relationship with Christ. Melissa plans to research influential figures in the New Thought movement.   Relevant Links Mentioned Resources Happy Lies: How a Movement You (Probably) Never Heard Of Shaped Our Self-Obsessed World (Melissa Daugherty) Melissa Daugherty YouTube Channel Blessed: A History of the American Prosperity Gospel (Kate Bowler) The Story of Reality: How the World Began, How It Ends, and Everything Important that Happens in Between (Greg Koukl) The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self: Cultural Amnesia, Expressive Individualism, and the Road to Sexual Revolution (Carl R. Trueman) Biblical Counseling and Mental Disorder Diagnosis (Jenn Chen) Science Fictions: How Fraud, Bias, Negligence, and Hype Undermine the Search for Truth (Stewart Ritchie) Brainwashed: The Seductive Appeal of Mindless Neuroscience (Sally Satel and Scott O. Linienfeld) The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma (Michael Scheeringa)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Surrender isn't giving up; it's finally letting the right Person be in charge.”

Episode #9 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest: Pastor Trey Richardson   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren interviews Pastor Trey Richardson, who shares his journey in pastoral ministry, emphasizing the importance of trusting in the sufficiency of Scripture for biblical counseling and soul-care, especially for those with a serious mental health diagnosis. He discusses the challenges faced by individuals with mental health issues and how God's Word can bring healing and transformation. The conversation highlights the significance of community support, the power of prayer, and the role of family life in shaping one's ministry. Pastor Trey encourages ordinary believers and pastors alike to trust in the sufficiency of Scripture and to approach mental health care with confidence and compassion.   Takeaways God's Word is sufficient for healing and transformation. Prayer is a powerful tool in soul care. Church community support is essential for those with “mental health” struggles. Pastoral care ought to focus on applying Scripture to real-life situations. Family life often shapes one's approach to ministry and counseling. Confidence in God's Word can empower pastors to help others. Diagnosed mental illness does not limit God's ability to bring change. Ordinary believers can play a role in soul-care without formal training. Taking thoughts captive is crucial for those with mental health challenges. The journey of healing often requires patience and consistent care.   Relevant Links Mentioned Resources Christian Counseling & Education Fellowship (CCEF) Descriptions and Prescriptions: A Biblical Perspective on Psychiatric Diagnoses and Medications (Michael R. Emlet)   Other Links Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love curriculum) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Transformation in Christ is a process, not an event. We didn’t get ‘messed up’ overnight, and we don’t experience healing and growth overnight. Neither do the people we help.”

Episode #8 Show Notes Hosts: Kimberly Willess, Warren Lamb Guest: Kelli Russell   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly and Warren interview Kelli Russell, a leader in Christian conciliation and biblical counseling. They discuss Kelli's journey into this field, the importance of understanding trauma in conflict resolution, and the role of forgiveness in reconciliation. The conversation emphasizes the need for safety, building rapport, and training believers in biblical peacemaking. Kelli shares her vision for Grace Matters, the ministry she leads, and the impact of community education on conflict resolution.   Takeaways Kelli Russell is a leader in Christian conciliation and biblical counseling. Understanding trauma is crucial in conflict resolution. Building rapport takes time and is essential for effective reconciliation. Safety is paramount when dealing with abuse in reconciliation processes. Christian conciliation aims to restore relationships, not just resolve conflicts. Training believers in biblical peacemaking is vital for community health. Forgiveness does not mean enabling harmful behavior. Every reconciliation case is unique and requires a tailored approach. The goal of reconciliation is to achieve peace and understanding. Love and compassion are key components in resolving conflicts.   Relevant Links Mentioned Resources The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict (Ken Sande) Help! I'm in a Conflict (Life-Line Mini-Book) (Ernie Baker) Grace Matters (Kelli’s ministry organization) RW360: Relational Wisdom 360 Institute for Christian Conciliation Ambassadors of Reconciliation Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love curriculum) Forgiveness: It May Not Work the Way You Think It Does (Warren Lamb)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Peacemaking is an ending of hostilities; pacifying is a pausing of hostilities.”

Episode #7 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest: Dr. Steve Swartz   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren is joined by Dr. Steve Swartz who presents his carefully researched biblical case that verbal/emotional abuse (reviling) can constitute abandonment under 1 Corinthians 7, potentially providing biblical grounds for divorce. Drawing from 25+ years of pastoral ministry and rigorous hermeneutical study, Dr. Swartz challenges the church to recognize that protecting the vulnerable takes precedence over preserving marriages at all costs. His work represents a significant development within Reformed theology, maintaining fidelity to Scripture while expanding the understanding of how God's Word addresses domestic oppression. This conversation challenges pastors, counselors, and church leaders to examine whether their theology truly protects the oppressed or inadvertently enables oppressors. Dr. Swartz's work represents courageous scholarship that maintains biblical authority while advocating for those trapped in covenant betrayal.   Takeaways Biblical fidelity doesn't require rigidity - Careful hermeneutics can expand our understanding without abandoning core principles The vulnerable matter more than institutions - Jesus came to set captives free, not preserve marriages at any cost Abuse is a gospel issue - Persistent, unrepentant abuse reveals an unregenerate heart Churches need reformation - Many inadvertently protect abusers while further traumatizing victims Courage is required - Confronting influential abusers may cost churches financially, but purifies them spiritually. Churches often commit "secondary abuse" by mishandling initial disclosures Women often fear disclosure because of widespread church failures in handling abuse Successful, influential men who are revilers often receive protection rather than discipline One hour of counseling barely scratches the surface - pastoral humility is essential   Relevant Links Dr. Swartz Resources Abuse, Abandonment, and Divorce: Confronting the Reality of Marital Abuse with Foundational Issues, Biblical Compassion, and Exegetical Objectivity (Steve Swartz) Shattered Shepherds: Finding Hope in the Midst of Ministry Disaster (Steve Swartz) Sermon Series “Steadfast in the Faith” (Listen in reverse order)   Other Books Mentioned Narcissism (Volume 1): Unmasking the Avatar (Biblically) (Warren Lamb) Behind the Veil: Exposing the Evil of Domestic Oppression and Providing Hope (Warren Lamb) Not Under Bondage: Biblical Divorce for Abuse, Adultery and Desertion (Barbra Roberts) Called to Be Holy: The Discipline of the Church (Jeremy Walker)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love curriculum)   Warrenism of the Week: “All abuse is evil; all abuse is destructive; NO abuse is permissible by God.”

Episode #6 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig Guest: Connie Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda interviews her mom, Connie Lamb, as she shares her profound journey living with a degenerative disease (Charcot-Marie-Tooth) and chronic pain. She discusses the challenges of maintaining faith in the midst of suffering, the importance of understanding one's identity in Christ, and how understanding God's sovereignty plays a role in her life. Connie emphasizes the significance of community support, the impact of scripture, and the necessity of grieving the loss of life that has been lived. Her insights offer hope and encouragement to those facing similar struggles, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their pain.   Takeaways Connie shares her journey with Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease. Understanding one's identity in Christ is crucial during suffering. God's sovereignty means He is aware of our struggles. God’s sovereignty means He has a plan for our struggles. Scripture can provide strength and comfort in the battle with pain. Sowing and reaping is a continuous process in life. It's important to seek joy for strength in difficult times. Community support is vital for those with chronic illness. Labels do not define our identity in Christ. False theology can harm those suffering from illness. Grieving the loss of a former life is a necessary process.   Relevant Links Resources Mentioned Tactics, 10th Anniversary Edition: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions (Greg Koukl) Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God’s Eyes (Conrod Hilario) Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love) Shackles (Mary Mary)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Being content in our circumstances does not equal being content with our circumstances. Knowing that God has brought us through other circumstances and He will bring us through these helps us focus on God more than on our circumstances.”

Episode #5 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Warren Lamb Guest: Julie Lowe   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, our hosts interview Julie Lowe, a biblical counselor, parenting expert, and author, as they discuss her journey into biblical counseling, the importance of play therapy, and the need for individualized parenting approaches. They explore the impact of technology on children, the necessity of involving parents in the counseling process, and the significance of understanding children's behavior. Julie emphasizes the importance of community support and biblical principles in parenting, while also addressing the challenges of structured parenting and the need for flexibility. The conversation concludes with encouragement for parents to seek wisdom and remain steadfast in their parenting journey.   Takeaways Julie Lowe's journey into biblical counseling was driven by a desire to help children and families. The importance of play therapy in making counseling a comfortable experience for children. Blending licensed counseling with biblical counseling can enhance the effectiveness of therapy. Personal experiences as a parent shape counseling practices and understanding of family dynamics. Understanding children's behavior requires looking beyond surface actions to underlying motivations. Changes in parenting approaches have been influenced by technology and cultural shifts. Involving parents in the counseling process is crucial for effective outcomes. Empowering parents to feel equipped in their parenting roles is essential. The concept of fairness in parenting should be replaced with a focus on individual needs. Biblical principles ought to guide parenting practices, emphasizing love and understanding   Relevant Links Books by Julie Lowe Child Proof: Parenting By Faith, Not Formula Safeguards: Shielding Our Homes and Equipping Our Kids Building Bridges: Biblical Counseling Activities for Children and Teens (Helping the Helper Series)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “The goal isn't to raise perfect kids; it's to point our kids to a perfect Savior.”

Episode #4 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, the hosts discuss Warren's new book on narcissism, exploring its definitions, cultural influences, and the impact on relationships and the church. They delve into the roots of narcissism, the importance of biblical counseling, and how to recognize and respond to narcissistic behavior. The discussion emphasizes the need for healing and hope for victims of narcissism, highlighting the role of the church in addressing this issue.   Takeaways Narcissism is often misunderstood and misdiagnosed. Cultural influences contribute to the rise of narcissism. Healthy parenting is crucial in preventing narcissistic traits. Narcissism can manifest in various relationships, including within the church. Biblical counseling provides a framework for healing from narcissistic abuse. Victims of narcissism often feel responsible for the abuser's behavior. Narcissists lack empathy and self-awareness. Recognizing manipulation is key to protecting oneself from narcissists. The church must address narcissism as a spiritual issue. There is hope for recovery and healing from narcissistic relationships.   Relevant Links Book Mentioned Narcissism (Volume 1): Unmasking the Avatar (Biblically) (Warren Lamb) Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Narcissism is a spiritual issue, not a personality disorder.”

Episode #3 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, Warren Lamb Guest: Dr. Jenn Chen   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Dr. Jenn Chen returns for a follow-up interview and shares more of her journey from a clinical psychologist to a biblical counselor. Today, the discussion emphasizes the complexities of neuroscience and the limitations of scientific research in understanding mental health. She highlights the importance of questioning mainstream psychological claims, the role of trauma, and the need for a biblical approach to counseling. The discussion also touches on the intersection of faith and science, the significance of soul-care, and the challenges of navigating mental health diagnoses in a biblical context.   Takeaways Dr. Jenn Chen emphasizes the evolving nature of science and the need to question its claims. Mainstream psychology often overlooks the complexities of individual experiences. Neuroscience provides insights but does not dictate counseling methods. Labels in mental health can become identities, affecting self-perception. Pain and suffering are integral parts of the human experience, not to be avoided. Biblical counseling focuses on the heart, mind, and soul rather than just symptoms. Trauma is often misunderstood and requires a compassionate approach. The church must be equipped to provide effective soul-care. Understanding the limitations of scientific research is crucial for Christians. Faith and science can coexist, but caution is needed in their integration.   Relevant Links Books Mentioned Biblical Counseling and Mental Disorder Diagnosis (Dr. Jenn Chen) Science Fictions: How Fraud, Bias, Negligence, and Hype Undermine the Search for Truth (Stewart Ritchie) The Body Doesn’t Keep the Score: How Popular Beliefs About Trauma Are Wrong (Michael Scheeringa) Brainwashed: The Seductive Appeal of Mindless Neuroscience (Sally Satel and Scott O. Linienfeld) Spiritual Depression: Its Causes and Cure (D. Martin Lloyd-Jones) “The serotonin theory of depression: a systematic umbrella review of the evidence” (Moncrieff, J., Cooper, R.E., Stockmann, T. et al.) Rethinking Depression: Not a Sickness Not a Sin (Dr. Daniel R. Berger II) The Chemical Imbalance Delusion (Dr. Daniel R. Berger II) How Do You Help a “Psychologized” Counselee? (David Powlison) How to Help Psychologized Counselees (Tim Pasma interview by Dale Johnson, ACBC) Lies My Therapist Told Me: Why Christians Should Aim for More Than Just Treating Symptoms (Greg Gifford) Discipling a Fool's Heart: The Discipline of Wise Parenting, Education, Counsel, and Discipleship (Dr. Daniel R. Berger II)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “So often we hear what a person was saved from; too seldom do we hear what a person was saved to.”

Episode #2 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess Guest: Molly Bertles   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, hosts Jinda and Kimmy engage in a candid conversation with Molly Bertles about the often-avoided topic of female masturbation within the Christian community. Molly shares her personal journey of struggle, shame, and eventual healing through biblical counseling. The discussion emphasizes the need for open conversations in the church about women's sexuality, the impact of cultural narratives, and the importance of understanding God's design for sex. Listeners are encouraged to seek community, accountability, and spiritual disciplines as they navigate their own journeys toward purity and intimacy.   Takeaways Molly struggled with masturbation from a young age, feeling shame and secrecy. The church often avoids discussing female sexuality, leading to isolation for women. Cultural narratives around sexuality can conflict with biblical teachings. Understanding God's design for sex is crucial for women struggling with guilt. Shame can significantly impact intimacy in marriage. Masturbation can become a form of self-worship and idolatry. Community and accountability are essential for overcoming struggles with sexuality. Open conversations about sexuality can help break the stigma in the church. Spiritual disciplines can aid in pursuing purity and understanding God's design. Molly hopes her book will provide clarity and support for women facing similar struggles.   Relevant Links Book Highlighted You Are Not Alone (Molly Bertles) Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Pastor Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “What you focus on is what you hit. That's why God says 'put off' AND 'put on.' Stopping the wrong isn't enough; you have to replace it with what's right."

Season 3, Episode #1 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Warren Lamb Guest: Dr. Jenn Chen   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Dr. Jenn Chen shares her journey from a clinical psychologist to a biblical counselor, discussing the challenges and insights she gained along the way. The conversation explores the limitations of secular psychology, particularly the DSM, and emphasizes the importance of a biblical perspective in understanding mental health and highlights the importance of relationships in counseling, the reality of suffering, and the necessity for the church to be equipped to address mental health issues. Dr. Chen encourages listeners to critically evaluate psychological practices while relying on Scripture for guidance in soul-care. The episode concludes with a call for discernment in integrating psychological insights with biblical truths.   Takeaways Dr. Jenn Chen transitioned from clinical psychology to biblical counseling. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) lacks a focus on God. The DSM is a tool with limitations in diagnosing mental health. Biblical counseling emphasizes the relationship with God. Suffering is a reality that the Bible addresses profoundly. The church has a role in addressing mental health issues. Building relationships is crucial in counseling. Understanding cultural perspectives can enhance counseling effectiveness. Biblical hope is rooted in God's ability to redeem all things. The Bible provides sufficient guidance for life and godliness.   Relevant Links Books Mentioned Biblical Counseling and Mental Disorder Diagnosis (Dr. Jenn Chen) The Body Does Not Keep the Score: How Popular Beliefs About Trauma Are Wrong (Michael Scheeringa) How Do You Help a “Psychologized” Counselee? (David Powlison) How to Help Psychologized Counselees (Tim Pasma interview by Dale Johnson, ACBC) Counseling the Hard Cases: True Stories Illustrating the Sufficiency of God's Resources in Scripture (Stuart Scott and Heath Lambert, editors)   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “’Good’ things can easily become ‘god’ things when honoring God isn't our primary motive."

Episode #13 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest: Conrad Hilario   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, pastor and author Conrad Hilario shares his transformative journey from a troubled youth to a senior pastor, emphasizing the importance of identity in Christ. He discusses the challenges younger generations face in understanding their identity amidst cultural crises and the church's role in providing guidance. The conversation highlights the significance of discipleship and mentorship in spiritual growth and the impact of his book, 'Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes,' as a resource for believers seeking to understand their identity in Christ.   Takeaways Conrad's journey illustrates the transformative power of faith. Identity in Christ is foundational for spiritual growth. Younger generations face unique challenges in understanding identity. Cultural identity crises impact individuals and communities. Discipleship is essential for nurturing faith in new believers. Mentorship plays a crucial role in spiritual development. The church must address issues of diversity and unity. Understanding one's identity can prevent destructive choices. Conrad's book serves as a primer for understanding identity in Christ. Real change in life comes from understanding one's identity in Christ.   Relevant Links Books Mentioned Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes (Conrad Hilario) Christianity: The Faith That Makes Sense (Dennis McCallum) Discovering God: Exploring the Possibilities of Faith (Dennis McCallum) Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ (Warren Lamb and Truth in Love) The Master Plan of Evangelism: With Study Guide (Robert E. Coleman) The Pursuit of God: Updated Edition (A.W. Tozer) The Attributes of God Volume 1 with Study Guide: A Journey Into the Father's Heart (A.W. Tozer) The Attributes of God Volume 2: Deeper into the Father's Heart (A.W. Tozer)   Other Links Dwell Community Church (Columbus, OH) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog   Warrenism of the Week: “Our ‘I am’ statements are identity statements. When we proclaim ‘I am such-and-such…,’ we lock ourselves in a view of ourselves  that may be in conflict with what God proclaims to be true about us.”

Episode #13 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb   Summary In this special Christmas episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren shares a personal reflection on the theme of repurposing in life and ministry. Drawing from his own transformative experience following a car accident, he explores how God reshapes our lives and calls us to embrace new purposes. Through biblical passages and personal anecdotes, Warren emphasizes the importance of recognizing interruptions as divine invitations and encourages listeners to reflect on their own journeys of repurposing.   Takeaways God often works by repurposing our lives for His glory. Don't let your past become your prison; God is doing something new. Transformation is not just improvement; it's a complete change. God uses our painful disruptions for His purposes. Recognizing interruptions can lead to new opportunities. Our experiences can become sources of comfort for others. God's repurposing work can be seen in the Christmas story. We are called to be instruments in the Redeemer's hands. Embrace the journey of repurposing, even when it's difficult. God is with us through every transformation we face.     Relevant Links Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands: People in Need of Change Helping People in Need of Change (by Paul David Tripp) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: “Don’t let your past be your prison.”

Episode #12 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest: Dr. Curtis Solomon   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Dr. Curtis Solomon shares his journey into biblical counseling, influenced by his military background and personal experiences. He discusses the importance of integrating faith with trauma healing, the role of the Biblical Counseling Coalition in fostering unity among counselors, and the challenges faced in the field today. Dr. Solomon also addresses the sensitive topic of pornography in marriage, emphasizing the need for resources that guide couples through healing and restoration. He highlights the significance of practical training for the next generation of counselors and reflects on the balance of life and responsibilities.   Takeaways Dr. Solomon's passion for biblical counseling began in 1999. Military experience shaped his understanding of trauma and counseling. Biblical counseling offers hope and healing through Christ. The Biblical Counseling Coalition aims to foster unity among counselors. Challenges in biblical counseling include questions about integrating secular and biblical methods. Addressing pornography in marriage requires sensitive and practical resources. Investing in the next generation of counselors is crucial for the field. Balancing life responsibilities is a continuous challenge for counselors. Surprises in the counseling journey include the infighting among counselors. Biblical counseling is superior to secular methods in addressing trauma.   Relevant Links Books by Dr. Solomon Reclaim Your Marriage: Grace for Wives Who Have Been Hurt by Pornography (by Jenny Solomon) Redeem Your Marriage: Hope for Husbands Who Have Hurt through Pornography I Have PTSD: Reorienting after Trauma   Related Link Biblical Counseling Coalition   Other Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: “We get to choose whether we speak graciously out of understanding or harshly out of ignorance.”

Episode #10 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb   Summary This episode of The Soul Care Podcast delves into the complexities of forgiveness within the Christian faith, addressing common misconceptions and providing a clearer understanding of its biblical foundations. The discussion covers three forms of forgiveness: judicial, internal, and relational, emphasizing the importance of confession and repentance. The episode also explores the controversial topic of self-forgiveness and distinguishes between true peacemaking and mere placating. Ultimately, it encourages listeners to embrace God's forgiveness and extend it to others, fostering emotional healing and spiritual growth.   Takeaways Forgiveness is often misunderstood in Christian circles. Judicial forgiveness is granted by God alone. Internal forgiveness requires us to forsake revenge. Relational forgiveness depends on the offender's repentance. Self-forgiveness is about applying God's principles to ourselves. Peacemaking is grounded in truth, not denial. Confession involves accepting full responsibility for one's actions. Forgiveness is a gift that should not be demanded. True repentance involves a change of heart and behavior. Walking in forgiveness allows us to focus on God's grace.   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Forgiveness: It May Not Work the Way You Think it Does Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ Warrenism of the Week: "Apology-making is not forgiveness-seeking.”

Episode #10 Show Notes Host: Kimberly Willess Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, the conversation explores the origins and development of Truth in Love Biblical Counseling, highlighting its focus on equipping everyday believers for discipleship and soul-care. Warren shares insights into the program's evolution, accessibility, and the philosophy of community and fellowship that underpins their approach. The discussion also touches on the importance of ongoing learning and accountability within the organization, as well as the significance of the name 'Truth in Love.'   Takeaways The organization began as a home fellowship in 2004. Focus on one-another ministry is central to their mission. Training programs are designed for everyday believers, not just professionals. Accessibility of the program is a priority for the organization. The name 'Truth in Love' reflects the balance of truth and compassion. Credentialing is available for those who want to be recognized for their training. Ongoing community and accountability are emphasized through monthly meetings. The program has evolved to meet the needs of its participants. Participants can audit classes after graduation for continued learning. The organization values feedback and ideas from its audience.   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: "Speak the truth; do it in love; surrender the outcomes.”

Episode #9 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb   Summary In this Thanksgiving episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren Lamb explores the profound theme of finding one's place at God's Table. He reflects on the contrasting experiences of individuals during the holiday season, emphasizing the weight of expectations and the complexities of family dynamics. Through the story of a woman named Sarah, he illustrates the transformative power of understanding one's blood-bought identity in Christ. Warren shares his personal journey of healing from past trauma and how it has shaped his approach to soul-care. The episode concludes with a call to recognize the unearned belonging in God's family and to extend that hope to others during the holiday season.   Takeaways Thanksgiving can evoke a range of emotions, from joy to grief. The blood of Jesus creates a place of honor for all. Soul-care conversations can help individuals find belonging. Understanding our identity in Christ is transformative. Family dynamics can complicate holiday experiences. Healing is possible through recognizing our worth in Christ. New traditions can be built on God's faithfulness. The holidays can be a time of redemption and gratitude. We can offer hope to those struggling during the holidays. Every soul-care conversation can reflect God's eternal Thanksgiving table.   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren’s Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: "Focusing on “have” instead of “lack” gives us access to a heart of gratitude, and it is gratitude that creates contentment.”

Episode #8 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess Special Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Kimmy are joined once again by our resident soul-care expert Warren Lamb, who explores the intersection of trauma, biblical counseling, and mental health. They discuss how biblical counseling approaches trauma differently from mainstream psychology, emphasizing the normalcy of trauma responses and the importance of understanding suffering through a scriptural lens. The conversation highlights key biblical principles for healing, the role of identity in recovery, and practical strategies for trauma survivors. Warren shares insights on how trauma impacts faith and perception of God, and they conclude with a discussion on the future of biblical counseling in addressing trauma.   Takeaways Trauma is a normal response to abnormal circumstances. Biblical counseling does not label trauma as a disorder. Suffering is a part of the human experience post-Genesis 3. The Bible provides the best framework for understanding and healing from trauma. Healing is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. Identity in Christ is crucial for trauma recovery. God is present in our suffering and offers hope. Trauma-informed care must be replaced with biblically grounded trauma-wise care. The body does not “keep the score;” it responds to what the mind believes and the heart desires. Redemption of trauma is possible, and our history does not define our future. Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Warren's Blog Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: "History is not destiny. Our history does not define us; it merely explains us. Our history is not who we are; it is where we are from.”

Episode #7 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig Special Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Warren discuss the concept of the sufficiency of Scripture, emphasizing its role as the primary resource for soul care and counseling. They discuss the definition of sufficiency, the authority of Scripture, and how it applies to various life situations. The conversation contrasts secular psychology with biblical counseling, highlighting the importance of relying on Scripture for guidance in mental health and emotional well-being. They also explore the implications of believing in the sufficiency of Scripture and how it can transform lives by providing a clear understanding of identity and purpose in Christ.   Takeaways The Bible is the God-breathed, inerrant, and fully sufficient Word of God. Sufficiency means nothing else is needed for matters of life and faith. Scripture addresses all human experiences and challenges. The authority of Scripture is foundational in counseling. Psychology often lacks the certainty that Scripture provides. The focus of biblical counseling is on honoring God, not just improving life. Understanding one's worth in Christ is crucial for healing. The church must avoid integrating secular philosophies. Properly interpreted Scripture properly applied is the primary tool for soul care.   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ Warrenism of the Week: "Biblical counseling is a sacred space we are invited to share with God and the person He has us counseling.”

Episode #6 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess Special Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda, Kimmy, and Warren Lamb delve into the complexities of marriage from a biblical historically Christian perspective. They explore the concept of marriage as a stewardship rather than a possession, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection for both singles and couples. The discussion highlights the dynamics of sanctification in marriage, the impact of expectations, and the necessity of effective communication. Listeners are encouraged to seek God's guidance in their relationships and to approach marriage with a heart of service and love. Takeaways Marriage is a stewardship, not a possession. Unsurrendered expectations can lead to disappointment and resentment. Self-reflection is crucial for both singles and couples. Sanctification occurs through the challenges of marriage. Communication ought to be gentle and understanding. God must be at the center of every marriage. The heart motive behind marriage decisions matters. Couples ought to focus on one-anothering each other biblically. It's important to change our language about expectations. Finding God as an ally can help navigate marital challenges.   Relevant Links Intimate Allies: Rediscovering God's Design for Marriage and Becoming Soul Mates for Life Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: "Marriage is a sacred trust from God that we are in, not something we have."  

Episode #5 Show Notes Host:  Kimberly Willess and Dr. warren Lamb Guest: Dave Peterson   Summary In this conversation, Dave Peterson shares his unique journey from a non-believer in the Navy to becoming a Navy chaplain and then Operations Director for the Biblical Counseling Coalition. He discusses the essence of biblical soul-care, the role of a chaplain, and the challenges faced in the field of biblical counseling today. Dave emphasizes the importance of community and collaboration among counselors and highlights emerging trends in biblical soul-care that focus on holistic approaches to mental and spiritual health.   Takeaways Dave Peterson's journey into biblical counseling began after his conversion in the Navy. Biblical counseling is rooted in a biblical worldview and aims to provide hope and healing. The essence of soul-care includes confronting sin and encouraging the weak. Community is vital for counselors to share burdens and find support. There is a growing tension in defining biblical counseling within the biblical counseling community. Emerging trends in counseling focus on holistic approaches that integrate physical and spiritual health. The church is beginning to acknowledge past shortcomings in addressing issues like domestic violence. Collaboration among different counseling organizations is essential for growth and understanding.   Additional Resources Contact Dave Peterson [email protected], Coastal Church (https://www.gocoastal.org/) Biblical Counseling Coalition (https://biblicalcc.org) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (https://tilbcc.com) Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)

Episode #4 Show Notes Host:  Jinda Reinig, Dr. Warren Lamb Guest: Pastor Iljin Cho   Summary In this conversation, Pastor Iljin Cho discusses the importance of hermeneutics in biblical counseling and soul-care. He shares his journey from traditional psychological counseling to a reliance on Scripture, emphasizing the sufficiency and clarity of the Bible in addressing mental health issues. The discussion highlights the challenges contemporary churches face in applying biblical principles effectively and the need to properly interpret Scripture to avoid poor hermeneutics that can lead to misunderstanding and spiritual harm. The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding understanding and application of Scripture is also emphasized, along with the importance of equipping church members for effective soul-care.   Takeaways Proper hermeneutics is essential for understanding Scripture correctly. The sufficiency of Scripture is often questioned in modern counseling. Clarity of Scripture allows everyone to understand God's Word. Poor hermeneutics often leads to spiritual and emotional issues. The Holy Spirit aids in interpreting and applying Scripture. Understanding context is crucial for proper interpretation. Churches need to reclaim the role of Scripture in counseling. Training in hermeneutics boosts confidence in interpreting and applying Scripture. Pastors must be equipped to address mental health issues biblically.   Additional Resources Faith Bible Church  Truth in Love Biblical Counseling  Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ  Words Matter: Refining the Conversation  

Episode #3 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess Special Guest: Warren Lamb   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly, Jinda, and Warren discuss the Whole-Person Ministry approach to biblical counseling, emphasizing a focus on the combination of physical, emotional, and spiritual health. They explore how foundational beliefs impact counseling practices, the importance of nutrition and gut health, and the need for counselors to consider the whole person in their approach. The conversation highlights the significance of rest, the theology of food, and the role of lifestyle choices in mental, emotional, and spiritual health, ultimately advocating for a holistic view of well-being in counseling. Takeaways Key takeaways from the discussion include: The Whole-Person Ministry approach blends theology, philosophy, and practical anthropology. Understanding human identity and purpose is crucial for healing. Physical health significantly impacts emotional and spiritual well-being. Counselors need to consider diet, rest, and activity in their practice. Gut health is foundational to overall health. A biblical “theology of food” connects spiritual and physical nourishment. Rest is a command, not a suggestion, in Scripture. Counseling ought to address the whole person, not just parts. Healthy habits need to be instilled from a young age. Awareness of nutritional needs can lead to better health outcomes, including counseling outcomes.     Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Whole-Person Ministry Training Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ   Warrenism of the Week: "Being content in our circumstances is not the same as being content with our circumstances. The first is driven by our trust in God. The latter is driven by our focus on our own desires."  

Episode #2 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Dr. Warren Lamb Special Guest: Denise Shick   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Denise Shick shares her personal journey and the founding of Help4Families Ministry, which supports families impacted by transgenderism. Denise discusses the profound effects of her father's transition on her childhood and the spiritual warfare surrounding gender identity issues. She highlights the importance of community support, faith-based counseling, and the misconceptions surrounding gender identity. Denise also emphasizes the need for churches to educate themselves on these matters and offers advice for faith leaders. The conversation concludes with Denise's insights on writing children's books to address gender issues from a biblical perspective and her future endeavors. Takeaways Key takeaways from the discussion include: Denise's journey began with her father's desire to transition. The impact of a parent's transition can be profound on children. Help4Families Ministry was founded out of the needs of families seeking God’s help with transgender issues. There has been a significant increase in young girls transitioning in recent years. Spiritual warfare plays a crucial role in gender identity conflicts. Community support is essential for healing and recovery. Misconceptions about gender identity can lead to harmful decisions for the struggler. Faith leaders need to approach these issues with compassion and understanding. Denise emphasizes the importance of trusting God in difficult times. Writing children's books helps address gender issues with children from a biblical perspective. Bibliography: Adults Moving Forward in Community: A Bible Study Companion for Moving Forward in Hope: A Devotional for Families of LGBTQ+ Loved Ones (Independently Published, August 2023) It is Well with My Soul: Finding God's Peace in the Transgender Storm (Workbook) (Denise Shick, January 2022) Moving Forward in Hope: A Devotional for Families of LGBTQ Loved Ones (Denise Shick, September 2021) Your True Identity: How Freedom in Christ Brings Healing, Hope, and Wholeness (Denise Shick, April 2021) Transgender Confusion: A Biblical Based Q& A For Families (Independently Published, March 2016) Dangerous Affirmations: “Should I Have Been Daddy’s Little Girl?”  (Kindle) (Independently Published, February 2016) My Daddy's Secret (Independently Published, October 2015) When Hope Seems Lost: How to Deal with Transgenderism in the Christian Community (Independently Published, March 2015) A Wife's Perspective: A resource for wives who are dealing with their husband’s marital unfaithfulness and sexual compulsions (Independently Published, June 2014)   Bibliography: Children I Want My Sister Back (Denise Shick, April 2023) AMAZING Amanda (Independently Published, April 2022) The Boy Who Liked Tea Parties (Denise Shick, November 2021) Do SUPERHEROES Play the Piano? (Independently Published, November 2021) What's Up with Cousin Stacy? (Independently Published, October 2020) I'm Glad God Made Me a Girl (Independently Published, May 2020) When Daddy Leaves to Be a Girl (Independently Published, July 2018   Websites Help4Families Living Stones Ministries   Blog Help4Families Blog   Podcast: The Transcending Hope Podcast   Warrenism of the Week: “Jesus invites us to love Him in response to His love; He does not grab us by the front of the shirt and demand it of us.”  

Episode #1 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Dr. Warren Lamb Special Guest: Christine Chappell   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, hosts Jinda Reinig and Warren Lamb welcome back Christine Chappell to discuss her new mini-book on postpartum depression. They explore the importance of sharing personal experiences, the challenges of motherhood, and the need for grace and understanding in the face of struggles. Christine emphasizes the significance of acknowledging both physical and spiritual aspects of mental health, the impact of societal expectations, and the necessity of lamenting and grieving. The conversation highlights the importance of community support and the hope found in God's Word during difficult seasons. Takeaways Key takeaways from the discussion include: Christine's writing is deeply rooted in her personal experiences. Postpartum depression is a common struggle that needs to be normalized. Self-talk and societal expectations can heavily influence a mother's mental health. It's essential to recognize the interplay between physical and spiritual challenges. Living in the gray area of life is a reality that many face. Shoulding ourselves leads to toxic shame and unrealistic expectations. Accepting God's grace and mercy is crucial for healing. Lamenting and grieving are important aspects of processing pain. Community support is vital for mothers experiencing postpartum struggles.   Bibliography: Postpartum Depression: Hope for a Hard Season (New Growth Press, August 2024) Misericordia En La Oscuridad: Caminando Con Dios a Través de la Depresión En La Maternidad (P&R Publishing, 2024) Midnight Mercies: Walking with God Through Depression in Motherhood  (P&R Publishing, 2023) Help! I’ve Been Diagnosed with a Mental Disorder (Shepherd Press, 2021) Help! My Teen is Depressed (Shepherd Press, 2020) Clean Home, Messy Heart: Promises of Renewal, Hope, and  Change for Overwhelmed Moms (WestBow Press, 2016)   Social Media: facebook.com/cleanhomemessheart twitter.com/chappellwrites instagram.com/christinemchappell   Hope + Help Podcast: christinemchappell.com/podcast   Navigating Depression On-Demand Video Workshops: christinemchappell.com/workshops   Warrenism of the Week: “Stop shoulding yourself; shoulding equals shaming.”  

Summer Shorts #11 Show Notes Host:  Jinda Reinig Guest: Pastor Iljin Cho   Summary In this episode of the Soul Care Podcast, Pastor Iljin Cho discusses his experience with Truth in Love Biblical Counseling. He shares how his wife's positive transformation through biblical counseling drew him to explore it further. Pastor Cho highlights the hope and freedom that Truth in Love offers, emphasizing its trust in the sufficiency of Scripture. He also praises Warren, the founder of Truth in Love, for his mentorship and the positive impact he has had on his life. Overall, Pastor Cho emphasizes the importance of biblical counseling in the church and the need for discipleship.   Takeaways Biblical counseling can bring healing and change, offering hope to those who have struggled with trauma and mental health issues. Truth in Love trusts in the sufficiency of Scripture and offers a different perspective from traditional counseling organizations. The belief in freedom in Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit to renew minds is a key aspect of Truth in Love's approach. Mentorship and guidance from experienced counselors like Warren can have a profound impact on personal growth and ministry. Biblical counseling challenges the belief that certain sin conditions or effects of sin are permanent, offering the possibility of change and healing. Warren, the founder of Truth in Love, provides mentorship and guidance that can lead to positive life transformations. Biblical counseling is essential for discipleship and the development of strong leaders in the church.   Sound Bites "Truth in Love reminds people that it's the role of the Holy Spirit who renews our minds." "Truth in Love believes that people can be healed. Their sinful desires can change. And they can be free."     Additional Resources Faith Bible Church (Sacramento, CA – fbcsacramento.org) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com) Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)

Summer Shorts #10 Show Notes Host: Kimberly Willess Guest: Team Member Colleen Meyer Summary: Ellen Castillo, a TILBCC Certified Biblical Counselor, shares her journey and experience with Truth in Love Biblical Counseling. She also discusses how she found her passion for counseling and the different seasons of life she has served in. Ellen highlights the benefits of being a part of Truth in Love, such as the support and unity of the team, the ability to accept as many cases as she chooses, and the opportunity to serve people from various locations. She also emphasizes the importance of being willing to serve outside the box and shares her personal ministry verse from 1 Peter 3:15.   Takeaways Find a counseling ministry that fits with your current season of life. Being part of a team provides support and unity in ministry. Online counseling is a valuable and effective way to serve others. Being willing to serve outside the box can lead to unexpected blessings. Stay connected to like-minded people, and be prepared to share the hope that is in you.   Additional Resources Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com) Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum) Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)

Summer Shorts #9 Show Notes Host: Kimberly Willess Guest: Colleen Meyer   Summary Colleen Meyer shares her experience with Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Center and how it has changed her life. She talks about her journey of faith, the impact of Truth in Love on her understanding of Scripture, and the tools she has gained to walk in the truth. Colleen emphasizes the commitment of the Truth in Love family to the truth of God's Word and the support and guidance she has received from them. She also expresses gratitude for the technology that allows her to be part of this community and learn from people around the world. Takeaways Truth in Love Biblical Counseling Center has had a life-changing impact on Colleen Meyer. Through Truth in Love, Colleen has gained a deeper understanding of Scripture and a desire for more of the Word. The tools and resources provided by Truth in Love, such as Unbound, have helped Colleen in her walk with the Lord and in applying biblical truths to her life. Colleen appreciates the commitment of the Truth in Love family to the truth of God's Word and the support and guidance she has received from them. Technology has allowed Colleen to be part of the Truth in Love community and learn from people around the world. Sound Bites "Here I am, almost two years now, still loving it and absolutely has changed my life." "What I have really, I gained so much there, but learning to... saturate on the Scriptures." "The people at Truth in Love have committed their lives to the truth of God's Word, no matter the cost."   Additional Resources Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com) Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum) Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)  

Summer Shorts #8 Show Notes Host: Kimberly Willess Guest: Kesha Griffin   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly interviews Kesha Griffin, a pastor's wife and sexual abuse survivor, who shares her experience with Truth in Love and how it has helped her in her healing journey. She was introduced to the organization through a Facebook group and was seeking biblical resources for sexual abuse survivors. Kesha found the training center and enrolled in the program, which has given her more confidence in the sufficiency of Scripture for healing and transformation. She emphasizes the importance of addressing abuse and trauma within the Christian community and praises Truth in Love for their specialization in this area. Kesha encourages listeners to explore biblical counseling to be equipped to help others. She encourages listeners to explore biblical counseling and consider Truth in Love. Takeaways The Bible contains everything necessary for life and godliness, including healing from trauma and abuse. Truth in Love provides specialized training in abuse and trauma counseling, setting them apart from other organizations. The sufficiency of Scripture is confirmed through personal experience and the material learned in the program. Biblical counseling equips Christians to come alongside those in crisis and point them to the wonderful counselor. Sound Bites "I am gaining more confidence in the sufficiency of Scripture." "Truth in Love has a passion and a desire to actually help abuse survivors." "I have never come across any other biblical counseling program that has a specialization in abuse and trauma."   "I've never heard of any other biblical counseling program that offers a scholarship for survivors to go through the certification program with all of the costs covered."   Additional Resources Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com) Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum) Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)

Summer Shorts #7 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig Guest: Team Member Pastor Paul Hoeks   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda interviews Pastor Paul Hoeks, a Biblical counselor and program mentor at Truth in Love Biblical Counseling. Paul shares his journey of how he was drawn to Truth in Love and the benefits he has experienced from being a part of the organization. He emphasizes that Truth in Love is different from other counseling ministries and training programs because it is accessible to the average person and focuses on the sufficiency of Scripture for counseling. Paul also highlights the transformative power of biblical counseling and the importance of addressing the true problems of the heart and soul. Takeaways Truth in Love Biblical Counseling is accessible to the average person and focuses on the sufficiency of Scripture for counseling. Biblical counseling addresses the true problems of the heart and soul, leading to permanent transformation and freedom. The program at Truth in Love provides comprehensive and extensive training, with flexible online options. Biblical counseling is a ministry that requires a love for the Lord, compassion, and training in using the Scriptures as the primary resource. Sound Bites "The Scriptures are sufficient for counseling." "This is permanent transformation that God has for us." "Biblical counseling is helping people become what God intended them to become."   Additional Resources Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com) Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum) Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com))  

Summer Shorts #5 Show Notes Host:  Kimberly Willess Guests: Don & Jennifer Cooper   Summary Don and Jennifer Cooper, a couple from Vancouver, Washington, share their experience with Truth in Love and how it has benefited them personally and professionally. They discuss their background in pro-life ministry and homeschooling, and how they found Truth in Love in the midst of leaving their church. They highlight the emphasis on Scripture and the non-integration of psychology in the counseling program. Don and Jennifer talk about how they have used their training to help others at their Jiu-Jitsu gym, including teaching self-defense to women who have experienced abuse and working with children in their martial arts gym. They express gratitude for the knowledge and resources they have gained from Truth in Love and encourage others to enroll in the program.   (Emerge Jiu Jitsu is a "Ministry Ally" of Truth in Love Biblical Counseling.)   Takeaways Truth in Love emphasizes the importance of Scripture and its application in counseling. The program focuses on biblical principles to provide a holistic approach to counseling. Don and Jennifer have used their training to help others, including teaching self-defense to women who have experienced abuse and working with children in their martial arts gym. They are grateful for the knowledge and resources they have gained from Truth in Love and encourage others to enroll in the program.   Sound Bites "Your feelings can have a seat on the bus, just not the driver's seat." "We can disciple each other and come along each other." "There isn't a day that goes by for me here at the gym that I'm not pulling on the knowledge and experience that we gained through Truth in Love." Additional Resources Emerge Jiu Jitsu (Vancouver, WA – emergebjj.com) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com) Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum) Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)  

Summer Shorts #4 Show Notes Host: Warren Lamb Guest: Isabella Ruiz   Summary Isabella Ruiz, an elementary school counselor living in Kazakhstan, shares her experience with Truth in Love. She also serves as the Social Media Manager for Truth in Love. She was drawn to the organization through being recommended she find a mentor when she was at Calvary Chapel University and was impressed by the resources and community it offered. Being part of Truth in Love has provided her with valuable resources and a richer understanding of biblical counseling. She appreciates how Truth in Love is deeply rooted in biblical principles and emphasizes speaking the truth in love. The community aspect of Truth in Love, with monthly meetings and “Team connects”, sets it apart from other organizations. Isabella is grateful for the impact Truth in Love has had on her life and the international community.   Takeaways Truth in Love provides valuable resources and a deeper understanding of biblical counseling. The organization is deeply rooted in biblical principles and emphasizes speaking the truth in love. The community aspect of Truth in Love, with monthly meetings and team connects, sets it apart from other organizations. Isabella is grateful for the impact Truth in Love has had on her life and the international community.   Sound Bites "How can my life be transformed? Only by God's strength." "Community is another thing that I haven't seen in a lot of organizations." "Truth in Love has resources as a counselor, but also someone that needs discipleship." Additional Resources Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com) Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum) Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)

Summer Shorts #3 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig Guest: Pastor Rick Amaro   Summary In this podcast episode, Rick Amaro, a pastor and counselor, discusses his journey with Truth in Love, a fellowship dedicated to providing comprehensive training and support for those in the biblical counseling field. Pastor Rick was initially attracted to the organization due to its extensive educational program and the opportunity for continued mentorship, which he felt was essential for his development as a counselor. Through his involvement with Truth in Love, Pastor Rick has found a tight-knit community that offers ongoing guidance and support, significantly contributing to his personal and professional growth. He highlights the fellowship's distinct characteristics, including its unwavering dedication to the completeness of biblical teachings, the focus on fostering strong interpersonal relationships, and the demanding curriculum that equips counselors to handle challenging situations effectively. Rick Amaro encourages fellow believers who feel a calling to support others to consider joining Truth in Love and receiving training in counseling techniques firmly rooted in the Bible and biblical principles.   Additional Resources Relevant Links Calvary Chapel Fayetteville (Pastor Rick Amaro) Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb)  

Summer Shorts #2 Show Notes Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb Topic: Finding Hope in Suffering   Summary People often come to us from a place of suffering, seeking help and support. The God of all grace, as mentioned in 1 Peter 5:10-11, promises to restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish us after we have suffered for a little while. Our God is intimately acquainted with our pain and sorrow, having experienced suffering himself through Jesus Christ. Suffering becomes a crucible that tempers and strengthens us, transforming our pain into purpose and weakness into strength. God's grace knows no bounds and transcends our understanding, restoring and transforming us. We are called to God's eternal glory in Christ, which far surpasses any temporal trial. We are not alone in our suffering; God walks alongside us, sustains us, and leads us through to our ultimate destination.  Takeaways People often come to us from a place of suffering, seeking help and support. God promises to restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish us after we have suffered for a little while. Suffering becomes a crucible that tempers and strengthens us, transforming our pain into purpose and weakness into strength. God's grace knows no bounds and transcends our understanding, restoring and transforming us. We are called to God's eternal glory in Christ, which far surpasses any temporal trial. We are not alone in our suffering; God walks alongside us, sustains us, and leads us through to our ultimate destination. Scripture Mentioned 1 Peter 5:10-11 Ephesians 1:18-20 2 Corinthians 12:9 Warrenism “The suffering that you're enduring is temporary. In the grand scheme of eternity, it is just a little while."   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC) Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb)  

Summer Shorts #1 Show Notes Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb Topic: Scripture Saturation   Summary This episode is the first in our “Summer Shorts” series. Today we explore the concept of neuroplasticity and its connection to renewing the mind with God's Word. We emphasize the importance of saturating our minds with the truth and replacing wrong beliefs and unhealthy behaviors with Christ-centered patterns. The discussion highlights the power of Scripture in transforming lives and breaking free from bondage. It also addresses the role of emotions and the need to align them with the truth. The conversation concludes with the reminder that what we focus on, saturate on, believe, and live determines the trajectory of our lives.  Takeaways Neuroplasticity is the brain's ability to reorganize and restructure itself throughout life. Saturating our minds with God's Word is a powerful tool for transformation and breaking free from negative beliefs and behaviors. What we focus on, saturate on, believe, and live determines the trajectory of our lives. Emotions should not be in the driver's seat of our lives; we need to align them with the truth. Renewing the mind with Scripture is a partnership between our intentional effort and the transformative work of the Holy Spirit. Saturating our minds with the truth replaces negative patterns with Christ-centered patterns. The truth sets us free and brings life and peace. Feeding the soul with Scripture should be as second-nature as feeding our bodies. Scripture saturation can lead to transformation and the restoration of hope and healthy relationships. Scripture Mentioned Romans 12:2 Psalm 1 John 15:3 Ephesians 5:26 Matthew 11:28-30 John 8:31-32; 36 Mark 7:20-23 Romans 8:6   Warrenism “To be a lover and pursuer of Christ is to be a lover and pursuer of the truth no matter where it leads and no matter the cost.”   Additional Resources   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC) Dane Ortlund’s “Gentle and Lowly: The Heart of Christ for Sinners and Sufferers” Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb)

Episode #13 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb Topic: Domestic Oppression, Part 2   Summary In the second part of the podcast series on domestic oppression, Warren Lamb shares his personal story of growing up in a home filled with domestic oppression and abuse. He opens up about the profound impact this experience had on his life and the ongoing journey of healing and transformation. Through his book, "Behind the Veil," Dr. Lamb aims to give a voice to the voiceless, provide a framework for understanding and addressing domestic oppression, and equip caregivers with the tools to help the wounded and broken. Dr. Lamb emphasizes the crucial role of key character traits, such as a contrite heart, humility, teachability, purposefulness, and honesty, in the process of redemption and healing. He also sheds light on the challenges faced by the biblical counseling community in addressing domestic oppression and the pressing need for education and awareness within the church. This powerful podcast closes out Season 1 of The Soul Care Podcast and serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of healing and redemption through authentic biblical soul care.  Takeaways Domestic oppressors operate systematically, using tactics similar to sexual predators. The oppressor camouflages their true self and meets the deep emotional needs of their target. Recognizing the signs of deception is crucial in preventing and addressing domestic oppression. Changing the heart of an oppressor is rare, but counseling can help oppressed individuals find healing and restoration. Growing up in a home filled with domestic oppression and abuse can have a profound impact on a person's life. Key character traits such as contrite heart, humility, teachability, purposefulness, and honesty are essential for genuine transformation and healing. The biblical counseling community faces challenges in addressing domestic oppression, and there is a need for education and awareness within the church. Warren Lamb's book, 'Behind the Veil,' aims to give voice to the voiceless, provide a framework for understanding and addressing domestic oppression, and equip caregivers to help the wounded and broken.   Scripture Mentioned Galatians 6:1 Ezekiel 34:1-10 1 Corinthians 5:11   Warrenism “Regarding oppression and abuse: There is no Switzerland; no neutral territory.”   Additional Resources   RELEVANT BOOKS Behind the Veil: Exposing the Evil of Domestic Oppression and Providing Hope (Dr. Warren Lamb) A Cry for Justice: How the Evil of Domestic Abuse Hides in Your Church (Jeff Crippen and Anna Wood) The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for men who use control and violence in the home (Pastor Chris Moles) When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church (Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson) 37 WAYS TO BE TAKEN CAPTIVE: Warning Signs and Prevention for Destructive Relationships (Sydney Millage) A Biblical Counselor's Approach to Marital Abuse: Roadmap to Reunification (Dr. Julie Ganschow and Bill Schlacks) Caring for Families Caught in Domestic Abuse: A Guide toward Protection, Refuge, and Hope (Chris Moles, editor)   MINISTRIES Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (Biblical counseling ministry team of Dr. Warren Lamb) Reigning Grace Biblical Counseling (Biblical counseling ministry team of Dr. Julie Ganschow) Called to Peace (Hope and healing for victims of domestic abuse) Clarity in Action Ministries (Equipping churches for ministering to abuse survivors) Men of Peace (Ministry of Pastor Chris Moles to help abusers repent and be transformed)   BLOGS Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb)) Biblical Counseling for Women (Dr. Julie Ganschow et al.)  

Episode #12 Show Notes Host: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb Topic: Domestic Oppression, Part 1   Summary Domestic oppression is the "seedbed that all other forms of abuse grow out of," according to Dr. Lamb. In this episode, he discusses his book, "Behind the Veil: Exposing the Evil of Domestic Oppression and Providing Hope." In it, he draws from his extensive experience in providing biblical counseling and soul care to thousands of survivors of domestic oppression and violence.  Takeaways Domestic oppression is a form of abuse that underlies and creates an environment for domestic abuse and other forms of abuse to occur. The church often fails to recognize and address domestic oppression, leading to the protection of the oppressor. The prevalence of domestic oppression within the church is staggering, with statistics showing that a majority of churchgoers have either experienced or witnessed it during their lifetime. Proper theology and understanding of biblical principles are crucial in addressing domestic oppression and providing hope for those affected. Creating a safe and open environment within the church is essential for individuals to come forward and seek help. There is hope for individuals and families dealing with domestic oppression as more pastors, elders, and biblical counselors are addressing this issue and providing specialized counseling and guidance. True repentance involves taking full responsibility for one's actions without seeking anything in return, including forgiveness. There are resources, counseling ministries, and organizations available for individuals and families seeking help.   Scripture Mentioned John 13:34-35 Luke 4:18 Ezekiel 34:1-10 Ephesians 4:32   Warrenism “Apology making is not forgiveness seeking.”   Additional Resources   RELEVANT BOOKS Behind the Veil: Exposing the Evil of Domestic Oppression and Providing Hope (Dr. Warren Lamb) A Cry for Justice: How the Evil of Domestic Abuse Hides in Your Church (Jeff Crippen and Anna Wood) The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for men who use control and violence in the home (Pastor Chris Moles) When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church (Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson) 37 WAYS TO BE TAKEN CAPTIVE: Warning Signs and Prevention for Destructive Relationships (Sydney Millage) A Biblical Counselor's Approach to Marital Abuse: Roadmap to Reunification (Dr. Julie Ganschow and Bill Schlacks) Caring for Families Caught in Domestic Abuse: A Guide toward Protection, Refuge, and Hope (Chris Moles, editor)   MINISTRIES Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (Biblical counseling ministry team of Dr. Warren Lamb) Reigning Grace Biblical Counseling (Biblical counseling ministry team of Dr. Julie Ganschow) Called to Peace (Hope and healing for victims of domestic abuse) Clarity in Action Ministries (Equipping churches for ministering to abuse survivors) Men of Peace (Ministry of Pastor Chris Moles to help abusers repent and be transformed)   BLOGS Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb)) Biblical Counseling for Women (Dr. Julie Ganschow et al.)

Episode #11 Show Notes Host: Kimberly Willess and Warren Lamb Guest: Shannon McCoy Topic: In the Aftermath of Divorce   Summary In an engaging and introspective episode, Shannon McCoy shares her journey from a science-based career to a life dedicated to biblical counseling. Inviting listeners into her world, McCoy unravels the intersections between science, faith, and emotional healing through her personal experiences and professional counsel. The episode delves deep into the vulnerabilities of struggling with food addiction and managing the spiritual complications of a marital breakdown. Takeaways Divorce is a devastating experience that affects individuals physically, emotionally, and spiritually. The church needs to do a better job of supporting those going through divorce and broken marriages. Effective, biblical pre-marriage counseling is essential in preparing couples for the challenges of marriage. Single parents need practical support and resources from the church. It is important to acknowledge and express emotions, including anger towards God, in the healing process. There is hope and a purpose for those who have experienced divorce.   Scripture Mentioned John 16:33 Revelation 2:4 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 Romans 5:13   Warrenism “Transformation is a process, not an event.”   Additional Resources   RELEVANT BOOKS Help! I’m a Slave to Food (Shannon McCoy) Women Counseling Women (Elyze Fitzpatrick, Editor, Shannon McCoy, Contributing Author)   BLOG POST Two Truths and A Lie for The Divorced (IBCD Blog) Biblical Counseling Coalition Blog (Articles by Shannon McCoy)   TRAINING COURSE MENTIONED “Whole-Person Ministry” (TILBC – Truth in Love Biblical Counseling)

Episode #10 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb Topic: Bipolar Diagnosis   Summary: In this episode of the Soul Care podcast, hosts Kimberly Willis and Jinda Reinig are joined by Dr. Warren Lamb to dissect the complexities of what is known as bipolar diagnosis and disorder. The dialogue weaves through the clinical landscape, contrasting conventional treatment methods against the healing prism of biblical counseling. Here, listeners can expect to uncover insights into managing what is often perceived as an incurable condition. The conversation delves into the criteria outlined by the DSM for diagnosing bipolar disorder and the subsequent treatments, raising questions about the effectiveness of a solely medication-based approach. Warren Lamb, offering his expertise, challenges the notion of bipolar disorder as an intrinsic part of one's identity, steering the narrative toward the power of individual belief systems and their capacity to reshape personal realities. Listeners are led on a path from clinical diagnostics to spiritual actualization, presenting a fresh perspective on managing psychological disorders. Key Takeaways: Bipolar diagnosis often originates from self-reported symptoms without solid scientific testing, leading to medication being prescribed based on clinical interpretation. The DSM classification of bipolar disorder and its variations are discussed, with an emphasis on the disorder's impact on mood and behavior. Dr. Lamb argues the significance of addressing core relational trauma and beliefs to manage and potentially overcome bipolar symptoms. There's a discussion surrounding the potential long-term damage caused by bipolar medications, which are often used as a lifelong treatment without resolving the underlying issues. The episode highlights biblical counseling as a hopeful and transformative alternative to traditional psychiatric methods, focusing on identity in Christ rather than diagnoses.  Notable Quotes: "It's the pianist that determines what music the piano plays." - Warren Lamb on the relationship between the mind and the brain. "The medical conditions are the effect, not the cause." - Warren on focusing on environmental factors in psychosis and bipolar symptoms. "You are priceless to God. He only made one of you." - Warren Lamb stressing individual worth in the face of disorders. "Our goal together is to deal with the underlying brokenness" - Recognizing the importance of addressing foundational issues in bipolar disorder treatment.   Scripture Mentioned 2 Corinthians 5:17 Isaiah 53:5/1 Peter 2:24   Warrenism “We do healing at the speed of life.”   Additional Resources Ministry Website: Truth in Love Biblical Counseling   RECOMMENDED BOOKS Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Warren Lamb) The Chemical Imbalance Delusion (Dr. Daniel Berger)   BLOG Words Matter: Refining the Conversation  

Episode #9 Show Notes Host: Dr. Warren Lamb Guest: Dr. Daniel Berger, II Topic: The Schizophrenic Unicorn   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Dr. Berger discusses his newest book, "The Schizophrenic Unicorn," which seeks to help explain the phenomenon commonly called "schizophrenia" and does so from both a clinical and a biblical perspective. He addresses common diagnoses such as major depression disorder, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and borderline personality disorder from a biblical perspective. Dr. Berger's exemplary scholarship and dynamic approach to examining and discussing mental health diagnoses in our times make this a unique opportunity to hear him discuss these important matters with Dr. Lamb in a comfortable, understandable, and friendly manner.    Takeaways A strong biblical foundation is essential in authentic biblical soul care. Authentic biblical soul care emphasizes wisdom and truth, recognizing the inseparable connection between the two. There are key distinctions between authentic biblical soul care and other approaches to mental health and counseling, including differences in philosophy, theology, and anthropology. Common diagnoses such as depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and borderline personality disorder can be effectively addressed from a biblical perspective. Sleep deprivation and insomnia are common factors in mental health issues. Secularism has influenced the field of mental health, but there is a growing movement towards a biblical understanding of soul care. There is a need for more dialogue and collaboration within the biblical counseling community. The future of biblical soul care lies in equipping and training others to provide hope and help to those in need. True repentance involves taking full responsibility for one's actions without seeking anything in return, including forgiveness. There are resources, counseling ministries, and organizations available for individuals and families seeking help. Scripture Mentioned Proverbs 19:20 Proverbs 1:8 Ephesians 6:4 Titus 2: 3, 11-12 Proverbs 4:3 (ff) Proverbs 23:29-34 Philippians 4:1-3 James 1:2-3   Additional Resources Dr. Berger’s Website Dr Daniel Berger   RECOMMENDED BOOKS (A few of our favorites from Dr. Berger’s titles) The Schizophrenic Unicorn: Understanding the Diagnosis of Schizophrenia, The Centrality of Sleep, the Biopsychosocial Diagnostic Model of Mental ... a Practical and Proven Alternative Approach Suicidal Ideation: A Biblical Perspective for Counselors Saving Abnormal: The Disorder of Psychiatric Genetics Rethinking Depression: Not a Sickness, Not a Sin The Chemical Imbalance Delusion The Truth About ADHD   BLOG Blog | drberger (drdanielberger.com)   

Episode #8 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Warren Lamb Guests: Tanya Flores & Tricia Lewis of Reproductive Loss Network Topic: Equipping the Church to Address Reproductive Loss with Compassion and Grace   Summary: Tanya Flores and Tricia Lewis, co-founders of Reproductive Loss Network, discuss their ministry's mission to provide a biblical response and care for those impacted by reproductive loss. They explain that reproductive loss encompasses a wide range of experiences related to a person's reproductive health and decisions, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infertility, and abortion. The founders emphasize the need for churches to address reproductive loss from a biblical perspective and equip caregivers to provide support and comfort. They also highlight the importance of creating safe spaces for individuals to grieve and share their stories, as well as the need for ongoing support and care beyond the immediate aftermath of loss. Key Takeaways: Reproductive loss refers to the grief associated with a range of issues, including miscarriage, stillbirth, perinatal death, infertility, and abortion. The church can play a crucial role in providing biblical care for those experiencing reproductive loss, but often lacks resources and training. Secondary grief among caregivers is common, underscoring the need for proper self-care strategies. Education is key; equipping caregivers with the language of grief and lament can open the door for healing and support. Forming a solid understanding of one's reproductive story is essential in the healing process, as is embracing the concept of lament within a biblical context. Notable Quotes: "Reproductive loss is any experience of grief in a person's life related to their ability to have children." "93% said they wouldn't discuss their abortion decision with anyone at church at all." Scriptures: Psalm 139:23-24 Ecclesiastes 7:2 Links: Reproductive Loss Network (RLN) RLN Training Resource List

Episode #7 Show Notes Host: Dr. Warren Lamb Guest: Pastor Paul Tautges Topic: “Remade: Embracing Your Complete Identity in Christ”   Summary In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, host Warren Lamb interviews Paul Tautges, a respected voice in the world of biblical counseling and soul care. They discuss Tautges' new book, "Remade: Experiencing Your Complete Identity in Christ," which explores the importance of identity in Christ and offers a refreshing perspective on finding one's identity in relationship with Jesus rather than external circumstances or accomplishments. The book is divided into three lenses: the sinner lens, the saint lens, and the sufferer lens, each providing a unique perspective on our identity in Christ. Tautges also shares the metaphor of kintsugi, an ancient Japanese art form that repairs broken pottery with gold, symbolizing God's redemptive work in our brokenness. It is an honor to speak with a man whose contributions to the Christian faith, especially in the realm of biblical counseling and soul care, are so extensive. He has been in gospel ministry for over 30 years and serves as one of the pastors of Cornerstone Community Church in Mayfield Heights, Ohio, which is in the Cleveland area. He is also an adjunct professor at Masters University in California, a certified biblical counselor and teaching fellow for the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors, and a council board member of the Biblical Counseling Coalition. He also serves as editor for the popular LifeLine mini-book series from Shepherd Press and blogs regularly at Counseling One Another, the Biblical Counseling Coalition, and Crosswalk. Ask him about himself, and he puts it simply: “By God’s grace, I’m a husband, dad, grandpa, and pastor at Cornerstone Community Church in Mayfield Heights, OH. I love Christ because He first loved me.” Humble, friendly, and approachable, he has written or edited over 60 books and mini-books, including “A Small Book for the Hurting Heart,” the 31-day devotional “Anxiety: Knowing God’s Peace;” then there is “Counseling One Another,” a mainstay in the biblical counseling and soul care world, and, of course, his newest work, “Remade: Embracing Your Complete Identity in Christ.”    Takeaways Our identity is not found in external circumstances or accomplishments, but in our relationship with Jesus Christ. Understanding our identity in Christ is crucial for biblical counseling and soul care. The book "Remade" explores three lenses of identity: the saint lens, the sinner lens, and the sufferer lens. The order is important. Suffering is a tool that God uses to sanctify us and conform us to the image of Christ.   Scripture Mentioned 1 Thessalonians 5:14 Colossians 1:28 2 Corinthians 7:10 Romans 8:29 1 Peter 4:12-19 Deuteronomy 29:29   Warrenism “Shame from God convicts us of sin and leads to repentance and salvation; toxic shame condemns us for who we are and there is no hope found there.”   Additional Resources   RELEVANT BOOKS Gospel Identity: Discovering Who You Really Are (small group guide) Identity Theft: Reclaiming the Truth of our Identity in Christ (Melissa Kruger, ed.) Remade: Embracing Your Complete Identity in Christ (Paul Tautges) Who Am I? Identity in Christ (Jerry Bridges) Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBC)   BLOGS Counseling One Another (Paul Tautges) Forty-Two Identity Markers for Every Christian (Paul Tautges) Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (pastorlamb.com)

Episode #5 Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Dr. Warren Lamb Special Guest: Dr. Julie Ganschow, Reigning Grace Biblical Counseling Center Topic: Relational Trauma   Dr. Julie Ganschow is the Founder and Director of Reigning Grace Biblical Counseling Center based in Liberty, MO. She is also the Founder and Director of Biblical Counseling for Women. ​She has been involved in Biblical Counseling and Discipleship for more than 25 years. A gifted counselor and teacher, Julie specializes in biblically counseling and providing biblical soul care for those suffering from trauma and domestic abuse. She is a frequent retreat and conference speaker.   Summary: Dr. Julie Ganschow discusses the topic of relational trauma and its clinical definition. She highlights the subjectivity of trauma and the overdiagnosis of PTSD. The conversation also explores the desensitization to traumatic events in our culture and the minimization of trauma experiences. Dr. Ganschow emphasizes the importance of a biblical perspective on trauma and the need for a holistic approach that addresses both the material and immaterial aspects of a person.   Helpful Scripture: Psalm 8 2 Corinthians 5:17 Books: (by Dr. Ganschow) “A Biblical Counselor's Approach to Marital Abuse: Roadmap to Reunification” (with Bill Schlacks),  2018 “Seeing Depression Through the Eyes of Grace,” 2016 “A Biblical Understanding of Self-Injury,” 2016 “Living Beyond the Heart of Betrayal: Biblically Addressing the Pain of Sexual Sin,” 2013

Episode #5 Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Dr. Warren Lamb Special Guest: Dr. Mark Shaw, The AddictionConnection Topic: Addiction Dr. Mark Shaw is the founder of The Addiction Connection, a network of Commissioned Addictions Biblical Counselors (CABC) who offer the “Hope of the Gospel for the Heart of Addiction.” In this episode, Dr. Shaw compares and contrasts the biblical view of addictions with that of the world at large. His redefinition of addiction is more than helpful: it is hope-giving. The discussion delves into the wonderful fruitfulness of the biblical soul care approach to dealing with addictions of all kinds. Dr. Shaw's definition of addiction: “The persistent habitual thoughts, words, and actions associated with excessive pleasure-seeking which are known by the user to be harmful and physically enslaving, sinful and willful choices to disobey God, whether they acknowledge that or not.” Helpful Scripture: Proverbs 18:1 Proverbs 3:5-6 Proverbs 23:29-35 (The addiction cycle)   Dr. Shaw’s Books:  Addiction, General Info The Heart of Addiction: A Biblical Perspective (2008, 2018) The Heart of Addiction Workbook (2008) Cross Talking: A Daily Gospel for Transforming Addicts (2010) Relapse: Biblical Prevention Strategies (2011) Understanding Temptation: The War Within Your Heart (2014)   For Parents Addiction-Proof Parenting: Biblical Prevention Strategies (2010) How Not to Raise an Addict: Biblical Prevention Strategies (2009) Divine Intervention: Hope and Help for Families of Addicts (2007)   Website The Addiction Connection   Documentary The Heart of Addiction  

Episode #4 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Dr. Warren Lamb Topic: Anxiety   Summary What is anxiety? What causes it? Is there a solution other than medication? In this episode, Dr. Warren Lamb compares and contrasts the clinical approach with the biblical approach and discusses why biblical soul care for anxiety is more viable. Part of the discussion includes a case study of a person who still walks in freedom from debilitating anxiety.   Takeaways Anxiety disorders are characterized by excessive fear and anxiety, often rooted in a lack of trust and belief in God's control and goodness. Toxic shame and a distorted self-worth can contribute to anxiety, but shifting focus and believing in God's nature and character can help overcome it. Comparing oneself to others and feeling entitled to a pain-free life can perpetuate anxiety and hinder healing. Understanding that God is aware of our circumstances and has a greater plan can provide comfort and peace in the midst of anxiety. Teaching others about self-worth and helping them understand God's love and protection can be a powerful tool in overcoming anxiety. Breathing techniques like box breathing can help take control of the body's response to anxiety. Medication may not address the underlying causes of anxiety and can have limitations in treating depression and anxiety. Resiliency factors play a crucial role in preventing ongoing woundedness from traumatic events. History does not define us, and we have the power to change our beliefs and narrative around anxiety.   Scripture Mentioned Genesis 50:20   Warrenisms “Anxiety is like running around trying to put out fires that have not been lit.”   “History is not destiny. Our history does not define us; it merely explains us.”   Relevant Links A Small Book for the Anxious Heart Help! I’m Anxious! Help! I Get Panic Attacks Why Worry?: Getting to the Heart of Your Anxiety Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ  

Episode #3 Show Notes Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Dr. Warren Lamb Special Guest: Christine Chappell   Summary Biblical counselor, author, and podcast host Christine Chappell openly shares her personal journey through depression, discussing how her relationship with God and biblical soul care were central to her healing. The focal point of the discussion centers around her book, 'Midnight Mercies,' wherein she bravely addresses depression and underscores the vital role of God's Word in nurturing the soul. She passionately advocates for the supportive and healing impact of the Christian community during times of crisis, acknowledging the profound mercy of God. She also reflects on the influences shaping her approach to writing and the delicate balance needed across various life roles. Throughout her insights, she stresses the importance of trusting God's timing and prioritizing self-care. Moreover, Christine highlights the power of authentic storytelling in normalizing conversations about depression – something that is sorely needed.   Takeaways Key takeaways from the discussion include: Prioritizing self-care and trusting God's timing for maintaining balance in various life roles. Sharing authentic experiences to destigmatize and normalize the experience of depression. Redirecting focus from self to glorifying God and embracing His Word for emotional healing. Recognizing the importance of communal support within the body of Christ for emotional healing. Encouraging men, particularly husbands and pastors, to engage with 'Midnight Mercies' to better understand and support women experiencing depression. Advocating for the destigmatization of depression in the Christian experience, acknowledging sorrow and grief without shame. Christine's forthcoming projects aim to shed light on postpartum depression and offer support for spouses of individuals experiencing depression. 'Midnight Mercies' stands out as a powerful resource to offer hope and guidance, especially to mothers navigating the challenges of depression. Her courage and ministry are deeply appreciated, concluding with a heartfelt prayer for her continued journey and impactful ministry.   Bibliography: Midnight Mercies: Walking with God Through Depression in Motherhood  (P&R Publishing, 2023) Help! I’ve Been Diagnosed with a Mental Disorder (Shepherd Press, 2021) Help! My Teen is Depressed (Shepherd Press, 2020) Clean Home, Messy Heart: Promises of Renewal, Hope, and  Change for Overwhelmed Moms (WestBow Press, 2016)   Social Media: facebook.com/cleanhomemessheart twitter.com/chappellwrites instagram.com/christinemchappell   Hope + Help Podcast: christinemchappell.com/podcast   Navigating Depression On-Demand Video Workshops: christinemchappell.com/workshops   Warrenism of the Week: “Stop shoulding yourself; shoulding equals shaming.”

Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Dr. Warren Lamb Topic: Depression & Suicide Summary This episode’s conversation explores the definition of depression and the diagnostic criteria according to the DSM-5. It also delves into the biblical perspective on depression and the importance of addressing loss and grief in understanding depression. The conversation highlights the differences between the DSM diagnosis and the biblical perspective on depression, as well as the lack of scientific evidence for serotonin-based depression. It emphasizes the need to address underlying brokenness and unresolved loss rather than relying solely on medication. The conversation also discusses the incomplete training of therapists and clinicians and the importance of identity in Christ in every aspect of life, especially when providing soul care. Included are insights on approaching individuals who have attempted suicide and providing rational conversation to address false beliefs and self-blame for those who have lost someone to suicide. This conversation explores the topics of depression and suicide, providing insights and guidance for comforting families, understanding the struggles of suicide survivors, and addressing the stigma and misconceptions surrounding suicide. The conversation also delves into questions about the afterlife and the role of faith in crisis situations. It emphasizes the importance of authentic connections, deep community, and authentic biblical soul care in providing hope and help for those battling depression and suicidal thoughts. The chapter titles reflect the main themes discussed in the conversation.   Takeaways Depression needs to be understood from a biblical perspective, especially when a formal clinical diagnosis has been given. Addressing underlying brokenness and unresolved loss is crucial for healing depression. Medication alone is not sufficient for treating depression; a holistic approach is what is needed. The training of therapists and clinicians ought to focus on addressing the root causes of depression. Approaching individuals who have attempted suicide requires empathy, understanding, and a focus on their spiritual well-being. Acknowledge the pain and validate the experiences of families affected by suicide. Understand the struggles of suicide survivors, including self-blame and the search for meaning in the aftermath of suicide. Challenge the stigma and misconceptions surrounding suicide and provide support to those affected. Focus on the righteous justice and grace of God when addressing questions about the afterlife, particularly when someone has completed suicide. Establish anchor points and provide loving truth in soul care to combat depression and suicidal thoughts. Build authentic connections and engage in a deep, healthy community to recognize hidden depression and provide support. Recognize the impact of screens and prioritize authentic connections for mental and emotional well-being. Understand that depression and significant loss are part of the imperfect life we live and seek guidance and support in navigating these challenges. Honest grieving and addressing unresolved loss are essential for healing from depression. Identity in Christ and understanding God's plan can provide hope and healing. Supporting individuals who have attempted suicide requires empathy, understanding, and a focus on their spiritual well-being. Trust in the wisdom, justice, and righteous grace of God when it comes to the possibility of repentance for those who have died by suicide. Genuine relationships and connections within a healthy Christian community are vital for supporting and caring for one another. Soul-care provides true hope and help for those struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. Authentic biblical soul-care provides true hope and help for those struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. Scripture Mentioned Psalm 139:14 Psalm 34:17-18   Warrenism “We were never created to experience loss. Loss is the most unnatural invasion of God’s creation.”   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ Serotonin-based Depression: No Empirical Evidence Suicidal Ideation: A Biblical Perspective for Counselors Rethinking Depression: Not a Sickness, Not a Sin Peter Breggin   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Soul Care Podcast 01:03 Definition of Depression from DSM-5 04:39 Biblical Perspective on Depression 07:39 Critique of Medication-based Treatment for Depression 10:35 Chronic Depression and Unresolved Loss 13:30 The Need for Honest Grieving 17:11 The Ineffectiveness of Medication for Depression 21:28 The Limitations of Traditional Therapy 25:22 Understanding Loss and God's Plan 29:32 Working through Loss and Identity in Christ 35:13 Addressing Loss and Brokenness in Soul Care 40:11 Comforting Those Who Have Attempted Suicide 45:01 Supporting Suicide Survivors 54:45 The Possibility of Repentance 55:14 Crisis of Faith 55:48 Trusting in God's Wisdom and Grace 57:18 Unconventional Approach to Suicide Counseling 58:17 Soul Care and True Hope 58:46 No Quick Fix for a Crushed Spirit 59:31 Bringing Everything to Light in Soul Care 01:00:29 Acknowledging Pain and Walking in Freedom 01:01:26 Different Types of Depression 01:02:23 The Importance of Healthy Christian Community 01:03:20 Paying Attention to Hidden Sadness 01:04:06 Authentic Relationships and Connections 01:07:28 The Importance of Authentic In-Person Connection 01:08:38 God's Design for Healthy Community 01:09:08 Encouragement from Scripture 01:09:57 Applying the Word to Your Life

In the inaugural episode, Dr. Warren Lamb joins co-hosts Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess to dive into and explore biblical "soul care." They delve into explaining the soul's essence and its ties to mind, emotions, and will, while emphasizing the intrinsic value of every individual as God's special creation. The conversation explores healing from feelings of worthlessness, trauma, and false beliefs through the power of biblical truth and the support of a healthy community. While cautioning against an overreliance on medication, they advocate for genuine healing and transformation of the whole person. The discussion also touches on navigating life's hardships—like anxiety and grief—and the significance of seeking support and guidance during tough times. Addressing church-related hurt is highlighted, emphasizing the importance of embodying Christ's character in counseling, and creating a nurturing environment for healing. The episode culminates with a reminder that the goal of everyone involved with The Soul Care Podcast and the Truth in Love ministry team is to speak the truth in love and surrender the outcomes to God in their mission of soul care.   Scripture Mentioned Romans 12:2 Genesis 1:26-27 Genesis 3 Genesis 9:3-6 Psalm 8:3-8 Matthew 6:25-26 Matthew 16:26-27 Luke 15:10 Romans 8:1 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 John 14:15   Warrenisms “You cannot bury a live snake. The problem will always work its way back to the surface.” “What you believe is what you live.” (What you saturate your mind with is what you believe; what you believe is what you live.)   Relevant Links Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center Peter Breggin Ritalin Information, general (Several articles) “Ritalin Gone Wrong” (New York Times opinion piece, 2012) Dane Ortlund’s “Gentle and Lowly: The Heart of Christ for Sinners and Sufferers”

This is a brief introduction to The Soul Care Podcast to help you get to know us and what we are here for.