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The Tea Lady Podcast

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The Tea Lady Podcast is a relaxed conversational podcast, hosted by Rumbi and Leo. The conversations centre around everyday issues that young women face in their personal journeys. The stories shared are real and relatable. Picture it as two ladies having their daily meet up for a girlie chat. Sometimes it might be graphic, sad or hilarious and sometimes it can be educational inspiring and motivational. So, grab your cup or glass of your favourite drink, listen in and join in the conversation on Instagram and twitter @thetlpodcast.

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Episodes

  1. The Goodbye Episode

    We have come to the series finale. After 2 successful seasons, the Tea Lady Podcast has come to an end. Rumbi and Leo share their most memorable moments and choose to celebrate the end with a Tea Lady Pub Quiz! The catch? If you get a question wrong, you drink a shot! Tune to find out who won…

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  2. Relationship Q & A - Ghosting, Cougars & Proposals

    For the last ever Relationship Q & A; Rumbi and Leo went in hard! We had; not 2, not 3 but 4 Scenarios!! As it is the last ever Q & A episode, you don't want to miss the girl's giving their thoughts on each of the situations. Grab your favourite beverage, sit back, relax, and tune in! To share…

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  3. Supporting (Small) Black Owned Businesses - Yay/Nay

    Not only are the ladies looking at small businesses but the Black owned businesses to be exact. What are customers hoping to get, what are the expectations? Have the big commercial retailers spoilt us to expect too much? Is there room for forgiveness when a job is done badly by a small business?...

  4. Relationship Q & A's; D* Pics & Sketchy Friends

    This week Rumbi & Leo tackle some of our listeners' questions and scenarios. You read the title correctly! There are some questionable nude related messages and friends sliding into DM's its all a bit embarrassing to say the least! But the ladies are dissecting each scenario and looking at what…

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  5. Can cheating be justified?

    This week we take a closer look at infidetility; why people cheat and if it can ever be justified. We also look at he Derrick Jaxn situation and how that has affected his followers and the public's perception of the whole sordid affair! We also have some important news to share with you all! So...

  6. Are you settling?

    In this week's episode Leo and Rumbi look at a different relationship dynamic where one person is settling. Can you tell if your partner settled for you? Did you settle for them? What could be the tell-tale signs of settling? Join in the conversation on our social media: Twitter, Facebook or...

  7. 9-5 -v- Entrepreneurship

    In this week's episode Rumbi & Leo Talk about the pros and cons of starting your own business in comparison to being employed, in a 9-5. It's not an easy decision to make to go self employed or start your own business, so this week we looked at some of the fears, opportunities that manyy could be...

  8. Have you outgrown your relationship?

    Time goes by, people change, people grow; but what if you outgrow your relationship? This week Rumbi & Leo discuss signs of an outgrown relationship and if you have outgrown your partner and what to do when you realise that. Listen in to this week's episode and join in the conversation! Do you…

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  9. Where is the Male Contraceptive Pill?!

    Where is it? Why isnt it out yet? What's the hold up? These are some of the questions Leo and Rumb pose in this week's episode on why Women are suffering with multiple symptoms caused by contraceptive options but men havent got a pill of their own? It's mind booggling when you think about it, but...

  10. The Most & Least Important Parts of a Romantic Relationship

    The age-old question of; what is important in a romantic relationship? Rumbi and Leo try their best to give their honest opinions on this question with some hilarious tangents to match! Rumbi stumbled on a survey that listed 12 aspects of a Romantic Relationship. The question was to pick what you...

  11. What's Yours is Ours

    We had another important question left over from last week's Q & A segment which was: "If a man earns enough to support the whole family, pay all the bills and then some; should his wife still contribute towards the bills? If not, what would you say she should do with the money she earns?" Like...

  12. Relationship Q & A's; Starting Difficult Conversations

    This week we receive two different scenarios regarding women who want t bring up a difficult conversation. How do they start it? Is it easier said than done? Will their partner take offence? Of course Rumbi & Leo share their thoughts, find the lighter side of the problems and share their...

  13. Obsessed with Bridgerton

    This week; in the spirit of Valentines and Black History Month we celebrate our new found love, appreciation of Netflix's groundbreaking biggest series ever! Bridgerton!! Shonda Rhymes is the Executive Producer of this masterpiece and thanks to it's creators and writers, we are thoroughly inlove...

  14. "You're average looking at best" The Review (PART 2)

    In this week's 2-part episode; Rumbi & Leo continue to dissect the infamous video of self proclaimed Image Consultant; Kevin Samuels who gives advice to a woman on her prospects of securing a "6-figure earning man". Watch the full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VI6XWGKvUrE Please…

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  15. "You're average looking at best" The Review (PART 1)

    This week Rumbi & Leo dissect the infamous video of self proclaimed Image Consultant; Kevin Samuels who gives advice to a woman on her prospects of securing a "6-figure earning man". Watch the full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VI6XWGKvUrE We do not own an rights to the content of...

  16. Dating after a Divorce

    Hi Tea Ladies and Tea Lads! This week we talk about divorce and getting back onto the "dating saddle". We received two messages from our lovely listeners to talk about this topic: 1. When is the best time to start dating when a marriage ends? 2. Why there is a supposedly high rate of divorce...

  17. Do you need new friends?

    Hi Tea Ladies and Tea Lads! This week's episode continues in the spirit of the "New year New you" mantra. Rumbi and Leo go in-depth to discuss a very good topic of self progression and what kind of roles our friends play in furthering our goals and ambitions. Leo suggests that maybe for those...

  18. New Year New Normal

    Happy New Year to one and all!! Rumbi and Leo jump straight into the New Year with a New Episode on how Christmas was and how life is going to be a little bit different in the "new normal". They talk about self love, facing fears, new challenges and just how the podcast has helped not only them…

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  19. What would you do? Christmas Special

    In the festive spirit; the ladies talk about their favourite Christmas past times, christmas movies, christmas songs and just describing their christmas in an African household. Rumbi puts some out-of-pocket dilemmas she has found on good old facebook and asks Leo what she would do!? Listen to…

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  20. You can't touch my hair

    We definitely went there! As Black women, our hair can appear to be a mystery and somehow attracts a lot of attention and sometimes that attention is not wanted! Rumbi & Leo take a look at the infamous touching of one's hair. Do we like it or do we just tolerate it?? Let's find out! Listen to…

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  21. Why Women Wait ...

    This week we did things a little differently on the TL Podcast. We let you our valued listeners answer this Question we received from a gentleman who needed to know why women wait to have sex. This was so enlightening to get so many different points of view on this topic!! Listen to this weeks...

  22. Relationship Q & A's; First Dates gone wrong

    If you thought messaging first on tinder was your worst nightmare, you havent heard the stories in this week's Relationship Q & A. We hear some truly common and not so common firt date horror stories which leave you losing hope in humanity. Have you ever been on a first or second date and…

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  23. Kamala Harris & The Sainsbury's Gravy Song

    This week Rumbi & Leo took some much needed time to celebrate what's good in the world; Diversity now on our screens! From the first Black/Asian Woman Vice President of the USA to the first Black family Christmas Advert! With all the controversies, the ladies appreciate what it means to see…

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  24. ASMR & Red Flags

    This week the ladies talk about Red Flags... but wait... not before they treat you to their own version of ASMR! Putting the new recording gear to the test, the sounds are just too funny. Listen for yourself and let us know what you think! Red Flags; Rumbi and Leo consider some red flags (warning...

  25. How to start a podcast

    Ever wondered how podcasts make money? Or how to get started on your own podcast with little or no money at all? Rumbi and Leo share their hints and tips on how to start a podcast and some things they wished they knew before starting the Tea Lady Podcast! If you have more questions or want to…

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  26. Should you be friends with an ex?

    Rumbi & Leo are joined by their good friend Narshly, to talk about a situation that is all too familiar; when your ex wants to be friends. What is the best way to handle this? Do couples have what it takes to remain friends after a break-up? This week's topic looks at why an ex might want to put...

  27. CV's and Job hunting 101

    This week the ladies are talking about the good old Curriculum Vitae with guest Chira! With many people on furlough, facing redundancies or just looking for a more secure job; the job market has become very fierce during this pandemic and it's getting harder to get a job right now. Whether you're...

  28. Relationship Q & A: Who was he with? Did she break them up?

    This week Rumbi and Leo are joined by a special guest; Yeve! The ladies look at some scenarios that have been posted anonymously on @thetlpodcast. They try to help and assist by putting their 3 senses to the issues discussed. So come on and enjoy the tea being spilt by you our lovely listeners!...

  29. How to get over a Break-up with Holly Maddison

    This week Rumbi and Leo sat down with Holly Maddison, a Breakup Coach who empowers women to stop thinking about their ex and start living their dream life! They discuss their own personal experiences with break-ups the failures in moving and Holly gives great tips and advice on how to take that...

  30. Everyone has a side hustle; do I need one?

    This week Rumbi and Leo re-visit the side hustle issue, looking at the current economic climate with so many businesses closing down. Do we need to start looking at alternative sources of income? In a world where technology is already the place to be, the Tea Ladies look at possible side hustle...

  31. Rumbi interviews Sanii Makhalima

    In this episode, the ladies of the TL Podcast switch things up a little bit and Rumbi meets Sanii Makhalima for a candid conversation discussing his latest album "B-rokenhearted". In this episode, short clips of Sanii Makhalima's music are played: I surrender by Sanii Makhalima Hazvichaiti by…

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  32. Love Languages

    Rumbi and Leo dissect Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages. The ladies look at their results after taking the love language test and consider the 5 love languages in turn and what each one means for them. Have you heard of the 5 love languages? Is it something completely new to you? Go ahead and…

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  33. Growing up female

    Rumbi and Leo are joined by Tanaka from @rudorwaishe. The ladies talk about the challenges they have each faced growing up as a female. In this candid discussion, they talk about what puberty meant for each of them, roles and responsibilities of a girl child and what they would do if different…

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  34. Misconceptions of Africa

    In this episode, Rumbi and Leo look at the infamous misconceptions that people not from Africa might have. They also look at the issues that we as Africans might be neglecting to address the issue. What are the usual questions you get from people when they ask you about Africa? Share your...

  35. Relationships Q & A

    Rumbi and Leo discuss scenarios, dilemmas and questions sent in by listeners. As the saying goes: "A problem shared is a problem halved", whilst offering their thoughts and suggestions on what to do; the girls take this as an opportunity to discuss issues in today's society. In this episode;...

  36. Best Friend's ex revisited & lets talk marriage

    Rumbi and Leo invite Rumbi's best friend, Michelle, to talk about a long-standing issue between them. Episode 22 is re-visited and the friends share their thoughts on the issue of loyalty, insecurities, the knowledge a close friend has when intertwined within a relationship with another. The…

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  37. Letter to my 20-year-old self: Rumbi's Letter

    Have you ever thought about what your life was like when you were 20? If you had a chance to send a letter from the future to your 20-year-old self what would you say? In this Part 2 episode; It's Rumbi's turn to pen a letter to her very distant 20-year-old self! This was no an easy letter to…

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  38. Letter to my 20-year-old self: Leo's Letter

    Have you ever thought about what your life was like when you were 20? If you had a chance to send a letter from the future to your 20-year-old self what would you say? In this episode; Leo pens a letter to her not so distant 20-year-old self but you would be surprised at the changes she has had...

  39. Would you date your Best Friend's Ex?

    The TL Podcast is back! It is revamped with a new look and a double tag team! Rumbi and Leo discuss the topic of situations when a friend might start seeing his/her best friend's ex-partner. How would that dynamic work? Does it complicate things? Or should someone follow their heart and set on...

  40. Entanglements & Entangleships

    This week we are talking about the infamous entanglement!! That's right people, we are spilling the tea on Will and Jada's open (but not so open relationship); Jada's entanglement with August and if Will and Jada are still Hollywood's strongest surviving couple. In light of recent interviews, we...

  41. How to start using your Credit Report

    Not wanting to open your Credit Report and fear of the unknown? This week we talk about how we used to perceive Credit Reports and how they have now become our best guide and best friends in our roads to financial freedom. Join us for a candid conversation on how we have been able to utilise…

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  42. Being Single & Fabulous

    This week I am joined by two single and fabulous guests; Vimbai and Kevin! We talk about the realities of being single, the opportunities and positive side to being single. We explore the chances to celebrate being single and taking advantage of that time to take care of you! We also share some...

  43. Long Distance Relationships; How to make it work

    This week I am joined by my beautiful Aunt; Tete Rosie! We talk about the realities of long-distance relationships, challenges, hardships and opportunities that come with that kind of a relationship. We also share some very valuable tips on how to make it work and also spice it up a bit when you...

  44. The Outlook on Dating Post-Covid-19

    Its a CROSS-OVER!! Teaming up with Light the Path Podcast, we talk about what dating and relationships are going to look like when quarantine is over. Join in and share your thoughts on Youtube, Twitter or Instagram using the hashtag #thetlpodcast. Dont forget to subscribe or follow @thetlpodcast.

  45. Is Friends with Benefits ever a good idea?

    Yes, you read that right! Joined by Leo; we talk about the "Friends with Benefits" scenario, how it happens, potential outcomes and how to come out of it and ultimately if it is a good idea or not. Weigh in on the discussion and share your thoughts @thetlpodcast or using the hashtag #thetlpodcast

  46. Justice for George Floyd

    This week I am joined by Tinashe to talk about the brutal and senseless murder of George Floyd, that happened in America. We are sharing our thoughts and feelings of the recent events and how a change is well overdue in the justice system. We tackle issues of racial injustice, systematic and…

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  47. Half A Glass; Full of Hope

    This is a Toastmasters International Speech in honour of Mental Health Awareness week and the effects of Corona Virus on our lives. I hope this episode will uplift your spirit and give you some hope for the uncertain future. Remember to follow @theTLPodcast on Instagram for more discussion and...

  48. Relationships Q & A Part 3

    The Third and Final Instalment to the Relationships Q & A! This last segment, we talk about how Covid-19 has impacted relationships and best options when faced with a life-threatening illness. Join in the conversation and let us know your thoughts and take on the topics!

  49. Relationships Q & A PART 2

    The Discussion continues, Michelle, Narshly, Tan and Mada consider issues in relation to children, and a controversial topic regarding "in sickness and in health". When can someone call it quits? Join in the conversation and share your thoughts!

  50. Relationships Q & A PART 1

    The Tea Lady is joined by Special guests; Michelle, Tan, Narshly and Mada. This week we took to the "Listener Streets" and got a few questions and dilemmas that people were facing in various relationships and we had a ball discussing these! So much that we have Part 1 and Part 2!!

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

The Tea Lady Podcast is a relaxed conversational podcast, hosted by Rumbi and Leo. The conversations centre around everyday issues that young women face in their personal journeys. The stories shared are real and relatable. Picture it as two ladies having their daily meet up for a girlie chat. Sometimes it might be graphic, sad or hilarious and sometimes it can be educational inspiring and motivational. So, grab your cup or glass of your favourite drink, listen in and join in the conversation on Instagram and twitter @thetlpodcast.

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