The Union Podcast

This Union Podcast episode features Jason and Teresa Mellard sharing their deeply personal journeys with same-sex attraction, offering an honest exploration of identity, the lasting impact of childhood experiences, and the transformative power of faith and authentic community. Through their story, they invite listeners into a conversation about healing, truth, and what it means to walk in freedom. Jason also draws from his work as a coach for Christian men, where he helps individuals navigate questions around identity, sexuality, and spiritual growth. He shares insights from walking alongside men who desire to live in alignment with their faith, emphasizing the importance of brotherhood, accountability, and addressing the deeper heart issues that often shape behaviour and belief. Together, Jason and Teresa highlight the role their marriage has played in their ongoing journey. Teresa offers a meaningful perspective on partnership, grace, and restoration, sharing how their relationship has been shaped by honesty, resilience, and a shared commitment to God’s design. Their story reflects both the challenges and the hope found in pursuing wholeness together. In this episode, they discuss practical steps toward healing, the importance of understanding God’s compassion, and how to embrace an authentic identity rooted in Christ—offering encouragement to anyone seeking freedom, clarity, and deeper connection. Key Topics -Roots of same-sex attraction and childhood experiences -The role of belief and feelings of separateness -The importance of understanding God's compassion -Practical steps for healing and identity restoration -The significance of community and vulnerability Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:57 Navigating Identity and Same-Sex Attraction 06:02 Common Themes in Same-Sex Attraction 09:56 The Role of Family Dynamics 13:57 Understanding the Roots of Attraction 17:46 Turning Points and Personal Growth 25:42 Journey to Identity and Peace 29:14 The Role of Faith and Community 31:04 Understanding Same-Sex Attraction 34:07 Navigating Relationships and Expectations 39:24 Surrendering to God for Freedom 46:37 Reframing Attractions and Emotions 52:07 Words of Encouragement to the Younger Self Jason Mellard Resources https://jasonmellard.com/ YourIdentityNow.com - https://youridentitynow.com SSA Quiz - https://ssaquiz.com

In this episode of The Union Podcast, Bryan and Bonnie Pue sit down with therapist and author Jay Stringer to explore the heart behind his powerful new book, Desire. Building on the groundbreaking insights of his previous work, Unwanted, Jay invites us to move beyond behaviour management and into a deeper, more honest engagement with the stories shaping our longings. For many, the conversation around desire—especially within Christian spaces—has been reduced to avoidance, suppression, or shame. But what if desire is not the enemy? What if, instead, it is a doorway into healing? Together, we explore why desire has been so widely misunderstood, how curiosity can become a pathway toward freedom, and what it looks like to hold both personal responsibility and compassion in tension. Jay unpacks how our sexual and relational patterns are often rooted in past wounds, and how paying attention to them—rather than numbing or controlling them—can lead to deeper transformation.Bryan and Bonnie also engage Jay in a thoughtful reflection on the life of King David, asking how we might understand even profound moral failure through the lens of desire, formation, and unmet longing. Whether you’re wrestling with shame, confusion, or fear around your desires, this conversation offers a hopeful and grounded invitation: your story matters, and healing begins with curiosity, not condemnation. In this episode, we cover: • What led Jay to write Desire and how it expands on Unwanted • Why desire has been misunderstood in the Church • The limits of behaviour management and the invitation to deeper self-understanding • How curiosity helps heal what shame has distorted • Holding together repentance, responsibility, and compassionate self-examination • A fresh lens on King David’s story • Practical first steps toward healing for those feeling stuck in shame. Learn more about Jay’s work and find Desire wherever books are sold. https://jay-stringer.com @jay_stringer_ Dont miss out on The Called Conference on April 10th & 11th in Abbotsford, BC Register Here

We’re honored to welcome Kyla Gillespie from Renewed & Transformed Ministries back to The Union Podcast for a powerful and deeply personal conversation. In this episode, we get to talk with Kyla about her new book “Transformed” which documents her journey of physically transitioning, living as a male named “Bryson” for six years, and the life-altering moment when she encountered Jesus and began the path of de-transitioning. With honesty and courage, she opens up about her upbringing in a Christian home, the ache of her father’s absence, the strain on her family relationships, and the deeper identity questions that shaped her story. Bryan and Bonnie thoughtfully explore themes of identity, sexuality, and faith, creating space for a conversation marked by both compassion and conviction. Kyla reflects on what it meant to lay down one name and reclaim another—embracing “Kyla” not just as a name, but as a testimony to redemption, belonging, and the healing power of love expressed through community.The episode also highlights the heart behind the upcoming Called Conference, centered on sexual discipleship and spiritual formation—an initiative closely aligned with Kyla’s mission to equip churches and individuals navigating questions of gender and identity. This conversation is honest, hope-filled, and deeply relevant for church leaders, parents, and anyone seeking to hold truth and grace together. Kyla’s story is ultimately one of surrender, restoration, and a call for the Church to become a place where transformation is met with unwavering love. Register For The Called Conference 2026For more info on Kylas work visit- www.kylgillespie.comFollow Kyla on Social Media- @kylagillespie.14 Pre Order Your Copy of Transformed https://www.amazon.ca/TransFormed-Journey-Confusion-Reassignment-Detransitioning/dp/B0FCL13CD7

In this episode Bryan and Bonnie sit down with Gretchen Huizinga to explore the mysterious and, to some, controversial topic of AI. This episode dives deep into how artificial intelligence is not just a tool, but a mirror reflecting human flaws, spiritual dangers, and divine opportunities. Gretchen Huizinga, a Christian scholar at the intersection of AI ethics and theology, shares eye-opening insights on how AI threatens to replace human voice and voice, risk idolatry, and influence the fabric of church life and personal identity. She highlights startling realities—AI coaching into self-harm, monopolizing productivity, and subtly replacing our ability to wrestle with difficulty—pushing us toward dependence rather than dependence on Christ. You'll discover: -How AI's roots in secular humanism clash with biblical truths about human worth and divine image -The biblical principles that challenge us to steward technology responsibly instead of succumbing to idolatry -The dangers of outsourcing our moral, spiritual, and relational development to machines -Why the church must reclaim its voice and lead as countercultural stewards of authentic humanity in an AI-driven world -Practical guardrails rooted in the fruits of the Spirit, especially self-control, to resist the subtle seduction of ease and efficiency -This episode is perfect for church leaders, Christians navigating a tech-saturated culture, and anyone concerned about AI's influence on our souls and society. As Gretchen reminds us, in a world increasingly dependent on AI, the true voice and presence of God remain essential—our hope, our guide, our greatest treasure. Don't miss this urgent call to reflect, resist, and reclaim what it means to be fully human created in God's image. Activation begins in your heart and your stewardship—listen now and join the conversation shaping the future of faith and technology. To stay up to date with Gretchen's work visit- https://www.gretchenhuizinga.com For Gretchen's dissertation on Righteous AI - https://aiandfaith.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/RIGHTEOUS-AI-THE-CHRISTIAN-VOICE-IN-THE-ETHICAL-AI-CONVERSATION.pdf

In this episode of the Union Podcast, Bryan and Bonnie Pue reflect on 2025 and the cultural realities shaping families today before confronting one of the most urgent challenges parents face: talking honestly about sexuality, identity, and relationships. Introducing Bonnie's new book, Awkward: Conversations About Sex and Culture, they challenge the idea that silence protects children and instead call parents to lead with courage, clarity, and presence. The conversation moves from why these discussions matter to when and how to start them, addressing age-appropriate topics and the real barriers parents face—including shame, fear, and unresolved past experiences. The hosts also engage cultural pressures surrounding gender ideology, urging parents not to outsource formation to culture. The episode closes with a direct charge to parents: become students of your children, seek wisdom over comfort, and engage the hard conversations now—because formation is already happening.Get your Copy of Awkward 📖 Watch On YouTubeWatch On Rumble

What happens when cultural ideology reshapes how we read the Bible—especially when it comes to sexuality and identity?In this compelling conversation, Tim Barnett—apologist, speaker, and co-author (alongside Alisa Childers) of The Deconstruction of Christianity: What It Is, Why It’s Destructive, and How to Respond—joins us to unpack the growing trend of deconstruction today. Together, we explore how cultural ideology around identity, sexuality, and personal autonomy is shaping the way many believers approach Scripture, and why the biblical sexual ethic often becomes a flashpoint in the process of walking away from historic Christian faith. Tim thoughtfully addresses the rise of revisionist interpretations of Scripture, the philosophical undercurrents of deconstruction, and the ways in which church leaders can respond with both truth and grace. Whether you're wrestling with these questions yourself or leading others who are, this episode offers clarity, conviction, and hope for holding to a vibrant faith in a rapidly shifting cultural landscape.Tim Barnett is an apologist and speaker with Stand to Reason (STR), an apologetics ministry dedicated to training Christians to think more clearly about their faith. Tim travels across the US and Canada, speaking to thousands of people each year. He’s also a frequent guest on podcasts and YouTube channels.Before starting STR in 2015, Tim worked as a professional teacher, employed in both the private and public sector. He has earned a Bachelor of Science in Physics from York University, a Bachelor of Education from Ontario Tech University, and a Master of Arts in Philosophy from Southern Evangelical Seminary. Between 2014 and 2022, Tim served on the pastoral staff at Cedarview Community Church.In 2020, Tim began Red Pen Logic with Mr. B, an online ministry that assesses bad thinking on social media by using good thinking. Across all social media platforms, Red Pen Logic (RPL) reaches millions of people every month.Get Your Copy Of “The Deconstruction Of Christianity: What it is, Why it’s destructive, and How to respond.”IG-@original_mrb & @redpenlogicRed Pen Logic YouTube ChannelStand To Reason Website

In this powerful episode of The Union Podcast, we sit down with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, for a candid and hope-filled conversation designed specifically for church leaders.As pastors, ministry leaders, and youth workers navigate the pressures of spiritual leadership, many also face private struggles with sexual brokenness — often in silence. Nick shares his own story of battling pornography addiction while in pastoral ministry, and how coming into the light became the starting point of healing, not the end of his calling.We also discuss the sobering results of “Beyond the Porn Phenomenon,” a Barna study conducted in partnership with Pure Desire, which highlights just how deeply pornography is affecting the Church — including its leaders.This episode is an invitation to move from isolation to integrity — and to rethink how churches can cultivate a culture of grace, transparency, and long-term restoration.Topics Covered:Nick’s personal journey through addiction and healingThe role of Pure Desire Ministries in helping leaders find freedomThe Church’s response to pornography and sexual shameHow to create safe, accountable spaces for healing in leadershipPractical next steps for pastors and church staff who feel stuckWhether you’re leading others or trying to lead yourself well, this conversation will encourage you: you’re not alone, and there’s a path toward wholeness.Pure Desire MinistriesWebsite: https://www.puredesire.orgGet Help: https://www.puredesire.org/get-helpLeader Resources: https://www.puredesire.org/church-leadersConquer Series: https://www.puredesire.org/conquer-seriesBarna Study – Beyond the Porn PhenomenonDownload the full report here: https://www.barna.com/research/beyond-the-porn-phenomenonNick Stumbo’s Book"Setting Us Free: An Invitation to a Life of Freedom, Healing, and Hope"Available hereNeed confidential support?Reach out to Pure Desire's team: https://www.puredesire.org/contact

In this compelling episode, Bryan sits down with Dr. Robert Smith, lecturer in Theology, Ethics, and Music at Sydney Missionary and Bible College, to discuss his new book The Body God Gives: Biblical Answers on Gender Identity. With clarity, wisdom, and pastoral care, Robert unpacks the biblical foundations for understanding gender and sexuality in a time of cultural confusion.We explore:Why this conversation is vital for the church todayHow pastors can begin engaging these topics with both truth and graceThe tension between conviction and compassion in polarized timesScriptural responses to affirming interpretations of gender identityThe debate around pronoun usage and what true hospitality looks likePractical steps for gospel-centered evangelism among transgender individualsHow Christians can respond to pressure in schools, workplaces, and public lifeWhat the future of this conversation may look like—and how the church can prepareThis episode offers thoughtful, theologically grounded insight for anyone navigating these conversations in ministry, discipleship, or daily life. Whether you're leading a church or having coffee with a friend, this conversation will help you engage with humility, courage, and biblical conviction.Get Your Copy Of “The Body God Gives”

In this episode of The Union Podcast, we’re joined by Glen Scrivener—author, evangelist, and CEO of SpeakLife—for a rich and thought-provoking conversation on how the gospel has shaped the way we understand sex, consent, and human dignity.Glen is well known for his work with SpeakLife, a UK-based ministry that uses creative storytelling, media, and digital content to engage hearts and minds with the truth and beauty of Jesus. Whether it’s through spoken word films, interviews, or cultural commentary, Glen and his team are passionate about helping people see how the gospel speaks into every area of life—including some of the most difficult and sensitive topics in our world today.In this episode, we dive into his book The Air We Breathe, exploring the surprising ways Christianity has influenced the moral foundations of Western culture. Focusing especially on the concept of consent, we look at how the Greco-Roman world understood sexuality—often marked by power, dominance, and inequality—and how the early church introduced a radically different ethic, one rooted in the worth and dignity of every person.We talk about what made the Christian view of sex so distinct in that cultural moment, how the gospel reframed relationships not just with rules but with reverence, and why this matters deeply in our modern conversations around consent and human value. Glen also shares how the early church's faithfulness to the teachings of Jesus told a better story—one that brought hope and healing then, and still has the power to do the same today.If you've ever wondered whether the gospel has anything meaningful to say about sex, relationships, and the deep wounds so many carry—this episode is for you.Get Your Copy Of- “The Air We Breathe”Speak Life Website3-2-1 CourseSpeak Life YouTube ChannelSpeak Life Instagram

In this poignant and heartfelt episode, host Bonnie Pue invites her dear friends Ruth Erickson and RaeChelle Koop for a raw and honest dialogue that celebrates the female body's beauty, challenges, and profound purpose. As we conclude our enlightening mini-series, That Time of the Month, we embark on an intricate journey through the various stages of womanhood—from the tender beginnings of puberty to the exhilarating yet complex experiences of motherhood, and the gradual transformations of perimenopause.With personal anecdotes and uplifting biblical encouragement, we courageously unpack the myriad struggles many women face. Together, we explore the tumult of hormonal fluctuations, the insidious cultural shame that often shadows femininity, and the emotional and physical evolution that accompanies each phase of life. If you’ve ever found yourself grappling with the weight of your body’s design, we sincerely hope this conversation inspires you to embrace the intentional and purposeful creation that God has crafted in you.And fellas, this episode is for you too! Whether you’re a husband, father, brother, or friend, we offer insights that will help you better love and support the remarkable women in your life with a deeper understanding. Join us for this enriching, gospel-centred discussion, and be uplifted by the reassuring truth that God's design for us is always good.

How does Scripture view the female body and its natural rhythms?In this episode, we explore God’s design for women’s cycles, hormones, and maternal nature—and how they reflect His nurturing character. We discuss how hormonal changes impact mood, energy, and spirituality, as well as practical ways to thrive in career, ministry, and family while honoring biological rhythms. With insights from the Bible and expert guidance from FEMM Educator and Hormone Coach Bekah Yawn, we uncover how understanding cycles can support natural family planning and the meaning behind “unclean” concepts in Scripture. Plus, we take a good look at what the Bible says about aging and wisdom. Join us for a thoughtful conversation on faith, the female body, and embracing God’s design at every stage of life with our incredible guest. Bekah has worked with dozens of women and couples nationwide to empower them in their fertility health. As a Psychology major, FEMM Educator, Hormone Coach, and Doula, she is well respected in the fertility education community. She loves helping women understand their bodies in God’s design and how to support them naturally so they can get pregnant. This is all part of the journey you can take through her course, Fertility Framework.For more on Bekah’s important work, visit her website.You can also listen to her amazing podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

In this first episode of That Time of the Month, a Union Podcast mini-series, we explore the beauty and complexity of a woman’s God-given biological design. Hosts Bonnie and Bryan Pue explore how the menstrual cycle influences a woman’s physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being and how husbands can support their wives with understanding and grace.Bonnie introduces the heart behind this mini-series, addressing misconceptions about gender roles in the church and emphasizing that God designed men and women with intentional differences beyond physical anatomy. She encourages women to ask, “How did God make me? What am I resisting or ignoring about my design that I could lean into and work with?”Bryan joins the conversation to unpack 1 Peter 3:7, specifically discussing what it means for a husband to honour his wife as the “weaker vessel.” He and Bonnie explore the role of a woman’s menstrual cycle in her physical limitations and the importance of a husband living with his wife in an understanding way. They share practical ways for men to support their wives, from offering patience and empathy to recognizing hormonal shifts without dismissing them.The episode also tackles a tough but crucial topic—how Ephesians 5 calls husbands to lay down their lives for their wives, especially in a culture that often objectifies women. Bryan shares personal insights from navigating pregnancy, postpartum challenges, miscarriage, and sleepless nights, offering wisdom on how men can provide both emotional and physical support through every season.Join us for this honest and insightful discussion as we seek to embrace God’s design for that time of the month.

Drum roll, please!… It’s the 100th Episode! Wooo!With Valentine’s Day upon us, we thought we’d take some time to discuss some of the top questions we received through our text in the Q&A we did at past events. Navigating relationships as a Christian can feel overwhelming—especially when faced with deep questions about trust, boundaries, and God’s plan for your love life. How much of your past should you share with your partner? What does it look like to set healthy emotional and physical boundaries while honouring God? And how do you know if the person you're dating is truly "the one" God has for you? In this episode, Bryan and Bonnie tackle these tough but important topics with honesty, biblical wisdom, and practical advice. They discuss how to approach conversations about your past in a way that builds trust instead of insecurity, the struggles some people face when wrestling with a partner’s history, and how to navigate the pressure to find "the one" in Christian circles. Plus, we’ll break down what it means to have a Christ-centered marriage—not just in theory, but in everyday life. Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this conversation will give you the tools and encouragement to pursue relationships with confidence, faith, and clarity. Join us as we dive deep into the realities of Christian dating and discover what it means to love and be loved in a way that honours God.P.S.- Have you checked out The Youth Leader Course yet?- Sign up and get startedP.P.S.- Do not miss out on this year’s Apologetics Canada Conference. Register here

How do you lead young adults effectively in the current cultural moment we are in?We are pumped to have Pastor Fredy Orozco, Young Adult Pastor at Northview Community Church, join us to tackle this very question. Fredy and his wife Rebecca have been married for 10 years and are the proud parents of three lively children: Isaiah (4), August (2), and Olive (1). For the past eight years, they have poured their hearts into serving at Northview Community Church, where Fredy has been pastor of young adult ministry for the last three years. Fredy deeply loves team sports, revelling in the excitement of soccer, football, and basketball games. He is also deeply committed to theology and has dedicated himself to teaching the Scriptures with clarity and passion to audiences of all ages and backgrounds.In this episode, we explore one of the most pressing and complex conversations facing Young Adult pastors today: how to lead with both truth and grace in discussions of sexuality and gender. We aim to equip pastors and leaders with biblical wisdom, practical strategies, and approaches to engage in these conversations without fear while remaining faithful to Scripture.We explore how to create a welcoming space for tough questions, share the historic Christian view with clarity and love, and navigate these topics' cultural and emotional complexities. How can pastors balance theological integrity with genuine empathy? How can they prepare themselves for grace-filled discussions, especially when faced with disagreement or pain? And how can they help young adults discern biblical truth in a world shaped by deconstructionism and postmodern thought?Join us as we unpack these questions and provide encouragement for leaders striving to reflect Jesus in every conversation.Follow Fredy: [email protected] out Fredy’s sermons

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Well, just like that, The Union Conference has come and gone. As Bonnie and I reflect on various aspects of the event, we are in awe of God’s goodness and faithfulness. Throughout our meetings with volunteers and team leaders, we consistently emphasized that every aspect of the event—whether it was hospitality, registration, or any other area—was designed to facilitate an encounter with the Lord for our attendees. By God’s grace, this focus was a clear hallmark of the conference.In this episode, we look back on the event and are joined by our incredible interns, who share their unique experiences. Together, we unpack the highlights, including moving testimonies of how God worked in and through the sessions, moments of deep connection during worship, and the rich teachings that encouraged attendees to live in truth and grace.Whether you attended the conference or are hearing about it for the first time, this episode is filled with heartfelt reflections and inspiring stories that remind us of God’s faithfulness. Join us as we celebrate all that He did and look forward with hope!We are currently in the midst of the year-end giving campaign. If you're passionate about gospel-centred sexuality and identity and want to support the ongoing work of The Union, we would love to partner with you. You can make a financial contribution through our website.- www.theunionmovement.com/partnerAlso, our latest video resource, The Youth Leader Course, has just launched. If you are committed to discipleship in the next generation, this resource is for you. Start your journey towards clarity and confidence in Biblical sexuality and identity today- www.theunionmovement.com/video-resources

Racial reconciliation is a significant topic in our current cultural moment. The key question is: Is the approach taken by the world effective? We argue that it is not and that the Scriptures and the Gospel of Christ offer a better solution. This was the focus of our recent interview with Monique Duson. Monique helps us better understand how intersectionality and Critical Race Theory (CRT) influence today's perspectives on human sexuality. Additionally, we discussed her new book titled "Walking in Unity.""Walking in Unity" aims to provide Christ-centered solutions to the issues surrounding race and racism. Authors Monique Duson and Krista Bontrager address the distinctions between secular approaches to achieving consensus and the biblical call for unity. They explore what Scripture teaches about racial harmony and emphasize how Christians can find a shared identity through faith in Christ.Monique Duson is the President of the Center for Biblical Unity. With a social services and children's ministry background, she has worked with a diverse range of underserved communities. Monique served as a missionary in South Africa for over four years, helping children and teachers affected by drugs, violence, and trauma. For two decades, she advocated for Critical Race Theory (CRT), but after experiencing a series of events, she began to recognize the contradictions between CRT and the historic Christian worldview. Monique is now convinced that CRT is not the best path to achieving racial unity, and she actively speaks out against its application within the church.Monique has appeared on various shows, including *Relatable* with Allie Beth Stuckey, the *Alisa Childers Podcast*, and *Breakpoint* with John Stonestreet. She holds a BA in Sociology from Biola University and is currently pursuing an MA in Public Theology at Birmingham Theological Seminary.Click here for more on the Center For Biblical Unity and to get your copy of “Walking In Unity”Follow on social media under the handle @centerforbiblicalunity

In today’s episode, we uncover the complex and often misunderstood realities of human trafficking in Canada and beyond. Unlike the kidnapping or smuggling scenarios frequently highlighted in the media, trafficking often unfolds as a deeply relational crime. Perpetrators build trust and meet unmet needs in unhealthy ways, preying on vulnerable individuals to establish control. In Canada, this issue significantly impacts, disproportionately affecting Indigenous communities, along with women and girls.Joining us today is Sofia Friesen from Ally Global, a Vancouver-based charity dedicated to combating sex trafficking, especially the exploitation of minors. Together with local partners in Nepal and Cambodia, Ally provides safe housing, education, and aftercare for over 200 children who have been rescued from human trafficking and abuse. Additionally, our local leaders conduct anti-trafficking presentations in high-risk areas, educating students, teachers, and the wider community about the dangers of human trafficking. In Canada, their mission is to prevent the sexual exploitation of minors through engaging and educational resources. These resources aim to equip children and youth with the skills they need to navigate online interactions and relationships safely and healthily.This episode provides a heartfelt and enlightening discussion about the larger issue of human trafficking and the important efforts being made to combat it. For more information about Ally Global, visit their website or follow them on social media - @allyglobal

The shame from past sexual experiences can be a heavy burden, affecting our current and future relationships. In today's world, influenced by hook-up culture, hyper-sexualization, and widespread use of pornography, many people struggle with feelings of regret and guilt that impact their self-worth. This shame can lead to fear and insecurity, making it challenging to trust, be vulnerable, and fully experience the love and intimacy necessary for healthy relationships. It's important to recognize that this doesn't just affect the person with the sexual past, but also their partner. In this deeply personal and insightful interview, Richard De La Mora, a respected pastor, devoted husband, and co-founder of LoveAlwaysMinistries.com, sheds light on his latest book, "Body Count." The book addresses a sensitive and vital issue in today’s hyper-sexualized world: navigating a relationship when one partner has a significant sexual history. Richard candidly shares his own journey of marrying a former adult film actress and how they successfully navigated through challenges such as jealousy, shame, and societal judgment. The interview delves into the book's core themes, exploring how to cultivate a thriving relationship despite a partner's past and how to overcome mental obstacles like recurring negative thoughts or "mental movies." Richard emphasizes the transformative power of grace, both in receiving it from God and extending it to a partner who may have a challenging sexual past.Richard De La Mora is a husband, father, pastor, evangelist, and author. His deep love for Jesus and passion for people led him to San Diego, CA, in 2012, where he began working in full-time ministry. He married his wife, former porn star Brittni, in 2016. Shortly after, they began preaching the gospel and sharing their unique story worldwide, which depicts a modern-day version of Hosea and Gomer. In 2020, Richard and Brittni founded Love Always Ministries. A ministry that helps people walk in their calling by discovering God’s love and leading a victorious life through purity.Get your copy of Body CountLearn more about Love Always MinistriesFollow on socials:Richard- @richardelamoraBrittni- @brittnidelamoraLove Always- @lovealwaysministries

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When faced with continuous challenges and unexpected obstacles in life, how can we create a fulfilling and close marriage? How can we transition from feeling stressed and overwhelmed to feeling energized and motivated, and find the strength to improve our marriage relationship? In this episode, hosted by Bryan Pue, we will hear from Robert Paul, and return guest Tara Lalonde, as they unpack principles from their new book entitled “Empowered To Love”. Robert and Tara provide practical, biblically based tools for husbands and wives to enhance their personal lives and empower their marriage. Instead of simply hoping and praying for something better, couples are encouraged to actively take steps to care for themselves and prioritize their most important relationship.Through insightful guidance, Robert and Tara will address questions like:Why is Empowered to Love so important in today’s cultural moment, and how can it offer hope for struggling marriages?How can couples focus on personal development without falling into self-centeredness?What are the greatest threats to creating a marriage that feels safe emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally?Why is personal responsibility so crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship?How can we avoid codependency and recognize when we are taking on too much responsibility for our spouse’s emotional and spiritual health?What does it mean to “guard your heart” in an unhealthy marriage while still showing up as the best version of yourself?How has the modern view of love and commitment in marriage gone off track, and how can we reclaim the true meaning of covenant love?Is love a feeling or a choice, and how do both perspectives shape a lasting marriage?What words of hope can we offer to couples who feel stuck in negative patterns and don’t know how to move forward?Whether you’re a newlywed or a couple facing years of unresolved tension, Empowered to Love offers real hope, practical strategies, and transformative insights that can help your marriage flourish in today’s fast-paced world. Tune in and take the next step toward a healthier, more empowered relationship.Robert S. Paul, M.S., is the vice president of the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute and the primary architect of the Hope Restored marriage intensive programs. He is a licensed professional counsellor with over 30 years of experience and is an international speaker. He has coauthored six books, including The DNA of Relationships with Gary and Greg Smalley and, more recently, 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage. Robert and his wife, Jenni, have been married for 43 years and have four children and seven grandchildren.Tara Lalonde, PhD, is a registered psychotherapist in Ontario and has been counselling adults and couples for over 20 years. She is a lead marriage therapist with the Hope Restored marriage intensive counselling program in Ontario, Canada. She is also the author of An Unexpected Freedom: Discover Peace and Joy in the Reality of Life. She and her husband, Vince, have been married for 19 years.Get your copy of “Empowered To Love”Register for a Hope Restored Marriage Intensive- USARegister for a Hope Restored Marriage Intensive- Canada

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Healthy and thriving marriages filled with love are cultivated over longer periods. Just like with grapes grown to make wine, it can take years of purposeful attention to the proverbial soil quality of this covenantal relationship. Sometimes there can be little rocks under the surface that end up choking the life and love out of marriages.  Little things left unchecked can become big problems. So, how do we identify these rocks and get them out of the soil of our marriages so that the fruit of this relationship can be intoxicatingly healthy? This is exactly what we are going to discuss in today's episode with Neil & Sharol Josephson from FamilyLife.Before stepping into the call to work with FamilyLife, Neil worked as a Bible school president and Sharol as a TV broadcaster. Together they also worked as marriage pastors at a large church in Southern California. In addition, they have served as the directors of FamilyLife Canada and have recently stepped into a role as the directors of FamilyLife International. Neil and Sharol have been married for over 40 years and have a great depth of understanding and wisdom in what it takes to have a thriving marriage. This was a great conversation and we know it will impact your life.Checkout FamilyLife GlobalStart Your Journey With Our New “In God’s Image” Resource

We often talk about how God is the "Author and Finisher of our faith" and how He "orders our steps". However, when it comes to the reality of singleness, we have a hard time believing that it could be under His authorship. This is compounded by the overemphasis that can be placed on marriage within the church at times, which leaves us wondering, "Do I write my story, or is God writing my story?" In this conversation, we will be discussing these very issues with our guest, Meisha Watson.Meisha has worked in the Canadian entertainment industry for over 12 years. She has hosted on YTV's The Zone and the ZoneWeekend, presented at the Canadian Screen Awards, and interviewed top chefs from across Canada. Meisha is the executive producer of the hilarious, musically led, biblical teaching variety show for kids called 'HEY MEISHA!', which airs on Saturday mornings on YES TV and streams on YouTube, Yippee TV, and the Castle TV App. In addition, Meisha also produces and hosts the podcast "My Single Story", where she gets real about the dynamics of being a single Christian. Meisha's guests join her to discuss not only the good, the bad, and the cringeworthy, but also to make space for community as we are equipped, heard, and cherished by God. You can find "My Single Story" podcast on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube. Check the show notes to stay up to speed and follow along with Meisha.In This Episode we cover:-How to breakthrough in trusting God in your singleness-Recommendations for people in the “dating world” -How to stay hopeful-How to hold to convictions -How to involve your community-Navigating the challenges of the online dating worldAnd more…Follow Meisha on:@iammeisha@mysinglestory @heymeishaMy Single Story YouTube Channel“Hey Meisha” YouTube ChannelMeisha Watson Website“Hey Meisha” Show Website

Have you ever wondered how we ended up in a world where masculinity gets a bad rap? You might have seen headlines like "Why Can't We Hate Men?" or come across hashtags like #KillAllMen. It's a trend that's hard to ignore, with articles titled "I Hate Men," "No Good Men," and "Are Men Necessary?" You might have also heard claims that evangelical Christian men are prime examples of toxic behaviour. However, the research tells a different story. Studies show that men who are committed to their families and attend church regularly are often the most loving husbands and dedicated fathers out there. And get this—they also have the lowest rates of divorce and domestic violence in the country.In her book, The Toxic War On Masculinity, Pearcey takes us on a journey through history to uncover how the idea of masculinity became tangled up with negativity. But it's not all doom and gloom. She's also armed with solutions for how we can turn things around. These sociological insights challenge the stereotypes we often hear about men and show us that embracing traditional Christian values can help bridge the gap between the sexes. So, next time you come across a #KillAllMen tweet or a book bashing masculinity, remember that there's more to the story—and that there are steps we can take to create a flourishing world for everyone.Nancy Pearcey's latest book is The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes. Her earlier books include Love Thy Body: Answering Hard Questions about Life and Sexuality, The Soul of Science, Saving Leonardo, Finding Truth, and two ECPA Gold Medallion Award Winners: How Now Shall We Live (coauthored with Harold Fickett and Chuck Colson) and Total Truth. Her books have been translated into 19 languages. She is a professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. As a former agnostic, Pearcey has spoken at universities such as Princeton, Stanford, USC, and Dartmouth. She has been quoted in The New Yorker and Newsweek highlighted as one of the five top women apologists by Christianity Today, and hailed in The Economist as "America's pre-eminent evangelical Protestant female intellectual."Get Your Copy of Nancy’s Books TodayFollow Prof. Pearcey On X (Formerly Twitter)

In the journey of building meaningful relationships, it's essential to recognize the impact societal influences, like pornography, can have on our expectations. While it's often unspoken, the truth is that pornography can subtly chip away at the trust and sense of security vital for any relationship to thrive. Yet, in acknowledging this reality, we're presented with an opportunity to foster deeper connections.Let's envision a future where trust and safety are the cornerstones of our relationships, where love flourishes and freedom reigns. It's about creating spaces where authenticity and intimacy can truly blossom. So, how do we keep porn out of our lives and relationships in a way that leads to flourishing and freedom? This is why Layton and Chelsea Boeve, from the Liberator Podcast, join us here on episode 86. Layton and Chelsea are a married couple from Northern Michigan and are the hosts of the Liberator Podcast. The Liberator Podcast is a discussion of pornography’s hard truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture. They bring the perspective of both a man and a woman to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography. In this episode, we discuss:- How does porn addiction affect relationships, and how can young adults navigate open conversations with their partners about this issue?- Breaking the stigma surrounding porn addiction can be tough. How do you think we can work together to break the stigma while still acknowledging the severity of its effects on our lives?- Societal perceptions influenced by pornographic content can create unrealistic expectations within relationships. What do you think distinguishes positive sexuality from porn's portrayal of sex?- When trust is compromised due to issues related to porn consumption, what steps can couples take to rebuild trust and strengthen their emotional intimacy? - Are there any specific trust-building exercises or communication techniques that can aid in the healing process?You can find the Liberator Podcast on Apple or Spotify Podcasts as well as through their website below.check out the Liberator [email protected]"In God's Image" Video Course- Sign Up Today

In the past few months, we had the privilege to speak at various Young Adult ministries and engage in Q&A sessions. Our discussions revolved around sexuality, identity, and relationships. In this particular episode, we will be addressing the top 5 questions about healthy relationships and marriage. In this episode we cover:1. How to handle insecurity while being single but desiring a romantic partner.2. How to navigate conversations about gender identity and previous sexual experiences in a romantic relationship.3. How to prioritize God and keep Him at the centre of your life.4. How to move forward and pursue healthy connections without being defined by past experiences.5. How to ensure that physical intimacy aligns with holy sexuality in marriage, preventing issues like lust and maintaining healthy boundaries.

Join us in this riveting episode as we delve deep into the complexities of unresolved trauma, exploring its impact on friendships and marriages. Our expert guest, Tara Lalonde PhD, a seasoned psychotherapist and marriage counsellor, shares profound insights and practical advice for supporting individuals amid their trauma journeys. Tara recently worked with Focus On The Family Canada in producing a resource centred around helping people find Healing From Un-resolved Trauma. If you find this podcast episode helpful and want to go deeper we would highly recommend signing up for this free resource.Episode #84 Highlights:-Demystifying Trauma: In a world increasingly aware of trauma, our guest breaks down the concept for listeners, providing a clear understanding of what is meant when we speak of trauma and its various forms.-Big T vs. Little T Trauma: Explore the distinctions between Big T and Little T trauma, gaining valuable insights into why these nuances matter in mental and emotional well-being.-Procedural Maps and Life Filters: Unpack the fascinating concept of procedural maps and how they become the lenses through which we navigate life, shaping our perceptions and responses to the world around us.-Childhood Trauma Unveiled: Understand why experiences from our formative years persist into adulthood, affecting relationships and emotional well-being…and more!Tara Lalonde, a registered psychotherapist in Ontario, has been counselling adults and couples for over 20 years and is a lead marriage therapist with the Hope Restored marriage intensive counselling program in Ontario, Canada. She also has a private practice focusing on trauma recovery. Tara holds a doctorate in professional counselling from Liberty University and has theological training through her Master’s of Divinity in professional counselling, minoring in pastoral studies, from Tyndale Seminary. Tara has appeared on 100 Huntley Street and 700 Club along with radio programs and podcasts in Canada. She is also the author of An Unexpected Freedom: Discover Peace and Joy in the Reality of Life. She is also publishing a new book she co-authored that will be out in July 2024. Tara and her husband Vince have been married for 19 years.For more info on the Hope Restored Marriage Intensive, click here

Welcome to the first episode of season 4 of The Union Podcast. We frequently receive numerous inquiries about singleness, how to begin healthy relationships and the key ingredients for a successful marriage. Therefore, we have dedicated this entire fourth season to exploring these subjects. We have some outstanding guests lined up that we are confident you will enjoy.In this episode Bonnie and Bryan cover:-Unpacking the profound truth, "It's not good for man to be alone"-Exploring current trends of marriage and singleness, and their impact.-The remedy for loneliness in the church.-Addressing the challenge of connection and fostering meaningful bonds to combat isolation.…and more.www.theunionmovement.com

I’ve heard it said that “ the only key for better sex in marriage, from a man’s perspective, is for the wife to bring food and show up naked.” All joking aside, being an authentic man is a challenging topic for many guys. As men, we hear a wide variety of voices calling for everything from the crushing of the patriarchy and the ever-growing definition of toxic masculinity to the other extreme of “red-pill” masculinity that sees manhood as being defined by money, power and sex. How we see these topics will affect the type of man we become and the health of sexual intimacy we have in marriage. That’s exactly what Bryan and Pastor Matthew Schlesinger talk about in this episode.Matthew, and his wife, Sabrina were married in 2000 and served as pastors alongside Matthew’s parents for ten years in Oregon. The dream God placed in their hearts years earlier unfolded and in December of 2012 they joined the Grace team as Lead Pastors in their favorite city, San Diego. Matthew is fun and authentic. He loves God’s Word, places priority on His Presence, and believes that the local church is the hope of the world. Matthew & Sabrina are the proud parents of three beautiful daughters and one amazing son. Their family mission is to populate heaven and plunder hell. Matthew and Sabrina host both the Marriage on the Go and Parenting on the Go podcasts.@matthewschlesingerGrace Church North CountyMarriage On The GoParenting On The Go

The statement that “sex before marriage is bad” can quickly become “sex is bad” if we don’t see sex as the beautiful gift from God that it is. In this episode, Bonnie chats with Sabrina Schlesinger about how women can have a healthy perspective toward their sexuality and experience a better sex life within their marriages.Sabrina is a wife to Matthew, mother, pastor, speaker and podcast host. Sabrina and Matthew host two podcasts, Parenting on the Go and Marriage on the Go. Both podcasts offer Biblical and practical advice on parenting and marriage. Every episode is brief so you can listen to them in the carpool lane, at the gym, grocery shopping, and anywhere you are "on the go!" You can subscribe and listen to them every week on iTunes, Google Play, and Spotify. Sabrina also wrote a book for moms called, What Other Moms Never Told Me. It is available on Amazon as paperback or Kindle.Register For The Union Conference@Sabrinaschlesinger52 Date Night IdeasParenting On The Go PodcastMarriage On The Go PodcastGet Sabrina’s Book

In a world that has become so preoccupied with progress, have we lost what it means to be human? We are so pumped to have Dr Andy Steiger join us to talk about how we can find what it truly means to be human within God’s restorative plan in Jesus.Andy Steiger is the founder and president of Apologetics Canada Ministries (AC). He passionately engages in pressing issues related to our humanity from a Christian perspective. He has presented at various venues such as Cambridge University on philosophical issues related to Artificial Intelligence, provided ethical guidelines on robotics for the United Nations, and addressed legal concerns over rights of conscience at the World Congress in Philosophy of Law.Andy has published widely from children’s books to a Supreme Court Law Review. His most recent book, Reclaimed: How Jesus Restores Our Humanity in a Dehumanized World was awarded runner-up to evangelistic resource of the year. Andy is known for making complex theological and philosophical ideas understandable through the art of storytelling as seen in AC’s video resources. The Human Project video series debuted at film festivals around the world and won a number of awards including Best Short Film and People's Choice. Recently released is BRANDED: A Series on Identity which is now available on RightNow Media. Between his 20 years of pastoral experience and a PhD from the University of Aberdeen, Andy brings both experience and research to his work.Andy currently lives in Abbotsford, British Columbia, with his wife, Nancy, and their two sons. Most weekends you’ll find the Steigers in the mountains or lakes of BC.Apologetics Canada WebsiteReclaimed BookThe Union Conference

You may not know what Babel is but trust me, it’s all over the place. Babel is a way of thinking, speaking and living apart from God. We see its influence nowhere stronger than in the realm of sexuality. It shows itself in everything from the culture’s addiction to pornography, to even the views of marriage that some people hold, even in the church. We are so pumped to have had the opportunity to sit down with Nikki Dent and talk about her new book, BREAKING UP WITH BABEL- The Gospel Of Sex, Dating and Relating In A Culture Of Confusion. This hope-filled and captivating teaching provides a Scripture-based perspective on sex, dating, and romance that compels Christians to walk in purity and passion. By exploring a positive and powerful theology on sex and dating, Breaking Up with Babel presents a sexual gospel that outshines the humanistic messages of broken sexuality, pornography, sex outside of marriage, and digital dating in a Babel-weary world. God's people are called to live their most fruitful lives by answering questions such as: How does sex affect our body, soul, and spirit?Why should we wait until marriage to have sex?Why is pornography terrible for our sex life?How do we date biblically in a digital world?Why do we need boundaries to have healthy relationships?How can we be restored from heartache and brokenness?Nikki is a passionate Bible preacher who lives with her husband, Paul, and three daughters on the east coast of Australia. Paul and Nikki also serve as Pastors at Eastgate Church in Byron Bay. She has passionately taught on sex, dating, and relationships from a Christian worldview for ten years in Christian leadership academies, discipleship training schools (YWAM), churches and young adult ministries. Register For THE UNION YA CONFERENCEGet Your Copy Of BREAKING UP WITH BABELFollow Along With NikkiIG- @nikkident_

There is no question that our current generation is saturated with pornography and the ideas that it presents about human worth and life's meaning. In this episode, Bryan sits down with Daniel Principe and discusses what is at stake if we don't see a massive shift from this epidemic.Daniel is a youth advocate and educator with Collective Shout. He partners with schools and communities to challenge porn culture and the sexualization of women and girls. He works with boys and men across Australia to reimagine masculinity and embody a vision of manhood defined by virtue.A former health professional, he has a background in public relations, marketing, and media, and has worked as an advisor in politics and the non-profit health sector. He recognizes the urgent need to help equip young people to recognize the impacts of harmful messaging from social media, advertising, pop culture and the global porn industry. He helps young people see how these cultural forces fuel distorted ideas and attitudes about bodies, relationships and sex. Daniel encourages young people to resist these harmful messages and to be courageous as they aspire to something far better for their lives and relationships.Daniel has presented to hundreds of schools and organizations to help parents and communities raise healthy, resilient and empathetic young people. Daniel hosts Collective Shout’s podcast ‘Reimagining Masculinity’ and is a regular on TV and radio programs.Check Out Daniel’s Website- Last Of The RomansCollective Shout WebsiteFollow Daniel On Socials - @lastoftheromans

What is the self? What does it mean to be human? These are some of the major questions being asked in our cultural moment. The good news is that we can find creditable answers for them in the words of Jesus.In this episode, Bryan & Bonnie Pue discuss what Jesus is talking about in Luke 9 where He says, “What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit their very self?”We cover the topics of:-The biblical view of the self compared to the secular psychological view.-The human identity in creation, redemption and glorification-Humanity being made in the image of God.- The integration of body, soul and spirit.- Gnosticism and modern gender theory- The hope of redemption we have in Jesus

The topic of same-sex attraction and homosexuality can be difficult for some of us to discuss. With so many voices on the topic, terms like side A or B, mixed with changing definitions of words, make you wonder, have we lost touch with holiness?In this episode, Dr. Christopher Yuan joins us as we seek to understand what it really means to live in holy sexuality from a Biblical perspective. He shares his powerful testimony of how he came to Christ and experienced a radical transformation.We talk about:The Gospel’s effect on our sexualityThe proper process for Biblical interpretationBiblical anthropology and homosexualityJesus never mentioned homosexuality…right?…and more!Dr. Christopher Yuan is a highly sought-after expert whose book, Holy Sexuality and the Gospel, was named 2020 book of the year for social issues by Outreach Magazine. Dr. Yuan casts a compelling vision of not identifying with our sexuality, but embracing Christ and living out Holy Sexuality, which shatters the secular paradigms of gay and straight. Dr. Yuan graduated from Moody Bible Institute in 2005 and received a master’s degree in biblical exegesis in 2007 and a doctorate of ministry in 2014. He taught the Bible at Moody Bible Institute for 12 years and his speaking ministry on faith and sexuality has reached five continents. Christopher has also produced The Holy Sexuality Project video series for parents and their teens. It is a first-of-its-kind resource to help parents and grandparents to empower their teens to understand, embrace, and celebrate biblical sexuality.For more from Dr. Yuan:Dr. Yuans BooksHoly Sexuality Teen Curriculum

Jessica Harris has first-hand experience of what it is like as a woman to face the shame of porn addiction when it was assumed to be a man’s issue. Statistics show that there is a rising number of women who have sought out sexual content to view; this isn’t a fringe topic and ignoring it won’t make it go away.That’s why Jessica Harris is committed to breaking the silence, and we are glad to be able to share this conversation with you. Bonnie and Jessica sat down to talk about:- Jessica’s story of how she overcame the grip of pornography in her life- Common symptoms of shame and what true freedom looks like- How followers of Jesus can find true satisfaction for their soulsJessica Harris is a writer, speaker, and creator of “Beggar’s Daughter”, a blog for Christian women struggling with pornography and sexual sin. She is recognized as a leading voice on the topic of female porn use and addiction in the church. She is author of the recently released book, “Quenched: Discovering God’s Abundant Grace for Women Struggling with Pornography and Sexual Shame”.You can find more from Jessica at https://beggarsdaughter.com/ .

If you were not aware, Canada is one of the few countries in the world with no laws around abortion. That means that a baby's life can be taken at any stage up until complete birth, even at 38 weeks. This is exactly what happened at a Montreal hospital in early February of 2023. In this podcast, Bonnie and Bryan discuss the heartbreaking realities of abortion and its effects on the nations of the earth. We cover topics of:Human beings are created in the image of GodObjective vs subjective moral reasoning & a two-tiered worldviewAbortions connection to sexual immoralityThe Biblical history of human sacrifice in false god worship practicesInnocent bloodshed & demonic empowermentA gospel response to the injustice of abortion.

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There are lots of things that can keep leaders from talking about sexuality. Whether it’s intimidation from the masses or shame from their past, wading into these waters can seem daunting.Here is Episode 72, Bryan finishes our two-part series on the 7 ways leaders can start talking about sexuality, by looking at some of the reasons why leaders don’t.Covered in this episode:4) Fear Of The Mob5) Not Wanting To Cause Damage6)Living A Double Life7) Not Sure Where To StartStart Your Free Sexual Health Evaluation

There are lots of things that can keep leaders from talking about sexuality. Whether it’s intimidation from the masses or shame from their past, wading into these waters can seem daunting.Here is Episode 71, Bryan kicks off our two-part series on the 7 ways leaders can start talking about sexuality, by looking at some of the reasons why leaders don’t.Covered in this episode:1) Dodging The Need2)Feeling Under-equipped3)Shadows from the past.

How does one navigate sexual desires that are contrary to your faith? That is what we seek to discover here in Episode 70. We were honoured to have Jonathan Bryden join us to share his story of same-sex attraction and how Jesus showed Him that trusting His design for sexuality was going to make all the difference.Jonathan Bryden works in Vancouver Canada as a documentary filmmaker in the independent film industry. A Christian from a young age, Jonathan also has struggled with reconciling his same-sex attraction with his faith and is currently living a celibate life in pursuit of Jesus. Passionate to share the Gospel through film, Jonathan is producing a documentary series that aims to ask the question, “How does the church, in light of the Gospel, face homosexuality?”Watch the first episode of his documentary and consider partnering with him through prayer and financial support to see this project come to light and minister to those in the church who are personally facing this struggle.Episode #1 of Jonathan’s DocumentarySupport Jonathan’s work here

It seems the word “obedience” has become a swear word today in Christian culture. We know that we are saved by grace and not works, so we assume that obedience is optional. This couldn’t be further from the truth. It is not optional but, it is also not a burden. It’s a joy to obey God’s instruction and His leadership in our everyday life.In Episode 69, Bryan sits down with Rachelle Starr and discusses her new book, “Outrageous Obedience” and how we can grow in radical obedience that shows the amazing love of God in some dark and challenging areas of humanity. Rachelle Starr (www.scarlethope.org) founded Scarlet Hope, a nonprofit dedicated to sharing the hope of Jesus with women in the adult entertainment industry. In 2015, Rachelle launched a social enterprise called Scarlet's Bakery, where women can receive employment and valuable job skills while producing and selling delicious baked goods. Rachelle and her husband, Josh, have two boys through adoption and reside in Louisville, Kentucky. Learn more at scarlethope.org and by following @rachellestarr.co on Instagram.Get Your Copy Of Outrageous ObedienceScarlethope.org

It’s easy to be overwhelmed by the hyper-sexualization of our society. Often, we see what is happening as new when in actuality it is just re-packaged. Modern-day transgenderism and gender theory are actually ancient Gnosticism just wearing a new shirt. The hope we have is that Jesus used His church of the first century to rescue lost people out of the folly of these ideas. If we are willing to do what they did we can see what they saw.In this episode, we are highlighting a message Bryan preached at a recent MFI Canada Conference. He covers:-The template of Satan’s strategy found in the garden of Eden-The re-occurring cycle of God’s judgment towards idolatry.-The hope of the Gospel to bring people out of brokenness into wholeness.

Government and media have become two of the greatest influencers over culture, and they seem to be pushing a strong message of moral relativism. As followers of Christ, will we let our lives be formed by Scripture and pass our values on to our children? Or will we throw up our hands and give in to ideologies that seek to blur all lines of gender design?In this podcast episode we talk about: ⁃ How we must always remember that these struggles are not actually against fellow humans, but against spiritual enemies and strategies ⁃ How the church can become a place that celebrates the unique nature of being male and female, understanding not just biological differences, but also physiological differences ⁃ How parents can teach their children a biblical view on gender, while also encouraging compassionate interactions with kids who identify as non-binary ⁃ Practical ways that parents can support their children’s God-given gender designDownload The “Five Ways To Support Your Childs God-Given Gender Identity” InfographicIf you are a Christ-follower, wondering how to raise gender-confident kids - this conversation will be a good place to start. You can find and follow The Union Podcast over on Apple, Spotify, and Google Play.While you’re at it, if you find this content helpful, would you: ⁃ Send the episode to a friend who you think would appreciate it? ⁃ Write us a quick review in your favourite podcast app? (It helps more people find our content) ⁃ Leave us a comment below and tell us what stood out to you? (It means a lot to us to get to connect with listeners!)Download The “Five Ways To Support Your Childs God-Given Gender Identity” Infographic

What defines being a man? Is it lifting heavy weights or driving a big truck? Is it the amount of money you make or how fast you can chug a beer? What if it’s none of those things?We are living in a time of cultural confusion when it comes to genuine manhood. History would show that when men lack true identity and purpose, everyone suffers. That’s why Brant Hansen’s new book, “The Men We Need” is so important. In it, he outlines the everyday choices that men can make to cultivate healthy atmospheres around them and not toxic ones. In this episode, Bryan and Brant discuss some of the cultural lies we are having to navigate as men and how we can find a perfect example of authentic manhood in the character of Jesus.Brant Hansen is an author, radio host, and advocate for healing children with correctible disabilities through CURE International. He's won multiple awards for "Personality of the Year" for his radio show, which airs on more than 200 stations nationwide. His podcast with his friend and radio producer, The Brant and Sherri Oddcast, has been downloaded more than 10 million times. The author of The Truth About Us, Unoffendable, and Blessed Are the Misfits, Hansen has written for CNN.com, the Washington Post, U.S. News and World Report, the South Florida Sun-Sentinel, Relevant, and numerous other outlets on matters as varied as public policy, culture, sports, Asperger's syndrome, and faith. He and his wife, Carolyn, live in South Florida.Get Your Copy Of “The Men We Need”.Brants WebsiteLearn More About Cure InternationalFollow Brant on Social Media- @branthansen

In Episode 65, we sit down with Ruth Erickson as she unpacks some of the keys to finding healing after a marriage experiences adultery even when the marriage doesn’t survive. Ruth is a mama and step-mama in a beautiful blended family. Ruth has a heart for worship and for helping women, who are recovering from infidelity trauma, find hope & healing and to equip the church to love these women well. God has re-written the most painful parts of her story to prove His promises. Ruth’s new book, (Un)Faithful, is a guide through the firestorm of infidelity. Ruth Erickson’s story of heartbreak and healing is an invitation for all women who have suffered the betrayal of an affair to discover the depths of the faithfulness of God. Ruth offers wisdom, perspective and hope, standing years beyond her own fire, yet the book also journeys back in time to include riveting and honest poetry and journal entries from her real-time experience. Wrapped in forgiveness and faith, (Un)Faithful is a raw and reverent journey to healing, whether the marriage survives or not. While every story is unique, this book offers timeless, biblical principles by which any woman can walk into safety and dignity under the covering of a gracious God.Follow Ruth on IG- @ruthaericksonVISIT RUTH’S WEBSITEFIND YOUR COPY HEREAFFAIR RECOVERY COACHING

The numbers don’t lie, porn usage within marriage is a key factor in why many marriages end in divorce. For a long time, porn was viewed as only a man's problem, but the stats show a major increase in women accessing porn. No matter whether it’s the husband or wife, porn in a marriage is destructive. In this episode, Bryan speaks with Sam Tielemans about how change can be possible in a marriage where porn is present and the boundaries needed to be set to make that change.Sam Tielemans is a licensed marriage and family therapist that specializes in helping couples overcome the effect of unhealthy porn use in their relationship. He has a private practice in Las Vegas, and after working with couples for over a decade, he has developed an approach to help couples restore their marriage, rebuild trust, and improve their sexual intimacy after betrayal. https://healingcouples.orgHealing Couples FacebookCouples Healing From Porn Addiction Podcast

What happens when words that have meant something for thousands of years, now mean something completely different? What happens when they are words like “man” and “woman”? Whats happens when there are criminal charges applied to those who dont think “correctly"? …In many ways, we are about to find out.In this episode, Bryan sits down with Dr. Iain Provan to discuss the current challenges that face the church regarding gender identity and free speech. Dr. Provan even uses analogies connected to the book, you probably read in high school. 1984 written by George Orwell. The similiarites to our cultural moment are shocking.Dr. Provan was born and educated in the UK, ultimately completing a PhD at the University of Cambridge.  His academic teaching career began in the university world of the UK, prior to his family’s emigration to Canada in 1997.  He is the author of many books, essays, and articles, with a particular focus in the last decade on the intersection of Christian Scripture and theology and contemporary culture.  He is a Life Member of Clare Hall, Cambridge and the recipient of an Alexander von Humboldt Research Fellowship in Germany. He is also a qualified Provincial B Licence soccer coach and a keen fly fisherman. https://iainprovan.ca