PODCAST · kids
The Urban Foster Dad
by Joe Jones
Joe Jones from Virginia is an established Therapeutic Foster Care professional with 13 years of exceptional experience doing what he loves to do best. Professionally, his area of expertise lies in providing a platform where kids from ages 10 - 21 with behavior and mental issues can enhance their lives and create a better atmosphere for themselves. He is passionate about providing these kids with all the truth and tools needed for them to come out of their pits of despair brought upon by their birth parents and other foster parents. Joe hosts a podcast called “The Urban Foster Dad.” With this podcast, he aims to express his surpassing thoughts on vital issues on foster care that is overlooked by the media. Also, his goal is to expose all of the hidden lies and untruths about foster care. Joe devotes all his time, energy, and compassion, listening to these kids talking about what is going on in their life and, in turn, being of support to them. A reputable Consultant, he is sought after
Episodes
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He's losing his placement (9/22/2026)
Every placement disruption affects a child. When a child loses another home, they may hear a message that nobody wants them—even when that was never what the foster parent intended to communicate. So instead of asking only, “What did this child do to lose their placement?” we should also ask…
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A Little Help Can Make a Big Difference (Part 2)
Behind every foster child is a story that most people will never hear. These are children who have experienced loss, uncertainty, and things no child should have to go through. As a foster parent, I’ve seen firsthand how much these young people need—not just a safe home, but someone willing to…
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A Little Help Can Make a Big Difference ❤️ (9/1/2026)
Behind every foster child is a story that most people will never hear. These are children who have experienced loss, uncertainty, and things no child should have to go through. As a foster parent, I’ve seen firsthand how much these young people need—not just a safe home, but someone willing to…
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He punched the kitchen cabinet (8/2/2026)
Today was one of those reminders that foster parenting isn't always picture-perfect. My foster son got overwhelmed and punched one of our kitchen cabinets. In that moment, I had a choice: react to the damage or respond to the pain behind it. Many children in foster care carry trauma that shows up...
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You can't save all of them (7/26/2026)
(www.joejones.shop )To everyone listening, I want to share something that's very close to my heart. When you purchase one of my handmade bags or pieces of clothing, you're buying more than a unique product—you are helping change a young person's life. For years, I've been a therapeutic foster...
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Show me the money or I will show the kid the door ..part 2 (7/9/2026)
If you're explaining why foster care payments may not seem to match the level of a child's behavioral challenges, some common reasons include: The payment rate is based on a classification system rather than the day-to-day reality of the child's behavior. If the child has not been officially...
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Show me the money or I will show the kid the door (6/9/2026)
If you're explaining why foster care payments may not seem to match the level of a child's behavioral challenges, some common reasons include: The payment rate is based on a classification system rather than the day-to-day reality of the child's behavior. If the child has not been officially...
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I bought a new car with my foster care money (4/1/2026)
Foster care stipends are intended to support the needs of the child, not to be personal income you can freely spend on yourself. That said, the reality is a little more nuanced. What the stipend is meant for The money you receive is to cover things like: Food, clothing, and housing for the child...
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Nothing Prepares You for This (3/23/2026)
Nothing prepares you for moments like this. In this episode, I break down a tough situation that crossed the line, and how I addressed it with firmness, respect, and a focus on teaching better behavior. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-urban-foster-dad/exclusive-content
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Eating Ice Cream With Your Fingers (3/15/2026)
Many foster kids do things that foster parents strongly dislike, but usually it’s not because they want to make the foster parent miserable. In most cases, the behavior comes from trauma, instability, or learned survival habits from their earlier life. Since you’ve been a foster parent for many...
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Big Money (3/6/2026)
Typical monthly foster care payments (Virginia) As of around 2025–2026, the base payments are approximately: Ages 0–4: about $580 per month Ages 5–12: about $677 per month Ages 13+: about $861 per month These payments are meant to cover the child’s needs and are generally not considered taxable...
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I hate my foster son (PART 3) 3/4/2026
Why you wouldn't want to adopt a kid who is ADHD or has autism. Both are neurodevelopmental conditions, meaning the brain develops and processes information differently. Children with these diagnoses can be very capable and talented, but they often require more structured parenting and support.…
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I hate my foster son (PART 2) 3/3/2026
Children with conditions such as Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) or Autism Spectrum Disorder often appear inconsistent: they may struggle with some tasks yet perform extremely well in others. This pattern is largely explained by how their brains process executive function,...
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I hate my foster son (2/26/2026)
I’m finding this placement particularly challenging. His behavior can be rude and oppositional at times, and ongoing hygiene concerns have been difficult to manage. He won't flush the toilet after pooping and he's not the most attractive kid. I also recognize that some of my reactions are rooted…
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Help Find Ra'son (2/8/2026)
Is Rason missing? Lets talk about it. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-urban-foster-dad/exclusive-content
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You think I'm trafficking my foster son, WOW!
The trafficking of foster children is a deeply concerning issue, as vulnerable children in the foster care system can sometimes become targets for human traffickers. This problem arises from a combination of factors, such as unstable living conditions, lack of consistent support, and emotional...
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Dad just got out of prison. Why aren't you coming to get your kid?
https://www.youtube.com/@JustsewJoeJones Hey everyone! I’m excited to share my YouTube channel, where I’m dedicated to raising awareness and support for foster kids. Every subscription helps us spread the word and make a difference in their lives! Thank you so much!!! Support this podcast at —...
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Childcare worker assigned MS-13 murder suspect to a foster home
A Baltimore County caregiver says Maryland Child Protective Services put her “in the line of fire” and didn’t tell her. Angela Studivant, for five years, worked as a Child Care Specialist at The Children’s Home in Catonsville. During that time, she says she cared for Walter Martinez, the MS-13…
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YES, 100% FREE Bachelor's Degree From The State Of Virginia
A. Each public institution of higher education shall provide a grant for the payment of tuition and mandatory education and general fees, except fees established for the purpose of paying for course materials such as laboratory fees, and, if such institution is a baccalaureate public institution…
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Your child did the crime, now the parent will do the time. 9/7/24
Arguments for Holding Parents Responsible: Parental Responsibility: Parents are legally and morally responsible for raising their children, teaching them right from wrong, and ensuring they behave appropriately in society. If they fail to do so, they may be held accountable for their children's...
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WE SMOKE WEED, THE FOSTER PARENTS? Parts 1 & 2 They removed the kids because we smoked weed.
Smoking as a foster parent is generally discouraged and, in many cases, is subject to specific regulations and guidelines. The rules around smoking can vary depending on the jurisdiction or the agency involved. Here are some common considerations: Health Concerns: Secondhand smoke is harmful,...
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My foster son was on Inside Edition, WOW!
CULPEPER, VA (WWBT) - A Richmond man was arrested after leading deputies in Culpeper on a chase in a stolen car that reached 132 mph. The Culpeper County Sheriff’s Office said paperwork in the car identified the man. He was apprehended by a police dog after crashing into a wooded area, fleeing on...
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I'm an emotional wreck. Son, come back home!
Missing your son while he's away at college is a natural and deeply human experience. It reflects the strong emotional bond and connection you share with him. Here are a few reasons why you might be feeling this way: Change in Daily Life: When your child goes to college, your daily routine…
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What's in the bag? OMG
It's important to approach the topic of foster children with sensitivity and understanding. Not all foster children are violent; however, some may exhibit challenging behaviors due to various factors related to their backgrounds and experiences. Here are some reasons why some foster children…
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Why is my ex-foster son asking for rent money (listen to the voicemail).
Ex-foster kids often face unique and significant challenges that require specialized support. Here are some reasons why they might need extra help: Trauma and Mental Health Issues: Many foster children have experienced neglect, abuse, or instability before entering the system. These experiences…
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I Killed My Foster Child
Cases where foster parents harm or kill foster children are tragic and complex, often stemming from a combination of factors rather than a single cause. Some potential reasons behind such incidents include: Psychological Issues: Foster parents, like any individuals, can have psychological…
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Please, Forgive Your Foster Child.
. If your foster child has behaved in a way that requires forgiveness, consider these steps: Understand the Root Cause: Try to understand why the behavior occurred. Was it a reaction to a specific trigger or a deeper emotional issue? Empathize: Put yourself in your foster child's shoes.…
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Don't take that one-day emergency placement!
Children who are considered hard to place in foster care often face unique challenges and barriers that make it difficult for them to find permanent, stable homes. Some of the common reasons why certain children may be harder to place include: Age: Older children and teenagers are often harder to...
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Always make the social worker your best friend.
Social workers play a crucial role in society, providing essential services that contribute to the well-being and functioning of individuals, families, and communities. Here are several key reasons why social workers are so important: 1. Support for Vulnerable Populations Social workers assist...
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MY FOSTER SON MADE A PASS AT ME;-(
The perception that foster children might exhibit sexualized behavior more frequently than their peers can be attributed to several factors, many of which are rooted in their past experiences and the environments they have been exposed to. Here are some key reasons: Exposure to Trauma: Many...
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90% OF FOSTER CHILDREN DON'T WASH THEIR HANDS. 'NASTY'
Mental Health Issues: And other reasons for the uncleanliness. Foster children are more likely to suffer from mental health issues due to past trauma. Conditions like depression or anxiety can affect their motivation and ability to keep up with daily hygiene. Lack of Resources: Foster families…
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My ex-foster son is hungry. What should I do about it????
Foster Care: Definition: Foster care is a system in which a minor who has been placed under the legal custody of a government agency or a certified caregiver, often due to neglect, abuse, or other familial issues, is cared for in a temporary living situation. Purpose: The primary goal of foster...
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Story Time (Weed smoking mom)
Story Time (Weed smoking mom) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-urban-foster-dad/exclusive-content
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Story Time (Don't disrespect me on your 2nd day)
New kid tried to disrespect me on day 2 of living in my home. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-urban-foster-dad/exclusive-content
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Can you smell the urine???
Story Time Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-urban-foster-dad/exclusive-content
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Story Time (sexual)
This story is sexual with gay undertones. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-urban-foster-dad/exclusive-content
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Story Time (Don't you take that kid, he's too damn bad)
Individual Needs: Teens in foster care have diverse backgrounds, experiences, and needs. Some may have experienced trauma, abuse, or neglect, and each individual requires unique attention and care. It can be challenging to meet the specific needs of every teenager simultaneously. Resource...
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Where's my SSA, SSI, or child support check???
Guess what? You can't receive ssa, ssi, or child support if your kid is in foster care. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-urban-foster-dad/exclusive-content
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Are You OK With Your Teenage Smoking Weed?
Health Risks: Smoking weed during adolescence may have negative effects on brain development, as the brain continues to develop until the mid-20s. Studies suggest that regular cannabis use in teens may impact cognitive functions, memory, and attention. Legal Implications: In many places, the...
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Alternative School NO...Private School YES!
Does Virginia pay for private schools? Virginia has one private school choice program. The program helps some families send their children to participating private schools. Who qualifies for the voucher? SB 823 offers the strongest limits, restricting eligibility to students with a family income…
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Are you a good father? PROVE IT
A good father is someone who fulfills a variety of roles and responsibilities while providing a positive and nurturing environment for their children. Here are some key qualities and actions that often characterize a good father: Love and Affection: A good father expresses genuine love, care, and...
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We need a national curfew law for teens!!!
The implementation of a national curfew law for teenagers can be motivated by various factors, including concerns related to safety, health, and the well-being of young individuals. Here are a few reasons why some proponents argue for a national curfew law for teens: teens are out of control...
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Please talk to your teens about gun violence every day!
Building Trust: Regular communication helps you build trust and maintain a strong relationship with your teens. It shows them that you care about their thoughts, feelings, and experiences, and that you are available to listen to them without judgment. This trust can make them more likely to open…
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The Streets Are Raising Your children.
Don't let your lack of parenting lead to the death of your child. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-urban-foster-dad/exclusive-content
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Bio Mom Won't Feed Her Kids
There are a variety of reasons why some people who receive food stamps (also known as Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, or SNAP) might sell them. Here's one of the main reason. Substance abuse: Unfortunately, some people who struggle with addiction may sell their food stamps in order to...
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Adoption Money From The State
In general, when a child is adopted from the foster care system in the United States, the adoptive family may be eligible to receive financial assistance from the state in the form of an adoption subsidy. This subsidy is intended to help offset the costs associated with raising an adopted child…
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I Need A Kid In My Foster Home, But No One Is Calling Me
Reasons why you aren't receiving calls: Lack of space or resources: Foster care agencies may have specific requirements regarding the space and resources that a foster home must have in order to be eligible to care for children. For example, a foster home may need to have a certain number of...
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They called CPS on me!
Child Protective Services (CPS) is a government agency responsible for investigating and providing services to children who are suspected of being victims of abuse or neglect. CPS agencies typically work in collaboration with law enforcement and other child welfare organizations to ensure the...
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BUSSIT... My foster son did it on the walls in his room, nasty
Story Time (100% True) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-urban-foster-dad/exclusive-content
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Life skills are essential for all individuals, but they are particularly critical for foster kids
Life skills are essential for all individuals, but they are particularly critical for foster kids who may have experienced significant trauma and upheaval in their lives. Here are some essential life skills that can help foster kids develop the necessary tools to succeed in life: Self-care…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Joe Jones from Virginia is an established Therapeutic Foster Care professional with 13 years of exceptional experience doing what he loves to do best. Professionally, his area of expertise lies in providing a platform where kids from ages 10 - 21 with behavior and mental issues can enhance their lives and create a better atmosphere for themselves. He is passionate about providing these kids with all the truth and tools needed for them to come out of their pits of despair brought upon by their birth parents and other foster parents. Joe hosts a podcast called “The Urban Foster Dad.” With this podcast, he aims to express his surpassing thoughts on vital issues on foster care that is overlooked by the media. Also, his goal is to expose all of the hidden lies and untruths about foster care. Joe devotes all his time, energy, and compassion, listening to these kids talking about what is going on in their life and, in turn, being of support to them. A reputable Consultant, he is sought after
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