The Vary Necessary Podcast

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we ask: How much do you invest in someone’s potential before realizing they’re not investing in themselves? Time, money, resources, and opportunities mean nothing if the person receiving them isn’t appreciative or willing to do the work. Discernment is knowing the difference between helping someone build and allowing them to ride your wave. And accountability goes both ways: the person taking advantage and the person who keeps investing despite the signs. What are you building as your legacy and are you helping someone build theirs, or becoming their legacy? Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we talk about when providing financially becomes a substitute for actually showing up. What happens when someone wants the relationship and family but still wants the freedom, priorities, and independence of single life? Money, gifts, and grand gestures may fill some gaps, but they can’t replace time, consistency, reliability, or emotional presence. Is it generosity or overcompensation for the parts of the relationship you never really wanted? The conversation may vary…but it’s definitely necessary. Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we unpack solitude, loneliness, isolation, and the importance of your state of mind Being alone doesn’t automatically mean something is missing. Sometimes it means you’ve finally learned that protecting your peace is necessary. and becoming comfortable with your own company. Getting older is inevitable; how we choose to move through it is another story. Age may change the rules, but it doesn’t have to take you out of the game. Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we’re talking about what aging gracefully really looks like and it’s about much more than appearance. From surgery versus exercise and physical wellness to Pilates, kickboxing, salsa, pole dancing, flexibility, and finding a fitness routine that actually fits your life, we’re exploring how staying active changes as we get older. Getting older is inevitable; how we choose to move through it is another story. Age may change the rules, but it doesn’t have to take you out of the game. Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we sit down with The Scums for an honest, entertaining, and thought-provoking discussion that blends humor, raw perspectives, and unapologetic authenticity about music, magnetism, & magic. Life experiences and relationships to culture, personal growth, and everything in between, nothing is off-limits. If you’re looking for genuine dialogue with plenty of laughs and unexpected gems, this is one episode you won’t want to miss. Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  What happened to survival skills? On today’s episode Sasha and Mia introduce two young Ashley and Destiny. Same age. Same 24 hours. Two completely different paths.Disclaimer: This isn’t about tearing down Gen Z or romanticizing Gen X. It’s about asking a hard question: Have convenience replaced capability?Join us as we unpack the thought process & life skills many young adults are missing and why resilience, financial literacy, critical thinking, and self-sufficiency still matter.Same 24 hours. Different choices. Different outcomes. Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  ​Hey VNP listeners!​This is Sue, just one-third of the awesome trio behind The Vary Necessary Podcast. This week’s episode is Vary personal for me. As many of you who have been following our journey for years know, we always share our triumphs and discuss our challenges. I truly believe that's why you tune in—because we’re right there with you, navigating this thing we call life. ​For this episode, I ask that you keep an open mind and an open heart as I talk about my VARY SPECIAL 50TH BIRTHDAY!​In honor of this milestone, I’d love your support for a cause very close to my heart:​Grab Your Journal: You can purchase your copy of "You Thought It, Now Write It" on Amazon here: https://a.co/d/0aUfwMpA. All proceeds from this guided journal go directly to the Hatcher Dollarson Legacy Scholarship Fund.​Learn More: To read about our scholarship collaboration with Bold.org, click here: bold.org/scholarships/hatcher-dollarson-legacy-scholarship/​Make a Direct Donation: To make a 100% tax-deductible donation directly to the fund, click here: bold.org/funds/hatcher-dollarson-legacy-scholarship-fund/​Thank you all for the love and constant support. Be kind to one another!​We Out!! Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  A simple “Hey Hey Hey Hey” was all it took to spark an entire conversation about our favorite TV show couples on The Vary Necessary Podcast!​Join Yosh and Sue—plus producer Yusuf in the building—as they break down onscreen romances, debate who should have ended up together, and tackle some thought-provoking questions.​We want to hear from you:​How do you truly know someone is the person you want to marry?​What are you locked into right now? Family Business, Nemesis, Beauty in Black, or Sweet Magnolias?​We’re also diving into real talk about giving people grace to work, and Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  In this episode, as we approach these VARY NECESSARY proms, summer holidays, and celebrations, join us in unapologetic conversation regarding getting back to the basics and simplicity of things.From reflection and gratitude to reconnecting with faith, family, purpose, and peace, this episode is a reminder that sometimes the most meaningful moments don’t have to break the bank. Let’s bring it back to the house. Back to the basics. Back to the heart and back to the reason for the season. Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast, Von, Yosh, and Sue are tackling the games people play and the drama we all see online.​On the table today:The "Hard Chase": We’re breaking down that viral clip about men who love the "chase" and women who play hard to get. Is it a strategy for success or a one-way ticket to a toxic cycle?Privacy in the Spotlight: We’re discussing the latest celebrity breakup and the messy public comments following it. Why can’t some things just stay private? The ladies are keeping it real about boundaries, dating "experts," and why your private life shouldn't always be public tea.​Tune in now to The Vary Necessary Podcast! Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von  The bags are packed, and the vibes are high! Road trip season has officially arrived for the ladies. Tune in as Von, Yosh, and Sue break down their latest adventure—it’s been way too long since this trio hit the open road, and they’ve got the stories to prove it.​Beyond the travel diaries, the ladies are diving deep into the chaotic world of modern romance. We’re navigating the "new normal," and they aren't holding back:• ​The Green Flags: What actually impresses a woman in 2026?• ​The Ick Factor: What trends need to stay in the past?• ​The Audacity: Who said we wanted to date you in the first place?• ​The Approach: Where (and how) is it actually appropriate to shoot your shot?• ​The "Spin": Are you really going to spend the block, or is it time to move on?​We want to hear from YOU!Are the ladies spot on, or are they trippin'? Drop your comments and let Von, Yosh, and Sue know your take on the 2026 dating scene.​Listen now and join the conversation! Subscribe, Share, Like, & ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Star cash app: $TheVNPodcast Instagram: The Vary Necessary Podcast Facebook: Unapologetic Talk with Vary Necessary