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I love it when unexpectedly amazing things happen. Like setting out to do a catch up episode, and ending up making an announcement even I didn't see coming.

I'm a lover, not a fighter. But in all honesty, I'd choose a fist fight over a war of words any day. Physical bruises heal faster than emotional scars.

They're back! My two favorite guests, not that I'm biased, have returned for a yuletide episode. You'll laugh, you'll cry and you might even sing along.

The holidays aren't always easy. Whoever said or says they should be is either a made up movie character, or a little delulu. Sometimes, finding a way to get into the holiday spirit can be the best way to get through the season. That's what I've done this year. And I'm doing it by celebrating the little girl who grew up to be my mom.

In the holiday spirit of giving, give more of the things that matter and less of the things that don't. Material gifts fade away, but gifts of the heart can last forever.

How on earth is it already December? I'm planning on making at least a few of my yearly "Christmas time event plans" happen. It's never happened before but this year is different. I just know it.

Happy Thanksgiving Week! Let this episode serve as a reminder to be grateful, show thanks, and find a reason to keep going. The holidays are upon us and sometimes that's not easy. Take the time to take care and be well.

You always have a choice so try your best to make it a good one. Otherwise, you might continue to suck.

Doing things when life is "life-ing" can be difficult. Whether it's things we want to, choose to, or need to do, there's always a way. Even if it means you're coping simply to get things done.

This is Pt.2, aka the last 3 minutes of Episode 7. Please listen to the first 22 minutes of Pt.1 first or it just won't make sense.

Change is never easy. Especially when it's unexpected, unwanted or uncalled for. Sometimes, it just flat out sucks and all we can do is deal with it. Other times, it's something you never wanted, yet, exactly what you never knew you needed. BY THE WAY... Please immediately listen to the bonus episode for Pt.2, aka, the last 3 minutes that got cut off of this episode.

If running on fumes isn't good for your car, why would you think it was good for you? And by you, I mean me, we, us. Sure, we've all done it. And if you haven't well that's great. Keep doing that. For those of us who have, take this as a sign to stop and refuel.

You can't pour from an empty cup so why bother trying? Sometimes you need to take the time to refill, replenish and revitalize yourself. Because, let's be honest. No one else is going to do it for you, especially if they expect you to do it for them.

Life is moving at a snail's pace for me right now. Like a snail stuck to a stick, racing down a wild river, trying to avoid getting hurled into a boulder. I'm hanging on for dear life and trying to enjoy the crazy ride.

Here's an episode encouraging you to face the truth, face some fears, and start the journey. You just have to get past my scruffy voice and the monster under your bed.

Are you a people pleaser? Do you know of and benefit from a people pleaser? No matter which one you are, you're probably not going to like what I have to say. Either way, this episode is for you.

Don't call it a comeback. It's just time to come back. Welcome to Season 6.

Father's day this year was a little tough, but it brought about some important reflections I'd like to share. Here's a little bonus episode to remind you that I'm still here, still healing, and still grateful for it all.

It's been too long to go without a check in so....

Wrapping up the season with more joy than grief, and more love than loss. It's my pleasure to introduce to you, the one, the only, half-hearted, Nate D-O-Double G

It's the 2nd anniversary of the podcast! It also happens to be my birthday so you know I'm celebrating. This is a time to reflect and rejoice. I'm so proud of how far I've come and I can't wait to see how far I go. Cheers to two years!

What happens when you live life waiting to grieve? Do you countdown the minutes bouncing between anger and fear? Or do you walk in gratitude and acceptance, loving every minute of uncertainty?

The relationships I build with my clients are the driving force behind what I do. This one just happens to be one of, if not, my favorite. To Carlo Tripoli, my most super senior, with love.

It's a beautiful thing to love a friend like a brother or sister. It's a heartbreaking experience to grieve their untimely and unexpected death... How do you say goodbye when they are gone too soon?

Grieving is one of the most difficult things to do. It can challenge you. Wreck you. Break you down into a million pieces. But it always gives you an opportunity to grow and rebuild. Not grieving, or living in a period of "un-grief," can cause you to hold on to things, and people, that you are meant to completely let go of. And that, is so much worse.

My guests this week are a double dose of wisdom, love, and kindness. Princess Scooshie Mama and Best Dude are back in the house! One is ready to be a star and the other, well, let's just say, I'm lucky I got what I got out of her.

I love the Grinch. Always have, always will. I fully understand why he felt the way he did about the holidays, and why he acted out of grumpiness. I too have a Grinch-like heart. It's why my family refers to me as "The Stinch." And just like his heart grew, so has mine, too.

I have an older cousin who I love like a sister. My cousin has an older sister who she didn't get enough time with here on Earth. Spend some time with us as we reminisce on a beautiful life cut too short.

Looking back on failed relationships can be hard. Especially when it has nothing to do with romance, and everything to do with friendship. "Best" friendships, to be exact.

Women are such magical creatures. We are made with the purpose and gift to create, carry, and birth life. But what happens when that purpose is not fulfilled? Can hope be found after grief, somewhere over the rainbow? Does speaking up or staying silent take away the pain? Explore this facet of motherhood with me and one of my life long friends, as she rips me right out of a closet I wasn't ready to leave.

What exactly is too much? Am I too much, or has my life been plagued by people who are just too little? Tough question, simple answer. It ain't me baby! Never has been, never will be.

What does life look like after losing a spouse? Join me as I talk with my mom, "The Co-host," about losing my dad.

Surprise, I'm back! The holidays are upon us and what better time to unpack some heavy stuff. Oh. You don't feel like it? You're not ready? Then skip this season all together because it's gonna be a wildly difficult, and wonderfully beautiful ride. But only if you jump on and strap in.

I was on a role and couldn't leave you hanging. So much for trying to control the universe. Enjoy part two and then go find a way to enjoy some Psylocibin.

I flaked out on you last week so you know I gotta hit you with an extra special bonus episode. Kinda like the shrooms hit me at Portola Festival last weekend, and delivered a life changing punch to my spirit, heart and mind. Like to hear about it? Here it goes...

We did it! And by we I mean Baby Steph and I. This is the last (regular) episode of Season 4, marking 80 episodes in total. Quite the accomplishment if we do say so ourselves.

It's a sobriety celebration! If I've learned anything during this time, it's that it truly is about the journey. I'm enjoying it, because the destination is not my goal.

I'm in the wading room. Similar to a waiting room, but covered in "the ick". It's a dirty, filthy, grimy place to be but it's a necessary stop on the way to change.

This week has been one for the books. But not a good book that you would enjoy reading. A textbook. Better yet, a math book. Ah yes, a good, old fashioned calculus book. Enjoy!

We know what love is, but you know what's not love? Unlove. Giving the barebones minimum, and sometimes not even that much, to someone you claim to love. Neglect masquerading as love that expects to be shown gratitude. I know a few people who are loved like that by their immediate family. This episode is dedicated to his parents. You know who you are.

I bet you'll never guess who cries this episode? But I should get a pass since it's about my cute ass niece and nephew. Hey, at least I start off with an angry rant about an internet troll.

Trigger Warning: I'm coming in cool and going out hot this episode. I truly mean to attack you personally with this one. You should be upset, but not at me. Be upset at yourself for the way you're choosing to do life. Hope the shoe fits!

The struggle is real, but the show must go on! Even if it's only for 5 minutes.

Time to proclaim the good news! I'm festival bound and I can't wait for the bay, the music, and the trees that breathe right before your eyes.

First thing I did when I got home from my much needed getaway was unpack my bags. I had no clue I'd be unpacking some emotional baggage as well.

"Good morning. Good morning. Good morning to you. Our day is beginning, there's so much to do." Now Let's Elsa and Ana this b*tch and get some shit done!

In my line of business, regrowth means your roots are showing. In this episode, regrowth means there's still work to be done and lessons to be learned.

Look. I really can't help it that I'm right when I'm right, and I'm right most of the time. At least, intuitively.

Baby Steph is in the building! She's taking over the podcast because she's tired of me holding back. Sorry, not sorry, and please take offense.

It's moving day and I'm on to bigger and better! Well, except for my room. I'm losing space there. But I do have a backyard and a space to record in the garage, so, it's a win.