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The Power of Communion | POD 071Introduction:In this episode, Hannah Miller King joins the podcast to discuss her book Feasting on Hope, exploring the role of Christian hope, especially during difficult times, and how the practice of communion (the Lord's Supper) shapes faith, embodies hope, and fosters unity within the church. The conversation also touches on the transformative power of regular communion, the importance of embodiment in worship, and the balance between the ordinary and the special in spiritual disciplines.3 Main Takeaways:1. The Lord’s Supper as a Source of Hope in Hard TimesHannah Miller King emphasizes that communion is both an act of obedience to Jesus and a profound mystery that shapes, heals, and sustains believers—especially in seasons of grief and wilderness. Drawing from her own experience with childhood loss, she explains how the Lord’s Supper embodies the "already and not yet" aspect of Christian faith: it is simultaneously a participation in resurrection life and a reminder that full restoration is still to come 05:19, 06:07.2. Communion’s Embodiment of the Holistic GospelThe conversation highlights the embodied nature of the sacrament, pointing out that salvation involves both body and soul. Regular participation in communion reminds the church that faith is not just intellectual or spiritual but is worked out in community and in physical acts. This embodiment stands in contrast to trends that could disembody Christian practice (such as technological or individualistic shifts) 09:47, 10:42.3. Communion and Christian Community—Union and UnityCommunion is a deeply communal practice that forms believers not just in union with Christ, but also in union with one another—across differences, generations, and cultures. The ritual counters transactional faith with relational presence and calls participants to reconciliation, humility, and mutual care. Weekly repetition, rather than making it "ordinary," shapes believers' lives together, forging new habits of grace and forgiveness 13:15, 17:33, 20:12.Resources:Feasting on Hope: How God Sets a Table in the WildernessTimestamps:00:00:02 – Overview of the episode’s theme: Christian hope in hard times and the role of communion (Hannah Miller King).00:01:13 – Discussion of a common question: “Why communion?” and how many lifelong churchgoers still find it mysterious.00:02:20 – Explanation that even if we don’t fully understand communion, we trust Jesus’ command and participate in its mystery.00:03:27 – The origin story behind writing the book; connecting personal grief and how God met her at the communion table (Hannah Miller King).00:05:19 – Exploration of communion as a source of hope amidst grief; how the Lord’s Supper teaches about faith in the “already, not yet” reality.00:06:37 – Personal testimony of childhood grief and the role of faith and the table in coping with loss (Hannah Miller King).00:09:47 – Importance of embodiment in communion: how bodily rituals help internalize spiritual truths (Hannah Miller King).00:12:14 – The value and impact of practicing weekly communion and its formative effect on the church family (Hannah Miller King).00:17:11 – Communion as union with Christ; moving beyond transactional faith toward relational union.00:22:24 – Reassurance about receiving communion “in a worthy manner” and the posture of humility and hunger for grace (Hannah Miller King).KeywordsCommunion, Lord’s Supper, Feasting on Hope, Christian hope, Embodiment, Resurrectiongrief, Suffering, Liturgy, Union with Christ, Spiritual discipline, Community, Forgiveness, Repetition, Mystery, Table, Healing, Eucharist, Church family

Introduction:This episode, co-hosted by Paul Brandes and Jacob Nannie, explores the connection between our culture’s pursuit of happiness and the rise of despair, drawing on themes from Andrew Root’s book Evangelism in an Age of Despair. The conversation with Dr. Root unpacks how traditional evangelism methods intersect with our longing for transformation, the problem of loneliness, and how Christians can practice “consolation” by being present with others in their everyday lives.3 Main Takeaways:1) The modern pursuit of happiness often leads to despair rather than fulfillment 00:01:25.2) Evangelism should shift from being a sales pitch for happiness or counting converts to offering real consolation and presence, especially amid sorrow and loneliness 00:09:25.3) Evangelism and discipleship are deeply intertwined—Christians are called to embody hope and consolation, especially in everyday life beyond Sunday gatherings 00:17:41.Resources:Evangelism in an Age of Despair: Hope beyond the Failed Promise of Happiness: Andrew Root: 9781540968715Timestamps:00:01:25 — The claim that the cultural obsession with happiness has led to collective despair is introduced.00:02:05 — Andrew Root discusses how pursuing happiness as the gauge for self-fulfillment can leave people miserable.00:04:14 — Analysis of popular memoirs as stories of transformation and their secular roots.00:06:35 — The critique of traditional evangelism as a "sales pitch" for happiness, leading to despair.00:07:55 — Reflection on Protestant churches' shared tendency to quantify evangelistic success by numbers or attendance.00:10:02 — Introduction of the idea of "consolation" as a key word for a new approach to evangelism.00:12:00 — Observation that society’s unhappiness and loneliness are linked, and digital spaces fail to offer real consolation.00:17:12 — The fictional story of Marianne is introduced as a narrative method for understanding evangelism in everyday life.00:23:23 — The real-life story of a grieving woman consoled by a cab driver, illustrating consolation as evangelism.00:27:30 — Examination of Mark 9 and Jesus’ consoling question, highlighting how evangelism can be about attentive presence rather than diagnosis or salesmanship.KeywordsHappiness, Despair, Evangelism, Secular age, Self-fulfillment, Transformation, Memoir, Counting, Consolation, Theology of the cross, Loneliness, Presence, Discipleship, Suffering, Storytelling

In this episode, Jacob and Bill sit down with Tom Nelson, founding pastor of Christ Community, to explore the concept of "design-based giving." They discuss how generosity is more than simply giving—it’s about aligning our hearts with God’s design and priorities, particularly when it comes to stewarding finances and supporting the local church. Together, they unpack biblical wisdom, practical principles, and the long-term impact of ordered, intentional generosity.3 Main Takeaways:1. Design-Based Giving Anchors Generosity in Biblical WisdomTom Nelson emphasizes that generosity is not just about giving wherever and whenever, but instead following a biblically informed framework for how, where, and why we give (02:28, 05:06). 2. The Local Church is “Plan A” for GivingThe podcast highlights the biblical pattern of prioritizing the local church in our giving (16:35–18:36). Tom Nelson argues that the “first fruits” of our wealth should primarily support the local church, describing it as the enduring institution at the center of God’s plan (17:18, 18:10). 3. Generosity Reflects the Ordering of Our Loves and Participates in God’s JoyGenerosity is ultimately about the ordering of our hearts—what we love most (12:22, 23:29). Giving our best (“first fruits”) reflects love and honor for God and aligns us with his generous nature (10:54, 11:11). Living into this design brings joy and freedom, as we become outpourers reflecting the image of our generous Creator (07:01, 08:22, 39:08), and invest our lives in things that outlast us (32:37).Resources:The Economics of Neighborly Love: Investing in Your Community's Compassion and Capacity: Nelson, Tom: 9780830843923: Amazon.comhttps://cckc.church/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/Exploring-Gods-Design-for-Generosity-12.19.pdf        Timestamps:00:01:31 — Jacob Nannie frames the conversation by asking why generosity alone is not enough without biblical wisdom, prompting the introduction of "design-based giving."00:04:49 — Tom Nelson defines design-based giving, explaining its scriptural roots and distinguishing it from a needs-based or haphazard approach.00:09:07 — Tom Nelson clarifies the paradigm shift from self-centered ownership to other-centered stewardship, anchoring the idea that "God owns it all."00:16:32 — Tom Nelson describes the biblical foundation for prioritizing the local church in giving, drawing connections from Old Testament tithing to the New Testament.00:37:51 — Tom Nelson shares his hope for a new generation to have a reordered love, centering the love of Jesus expressed most fully in loving and supporting the local church.KeywordsGenerosity, Giving, Design, Stewardship, Church, Tithe, Legacy, Wealth, Abundance, Joy, LoveInstitution, Family, Worship, Firstfruits, Imagination, Ownership, Sacrifice, Community, Flourishing

With God: In Suffering | POD 068Introduction:In this special episode, Andrew DeKanter who is a pastor and the founder of Better Stories Ministries, sits down with Jacob Nannie to share a personal story of loss, faith, and hope after tragedy. Together, they reflect honestly on walking with God through suffering and how a supportive community makes all the difference.3 Main Takeaways:1.The Importance of Presence in SufferingBoth Jacob Nannie and Andrew DeKanter emphasize that the most helpful response to those who are grieving is not polished answers or quick fixes, but simply being present—“weeping with those who weep”—and carrying burdens alongside them (26:06).2.The Reality of Spiritual and Emotional ComplexityAndrew DeKanter describes the intertwined experience of mental health struggles, spiritual warfare, and grief following the loss of his son Moses (08:49, 33:23). He highlights both the material and spiritual realities at play in suffering, affirming the existence of real evil but also the sovereignty and goodness of God, even amidst deep questions and loss (36:13).3.God’s Sovereignty and Redemptive HopeEven in the midst of unfathomable loss, Andrew DeKanter clings to truths from Scripture: that God is sovereign, that he is good, and that suffering can have purpose (40:03). Andrew DeKanter finds healing in seeing God use his pain to help others, particularly through his current work with college students—a reminder that God can bring redemptive good from even the deepest grief (44:42).Resources:https://www.betterstoryministries.org/https://youtu.be/xQwnH8th_fs?si=2jIoxkEskLQ6Z_bUhttps://youtu.be/GswSg2ohqmA?si=jZyfn8LnbAQsFxTbhttps://youtu.be/5vp9hV8bOjk?si=EQtbAmrmGbAk25Ldhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/1594634408/?bestFormat=true&k=walking%20with%20god%20through%20pain%20and%20suffering&ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-bk-ww_k1_1_17_de&crid=1HDV5WQIAR55F&sprefix=walking%20with%20god%20            Crisis support: call or text 988 if you are in the United States.Timestamps:02:39 — Andrew DeKanter shares memories of his son Moses, describing his personality, talents, and spiritual life.12:20 — Andrew DeKanter recounts the events leading up to Moses' passing and the family's experience of grief and loss.20:01 — Andrew DeKanter outlines three common (often unhelpful) ways people respond to others’ suffering and highlights the importance of "weeping with those who weep."31:41 — Andrew DeKanter reflects on the theological lessons learned from Job and the grounding truths he held onto during grief.44:22 — Andrew DeKanter discusses how God is bringing healing in his life, particularly through ministry to college students after the loss of his son.KeywordsSuffering, Grief, Suicide, Loss, Job (Book of Job), Mental health, OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), Religious scrupulosity, Faith, Hope, Spiritual warfare, Presence, Compassion, Church community, Healing, Redemptive suffering, God’s sovereignty, Support in crisis, Ministry, Trauma, Covenant love (Hesed), Lament, Pain, Family, Vulnerability, Authenticity

In this episode, hosts Paul Brandes and Jacob Nannie welcome back guest Jay Stringer, a licensed counselor, researcher, and author. They discuss themes from Jay Stringer's book, Desire focusing on how our desires—especially those surrounding sexuality and brokenness—shape our lives, relationships, and spiritual growth. The conversation unpacks the importance of understanding the roots of our desires rather than simply suppressing or indulging them, inviting listeners to approach their inner struggles with curiosity, honesty, and grace.3 Main Takeaways:1. Desires Are Not Random—They’re InstructiveJay Stringer emphasizes that our desires and even our struggles—especially those relating to sexuality—are not arbitrary or meaningless. Instead, they are deeply connected to our personal stories, family dynamics, and past wounds.2. Honor and Honesty Go Hand-in-HandA recurring theme is the importance of holding both honor and honesty together when examining our personal stories and relationships, particularly regarding family of origin. 3. Symptoms and Temptations Are Invitations to Deeper DiscipleshipInstead of viewing symptoms (like sexual compulsion, low desire, overeating, etc.) only as problems to be eradicated, Jay Stringer encourages treating them as “holy men”—signals calling for our attention. Resources:Desire: The Longings Inside Us and the New Science of How We Love, Heal, and Grow: Stringer, JayUnwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing: Stringer, Jay: 9781631466724Timestamps:00:03:12 — Jay Stringer discusses why it's important to distinguish between a symptom and the desire behind it, laying the groundwork for understanding sexual brokenness and desire.00:06:27 — Jay Stringer addresses how to reread biblical stories (like David’s) through the lens of unmet longings and untransformed pain.00:12:19 — Jay Stringer introduces the concept of holding together "honor and honesty" regarding our personal and family stories as foundational for true healing.00:16:21 — Jay Stringer shares real-life client examples demonstrating how sexual struggles and desires are often rooted in specific, unresolved early-life wounds.00:23:50 — Jay Stringer offers pointed, practical questions for listeners to ask themselves in moments of temptation, emphasizing curiosity over accusation.KeywordsDesire, Sexuality, Sexual brokenness, Symptoms, Healing, Intimacy, Family of origin, FormationPower and abuse, Honesty and honor, Story and narrative, Curiosity, Temptation, Arousal template, Shame, Transformation, Grief, Protest, Discipleship, Kingdom of God, NeuroscienceLegacy, Therapy, Vulnerability

Loyal Love with Brooks Nesse | POD 066Introduction:In this episode of theFormed.life, hosts Jacob Nannie and Jonathan Neef welcome guest Brooks Nesse to explore the Book of Ruth. Together, they highlight Ruth’s role in Scripture, the theme of hesed (steadfast love), and how God’s character is shown through the everyday actions of Ruth, Boaz, and Naomi. The conversation reflects on faithful love, God’s care for the vulnerable, and how Ruth’s story points to Jesus and shapes our lives today.3 Main Takeaways:1. The Transformative Power of Hesed in Ordinary Life:The Book of Ruth showcases hesed—steadfast, sacrificial love—through the ordinary, generous actions of Ruth, Boaz, and Naomi, reflecting God’s own character.2. Ruth as a Model of God’s Care for the Vulnerable:Ruth highlights God’s heart for the vulnerable and marginalized, urging us to embody that care for outsiders, widows, and the needy in our communities today.3. Boaz and Ruth Foreshadow the Generosity of ChristThe story points forward to Jesus, the ultimate expression of hesed, whose self-giving love redeems and fulfills God’s promise for all people.Resources:-Ruth resources from the BibleProject-A Commentary on Judges and Ruth -Robert Chisholm -Christ Community Bible Study resourcesTimestamps:00:00:00 - Jacob Nannie introduces the focus on the Book of Ruth 00:02:23 - Brooks Nesse explains how Ruth connects the period of the Judges to the monarchy 00:05:56 - Brooks Nesse describes how the law (Torah) shapes the action of the story, and how Boaz models fulfilling the law, linking it directly to God’s character and foreshadowing the mission of Christ.00:13:13 - Brooks Nesse provides a deep dive into the meaning of "Hesed," why it's hard to translate, and how Ruth and Boaz incarnate this quality00:32:03 - Jonathan Neef and Brooks Nesse discuss how "Hesed" ultimately points forward to JesusKeywordsRuth, Boaz, Naomi, Judges, Torah, Hesed, steadfast love, loyal love, genealogy, King David, vulnerability, widowhood, poverty, immigration, law, Torah follower, Moabite, outsider, Gentile, redemption, kinsman redeemer, incarnation, Genesis, Proverbs 31, Christ, Jesus, Old Testament, New Testament, faithfulness, generosity, marginalized, character of God, community, outreach, everyday faithfulness, self-sacrifice, hope, redemption narrative

Hosts Paul Brandes and Bill Gorman sit down with the ever-insightful Tom Nelson, to explore an inspiring question: What does hope look like on Easter Monday, when the celebrations fade and we step back into our everyday routines?Nelson shares candid reflections about his new season in life, including his transition from Lead Senior Pastor to Lead Pastor Coach and his ongoing work with Made to Flourish. The discussion dives into Made to Flourish’s incredible impact over the past decade—connecting thousands of pastors and helping churches bridge the gap between faith, work, and everyday life.There is exciting news about a new global podcast from Tom Nelson in partnership with Premier Plus, designed to bring “Weekly Wisdom for Your Workplace” right to your Monday morning commute. He offers a behind-the-scenes look at what inspired this project, the heart behind it, and how listeners can stay connected to this work.3 Main Takeaways:Tom’s New Season and Transition:Tom Nelson reflected on his transition from lead senior pastor at Christ Community to his current role as Lead Pastoral Coach, where he is focusing on coaching, support, and being a cheerleader for the team. He spoke about feeling lighter, more buoyant, and grateful for the team and the opportunity to support without bearing the weight of primary leadership.Growth and Impact of Made to Flourish:The conversation highlighted the national influence and growth of Made to Flourish, a sister organization to Christ Community. Tom Nelson shared impressive updates about their mission to empower pastors and integrate faith, work, and economic wisdom for community flourishing, all springing from Christ Community’s DNA. Global Launch of the “God’s Work” Podcast:Nelson now has a partnership with Premier Plus in the UK, launching a new podcast called "God’s Work: Weekly Wisdom for Your Workplace." This podcast aims to help congregants connect Sunday faith to Monday work, releasing short, weekly episodes starting on Easter Monday. It’s geared for both UK and US audiences, and represents a dynamic new way Tom Nelson is sharing wisdom, story, and encouragement about integrating faith and the rhythms of everyday work.Resources:Made to Flourish: https://www.madetoflourish.org/Common Good Magazine: https://commongoodmag.com/God's Work: Weekly Wisdom for Your Workplace (Podcast): https://www.premier.plus/podcastsTimestamps:00:00 "Tom Nelson's New Season"05:16 "Empowering Pastors for Community Flourishing"07:49 "Giving Through the Local Church"10:03 "Partnership Established with Made to Flourish"13:37 "Family, Friendship, and Quiet Joy"

Campus pastors Jacob Nannie and Bill Gorman are joined by Darrell Bock, a New Testament scholar and Senior Research Professor at Dallas Theological Seminary. The interaction centers on the historicity of the resurrection, exploring why it's not just a symbolic or spiritual event, but a pivotal moment in history that underpins the Christian faith.Some of the toughest objections to the gospel accounts are tackled during this conversation, considering whether the writers are simply too biased, or if the resurrection is just a legend or myth that developed over time. Bock focuses on the reliability of the gospel narratives, surprising details that make them stand out from other ancient texts, and the unexpected role of women. Also addressed are alternative explanations for the disciples’ transformation, from wish fulfillment to hallucinations.The discussion concludes that the reality of the resurrection isn't just ancient history—it radically shapes how we live, infusing hope, courage, and purpose into the Christian life. If you're wrestling with doubts or seeking a deeper understanding of why the resurrection matters, this episode brings both scholarly insight and practical application to one of Christianity’s central claims.3 Main Takeaways:The Resurrection as a Historical EventThe episode emphasizes that the resurrection of Jesus is a real, historical event. Dr. Darrell Bock explains why treating the resurrection as history is crucial to the Christian faith: grounded in eyewitness testimony that led to rapid changes in belief among Jesus' followers.Transformation of the Disciples and Early WitnessesA radical transformation was experienced by the disciples and other early witnesses who were not predisposed to believe in the resurrection. Rather, they were skeptical, in mourning, and afraid. The episode addresses alternative explanations and considers the best explanation.The Importance and Impact of Resurrection TodayThe resurrection is described as a "game changer" for personal faith and daily life, shaping hope, perseverance, work, and confidence for Christians today, anchoring the meaning and purpose of life and work.Timestamps:00:00:00 — Dr. Darrell Bock describes the resurrection as a "game changer on steroids," setting the tone for the episode's significance.00:03:21 — Dr. Darrell Bock explains the profound transformation of the disciples from despair to conviction, emphasizing the historical impact of the resurrection.00:04:05 — Dr. Darrell Bock addresses the issue of bias in the Gospel accounts, focusing on how the witnesses were not inclined to believe in the resurrection initially.00:07:10 — Dr. Darrell Bock clarifies the genre of the Gospels as ancient biography (bios), distinguishing it from myth and highlighting its historical reliability.00:08:17 — Dr. Darrell Bock discusses how the first witnesses of the resurrection were women, a detail culturally unexpected and compelling for the historicity argument.00:10:23 — Dr. Darrell Bock recounts how the leaders dismissed the women's report of the resurrection as a fable, revealing the skepticism among early believers.00:12:01 — Dr. Darrell Bock wishes he had a recording of Jesus revealing the Scriptures to the disciples on the road to Emmaus, showing the deep impact of that encounter.00:14:03 — Jacob Nanney highlights transformation as a unifying theme in the resurrection accounts, from fear to bold witness.00:16:42 — Dr. Darrell Bock explains the "mutation" in Jewish belief regarding the timing of resurrection, emphasizing the historical anomaly and its implications.00:21:14 — Dr. Darrell Bock shares how the resurrection gives hope beyond suffering and endurance in life, touching on its personal and transformative significance.

In this episode, Jesse and Leah Roberts, the creative duo behind Poor Bishop Hooper, share with Pastor Paul Brandes their journey as artists, songwriters, and founders of a nonprofit ministry dedicated to Scripture-based music. They candidly discuss their calling, how their ministry evolved step-by-step, and give insights into their projects like Golgotha and Every Psalm.3 Main Takeaways:Faithfulness in Small Steps Leads to Impactful Ministry:Jesse and Leah emphasize that their journey as musicians and ministry leaders was not the result of a grand, predetermined plan, but rather a series of faithful steps. By being obedient to God’s leading one step at a time, their work grew organically—from local church worship to founding a nonprofit, creating widely-used resources like Golgotha, and serving diverse communities, including prisons.Truth and Beauty Powerfully Transcend Contexts:The experience of bringing the Golgotha project into prisons was transformative, both for the artists and the inmates. Leah shared how presenting something rooted in both truth and beauty had a profound gospel impact in places marked by pain and deprivation, proving that spiritual art remains powerful regardless of environment—whether in a cathedral or a maximum security prison.Christ Meets Us in Our Suffering and Darkness:Drawing from their time immersed in the story of Christ’s suffering (through Golgotha) and their own personal hardships, Jesse and Leah encourage listeners that Jesus deeply understands our darkest, “Holy Saturday” seasons. The incarnation and crucifixion mean that Christ has entered into human suffering, providing comfort and solidarity for anyone experiencing pain, uncertainty, or waiting.Resources:Poor Bishop Hooper (Band/Ministry): https://www.poorbishophooper.com Golgotha Project: https://www.poorbishophooper.com/golgotha Every Psalm Project: https://www.poorbishophooper.com/everypsalm Author William Quayle: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_Alfred_QuayleTimestamps:00:18  – Bill Gorman introduces the theme of following God in seasons of darkness and grief, previewing the depth of the episode.02:49 – Paul Brandes asks Leah and Jesse to share how their calling as artists and creators developed, setting the stage for their story.03:32 – Leah describes seeking God’s guidance after college, revealing her sense of vocation and trust in God’s provision.06:13 – The origin story of Golgotha: how a pastor’s request and a 3-day retreat turned into writing all 14 songs for a Stations of the Cross musical experience.08:18 – Jesse      describes how Golgotha began spreading to different churches and communities, moving beyond its initial setting.11:04 – Leah shares the pivotal moment when they decided to formalize their ministry as a nonprofit, focusing on underserved and unreached communities.14:01 – Discussion about the heavy, contemplative nature of Golgotha and its focus on the “minor key” of Jesus’s suffering during Holy Week.18:00 – The first time Golgotha was brought into a maximum-security prison, describing a powerful and unexpected response from inmates.22:06 – Leah recounts how inmates donated to their ministry, powerfully illustrating the unity and generosity within the body of Christ.27:26 – The hosts discuss being with God in “Holy Saturday” moments—suffering, waiting, and not yet seeing resurrection—and Leah shares a personal journey through family suffering and the presence of Christ in it.

Hosts Bill Gorman and Paul Brandes are joined by special guest Jeremy Mann, founder and head of The Field School, a diverse classical Christian school on the west side of Chicago. Together, they dive into what it means to cultivate wisdom and virtue in the next generation—not just through academics, but by shaping the whole person.Jeremy Mann shares his journey from public school teacher to leader of a unique educational community that reserves half its seats for low-income families, embracing a mission shaped by faith and holistic classical learning. Drawing inspiration from Scripture—especially the Shema from Deuteronomy 6—the conversation explores how families, educators, and communities can weave meaningful spiritual practices into daily routines, both at school and at home.Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, teacher, or simply passionate about passing on virtue to the future, this inspiring episode offers practical ideas, ancient wisdom, and encouragement for anyone seeking to nurture children in today’s world. Get ready for a dialogue about education, faith, and intentional living—right here on theFormed.life.3 Main Takeaways:Classical Education Is About Forming Wisdom and Virtue, Not Just Knowledge.Jeremy Mann explains that the mission of the Field School is to cultivate wisdom and virtue in every child. This goes beyond just academic achievement or standardized test scores. Classical education is about developing the whole person, focusing on character, critical thinking, mastery of the fundamentals, and an enduring love of learning and curiosity.Educational Models Are Important, But Parents Remain the Primary Disciplers.The conversation made it clear that, regardless of whether kids are in public, private, classical, or homeschool settings, parents have a unique and irreplaceable role in shaping their children’s hearts and minds. Spiritual formation and character development happen best at home in daily rhythms, not just through institutional programs; when families are intentional about weaving biblical truth and spiritual practices into everyday life.The Biblical Vision of Education Is Holistic and Community-Oriented.Grounded in Deuteronomy 6, the discussion revolves around the idea of loving God with all our heart, soul, and strength—and passing that faith on to the next generation. Jeremy Mann shares practical examples from both the Field School and his own family: daily Scripture reading, memorization, prayer, music, and habits that create a shared, spiritual culture. The episode encourages listeners to build similar rhythms, with kids or in their own lives, and to see education as a community endeavor, not just the work of schools.Resources:Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass: https://a.co/d/07KUyIQLA Philosophy of Education by Charlotte Mason: https://www.livingbookpress.com/product/a-philosophy-of-education/?srsltid=AfmBOoqx0zOQAB0bsGErnc8GhtQkqOeUuCKj0ZcNKXQLfQCbqxoHhmGtNew City Catechism – Timothy Keller: https://a.co/d/09C5NmGvApostles’ Creed – Historic Christian CreedAthanasian Creed – Historic Christian CreedA Student’s Prayer by St. Thomas Aquinas: https://mycatholicprayers.com/prayers/a-students-prayer-by-st-thomas-aquinas/Timestamps:00:00 Classical Education for All04:14 "High Expectations, High Support"07:59 "Classical Education: Old School Revival"13:29 "Parent-Led Education and Choices"15:59 Cultivating Wisdom Through Scripture20:19 Holistic Faith in School Life23:02 "Faith Lived Through Rhythms"27:54 Faith through Community and Music30:41 Family Bonding Over Simple Meals33:08 Cabin Dreams & Entrepreneurial Passion35:03 "Field School Insights Shared"

Hosts Bill Gorman and Paul Brandes are joined by author, coach, and consultant J.R. Briggs for a thought-provoking conversation on the art of crafting questions. Drawing from his new book and years of research, Briggs helps us explore the life-giving power of questions—not just as a way to learn, but as a path to deeper connection with God, greater self-understanding, and more authentic relationships with others.Briggs shares personal stories of his father modeling curiosity and the impact it had on his own spiritual journey, and considers the hundreds of questions Jesus asked as relayed in the gospels. The author invites us to see questioning as central to faith, including a fascinating Jewish tradition in which questions about Scripture take precedence over finding answers. Whether you're a church leader, a parent, or simply someone seeking to better love your neighbor, this episode will encourage you to embrace curiosity and thoughtful inquiry as a vital spiritual practice.Stay tuned for practical tips on building your own “back pocket” questions, and insights into the possibility that better questions can foster genuine hospitality and relational connection in today’s world.3 Main Takeaways:The Transformative Power of QuestionsAsking good questions—of God, ourselves, and others—has a profound impact on the quality of our lives. Briggs suggests that questions are not just tools for gathering information, but actually transformative, helping us to reflect, connect, and grow. He traces the influence of his father’s question-asking, and points to Jesus as a continual question-asker.Questions Foster Relationships and HospitalityEspecially when asked with the right motive and at the right time, questions can be an act of hospitality and love.They create space for relational intimacy, make people feel seen and valued, and can be healing in a world marked by loneliness and division. Briggs underscores that questions are often a greater gift than answers, and essential for loving our neighbors well.We Learn Best in Community and Through Wrestling with ScriptureThe Jewish practice of “havruta” (studying Scripture through questions in a communal setting) is introduced, showing how generating questions together deepens engagement and learning. Wrestling with passages through curiosity rather than rushing to answers can unlock new perspectives and foster spiritual growth.Resources:The Art of Better Questions - J.R. Briggs: https://a.co/d/0bcUwPQQTogether - Vivek Murthy: https://a.co/d/0dhyHKheEmotionally Healthy Spirituality - Peter Scazzero: https://a.co/d/02A89zeEHavruta (Jewish Practice of Communal Question Asking)The Sabbath - Abraham Joshua Heschel: https://a.co/d/0iAPfIXyGod in Search of Man: A Philosophy of Judaism - Abraham Joshua Heschel: https://a.co/d/07VTnR3JTimestamps:00:00 "The Power of Better Questions"03:23 "The Gift of Asking Questions"07:47 "God: The Ultimate Question Asker"11:02 "Havruta: Learning Through Questions"13:47 "Fascinating Questions on Isaac"18:16 "Who Do You Say I Am?"20:36 "Equipping for Monday Mission"23:01 "The Power of Good Questions"27:10 Spiritual and Emotional Maturity Journey32:28 "Questions That Spark Deep Insight33:35 "Deep Questions for Connection"36:57 "Window Washing"

On this episode of theFormed.life, hosts Paul Brandes and Bill Gorman sit down with renowned architect David Greusel, founder of Convergence Design, for a conversation that redefines what it means to be creative, no matter your profession. With over 40 years of experience, from humble beginnings detailing grease factories to designing iconic baseball stadiums like PNC Park in Pittsburgh, David Greusel shares how every act of work—whether sketching with ink or crafting a spreadsheet—mirrors the creative nature of our Creator.Together, they explore how spiritual formation, the biblical mandate to make something more of God’s good world, and the joy of meaningful work can shine through in grand architectural projects and the everyday tasks we tend to overlook. Whether you're crunching numbers, parenting, or shaping city skylines, this episode offers fresh insight into how we can all embrace our role as creators, designed to bring beauty, order, and flourishing to the spaces and places we touch. Get ready to see your own work in a whole new light!3 Main Takeaways:1. Everyone Is Creative and Called to CreateDavid Greusel firmly rejects the idea that only certain people are creative. He points out that creativity is inherent to everyone, whether it's expressed by designing a building, crafting a memo, or putting together a spreadsheet. As humans made in the image of the Creator, we all participate in creativity, regardless of our vocation.2. Our Work is a Spiritual Discipline and Fulfillment of the Cultural MandateThe episode explores how any work or vocation is both a means of spiritual formation and a way to participate in God's ongoing creation. David Greusel discusses how the iterations, frustrations, and disciplines of his profession shape his character, just as spiritual disciplines do. The conversation connects this directly back to the “cultural mandate” from Genesis, highlighting our shared calling to take the world’s raw materials and shape them into something meaningful.3. Design and Place Matter: Loving Our Neighbor Through Our WorkThrough stories from his career (notably designing PNC Park in Pittsburgh), David Greusel illustrates how thoughtful design can help people love their cities and neighbors better. Paying attention to the particularities of place and the needs of others can become a way to serve family and community and reflect God's love in the world.Resources:- The Art of The Spreadsheet: https://comment.org/the-art-of-the-spreadsheet/- Sidewalks in the Kingdom - Eric Jacobsen: https://a.co/d/7YboNIp- From the Garden to the City: The Redeeming and Corrupting Power of - Technology - John Dyer: https://a.co/d/49FkNU7- Grand River Center (Convention Center, Dubuque, Iowa) - David Greusel (Architectural Project): https://www.grandrivercenter.com/- PNC Park (Stadium, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania) - David Greusel (Architectural Project): https://www.mlb.com/pirates/ballpark- Daikin Park [Formerly MinuteMaid Park, (Stadium, Houston, Texas)] - David Greusel (Architectural Project): https://www.mlb.com/astros/ballparkTimestamps:00:00 Faith and Architecture Journey05:40 "Architecture and Spiritual Disciplines"07:07 "Frustrations Shape Architectural Growth"10:13 "Design: Transforming Earth's Resources"14:35 "Bezalel and Oholiab's Calling"19:06 PNC Park: Privacy Meets Beauty23:14 "Buildings That Reflect Their Place"24:41 "Designing Dubuque's Grand River Center"28:06 "Creativity in Everyday Tasks"31:20 Marriage, Comedy, and Career Dreams~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~WEB: https://cckc.church/CONNECT: https://ccefc.ccbchurch.com/goto/forms/1304/responses/newIG: https://www.instagram.com/christcommunitykc/FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/christcommunitykc

In this conversation, hosts Paul Brandes and Bill Gorman are joined by wife, parent, and photographer Allie Coyle to dive into one of the foundational concepts from the Bible: the cultural mandate. Together, they explore what it means to be invited by God into his creation, tasked with being fruitful, multiplying, and cultivating the world around us.Allie shares thoughtful insights on how the cultural mandate extends beyond just having children, touching on work, creativity, and spiritual growth—reminding us that every person, regardless of their season of life, is called to participate as an image bearer of God. The discussion weaves through the joys and challenges of parenting, the beauty of daily faithfulness, and even how a creative vocation, like photography, fits into God’s original calling for humanity.This episode also gets real about facing the hardships brought by the brokenness of the world, offering practical wisdom on finding rest, modeling faith for the next generation, and living intentionally whether you’re at home, at work, or in community. There are personal stories, laughter, and encouragement for embracing the ordinary and extraordinary ways to live out the cultural mandate right where you are.3 Main Takeaways:The Cultural Mandate Is For EveryoneGenesis 1’s "be fruitful and multiply, fill the earth and subdue it" (often called the cultural or creation mandate) is not limited to biological parenthood. It applies broadly to all people, whether single or married, parents or not. Fruitfulness includes both family life and the creative, meaningful work we do in the world as God’s image bearers.Intentional Living and Work as CultivationAllie gives practical examples of intentionally living out the cultural mandate in everyday life, both as a parent and a professional photographer. The heart of the cultural mandate is to faithfully steward and creatively contribute in whatever context God has placed us.Rest and Dependence in a Broken WorldThe conversation acknowledges the realities of Genesis 3—that work and life are often hard and marked by struggle, the importance of honest dependence on God in all areas, and the need for practices of rest to help handle the challenges of life while remaining faithful to the cultural mandate.Resources:The New City Catechism - Tim Keller: https://newcitycatechism.com/The Happiness Project - Gretchen Rubin: https://a.co/d/6pk023cThe Intentional Father - Jon Tyson: https://a.co/d/6pk023cGod's Design for Sex Series - Stan and Brenna Jones: https://a.co/d/htzj2YIHow and When to Tell Your Kids About Sex: A Lifelong Approach to Shaping Your Child's Sexual Character (Parent's Guide): https://a.co/d/1J9rIxKGood Pictures, Bad Pictures: Jr. Christian Edition: https://a.co/d/8GIdD1VPOD 043 | Parenting Insights: Embracing Faith and Family Life with Dan and Mindy Ott: https://youtu.be/2CbfSlx2Qug?si=MK_e48lZofnWngU1Timestamps:00:00 "Understanding the Cultural Mandate"03:29 "Be Fruitful: Make Disciples"06:57 "Faithful Steps for God's Glory"12:29 "Intentional Parenting Through Faith"14:42 "Intentional Milestones for Growth"16:55 "God's Design and Personal Connection"22:01 "Capturing God’s Beauty Within"23:51 "Photographs as Timeless Treasures"29:22 "Let God Lead My Work"31:52 "Parenting, Faith, and Letting Go"35:18 "Prayer as Rebellion Against Darkness"36:59 Dream of Travel Writing

Hosts Bill Gorman and Paul Brandes talk with Dr. Charles Yu, a biblical scholar and pastor, about the rich complexities of Genesis 1. They explore how ancient Israelites would have understood the creation account, emphasizing that the text was written for us, but not to us. Dr. Charles Yu unpacks the historical, cultural, and theological context behind Genesis 1, offering fresh perspectives on perennial questions like the age of the earth, scientific evolution, and the meaning of the "days" of creation.If you’ve ever wrestled with how to reconcile the Bible's creation story with modern science—or  debated young earth versus old earth interpretations—this episode is for you. Dr. Charles Yu discusses how Genesis 1 focuses less on scientific details and more on profound truths: God’s sovereignty, intentional design, and humanity’s identity and purpose. The conversation also addresses how to navigate differing views within the church with humility and grace.3 Main TakeawaysGenesis 1 is About Identity, Not ScienceDr. Charles Yu emphasizes that Genesis 1 was written to help the original audience—the ancient Israelites—understand who their God is and who they are, especially in contrast to the surrounding cultures. Rather than a scientific account of how the world was created, Genesis 1 is more a theological declaration that Israel’s God is the true creator, utterly distinct and superior to other gods. The text’s structure and language were aimed at identity formation, not addressing modern scientific questions.Modern Science and Genesis 1 Aren’t in ConflictThe episode highlights that apparent conflicts between science (e.g., evolution, the age of the earth) and Genesis 1 largely arise because modern readers bring their own questions to the text—questions the original audience wasn’t asking. Dr. Charles Yu encourages readers to focus on the timeless truths Genesis 1 is teaching: God is the creator, creation is intentional and ordered, and humanity is the culmination of God’s creative purpose. Genesis 1 doesn’t address modern scientific theories, so it need not be threatened by them.Charity and Humility in Debating InterpretationThroughout the episode, the hosts and Dr. Charles Yu stress the importance of holding charitable, humble conversations with fellow Christians who may interpret Genesis 1 differently. Multiple faithful readings are possible (e.g., young earth, old earth, framework hypotheses), as long as they recognize God as creator. The episode encourages listeners not to create unnecessary divisions and to support those struggling with faith and science, especially students navigating these questions.Resources:Old Testament Theology for Christians: From Ancient Context to Enduring Belief: https://a.co/d/4z9otRQEvangelical Convictions (EFCA Statement of Faith): https://www.efca.org/sofTimestamps:00:00 "Genesis, Science, and Theology"05:40 "Modern Questions, Ancient Context"08:17 "Genesis and Modern Science Conflict"12:09 Ancient Cosmology and the Firmament14:43 "Timeless Truths from Genesis 1"16:27 "Structured Creation and Divine Planning"22:07 "Week's Origins and Interpretations"24:40 "Interpreting 'Days' in Genesis"29:15 "Primary History's Purpose Explained"33:17 "Young Earth vs. Genesis Interpretation"35:28 "Genesis, Numerology, and Meaning"37:59 "Biblical Numbers: Precision vs. Accuracy"41:04 "Faith, Science, Genesis Explained"45:31 "theFormed.life Podcast Recap"

Poem:Lord,Dine with us,Sit with us,You are welcome here.Stay with us, Speak with us,You are welcome here.Laugh with us,Cry with us,You are welcome here.Pray with us,Think with us,You are welcome here.Be still with us, Your will with us,You are welcome here. ~ Esther Huhn, You Are Welcome Here

Poem: O come, O come, and be our God-with-usO long-sought With-ness for a world without, O secret seed, O hidden spring of light. Come to us Wisdom, come unspoken Name, Come Root, and Key, and King, and holy Flame.O quickened little wick so tightly curled,Be folded with us into time and place,Unfold for us the mystery of graceAnd make a womb of all this wounded world. O heart of heaven beating in the earth, O tiny hope within our hopelessnessCome to be born, to bear us to our birth,To touch a dying world with new-made handsAnd make these rags of time our swaddling bands. ~ Malcolm Guite

Hosts Bill Gorman and Jacob Nannie sat down with Andrew DeKanter, founder of Better Story Ministries and a passionate advocate for connecting young adults to the deeper, richer story of the gospel. The conversation explores what it means to "re-enchant" college students and young adults who are navigating complex cultural narratives–from the pursuit of achievement and romance to the overarching influence of secularism.Andrew DeKanter shares his hands-on work with students at the University of Louisville, his thoughts on revival on campus, and how he helps young people live out the biblical narrative of creation, fall, redemption, and restoration. This episode offers practical wisdom for parents, mentors, and anyone eager to make biblical truth compelling in a world full of competing stories.3 Main TakeawaysEngaging Young Adults with the "Better Story" of the GospelAndrew DeKanter emphasizes that young adults are often living within “lesser stories” offered by our culture (achievement, romance, and consumerism) that don’t fully satisfy. His ministry, Better Story Ministries, seeks to “re-enchant” students by showing how the grand narrative of Scripture (creation, fall, redemption, restoration) offers deeper meaning, purpose, and fulfillment than these cultural scripts.The Power of Relationship and Story in MinistryRelational connection is foundational. Andrew and our hosts stress the importance of being a safe, trustworthy friend who listens well and moves toward others’ pain. It’s through real, ongoing relationships—not just handing out commands or quick answers—that the gospel truly connects to students’ questions about identity, purpose, and suffering. Storytelling—both from Scripture and personal testimony—becomes a bridge between biblical truth and lived experience.Apologetics: From Argument to InvitationThe discussion considers apologetics today as less about simply proving Christianity is true, and more about showing that it is both good and beautiful. Rather than “winning arguments,” it’s about connecting shared longings (love, justice, meaning) back to the biblical narrative, and inviting people into a story that makes the most sense of their desires and pain. This holistic, story-driven approach re-frames apologetics as an act of hope and hospitality.Resources:Telling a Better Story - Josh Chatraw: https://a.co/d/d4rUOBFCultural Apologetics - Paul Gould: https://a.co/d/3wSShEPTimestamps:00:00 "Connecting Gospel to Student Stories"03:39 Campus Revival and Spiritual Awakening09:57 Living with Purpose and Freedom11:57 "Adventure, Suffering, and Hope"14:36 Forming Lives Through Biblical Story20:43 "Work and Purpose Through Faith"21:50 Practical Bible Commands in Story25:43 "Love in Christian Story"30:55 Becoming a Safe Person31:58 "Listening, Learning, and Exposing Scripts"36:34 "Reenchanting Lives with the Gospel"39:07 "The Author Steps Into Story"41:43 College Ministry and Creative Communication

Poem:Lord Jesus,I have nothing to give today,Except you.I have nothing to receive today, Except you.A perfect day. ~ Esther Huhn

On today’s episode, Bill and Paul share some exciting news about an incredible journey Christ Community Church is embarking on in 2026 called “With God.” This isn’t just another sermon series. It's a year-long, church-wide experience that invites everyone, from kids to adults, to engage with the entire story of Scripture from Genesis to Revelation.They discuss how this initiative will weave together weekly sermons, daily reading plans, special events, and new resources, all designed to help individuals and families immerse themselves more deeply in God's word—not just on Sundays, but all throughout the week. Listen in as they reflect on the history and heart behind this vision, share personal hopes for its impact, and offer a glimpse of what’s to come for Christ Community in this pivotal season of spiritual formation.3 Main TakeawaysYear of the Bible in 2026: Christ Community Church is launching a year-long, church-wide focus called "With God" in 2026. It is a journey from Genesis to Revelation. It’s designed to help everyone engage deeply with the whole story of the Bible—not just on Sundays, but in daily life.Integrated Spiritual Formation: This initiative is much more than a sermon series. It involves multiple layers of engagement, including tailored Bible reading plans, the Formed.life spiritual formation resources, events (like the Story of Scripture seminar with Dr. Yarborough), and children’s and student ministry integration. The desire is for intergenerational participation and transformation.Hope for Deep Transformation: Bill and Paul express their excitement and hope that the church community will fall more in love with God's word and be transformed by being "with God" through Scripture. Their vision is for this year to foster unity, spiritual growth, and a deeper commitment to living out biblical truths both individually and as a community, especially in a season of transition for the church.Resources:Story of Scripture Event: https://www.thestoryofscripture.org/event/kansas-city-mo-january-2026theFormed.life: https://theformed.life/With God: cckc.church/withgod/Timestamps:00:00 "Engaging God's Timeless Word"04:28 "Scripture Engagement and Growth"06:29 "With God, Together Transformed"

Poem:O King of our desire whom we despise,King of the nations never on the throne,Unfound foundation, cast-off cornerstone,Rejected joiner, making many one,You have no form or beauty for our eyes,A King who comes to give away his crown,A King within our rags of flesh and bone.We pierce the flesh that pierces our disguise,For we ourselves are found in you alone.Come to us now and find in us your throne,O King within the child within the clay,O hidden King who shapes us in the playOf all creation. Shape us for the dayYour coming Kingdom comes into its own. ~  Malcolm Guite

Scripture:Moses and Aaron and his sons were to camp to the east of the tabernacle, toward the sunrise, in front of the tent of meeting. They were responsible for the care of the sanctuary on behalf of the Israelites. – Numbers 3:38Poem:Struggling to fall asleep,I wrestle with tomorrow.How will the people respond?Will everyone cooperate? Bone-weary from the enormous taskThat will greet me in the morning,I must surrenderTo the need for rest.The rays of the morningSlip under the flaps of the tentTo touch my eyelidsAnd welcome me to the new day.The gentle sway of the curtainBrings in dew-kissed morning air, But my mind already wrestlesWith the burden I must carry.My muscles protestAs I rise to respond. I step through the openingInto the divine greetingOf the Creator’s goodness.I stand in awe of it all– As our God feeds usWith his faithfulness.My feet feel the earth As my face soaks inThe gift of sunlight.The pressure of Today’s responsibilitySets up camp against meAnnouncing its threat to my peace.My God is with me.I will breathe the next breath.I will take one step forward. ~ Esther Huhn, Today’s Responsibility

Hosts Paul Brandes and Jacob Nannie consider the heart of the Advent season by exploring the question: "Where on earth does God live?" Centered around the upcoming Advent teaching series, "The Meaning of the Manger," the discussion journeys from the nativity scene and its connection to God's presence throughout Scripture. The theme of God dwelling with humanity is traced through five key moments in the biblical narrative: the garden of Eden, the building of the temple, the arrival of Jesus, the creation of the church, and finally God’s promise for the future. All these scriptural stories reflect humanity’s longing for connection with God during Advent and the anticipation of Christ’s return.Whether you’re looking for a fresh perspective on the Advent season or want to see how the entire sweep of the Bible speaks to God’s desire to be present with his people, this episode is the perfect place to begin your journey. 3 Main Takeaways:God’s Presence and Dwelling with His PeopleFrom Eden, to the temple, to Jesus’ incarnation in the manger, and continuing with the presence of the Holy Spirit in the church, the biblical story is seen as a journey of God wanting to be intimately present with humanity.Tracing God’s Dwelling Places Throughout ScriptureThe Advent series will journey through the major dwelling places of God. It starts in Eden, moves through the tabernacle and temple, reaches its climax with Christ’s first coming, and culminates in God’s ultimate dwelling with his people at the end of time. Anticipation and Hope in AdventAdvent is a season of waiting and anticipation. It is not just remembering Christ’s first coming, but also looking ahead to his return when God will dwell with his people forever. Timestamps:00:00 "Where Does God Live?"05:12 "Temple Thread from Eden Onward"09:51 "Local Church: Hope of World"10:41 "God's Plan: The Church's Mission"16:38 Unchanging Word in Transition17:43 "Dream Jobs Beyond the Norm"

Hosts Paul Brandes and Bill Gorman sit down with Dr. Mark Yarbrough, president of Dallas Theological Seminary and a passionate advocate for helping people grasp the overarching story of Scripture.If you’ve ever felt lost trying to connect the dots in the Bible or wondered how individual stories fit into the grand narrative, this episode is for you.Dr. Yarbrough shares his personal journey from a small town upbringing to his calling in ministry and education, revealing how his encounters with Scripture transformed his perspective. This conversation considers why understanding the Bible as a continuous, connected story can change how we see God, trust him with our lives, and participate fully in his story.This discussion includes practical steps for reading the Bible more holistically, the importance of big-picture thinking, and the impact of experiences like The Story of Scripture seminar in churches across the country. Whether you’re new to the Bible or a lifelong student, this conversation will help you see yourself as a vital part of God’s unfolding narrative.3 Main Takeaways:1. Understanding the Bible as a Unified Story Deepens Faith:Dr. Yarbrough emphasizes that seeing the Bible as one continuous, interconnected story from Genesis to Revelation can truly transform a person's spiritual life. 2. We Are Participants in God’s Story, Not Just Observers:The power of engaging with Scripture as our shared narrative helps us recognize we are part of God’s unfolding story. Rather than standing back and looking at Bible stories as isolated events, Scripture invites us to participate in God’s mission.3. Methodical and Big-Picture Bible Reading is Essential:Developing Bible reading habits that connect the dots between individual passages and the overarching story, helps us approach Scripture with both the “forest” (the big narrative) and the “trees” (individual stories) point of view. Resources:- https://www.thestoryofscripture.org/event/kansas-city-mo-january-2026Timestamps:00:00 Church Engagement and Spiritual Growth05:21 Bible: More Than Myth Stories07:40 Faithful Parents Living the Gospel10:14 Old Testament's Connection to Jesus15:12 Journey to Dallas Seminary18:06 "Big Picture and Little Picture"20:57 "Bible's Story and Our Mission"24:13 "Teaching the Bible to Youth"28:27 Grace, Mission, and Understanding30:30 "God's Continuous Story Explained"32:57 "Resource Demand in Modern Age"38:13 Yellowstone Fishing Adventure38:49 Alaska's Midnight Milky Way

Welcome to a special episode of theFormed.life podcast, where hosts Paul Brandes and Bill Gorman revisit one of their most compelling conversations with special guest Tom Nelson. In a time marked by political tension, division, and uncertainty, we dive deep into what it means for followers of Jesus to engage faithfully—and fruitfully—in the public square.This episode is packed with essential moments from a previous three-part series exploring the radical teachings of Jesus, especially the call to love and pray for our enemies. Together, our hosts and guest unpack the dynamic and diverse perspectives within Jesus’s own circle of disciples, shedding light on how to navigate differences without division. They discuss the power of being “salt and light” in our communities as described in Matthew 5, the importance of cultivating virtue over simply winning arguments, and the need for the Church to model healthy, respectful dialogue in a polarized culture.You’ll also hear practical wisdom for embracing humility, fostering genuine community, and developing spiritual habits that ground us in God’s love—no matter what the news cycle brings.Whether politics is your favorite topic or one you try to avoid, this conversation will equip and encourage you to engage with grace, conviction, and hope. Let’s lean in together and discover how our faithfully present lives can bless the world around us, even in turbulent times.3 Main Takeaways:Model Respectful Dialogue:This episode challenges the church to set the tone for political conversations—learning from one another, respecting differences, and gaining wisdom without feeling threatened.Embody Faithful Presence: The idea of being “salt and light” means showing up in our communities with genuine humility and influence, but not domination. Cultivate Personal Virtue: The episode emphasizes that who we become matters more than what we do. Spiritual practices, community, and the intentional pursuit of the fruit of the Spirit can transform our approach to civic engagement.Full Episodes:Navigating Politics with Biblical Principles: Dual Citizenship & Faithful Presence - Part 1 | POD 031: https://youtu.be/JhtesHcb6agNavigating Politics: Postures for Public Engagement - Part 2 | POD 032: https://youtu.be/18JjRBO6WBoPractices for Navigating Faith and Politics - Part 3 | POD 033: https://youtu.be/RmpnXFXPwbITimestamps:00:00 Love Your Enemies: Radical Teaching04:11 "Diversity in Christian Community"08:27 "Church Unity Amid Differences"12:42 "Salt, Light, and Incarnation"15:13 "Humility and Gentleness in Leadership"18:08 "Who Are We Becoming?"20:04 "Faith, Virtue, and Growth"24:49 Spiritual Habits and Life Transitions26:27 Perfect Love Overcomes Fear29:46 Captivated by Art's Impact

Introduction:Welcome to this episode of theFormed.life podcast! Hosts Paul Brandes and Bill Gorman dive into a topic that’s reshaping family life across America: youth sports. Once a casual backyard activity, youth sports has transformed into a $40 billion industry filled with high pressure, early specialization, and packed calendars. Drawing on Sarah Zylstra's expert insights and research, our hosts explore both the goodness and the challenges this new landscape brings—not just for kids, but for parents, too.In today’s conversation, you’ll hear thoughtful reflections on why youth sports have become so professionalized, what’s driving parents to invest so much, and how this impacts family rhythms, faith formation, and even finances. From the blessings of leadership and community to the dangers of burnout, misplaced priorities, and accidental idolatry, we’ll unpack what it looks like to navigate these waters as people who want to shape not just future athletes, but well-formed human beings.Whether you’re a sports-loving family, new to parenting, or simply care about how culture forms us, this episode offers wisdom, real stories, and practical questions to help you discern the best path forward. Let’s jump right in!Bio:Sarah Zylstra is a seasoned journalist and Senior Writer at The Gospel Coalition, renowned for her thoughtful, narrative-driven storytelling. She specializes in cutting-edge features that explore how Christianity intersects with contemporary culture, society, and family life. Sarah brings years of reporting experience, having previously served as a writer for Christianity Today, and her work is a vital resource for understanding the major trends impacting churches and communities today.3 Main TakeawaysYouth Sports Have Shifted from Play to IndustryOver the past few decades, youth sports in America have moved from being casual, neighborhood-based play to a highly professionalized, $40 billion industry. This shift is due to a combination of factors: increased affluence, fewer children per family, changes in family routines (e.g. more parents working), safety concerns, and the desire to keep kids off screens and engaged with others. As a result, many families find themselves structuring their entire lives (time, finances, social circles) around their kids’ sports schedules.Formation: Both the Good and the Malforming SidesParticipation in sports can be a beautiful gift, contributing to community, leadership, discipleship, and personal growth. However, youth sports (or any extracurricular activity) is not guaranteed to form good character—it has just as much potential to deform. The podcast challenges listeners to consider if sports have become an idol, taking precedence over faith, family, or holistic well-being. One practical suggestion is a “time and money audit” to see what your true priorities are, and to honestly reflect on whether the activity is still life-giving or has tipped into something unhealthy.Challenging the Scholarship Myth and Rethinking PrioritiesOne of the major pressures families face is the belief that early and intense sports specialization is the path to college scholarships and future opportunities. The facts shared in the episode highlight that the odds of getting a significant athletic scholarship are extremely low (only about 2% of competitive high school athletes play Division 1, and fewer still get substantial scholarships or lucrative NIL deals). The hosts encourage parents to focus on joy, relationship, character development, and wisely choosing family priorities (such as church and real friendships) over chasing an unlikely financial return on their investment in youth sports.Resources:Gospel Bound - Sarah Zylstra & Collin Hansen: https://a.co/d/fZvCMSLTimestamps:00:00 The Benefits and Challenges of Sports06:06 "Balancing Goodness in Youth Sports"06:59 Identifying Sports as an Idol12:51 Youth Sports Specialization Challenges14:09 "Don't Specialize in Sports Early"17:40 "Invest in 529 for College"22:09 "Sports Shape Communities and Youth"24:34 Parental Influence on Child Athletes26:54 Prioritizing Faith in Busy Lives31:29 Navigating Faith and Hard Choices35:22 "Finding Joy in Kids' Sports"36:24 "Time, Priorities, and Reflection"Hashtags:#YouthSports #ChristianParenting #SpiritualFormation #HealthyBoundaries #SportsIdolatry #FamilyLife #CharacterDevelopment #CommunityImpact #AthleticScholarships #theFormedLifePodcast

Introduction:On this episode of theFormed.life podcast, hosts Paul Brandes and Bill Gorman dive into the cultural phenomenon of Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement, exploring why stories of romance and celebrity captivate us all. Joined by special guest Victoria Sawyer—a licensed professional counselor in Kansas City who is newly engaged herself—the conversation ranges from the whirlwind of reactions to Taylor and Travis’ big news, to deeper reflections on our society’s fascination with love, connection, and marriage.Together they unpack what makes certain love stories so compelling, how celebrity relationships shape our expectations, and why the desire for partnership runs so deep. With insights from Victoria’s counseling practice and a look at biblical perspectives on love and repair, the episode blends laughter, personal stories, and thoughtful commentary. Whether you’re a Swiftie, a Chiefs fan, or someone simply curious about why love stories matter, this episode invites you to consider what our attraction to romance reveals about our deepest longings—and how faith intersects with modern relationships.BioVictoria Sawyer, LPC, provides a compassionate and client-centered approach to therapy for individuals and families in the Olathe and Kansas City area. With a strong belief in the power of connection and understanding, Victoria works with clients facing anxiety, depression, life transitions, and relationship challenges. She tailors her approach to meet the unique needs and strengths of each person, creating a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental environment.Victoria is skilled in a range of evidence-based practices, including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness strategies, and trauma-informed care. She is passionate about helping clients of all ages thrive, restore hope, and foster meaningful change in their lives. 3 Main TakeawaysOur Fascination with Celebrity Love Stories Reflects Deeper LongingsThe episode kicks off discussing the engagement of Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce, exploring why public romances captivate so many people. The hosts and guest reflect on how these high-profile relationships tap into universal human desires for love, connection, and celebration. The conversation highlights that our obsession with celebrity couples often points to our own hope for meaningful, lasting relationships.Healthy Relationships Require Intentional Communication and RepairVictoria Sawyer, a licensed professional counselor, shares insights from her practice with couples—emphasizing the importance of communication, feeling seen and heard, and especially the process of repairing after conflict. She points out that, whether it’s in celebrity relationships or our own, real connection comes from being intentional, learning from mistakes, and prioritizing repair over perfection. Approaches like the Gottman Method’s "attunement" are discussed as practical tools.Christian Faith Offers a Distinct Lens on Love and RomanceThroughout the episode, the conversation weaves in biblical perspectives on love, noting that our desire for deep relationships is rooted in being made in the image of a loving God. Victoria discusses how biblical principles—like responding gently in conflict, or the ultimate story of God’s covenant love—can help shape healthier relationships. The hosts also note that human love stories often mirror the larger story of God’s pursuit of relationship with us.Resources https://www.gottman.com/about/the-gottman-method/Timestamps:00:00 Celebrity Engagement: Reactions & Reflections06:29 Supportive Relationship's Public Evolution10:13 Celebrating Marriage's Goodness11:57 "Universal Fascination with Romantic Love"14:33 Enhancing Partner Communication Skills19:03 "Creating Secure Attachments"22:01 Soft Answers, Thoughtful Responses24:13 Integrative Christian Therapy Insights28:42 Desire for Fairy Tale Endings33:20 Pinspiration and Self-Comparison Struggles36:20 Lighthearted Wisdom: Balance and Enjoyment38:12 Hostage Negotiation FascinationHashtags#LoveAndRomance #CelebrityCulture #TaylorAndTravis #ChristianCounseling #ScripturalPerspective #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentTheory #MarriageMatters #HealthyConnections #theFormedLifePodcast

Introduction:Welcome to theFormed.life! In this heartfelt episode, our hosts Nathan Miller and Gabe Coyle are joined by Dela Beebe, Chief Operating Officer at Christ Community, for the final conversation in our special three-part series exploring the lead senior pastor process and position at Christ Community.Drawing from over 15 years of shared history, the trio takes a walk down memory lane, reminiscing about the formative moments that have shaped their friendships, their callings, and the church itself. From humble beginnings in church planting and volunteer days, to the joys and challenges of executive leadership, Nathan, Dela, and Gabe share stories of camaraderie, authenticity, and faithfulness.Together, they reflect on the core values that define Christ Community—especially the commitment to "live before an audience of one" and remain focused on mission rather than chasing trends. As they navigate both mountaintop moments and gut-wrenching challenges, listeners are given a candid glimpse into the deep respect and trust that has developed among these leaders.Tune in for an inspiring conversation about leadership transitions, teamwork, and the hope that anchors them as they step boldly into the church’s future, united in their purpose and love for Jesus. 3 Main Takeaways:Deep Roots and Relationships at Christ CommunityThe conversation reflects on the long-standing relationships between the hosts and guest, highlighting how their shared history at Christ Community has formed a strong foundation of trust, camaraderie, and mutual respect. Their memories reveal a journey of growing together through early campus launches, personal milestones, and professional development.Commitment to Mission Over FadsA major theme is how Christ Community has intentionally avoided chasing church trends or "fads." Instead, they've remained committed to their core mission—living "before an audience of one" (God). This steady focus has allowed the church to respond wisely to new opportunities and challenges, ensuring lasting impact rather than temporary popularity.The Beauty of Unified Leadership and Shared MissionThe team expresses gratitude for a leadership culture where everyone is "rowing in the same direction." Even in challenging seasons, there's a clear sense of unity and commitment to Jesus and the church's mission. The mutual support through both high and low moments is highlighted as a source of hope and encouragement for the future.Timestamps:00:00 Final Podcast on Pastor Role03:26 "Leadership Transition in Church Campuses"07:59 Christ Community's Consistent Mission Focus09:47 "Teamwork's Beauty and Hope"Keywords:Christ Community, lead senior pastor process, executive leadership team, church history, church planting, Olathe campus, staff roles, residency program, campus pastors, Brookside campus, Downtown campus, Shawnee campus, church transitions, leadership team, audience of one, mission-driven church, church fads, church culture, volunteer service, team collaboration, church memory sharing, authentic leadership, church growth, congregation development, church credit card, staff relationships, humility in leadership, leadership challenges, teamwork, church faithfulnessHashtags:#LeadershipTransition #ChurchHistory #FaithfulCommunity #MinistryLife #TeamworkInChrist #AuthenticLeadership #MissionFocused #SharedMemories #ChristianHope #theFormedLifePodcast~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~WEB: https://cckc.church/CONNECT: https://ccefc.ccbchurch.com/goto/forms/1304/responses/newIG: https://www.instagram.com/christcommunitykc/FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/christcommunitykc

Introduction:Welcome to a special edition of theFormed.life podcast! In this episode, host Bill Gorman is joined by longtime colleague Tom Nelson and Gabe Coyle, who is currently the candidate for the next lead senior pastor of Christ Community. This conversation is part of a three-part series exploring the church’s pastoral succession process.Today, we take a deep dive into Gabe’s personal journey—starting with his upbringing in a loving, church-engaged family, his early calling to pastoral ministry, and the pivotal moments that shaped his passion to serve God's purposes. Gabe shares stories from his formative years, including what it was like growing up in a single-parent household, discovering his gifts in teaching and leading, and the key mentors who encouraged him along the way. Bill and Tom recall their earliest experiences of working with Gabe, highlighting both his character and the quirky stories—like Tom shedding blood to help Gabe move a couch!We also get a glimpse into Gabe’s family life, his marriage to Allie (involving quite the church gardener-meets-secretary love story), and life with their three vibrant children in Kansas City’s Longfellow neighborhood. Plus, there’s a revisit of the legendary couch—a symbol of lasting friendships and community.Whether you’re a member of Christ Community or curious about the heart behind pastoral leadership transitions, this episode offers warmth, authenticity, and plenty of laughter along the way. Join us as we get to know Gabe Coyle, his story, and the vision he brings for the future. 3 Main Takeaways:- Gabe Coyle’s Journey to Pastoral MinistryGabe shares his personal story of growing up in a loving but challenging single-parent home, his early engagement with church, and how the love and support he received from his church community was instrumental in his faith journey. Encouraged by pastors and mentors, he sensed a calling to pastoral ministry during his high school years, particularly through experiences in leadership roles and teaching God’s word.- The Power of Mentorship and CommunityBoth Gabe and Tom highlight the significant impact that mentors and community have had in forming their faith and leadership. Gabe speaks specifically about pastors who made time for him despite busy schedules and saw potential in him, shaping his calling and development. The story reinforces the importance of being seen, supported, and called into deeper service by others in the faith community.- Embracing the Whole Mission of GodGabe discusses how a shift in understanding the integration of faith and work (especially after hearing Tom Nelson speak) changed his perspective. He realized that work isn’t just a means of evangelism or supporting the “real” ministry, but a vital part of God’s mission. This perspective influenced his decision to join Christ Community and participate in their residency program, seeing it as a missing piece in his ministry formation.Timestamps:00:00 "Exploring Pastoral Succession Process"05:14 High School Chaplaincy Experience09:58 Church Campus Romance Begins12:57 Couch Pickup IncidentKeywords:pastoral succession, Christ Community Church, Gabe Coyle, Bill Gorman, Tom Nelson, pastoral residency, church leadership, elder chairman, executive leadership team, calling to ministry, vocational calling, church community, faith and work, pastoral mentorship, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, Cedarville University, church upbringing, single parent family, church support, youth ministry, worship leader, chaplain experience, sermon teaching, mentorship, family life, Longfellow neighborhood, community involvement, Kansas City, church culture, church staff relationships, career discernmentHashtags:#PastoralSuccession #ChurchLeadership #CallingToMinistry #ChristianCommunity #FaithJourney #MentorshipMatters #FamilyFaith #SpiritualFormation #GospelLegacy #theFormedLifePodcast~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~WEB: https://cckc.church/CONNECT: https://ccefc.ccbchurch.com/goto/forms/1304/responses/newIG: https://www.instagram.com/christcommunitykc/FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/christcommunitykc

Introduction:Welcome to a special edition of theFormed.life podcast from Christ Community! In this episode, host Paul Brandes sits down with Tom Nelson, the founding and current lead senior pastor, and Kevin Rockman, current elder chair and chair of the succession task force, for an honest and insightful conversation about the church’s upcoming leadership transition.With over 37 years of dedicated service, Tom shares how intentional succession planning has always been part of the church’s DNA—from developing a mission-centered leadership culture to launching a pastoral residency program designed to train both internal and external leaders. Kevin takes us behind the scenes of the recent, focused succession process, explaining how the task force was formed, how they considered both internal and external candidates, and why they ultimately felt confident in recommending Gabe as the next lead senior pastor.You’ll hear about the values and thoughtfulness guiding every step—from bylaws refreshment to financial health and doctrinal integrity—ensuring the church continues forward grounded in its core mission. Join us as we explore the heart, history, and hope steering Christ Community into its next chapter, and get an insider’s look at the team, process, and vision shaping the future of leadership within the church. 3 Main Takeaways:Intentional, Long-Term Succession PlanningSuccession has been a deliberate part of Christ Community’s leadership culture for many years. Tom Nelson, the founding and current lead senior pastor, emphasized that from the beginning, the church has focused on building leaders and preparing for future transitions. The pastoral residency program was highlighted as a key piece of this strategy—developing a pipeline not only for Christ Community, but for the broader church landscape.Thorough and Prayerful ProcessThe succession process was described as thorough, thoughtful, and deeply prayerful. Kevin Rockman, elder chair and head of the succession task force, shared details about assembling a diverse team, consulting internal and external advisors, and considering both internal and external candidates. Key organizational updates, including bylaws and financial health, were made to ensure a stable foundation for the transition. Ultimately, after much discernment and input, the task force and elders unanimously recommended Gabe as the next lead senior pastor.Confidence in Leadership Continuity and the Next GenerationAll speakers expressed deep gratitude and confidence in the continuity of leadership. The selection of Gabe Cole—who embodies the church’s DNA, mission, and vision—was enthusiastically affirmed. There was a strong sense of excitement for the future, both for Gabe’s unique gifts (such as his commitment to spiritual formation and leadership development) and the broader senior team. The episode ends with hopeful anticipation for what God will do through the next generation of leaders.Timestamps:00:00 Pastoral Succession Series Launch05:56 Leadership Transition Reflection08:59 Elder Team Succession Planning12:32 Multi-Site Church Leadership Search15:00 2025 Succession Plan Announcement17:40 Teamwork Over Individual Roles21:54 "Leadership Transition in Faith Community"24:12 "Succession and Leadership Continuity"Keywords:lead pastor succession, church leadership transition, Christ Community Church, pastoral residency program, elder board, succession planning, leadership development, organizational integrity, mission statement, church bylaws, financial sustainability, debt free church, EFCA (Evangelical Free Church of America), church doctrine, position papers, gender and church leadership, sexuality and marriage, leadership culture, biblical leadership, team leadership, internal candidates, external candidates, multi-site church, campus pastors, executive leadership team, Gabe Cole, leadership selection process, spiritual formation, staff continuity, future leadership visionHashtags:#LeadershipTransition #ChurchSuccession #SpiritualFormation #ChristCommunityChurch #GospelLeadership #TeamMinistry #BiblicalIntegrity #PastoralResidency #FaithfulStewardship #theFormedLifePodcast~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~WEB: https://cckc.church/CONNECT: https://ccefc.ccbchurch.com/goto/forms/1304/responses/newIG: https://www.instagram.com/christcommunitykc/FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/christcommunitykc

Introduction:Welcome to theFormed.life podcast! In this special episode, we share a significant announcement in the life of Christ Community Church. After 37 years of faithful service, founding pastor Tom Nelson is preparing to pass the baton to a new generation of leadership. Joined by Andy Root and Gabe Coyle, the episode celebrates Gabe’s unanimous recommendation by the Elder Board to become the next lead senior pastor. With reflections on the church’s legacy, the importance of spiritual formation, and a vision for building deeper people—not just a bigger church—this conversation invites you into a pivotal moment of transition and hope for the future. Whether you’ve been part of Christ Community for years or are just tuning in, you’ll hear firsthand from those at the heart of this inspiring next chapter. 3 Main Takeaways:Leadership Transition Announcement: Tom Nelson, the founding pastor, announces that he will be passing the baton to a new generation of leadership at Christ Community Church. After 37 years of dedicated service, he shares the news that the Elder Board has unanimously recommended Gabe Coyle to be the next lead senior pastor.Strong Endorsement for Gabe Coyle: Both Tom Nelson and Andy Root express their excitement about Gabe Coyle stepping into this new role. Gabe has been part of the church for over a decade and already serves at the downtown campus, giving him deep familiarity with the church’s mission and culture. The continuity provided by his leadership, along with the senior team and campus pastors, is highlighted as key for the church's ongoing mission.Focus on Spiritual Formation: There’s a strong emphasis that the role of lead senior pastor at Christ Community is about much more than growing the size of the church; it’s about nurturing spiritual depth and formation—building “deeper people.” Tom Nelson specifically underscores that a pastor's primary calling is to be a “gardener of the soul,” shaping the spiritual health of both the congregation and themselves.Overall, this episode marks an exciting and hopeful transition period for the church, centered on faithfulness, legacy, and a renewed commitment to its core mission.Resources mentioned in this episode:A Long Obedience in the Same Direction - Eugene PetersonKeywords:Christ Community Church, Kansas City, pastoral transition, lead senior pastor, Gabe Coyle, Tom Nelson, Elder Board, succession, church leadership, spiritual formation, church mission, continuity, campus pastors, downtown campus, church family, legacy, stewardship, Christian leadership, values, mission, sound doctrine, long obedience, Eugene Peterson, spiritual growth, deeper people, church team, prayerful work, church era, voting, transition date, new generationHashtags:#LeadershipTransition #SpiritualFormation #ChurchLegacy #FaithfulLeadership #GabeCoyle #TomNelson #ChurchFamily #ChristCommunity #PastoralSuccession #theFormedLifePodcast~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~WEB: https://cckc.church/CONNECT: https://ccefc.ccbchurch.com/goto/forms/1304/responses/newIG: https://www.instagram.com/christcommunitykc/FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/christcommunitykc