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Them-Us

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Them-Us.com is a hub of information, tools and entertainment for relationships. Our goal is to start a real dialog about relationships with men and women that goes deeper than surface topics. Them-Us.com is an immersive experience of informative, sometimes funny but always entertaining content that helps you maintain and build healthy relationships. Real relationship talk like you never heard.

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  1. #themustalk 2 Part 1

    Part 1 Sometimes people stay in the relationship they don’t like because they think the person will change.

  2. #themustalk 2 Part 2

    Part 2 After a while we realize we can’t deal with these issues, that’s when we say something like “you have 3 months or its over”

  3. #themustalk 2 Part 3

    Part 3 In todays society does the man have to make more money than the woman?

  4. #themustalk 2 Part 4

    Part 4 When it comes to how we view men and women in relationships there are a plethora of double standards.

  5. #themustalk 2 Part 5

    Part 5 Just because someone is comfortable with their bodies and sexuality should they be labeled a freak?

  6. #themustalk 2 Part 6

    Part 6 As a kid getting to 3rd base was an accomplishment do we use that terminology today?

  7. #themustalk 2 Part 7

    Part 7 This question has been raised for years and believe it or not some people still believe its important.

  8. Why can't I leave? Part 1

    Part 1Many people stay in a relationship because they think they can change the person.

  9. Why can't I leave? Part 2

    Part 2 When your with someone over a period of time even when its bad, people stay because of the time they have invested in the relationship.

  10. Why can't I leave? Part 7

    Part 7 Family will often tell you someone is not right and there are times when we get mad at them for telling the truth we refuse to see.

  11. Why can't I leave? Part 6

    Part 6 This reason bothers me the most "but I really love them and we are in love" Really? Love does not hurt every day.

  12. Why can't I leave? Part 5

    Part 5 For some crazy reason they don’t like the person or the relationship but think they can’t find anyone better.

  13. Why can't I leave? Part 3

    Part 3 We hear this all the time, the relationship is a disaster but they stay for the kids.

  14. Why can't I leave? Part 4

    Part 4 Some people just don’t want to be alone or start the process of getting to know someone new.

  15. Do you want a good man? Part 1

    Part 1 What are the qualities and characteristics that make a good man?

  16. Do you want a good man? Part 2

    Part 2 As we age what we think are good qualities may mean something else later in life.

  17. Do you want a good man? Part 3

    Part 3 You say you should be friends first so why don’t more friendships become relationships?

  18. Do you want a good man? Part 4

    Part 4 You said you wanted a good man so why do you stay with the one that treats you like crap?

  19. Do you want a good man? Part 5

    Part 5 You say you want respect but you don’t demand it.

  20. Do you want a good man? Part 6

    Part 6 Sometimes to much of a good thing can be bad.

  21. Twitter wrap up1 Part 1

    Part 1 Is it important to fulfill all of your sexual fantasies? Do you do everything your partner wants to do?

  22. Twitter wrap up1 Part 2

    Part 2 Dealing with the dynamic of dating with kids or dating someone with kids.

  23. Twitter wrap up1 Part 3

    Part 3 Touchy subject men that are usually in a relationship but have sex with other men but don’t consider themselves gay.

  24. Twitter wrap up1 Part 4

    Part 4 When is it ok or is it ever ok to schedule sex?

  25. Twitter wrap up1 Part 5

    Part 5 What kind of kissing sets you on fire or makes you want to run?

  26. Defining love, loving two people at the same time Part 6

    Part 6 So at the end of the is it really love that is felt for both people?

  27. Defining love, loving two people at the same time Part 5

    Part 5 Are we searching for what’s missing and calling it love when we find it

  28. Defining love, loving two people at the same time Part 4

    Part 4 With what you know why do you think your in love with two people?

  29. Defining love, loving two people at the same time Part 3

    Part 3 There are three methods someone is going to come into you life while your with someone else.

  30. Defining love, loving two people at the same time Part 2

    Part 2 While everyone is different and there are different circumstances we discuss time frames for falling in love.

  31. Defining love, loving two people at the same time Part 1

    Part 1 Define love? A simple question with a very complex and different answer for each person.

  32. Fighting, apologizing and forgiving Part 1

    Part 1 The combining of two lives can lead to amazing happiness, disagreements, apologizes and forgiveness. We discuss the reasons that life causes us to fight.

  33. Fighting, apologizing and forgiving Part 2

    Part 2 How you fight makes a big difference in how you make up. Sometime its not what you say its how you say it.

  34. Fighting, apologizing and forgiving Part 3

    Part 3 We all want comfort when we are hurt or something is bothering us but is involving family the right move in a relationship fight?

  35. Fighting, apologizing and forgiving Part 4

    Part 4 Somehow you have to find a way to calm down before the fight escalates to something worse.

  36. Fighting, apologizing and forgiving Part 5

    Part 5 At some point when the smoke clears we have to find a way to apologize.

  37. Fighting, apologizing and forgiving Part 6

    Part 6 When your hurt and upset how do find the courage to forgive and what does that mean?

  38. Fighting, apologizing and forgiving Part 7

    Part 7 Being a complete person before a relationship can often make fights easier.

  39. Things men like about women Part 1

    Part 1 We talk about the details of looks and what this particular groups looks for and what they don’t want.

  40. Things men like about women Part 2

    Part 2 How important is a woman's background and the things she may have done in the past.

  41. Things men like about women Part 3

    Part 3 What type of attitude or swagger if you will do you look for in your woman?

  42. Things men like about women Part 4

    Part 4 This is almost a show in it’s self but I try to get the guys to discuss how they feel about have sex on the first date.

  43. Things men like about women Part 5

    Part 5 Some are not willing to go as far as sex on a first date, but for some reason oral is ok.

  44. Things men like about women Part 6

    Part 6 I asked this group of men what type of ethnicities do they like and how important is a woman’s career.

  45. Things men like about women Part 7

    Part 7 How important is a woman’s family to you? How do you navigate the red flags that come up in meeting a new person?

  46. Things men like about women Part 8

    Part 8 The guys talk about a woman’s past sexual partners and how it impacts them moving forward.

  47. Does sex change the relationship Part 1

    Part 1 What does sex mean to you in the relationship and how long are you willing to wait to get it?

  48. Does sex change the relationship Part 2

    Part 2 When you have sex are sexual bonds formed, we look at the phycological and the chemical effects.

  49. Does sex change the relationship Part 3

    Part 3 Do our opinions of sex change when its with someone we’ve known for a while vs someone new?

  50. Does sex change the relationship Part 4

    Part 4 After having sex for the first time how do you feel what’s going through your head?

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Them-Us.com is a hub of information, tools and entertainment for relationships. Our goal is to start a real dialog about relationships with men and women that goes deeper than surface topics. Them-Us.com is an immersive experience of informative, sometimes funny but always entertaining content that helps you maintain and build healthy relationships. Real relationship talk like you never heard.

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