This Is Where We Are

My mom and I share stories about our experiences working with both good and bad managers. Drawing from her career as a pharmacist in large and small organizations and my experiences in corporate America, we explore the art of managing up. It's a candid conversation about workplace dynamics, adaptability, and keeping your sanity while getting the job done.Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience of Ohio-native mosquitoes and crickets

Are we building real relationships, or just trading content back and forth and calling it connection?In this episode, we question the way we consume and share information in a world flooded with content. So much of what we see and learn comes from people who haven’t fully lived it yet, and an entire generation is being shaped by that.This episode is a reminder to keep the “wise woman” alive, to value depth over noise, and real perspective over recycled ideas.And maybe, just maybe, we’re not as far gone as it feels… because until sports are played by robots, there’s still something real left.Inspired by a post from @varun760 on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/DV2czamEppZ/Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who sent us a fax during recording

After a two month break, we’re back, and there was a lot to catch up on.In this episode, my mom and I talk about how there really is no “safe” path anymore. Staying in a job you hate isn’t security, but leaving doesn’t come with guarantees either. With more tools, technology, and access than ever before, build something that feeds energy back to you and create something you want to see in the world. Now is the time. Inspiration for this video from @brown19170 on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVxG0QNjxTY/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who sent us a fax during recording

Description: “In a world obsessed with speed and AI-ing everything, we take a look at a popular 2026 counter-culture trend to add friction back into our lives, and why resisting convenience might be the most human thing we can do to keep us alive!Inspired by two posts: @nymag on Instagram: "In 2026, we are Friction-Maxxing" and @audieoffmic "Does making everything easier actually make it better? " Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who did not attend tonight's live show

My mom brought to my attention that she has never heard of "weaponized incompetence," even though she has probably experienced it every day. In this episode, we share examples and give our take on this psych-culture phrase that has us all wondering if it's even worth getting up in the morning. Inspired by an email from Michelle RedfernProduced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who did not attend due to a more important lacrosse practice

A simple poem about bagged salad unexpectedly opens the door to a conversation about our impending doom as a human species. We bounce between everyday convenience and the looming sense of apocalypse, then back again, searching for joy in the mundane. This episode invites you to reflect on how you’re spending your time and what kind of world you want to help shape in the coming year.Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who was in the middle of a very loud Zoom that can probably be heard in the background

Do you know the history behind the word "gossip"? Neither did we until we saw @thekindredsnohomish's Instagram post, which made us deep-dive into what it REALLY means and how it has been used to keep women from confiding in one another. Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who had a long day and took a nap during the show

In this episode, we tackle the infamous and often over-discussed topic of anxiety, but with an angle that might surprise you. From situational to chronic anxiety, we explore it all and uncover how it connects to alcohol and the ways it shapes how we engage with others.Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who has probbaly never used the word "anxiety" before

In this episode, we talk about the quiet, subliminal messages we tell ourselves about what we wear, and how challenging them can change the way we see ourselves. What "Flatterning" really means. Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience whose participation was edited out.

Nothing says "This is where we are" like Tylenol right now. Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who participated without even realizing

In this episode, my mom and I talk about the days of watching live TV as a family and how much content has increased in volume so quickly. And yet, we still need to, and want to, produce more media, like this podcast.This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who was watching TV, alone

In this episode, my mom and I talk about how jean sizes mess with the way we see ourselves and how perceptions of “healthy” and “skinny” have shifted across generations. I also share a personal story about trying to lose five pounds for a wedding…and how it completely backfired.This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience, in charge of lighting

We are back with something light, like a light roast coffee, to get you through the middle of the workday. This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who had to take a more important meeting.

I hated this episode until I got to re-listen to it while editing, and then I loved it. I hope you do too. This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who called midway through.

In this episode, my mom and I use the month of May as an opportunity to rethink what it really means to show up for friends and family. There’s so much pressure to express support through expensive gifts, or just cold hard cash, but what about the smaller, more meaningful ways to be there for each other?We share fresh ideas for showing up that don’t revolve around spending money, and explore how simple acts of support are more important than ever in our increasingly disconnected culture. Because who doesn’t need a little love while running a half marathon in the middle of winter?!This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who interrupted halfway through

My mom and I couldn't help but take you along on a rant we had about the giving and receiving of feedback in our culture. We don't actually put value on it, but expect it everywhere, all the time. Although we offer wise words, we don't expect your feedback, but we appreciate it if you feel compelled to share with us. Thank you for listening.This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio who is coaching a playoff game so left early

Jaynanne thinks it’s just about going outside to be with nature and Mary thinks it’s about taking the time to take care of something. What do you think? This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio who left right before we got going! How dare he

I work, therefore I am—quite the contradiction, right? In this episode, we dive into the latest trend: lazy girl jobs, inspired by @antiworkgirlboss on Instagram. This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience, who is actually just one person who happens to be my dad & lacrosse coach & in the swing of the spring season, so he could not make it

In this episode, my mom and I bring it back to one of our favorite topics—clothes! We dive into how work attire has evolved over the decades (and even in just the last few years) and what your outfit says about you. This episode was recorded after a workday where I, for once, wore sweatpants. Was I cranky because of the sweatpants, or just because? You can decide. Thanks for listening! - JaynanneThis Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who is actually just one person who happens to be my dad & lacrosse coach & in the swing of the spring season, so he could not make it

I’m not going to lie—this episode is all over the place. But no matter where we go, we keep coming back to one thing: how much we’re missing real connection and community. And honestly? Hyper-consumerism is making it worse. So, how do we fix it? This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a UPS driver as our studio audience

The most shocking episode to date. So shocking I forgot to add our beautiful theme song. This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a "there in spirit" live studio audience

In this episode, my mom and I dive into all things clothes and how we have way too much of it. I’m guilty of having bins and bins and my mom has found a way to turn every room into a closet. We discuss how media and art constantly highlight our overconsumption of clothes, yet the industry keeps selling and we keep buying. Even Grandma chimes in (via text), reminiscing about how they only bought clothes for the kids’ church outfits.This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who decided not to show up

In this episode, my mom and I talk about the importance of kindness to others. Simple acts of kindness can feel lost in the noise of negativity that floods our minds through the media. But showing kindness—even on the days when we struggle to give that same grace to ourselves—is underrated, and we’re here to bring it back. This Is Where We Are:Produced by Silver Bullet MediaCreated by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary SheehanSong by Ariel McClearyRecorded in front of a live studio audience who was especially quiet today. Maybe showing off his act of kindness to us.

After a much-needed break, my mom and I are back—and, honestly, we're a little angry about it. Just kidding! But we are diving into the emotion of anger, what it brings up for us, and why this time of year is actually a great time to reflect on it. Give it a listen for some laughs (spoiler: I get angry with mom). This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience who just wants to get the kitchen cleaned

In this frantic episode, my mom and I review the most popular podcasts and discuss how they have influenced our pop culture and political climate. This is unedited, with some hiccups and arguments, but I wanted to try an experiment with our listeners—that's you! This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a helpful live studio audience

In this episode, my mom and I discuss career advice our friends and family have received and why it was the best for them in that moment. We also share the best advice we have received and how it's shaped our professional lives. We appreciate and love the participation from our listeners, your feedback made this episode a great one! This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience of one

In this episode, my mom and I dive into the phenomenon of quiet quitting, affecting 50% of the workforce today. We explore the reasons behind this trend and discuss our listeners’ experiences—whether they’re quietly quitting themselves or experiencing it from other's around them. Resources: What is quiet quitting How many people are affected How do we fix it Our not-so-favorite take on it This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded with only one mic so we could tip-tap on our laptop which had the very important and extensive show notes.

We kick off Season 2 with a review of each other's favorite childhood TV shows and how they’ve shaped us and childhood entertainment culture. With the start of a brand-new season, coinciding with the spiritual new year, we’ll also be incorporating listener submissions based on our topics. Next episode: Quiet Quitting. Have you or anyone you know quietly quit? How did it impact you? This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a very engaged and participative studio audience

In this episode, my mom and I dive into the first two weeks of our 90-day no-shopping challenge. Let’s just say one of us is already shopping... This bet has prompted us to reflect on past challenges we’ve tackled—both together and individually—as we confront our bad habits and explore what’s really going on beneath the surface. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in our new studio space without a live audience, for now

In this episode, my mom and I discover how industries are creatively merging concepts to capture our attention and create new niches for all generations. We’ll share insights, laugh over unexpected combinations, and discuss what it all means in the world of marketing. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience, for real this time

In this episode, my mom and I guess brand slogans from the 80s to the 2020s and laugh about the nostalgia, creativity, and ridiculousness. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience

In this episode, my mom and I discuss the financial reality of being part of weddings nowadays and how they feel like a deviation from what celebrating is all about. So find that fancy felt tip pen from high school and string up a poem for your next gift. You'll go viral. A video from my girl Chelsea Fagan from the Finacial Diet inspired this episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1urUaxhtbj8 This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a very quiet live studio audience

In this episode, my mom and I talk about all things technology across generations and how it’s become so complicated and frustrating for older folks to just turn on their TV. Stay tuned for the end where I explain Microsoft 365 to my mom because this is where we are. A video from @lox.smith_ on Instagram inspired this episode. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience

In this episode, my mom and I laugh about The Four Seasons Baby and all the memes that stemmed from it. Although silly, social media memes are a form of artwork that helps us connect using creativity and humor; maybe one of the only good things that has come from social media. The hilarious baby video from @sobrizzle on TikTok inspired this. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience

In this episode, my mom and I discuss an interesting trend Generation Z is claiming they invented. This was inspired by a very funny video from @genxginabobina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/C5o3jF3OAGI/⁠ This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience of one

In this episode, my mom and I go from frantic to calm talking about the importance of being present. It's so easy to skip steps into the future and ruminate on the past. Join us in the present moment listening to this special episode recorded while on a trip in Florida. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in a hotel room in Florida

In this episode, my mom and I laugh about all the life hacks circulating on social media today and what happens when you get inundated with advice that doesn't apply to you. This was inspired by a video from @hayderz on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/C5To4KjO316/ This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a very lively studio audience

In this episode, I quiz my mom on some fun common-day slang terms to see what she knows like “boujie,” “snatched,” and “hits different”. She recalls “spazz” as one she used to say all the time and conveniently forgets that she used to call me that. Not "salty" or anything ;)  This was inspired by a video from @samuelsleeves on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/C35q5inPdPJ/ This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience

In this episode, my mom and I talk about our experiences receiving good customer service at hotels, restaurants, retail shops, and drive-through windows. It's not just about a good sandwich, we are buying kindness! This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience of background noises from a hotel restaurant in Downtown Chicago.

In this episode, my mom and I were a little under the weather but something special came out of recording even when we didn't feel like it. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience who does not follow "On Air" sign rules.

In this episode, I share all my insecure internal thoughts and feelings after receiving a promotion at work. My mom and I get into why this is sometimes referred to as "Imposter Syndrome" and what you can do to get over it. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a very participative live studio audience

In this episode, my mom and I discuss the fitness lifestyle and how it’s presented on social media as an exclusive club that’s expensive and something that needs to take over your whole wardrobe and way of living. We talk CrossFit, Aerobics, and matching sets. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a very participative live studio audience

In this episode, I share all the wonderful (or not-so-wonderful) things my generation is told our twenties are supposed to be about and how that compares to my mom’s generation. We started out making fun of the list but then ended with an appreciation for what all generations make of their twenties and how doing what you want is the most important. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience that is neglecting to show up

#15 - In this episode, my mom and I talk about color, style, and fit for feeling confident in our clothes. We want nothing but a presentable, well-styled, working woman out there presenting trust, respect, and confidence. Even if it's working remotely or in a pharmacy where no one sees you. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience that is neglecting to show up

#14 - Or even anyone for that matter. In this episode, my mom and I dive deep into the current 80s trend making its way into 2024 as a "Mob Wife Aesthetic." We talk about what it means to follow trends and what your clothes say about you. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience

#13 - In this episode, my mom and I discuss the latest "preventative Botox " surgeries that are taking the twenty-somethings by storm. We talk what it means to truly be youthful and why fixating on our appearances can leave us missing out on what's really important. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience

#12 - By popular demand, my mom and I revisit today's "Thank You" culture. We talk about bosses who think a paycheck is enough and why just that small, simple interaction can make a big difference. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience

#11 - In this episode, my mom and I talk about why entitled gen z’ers don’t say thank you and it’s not for the reasons you might think. This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience

#10 - In this episode, my mom and I discuss the overly dramatized "treat yourself for leaving the house" culture and how it might be diminishing the joy you actually get from accomplishing said "hard task." This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience

#9 - In this episode, my mom and I talk about New Year's words instead of resolutions and why she dances out the door whenever she leaves the house. I mean, why not? This Is Where We Are: Produced by Silver Bullet Media Created by Jaynanne Sheehan and Mary Sheehan Song by Ariel McCleary Recorded in front of a live studio audience