This Voice is Mine: the Unquiet Podcast

Jolene Ironside, DL team member, integrative counsellor, ADHD coach and holistic therapist, joins Dr Emma Offord for a conversation about the body's own language, and why so many neurodivergent people were taught to stop listening to it.Jolene explains how children learn to override exhaustion, sensory overwhelm and physical discomfort just to keep pace with environments that were never built for them, and what that disconnection costs later in life: anxiety, hypervigilance, and a nervous system stuck in survival mode. Together, Emma and Jolene explore what changes when we come back into the body, including a beautiful centring practice Jolene calls finding your "soft front, strong back."This is a gentle, grounded episode for anyone who has spent years living entirely in their head, and is ready to come home to the body instead.Follow Jolene: @heart_in_mind_uk — https://www.instagram.com/heart_in_mind_uk/This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast. For every neurodivergent mind that was masked, misread, or missed.

In this honest, funny and deeply human conversation, Dr Tuesday Watts-Overall, psychologist and mother of three, joins Dr Emma Offord to talk about the truth of modern motherhood: the fear, the perfectionism, and the shame around feelings we were never taught to name.Tuesday shares how she left an academic career built on perfectionism behind when motherhood made it impossible to keep performing, and how a single moment on her own driveway became the turning point that changed everything. Together, Emma and Tuesday explore the myth of the easy child, the fear of becoming your child's inner critic, sensory overwhelm, and why connection, not solutions, is what mothers are really looking for.A grounding, validating listen for every mother figuring out who she is underneath the performance.Follow Dr Tuesday on her Instagram account https://www.instagram.com/iamdrtuesday/

Ruby describes herself first and foremost as the little sister of her big brother Ewan, who is profoundly autistic, non-speaking, and has a severe learning disability. In this episode of *This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast*, Ruby joins Dr Emma Offord to talk about a devotion that has shaped her whole life, and a system that has repeatedly let her family down.Ruby shares what it meant to lose her closest companion to residential school at seven, to learn to be let down, and to live inside a hypervigilance that never really switches off. She speaks with rare honesty about the 454 days Ewan spent in a psychiatric hospital, the fight to bring him home, and finding her own identity beyond being his shadow.This is a conversation about love that carries fear, and fear that never once looks like resentment. A story for anyone who has ever had to hold two things true at once.Follow Ruby on [her Instagram account here](https://www.instagram.com/ewenandme/).Find out more at divergentlife.co.uk. This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast.

James Hunt, founder of the Stories About Autism community and SAA Clothing, and author of Love Needs No Words, joins Dr Emma Offord for a tender conversation about fatherhood, communication and connection. James is dad to Jude, 18, and Tommy, 15, both autistic, non-speaking and living with global developmental delay. He shares how one Facebook post grew into a community of hundreds of thousands, and how his family have found ways to communicate without spoken words, from eyes and body language to AAC devices and, more recently, nightly text messages with Tommy. Together, James and Emma talk about Jude turning 18, the fear and hope of watching him grow more independent, living with the uncertainty of Tommy's tics, and the small sensory rituals that keep James grounded. Honest, warm and full of heart.Follow James on Instagram @storiesaboutautism.Find out more at divergentlife.co.uk.This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast.

In this episode of This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast, Dr Emma Offord sits down with DL Clinical Psychologist Ashlyn Firkins, an HCPC registered assessor with over a decade of experience across NHS and private practice. Ashlyn was diagnosed dyslexic in childhood, an experience that shaped how she sees the world and, later, how she came to understand her son Ted, diagnosed autistic at three. She talks candidly about being a late bloomer, holding two sides of herself (the perfectionist and the playful, spontaneous one), and the long, uncertain wait for a diagnosis. She shares what changed when she stopped searching for answers in a textbook and started following Ted's lead instead, and the values-led practices that help her show up for him on the hardest days. This is a moving, honest conversation about resilience, grief and learning to truly see your child.Follow Ashlyn: @an.autism.care.spaceListen and follow: divergentlife.co.ukThis Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast.

Rachel Clark was seventeen when she wrote her debut book, How to Save Your Own Life. In this episode of This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast, Rachel talks to Dr Emma Offord about growing up as an undiagnosed autistic girl, the years she spent internalising difference as personal failure, and the eating disorder that became the only way she felt she could be heard. Rachel speaks openly about situational mutism, about a treatment system that wasn't built for her brain, and about the nurse who gave her hope when nothing else could. She shares how a late autism identification became a turning point rather than a complication, and why she now believes there is no such thing as too complex, only someone who hasn't yet been properly understood. A conversation about survival, identity and the hope that makes recovery possible.Follow Rachel on Instagram @rachelc1ark This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast, from Divergent Lives.

In this episode of This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast, Dr Emma Offord talks with Linsey Biggs, full-time parent carer to three and the voice behind Unschooling Stanley, about the years that led her to take her eldest son out of school entirely.Linsey describes watching her son's distress build until it became impossible to ignore, and the moment she finally trusted what he was telling her over what the school system kept insisting. She talks about recognising her own ADHD and school trauma through his journey, the judgement that came with choosing a different path, and what eight years of unschooling has taught her about trusting children as whole people, not projects to manage.A raw, grounded conversation about crisis, recovery, and what becomes possible when you stop pushing a child to fit a system that was never built for them.Follow Linsey: @unschoolingstanley (https://www.instagram.com/unschoolingstanley/)Divergent Lives: divergentlife.co.ukThis Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast

Dr Helen Wall spent years quietly noticing something no one had trained her to see: that hormones shape the brain, and for neurodivergent women, that shift can be seismic. Her own perimenopause took her ability to function before it touched anything else. She was told she was too young. She believed it, for six months, until she couldn't cope and finally sought help.In this episode, Dr Emma Offord and Jolene Ironside talk with Helen, GP, menopause specialist and author of Menopause and ADHD, about medical misogyny, endometriosis diagnosis times that are rising rather than falling, and the pressure to secure a formal diagnosis before you're allowed to trust your own experience. Helen's message throughout is simple and hard won: you don't have to wait for permission to understand yourself.Connect with Helen: @doctorhelenwall | tvhealthdoctor.comThis Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast is hosted by Dr Emma Offord, clinical psychologist and founder of Divergent Lives.

Lou was diagnosed ADHD in her 30s. By that point, she had already been through secondary school struggling and unidentified, failed college three times, experienced serious mental health crises, and spent years being told to try harder. When she finally sat with a therapist, everything she brought to that room turned out to be ADHD. Not failure, but simply a neurotype the world had never named for her.In this episode, Dr Emma Offord and Lou, founder of ADHD Interrupted, have the kind of conversation that doesn't happen enough: one where the full cost of late diagnosis is named with honesty and without flinching. The shame. The anger at the systems that missed her. The grief for the years lived without language or support. And the slow, extraordinary work of building a life rooted in self-understanding rather than self-blame.Lou's hope, that one day your neurotype is known as simply as your blood type, is a thread that runs through this whole conversation. That kind of world starts with conversations like this one.If you have ever felt like you were trying your hardest and still falling short, like something was always slightly off but no one could tell you why, this episode is for you.

Dr Clare Jacobson has spent over 20 years holding people's most intimate inner worlds. As a specialist clinical psychologist in teenage and young adult cancer care, she knows what it means to sit with invisible experience - the kind that doesn't show up on a blood test, but is completely real.Over the past year, Clare has been on her own journey of neurodivergent identification. And in this conversation with Emma, she brings both lenses: the clinician who has learned to approach people's inner lives with curiosity rather than certainty, and the late-identified person who spent decades being told  -  by the world and eventually by herself -  that the parts of her that didn't fit were somehow wrong.They talk about the hunter-farmer analogy, the card game metaphor, hypermobility and proprioception, receiving extra sensory data, and what Clare calls the original Internet  -  the idea that neurodivergent people might be evolved to tap into collective consciousness in ways that neurotypical people simply can't access. It's a conversation about bodies, belonging, and learning to trust what you've always known.If you've ever felt like the call was coming from inside the house, this episode is for you. It probably isn't.This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast is hosted by Dr Emma Offord, clinical psychologist and founder of Divergent Lives. For every neurodivergent mind that was masked, misread, or missed.