TILF (Thoughts I'd Like to Finish)

This episode unpacks productivity for ADHDers—how it gets twisted by capitalism, tangled with self-worth, and buried under guilt, shame, and burnout. But what if productivity isn’t about doing more? What if it’s about doing less… better?We unpack:🧠 Efficiency ≠ effectiveness: ADHD brains thrive when we do less, smarter—not more, faster.⚡ 300% or 0%: Why consistency is a myth, and fluctuation is normal.🛠️ Wrong tools, wrong shame: Planners are hammers. ADHD needs screwdrivers.🔁 Maintenance hell: Laundry isn’t a task. It’s a lifestyle.🧍‍♀️ Death dread & doctor calls: When executive dysfunction feels life-or-death.🌿 Active rest: Rest is productive—but only if we redefine it for our brains.🎧 Honest, chaotic, and full of emotional mic drops—this ep is for anyone who’s ever felt broken by their to-do list.If you’ve ever burned out, spiraled, or cried while folding socks—you’re gonna feel this one.—The PodTILF is the group chat you never knew you needed—where ADHD brains, hot takes, and heart-deep convos collide. Hosted by Dani Donovan, Chris Wang, and Ari Scott, this unfiltered trio says the quiet parts out loud, dives headfirst into the chaos, and somehow makes existential spirals feel like a party.For all things TILF, including episodes, updates, and more 👉 ⁠https://beacons.ai/tilfpod⁠The HostsDani Donovan, Creator of The Anti-Planner and ADHD comics 👉 ⁠ADHDDD.com⁠ & ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@danidonovan⁠Chris Wang, CEO of Shimmer ADHD Coaching 👉 ⁠www.shimmer.care⁠ & ⁠https://www.instagram.com/adhd.christal⁠Ari Scott, The ADHD Entrepreneur 👉 ⁠https://www.adhdinbiz.com/⁠ & ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_adhd_entrepreneur/⁠

In celebration of Pride Month—this episode dives into queerness through the ADHD lens, and things get gloriously messy, affirming, and 💥 chaotic.We unpack:🧠 Stats that stun: LGBTQ+ folks are 2–4× more likely to get an ADHD diagnosis, and ADHD folks report 2–5× more same-sex experiences.💬 Real talk: Bi with imposter syndrome, pan identity shifts, and the emotional wild ride of discovering yourself late.⚡ ADHD x curiosity: How impulsivity, risk-taking, and curiosity drive queer exploration.🛡️ Intersectional invisibility: Why people stay closeted online, lose followers when queer, and still fight internal “not enough” voices.🌈 Representation matters: Getting loud, ripping off the rainbow-colored bandaid, and why we owe each other that visibility.🎧 Thick with heart, banter, and unapologetic revelations—this is a raw unpacking of identity, belonging, fear, and liberation.If you've ever felt too queer, not queer enough, or just... uniquely wired—you’re gonna feel this episode.—The PodTILF is the group chat you never knew you needed—where ADHD brains, hot takes, and heart-deep convos collide. Hosted by Dani Donovan, Chris Wang, and Ari Scott, this unfiltered trio says the quiet parts out loud, dives headfirst into the chaos, and somehow makes existential spirals feel like a party.For all things TILF, including episodes, updates, and more 👉 ⁠https://beacons.ai/tilfpod⁠The HostsDani Donovan, Creator of The Anti-Planner and ADHD comics 👉 ⁠ADHDDD.com⁠ & ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@danidonovan⁠Chris Wang, CEO of Shimmer ADHD Coaching 👉 ⁠www.shimmer.care⁠ & ⁠https://www.instagram.com/adhd.christal⁠Ari Scott, The ADHD Entrepreneur 👉 ⁠https://www.adhdinbiz.com/⁠ & ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_adhd_entrepreneur/⁠

We didn’t come here to be chill—we came to spill. In Episode 2, we play a sticky-note guessing game fueled by childhood ADHD confessions: accidentally chopped bangs, ballet sabotage, sabotaging school heating systems, and more.We unpack:The drama of hair-hacking and ballet bootcamp exitsThe strategy of igniting school-wide chaos (RIP janitors)The emotional tugs of silence punishment and arm‑wrestling ego battlesWhy revealing your weird childhood wiring can be liberating🎧 It’s as chaotic and real as it sounds—and beautifully messy and confessional.If you’ve ever embraced being “too much”—or felt like your brain was just… different—this ride is for you.—The PodTILF is the group chat you never knew you needed—where ADHD brains, hot takes, and heart-deep convos collide. Hosted by Dani Donovan, Chris Wang, and Ari Scott, this unfiltered trio says the quiet parts out loud, dives headfirst into the chaos, and somehow makes existential spirals feel like a party.For all things TILF, including episodes, updates, and more 👉 ⁠https://beacons.ai/tilfpod⁠The HostsDani Donovan, Creator of The Anti-Planner and ADHD comics 👉 ⁠ADHDDD.com⁠ & ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@danidonovan⁠Chris Wang, CEO of Shimmer ADHD Coaching 👉 ⁠www.shimmer.care⁠ & ⁠https://www.instagram.com/adhd.christal⁠Ari Scott, The ADHD Entrepreneur 👉 ⁠https://www.adhdinbiz.com/⁠ & ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_adhd_entrepreneur/⁠

We had no idea how to start this podcast—so we just hit record and let the chaos unfold.In our debut episode, we unravel what Thoughts I’d Like to Finish even means, share why hyperactive ADHDers often feel “too much,” and talk about growing up misdiagnosed, misunderstood, and mouthy.We also get into:Queer identity and ADHD overlapInterrupting with loveIf ADHD is a superpowerFinding people who finally get youIt’s messy. It’s vulnerable. It’s funny. It’s very, very us.If you’ve ever felt too loud, too talkative, too everything—you might just belong here.—The PodTILF is the group chat you never knew you needed—where ADHD brains, hot takes, and heart-deep convos collide. Hosted by Dani Donovan, Chris Wang, and Ari Scott, this unfiltered trio says the quiet parts out loud, dives headfirst into the chaos, and somehow makes existential spirals feel like a party. For all things TILF, including episodes, updates, and more 👉 https://beacons.ai/tilfpodThe HostsDani Donovan, Creator of The Anti-Planner and ADHD comics 👉 ADHDDD.com & https://www.tiktok.com/@danidonovanChris Wang, CEO of Shimmer ADHD Coaching 👉 www.shimmer.care & https://www.instagram.com/adhd.christalAri Scott, The ADHD Entrepreneur 👉 https://www.adhdinbiz.com/ & https://www.instagram.com/the_adhd_entrepreneur/