Together Real Bad

In this special episode of Together Real Bad, we’re sharing the full story behind our engagement. From the surprise proposal and emotional moments to the behind-the-scenes planning, family reactions, and early wedding conversations, this episode is a real-time reflection on love, partnership, and community. We talk through the day of the proposal, what each of us was thinking, how the surprise came together, and what it meant to be surrounded by people who love and support us. We also get into the reality of planning a wedding, deciding what kind of celebration feels right, and how this next chapter is already stretching us in beautiful ways. We’re also shouting out Black-owned businesses and sharing details about an upcoming Mother’s Day collaboration focused on mind, body, and soul care. If you’ve been rocking with Together Real Bad from the beginning, this is a full-circle episode you don’t want to miss. In this episode, we talk about: Our surprise engagement story What the proposal day felt like from both perspectives The emotional planning process behind the moment Family, friendship, and community support First thoughts on wedding planning Courthouse wedding vs. destination wedding ideas The beauty of being deeply known and loved A Black business spotlight and upcoming Mother’s Day event Black Business Spotlight: This episode also highlights a special upcoming Mother’s Day collaboration featuring: Akeelah and the Beads A massage therapist partnership Jem Junkies This experience is centered around a mind, body, and soul theme, with more details coming soon. Together Real Bad podcast, Black queer love podcast, lesbian relationship podcast, engagement story podcast, surprise proposal story, wedding planning podcast, Black love podcast, LGBTQ couple podcast, real relationship conversations, proposal story, engaged couple podcast, Chicago couple podcast, queer wedding talk, Black-owned business spotlight

In part two of 21 Questions Reloaded Part 2, we keep the conversation going and dig into what it really means to be seen in a relationship while also living life in public. We talk about the reality of being human, how people can misunderstand a relationship based on short clips or small moments, and why grace matters when you are looking at someone else’s life from the outside. We also get into business, travel, and what it feels like to build something together. From our Milwaukee pop-up to seeing people show up for grillz and tooth gems, this episode reflects on how rewarding it is to create experiences that make people feel good and leave confident. Later, we get into one of our classic differences as a couple: how we experience movies and storytelling in completely different ways. We talk about supporting beginner filmmakers, reacting to films differently, and the funny little tensions that come with having two strong personalities in one relationship. At its core, this episode is about connection. It is about being honest, giving each other grace, laughing through differences, and making sure intimacy does not get lost in the middle of busy schedules and everyday life. In this episode, we talk about: Why people should be careful judging relationships from clips alone The importance of grace and perspective in love Our Milwaukee pop-up experience and what it meant for Jem Junkies The joy of seeing customers get excited about their grillz and tooth gems Creative differences in how we watch and critique films Humor, tension, and honesty in our relationship dynamic Why intimacy and connection still need intention in a busy life If this episode speaks to you, send it to someone who understands that relationships are about more than chemistry. They are also about patience, perspective, growth, and continuing to choose each other in real life.

We didn’t record this week due to a hectic weekend and the launch of our new business. Sorry for the break. We’ll be back with a brand new episode next week. Until then, y’all be smooth.

In this episode of Together Real Bad, we’re bringing back one of our favorite formats with 21 Questions Reloaded—but this time, we’re talking intimacy. Not the loud, off-the-wall version. The real version. We get into what intimacy looks like when you’re building a life together, juggling work, stress, responsibilities, and still trying to stay connected. We talk about feeling desired, how differently we each communicate what we want, why emotional safety matters just as much as physical attraction, and what happens when life starts pushing intimacy to the back burner. This episode is honest, funny, a little awkward, and very us. If you’ve ever loved your partner deeply but still struggled to find the time, energy, or words for intimacy, this conversation is for you. In this episode, we talk about: What makes each of us feel desired Why intimacy often starts outside the bedroom The non-sexual things that can turn your partner on How stress, distractions, and everyday life affect connection Why asking for what you want can feel harder than it sounds Sexual reassurance in a relationship What emotional safety looks like in intimacy Respecting “not tonight” in a healthy partnership How communication shapes closeness over time We also share a little bit of date night, some real-life relationship banter, and the kind of transparency y’all have come to expect from us. This is one of those episodes that reminds us intimacy is not just about sex. It’s about trust, timing, vulnerability, comfort, and being willing to learn your partner again and again. Black Business Spotlight: This episode’s Black Business Spotlight highlights Jetible a Black-owned cannabis brand. Listen, share, and let us know: What makes you feel most desired in your relationship? Does intimacy start outside the bedroom for you too?

In this episode of Together Real Bad, we get real about personal hygiene in relationships — the funny parts, the awkward parts, and the honest conversations couples do not always know how to have. We talk about everything from body odor, sweating, deodorant, oral hygiene, and grooming habits to the bigger question of what it really means to be comfortable with your partner.  We also dig into how hygiene issues are not always just about cleanliness. Sometimes they can point to stress, burnout, depression, or something deeper going on emotionally. We discuss the importance of approaching these conversations with honesty, care, and compassion instead of judgment.  This episode also gets very real about the everyday things couples eventually have to face if they are building something lasting: farting, showering together, being on your period, grooming changes, and learning to accept each other as full human beings instead of polished versions of ourselves. It is funny, transparent, and very much us.    We also spotlight a Black-owned streetwear brand, Made It Through the Struggle (MITTS 217), and share a little love for the story behind the brand.    What we talk about in this episode: How to bring up hygiene issues in a relationship The difference between normal body funk and a real hygiene concern Oral hygiene, deodorant, and grooming habits When hygiene issues may be connected to mental health Flatulence, periods, and body acceptance in relationships Why comfort and transparency matter in long-term love A Black business spotlight you should check out    Closing thought: Real intimacy is not just about attraction — it is also about acceptance, honesty, and being able to handle the unglamorous parts of being human together.

In this episode, we talk about boundaries within relationships—how to say no without guilt, how to stop being passive when you really mean “no,” and how to build emotional safety so honesty doesn’t feel like rejection. We break down real-life examples (intimacy + tiredness, overwhelm and household tasks, going out boundaries), and how past relationship experiences can shape how you communicate today. We also touch on therapy, processing vs blurting, and why boundaries get clearer as you grow.    

We just finished our grand opening and it really wore us out, so we’re taking this week to recover and get reorganized. We’ll return with a new episode next Tuesday. Thanks for your patience — have a good week!

Welcome back to Together Real Bad—your Chicago-based WLW relationship podcast where we keep it real about love, life, and building together. This episode is a full life update: our Denver birthday trip (food, scooters, and a first-ever NFL game) Trying snowboarding at Winter Park (humbling, hilarious, and painful in the right ways) navigating grief and family reality after a sudden loss and why we’re locking in on boundaries so we don’t lose us in the middle of business. And yes—BIG NEWS: we’re officially opening our studio and throwing our Jem Junkies Grand Opening on February 7 at Lacuna by Catalyst (2150 S Canalport Ave) with an open studio, vendors, raffles, and a super-limited beginner grill-making class. Content note: This episode includes discussion of grief and death.   Grand Opening Quick Info (add to notes) Date: February 7 Location: Lacuna by Catalyst, 2150 S Canalport Ave, Chicago Open Studio: 1–4 PM (walk-ins + appointments) Jan 2026 Trans First 5 guests: free single tooth gem Jan 2026 Trans Evening event: ~5:30–8:30 PM + vendors + raffles  Beginner grill-making class: limited small groups; free for grand opening only    If you rocked with this episode: follow, rate, and write a review (it helps WLW/LGBTQ podcasts get surfaced). And send this to a friend who’s balancing love + life + big dreams.

Hey Yall! No fancy description for y'all today! Just an episode where we talk about our last three years with each other.   Please note **WE WILL BE TAKING A BREAK UNTIL THE SECOND WEEK IN JANUARY 2026**   UNTIL THEN! PEACE!!

In this heartfelt episode of Together Real Bad, Ace and Beautifulll dive into what it really means to give yourself permission — to grow, to rest, to want more, and to stop asking for approval that you never needed in the first place. From coming out stories and healing through therapy to learning when to let go of friendships, this episode explores the freedom that comes when you finally tell yourself, “It’s okay.” 💬 Topics We Cover: Permission to be yourself (even when others don’t understand) Permission to outgrow people, places, and patterns Permission to rest — without feeling guilty about slowing down Permission to feel what you feel (and not shrink your emotions) Permission to want more — emotionally, financially, and creatively Relationship talk: learning to give each other space and grace 🎙️ Moments to Listen For: “I had to be okay with losing my family before I came out.” “When I let that friendship go, I could finally breathe.” “Sometimes you just need permission to want more — and stop apologizing for it.” 👭 Hosted by: Ace & Beautifulll 🎧 Podcast: Together Real Bad — A LGBT relationship podcast that’s raw, funny, and full of real conversations about love, growth, and learning each other in real time. 📲 Follow Us: IG: @together.real.badpod TikTok: @together.real.badpod relationship podcast, queer couple podcast, love and communication, emotional growth, permission to be yourself, relationship advice for couples, therapy and self-growth, queer love stories, Together Real Bad podcast, self-acceptance and healing outgrowing friendships, permission to rest, relationship boundaries, black queer podcast, LGBTQ couples podcast, giving yourself grace, emotional safety, healing through therapy, modern relationships, women in love podcast, Chicago podcasters #RelationshipPodcast, #QueerLove, #LGBTQPodcast, #TogetherRealBad, #PermissionToBe, #HealingJourney, #LoveOutLoud, #QueerRelationships, #RelationshipGrowth, #EmotionalHealing, #CoupleConversations, #PodcastForCouples, #RealLoveStories, #RelationshipAdvice, #AuthenticLove, #BlackQueerPodcast, #LoveAndHealing, #GiveYourselfPermission

What’s up yall it’s been a long weekend and we are excited to tell you about it….on Wednesday! See yall then!!

**YALL, WE ARE SO SORRY, WE DIDN'T PUBLISH THIS EPISODE TWO WEEKS AGO!! WE NEGLECTED TO UPLOAD IT HERE, BUT HERE IT IS AND IT IS ON YOUTUBE, YOU WILL HAVE 2 EPISODES THIS WEEK! ENJOY!!**   In this week’s Together Real Bad episode, Beautifulll & Ace dive into the real question behind sharing your location with your partner: Is it about love and safety—or control and possessiveness? From past relationships filled with sneaky Snapchat tracking and late-night casino check-ins to their current healthy balance of trust and transparency, the duo keeps it all the way real. They explore what healthy boundaries look like when partners share locations, how trauma and past experiences shape trust, and what it really means to feel safe in love. The conversation unfolds naturally—with laughter, storytelling, and a heartfelt look at how communication can make or break modern relationships. As always, Beautifulll & Ace remind listeners that vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s a bridge to deeper connection. In This Episode: When location sharing crosses from caring to controlling How past partners used tracking apps for manipulation What healthy trust looks like in a queer relationship How safety and independence can coexist in love Real talk about boundaries, reassurance, and transparency Date Night Diary: The pair also recap their elegant night out at the Carmen ballet and a five-star dinner at Hawksmoor in Chicago. Expect a little art, a little steak, and a whole lot of laughter. Black Business Spotlight: Shout out to Marquita of Organized Peoples, a professional organizer helping busy women bring order and peace back to their homes and minds. queer relationships, relationship advice podcast, location sharing relationships, possessive partner, healthy communication in relationships, queer love podcast, couples podcast, Together Real Bad, Kristy Ramsey podcast, Beautifulll podcast, LGBTQ couples talk, relationship boundaries, emotional safety in relationships, trust and control, queer couple dynamics, black queer love podcast relationship trust issues, girlfriend location sharing, controlling partner signs, communication in relationships, LGBTQ content creators, lesbian podcast, black lesbian couple podcast, queer love discussions, Chicago podcast, couple therapy talk, modern relationship dynamics, intimacy and trust  

**YALL, WE ARE SO SORRY, WE DIDN'T PUBLISH THIS EPISODE TWO WEEKS AGO!! WE NEGLECTED TO UPLOAD IT HERE, BUT HERE IT IS AND IT IS ON YOUTUBE, YOU WILL HAVE 2 EPISODES THIS WEEK! ENJOY!!**   In this episode of Together Real Bad, Ace and Beautifulll get real about the ups and downs of navigating emotions in relationships. 💭❤️ We share personal stories—yes, even our little flag football tiffs 🏈—to show that your emotions are valid, even when they feel messy. From relationship communication struggles and how to handle emotional triggers, to learning the power of validating emotions in a relationship, this conversation is about keeping love honest and real. If you’ve ever wondered how to deal with feelings in love, practice conflict resolution with compassion, or find strength in honoring your feelings in relationships, you’re not alone. We talk about the side of love people rarely share—the laughter, the lessons, and the tough but beautiful growth that comes with vulnerability. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, this episode offers real talk about love and emotions and the kind of relationship advice nobody tells you—a reminder that your feelings matter, and learning to embrace them can bring you closer to the love you deserve. #NavigatingEmotionsInRelationships #HowToDealWithFeelingsInLove #ValidatingEmotionsInARelationship #RelationshipCommunicationStruggles #HowToHandleEmotionalTriggers #RealTalkAboutLoveAndEmotions #ConflictResolutionWithCompassion #HonoringYourFeelingsInRelationships #RelationshipAdviceNobodyTellsYou Navigating emotions in relationships | your feelings are valid in love | how to handle emotions in relationships | validating your partner’s feelings | relationship advice for couples 2025 | communication and emotional triggers in love | healthy ways to resolve conflict in relationships | honoring emotions without guilt | vulnerability in love and relationships | self-reflection and compassion in relationships

In this episode of Together Real Bad, we dive deep into what happens when exes spin the block. From an old flame asking about a “pass,” to a wild dream about becoming our baby daddy, to a surprising threesome proposal—this week brought it all. We open up about the respectful, the messy, and the off-limits, while breaking down how queer couples navigate trust, boundaries, and unexpected interactions with people from the past. If you’ve ever wondered how to deal with exes, keep your relationship secure, or explore openness without losing trust, this episode is packed with laughter, honesty, and lessons in love. 💬 Join the Conversation: What’s your take—are exes ever fair game, or should they stay in the past? Share your stories below—we’d love to hear them. 🔔 Don’t Forget to Subscribe: For more unfiltered conversations about queer love, exes, relationships, and navigating life as a couple, make sure to subscribe and turn on notifications. 📲 Connect with Us: ▶ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ #ExMarksTheSpot #QueerPodcast #QueerRelationships #LGBTQPodcast #RelationshipTalk #DealingWithExes #QueerCouples #QueerLove #RelationshipBoundaries #LoveIsLove #QueerCommunity #HealthyRelationships #QueerCoupleVibes #QueerVisibility #QueerDating #RelationshipAdvice #QueerVoices #QueerConnection #QueerCulture #QueerJoy #QueerCoupleLife #LoveOutLoud #ExesAndRelationships #RelationshipJourney #QueerPodcastCommunity #QueerStories #OpenRelationships #TrustAndBoundaries #QueerLifeUnfiltered #QueerCoupleTalk SEO Tags (Hidden but Boost Ranking): queer couple ex talk | exes in queer relationships | queer podcast relationships | dealing with exes LGBTQ | queer love and trust | queer relationship boundaries | LGBTQ couple podcast | open relationships queer couples | ex spin the block queer love | navigating exes in relationships | queer couple real talk | queer relationship advice podcast | relationship trust and boundaries queer | LGBTQ relationship challenges podcast | queer couple threesome talk

This week, we dive deep into the messy, beautiful, and sometimes dangerous world of queer PDA (public displays of affection). From debates about what’s “appropriate” to the very real risks of holding hands in the wrong neighborhood, this episode is as raw and real as it gets. We open up about our own experiences—navigating affection in front of kids, parents, church communities, and even at work events. How much of our hesitation is about “respect,” and how much is fear rooted in double standards? Straight PDA is normalized, but queer PDA is often policed, shamed, or even criminalized. 💔 Things get heavy as we reflect on a heartbreaking story of a Black queer couple who were victims of a hate crime while simply trying to drive home. Their experience is a chilling reminder of how love, safety, and survival intersect for queer people of color in America. If you want to support their healing, you can contribute to their GoFundMe here: 👉 Survived a Hate Crime, Now We're Fighting to Heal But it’s not all heavy—this episode also touches on biking adventures, family dynamics, funny moments with our dogs, and our ongoing Date Night Diaries series. We share how PDA feels different in spaces like the beach, rural small towns, or even in our own families’ living rooms. And of course, we bring our usual mix of laughter, honesty, and unfiltered love. 🎧 Topics We Cover: Who decides what PDA is “too much”? Double standards: straight PDA vs. queer PDA When affection becomes protest and visibility Navigating affection in religious spaces Feeling safe (or unsafe) in different communities Family dynamics: PDA around parents Work culture & being out vs. “fighting for your life” in the closet 🔥 Plus, a Black Business Highlight you’ll want to check out: NzuriKulture – candles, body oils, and fragrances we are obsessed with. (Find her at @together.real.badpod Patreon: Support the pod for just $5/month and get exclusive visuals + extras Email us: [email protected] If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review, share with your friends, and let us know how YOU navigate PDA in your relationship.

Life has been lifin’ ya’ll, so we will drop a new episode on Wednesday! Yay! We will be talking about Queer PDA! See y'all then!! 

This is a Patreon Episode Check out our visuals and support the Pod: patreon.com/TogetherRealBad       🎙️ Episode Summary: Love, Responsibility, and Real-Life Frustrations In this raw and vulnerable Patreon episode, Beautifulll & Ace dive deep into relationship responsibility, emotional triggers, and real-life stressors, all while keeping their signature mix of humor and honesty. The Insurance Scam Saga shares a personal and frustrating experience after a minor car accident where the other driver (Mario) exaggerated injuries and damage to commit what they believe is insurance fraud. Despite minor damage, the claim jumped to over $3,000, triggering emotional and financial stress. The couple discusses how to handle these types of injustices and the emotional toll they can take on a relationship. 🐶 Puppy Updates Koda went to the vet for surgery and came home groggy but adorable. Kenzie went to work with Beautifulll and was surprisingly well-behaved. Cute dog moments bring a touch of lightness to the episode. 🎭 Date Night Diaries They recap their recent night out to see Beauty and the Beast at the Cadillac Palace. While the experience was fun and long overdue, they weren’t impressed with the production. They compare it to other Broadway shows they’ve seen together and reflect on how much shared experiences matter. 🏳️‍🌈 Living Out Loud: Beautifulll shares a personal milestone—introducing Ace as her partner to family members at a birthday brunch. A vulnerable but affirming step in showing up fully in their relationship. 🖤 Black-Owned Business Highlight: Shoutout to The Unseen Femme, a bold apparel brand celebrating identity and visibility. Beautifulll wears one of their shirts during the episode as Ace mentions hopes for a future collab. 📢 Pop Culture Quick Hits: They touch on Charlamagne Tha God vs. Trump commentary. Highlight Lambda Legal’s $6.42M win for LGBTQ+ and HIV advocacy groups (sourced via Queer News by Anna DeShawn). ❤️ Main Topic: Love Requires Responsibility Inspired by a friend’s post, the couple explores the idea that love isn't just about feelings—it’s about responsibility. Key conversation points: You're responsible for how you care for someone's heart once they've trusted you with it. Disagreements are natural, but maintaining a safe space during conflict is critical. They reflect on past relationships and how they’ve grown in their current one, especially when it comes to communication, apologies, and emotional maturity. Triggers from past relationships may not be your fault, but in a relationship, they become our responsibility to handle with care. They emphasize the importance of maintaining the love by planting seeds daily—through small gestures, communication, and honesty. 📣 Listener Questions: They pose a reflective challenge to listeners: "What are you doing to grow your love and take responsibility for it?"   💌 Final Thoughts: Despite outside frustrations, the episode is a testament to how Ace and Beautifulll choose each other, show up, and continue to build a strong, evolving love. It's vulnerable, funny, and deeply relatable for any couple navigating love, stress, and personal growth.

In this  episode of Together Real Bad, we dive deep into how generational communication habits in Black families impact our adult relationships—both romantic and platonic. Beautifulll and Ace share stories from their childhood, how they were raised to handle (or avoid) conflict, and what it’s like navigating communication with family as out, queer Black women. From unspoken tensions and "what happens in this house stays in this house" mindsets to rebuilding sibling relationships and confronting parental silence, this conversation is raw, vulnerable, and very necessary. We also talk: Playing contact flag football in our 40s 🏈 (and paying for it with sore backs!) Millennium Park summer music series & Digable Planets A brunch review of Honey Bear Cafe 🍳 Family resistance to queerness and our journeys to acceptance The emotional weight of trying to bridge generational gaps with love and boundaries Pop culture: Queer Ultimatum Reunion (yes, we had thoughts.) Our Black-Owned Biz of the Week: Chef Grady of Straight Up Bussin in Chicago Shoutout to our new friends behind the Two Dope Grandmas podcast 👵🏽🔥 ✨ Plus: We drop some serious gems around "The Four Horsemen" in relationships, emotional tools for couples, and how to move past conflict without burying it.   Relationship Tools 4 Horsemen 6 Hours To A Better Relationship

In this episode of Together Real Bad, your favorite queer couple podcast dives into what happens when you mix travel, friends, and relationship expectations. Beautifulll and Ace get vulnerable about a recent trip to New Orleans — and how a birthday vacation quickly turned into a lesson on boundaries, communication, and prioritizing your partner. 💬 They discuss: How to navigate travel with friends vs. travel with your girlfriend Why certain behaviors are relationship red flags on vacation Lessons on emotional maturity and conflict resolution What it means to “move differently” in a serious relationship Recaps of The Ultimatum: Queer Love (season 2 hot takes!) And why Mrs. Doubtfire was lowkey emotional parenting in the ‘90s They also shout out a delicious Black-owned cookie vendor from Chicago and reflect on Pride Month visibility on the South Side. 🎧 If you’re in a queer relationship, planning a couples trip, or figuring out how to balance friends and love, this episode is for you. 📲 Follow & Support Us: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TogetherRealBad TikTok + Instagram: @together.real.badpod 🖤 Queer. Funny. Real. Welcome to Together Real Bad.

In this episode of Together Real Bad, we’re diving into the deep end of what love, gender energy, and fluidity actually look like in our relationship. From surprise birthday letters and edible arrangements in New Orleans to unpacking who “wears the pants” at home, we're getting real about how we show up for each other in ways that break the mold. We get personal about: Why labels like “stud” or “femme” don't fully fit us—and how we navigate assumptions. How our energies shift depending on the moment, from cuddling on the couch to fixing furniture. The real talk on gender presentation, soft life dreams, and what it means to be your full self in love. A restaurant horror story that turned into a conversation about expectations, service, and Black-on-Black care. Our take on love languages without calling them that—and how we live and love out loud, in public and private. And yes, we dish on our experience at Vegan Dale and the big next step for Jem Junkies at Boxville! Whether you're navigating your own relationship, rethinking what labels mean, or just in the mood for some honest, hilarious, queer-as-hell love talk—this one’s for you.

This exclusive Patreon video episode gets into the real, real of what it means to build (and keep building) a long-term relationship. Beautifulll shares what it’s like to be in her longest relationship ever, and Ace reflects on lessons from two 8-year loves. The talk growth, communication, triggers, and how to stay soft when life (and your ex) tried to harden you. In this episode: Posting your partner for the first time 😳 Creating a soft space when past relationships made you hard Why we don’t go to bed angry (and what our friends do instead 👀) Living out loud and letting the whole world know who you love Keeping things fresh 3 years in: date nights, packing help, and podcasting  How Boystown has changed and why we’re dreaming up a Girls Town This one’s for the lovers, the healers, and the homies preparing for their person. 🖤 Thanks for being here, and for making this space possible. Your subscription means everything to us!

In this episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace open up about the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of launching their new business venture together — Jem Junkies. From working the Black Boy Art Show in Chicago to building a brand that blends beauty and culture, the duo shares what it’s really like to start a business with your partner. They talk about: 👩🏾‍❤️‍👩🏽 The real behind mixing love and entrepreneurship 📈 The vision for Jem Junkies as a cultural lifestyle brand beyond tooth gems and grillz 💡 Big wins and minor hiccups at their first major event 💬 Tips for maintaining balance when you're business partners and life partners 🧠 The importance of boundaries, business roles, and not taking things personal 🌈 Living out loud and showing up unapologetically 🎤 Ace’s bold predictions for Beyoncé’s Act III (yes, we said what we said) Plus, there’s a surprise guest appearance from Koda 🐶, a shout-out to Black Boys Rock, and a passionate review of Cowboy Carter. Whether you’re thinking about starting a business with your partner or just curious how we’re navigating this journey, this one’s full of laughs, life lessons, and a few unexpected gems.

What’s up y’all! With the long weekend, and how busy we were, we just could not fit the Podcast in the schedule. But don’t worry we are back with an episode early Wednesday morning. See you then! Beautifulll and Ace

In this episode, we talk about what it’s like to really come out — not just once, but in layers. Inspired by a touching DM from a listener in London and a major coming out moment with family, we peel back the curtain on the fears, family dynamics, social media choices, and joy that come with showing up fully as yourself. ✨ Inside: Funny & frustrating bed-making battles A Mother's Day coming-out story (with a twist!) Being “out” at work, but not on Facebook Responding to a listener who asked, “How do I come out to myself?” And of course, a few laughs, a lot of love, and even more truth. We’re grateful to have a space where we can be soft, honest, and hilarious at the same time — and we’re grateful for YOU for helping us make it possible. ❤️ Tap in. Let’s keep growing, together.

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace dive deep into the complexities of bisexuality, identity, and love in queer relationships — inspired by a real conversation with our incredible Airbnb guest, Demita Frazier! 🏡✨ 🎙 Topics Covered: When Beautifulll first realized her attraction to women The struggles of reconciling bisexuality with religious upbringing First experiences with women and evolving relationship dynamics How being bisexual is perceived differently within the LGBTQIA+ community Navigating labels, fluidity, and boundaries in committed relationships Why being with a woman doesn't erase bisexual identity Conversations about attraction, trust, and relationship security Funny date night stories, life updates, and late-night diaries PLUS: We recap an amazing evening at the Queer News Podcast Salon hosted by E3 Radio’s Anna (DeShawn), celebrate Lesbian Visibility Week, and shout out to our Flag Football fam for showing up and showing love! 🏳️‍🌈🏈 🎨 We also talk about visiting the Black Creativity Exhibit at the Museum of Science and Industry, and support Black-owned businesses like 14 Parish! 🎧 Tune in if you’ve ever wondered: Can bisexual people feel erased in relationships? How does dating as a bisexual woman feel different? How do you maintain individuality and sexual identity within long-term queer relationships? And most importantly... what does mermaid bathwater taste like? 🧜‍♀️ 💬 Special thanks again to Demita Frazier for inspiring the title of this episode! 📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @together.real.badpod TikTok: @together.real.badpod Patreon: Together Real Bad

  **Patreon Episode - Visuals*** patreon.com/c/TogetherRealBad In this Patreon episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace get real about navigating blame in relationships—from late-night matcha disasters to emotional misfires and unspoken expectations. We kick things off with a check-in on work, wellness, and that one neighbor who might just be a villain. Then we get personal about family brunches, coming out, and why setting emotional traps (even unintentionally) never ends well. 💥 This episode dives deep into: Why blaming your partner never works Talking through conflict without pointing fingers Taking ownership (even when it’s not your fault… but it kinda is) Ego vs. understanding: what makes or breaks a healthy fight A hilarious and chaotic story about makeup, candy, and a hyped-up Yorkie Poo 🗓 Plus: updates on our live podcast salon with Queer News & E3 Radio, a Black-owned BBQ spotlight, pop culture recs (hello Love on the Spectrum), and the Netflix show we won’t be recommending. ⏱️ Episode Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro Vibes & Theme Song Love 01:00 – Life Updates: Work, Tiredness & The Coaching Mindset 04:00 – Condo Water Drama & Editing Woes 08:00 – Podcast Salon Announcement (April 25 at Affinity Community Center!) 10:00 – Coming Out Over Brunch: The Update We've All Been Waiting For 14:00 – Date Night Diaries: Art Shows, Fashion & Permanent Jewelry 17:00 – Korean BBQ and Food Talk 18:00 – Black-Owned Business Spotlight: Sanders BBQ in Beverly 22:00 – Pop Culture: Love on the Spectrum Praise + Balloon Show Flop 29:00 – Main Topic: The Blame Game 32:00 – Storytime: Koda + Candy + Chaos 37:00 – Therapy Talk: Accountability vs. Attack 45:00 – Emotional Ownership & Growth 50:00 – Grudges, Cycles, and Female Ego Navigation 56:00 – Storytime Tangents & Takeaways 60:00 – Take It or Leave It 61:00 – Outro ✨ Takeaways & Talking Points: How to approach blame with empathy and humor Why ego has no place in conflict resolution Creating safe space for feedback, even during emotional triggers Learning from past relationships to protect what you have now 🔗 Mentions: 🎧 Queer News and E3 Radio 🍗 Sanders BBQ – Beverly, Chicago 📺 Love on the Spectrum (Netflix) 🚫 That Netflix Balloon Show (you’ll see...) 📣 Join the Patreon: Want the visuals, behind-the-scenes laughs, and our chaotic energy in 4K? Subscribe to our Patreon for early access, bonus content, and exclusive couple convos: 👉 patreon.com/togetherrealbad

In this honest and hilarious episode, Beautifulll and Ace dive deep into the question: Would you rather be right or stay in a relationship? From "I told you so" moments to the petty Olympics, they're unpacking ego, communication, and growth in a real relationship. This episode also features: Their experience at a Black-owned Chicago hotel 🏨 A pottery date gone sideways 🎨 Piercings, tattoos, and tooth gems 💎 A wild tattoo convention 🐍 Tips for compromising without losing yourself 💌 Got an SOS (Save Our Situation) letter or want to share? Email us at [email protected]. Follow & Support: 📸 IG + TikTok: @together.real.badpod 🎧 Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/togetherrealbad 🗣️ Don’t forget to leave a rating and review — it helps more folks find the show! Tags: #RelationshipPodcast #QueerLove #EmotionalIntelligence #LGBTQPodcasters #ChicagoCreatives #PodcastForCouples

EXCLUSIVE CONTENT: A full video version + behind-the-scenes extras are available on Patreon! Join the Together Real Bad community on PATREON  for unfiltered convos & bonus content.   🔊 Beautifulll & Ace are flipping the script on intimacy! In this episode, they’re NOT talking about sex (okay, maybe a little), but more about the deeper, everyday ways partners connect. From knowing when your person needs space to those small but meaningful gestures—THIS is what keeps relationships strong. 💖 🎙️ Inside This Episode: ✅ The little ways intimacy shows up beyond the bedroom ✅ Why non-verbal connections matter more than we think ✅ Protective gestures, hand-holding & how they hit different ✅ Corporate clapbacks = relationship goals?! 👀 ✅ A whole lot of laughs, random dancing & real-life relationship talk   👉🏾 Follow & Subscribe to never miss an episode, and drop a review sharing how YOU connect with your partner beyond just physical touch! 💬 💜 Stay Connected: 📲 Instagram: @together.real.badpod 📲 Patreon: Patreon 📲 YouTube: Youtube #TogetherRealBad #PodcastCouple #RelationshipGoals #IntimacyMatters #ApplePodcasts #SpotifyPodcast

📺 Watch the (half) episode on YouTube! 🎥 Blood, Bonds & Boo’d Up | Friends vs. Family vs. Relationships 🚨 Oops! Half of this episode’s video didn’t record! 😬 But don’t worry—the full episode is available on all podcast platforms where you get your dose of Together Real Bad! 🎧 When it comes to ranking our relationships, who really comes first? In this episode, we dive deep into the balancing act of friendships, family ties, and romantic relationships—and the struggles of keeping everyone happy while still prioritizing ourselves. ✨ Topics We Cover: 🔹 The shifting dynamics between friends, family, and partners 🔹 How therapy reshapes our relationship priorities 🔹 Setting boundaries when friends demand too much of your time 🔹 The homebody vs. social butterfly relationship struggle 🔹 Should your partner be your best friend? 🔹 Compromising for love—but how much is too much? 🔔 Subscribe & Follow: Don’t forget to follow, rate, and review! Hit us up in the comments or DM us on IG at @together.real.badpod to let us know where you rank your relationships! 💬 Follow us on Patreon 📢 Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts! 🎧

💡 This Episode's Visuals Are Available Exclusively on Patreon! Visit our Patreon Page -----> Patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   It’s easy to get caught up in love, but sometimes, in the process of building a life with a partner, parts of personal identity can start to fade. In this episode of Together Real Bad, hosts Beautifulll and Ace take a deep dive into what it means to maintain individuality in a long-term relationship. Three years into their journey, they reflect on the question: Are they still the same people they were at the start, or have they lost pieces of themselves along the way? This conversation isn’t about relationship struggles—it’s about growth, self-awareness, and ensuring that love doesn’t come at the cost of personal identity.   Thing we love this week! Book Recommendations – The Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes: Get it on Amazon Good to Great by Jim Collins: Get it on Amazon Melted and Bonded: https://www.instagram.com/meltedbondedjewelry 🚨 What Listeners Can Expect in This Episode: 🎭 The Evolution of Self in a Relationship – How they’ve changed (and stayed the same) over the past three years 🤝 Compromise vs. Sacrifice – The fine line between making healthy adjustments and losing individuality 🚩 Signs of Losing Yourself in a Relationship – How to recognize when personal goals, hobbies, and friendships start taking a back seat 🛠️ Maintaining Independence While in Love – Strategies to stay true to oneself while nurturing a strong partnership 💬 Friendships & Relationships – How their friendships have evolved, and what it means to keep social circles thriving 🛋️ The Role of Therapy & Self-Discovery – How therapy has helped one of them rediscover who they are today 🔄 Daily Rituals for Self-Preservation – The small but significant habits that help maintain a sense of self This episode is for anyone who has ever wondered: Am I still me in this relationship? Beautiful and Ace break it all down, offering personal reflections, practical advice, and a real look at how they navigate love while staying true to themselves. 📢 JOIN THE CONVERSATION! 👉 Have you ever felt like you lost yourself in a relationship? 👉 How do you maintain your individuality while being in love? Join the discussion in the comments on Patreon or send a DM on TikTok! ✨ SUPPORT THE POD: 💡 Join Patreon for FREE to access exclusive behind-the-scenes clips 💡 Become a paid member to unlock full video episodes 🎧 Subscribe, Watch, and Support  👉 https://patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   📲 Follow Together Real Bad on Instagram & TikTok for more: together.real.badpod on all platforms #TogetherRealBad #RelationshipGoals #SelfGrowth #BlackLove #PodcastLife #PatreonExclusive

In this episode of Together Real Bad, the hosts explore the importance of growth, accountability, and compromise in relationships. They discuss what it truly means to be “the one” for each other and share insights on how they challenge and support each other in personal and professional spaces. Listeners will hear candid conversations about navigating relationship dynamics, improving communication, and holding each other accountable while maintaining love and respect. Whether it’s about staying on top of household routines, growing businesses together, or simply showing up for a partner, this episode is packed with real-life lessons, humor, and heartfelt moments. Topics Covered: 📈 Personal Growth Through Partnership – How accountability helps relationships thrive. 🏡 Household Compromises – Who really does the laundry, and why does it matter? 💬 The Power of Effective Communication – A simple exercise for improving conversations. 🎬 Date Night Diaries – A night out for Chicago Restaurant Week and a review of One of Them Days. 📚 Book Recommendations – The Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes: Get it on Amazon Good to Great by Jim Collins: Get it on Amazon Purchases through these links support the pod! 🎭 Representation in Media – Laverne Cox’s upcoming series and why it matters. 🎉 Exclusive Content on Patreon – Why listeners should join for behind-the-scenes moments. Listener Takeaways: Growth in relationships isn’t about changing for someone—it’s about evolving together. Communication is key! The hosts introduce an exercise that can improve partner discussions. Celebrating wins together fosters deeper connection and motivation. 🔹 Want more exclusive content? Join the Patreon community for early access to episodes, behind-the-scenes footage, and bonus discussions! 👉 Support on Patreon 🔹 Stay Connected: 📲 Instagram: @together.real.badpod 📲 TikTok: @together.real.badpod 📲 Patreon: patreon.com/TogetherRealBad 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & Leave a Review! Love the episode? Don’t forget to rate & review on Apple Podcasts! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ #TogetherRealBad #Podcast #Relationships #LoveAndGrowth #PatreonExclusive #Communication #CouplesGoals

*All Visuals Will Now Be Posted On Patreon* Patreon:Together Real Bad You can still catch short on YouTube Leave a comment sharing how you’ve handled growing pains in your relationships. Share this episode with a friend who could use some relationship real talk! Send us a S.O.S letter (Save Our Situation) for advice on your love situatiion at 2getherrealbad @gmail.com  Follow us on TIkTok: together.real.badpod Follow us on IG: together.real.badpod   In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode of Together Real Bad, we take you on a journey through the highs and lows of navigating growing pains in relationships. We dive into what it means to move past the honeymoon phase, embracing personal growth, and staying intentional about connection amidst life’s chaos. With candid conversations about chore wars, managing expectations, and finding balance in love, we share our struggles, successes, and strategies for making it all work. In the final moments, we discuss the importance of mutual accountability, the challenge of setting personal and shared goals, and how communication helps us grow stronger every day. Deep Dive into the Final 15 Minutes: The last 15 minutes of this episode focus on navigating conflict and the challenges of maintaining mutual accountability.   We discuss: How personal habits and past behaviors influence current expectations. Why giving each other grace is crucial when developing new routines. The difficulty of addressing unmet expectations without criticism. How we’re working together to balance household responsibilities, including a deep dive into our “Sunday is laundry day” experiment. We also touch on emotional drift—how life’s demands can make it harder to feel connected—and share how intentional communication and shared goals can help bridge the gap. The conversation ends on a hopeful note, emphasizing the importance of patience, compromise, and understanding in building a stronger partnership. If you loved this episode, don’t forget to: Subscribe to our Patreon channel for more episodes and bonus content. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes moments and updates.   Leave a comment sharing how you’ve handled growing pains in your relationships. Share this episode with a friend who could use some relationship real talk! Send us a S.O.S letter (Save Our Situation) at 2getherrealbad @gmail.com  Follow us on TIkTok: together.real.badpod Follow us on IG: together.real.badpod

In this episode, Beautifulll and Ace recap year end 2024 and move into 2025. Beautifulll gives a much awaited coming out update, new friends, new community, goal setting and football updates!   *We apologies in advance for our dogs, they were actin a damn fool!*   Drop us a line or a question: [email protected]

In this episode Beautifulll & Ace talk about their upcoming vacation, and recap their goals that were set at the beginning of 2024.   *Beautifulll & Ace will be taking a break until January 6th!* Stay tuned to their social media for more content and bts stuff! together.real.badpod

In this episode Beautifulll & Ace have candid conversation about the happenings in their lives in the past few weeks.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation   https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ Email Us Your Save Our Situation questions (SOS) - [email protected]   Thank you all for your support. Please comment, like and share! It helps so much to support the pod!!

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about week updates, date night diaries, flag football, SOS letter and the nature of quid pro quo in their relationship.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation   https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ Email Us Your Save Our Situation questions (SOS) - [email protected]   Thank you all for your support. Please comment, like and share! It helps so much to support the pod!!

In this episode Beautifulll & Ace talk about coming out updates, Love Is Blind, a brush with a Basketball Franchise Owner, Date Night Activities and prioritizing each other   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation   https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ Email Us Your Save Our Situation questions (SOS) - [email protected]   Thank you all for your support. Please comment, like and share! It helps so much to support the pod!!

In this episode, Beautifulll & Ace chat with Darren Parker of Impulse Chicago! This is a departure from their normal platform but Beautifulll & Ace feel it's necessary to amplify the voices of the LGBTQIA+ Community who are here to help, support and engage the community. Founded in 2009 by Jose Ramos, Impulse Group is a nonprofit organization dedicated to building a stronger and healthier community for gay men. Hosting over 400 events annually in twenty-six cities across the globe, Impulse seeks to create a brave space to engage, support and connect our community.

In this episode Beautifulll & Ace talk about the debate, project 2025, “I Kissed A Girl” on Hulu, fantasy football, flag football, date night diaries and how there is more than one way to skin a cat in relationships, navigating how people believe that their way, is the right way, when it comes to tasks or events in a relationship.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation   https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ Email Us Your Save Our Situation questions (SOS) - [email protected]   Thank you all for your support. Please comment, like and share! It helps so much to support the pod!!

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about Labor Day Weekend, fantasy football, Mic Check, Chicago Sky, Date Night Diaries, Fears that pop up in relationships and how to  calm them. Lastly, stay tuned for their new segment SOS Letters: Save Our Situation Letters. where they read community letters and give thoughts on the situation.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation    https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ Email Us Your Save Our Situation questions (SOS) - [email protected]   Thank you all for your support. Please comment, like and share! It helps so much to support the pod!!      

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about the DNC, the hectic weekend, why they missed their recording day, volunteering, coming out, letter update and the impact of grace on relationships and everyday life.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. Its a great way to support the pod!patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust

Unfortunately, we have been overwhelmed with life lately and we are unable to drop an episode at our regular day and time. Not to worry though! We will be dropping and episode late Tuesday or early Wednesday and ironically enough, it will be about grace.    We appreciate you and all of the support that we have been getting over the past year! Thank you all! Beautifulll & Ace

In this episode, Beautifulll and Ace talk about the olympics (track), date night, alabama boat brawl anniversary and love: are you receiving or just passively standing in it?   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. Its a great way to support the pod! Patreon   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about the countdown to coming out, Simone Biles and the Olympics, Blvckscene, Biden’s drop out, date night activities and when boredom strikes, how to get around boredom in relationships.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad   Pateron: We have a patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. Its a great way to support the pod! Patreon Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you! Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust  

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss, Pride South Side, Date Night Diaries, and the power of play in their relationship. Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust  

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about Pride month, South Side Pride, Couples Therapy on MAX, Date night diaries, and how they intentionally pour into each other through out their relationship   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust

Beautifullll and Ace discuss Ace’s birthday, South Side Pride, Discord Launch, their subscribers and supporters, their friends engagement and how they are vulnerable with each other flaws and all.

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss their up coming Discord community, Pride South Side, TikTok Live, Memorial Day, Flag Football, Date Night Diaries and how each of them knew it was time to move on from past relationships.

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about (HBO) Max’s Seeking Sister Wives and Seeking Brother Husband. Mother’s Day. Last episode update. Date night. Relationship regrets and navigating those regrets differently in their relationship.

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss the WNBA Draft and the NFL Draft, Pride South Side (Chicago) and how social media can have an effect on communication in relationships.