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Togethermess

by Jeff Schroeder and Jordan Lloyd

Husband and wife, Jeff Schroeder and Jordan Lloyd are no strangers to Reality TV. From Big Brother to The Amazing Race, Couples Therapy, and their very own, Jeff and Jordan Do America, this team knows just how messy life can get. Listen each week as together they dive into parenting, marriage, Reality TV, pop culture and so much more!

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Episodes

  1. The 6am Mexico Shakedown

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  2. The Derek Jeter Souvenir Rumor - Worse Than You Think

    Before we were raising kids in the suburbs, we were serving tables, and the restaurant drama was real. In TogetherMess episode 286, we’re looking back at workplace favoritism, Jeff’s missed chance to meet Matthew McConaughey, and how our priorities have changed since those days. We also share…

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  3. Parenting in the Age of iPads and Video Games

    Jordan saw flashing lights and thought the other driver was getting pulled over… until the cop stopped her. Jeff spent two hours fighting with a printer before realizing our computer was connected to the neighbor’s Wi-Fi. In the TogetherMess episode 285, we’re sharing a school pickup gone wrong,...

  4. Jeff Accidentally Bid $2,000 at the School Fundraiser

    In Togethermess Episode 284, Jeff accidentally waves during the school fundraiser auction and suddenly gets hit with a $2,000 bid he never meant to make. We also talk about cowboy night, drinking around the kids’ teachers, donating to the school, and why knowing exactly where your money goes...

  5. Big BrotherMess LIVE - 10/1/26

    Recorded LIVE on 10/1/26! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform....

  6. Ghosts? Jordan Still Can’t Explain What She Saw

    In Togethermess Episode 283, we somehow go from Chicago sports and Halloween decorating chaos to creepy dolls, haunted places, ghost stories, and the guy in San Diego we still swear did not seem human. Then Jordan shares the childhood experience that shaped the way she thinks about faith to this...

  7. We Used to Live VERY Different Lives

    In Togethermess Episode 282, we somehow go from Friday energy and old Denver apartment memories to the moment Jeff realized, “I’ve got to change my life.” We talk about those early DBL years, the strip-club story that still makes us laugh, and how wildly different our life looked before kids,...

  8. Big BrotherMess LIVE - 9/24/26

    Recorded LIVE on 09/24/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform....

  9. Is AI Coming for Local News?

    In TogetherMess Episode 281, we somehow go from talking about Teslas and self-driving cars to wondering if AI is about to take over local news. Jeff has seen firsthand how much TV has already changed, and honestly, the whole thing kind of freaks us out. Are real people eventually getting…

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  10. The Neighborhood Incident That Really Upset Us

    Episode 280 gets surprisingly emotional as Jeff decides family memories matter more than money. We talk about his dad turning 80, Lawson turning 10, trying to make a Cubs game happen, crazy ticket prices, and why sometimes the right choice is the one you’ll still remember 20 years from now....

  11. Big BrotherMess LIVE - 9/17/26

    Recorded LIVE on 09/17/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform....

  12. We’re Done Putting Ourselves Last

    Fall has us in full reset mode. In TogetherMess Episode 279, we’re talking house projects, getting back into workouts, eating better, organizing our lives, and why feeling better physically can completely change your mindset. We’re trying to stop people-pleasing, clear the clutter, and focus on...

  13. Italy Was Beautiful… and Almost Took Us Out

    We’re back for Togethermess Episode 278 with part two of our Celebrity Cruise recap, from La Spezia and Jeff’s emotional family roots to Rome, the Colosseum, Trevi Fountain, Vatican stops, new travel friends, and us trying to slow down European-style Thank you to our partners! Shopify - Start…

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  14. Big BrotherMess LIVE - 9/10/26

    Recorded LIVE on 09/10/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform....

  15. Jordan Jumped Into the Mediterranean Fully Dressed

    We’re back from Europe and still trying to recover from vacation brain, jet lag, Leighton’s birthday, and real life hitting us all at once. We start with Barcelona, a rough flight, paella, rooftop views, cruise life, and why Celebrity Cruises may have spoiled us forever. Our official Jeff and...

  16. Jordan Was Out, So Jeff and Payton Spiraled

    Jordan isn’t feeling great, so Payton stepped in with Jeff for a very different TogetherMess. We start with babysitting plans, neighborhood friendships, Dunkin orders, Chick-fil-A loyalty, stomach issues, and why Payton somehow knows all our neighbors. Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is…

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  17. The Plane Story That Became Jeff’s Nightmare

    We’re back for Togethermess Episode 275 with Payton, and somehow we go from hairy legs and salon crushes to business class people, sick husbands, airplane bathroom nightmares, and the kind of stomach bug stories nobody asked for but we told anyway. Our official Jeff and Jordan merch shop is now...

  18. Peyton Came Back and We Got Way Too Honest

    We’re back for Togethermess Episode 274 with Peyton joining us, and somehow we go from making fun of his Netflix recommendation to remembering Dolly Parton and family memories. Then we get real about postpartum depression, anxiety, panic attacks, asking for help, and how hard new motherhood can...

  19. News Drama, Netflix Fails, and Marriage Chaos

    We’re back for Togethermess Episode 273, and our house is full of screaming kids, fight-night plans, and very strong opinions. We talk about the viral Detroit news anchor drama, what really happens behind the scenes in TV, and why one leaked clip can change everything. Thank you to our partner…

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  20. Are Peptides Really the Future of Health?

    We’re back for Togethermess Episode 272 with part two of our peptide conversation with Trevor Cruder, and Jeff has even more questions. We talk about mixing peptides, beauty peptides, tanning, collagen, weight loss, energy, safety, and why this topic is suddenly everywhere. Our official Jeff and...

  21. Big BrotherMess LIVE - 8/20/26

    Recorded LIVE on 08/20/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform....

  22. Peptides, Weight Loss & Jeff’s Injury Questions

    We’re back for a special Togethermess Episode 271 with Trevor Kruder, founder and CEO of Paramount Health RX and Alpha Biomed Industries, to ask all the peptide questions Jeff has been saving up for years. We talk GLP-1s, injury recovery, weight loss, BPC-157, peptide safety, cancer questions,...

  23. Date Night, No Audio & Jeff Is Done With Tipping Culture

    We’re back for Togethermess Episode 270, and of course the episode starts messy because Jeff forgot to hit record, Jordan cut her finger, and the audio is not our finest moment. Then we get into lightning dismissal chaos, washable rugs, FaceTiming everyone after drinks, kids getting older,...

  24. Big BrotherMess LIVE - 8/13/26

    Recorded LIVE on 08/13/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform....

  25. The Boat Trip Almost Broke Us

    We’re back for Togethermess Episode 269 with our full Florida Keys vacation recap, and it was a lot. We talk about the trip getting messy with seaweed beaches, Lawson getting sick on the boat, Cuban coffee keeping us up till 4 a.m., airport luggage fights, flying anxiety, Chinese food after…

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  26. Ketchup Chaos, Awkward Bills & Fancy Dinner Drama

    We’re back for Togethermess Episode 268, and Jordan somehow has another Chick-fil-A incident. This time nobody got punched, but Leighton’s ketchup packet explodes onto a stranger’s handbag, Jordan panics, and Jeff has thoughts on kids, accidents, and public chaos. Then we get into awkward dinner...

  27. Big BrotherMess LIVE - 8/6/26

    Recorded LIVE on 08/06/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform....

  28. ChatGPT, Health Anxiety & Marriage Bickering

    We’re back for Togethermess Episode 267 from Florida, talking skin checks, Jordan’s Mohs surgery scar, Jeff’s rib pain, tennis elbow, health anxiety, ChatGPT, peptides, therapy, and why getting older suddenly feels very real. Then we get into Gary the wolf, old LA friends, Dubsmash memories,...

  29. Stomach Nightmare, Bully Drama & Parenting Panic

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  30. Big BrotherMess LIVE - 7/30/26

    Recorded LIVE on 07/30/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform....

  31. Fights, Fashion and Key Lime Pie

    We’re back for episode 265, and summer is officially in its chaotic era. We’re juggling work, kids, Big Brother lives, Florida plans, peptide talk, Mark Long’s podcast, MTV nostalgia, old VJs, and dream travel jobs. Then Jordan tells the wild Chick-fil-A play place story where Leighton got…

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  32. Costco, Lost Keys & Jeff’s Health Spiral

    We’re back for episode 264, and Jeff somehow turned a Chicken Riot shoot into a full lost-keys meltdown. After downloading an Infiniti app, setting off his car alarm twice, calling everyone for help, and almost making Jordan leave the water park, the keys were in the fridge. Then we get into…

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  33. Big BrotherMess LIVE - Episode 28.3 - 7/23/2026

    Recorded LIVE on 07/23/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform....

  34. Our Amazon Live Got Flagged for Nudity… Twice

    We’re back for episode 263 and somehow one Sunday turned into Amazon Live getting shut down for “nudity,” a bullsnake taking over the garage, Couch Jury chaos, a neighborhood power outage, scared kids, no AC, alarm alerts, and Jeff spiraling on zero sleep. Then we get into midnight golf cart...

  35. Exes, Italian Sausage, Diarrhea Lettuce & a Very Real Life Talk

    We’re back for episode 262 in full summer chaos mode: filming nonstop, juggling kids, Big Brother lives, pool days, work naps, Italian sausage in the fridge, casual Friday on TV, Colorado adventures, and Leighton warning kids at the pool not to eat lettuce. Then we get into exes on Instagram…

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  36. Big BrotherMess LIVE - Episode 28.2 - 7/16/2026

    Recorded LIVE on 07/16/26 ! Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe on your favorite podcast platform....

  37. The Beauty Salon Gossip Got Too Real

    We’re recording late after Jordan’s four-hour hair appointment, and somehow we go from baseball streaming complaints to Italian deli sandwiches, hair extensions, breast cancer confidence, salon gossip, Beverly Hills plastic surgery stories, and why ESPN makes Jeff feel personally attacked....

  38. Are Our Phones Ruining Everything?

    From social media habits to finding peace in nature, Jeff and Jordan have an honest conversation about staying present, getting outdoors, and why it's so hard to disconnect. Thank you to our partners: Shopify - Start your free trial at SHOPIFY.COM/togethermess We would love your feedback... If…

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  39. Big BrotherMess LIVE - Episode 28.1 - 7/8/2026

    Recorded LIVE on 07/08/26 ! With special Guest Richard James Don't miss out on our mess! Follow us: INSTAGRAM - @togethermesspod JEFF - @jeffschroeder23 JORDAN - @bbjordanlloyd We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you subscribe…

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  40. Big Brother 28 Predictions, Phone Addiction & Bull Snakes vs. Rattlesnakes?!

    From Big Brother 28 excitement to fall decorating, football season, AI shopping finds, movie nostalgia, and one very unexpected debate about bull snakes versus rattlesnakes, this episode goes completely off the rails—in the best way possible. Thank you to our sponsors AG1 - Visit...

  41. We Thought Our Plans Were Falling Apart... Then Everything Changed

    We're sharing the story behind our courthouse wedding, becoming parents, career setbacks, and the unexpected moments that changed our lives forever. Thank you to our sponsors AG1 - Visit DRINKAG1.com/TOGETHERMESS to get a free AG1 Travel Case with 7 free AG1 Travel Packs in your Welcome Kit with...

  42. Jordan Found Something On Her Boob… And Panicked

    Jordan starts the episode with a very questionable boob situation that may or may not be a spider bite, and somehow we spiral into anxiety, insurance problems, World Cup drama, Netflix cliffhangers, broken outlets, bad movie logic, and why nothing in our house can just work normally for one full...

  43. Tipping Culture, Toy Story & Parenting Old School

    Jeff is punctual, Jordan hates being late, and somehow we spiral from Botox appointments, gas station Cokes, cash, Venmo, checks, and tipping screens into a full Togethermess debate about why every checkout now wants 20% for doing absolutely nothing. We also talk Tom Sandoval drama, old-school...

  44. The Most Embarrassing Thing I've Done at Costco

    Jeff and Jordan are back from their trips and catching up on everything—from an accidental Costco line-cutting incident and a surprisingly passionate chip debate to Disney ride mishaps, Father's Day memories, and the question nobody saw coming: why don't bald guys just tattoo hair on their heads?…

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  45. Is the World Weird… or Are We Just Getting Older?

    It's a little bit of everything this week: family trips, Father's Day reflections, summer chaos, and trying to keep our cool while parenting two wild boys. We also get nostalgic about grandparents, old memories, and reality TV, while Jeff wonders if the world has gotten weirder or if he's just...

  46. Bunnies, Independence & Fake Pregnancies

    Lawson is getting more independence, and Jordan is learning how hard it is to let go. Plus, Jeff shares hilarious stories from his childhood, growing up in an Italian neighborhood where life looked a lot different than it does today. Thank you to our partners: Quince - Go to…

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  47. From Foul Balls to Tennis Elbow: We’re Getting Older

    This week, Jeff and Jordan are feeling their age. From a dropped foul ball that left one kid devastated, to tennis elbow, mystery ear crystals, and sciatica flare-ups, they're discovering that getting older comes with some unexpected adventures. They also talk overpriced sports tickets,...

  48. Bingo Tears, Pirate Nights & Disney Magic

    We're wrapping up our Disney vacation recap with all things Disney Wish! From Castaway Cay and pirate night to bingo heartbreak, Broadway-caliber shows, and cruise hacks, we're sharing our favorite memories, biggest surprises, and why we'd absolutely do it all again. We would love your…

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  49. Big Drops & Disney Adults

    We survived Disney World! In Part 1 of our family vacation recap, we're sharing our favorite memories, biggest surprises, funniest moments, park tips, and a few frustrations along the way. We would love your feedback... If you enjoyed this episode, tell us why! Leave us a review and make sure you...

  50. The Big Brother Questions Got Real

    The listener Q&A continues! Jeff and Jordan dive into Big Brother memories, the realities of reality TV fame, long-distance dating after the show, family life, future adventures, and why sleeping in separate rooms might actually be the secret to a happy marriage. Plus, a debate over expensive...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Husband and wife, Jeff Schroeder and Jordan Lloyd are no strangers to Reality TV. From Big Brother to The Amazing Race, Couples Therapy, and their very own, Jeff and Jordan Do America, this team knows just how messy life can get. Listen each week as together they dive into parenting, marriage, Reality TV, pop culture and so much more!

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Jeff Schroeder and Jordan Lloyd

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What is Togethermess about?

Husband and wife, Jeff Schroeder and Jordan Lloyd are no strangers to Reality TV. From Big Brother to The Amazing Race, Couples Therapy, and their very own, Jeff and Jordan Do America, this team knows just how messy life can get. Listen each week as together they dive into parenting, marriage,...

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