Trin Told Me

In this episode, I'm catching you up on everything that's been going on, from my recent breakup to my vacation and all the life lessons I've learned along the way. I'm sharing what's helped me heal, how I've been navigating heartbreak, the mindset shifts that changed everything for me, and why this chapter has taught me so much about self-love, manifestation, and embracing new beginnings. If you're going through a breakup or just need a reminder that better things are ahead, this episode is for you.SUBMISSIONS- ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog⁠SHOP MY SWIMWEAR COLLECTION- ⁠⁠https://mysecretswim.com/⁠⁠ STREAM MY SONG "UNDERCOVER-⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=780b1d9d21c14d2b⁠⁠

Have you ever wondered if having a roster actually helps your dating life... or if it's secretly making it harder to find a real connection?In this episode, KJ and I are debating the pros and cons of having a roster and whether keeping your options open is actually the move. We talk about the psychology behind the paradox of choice, share our own dating experiences, and discuss why having too many options can sometimes leave you feeling even more confused.We also get into emotional availability, self-worth, and whether people keep rosters because they're protecting their hearts or just avoiding commitment. Plus, we share our honest opinions on whether a roster helps you find the right person or keeps you from giving someone a real chance.If you've ever had a roster, been on someone's roster, or you're just trying to figure out what actually works in dating, this episode is for you. 💗SUBMISSIONS- ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog⁠SHOP MY SWIMWEAR COLLECTION- ⁠⁠https://mysecretswim.com/⁠⁠ STREAM MY SONG "UNDERCOVER-⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=780b1d9d21c14d2b⁠⁠Kjs linksTikTok - https://share.google/KAGD4h9w9GaeehmiYInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/blair.kaitlinSpotify - https://open.spotify.com/artist/your-spotify-link

In this episode, I'm sharing my favorite tips for becoming more attractive by focusing on what truly matters on the inside. I talk about how building confidence, finding hobbies you genuinely love, taking care of yourself, and knowing your worth can completely change the way you show up in the world. I also share why gratitude has become such an important part of my life and how embracing your authentic self is the ultimate glow up. If you've ever wanted to feel more confident, radiant, and secure in who you are, this episode is for you. Let's work on becoming the best version of ourselves together because real beauty always starts from within.SUBMISSIONS- ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog⁠SHOP MY SWIMWEAR COLLECTION- ⁠⁠https://mysecretswim.com/⁠⁠ STREAM MY SONG "UNDERCOVER-⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=780b1d9d21c14d2b⁠⁠

In this episode I did a full Q&A where I answered your questions and literally nothing was off limitsWe got into everything from relationships and dating to self-love, travel, and just real life situations that you guys are going through. Some of the questions were funny, some were a little crazy, and some were actually really deep, but I answered all of them honestlyI talked about how to make a man obsessed with you, what actually matters in relationships, and how to stop overthinking every little thing when it comes to guysI also shared some of my experiences traveling, little life updates, and just random stories that came up while answering your questions because somehow everything always connectsThis episode is very unfiltered, a little chaotic, and just feels like you’re sitting with me while we talk about everything you’ve ever wanted to askIf you like honest advice, random stories, and real answers without sugarcoating anything, you’re gonna love this one 💋SUBMISSIONS- ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog⁠SHOP MY SWIMWEAR COLLECTION- ⁠⁠https://mysecretswim.com/⁠⁠ STREAM MY SONG "UNDERCOVER-⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=780b1d9d21c14d2b⁠⁠

In this episode I’m basically oversharing again but this time we’re getting into mental health relationships and all the little things your brain and body are trying to tell you that you keep ignoringWe talk about how starting certain habits just to cope can actually mess with you more than you think and why avoiding your feelings is not the vibe even though it feels easier in the moment and yes I’m calling myself out tooThen we get into relationships because why are we always confused about men when sometimes the answer is literally right in front of us I break down how proximity can trick you into thinking you like someone more than you actually do and why your body will straight up tell you when something is off like those random icks or weird feelings you cannot explain yeah those mean somethingWe also talk about boundaries communication and being honest about what you actually want because if you are just going along with something to fill a void it will catch up to you every single timeThis episode is a mix of life lessons mistakes realizations and me just trying to make sense of everything like the rest of youMoral of the story listen to yourself stop ignoring obvious signs and maybe stop putting yourself in situations you already know are not itYou are allowed to take your time you are allowed to figure things out and you are allowed to choose what actually feels right for you 💋SUBMISSIONS- ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog⁠SHOP MY SWIMWEAR COLLECTION- ⁠⁠https://mysecretswim.com/⁠⁠ STREAM MY SONG "UNDERCOVER-⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=780b1d9d21c14d2b⁠⁠

In this episode, I’m talking about growth, creativity, and really stepping into your life with intention.The main focus of this episode is that I picked a bunch of stories to read and react to, all centered around one thing we’re always trying to figure out… how to tell if a guy actually likes you or not. I break down the patterns, the signals, and the moments that make it obvious versus the ones we tend to overthink.I also share what I’ve been working on creatively, how I’ve been thinking about turning ideas into something bigger, and why your mindset, your environment, and the people around you play such a huge role in your success.We get into relationships and understanding romantic signals in a real and honest way, because the truth is, when a guy likes you, it’s usually obvious. And when it’s not, that tells you something too.I also touch on staying productive during the summer, using your time intentionally, and not letting your goals fall to the side just because life feels more relaxed.This episode is your reminder to trust yourself, be bold with your feelings, and stop overcomplicating things that are meant to feel simple SUBMISSIONS- ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog⁠SHOP MY SWIMWEAR COLLECTION- ⁠⁠https://mysecretswim.com/⁠⁠ STREAM MY SONG "UNDERCOVER-⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=780b1d9d21c14d2b⁠⁠

In this episode, I’m getting real about something every girl deals with but no one really prepares you for… periods and shaving during the summer.Because let’s be honest, summer is supposed to be fun, carefree, and hot girl energy… but instead you’re dealing with razor burn, sweating on your period, cramps in the heat, and trying to figure out how to live your life comfortably through all of it.I share some of my own experiences, including a very chaotic story from when I was younger, and all the little things I’ve learned along the way that actually make a difference. We talk about shaving routines that help prevent irritation, different hair removal options, and what’s actually worth it versus what’s not.Then we get into periods during the summer—how to deal with cramps in the heat, why hydration matters more than you think, how to handle bloating without spiraling, and tips for staying comfortable and confident even when your body feels off.I also talk about swimming on your period, options like tampons and period swimwear, and how to find what works best for you without feeling embarrassed or stressed.This episode is very honest, very relatable, and just a reminder that everything you’re experiencing is normal—and you’re not the only one figuring it out as you go.Being a girl in the summer is a lot… but we’re learning how to make it easier together SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogSHOP MY SWIMWEAR COLLECTION- ⁠https://mysecretswim.com/⁠ STREAM MY SONG "UNDERCOVER-⁠https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=780b1d9d21c14d2b⁠

In this episode, I’m opening up about something I’ve been going through recently—summer depression, feeling off, and trying to find my way back into a routine that actually makes me feel good again.I talk about what it’s been like navigating that mentally, how it’s affected my energy and motivation, and the little things I’ve been doing to slowly pull myself out of it. From giving my room a full glow-up to resetting my space and environment, I’ve been focusing on creating a version of my life that feels lighter, calmer, and more aligned.I also get real about some recent health struggles and why I’ve been learning to prioritize self-care in a more intentional way, instead of just pushing through everything.And of course, we get into some honest Q&A—talking about relationships, intimacy, and those questions you might be too scared to ask out loud.This episode is very real, very unfiltered, and just a reminder that you don’t have to have everything figured out. You’re allowed to reset, take care of yourself, and rebuild your routine in a way that actually supports you 🤍SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogSHOP MY SWIMWEAR COLLECTION- https://mysecretswim.com/STREAM MY SONG "UNDERCOVER-https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=780b1d9d21c14d2b

In this episode, I’m talking about the moment everything clicked for me at Miami Swim Week—and how it completely changed the way I see confidence, success, and this idea of being “out of someone’s league.”I went into it thinking the girls who stood out the most would be the ones with the most “perfect” bodies, but that wasn’t the case at all. The girls who actually booked, who actually got attention, were the ones who walked in like they already belonged there. Their energy, their body language, the way they carried themselves… it was like they had already done it a million times.And that made me realize something: there are no real leagues. There’s just how you see yourself and how you show up.In this episode, I break down how self-perception shapes the way other people treat you, why confidence is something you create (not something you wait for), and how the “fake it till you make it” mindset actually works on a psychological level. I also give real-life examples of how to apply this to dating, career opportunities, and going after things that feel out of reach.If you’ve ever felt like someone or something was “out of your league,” this episode is your reminder that the only thing separating you from it… is how you decide to show up.Because the moment you act like you belong… people start to believe it too 💫SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogSHOP MY SWIMSUIT COLLECTION- https://mysecretswim.com/

In this episode, I’m sitting down and talking all things crushes, relationships, and navigating those confusing in-between stages where you’re trying to figure out what someone feels… while also figuring out your own emotions.I share personal stories, real situations, and answer some of your questions about what to do when you like someone, how to tell if they like you back, and how to move things forward without overthinking every little detail. Because let’s be honest… having a crush can be exciting, confusing, and slightly chaotic all at the same time.We also get into dealing with social situations, boundaries, and even things like strict parents or limitations that can make dating feel harder than it needs to be. I talk about how to handle those situations while still staying true to yourself and your goals.This episode is all about confidence, clear communication, and trusting yourself instead of constantly second-guessing everything.If you’ve ever had a crush and thought “what is actually going on right now”… this is your guide to navigating it with a little more clarity and a lot more confidence 💋SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogBUY MY BOOK- https://www.amazon.com/How-Get-Guy-10-Days/dp/B0FH2X7VWV/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.6xlzXR-1wTQPvRFyzNO0p-5MArNpx2eXh_LNnKUqHISZ5M6REi2BM23sg3H42xDnmb0NfAG07_tcLbeYfTbVwQpApG5Yl6VpHRHWUEylwQ_kFYV7WloNwnhVTM5Gq_128bMzkU-ReMkdUcLIYRJwOrfNwNv0rf88de4qoILDwZwsiwwu5qc2Xx60_Vdh-k89Amsj5QpItH70lgF2U9xoJHa7B1mupeniFzdamhPNTJA.8Z05P7On-Ub5pB368A9PDeuH5aYCdxZjxMAwxyjGf0I&dib_tag=se&keywords=HOW+TO+GET+A+GUY+IN+10+DAYS&nsdOptOutParam=true&qid=1779431620&sr=8-1

Happy monday divasIn this episode, I’m talking about what it really means to be a girl’s girl—and why that mindset is so powerful.We get into the history of how women have been conditioned to see each other as competition, whether it’s for attention, validation, or love, and how that narrative still shows up in our lives today. I talk about how easy it is to fall into comparison, jealousy, and silent competition… and why breaking out of that is one of the most freeing things you can do.I also share my own thoughts, experiences, and real-life situations where you’re faced with the choice to either support another woman or compete with her—and how to handle those moments with confidence, empathy, and self-respect.This episode is about unlearning what we’ve been taught, building genuine confidence, and choosing community over comparison. Because at the end of the day, women don’t thrive by tearing each other down—we thrive together.If you’ve ever felt jealous, insecure, or unsure how to show up as a girl’s girl… this is your reminder that you can be kind, confident, and powerful all at the same time 💋SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogSTREAM MY NEW SONG- https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=bde4616907cc40da

HELLO BADDIES AND HAPPY FRIDAYIn this episode, I’m breaking down what your crush is actually thinking… because while we’re over here analyzing every text, every look, every little detail like it’s a full investigation, they’re honestly just… not.I get into the psychology behind why we overthink so much, why we stalk their social media like detectives, and what’s really going on in their minds during all those moments like first texting, flirting, hanging out, and everything in between. Spoiler alert… it’s a lot simpler than we make it in our heads.This episode is a mix of funny, real, and slightly humbling, because once you understand how differently guys process things, it honestly takes so much pressure off of you.We also talk about how to communicate better with your crush, stop spiraling over small things, and start moving with more confidence instead of confusion.If you’ve ever stared at your phone wondering why he hasn’t texted back, replayed a conversation a hundred times, or convinced yourself you did something wrong… this one’s for you.Because sometimes the truth is… he’s not overthinking you.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogSTREAM MY SONG- https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=ea5169235d374cb0

HI baddies!! Happy Monday.In this episode, I’m opening up about a situationship I went through with someone who had toxic tendencies and how I noticed the warning signs early enough to walk away before it turned into something worse.I share what those red flags looked like , how they showed up subtly in the beginning, and what made me finally realize this isn’t something I should stay in. Because the truth is not all toxic behavior looks obvious at first. Sometimes it starts small and that’s exactly why it’s so important to catch it early.We get into the difference between toxic traits and dangerous ones, the psychology behind them, and the early warning signs you should never ignore. This episode is here to help you protect your energy, trust your instincts, and understand when it’s time to leave no matter how hard that might feel.If you take anything from this, let it be this. You are not here to fix someone at the cost of yourself.If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, you are not alone. You can reach out to the National Domestic Violence HotlineText START to 88788Call 1 800 799 7233This episode is your reminder to choose yourself every single time 💋SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogSTREAM MY NEW SONG "UNDERCOVER"- https://open.spotify.com/track/7ylgLLPbyYy6Xe1nYFr8b0?si=58d77e050f194d24

Hi divas! I firstly want to apologize for the video quality- just know I am actively working on fixing it! I love you all so much.In this episode, I’m opening up about something we’ve all experienced—fighting with our parents and feeling like they just don’t understand us.I talk about what it was like growing up with strict parents, how it made me feel, and how I would watch my friends have full-on arguments with theirs and be like… wait, how did we even get here? We’re diving into the emotional side of it—why we feel things so intensely during our teenage years, what’s actually happening in our brains and hormones, and why small things can feel so overwhelming.I also share ways to handle those moments better—how to communicate without escalating, how to have empathy even when you’re frustrated, and how to protect your peace while still respecting your parents.Plus, I’m sharing some creative and meaningful last-minute Mother’s Day gift ideas that go beyond just buying something—things that actually feel personal and special.And a little life update… I just dropped my song Undercover, so I’m talking about that too and what it means to me 🤍This episode is all about growing, understanding yourself, and learning how to navigate family relationships with a little more softness and a lot more self-awareness.If you feel unsafe at home or are experiencing abuse, please reach out. You are not alone, and there are people who want to help and support you.Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline-Call or text: 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

HAPPY MONDAY BADDIESIn this episode, I’m getting into the real truth about sneaky links and friends with benefits—the parts people don’t always talk about.I share my own experiences, the good, the bad, and the ones I would never repeat, and break down the rules you need if you’re going to step into something casual without losing yourself in the process. Because as fun and carefree as it sounds… there are emotional, mental, and even physical consequences if you’re not careful.We talk about how men tend to categorize women—whether it’s “wifey,” “crush,” or “sneaky link”—and why it’s so important to understand the role you’re stepping into before you get attached. I also dive into what actually happens in your brain when you hook up with someone, and why catching feelings isn’t always something you can control.This episode is all about protecting your energy, setting boundaries, and staying safe—whether that means using protection, getting tested, or knowing when it’s time to walk away.And most importantly, I remind you that your sexual energy is powerful. You don’t have to give it away to feel validated—you can channel it into your confidence, your creativity, and your glow-up.If you’ve ever had a sneaky link, thought about one, or are currently in something casual… this is your guide to doing it smart, safely, and without losing your power.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

Hello baddies..In this episode, I’m diving into something we need to talk about more—the gender orgasm gap. Because let’s be real… why has it been so normalized for women to walk away unsatisfied?I open up about my own experiences, the things I had to learn, and the shift that happens when you stop treating your pleasure like an afterthought. We’re getting into the science behind female orgasms, the different types you can experience, and how your body is actually wired for pleasure in more ways than you’ve probably been taught.But here’s the real tea—it’s not just physical. Your mind, your confidence, and the way you see yourself play such a huge role. I’ll walk you through the mental and physical techniques that can help you actually get there, plus how to communicate what you want without feeling awkward, guilty, or “too much.”We’re also breaking down the myths that have been holding women back for way too long—because you deserve to understand your body, own your desires, and feel fully confident in your sexuality.This episode is your reminder: your pleasure matters. And once you truly believe that… everything changes. 💋SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

Hi Divas. In this episode, I’m walking you through how to truly glow up for summer—emotionally, mentally, and physically ✨💖 I talk about letting go of everything that’s been weighing you down, stepping into a lighter, more confident version of yourself, and creating a summer that actually feels as good as it looks. We get into emotional release, balancing your hormones, resetting your mindset with affirmations, and building habits that make you feel confident, energized, and radiant. This is your sign to stop carrying old energy into a new season and start showing up as your best, happiest, most magnetic self. It’s giving soft reset, hot girl summer, and main character energy all in one.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

HI DIVAS. In this episode, we’re talking about how to become a professional flirter ♡ I’m breaking down how flirting doesn’t have to be scary or cringey. It can be playful, thrilling, and honestly so much fun. I’m sharing my favorite tips on how to make someone feel personally seen, what to say to create chemistry, how to use teasing, eye contact, soft feminine energy, body language, and even how to flirt over text. We’re also getting into the psychology of attraction—how to make your flirting hit that sweet spot in the brain and leave a little sparkle behind. Plus, how to tell if they’re flirting with you too. If you’ve ever wanted to be more confident, more magnetic, and a little dangerously charming… this episode is your flirtation handbook.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode, I’m talking about something that terrifies people but secretly changes everything… making the first move.I break down exactly how I do it—from getting ready, to setting the scene, to building that romantic tension so it actually feels natural and not forced. Because the truth is, confidence isn’t about not being nervous… it’s about doing it anyway and trusting yourself in the moment.We get into how to read the energy, drop hints, and create a moment that feels memorable instead of awkward. And yes, we’re talking about consent too—because it’s not weird, it’s actually one of the most attractive things you can do.I also share some personal experiences, little things that have worked for me, and the mindset shifts that make you feel way less scared to go for what you want.Plus, I give you guys a little life update and talk about my music journey and everything I’ve been working on behind the scenes—because chasing what you love is the ultimate confidence booster.This episode is your reminder that you don’t have to wait to be chosen…sometimes, you get to choose.And that’s where the magic starts.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode, I’m breaking down the real psychology of attraction… and it’s probably not what you think.It’s not about being the prettiest girl in the room or having everything “perfect.” It’s about your energy. Your confidence. The way you see yourself when no one else is watching.I talk about how self-love is the foundation of everything—because the way you treat yourself quietly teaches people how to treat you. We get into the little psychological shifts that change everything: scarcity, mystery, emotional connection, and why being slightly out of reach can make someone lean in closer.I’m also sharing personal stories, lessons I’ve learned, and insights from one of my favorite books that completely changed the way I view attraction. Plus, I give you practical steps you can start using right now to build confidence, trust yourself, and naturally become more magnetic without forcing anything.This episode is about becoming the kind of person people are drawn to… not because you’re trying to be, but because you just are.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

I’m getting real in this episode… like sleepover-at-his-house real.We’re talking about what actually goes down when you spend the night at a guy’s place—the expectations, the pressure, the unspoken energy—and how to walk into it feeling confident, prepared, and fully in control of yourself. I share my own stories, what I’ve learned the hard way, and the things I wish someone told me before I ever showed up with an overnight bag.We also get into boundaries (how to set them and actually stick to them), safety tips you should never ignore, and the truth about how guys think in these moments. Because once you understand their mindset, you move differently… softer, smarter, more powerful.And of course, I’m taking you into my Coachella experience—what it’s really like your first time, what to expect, and how to stay safe while still having the time of your life.This episode is your guide to navigating dating, sleepovers, and big social moments without losing yourself in the process. It’s about choosing you, protecting your energy, and leaving every situation feeling like you’re the prize.Because you are. AlwaysSUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode, I’m giving you the ultimate big sister guide to navigating relationships, confidence, and what to actually expect when you go over to a boy’s house for the first time.We’re talking about everything—from how to know if you should even go, to getting ready, making a great impression, and the little things that make you feel confident and in control. I also share the subtle red flags to watch for, how to protect your energy, and how to move in a way that keeps you feeling safe, respected, and completely yourself.Of course, we keep it fun too—stories, games, and all the little moments that make these experiences unforgettable.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode, I’m getting real about body confidence… especially during the times it feels the hardest-summer, bikinis, and intimacy.Because the truth is, almost every girl has had that moment of standing in front of the mirror, picking herself apart, wondering if she’s “good enough” to be seen. And I’ve been there too.I’m sharing my own experiences with insecurity, the thoughts I had to unlearn, and the mindset shifts that actually helped me feel confident in my body—not just when I look “perfect,” but in my everyday life.We’re talking about how to walk into summer feeling free, how to feel comfortable being seen, and how to stop letting insecurity control your experiences. I also give practical tips, affirmations, and little mental rewires that have genuinely changed the way I see myself.This episode is your reminder that confidence isn’t about having the “perfect” body… it’s about finally feeling at home in the one you already have. 💌SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode, I’m opening up in a way I haven’t before… taking you with me through one of the most emotional seasons of my life—my first heartbreak.I went back into my old journal entries, the raw, unfiltered thoughts I wrote when everything felt heavy, confusing, and honestly… a little broken. And now, I’m reading them from a healed version of me.We’re talking about what heartbreak really does to you, how it changes the way you see love, and how I slowly found my way back to myself. I share the lessons I didn’t understand at the time, but now realize were shaping me into someone stronger, softer, and more whole.If you’re going through a breakup, missing someone, or just trying to feel like yourself again… this episode is for you.You’re not alone in this. And I promise—there is a version of you on the other side of this that feels lighter, wiser, and so deeply in love with her own life again.

In this episode, I’m getting real about the things men don’t openly say—but absolutely show through their behavior. I break down the psychology behind how men think, what they’re actually drawn to, and the subtle patterns that can either raise your value… or lower it without you realizing.We talk about men’s emotional needs, their vulnerabilities, and why attraction isn’t built on being “perfect” or overly giving—but on self-respect, patience, and knowing how to move with intention. I share the small shifts that completely change how you’re perceived, from how you give your time and energy to how you create anticipation and connection.I also dive into protecting yourself—how to spot manipulation, set boundaries, and stay grounded in your worth so you’re not overextending for someone who hasn’t earned you. Because the goal isn’t just to attract a man… it’s to keep your power while doing it.This episode is your reminder that confidence is quiet, value is felt, and the right person will rise to meet you—not the other way around.

In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to get a prom date in five days—yes, five. I walk you through a step-by-step game plan using confidence, psychology, and a little bit of manifestation magic to help you actually attract the person you want, instead of chasing them.I talk about how to shift your energy, how to make someone see you differently, and the subtle things that create attraction without you even realizing it. From visualization techniques to playful strategies that make you stand out, I’m giving you everything I would do if I had to secure a date on a deadline.But we’re also going deeper. Because getting the date isn’t the real win—it’s becoming the version of you that feels chosen, confident, and magnetic no matter what. I touch on the internal work behind love, how to rebuild your confidence after a breakup, and why self-worth is the foundation of any relationship.This episode is part strategy, part glow-up, and part big sister advice. If you’ve ever wanted someone to see you in a different light—or you just want to walk into prom season feeling like that girl—this one’s for you.SUBMISSIONS- ⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m getting into something we’ve all dealt with at some point… the friend zone.I talk about how to tell if a guy friend actually likes you, how to friend zone someone without completely ruining the relationship, and what to do if you’re the one stuck in the friend zone and want out. I also share some funny, slightly chaotic stories from my own life (because of course I’ve been through this), and break down the psychology behind attraction, boundaries, and emotional connection.We get into how to subtly shift energy, create romantic association, and why things like confidence, perception, and timing matter so much. Whether you’re trying to keep things platonic or turn a friendship into something more, this episode is your guide to navigating it all without losing yourself in the process.Let’s be honest… the friend zone is confusing—but once you understand it, you can actually control how the situation plays out.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, KJ and I are getting real about the party scene and everything we wish we knew before we started going out. We share some of our own experiences from parties, mixers, and nights out, and talk about what actually happens when alcohol gets involved — from how it affects your judgment and memory to why it’s so important to know your limits.We also dive into practical tips for partying responsibly, staying safe at events, and avoiding situations that can turn a fun night into a bad one. From watching your drink and sticking with your friends to making sure your phone is charged and trusting your instincts, we’re sharing the little things that can make a huge difference when you’re out.This episode is basically a big sister conversation about how to have fun, enjoy the party, and still stay in control of your night.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogUSE MY DISCOUNT CODE THET15- https://www.aelfriceden.com/.

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m diving into manifestation and how to align your energy with what you want most—whether that’s attracting your crush or calling in something bigger for your life. I break down some of my favorite manifestation techniques that help reprogram the subconscious and strengthen belief in your desires.We talk about powerful methods like sleep visualization, scripting, the O Method, the 369 technique, and the whisper method—each one designed to help you focus your emotional energy and bring your intentions into reality. I also explain why detachment is such a key part of manifestation and how believing it’s already yours changes the way the universe responds to you.If you’ve ever wondered how to shift your mindset, raise your energy, and manifest the things (and people) you want in your life, this episode is for you. Let’s tap into the power of belief, intention, and a little bit of magic.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogBUY MY BOOK- https://www.amazon.com/How-Get-Guy-10-Days/dp/B0FH2X7VWV

In this episode, I’m opening up about one of the most confusing and transformative times in a girl’s life: puberty. I share my personal experience going through puberty earlier than many of my peers, from getting my first training bra to navigating body changes, new hygiene routines, and getting my period at a young age. I talk honestly about how awkward and isolating those moments can feel when your body starts changing before everyone else’s.Along the way, I break down the science behind puberty and explain what’s actually happening inside our bodies when hormones like estrogen and progesterone begin to rise. I walk through the common signs of puberty, why things like body odor and mood swings start happening, and how to manage these changes with practical self-care habits.We also dive into the emotional side of growing up — why puberty can make you feel overwhelmed, sensitive, or even a little “crazy” sometimes, and why those feelings are completely normal. I even explore the idea of “second puberty,” the hormonal and body shifts many women notice in early adulthood as they transition from teenage years into their adult bodies.This episode is a big sister guide to understanding your body, embracing the changes that come with growing up, and remembering that everyone develops at their own pace.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogNEWS SEGMENT- https://www.wfla.com/video/celebrating-your-best-self-bloom/11579834/DISCORD- https://discord.com/channels/@me

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m joined by Chloe Madison from Unbothered for the ultimate big sister talk.We’re getting into all the things you usually have to learn the hard way—boys, rejection, making the wrong choices, getting in trouble, and figuring out your own path in life. This is one of those conversations where nothing is sugarcoated, but everything is coming from a place of wanting you to do better, feel better, and move smarter.We talk about what rejection really means (and why it’s not what you think), how to handle situations with guys without losing yourself, and how some of your biggest “mistakes” end up being the things that shape you the most.If you’ve ever felt lost, embarrassed, heartbroken, or like you’re learning everything the hard way… this episode is for you.Think of this as the advice we wish someone sat us down and told us earlierUNBOTHERED POD- https://share.google/5i6XvQU6sJZBXe96mSUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about something a lot of us go through but don’t always know how to handle—bullying and mental health.I open up about my own experiences with being bullied and how isolating it can feel when you don’t think anyone understands. We get into the psychology behind why people bully in the first place, and how sometimes the people hurting you are dealing with things you can’t see. Not to excuse it—but to help you stop internalizing it.I also walk you through real ways to cope when you’re going through it—how to reframe negative thoughts, protect your self-worth, and channel your emotions into something that actually helps you heal instead of hurting you more. We talk about reaching out for support, finding safe spaces, and reminding yourself that you are not what anyone says about you.If you’ve ever felt picked on, misunderstood, or just not enough… this episode is for you.You’re not alone in this. And you’re not the problemsubmissions- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogdiscord- https://discord.gg/fkATATeV

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m diving into something we’ve all felt but don’t always know how to navigate… confessing your feelings.I talk about the real truth behind telling someone you like them—when to do it, when to wait, and how timing can completely change the outcome. Because it’s not just about saying the words… it’s about the energy, the build-up, and whether you’ve created a space where those feelings can actually land.I break down the psychology of attraction and how to naturally make someone feel seen, appreciated, and special—without forcing anything. I also share how confidence shifts everything, why assuming they already like you changes your entire vibe, and how to stop putting people on pedestals when you are the prize.We get into different ways to confess—whether you’re more playful, bold, or soft—and how to choose a style that feels authentic to you. And of course, I talk about rejection… and why it has nothing to do with your worth, even if it feels personal in the moment.At the end of the day, this episode is about trusting yourself, protecting your energy, and remembering that the right person won’t need to be convinced—they’ll meet you right where you are.So if you’ve been wondering whether to say something… this is your sign to do it with confidence, clarity, and a little bit of magic.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

There’s something soft and electric about having a crush… like your heart is learning a new rhythm and your mind won’t stop replaying the “what ifs.” In this episode of Trent Told Me, I’m diving into exactly how to turn that energy into something real.We’re talking confidence—the kind that doesn’t beg to be chosen, but knows it already is. I’ll walk you through the subtle signs your crush might be feeling you too (yes, the nervous smiles and stolen glances mean something), and how to build that spark into an actual connection through conversation, presence, and a little bit of boldness.I’m also sharing my own story—because trust me, I’ve been there. From awkward moments to finally figuring out what actually works, I break it all down into simple, real steps you can use in your own life.But more than anything, this episode is your reminder: attraction isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about owning who you are. We’ll also get into the importance of communication, boundaries, and consent, because real connection always comes from mutual understanding and respect.So if you’ve got someone on your mind… this is your sign to stop overthinking and start stepping into your powerSUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about the real reasons someone might not like you back—and why it often has nothing to do with your worth.I break down the psychology of attraction, obsession, and emotional energy, and explain how giving too much of yourself too quickly can actually push someone away instead of drawing them closer. We talk about how emotional states transfer between people, why attraction thrives in ease instead of anxiety, and how obsession can quietly destroy polarity and desire.I also explore attachment styles, the importance of maintaining your own identity in relationships, and why self-validation is the foundation of healthy attraction. I share the common mistakes people make when they like someone, and how losing yourself in another person can make you feel less chosen—not more.Most importantly, I talk about how to reclaim your energy, rebuild your sense of self, and stop seeking reassurance from people who aren’t aligned with you. Because the truth is, attraction doesn’t grow from chasing—it grows from presence, confidence, and emotional stability.If you’ve ever wondered why someone pulled away, or how to stop obsessing over someone who isn’t choosing you, this episode will help you come back home to yourself.Love you. Mean it.

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about first dates — the nerves, the excitement, and how to actually walk into one feeling confident instead of anxious.I break down why first dates feel so intimidating and how so much of that anxiety comes down to self-worth and overthinking. I share how I personally prepare before a date — from choosing an outfit that makes me feel powerful to doing my makeup in a way that feels like me, not like I’m trying too hard.We talk about how to break the tension naturally, how to keep conversation flowing without it feeling like an interview, and why asking deeper questions creates emotional connection way faster than surface-level small talk. I also explain why compliments should focus on identity and character, not just looks — and how maintaining a little mystery actually increases attraction.I get into the psychology of desire, why you shouldn’t rush physical intimacy on the first date, and why letting a man pursue and prove his interest changes everything. Most importantly, I remind you that dating isn’t about impressing someone — it’s about deciding if they impress you.If you’ve ever felt nervous before a first date or questioned your worth walking into one, this episode is for you. Confidence isn’t about being perfect. It’s about knowing you’re valuable before you even sit down at the table.Love you. Mean it.SUBMISSIONS HERE- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about the real psychological impact of dating apps—what they do to our self-worth, how they rewire the way we see connection, and why so many people walk away feeling frustrated, insecure, or emotionally drained.I share my own experiences using dating apps, what initially makes them so appealing, and why that quick hit of validation can slowly turn into dependency. We get into the psychology behind instant gratification, comparison, and why swiping can make genuine connection feel harder instead of easier.I also talk about why your value can’t come from matches, messages, or attention from strangers—and how to start building validation through self-trust, mastery, and confidence outside of dating apps. If you’ve ever felt discouraged, disposable, or confused while dating online, this episode is meant to help you step back and reconnect with yourself.At the end of the episode, I answer listener questions about relationships, boundaries, and self-respect, and leave you with a reminder that real love starts with how you treat yourself.Whether you’re currently on dating apps, taking a break from them, or questioning if they’re even for you—this episode is an honest conversation about choosing genuine connection over constant validation.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

Valentine’s Day is coming up, and in this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking about everything—how to get a Valentine, how to move through dating with confidence, and how to protect your self-worth no matter your relationship status.I share my own experiences, the psychology behind attraction, and the exact mindset shifts that actually make a difference when it comes to love. We talk about researching your “target,” making the first move without feeling awkward, and using everyday moments and events as low-pressure ways to get closer to someone you like. I also break down why confidence and scarcity are so powerful in dating—and how assuming you’re already chosen can completely change the way people respond to you.This episode includes a Freaky Forecast where I explain what different Valentine’s gifts say about the person giving them, plus a real-life love story analysis that highlights the subtle signs of mutual attraction people usually miss.Whether you’re single, talking to someone, healing from a breakup, or just trying to love yourself a little more, this episode is here to remind you that you don’t need a Valentine to have an amazing day—but when you do have confidence, love tends to find you anyway.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode, I talk about red flags in relationships, especially when it comes to cheating, and why learning to see the signs early can save you so much time, energy, and heartbreak. I share a personal experience from high school when I was cheated on, the red flags I ignored, and what that situation taught me about self-worth, intuition, and emotional boundaries.We get into how insecurity shows up as jealousy and control, what manipulation and gaslighting actually look like in real life, and why being dismissed or blamed in a relationship is never okay. I also share my thoughts on catching a cheater, not through confrontation or spiraling, but through awareness, silence, and trusting your gut.This episode is for anyone who’s ever questioned themselves, stayed too long, or felt like something was off but couldn’t explain why. You deserve a partner who listens to you, respects you, and adds peace to your life, not confusion. Your intuition isn’t dramatic. It’s protective.Submissions- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m breaking down the idea of “dating leagues” and why they’re not real—they’re a mindset. We talk about how believing someone is “out of your league” is usually the very thing keeping you from them, and why the only real separation is the story you tell yourself.I share how your frequency shapes your life, why confidence is assumed beauty, and how attraction works when you stop chasing and start positioning yourself to be seen. We get into self-love, mystery, and the mindset shift of assuming you already have what you desire instead of wanting it from a place of lack.I also walk you through a simple, step-by-step formula for getting the attention of someone you think is out of reach—without forcing, begging, or shrinking yourself. This episode is about showing up as your best self, trusting your worth, and remembering that love responds to confidence, not insecurity.If you’ve ever felt like someone was “too good” for you, this episode is your reminder: leagues aren’t real, but your self-belief is. And that changes everythingSUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

THIS IS A RE-UPLOAD THE LAST FILE GOT CUT SHORT-In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m reflecting on high school, self-worth, and all the things I wish I had understood sooner. I talk about how those early years quietly shape the way we see relationships, confidence, and ourselves—and how unlearning the wrong lessons is part of growing into who you’re meant to be.We get into self-belief, why your thoughts truly do create your reality, and how confidence can open doors you didn’t even know were there. I share why embracing femininity is a strength, not a weakness, and how dressing for yourself can completely change the way you move through the world.This episode is about romanticizing your life, trusting your uniqueness, and knowing that you deserve love and respect simply because of who you are—not because of what you prove, chase, or tolerate. If you’re healing from your past, learning to believe in yourself, or stepping into a more confident, empowered version of you, this conversation is for you.You are special. You are here for a reason. And it really does get better when you start choosing yourself.SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m breaking down one of the most confusing parts of dating: mixed signals. We talk about what they actually mean, why they mess with your head so much, and how to stop overanalyzing every text, pause, or energy shift.I get into the real signs of interest—texting habits, effort, body language—and why consistency will always tell you more than words. We also talk about overthinking in relationships, what it reveals about your emotional state, and why silence doesn’t automatically mean rejection.Plus, we dive into a Freaky Forecast segment where I explain what the things you overthink the most say about you—and how to soften your mind instead of spiraling. This episode is all about remembering your worth, trusting attraction over chasing, and understanding that love is meant to meet you halfway.If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Does he like me or am I crazy?”—this one’s for you. And as always, I love you guys so much. Submissions here- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m sharing my journey from being a casual TikToker to becoming a podcaster and full-time influencer — and everything I wish I knew when I was just starting out. I talk about why understanding your why matters more than anything, and how setting the right intentions can completely change the way you show up online.I get into the real challenges of content creation, from finding inspiration to staying consistent when growth feels slow. We talk authenticity, personal branding, and why being yourself is actually your biggest advantage — even when it feels uncomfortable or unclear at first.This episode is for anyone who’s ever thought about creating content but didn’t know where to start, or felt stuck comparing themselves to others. I break down how to navigate the influencer space, stay motivated, and trust that success is possible when you stay patient, intentional, and true to who you are.If you’re building something — online or in real life — this is your reminder that everyone starts somewhere, and your journey is allowed to unfold in its own timeSUBMIT QUESTIONS HERE-https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m joined by my boyfriend, Parker, and we’re getting real about relationships, dating, and everything that comes with it. From heartbreak and mixed signals to self-worth and modern dating dilemmas, we dive into listener-submitted stories and give advice from both a female and male perspective.I share personal experiences that shaped how I see love and confidence, while Parker offers insight into the male mindset — including why some men flirt without real intentions and how attraction and emotional connection actually work. We talk about recognizing your value, not settling for less, and learning how to protect your heart without closing it off.We keep things light, funny, and honest, with a playful quiz segment where we test each other on gender dynamics (and expose a few surprises along the way). This episode is all about embracing who you are, understanding dating without losing yourself, and choosing self-love no matter where you are in your journey.If you’ve ever felt confused, insecure, or unsure in love — this one’s for youpodcast submissions- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I sit down with my twin sister KJ for a raw, heart-open conversation about sexuality, identity, and love in all its messy, beautiful forms. We share our personal stories of coming out, self-acceptance, and learning how to navigate relationships while staying true to who we are.This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt confused, pressured, scared, or alone while figuring themselves out. We talk about what it really means to be bisexual (without labels boxing you in), how to come out at your own pace, and why you never owe anyone access to your identity. We also dive into rejection, community, and the quiet power of choosing yourself—even when it’s hard.My goal with this episode is simple: to remind you that you’re not broken, you’re not late, and you’re not alone. You get to live authentically, protect your peace, and define love on your own terms PDCAST SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=107053614360929737017

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m getting real about fitting in, popularity, and the quiet pressure we all feel to be someone we’re not. I share personal stories (some embarrassing, some healing), along with listener submissions that prove none of us are alone in this experience.We talk about why the need to belong is so deeply wired into us, how popularity is more of a social illusion than a measure of worth, and why growing out of friendships isn’t a failure—it’s growth. I break down how to spot real friends, how peer pressure often says more about them than you, and why staying true to yourself will always feel better than chasing approval.There are laughs, a few “wait…that’s so true” moments, and the reminder you might need today: your vibe matters more than fitting in. Your people will find you when you stop shrinking to be accepted.If you’ve ever felt left out, misunderstood, or like you were trying too hard to belong—this one’s for youPODCAST SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode, I open up about my relationship with my body, my self-worth, and the quiet battles I’ve fought behind the screen. From hitting major milestones on social media to still feeling trapped in comparison, I talk honestly about how body image issues can exist even when life looks “perfect” from the outside.We dive into the psychology behind body image—how trauma, control, genetics, and social media can shape the way we see ourselves. I share my thoughts on eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and why healing isn’t about chasing a certain look, but learning how to feel safe, grounded, and at home in your body.This episode is about vulnerability, unlearning the lies we’ve been taught, and choosing self-acceptance over self-punishment. If you’ve ever felt like your worth was tied to your appearance, this conversation is for you. You’re not broken—you’re becoming.SUBMIT PODCAST QUESTIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m breaking down everything you need to know about kissing and makeout sessions — from the moment you feel the tension building to what happens after the kiss. I walk through how to set the scene, how to break the touch barrier naturally, and how to build anticipation without making things awkward.I share practical tips on how to kiss in a way that feels smooth, connected, and intentional (not chaotic), and I talk about why emotional presence matters just as much as physical technique. Throughout the episode, I use humor, personal stories, and big-sister advice to make the topic feel approachable instead of intimidating.I also answer relationship questions in the advice segment, where I talk about consent, communication, intuition, and the psychology behind the “ick.” This episode is all about helping you feel more confident in your body, your boundaries, and your ability to connect — without overthinking it.PODCAST SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog

In this episode, I’m sitting down to reflect on everything 2025 taught me — the growth, the discomfort, and the lessons I didn’t realize I was learning in real time. This year stretched me in ways I didn’t expect, and instead of rushing into surface-level New Year’s resolutions, I wanted to have an honest conversation about what I’m leaving behind and what I’m choosing to step into as I rebrand for 2026.I talk about letting go of imposter syndrome, self-doubt, and the constant feeling that I’m never doing enough. I share how I’m moving away from fear-based thinking and choosing joy, confidence, and self-trust instead. This episode is about giving myself permission to stop shrinking, stop waiting, and start living with intention.I also walk through what my 2026 rebrand looks like — not as a perfect version of myself, but as a more aligned, grounded, and confident one. I end the episode with practical mindset shifts, reflections on relationships, and a reminder that growth isn’t linear — it’s messy, personal, and still beautiful.PODCAST SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogMY BOOK LINK- https://a.co/d/3cLHQm3

In this episode of Trin Told Me, I talk about the complicated relationship between beauty, confidence, and self-worth—and how I had to unlearn the idea that being “hot” was the key to feeling enough. I share my own journey from feeling unattractive and hyper-aware of my looks to realizing that real confidence doesn’t come from the mirror, it comes from how safe you feel inside yourself.I break down the psychology behind attraction and dating, and I’m honest about my thoughts on “look maxing.” You can enhance your appearance if you want to—but when looks become the focus, they often turn into another way we punish ourselves. What I’ve learned is that personality, emotional intelligence, and presence are what actually build attraction over time.This episode is about self-acceptance. About remembering that your body isn’t something to fix—it’s something you chose. It’s the vessel your soul decided to live in. And when you stop trying to earn worth through beauty, confidence starts to feel natural instead of forced.PODCAST SUBMISSIONS- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialog