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Trying To Be Kind

Mahar, Fiona, and Jared do their best to say insightful things about one book or another in the tabletop RPG space.

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  1. 43

    Season 9, Episode 2: Bazinga

    Cardboard Ghosts: Using Physical Games to Model and Critique Systems, Amabel Holland, 2025 CRC Press. ttbk dot mailbag at gmail dot com

  2. 42

    Season 9, Episode 1: Asteroids or Whatever

    Cardboard Ghosts: Using Physical Games to Model and Critique Systems, Amabel Holland, 2025 CRC Press. ttbk dot mailbag at gmail dot com

  3. 41

    Season 9, Episode 0: I Stay Noided

    Cardboard Ghosts: Using Physical Games to Model and Critique Systems, Amabel Holland, 2025 CRC Press. ttbk.mailbag at gmail dot com

  4. 40

    Season 8, Episode 3: Foucault Is In This One

    The Well-Played Game: A Player's Philosophy, Bernard De Koven. MIT Press, 2013.

  5. 39

    Season 8, Episode 2: Feelings Are Facts

    The Well-Played Game: A Player's Philosophy, Bernard De Koven. MIT Press, 2013.

  6. 38

    Season 8, Episode 1: Something You'd Like To Have, But Didn't Know You Wanted

    The Well-Played Game: A Player's Philosophy, Bernard De Koven. MIT Press, 2013.

  7. 37

    Season 7, Episode 2: I Read Ulysses For Fun

    "King Me": A Defense of King-Making in Board Game Design, Cole Wehrle, GDC, 2019.  

  8. 36

    Season 7, Episode 1: Manly Pride Offended

    "King Me": A Defense of King-Making in Board Game Design, Cole Wehrle, GDC, 2019.  

  9. 35

    Season 7, Episode 0: The First TTRPG

    As usual, a buffer episode to lead into the new season. In which we discuss some texts we might tackle, baseball stadiums, shame rooms, and social media.

  10. 34

    Season 6, Episode 4: Fishsticks

    With special guest, Sam Sorensen, author of Seas of Sand and Time After Time. Critical Play: Radical Game Design, Mary Flanagan, MIT Press, 2009.

  11. 33

    Season 6, Episode 3: According to Very Reliable Psychological Sources

    There's some intermittent noise in the first few minutes of this episode, my apologies, but it clears up after a bit. Thanks for bearing with us in this difficult time. Critical Play: Radical Game Design, Mary Flanagan, MIT Press, 2009.

  12. 32

    Season 6, Episode 2: I'm Just Built Different

    Critical Play: Radical Game Design, Mary Flanagan, MIT Press, 2009. Raph Koster's Star Wars Galaxies Post-Mortem.

  13. 31

    Season 6, Episode 1: Mixed Martial Argument

    Critical Play: Radical Game Design, Mary Flanagan, MIT Press, 2009.   The audio is a little sketchy this episode, that's my bad. I'm aware, and I'm working on it for next time. Sorry! - Jared

  14. 30

    Season 6, Episode 0: I’m Here, I’m Vibing

    A buffer episode before we start the next season. Just three friends chatting about nothing, don't expect any big ideas. (And the audio is a little sketchy, forgive me.)

  15. 29

    Season 5, Episode 6: Lesbians On Ice

    Otaku: Japan's Database Animals; Hiroki Azuma, University of Minnesota Press, 2009. With special guest, Emma Yasui.

  16. 28

    Season 5, Episode 5: Our Animal Desires

    Otaku: Japan's Database Animals; Hiroki Azuma, University of Minnesota Press, 2009. With special guest, Emma Yasui.

  17. 27

    Season 5, Episode 4: How Do You Pronounce ’Hegel’?

    Otaku: Japan's Database Animals; Hiroki Azuma, University of Minnesota Press, 2009. With special guest, Emma Yasui.

  18. 26

    Season 5, Episode 3: Jared’s Tinfoil Hat

    Otaku: Japan's Database Animals; Hiroki Azuma, University of Minnesota Press, 2009. With special guest, Emma Yasui.

  19. 25

    Season 5, Episode 2: ”Otaku Culture”

    Otaku: Japan's Database Animals; Hiroki Azuma, University of Minnesota Press, 2009. With special guest, Emma Yasui.

  20. 24

    Season 5, Episode 1: It’s Been A While

    Otaku: Japan's Database Animals; Hiroki Azuma, University of Minnesota Press, 2009. With special guest, Emma Yasui.

  21. 23

    Season 4, Episode 7: He Got In The Robot

    Dangerous Games: What the Moral Panic over Role-Playing Games Says about Play, Religion, and Imagined Worlds; Laycock, University of California Press, 2015.

  22. 22

    Season 4, Episode 6: Stunt On Your Double

    This recording is a little noisier than normal at parts. Apologies! Dangerous Games: What the Moral Panic over Role-Playing Games Says about Play, Religion, and Imagined Worlds; Laycock, University of California Press, 2015. With special guest Joe DeSimone.

  23. 21

    Season 4, Episode 5: Canadian Thankful

    A casual, breezy episode, in which we don't talk about the book at all. Instead, we ask each other questions of various cruelty and reflect on the last two years of this silly podcast. Thanks for listening! We'll be back to our regularly scheduled programming next month.

  24. 20

    Season 4, Episode 4: I Suggest Therapy

    Dangerous Games: What the Moral Panic over Role-Playing Games Says about Play, Religion, and Imagined Worlds; Laycock, University of California Press, 2015. With special guest Joe DeSimone.

  25. 19

    Season 4, Episode 3: Dong Theory

    Dangerous Games: What the Moral Panic over Role-Playing Games Says about Play, Religion, and Imagined Worlds; Laycock, University of California Press, 2015. With special guest Joe DeSimone.

  26. 18

    Season 4, Episode 2: Dexterity

    Dangerous Games: What the Moral Panic over Role-Playing Games Says about Play, Religion, and Imagined Worlds; Laycock, University of California Press, 2015. With special guest Joe DeSimone.

  27. 17

    Season 4, Episode 1: Religion Is Interesting To Me

    Dangerous Games: What the Moral Panic over Role-Playing Games Says about Play, Religion, and Imagined Worlds; Laycock, University of California Press, 2015. With special guest Joe DeSimone.

  28. 16

    Season 3, Episode 2: Swamplet Johansson

    In which we continue to discuss that time Critical Role played Monsterhearts. With special guest Vi Huntsman of Collabs Without Permission. Music by Kelley Mangahas and Chris Zabriskie.

  29. 15

    Season 3, Episode 1: Critical Hearts, A Monster Role Story

    In which we begin to discuss that time Critical Role played Monsterhearts. With special guest Vi Huntsman of Collabs Without Permission. Music by Kelley Mangahas.

  30. 14

    Season 2, Episode 4: The Elusive Wrap-Up

    The Elusive Shift: How Role-Playing Games Forged Their Identity, Jon Peterson. Music by Kelley Mangahas.

  31. 13

    Season 2, Episode 3: The Sauna Episode

    Don't worry, this episode is content free. Just taking a breather to shoot the shoot. Happy holidays!   Music by Kelley Mangahas.

  32. 12

    Season 2, Episode 2: The Elusive Shift, The Role of the GM

    The Elusive Shift: How Role-Playing Games Forged Their Identity, Jon Peterson. Music by Joshua Cerdenia and Kelley Mangahas.

  33. 11

    Season 2, Episode 1: The Elusive Shift, Communities

    The Elusive Shift: How Role-Playing Games Forged Their Identity, Jon Peterson.   Music by Dj Cutman (CC BY-SA 4.0).

  34. 10

    Season 2, Episode 0: The Elusive Shift

    The Elusive Shift: How Role-Playing Games Forged Their Identity, Jon Peterson.   Music by Dj Cutman (CC BY-SA 4.0) and Urbano A. Zafra (public domain).

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    Episode 8: The Episode with a Content Warning

    CW: Discussion of insensitive remarks made by others regarding mental health, neurotype, and disability. --- Tabletop RPG Design in Theory and Practice at the Forge, William J. White.  Music by Dj Cutman (CC BY-SA 4.0) and Urbano A. Zafra (public domain).

  36. 8

    Episode 7: The Phenomenology of Being Ron Edwards

    Tabletop RPG Design in Theory and Practice at the Forge, William J. White.    Music by Dj Cutman (CC BY-SA 4.0) and Urbano A. Zafra (public domain).

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    Episode 6: Suffused with a Jaunty Arrow

    Tabletop RPG Design in Theory and Practice at the Forge, William J. White.  Music by Dj Cutman (CC BY-SA 4.0) and Urbano A. Zafra (public domain).

  38. 6

    Episode 5: Hashtag Influencers

    Tabletop RPG Design in Theory and Practice at the Forge, William J. White.  https://www.across-rpgsea.com/ https://momatoes.itch.io/the-magus https://dropbear-games.itch.io/fragments https://twitter.com/search?q=%23RPGLATAM&src=typed_query https://metalsnail.itch.io/colouring-book-dungeons https://dastardlydave.itch.io/eat-trash-be-free https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wu_Ming Monkeys Spinning Monkeys by Kevin MacLeod Link: //incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4071-monkeys-spinning-monkeys License: //creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Lobby Time by Kevin MacLeod Link: //incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3986-lobby-time License: //creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ 

  39. 5

    Episode 4: Contrary Energy

    Discussing Tabletop RPG Design in Theory and Practice at the Forge, William J. White.  Lobby Time by Kevin MacLeod Link: //incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3986-lobby-time License: //creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Bossa Antigua by Kevin MacLeod Link: //incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3454-bossa-antigua License: //creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

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    Episode 3: Activate Discourse

    Tabletop RPG Design in Theory and Practice at the Forge, William J. White.  Lobby Time by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3986-lobby-time License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Bossa Antigua by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3454-bossa-antigua License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

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    Episode 2: Implausible and Invidious

    Tabletop RPG Design in Theory and Practice at the Forge, William J. White.  Lobby Time by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3986-lobby-time License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Bossa Antigua by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3454-bossa-antigua License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

  42. 2

    Episode 1: Ethics and Dragonlance

    Tabletop RPG Design in Theory and Practice at the Forge, William J. White.  Monkeys Spinning Monkeys by Kevin MacLeod Link: //incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4071-monkeys-spinning-monkeys License: //creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Lobby Time by Kevin MacLeod Link: //incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3986-lobby-time License: //creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ 

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    Episode 0: Forgetting the Forge

    Tabletop RPG Design in Theory and Practice at the Forge, William J. White.  Monkeys Spinning Monkeys by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4071-monkeys-spinning-monkeys License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Lobby Time by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3986-lobby-time License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ 

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Mahar, Fiona, and Jared do their best to say insightful things about one book or another in the tabletop RPG space.

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