Episodes
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Exploring Bisexuality in "Straight" Relationships with John-Paul Davies (Season 10 Finale!)
It’s the season 10 finale! I can hardly believe it. This episode features the first half of an interview I did with John-Paul Davies – a psychotherapist, career-changer, author, and mental health commentator seen in media including the BBC, Psychologies Magazine, The Telegraph and The Independent…
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The Things We Don't Talk About with "The Kink Consultant" Amanda Dames
It's our 99th episode! (Maybe? Sort of? I haven't done the math...) And it's a great one. My guest Amanda Dames is a certified sex and relationship coach, former New York City dominatrix, and founder of The Kink Consultant. In this fascinating conversation, we explore the surprising overlaps...
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Inside BFF: The Story Behind the Biggest Bi+ Play Party in the World (Part 3)
Welcome to the final installment of my three-part series on BFF, the biggest, best, biannual, bisexual play party in Palm Springs. Before we dive in, I share an important disclaimer: BFF isn't for everyone. While I've found it to be one of the most accepting, freeing, and healing communities I've...
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BFF Part 2: Sacred, Depraved, and Everything In Between
Welcome back to part two of our three-part series on BFF, the biggest, best, biannual, bisexual play party in Palm Springs. A lot of play happens at this event, allowing attendees to embrace their desires, release shame, and connect authentically, but even more important is the atmosphere of...
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The Bi F*** Fest is About Way More Than F***ing
Two Bi Guys is back! This is the first of three episodes I recorded at BFF — the Bi F*** Fest — a biannual, four-day play party in Palm Springs, centering bisexuality and especially bi men. I recorded these interviews in the pool on the last day, mic in hand, wandering around while people were...
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Never Too Late: Doug Moffitt Comes Out At 84
Think it's too late for you to come out? Have you ever let regret about the past get in the way of making empowering decisions for your future? We've all been there — but it's never too late to live your life authentically and intentionally. This week, I sit down with Doug Moffitt, who began...
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Psychedelics Feel Bi
Today we're talking about psychedelics and how they can intersect with queerness and the journey toward authenticity. I recently went on a new(ish) bi podcast called "This Feels Bi", where I was interviewed by co-hosts Amanda Kohr and Erin Deason about one of my favorite topics. We talked about...
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Dr. Joshua Gebhardt's Queer Journey: Faith, Marriage, and Finding Himself (Part 2)
In Part 2, Dr. Joshua Gebhardt (a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in working with mixed-orientation couples) turns the lens inward and shares his own personal story — growing up in a conservative Christian environment, navigating masculinity as a college athlete, entering a...
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Mixed-Orientation Couples Therapy with Dr. Joshua Gebhardt (Part 1)
We're back! This week I sit down with Dr. Joshua Gebhardt — a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in mixed-orientation couples — to explore what really happens when guys come out to their wives as queer. Drawing from his doctoral research and years of clinical experience…
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Stop Coming Out! (Do This Instead...)
Welcome to Season 10 and the future of Two Bi Guys (By One Bi Guy)! I’m switching things up a bit, and today I’m sharing a couple of explainer videos that I recently posted to YouTube, plus important updates about the pod and my coaching practice. I will continue to interview activists, authors,...
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Bi for Bi with Wade Shepard
Welcome to the season 9 finale of Two Bi Guys (By One Bi Guy)! My guest is Wade Shepard, founder of a play party called “Bi for Bi”, which takes place quarterly in New York City. We chatted about why he started a party that caters to bisexuality (and specifically offers a venue for bi men to...
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From Boy-Crazy to Everybody-Crazy: Step Bi Step with Laura Clarke
Award-winning sex and gender specialist, sex educator, and now author Laura Clarke joins me to talk about her brand-new book “Step Bi Step: The Ultimate Guide for Bisexual, Pansexual, and Queer Young People”. Written with warmth, humor, and clarity, Laura’s book fills a gap for teens just…
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I Met My Best Friends Forever at Bi F*** Fest
This year marked the 25th year of BFF – and while many people do meet their best friends forever at the bi-annual event, that's not where the acronym comes from ;) The Bi F*** Fest is a twice-a-year takeover of a resort in Palm Springs by over 250 Bi+ people, and while there IS a lot of fun, sexy...
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May We Heal with Gabby Kealoha Holt
My guest this week is Gabby Kealoha Holt, a queer, native Hawaiian singer/songwriter with a new beautiful song out May 30 titled “May We Heal”. We chatted about her queerness and sexual fluidity growing up, how that intersected with her passion for music (as well as her passion for…
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Nothing Happens To You, It Happens FOR You, with Clark Nesselrodt
**Sign up "Fluid Conversation", a series of guided talks and topic-based discussions, beginning May 27, weekly through June 25: https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/fluid-conversations Welcome back to the second half of my interview with Clark Nesselrodt! We finished up talking about his book...
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Under Construction with Clark Nesselrodt
Sign up for my discussion series, FLUID CONVERSATIONS: https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/fluid-conversations My guest this week is my friend and spiritual guide, Clark Neselrodt -- he's also a coach, meditation facilitator, end-of-life caregiver, and father. We chatted about his unique...
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Two Fluid Guys with Mark and Rob
This episode welcomes the return of Mark Cusack, ICF Coach and founder of the support site “Not Defining”, to discuss his new book, Fluid: A Guide For People With Flexible Sexuality. (Finally, someone who can define one of the most commonly-used labels on this show!) We chatted about fluidity…
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Sexually Liberated United Together – aka $LUTS Party – with Jon McCray Jones and Natalie Moe
This week I chatted with Jon McCray Jones and Natalie Moe, organizers of “$luts Party”, a monthly sex-positive rave that centers bi and queer people in the Chicago nightlife scene, and hosts of the Fun with $ex Podcast. We talked about their experiences attending play parties all over the world,...
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Charting Your Own Path with Wayne Scott
My guest this week is Wayne Scott, a writer, psychotherapist, and teacher who recently published a new memoir, “The Maps They Gave Us”, which tells the story of a man and woman who fall in love again on their way to getting a divorce. We chatted about what it was liking knowing you were bisexual...
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Detoxing and Resetting with Mike Joseph
Get 45% off the Magic Mind bundle with with my link: https://magicmind.com/biguysJAN #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance Welcome to Season 9 of Two Bi Guys! I’m trying some new things this season, including a super-sized episode all at once instead of split into two! This week I had the...
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Best of Two Bi Guys 2024
Time to take a look back at 2024 before we move into the new year! My year was transformative, and I hope 2025 brings you even more peace, progress, and love. This isn't exactly a "best of", because all my guests are the best, but more of a year in review, six clips that are really resonating…
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Bi+ Stories Matter with Aaron Hammersly (Season Finale!)
This week features part two of my chat with Aaron Hammersly, filmmaker and production executive at Disney, board member on the LA Bi+ Task Force, and outspoken advocate for the LGBTQ+ community, working especially for more inclusive representation in front of and behind the camera. In this…
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Authentic Bi+ Storytelling with Aaron Hammersly
This week I sat down with my friend Aaron Hammersly, filmmaker and production executive at Disney, board member on the LA Bi+ Task Force, and outspoken advocate for the LGBTQ+ community, working especially for more inclusive representation in front of and behind the camera. Earlier this year…
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VOTE! After That, Listen to This Episode with Vera & Leroy Duivenvoorden-Westenberg
PLEASE VOTE for Kamala Harris! The stakes could not be higher. Once you've done that, then you can listen to this lovely episode, the second part of my chat with Dutch bicons Vera & Leroy Duivenvoorden-Westenberg. We talked a bit more about the queer scene in the Netherlands before moving on to a...
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Vera & Leroy Duivenvoorden-Westenberg Are Pretty and Bisexual, and That's Enough
You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/TWOBIGUYS20 This week I’m so excited to share part 1 of my interview with Vera & Leroy Duivenvoorden-Westenberg, my friends from the Netherlands! In addition to running a marketing company together called “Marketing Schmarketing” – which designed the...
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Election Special with RJ Aguiar
To get fired up and ready to go for the upcoming Nov. 5 election (and because I was behind on editing the next episode…), today I sat down again with our bi stepfather, RJ Aguiar, to talk politics! We discussed the importance of voting, especially for queer people, and what we’re doing in the…
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A Non-Binary Entity of Pure Queer Joy & Stupidness with Mark Cusack aka Marco Fabulasio
This episode features the second half of my interview with Mark Cusack (he/they), founder of the support site "Not Defining" (a space for anyone struggling with their sexuality, gender, or identity), ICF Certified Integrative Coach, and LGBTQ+ mentor. In this section, we discussed asexuality and...
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Mark Cusack Defines Not Defining
This week I sat down with Mark Cusack (he/they), founder of the support site "Not Defining" (a space for anyone struggling with their sexuality, gender, or identity), and we discussed why even under the Bi+ umbrella, many queer people are moving away from fixed labels and definitions of their...
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The Ultimate Sexuality Game Plan with Lewis Oakley
Happy end of Bi+ Visibility Month! This episode includes the second part of my chat with Lewis Oakley – a Bi+ Activist in the UK, co-host of the "Bisexual Brunch" podcast, and author of a new book, “Bisexuality: The Basics” from Jessica Kingsley Publishers – and spoiler alert, the title of this...
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The Time of the Bisexuals with Lewis Oakley
Happy Bi+ Visibility Day / Week / Month! In this episode, I chatted with Lewis Oakley, a Bi+ Activist in the UK, co-host of the Bisexual Brunch podcast, and author of a new book, “Bisexuality: The Basics” from Jessica Kingsley Publishers. We chatted about his recent appearances on cable news…
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Bye, Bye, Bye with RJ Aguiar
We’re back with RJ Aguiar, part two! We chatted about queer stand-up comedy (and butthurt straight guys), we debuted a new segment called “Bye Bye!” where we rant about things that bother us, I asked RJ about his hottest sexual experiences both on and off camera, and then we have a difficult time...
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RJ Aguiar Exposed (Part 1)
Two Bi Guys (By One Bi Guy) is back! And with a familiar friend, RJ Aguiar! We discussed his new "professional penis" and all that comes with it... In honor of Bi+ Visibility Month, I'm trying something new -- weekly episodes! (We'll see how it goes...) The second half of my chat with RJ will…
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The Yards Between Us with RK Russell
Bi+ book season concludes with a returning guest, the first out NFL player to identify as bisexual, RK Russell!. We discussed his new memoir, The Yards Between Us, and he also has a new men's journal out called Huddle. It was great to check in and see how RK's bisexuality and artistry have…
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One We Are with Ohene Yaw Ampofo-Anti
Bi+ book season continues with a special guest from South Africa, Ohene Yaw Ampofo-Anti. We discussed his collection of short stories, Simunye: One We Are, which features Bi+ and queer characters, themes, and inspiration, and we chatted about his unique bisexual journey in South Africa and how it...
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Bisexuality Beyond Binaries with Dr. Lisa Speidel
Bi+ book season continues with Dr. Lisa Speidel and her upcoming book, Bisexuality Beyond Binaries: Celebrating Multiple Bisexual Identities in a World of Erasure. Dr. Speidel also published with Routledge and is a big part of the reason why I was able to publish Bisexual Married Men there -- she...
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Dear Bi Men: J.R. Yussuf is Back
Welcome back to Bi+ book season! We're picking up right where we left off, interviewing 4 more Bi+ authors about their new bisexual-themed books, and this week I’m so excited to reunite with J.R. Yussuf to discuss his new book, Dear Bi Men: A Black Man’s Perspective on Power, Consent, Breaking…
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Bisexual Married Men: Rene
It's the final interview (for real!) in this series on Bi+ married men. But first -- I'm starting a coaching practice! I specialize in helping LGBT+, queer, questioning, and non-monogamous people navigate their identity and relationships, but I can coach you in any area of your life in which you...
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Bisexual Married Men: Austin
Here's the last interview in my series on Bi+ married men. (Or maybe the penultimate! I'm still waiting to hear back from someone. I'll do a wrap-up episode either way.) This week I interviewed Austin, aka "Quentin" in my book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and...
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Bisexual Married Men: Nana
Happy new year! Here's another interview from this special series on bisexual men who are married to women. This week I interviewed Nana, another subject in my book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity (out now). Nana's story is unique and layered,...
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Bisexual Married Men: Cassidy
We're back with more in this special series on bisexual men who are married to women! This week I interviewed Cassidy, another subject in my new oral history book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity – out now! Cassidy's story is unique and layered,...
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Bisexual Married Men: Charles
Welcome back to this special series on bisexual men who are married to women! This week I interviewed Charles, another subject in my new oral history book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity – out now! Charles' story is unique and layered, but it also...
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Bisexual Married Men: Book Launch Recap/Q&A
My book, "Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, & Authenticity" is available now! I hosted two book launch parties last week to celebrate, share stories, and build community, and I'm so excited for everyone to read the book. In this episode, I give a brief recap of the…
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Bisexual Married Men: Keith and Candice
Welcome back to this special series on bisexual men who are married to women! This week I interviewed a couple, Keith and Candice Parnell, both subjects in my new oral history book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity – out November 30 and currently...
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Bisexual Married Men: Timothy
Welcome back to this special series on bisexual men who are married to women! This week I interviewed Timothy Babulski, one of the subjects in my new oral history book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity – out November 30 and currently available to...
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Bisexual Married Men: André
Welcome to this special series on bisexual men who are married to women! This week I interviewed André T. Short, one of the subjects in my new oral history book, “Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity” – out November 30 and currently available to pre-order....
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Bisexual Married Men - An Overview
Surprise episode! My first book, "Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, & Authenticity" comes out in exactly one month on November 30, 2023! In anticipation and to add context to the oral histories in the book, I'm doing a miniseries on Bi+ married men, interviewing subjects...
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Queer Ducks and the Bisexual Advantage with Eliot Schrefer
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Benjamin Perry is a Proud Cry Baby
For this episode I was so excited to welcome back season 4 guest Benjamin Perry, a Minister at Middle Church in NYC, to discuss his new book, "Cry, Baby: Why Our Tears Matter"! I loved Ben's book, and we had a fascinating chat about crying and how it relates to queerness and queer liberation. We...
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Equal Partnerships Benefit Everyone with Dr. Kate Mangino
Bi+ people tend to look at gender differently than most, and many of us are working toward more gender equality, especially in romantic partnerships. That's why this week I'm excited to share my interview with Dr. Kate Mangino, a gender expert whose debut book, "Equal Partners: Improving Gender...
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"Bisexual Men Exist" is Just the Beginning for Vaneet Mehta
Vaneet is back, and since his last visit to Two Bi Guys, he wrote his first book, "Bisexual Men Exist: A Handbook for Bisexual, Pansexual and M-Spec Men" -- available now wherever books are sold! We chatted about the process of researching, writing, and promoting his book before diving into its...