Uncoupled & Unfiltered

Infidelity, addiction, and abuse don't automatically have to mean the immediate end of a relationship, but building a new version from the wreckage takes immense work. In this episode, a seasoned couples therapist breaks down what really happens behind closed doors, how to spot dangerous patterns, and when it’s worth fighting for your marriage versus walking away.Episode Summary In this raw and revealing episode of Uncoupled & Unfiltered, we sit down with Marina Edelman — Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 20 years of experience — to tackle the relationship topics most people are too afraid to say out loud: infidelity, addiction, and abuse.Can a relationship survive cheating? Is "once a cheater, always a cheater" actually true? Who is most prone to an addictive personality — and how does that destroy a marriage? What does abuse really look like before it escalates? And the hardest question of all: should you stay, leave, or separate?Marina brings compassionate, no-nonsense clinical wisdom to every answer. Whether you're in crisis, healing from betrayal, or simply trying to build something healthier, this episode will change the way you see your relationship — and yourself.Key Topics Covered:Why infidelity happens — and the warning signs you're likely missingIs "once a cheater, always a cheater" actually true?How to know if your relationship can recover from betrayalWho is most prone to an addictive personality in a partnershipPractical ways to navigate addiction together — or apartRecognizing the signs of abuse (emotional, physical & beyond)Stay, leave, or separate? A therapist's honest frameworkHow to enter a relationship with your eyes wide open“To rebuild trust, it requires full raw transparency” - Marina EdelmanAbout Our Guest: Marina EdelmanMarina Edelman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over two decades of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families through life's most complex emotional terrain — from communication breakdowns and infidelity to addiction, abuse, and the difficult question of when to stay or walk away.Known for her candid, compassionate approach, Marina creates a space where the uncomfortable truths about relationships can finally be spoken out loud. Her clinical depth and no-nonsense wisdom have made her a trusted voice for those navigating love, loss, and everything in between.Who This Episode Is For:You've suspected infidelity but keep second-guessing — and need clarity on what the real warning signs look likeYou're wondering whether your relationship can be saved after a betrayal, or if it's time to let goYou or your partner are struggling with addictive behavior and you don't know whether to fight for the relationship or protect yourselfSomething in your relationship feels off but you can't name it — and you want to understand the signs of emotional or physical abuse before it goes furtherYou're single, dating, or starting over and want to enter your next relationship with your eyes wide open — and never repeat the same patterns again.Connect with Marina Edelman:Website:  https://marinaedelman.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marinaedelmanmft/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marina.on.marriage/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marinaedelman Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/edelmancounseling/ Phone: 818-851-1293 Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the showWant to hear more podcasts like this one? Check out Dear Divorce Diary with Dawn Wiggins- https://mycoachdawn.com/divorce-podcast/Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Divorce can feel like a battlefield, but mediation can help turn conflict into a constructive path forward. In this episode, hear a mediator who experienced divorce firsthand explain how to create a sustainable, trust-based co-parenting plan.Episode Summary On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with David Fein, Certified Divorce and Family Law Mediator, founder of Fein Legal Solutions, and father of three. With training from Northwestern University and a law degree from DePaul University College of Law, David helps couples navigate divorce while reducing the financial and emotional strain of the process.We’re taking another deep dive into mediation, but this conversation is different. David’s approach focuses on relationship-building, trust, and creating a future-focused path for families—not just resolving the matter at hand.Tune in to learn how mediation works, why it isn’t limited by state lines, and how David’s approach can help families move through divorce with greater clarity, dignity, and control.Key Topics Covered:Why relationship-building and trust are key to successful mediationTaking a future-focused approach when negotiating agreementsHow early trust in mediation can shape the entire outcomeStaying neutral when emotions run high, especially with children involvedHow parenthood may influence a mediator and maintain professional objectivityManaging power imbalances, including dominating or bullying behaviorMediation considerations when abuse allegations are presentAddressing situations where a proposed settlement may be unfair or impracticalEthical challenges of balancing neutrality with concern for the partiesWhat sets Fein Legal Solutions apart, and how David’s approach differs from traditional mediation"I believe my clients leave my mediation session with a clear understanding of what we talked about, a clear feeling that they were heard, and a clear picture on what the next steps are...” - David FeinAbout Our Guest: David FeinDavid Fein is a Certified Divorce and Family Law Mediator who guides spouses and families through divorce with a collaborative, respectful approach. As founder of Fein Legal Solutions, LLC, he uses an empathetic and holistic framework to foster constructive dialogue and mutual understanding. Focused on minimizing emotional and financial costs, David serves as a neutral third party, helping individuals reach sustainable agreements that prioritize the family’s well-being.Who This Episode Is For:You’re considering divorce and exploring mediation as a healthier alternative to litigationYou’re looking to reduce conflict and protect your family’s future when children are involvedYou’re concerned about handling a controlling, intimidating, or high-conflict spouseYou want to understand how trust, communication, and relationships affect divorce outcomesYou’re seeking a process that prioritizes practical solutions, emotional well-being, and long-term stability over simply winningConnect with David Fein:Website:  www.feinlegalsolutions.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/fein-legal-solutions-llc-dba-the-law-office-of-david-fein/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61585389850358 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/feindavid312/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.

In this episode, you’ll learn what complex shame really is, how it fuels codependent and toxic relationships, and what it actually takes to heal it so you can build healthier love and a stronger relationship with yourself.On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I’m joined by Dr. Zoe Shaw—licensed psychotherapist, author, speaker, podcast host, relationship coach, and fitness enthusiast—for a powerful conversation about guilt and shame, how they impact our psyche, and the ways they shape our relationships.We dive deep into what Complex Shame really is, the red flags to watch for, and practical ways to manage it while rebuilding yourself from the inside out.Sit back, relax, and enjoy this honest, eye-opening conversation.Key Topics Covered:What Complex Shame is and the impact it has on relationshipsThe difference between guilt and shame— which emotion motivates growth, and which makes us want to run and hideThe origins of shame and how it shapes who we becomeHow shame shows up in toxic and dysfunctional family dynamics and relationshipsA common misconception: staying too long in a toxic relationship doesn’t mean you’re weak—often, it means the oppositeHow Complex Shame and co-dependency can affect your dating life and influence partner selectionTools and insights for learning how to be vulnerable with yourself and with a trusted partnerTips for friends and family who want to support someone experiencing it“If you are not able to verbalize what your part was and the ending of it and the dysfunction that existed, then you're not ready to start a new relationship.” - Dr. Zoe ShawAbout Our Guest: Dr. Zoe ShawDr. Zoe Shaw is a licensed psychotherapist, author, speaker, podcast host, relationships coach, and fitness lover. She is passionate about helping women who struggle in difficult relationships, especially those with sometimes difficult relationships with themselves, overcome complex shame and co-dependency. Dr. Zoe is the author of the Ask Dr. Zoe Column in the Grit and Grace Project women’s magazine and the books, A Year Of Self Care and Stronger In The Difficult Places, released by Penguin Randomhouse Waterbrook. She has been featured in the OWN documentary series UNLOCKED,  and published in Oprahmag.com, Recovery Today magazine, Forbes, and Today.com. She writes about helping women overcome shame and co-dependency. You can find her in the media on Instagram: @Drzoeshaw and in most social places at the handle DrZoeShaw.Who This Episode Is For:You’re ready to understand shame without letting it define you or your worthYou recognize that staying in difficult relationships was a survival response—not a personal failureYou want to break unhealthy relationship patterns with awareness, self-trust, and compassionYou’re learning how to practice vulnerability in ways that feel safe, grounded, and empoweringYou’re committed to rebuilding self-connection and creating relationships that truly support who you are becomingConnect with Dr. Zoe Shaw:Website:  https://drzoeshaw.com/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to hear more podcasts like this one? Check out Dear Divorce Diary with Dawn Wiggins- https://mycoachdawn.com/divorce-podcast/Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

How do you trust again after betrayal, abuse, or feeling “not enough”? This episode explores rebuilding self-trust, breaking self-abandonment patterns, and opening your heart again.On this episode of Uncoupled & Unfiltered, Dr. Tasha Seiter, PhD, LMFT, a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of Heart of the Matter Therapy and Coaching, shares insights on navigating trust after divorce, breakups, and uncoupling, including rebuilding trust in ourselves and others, with a focus on the challenges faced by survivors of intimate partner abuse. Using evidence-based approaches like Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method, she explores why “beautiful women” often experience loneliness due to objectification, the impact on emotional intimacy, and how to prioritize authenticity over appearance. This honest and nuanced conversation offers guidance for anyone healing from heartbreak and seeking secure, emotionally connected relationships.Key Topics Covered:How breakups and divorce trigger deep feelings of rejection — whether you were the one who left or the one left behindWhy endings awaken core wounds around “not enough” and unworthiness — and how to begin healing themThe complexity of rebuilding trust, especially after abusive or toxic relationshipsThe link between abusive dynamics and self-abandonment — plus practical tools to stop abandoning yourselfPeople-pleasing patterns in unhealthy relationships and how they quietly erode self-trustThe “beautiful woman” syndrome: being perceived as intimidating, objectified, or usedHow to avoid the mental trap of seeing yourself as an object — and how to discern genuine interest from someone operating with their own agendaPractical ways to shift out of a mental funk, rebuild self-confidence, and become your own strongest advocate“The more that you practice taking care of yourself, the more that your nervous system learns it's safe to take care of myself.” - Dr. Tasha SeiterAbout Our Guest: Dr. Tasha SeiterDr. Tasha Seiter, PhD, LMFT, is a scientist-practitioner, researcher, therapist, and founder of Heart of the Matter Therapy and Coaching, dedicated to helping people build healthier relationships through evidence-based care. Her work spans research on relationships, mindfulness, and stress physiology, clinical mentorship, EFT community-building, and writing featured in outlets like Forbes, Bustle, Healthline, and Psychology Today.Who This Episode Is For:You’re navigating life after divorce, breakup, or uncoupling, and struggling with rejection or self-doubtYou left the relationship, but still feel grief, guilt, or confusionYou’re healing from an abusive or toxic relationship and rebuilding self-trustYou notice patterns of self-abandonment or people-pleasingYou question your worth despite success, attractiveness, or external validationYou’ve felt objectified or valued more for appearance than authenticityYou want to recognize genuine interest versus manipulation or hidden agendasYou’re ready to stop overthinking and become your own strongest advocateYou want psychology-backed tools for secure, emotionally healthy relationshipsConnect with Dr. Tasha Seiter:Website: https://marriage-counseling-fort-collins.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtashaseiter/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to hear more podcasts like this one? Check out Dear Divorce Diary with Dawn Wiggins- https://mycoachdawn.com/divorce-podcast/Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Logic doesn’t stand a chance when love feels like a drug. In this episode, Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards shows how trauma, low self-worth, and intense chemistry can turn a relationship into a full-blown addiction and what it really takes to finally walk away.Welcome back to Uncoupled and Unfiltered — where we talk about the things your therapist hints at and your best friend avoids saying out loud. I’m your host, Ksenia Muench, and today we’re diving into the messy line between love, obsession, and self-destruction with author and speaker Stephen Paul Edwards. Together, we unpack toxic attraction, attachment wounds, and why so many smart, self-aware people mistake intensity for intimacy and keep returning to relationships that hurt them. This episode is raw, provocative, and might completely change the way you see your past relationships.Key Topics Covered:Why we're drawn to toxic and chaotic relationships — the psychological and neurological forces pulling us toward people who are bad for usWhy leaving is so hard — what keeps smart, capable people stuck in relationships they know are destroying themHow trauma and attachment styles shape who we choose — the childhood wounds quietly running your love lifeCan intense, passionate relationships become stable and healthy? — the honest answerWarning signs you're in a Venus Fly Trap relationship — and what it feels like when you're the flyWhat Stephen learned about love, boundaries, and self-awareness — the hard-won insights from living through it“Trauma bonding is very powerful, that people are not even aware when it's happening.” - Stephen Paul EdwardsAbout Our Guest: Stephen Paul EdwardsStephen Paul Edwards is the author of The Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies, and Repercussions, a memoir that dives into obsession, betrayal, and destructive passion with sharp honesty, dark humor, and emotional depth. Often described as part Fifty Shades, part Gone Girl, and part therapy session with the devil, the book explores the psychology of erotic obsession, toxic attraction, and the painful process of reclaiming yourself from a relationship built to consume you.Who This Episode Is For You If:You’ve stayed in a relationship you knew was wrong, but couldn’t leaveYou’re repeatedly drawn to unavailable or chaotic partnersYou’ve mistaken intensity for love and suffered because of itYou want to understand the psychology behind toxic attraction and trauma bondsYou’re ready for an honest conversation about the darker side of love and desireConnect with Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards:Website: https://vft23.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vft23_officialLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seemiracles/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61575468609762 X: https://x.com/vftofficial23?s=21 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephen_sapereaude/  Free Resources From Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards: First three chapters of his book, The Venus Fly Trap: https://bit.ly/4bsLZ7J Exclusive coaching discount for listeners of the show: Coaching and Counseling https://vft23.com/coaching-and-counselling/?utm_source=Ksenia+Muench&utm_medium=Uncoupled+%26+Unfiltered&utm_campaign=Podcast+Interview+-++Ksenia+MuenchDiscount Code: VFT23!Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to hear more podcasts like this one? Check out Dear Divorce Diary with Dawn Wiggins- https://mycoachdawn.com/divorce-podcast/Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

When your marriage implodes, and the kids leave home, do you spiral or build something bigger than the life you just lost? In this episode, a multi‑exit CEO and mom of four breaks down how entrepreneurship can become your lifeline, your power move, and your path to seven‑figure freedom after divorce.In this episode, I sit down with Beth Mazza, co-founder of Female Mavericks, a powerhouse community dedicated to helping women launch and scale thriving businesses—without sacrificing their roles as parents, partners, and whole humans.We dive into what it truly takes to be a female entrepreneur today: navigating the realities of motherhood while building a business, redefining success on your own terms, and embracing the empowerment and healing that can come from starting over—especially after divorce. Beth shares practical insights and honest reflections on building a sustainable, scalable company while creating a life that feels aligned, fulfilling, and fully your own.Key Topics Covered:Overcoming fear and self-doubt to confidently launch your own businessWhy confident women entrepreneurs often outperform their male counterparts—and the mindset shift that makes the differenceHow building a business can make you a stronger, more intentional mom—and the powerful life lessons your children learn by watching you leadThe real challenges of balancing entrepreneurship and motherhood (and how to navigate them)How starting a business can become a powerful antidote to depression during and after divorceThe 9–5 corporate path vs. entrepreneurship—and the mental and emotional benefits of building your own venture during divorce recoveryThe three biggest mistakes that keep women-owned businesses small—and what it takes to break into the multi-million-dollar rangeWhy separating personal and business finances is essential for growth, clarity, and long-term successThe one thing you absolutely must understand to build a thriving, sustainable business“You’re only able to become an entrepreneur if you have hope, if you have a dream. You're aspiring, you can do it." - Beth MazzaAbout Our Guest: Beth MazzaBeth Mazza is a seasoned entrepreneur, speaker, and co-founder of Female Mavericks, a community that helps women build scalable businesses while balancing motherhood and life. With over 30 years of experience, she has founded and exited multiple companies worth tens of millions and has helped women break the seven-figure ceiling. Beth has advised leading brands and has been featured in publications like Forbes and Crain’s 40 Under 40. Her work focuses on empowering women to embrace entrepreneurship, build confidence, and achieve financial freedom through business ownership.Who This Episode Is For:Women who want to start or scale a business but feel held back by fear, self-doubt, or uncertaintyMoms and professionals seeking a way to build financial independence without sacrificing family lifeWomen navigating divorce or major life transitions who are ready to reclaim confidence and purposeFemale entrepreneurs who are ready to think bigger, break past revenue plateaus, and build lasting wealthConnect with Beth Mazza:Website:  https://femalemavericks.com/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to hear more podcasts like this one? Check out Dear Divorce Diary with Dawn Wiggins- https://mycoachdawn.com/divorce-podcast/Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

When you’re a high-performing, hyper-independent woman, the same traits that drive success can quietly sabotage your relationships. In this episode, we unpack why strong women end up in unhealthy dynamics, ignore red flags, and struggle with trust and boundaries — and how to finally choose healthier love.On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I’m joined by Dr. Abby Medcalf — psychologist, bestselling author, speaker, and podcast host known for helping people communicate honestly and stop avoiding hard conversations.We dive into why smart, successful women often struggle in relationships, including how they end up in toxic or third-party situations, what drives those patterns, and how to break them.We also discuss:What men need vs. what women wantRed flags we mistake for green flagsBoundaries that actually workHonest, uncomfortable, and necessary — this episode is for anyone thriving in life but stuck in love.Key Topics Covered:Why intelligent, beautiful, successful women can still struggle in relationships, is it biology, mindset, or both?The paradox of the “strong, independent woman” who says she wants a partner but doesn’t need one.Why high-achieving women end up in third-party situations and the patterns and rationalizations behind it.The conscious and subconscious signals that attract the same type of partner over and over.Boundaries vs. walls and why weak boundaries don’t work.Red flags that initially look like green flags.How to approach first dates with curiosity instead of resentment.Why skipping drinks on a first date may actually help you connect better.How to fix your “picker” and rebuild trust in yourself. “Boundaries are meant to keep people in, and walls are meant to keep people out.” - Dr. Abby MedcalfAbout Our Guest: Dr. Abby MedcalfDr. Abby Medcalf is a relationship psychologist, bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and podcast host with over 30 years of experience helping people build healthier relationships and communicate with confidence. Known for her research-backed insights, humor, and direct approach, she is the author of the #1 Amazon bestseller Be Happily Married, Even if Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing, and host of the top-rated Relationships Made Easy podcast, heard by millions across 180+ countries. Featured on CBS and ABC and trusted by companies like Google, Apple, and AT&T, Abby focuses on practical tools for communication, healthy boundaries, and lasting connections, starting with the relationship you have with yourself.Who This Episode Is For:The woman who can run a boardroom or business but struggles in her love life.The 10/10 who keeps asking, “How did I end up here again?”The strong, independent woman who believes she doesn’t need a man.The woman who keeps attracting emotionally unavailable men and calling it chemistry.The one who says she has boundaries, but never enforces them.The woman was tired of being the secret, the almost, or the maybe.The high-achiever who succeeds everywhere except in choosing the right partner.Connect with Dr. Abby Medcalf:Website:  https://abbymedcalf.com/ Substack: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphd YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/AbbyMedcalfThriving Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abbymedcalfphd Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to hear more podcasts like this one? Check out Dear Divorce Diary with Dawn Wiggins- https://mycoachdawn.com/divorce-podcast/Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

When divorce blows up the life you were told to want, what comes next? In this episode, we dig into redefining success, navigating post-divorce dating, and rewriting the rules of what women owe to marriage, men, and themselves.On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we explore what success really means for women—especially after divorce. Is it being a great partner, building a successful career, making good money, or something deeper?I’m joined by Cindy DiTiberio, New York Times bestselling ghostwriter, editor, writer, and creator of the bestselling Substack newsletter The Mother Lode, to redefine success beyond relationships and traditional career milestones.Together, we unpack the emotional ups and downs after divorce, navigating dating and sex, reclaiming identity, and deciding what’s truly worth prioritizing when moving on. This candid conversation challenges old narratives and offers a more honest definition of success for women choosing themselves.Key Topics Covered:The Traditional Definition of Success: How society’s male-centered framework has shaped our ideas of achievement—and why it often fails women.Redefining Success for Women: Moving beyond relationships, careers, and prescribed roles to create a more authentic, self-defined measure of fulfillment.Success in Dating After Divorce: What “winning” actually looks like when dating in midlife—and how to date like the CEO rather than an intern.Casual Sex After Divorce: Empowering choice or emotional landmine? An honest conversation about desire, boundaries, and self-awareness.The Uncomfortable Truth About Life After Divorce: What many women aren’t told—and why facing it head-on can be the key to real growth and freedom.“We spend our most healthiest, like vibrant years, toiling away to compile these piles that, ultimately, sometimes we don't even need.” - Cindy DiTiberioAbout Our Guest: Cindy DiTiberioCindy DiTiberio is a New York Times bestselling ghostwriter, editor, writer, and creator of the bestselling Substack newsletter The Mother Lode, where she dives into motherhood, marriage, divorce, and personal reinvention with real talk and feminist clarity. Whether she’s championing stories that make us feel less alone or exploring what it really takes to reclaim joy and identity after major life shifts, Cindy brings sharp insight, vulnerability, and heart to every conversation. Who This Episode Is For:A woman navigating life after divorce and questioning what success really looks like now.Dating again and trying to make sense of modern dating, sex, and emotional boundaries.Feeling disconnected from traditional milestones like marriage, career status, or income—and ready to define success on your own terms.Curious about reinventing identity, confidence, and fulfillment outside of relationships and societal expectations.Connect with Cindy DiTiberio:Website: https://cindyditiberio.com/Substack: https://cindyditiberio.substack.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cindy.ditiberio/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to hear more podcasts like this one? Check out Dear Divorce Diary with Dawn Wiggins- https://mycoachdawn.com/divorce-podcast/Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

When betrayal shatters your trust in others and in yourself, how do you ever feel safe dating again? In this episode, we unpack romance cons, toxic relationships, and the subtle red flags your nervous system notices long before your mind does—so you can date smarter, not scared.Today on Uncoupled & Unfiltered, I’m honored to be joined by Laurel House — Dating, Relationship, and Behavioral Dynamics Expert, and the creator and co-host of RomConned, a YouTube and podcast series she hosts with criminologist Dr. Alex del Carmen that explores the psychology of romance scams, relational deception, and the path to recovery when trust has been broken.In this episode, we dive into relationships, divorces, dating, and the red flags we often miss — and why. Laurel also shares how to use your love life experiences as a form of data collection, teaching you to read your body’s signals so you can build healthier, more authentic relationships.Key Topics Covered:What RomConned is and why romance scams are more common than most people realizeThe differences between toxic relationships, abusive relationships, and romance consWhy we often miss the “obvious” warning signs — and why it’s important not to judge yourself when you doHow your body sends signals to alert you when something feels offStaying safe while datingFour key criteria to recognize a healthy relationshipWhy we end up in unhealthy dynamics — often following the heart and hormones instead of the head — and how to change that patternDating and building relationships from a place of emotional healthAbout Our Guest: Laurel HouseLaurel House is an internationally recognized dating, relationship, and behavioral dynamics expert with over 15 years of experience helping people build authentic, healthy connections. She is a relationship expert for eharmony and has appeared on major media outlets, including Good Morning America, The Today Show, Nightline, and E! News, as well as serving as a dating coach on E!’s Famously Single. Laurel is the creator and co-host of RomConned, a series that explores romance scams, relational deception, and recovery, and she’s a 5× published author known for her practical, no‑games approach to dating and relationships. Her work focuses on helping people recognize unhealthy patterns, communicate with clarity, and cultivate connections grounded in mutual respect and self‑awareness.Who This Episode Is For:Anyone navigating dating, breakups, or relationships, and wanting to recognize red flags earlyPeople who want to understand the differences between toxic, abusive, and manipulative dynamicsSurvivors of romance scams or relational deception looking to rebuild trust and confidenceListeners are curious about how to read their body’s signals and make empowered relationship choicesAnyone who wants practical, expert strategies for building healthy, authentic, and mutually respectful connectionsThose ready to break unhealthy patterns and date from a place of emotional clarity and strength“Attachment without emotional safety is where you're in danger. That is commitment without regulation. It's presence without psychological availability, and it can create major psychological harm.” - Laurel HouseConnect with Laurel House:Website:  https://www.romconned.com/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode of Uncoupled & Unfiltered, we dive into one of the biggest—and most empowering—milestones many women face after divorce: buying your first home on your own. It’s emotional, intimidating, and undeniably a power move. I’m joined by Eileen Geffre of Compass Real Estate, who brings her background in psychology to help unpack the emotional side of real estate decisions. Together, we cut through the noise to talk about what truly matters, what to avoid, and how to make smart, confident home-buying decisions without second-guessing yourself.Key Topics Covered:Buying a home after divorce: common fears around finances, stability, and making the wrong decisionReal estate options and financial resources for women navigating divorce or post-divorce transitionsHow a real estate agent advocates for divorced buyers and supports confident decision-makingCommon mistakes first-time post-divorce homebuyers make and how to avoid themNeeds vs. wants when buying a home after divorceRenting vs. buying after divorce: how to decide what’s right for your next chapterDivorce real estate decisions: buying out a spouse, keeping the marital home, or selling during divorce proceedings“You don't get that confidence until you rip that band-aid off. It's by doing [from which] you get confidence.” - Eileen GeffreAbout Our Guest: Eileen GeffreEileen Geffre is a Realtor® with Compass Real Estate based in South Orange County, known for her calm, client-centered approach to buying and selling homes. With a background in psychology, she brings a deep understanding of the emotional and mental aspects behind major real estate decisions—especially during times of transition like divorce. Eileen combines strategic market knowledge with empathy and advocacy, helping her clients feel informed, supported, and confident as they navigate one of the most significant financial decisions of their lives.Who This Episode Is For:Women navigating life after divorce who are ready to buy their first home on their ownAnyone feeling overwhelmed by finances, budgeting solo, or making major real estate decisions post-divorceThose considering options like renting vs. buying, home buy-outs, or selling during divorce proceedings, and wanting guidance to avoid common mistakesConnect with Eileen Geffre:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileen-geffre-a3a024326/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Eileen_Geffre/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Julie Danielson, founder of The Get Over Divorce Collective, a transformational coaching program helping women heal after divorce, rebuild confidence, and create a future that’s bigger, bolder, and entirely their own. Julie empowers women to rebuild self-trust, raise their standards, and never date down or settle again.We get real about what it actually means to get over divorce—how to know when you’re truly healed, the subtle signs you’re still emotionally stuck, and the inner work required to move on for good. Divorce is messy, layered, and deeply personal—and in this honest, unfiltered conversation, we simplify the process without sugarcoating it. If you’re navigating divorce, post-divorce healing, or redefining yourself after a major life reset, this episode is a must-listen.PS. You also need to be OK with f-bombs because they are certainly present.Key Topics Covered:What the Get Over Divorce Collective coaching program is all about—and why it works.Why do so many women get stuck in the healing phase and feel unable to move forward truly?Coaching vs. therapy: how this approach focuses on forward momentum once you understand the “why.”The real signs you’ve genuinely gotten over your divorce (not just coping).The biggest indicator that you’re actually ready to date again.The different stages of dating: newly divorced vs. dating with serious, long-term intentions.Practical tools and mindset shifts for enjoying your own company—and how that completely changes the dating dynamic.How to stop settling for relationships you’re not aligned with, and what settling actually looks like when it happens.Whether lists of wants and non-negotiables in a partner are helpful—and how to create one that truly supports your future.“You are responsible for the outcome of your next chapter in your life, and it can be so amazing. And I'm living proof - our clients are living proof - that it's possible.” - Julie DanielsonAbout Our Guest: Julie DanielsonJulie Danielson is a certified divorce and relationship coach and the founder of The Get Over Divorce Collective, where she helps women turn heartbreak into confidence, clarity, and self-trust. Blending real-life experience with no-BS coaching, Julie empowers women to raise their standards, stop settling, and date—and live—from a place of strength. She’s also the host of the top-ranked Get Over Divorce podcast, known for honest conversations and transformational insights.This Episode Is For You If:Are divorced (or divorcing) and ready to stop surviving and start thriving.Feel “healed enough” but know deep down you’re still playing small or stuck.Want to date again without dragging old baggage, fear, or low standards with you.Are you done overanalyzing your past and ready to build a future that actually excites you?Refuse to settle for another relationship that doesn’t fully meet you—and want to know how to spot the right one.Connect with Julie Danielson:Website:  Getoverdivorce.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/juliedanielson.CHAT/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliedanielson_coaching/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

7 in 10 women blame perimenopause for the breakdown of their marriage. 70% of divorces are initiated by women. Coincidence? We don't think so.In this episode, I sit down with Dawn Wiggins — therapist and divorce coach — and we go all the way in on what's actually happening in a woman's body, why libido tanks (hint: it's not your partner), and why perimenopause may be the silent force behind more divorces than anyone wants to admit.Oh — and perimenopause is reversible. We said what we said.If you've ever felt like a stranger in your own body, your own marriage, or your own life — this one's for you.Key Topics Covered:The perimenopause-divorce connection: what the research actually says and why it mattersWhy perimenopause is hitting women younger — and what's driving itThe truth about libido and relationships: it's not about desire, it's about depletionWhy your partner's inability to support this transition may be the real breaking pointPerimenopause is reversible — what that means and why it changes everythingPractical tools to navigate perimenopause, especially when divorce is happening at the same timeHow to reclaim your identity and start seeing yourself as the goddess you actually are“Unless you do conscious work to reprogram your subconscious mind, you are going to repeat those relationship patterns without meaning to.” - Dawn WigginsAbout Our Guest: Dawn WigginsDawn Wiggins, Ed.S., is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and divorce recovery coach with over two decades of experience. Based in Florida, she integrates therapy, EMDR, EFT tapping, and body-based healing to help women move through divorce — not just survive it.What sets Dawn apart is her lived experience. She's been through it herself, which is exactly why her work hits differently. She also hosts the Dear Divorce Diary podcast, and her work has been featured in Bustle.Who This Episode Is For:You've been feeling disconnected from your body, your marriage, or yourself, and can't quite explain whyYou're going through a divorce and wondering if perimenopause played a role — or is making everything harderYour libido has taken a hit, and you're tired of pretending that's not affecting everything around youYou feel like your partner never understood what you were going through during this transitionYou're ready to stop shrinking and start reclaiming who you are — desire, power, and allConnect with Dawn Wiggins:Website:  https://mycoachdawn.com/ , https://www.dawnwigginstherapy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dawnwiggins/ Check out Dear Divorce Diary Podcast: https://mycoachdawn.com/divorce-podcast/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Today on Uncoupled & Unfiltered, I sit down with Oona Metz, therapist, divorce recovery expert, and author of Unhitched. With decades of experience, Oona has helped women move beyond simply surviving divorce and begin rebuilding their lives with real support, practical tools, and zero fluff.We dive into what divorce recovery actually looks like, why it’s unlike any other life transition, and the communities and resources that exist to help women feel supported, understood, and far less alone.Key Topics Covered:Why recovery from divorce is fundamentally different from grieving a death or healing from heartbreakWhy structured support groups are often more effective than venting to friends, leaning on family, or searching for answers on social mediaThe origins of Unhitched and why it’s an essential resource for anyone navigating divorceCommon behaviors that keep people stuck—even when they believe they’re “doing the work.”Why the belief “I should be over this by now” stalls healing, and what actually helps insteadThe most common challenges and frustrations women experience during divorce recoveryThe biggest lie we’re told about divorce—and what the truth really is“The opposite of love is not hate, because both love and hate keep you attached. I think the opposite of love is indifference. And so letting go is one of the most important things you have to do in a divorce, and it's hard to do.” - Oona MetzAbout Our Guest: Oona MetzOona Metz, LICSW, CGP, is a nationally recognized therapist, writer, and speaker with over 30 years of clinical experience supporting women through major life transitions, especially divorce. She is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, Certified Group Psychotherapist, and a Fellow of the American Group Psychotherapy Association, and leads multiple divorce support groups while training clinicians across the country through The Beacon Group Fellowship. Oona is the author of Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women, an empowering and practical roadmap to healing and growth through every stage of the divorce process. Her work blends deep psychological insight with compassionate, real-world guidance to help women move from survival to flourishing.Who This Episode Is For:Women navigating divorce or separation who want practical guidance and emotional supportAnyone struggling to move on after a major relationship loss and feeling stuckPeople are curious about why traditional advice and social media coping strategies often fall shortThose looking for structured tools, communities, and expert insights to rebuild their livesFriends, family, or supporters of someone going through a divorce who want to understand the process betterAnyone interested in real, no-fluff approaches to healing and personal growthConnect with Oona Metz:Website:  www.oonametz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oonametz Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womennavigatingdivorce/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/oona-metz-licsw-cgp-6a14a41b/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OonaMetz Book: https://www.oonametz.com/book-unhitched Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Chanel Schweer—founder of Joy Movement, certified trainer, former Division I athlete, pro competitor, and mom—who truly understands the power of movement for both mental and physical health.We talk about getting you fired up to build the body of your dreams—and yes, maybe even make your ex realize he should’ve treated you better.This episode is all about breaking the intimidation factor around workouts, making good nutrition feel doable, and learning how to move in ways that actually feel good. It’s about moving with what moves you—and not being afraid of carbs… yes, I said it.Key Topics Covered:How even simple movement can help reduce stress and regulate emotionsWhy divorce can make working out feel overwhelming—or even impossible—and how to ease back inIs it that you don’t like working out, or just haven’t found the type of movement that truly moves you?Strength training and what it actually does for your body (and no, you won’t get bulky)Is the scale really your best friend when you start taking fitness seriously?Carbs as workout fuel: the do’s and don’tsWorkout addiction vs. discipline—understanding the differenceWhy rest days are essential and how to know when you need oneHow workouts you genuinely enjoy can help stabilize your emotions during divorce and rebuild your confidenceHow to adapt your workout routine during perimenopause and menopauseIs it really just genetics—or can you build the body you’ve always dreamed of?"Everyone's going to find what works for them… I always say, find what moves you and do it often.” - Chanel SchweerAbout Our Guest: Chanel SchweerChanel Schweer is the founder of Joy Movement, a certified personal trainer, strength and conditioning coach, former Division I athlete (Syracuse University), and pro-level fitness competitor with over 15 years in the industry. She helps people feel confident, strong, and empowered through movement that’s effective and fun—whether that’s in the gym or at home. Chanel is passionate about making workouts accessible, focusing on sustainable habits, and supporting people in building the body and energy they want without intimidation or unnecessary complexity.This Episode Is For You If:You’re ready to move your body without feeling intimidated—or guilty—for skipping a day (or three)You want workouts that actually excite you, not make you roll your eyesYou’re curious about how carbs, strength training, and rest days really work for your bodyYou want to feel strong, confident, and maybe even make your ex do a double-takeConnect with Chanel Schweer:Website: https://www.joymovement.co/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joymovement.fit/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chanel-schweer-86553513/ Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/@joymovement Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Shari Rash, a nationally recognized financial advisor and host of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, named a Top 4 money podcast by The New York Times with over 24 million downloads. We discuss why women need financial advisors who understand their unique relationship with money. Shari explains why financial conversations can be challenging for women, the emotional side of money, and practical strategies to take control of finances.Key Topics Covered:Why most financial advisors are men—and how that often causes them to miss the mark when speaking to women about moneyWhy women are more likely to feel intimidated by money management, especially during and after divorceCommon financial mistakes women make following major life transitionsAlimony decisions: when a lump sum makes sense versus monthly paymentsMaking big purchases on your own: when to finance—and when not toSmart money strategies after a divorce settlement, including how much cash to keep on hand, how much to invest, and how to prioritize retirementThe importance of liquidity during high-conflict divorces and planning for potential legal fees if future motions ariseThe emotional decision many moms face: going into debt to do right by their kids when a high-conflict co-parent refuses to contributeOne money habit for women that can make a significant difference over timeThe biggest money “rule” women are taught that actually hurts them—and what to do instead“There’s no reason for women to not be good at money or doing money or understanding money. Again, it’s just because you, one, were never taught it, and two, if you were taught it, it was likely from your father who spoke a very different language than you.” - Shari RashAbout Our Guest: Shari RashShari Rash is the founder and lead financial advisor of GWA Wealth, a virtual fiduciary wealth advisory firm dedicated to making money simple and empowering women to build financial confidence and clarity. With nearly two decades of experience in financial planning, she breaks down complex concepts into practical guidance that helps clients navigate major life transitions, manage money with confidence, and create long‑term financial stability. Shari’s mission is to address the gaps many women face in financial education and support them in making empowered money decisions with less shame and more confidence. This Episode Is For:Women navigating financial decisions during or after divorceAnyone looking to take control of their money with confidence and claritySingle parents handling major financial responsibilities on their ownIndividuals who want to understand the emotional side of money and how it affects financial choicesPeople seeking practical strategies for budgeting, investing, and long-term financial stabilityAnyone who has felt intimidated by money or unsure how to work with a financial advisor who truly understands their needsConnect with Shari Rash:Website: https://www.everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com www.gwawealth.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everyonestalkinmoney/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZ9XFRGOsgZr_WFd8T0ShLg X: https://x.com/MoneyChicShari LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shari-rash/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/everyonestalkinmoneypodcast Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Amanda Singer, a professional family mediator and founder of West Coast Family Mediation, who helps couples navigate divorce in a collaborative and amicable way.We talk about why you don’t need to be friends to negotiate a fair settlement or finalize a divorce without draining your bank account—or your emotional well-being. Even if you don’t get along, there are ways to mediate successfully when you have the right mediator and the right support.Key Topics Covered:What mediation is—and how it differs from litigationWho mediation is right for (and when it’s not the best fit)The typical timeline for the mediation processWhy mediation can get tricky and how an experienced mediator helps get things unstuckThe role and importance of a consultative attorneyThe most common sticking points in mediation and why they ariseSeparation date vs. filing date—and why the distinction mattersWhat to do (and what not to do) before entering mediationDivorce coaches and CDFAs as part of the divorce ecosystemHow to choose the right mediator for your situation“With mediation, you have a mediator who works as a neutral third party… that mediator isn’t going to represent you or your spouse, but is going to work with both people together to resolve the issues related to the divorce.” - Amanda SingerAbout Our Guest: Amanda SingerAmanda Singer is a professional family mediator, attorney, and founder of West Coast Family Mediation. She helps couples navigate divorce and family transitions collaboratively, outside of court, with a focus on fair outcomes, clear communication, and preserving emotional well-being. With a background in law, dispute resolution, and divorce financial analysis, Amanda is known for guiding even high-conflict situations toward practical, workable agreements.This Episode Is For:Anyone considering divorce who wants a less adversarial, more cost-effective path forwardCouples who don’t get along but still want to reach a fair, workable settlementPeople feel overwhelmed by the legal, emotional, and financial sides of divorceAnyone curious about mediation and whether it could work for their situationConnect with Amanda Singer:Website:  https://westcoastfamilymediation.com/ Instagram: westcoast_mediatorsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/westcoastfamilymediation/ LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/west-coast-family-mediation-center, https://www.linkedin.com/in/singeramanda/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we sit down with Karen S. Bonnell, a co-parenting coach, mediator, author, and mentor with over 30 years of experience supporting couples, parents, and blended families through times of transition, loss, and change. Together, we dive into the often-overlooked topic of co-parenting and the role stepparents play when entering the co-parenting dynamic.Co-parenting skills don’t come naturally like walking or eating; they require a significant learning curve shaped by trial, error, and growth. In this conversation, we go deep into how to stay focused on the children, avoid getting pulled into pointless and draining battles, and center your energy on what you can actually control.Key Topics Covered:The differences between healthy co-parenting and high-conflict co-parenting dynamics.Co-parenting therapy versus co-parenting coaching—and when each approach is most effective.Practical strategies for keeping your focus on your children instead of what’s happening in the other household.Why the opposite of love is indifference—and how emotional neutrality is often the healthiest place for effective co-parenting.How to respond when a co-parent is driven more by resentment toward their former partner than by love for their children, and the psychological reasons behind this behavior.The limitations of the court system in managing complex co-parenting conflicts, and why a well-crafted, detailed co-parenting plan is essential.How the co-parenting dynamic shifts when stepparents enter the picture.What a healthy and supportive stepparent role looks like.Situations in which a stepparent oversteps boundaries and how to navigate those challenges effectively.“Again, what do I have control over? I have control over what happens in my household, and in my backyard, my relationship with our kids, and that’s where my focus is going to be.” - Dr. Karen S. BonnellAbout Our Guest: Dr. Karen S. BonnellKaren S. Bonnell, MS, ARNP, is a respected co-parenting coach, mediator, and author with over 30 years of experience helping parents and blended families navigate separation, divorce, and life transitions. She is the author of several widely used co-parenting and parenting plan resources and is known for her child-centered, practical approach to building healthy two-home families.Who This Episode Is For:Parents navigating co-parenting after separation or divorce who want to reduce conflict and stay focused on their children’s well-being.Individuals dealing with high-conflict co-parenting dynamics and looking for practical, emotionally grounded strategies.Stepparents and blended-family members seeking clarity on their role and how to support healthy co-parenting relationships.Anyone feeling stuck in resentment, power struggles, or court-driven solutions, and wanting a more effective, child-centered approach.Anyone looking for guidance on effective co-parenting.Connect with Dr. Karen S. Bonnell:Website:  https://substack.com/@karensbonnell LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenbonnell/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/karenbonnell Amazon Author's Page: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B00M8VZXCE/about?ccs_id=b46b9ec2-68be-4507-a24f-ecf728ec5a2cConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Anne K. Wintemute, Co-Founder and CEO of Aimee Says—an innovative AI-powered support tool designed for survivors of relationship abuse and domestic violence.We explore what makes this tool so powerful, how it supports survivors in moments of confusion or overwhelm, and the ways it helps people find their voice, advocate for themselves, and regain a sense of grounding when everything feels like it’s spinning.Key Topics Covered:Why Aimee Says was created and the critical gap it fills for survivors—one that existing resources and systems often fail to address.How Aimee Says differs from tools like ChatGPT, and why it’s specifically designed with survivor safety, validation, and advocacy in mind.How post-separation abuse is rarely researched or meaningfully addressed, and why survivors are so often expected to “move on” while the abuse continues.The reality that the burden of proof so often falls on the victim—not the perpetrator—and how easily emotions can take over during testimony. We discuss how this AI tool helps survivors stay grounded, clear, and regulated when it matters most.Using Aimee Says to navigate complex dynamics with court-appointed minor’s counsel or custodial evaluators.How Aimee Says can support survivors in rebuilding trust in new relationships, recognizing triggers, and navigating healthy relationship dynamics moving forward.“The antidote to chaos is clarity.” - Anne K. WintemuteAbout Our Guest: Anne K WintemuteAnne K. Wintemute is the Co-Founder and CEO of Aimee Says, an AI-powered support tool created for survivors of relationship abuse and domestic violence. With deep expertise in post-separation abuse and survivor advocacy, Anne developed Aimee Says to address critical gaps in existing support systems and help survivors find clarity, grounding, and their voice. She is a frequent speaker and advocate at the intersection of trauma-informed care, technology, and survivor empowerment.Who This Episode Is For:Survivors of relationship abuse or domestic violence who are seeking clarity, validation, and tools to help them find their voice.Anyone navigating the family court system, including interactions with custodial evaluators or court-appointed minors’ counsel.Advocates, therapists, and legal professionals who want to better understand survivor-centered, trauma-informed support tools.Individuals are rebuilding trust after abusive relationships and learning how to navigate new dynamics with greater confidence and self-awareness.Anyone interested in how ethical, purpose-driven AI can be used to support healing, advocacy, and personal empowerment.Connect with Anne K. Wintemute:Website:  https://www.aimeesays.com/en/home LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-wintemute-897077106/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Dr. Kerry McAvoy, a retired clinical psychologist, author, leading expert on narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships, and a survivor of narcissistic abuse herself.We explore what narcissism truly is, why this form of abuse is uniquely destabilizing, how to recognize the signs, what to watch for, and how to protect yourself — including how to reclaim and rebuild your life after the relationship ends.This is NOT a breakup story. It’s a survival conversation.Key Topics Covered:A clinical definition of narcissism, and how it differs from ordinary selfishness — including distinctions between narcissism, psychopathy, and sociopathyHow victims are selected, and why survivors are often among the strongest, most capable individuals — contrary to common misconceptionsWhat a relationship with someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) looks and feels like from the insideWhat makes narcissistic abuse uniquely harrowing, and how it can permanently rewire victims’ brain functioning long after the relationship endsWhy survivors often stay longer than outsiders expect — and why “just leaving” is rarely simpleHow abuse frequently escalates after the relationship ends, and the forms it takes Why being targeted does not end with separation — even when the abuser remarries or appears to move onPractical strategies to reclaim your life rather than living in fear of the next reaction or moveDating after narcissistic abuse, including warning signs to recognize early and when to walk away“If you feel like everything is risky, like you're walking on water and you're trying to manage another person's emotional response, I think that's a sign that something's wrong.” - Dr. Kerry McAvoyAbout Our Guest: Dr. Kerry McAvoyDr. Kerry McAvoy is a retired clinical psychologist, author, and leading expert on narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships with over 25 years of clinical experience. She hosts the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast, where she combines research-backed insight with personal experience to help survivors understand abusive dynamics and reclaim their lives. Her memoir Love You More offers a candid look at her own journey through narcissistic abuse, and her work — including books and courses — provides practical guidance for those healing from trauma and confusion caused by manipulative partners.Who This Episode Is For:Survivors of narcissistic abuse seeking clarity, validation, and language for their experienceAnyone navigating separation, divorce, or post-separation conflict with a high-conflict or narcissistic partnerThose questioning whether what they experienced was “really abuse.”Professionals, friends, or family members wanting a deeper understanding of narcissistic dynamicsSurvivors preparing to date again and hoping to recognize red flags earlyAnyone rebuilding their sense of self after a relationship that distorted realityBig Five Personality Test - to assess your personality style. Narcissistic abuse survivors tend to score high on agreeableness and conscientiousness.“Is It Toxic or Troubled” survey with a free online self-paced course to help those with a troubling relationship, be it a romantic partner, a friend, a co-worker, or a family member. Connect with Dr. Kerry McAvoy:Website Facebook Instagram YouTube Tiktok Book: Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double CrossConnect with Ksenia Muench:WebsiteInstagram LinkedIn Substack Email 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I’m joined by Dr. Marni Feuerman, a distinguished psychotherapist based in South Florida and widely recognized for her expertise in relationships. Together, we dive into why exes can be so tempting—whether it’s the same ex or the same pattern in a different face. We unpack why we tend to idolize past partners, explore the personality traits that make some people more likely to return to an ex, and discuss how to break the cycle and move forward in a healthier, more intentional way.Key Topics Covered:Why exes can be so tempting—and why the pull can feel so strongWhen going back to an ex might be a good idea… and when it’s a clear mistakeHow personal growth (or the lack of it) impacts your decision-making about revisiting past relationshipsThe boundaries you need to set to move on and break the cycle trulyThe personality traits and attachment styles that make some people more likely to repeat old relationship patternsHow loneliness, fear of being single, and emotional vulnerability impact decisions about reconnecting with an exThe role social media and digital contact play in reigniting old relationshipsSelf-reflection questions to help identify unresolved feelings and determine whether revisiting an ex is healthy or harmfulAbout Our Guest: Dr. Marni FeuermanDr. Marni Feuerman is a distinguished psychotherapist based in South Florida, specializing in relationships and personal growth. She is widely recognized for her expertise in helping individuals and couples navigate breakups, understand attachment patterns, and build healthier relationship habits. With years of clinical experience and a compassionate, insightful approach, Dr. Feuerman provides practical guidance for creating meaningful connections and breaking repetitive relationship cycles.Who This Episode Is For:Anyone struggling with the pull of an ex or wondering why past relationships feel so temptingPeople who have found themselves repeating old relationship patterns and want to understand whyThose navigating breakups or divorces and seeking clarity on moving forward in a healthy wayListeners are curious about how attachment styles, personal growth, and emotions influence decisions about reconnecting with an exAnyone looking for practical strategies and boundaries to break the cycle and build healthier future relationships“Time is your friend in these circumstances. You should not need to rush anything, especially with a new partner or making a decision.” - Dr.  Marni FeuermanConnect with Dr.  Marni Feuerman:Website:  https://thetalkingsolution.com/ , https://www.drmarnionline.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmarnifeuerman/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrMarniFeuerman Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we sit down with Rene Garcia, a men’s divorce and recovery coach who helps men rediscover their identity and masculinity after divorce.This fascinating conversation offers women a rare glimpse into the male perspective—what men are truly thinking, feeling, and experiencing during and after divorce, but often don’t share.If you’ve ever been curious about what’s really going on inside a man’s mind after a relationship ends—and how we can begin to bridge that gap—this episode is for you.Prepare yourself for an unfiltered discussion.Key Topics Covered:Inside the male mindset during and after divorce: emotional, mental, and identity shifts from a man’s perspectiveWhy men are often less emotionally prepared for divorce than womenDivorce recovery timeline for men: what healing realistically looks likeCustody battles and co-parenting challenges men face after divorceDating after divorce for men: common mistakes and changes needed for successHow men rebuild confidence, self-worth, and masculinity after divorceWhat men wish women understood about their experience during separation and divorceHow to connect with our guest, Rene Garcia, men’s divorce and recovery coach“The hard part is the divorce. The loss is what scares me at night. But the recovery is a lot easier. It is so much easier than guys think, because they start realizing that they can focus on themselves.” - Rene GarciaAbout Our Guest: Rene GarciaRene Garcia is the founder of Men’s Divorce Coaching (MeDiCo), a divorce and recovery coach who helps men navigate the emotional, strategic, and personal challenges that come with divorce and post‑divorce life. Through one‑on‑one coaching, group support, and a structured recovery framework, Rene works with men worldwide on rebuilding confidence, identity, decision‑making, and future relationships after divorce. Who This Episode Is ForWomen who want a deeper understanding of what men experience during and after divorceMen navigating separation, custody challenges, or rebuilding their lives post-divorceAnyone curious about male emotional processing, dating after divorce, or long-term relationship recoveryListeners seeking unfiltered insight into the male perspective on divorce and healingConnect with Rene Garcia:Website:  www.mensdivorcecoaching.com Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we explore modern dating, healthy relationships, and how to raise your standards without building emotional walls.I’m joined by renowned dating coach and relationship expert Evan Marc Katz, author of four books and host of the Love U Podcast with nearly 3 million downloads. His work has been featured on The Today Show, The New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal.Together, we break down how to recognize healthy love, shift dating patterns, and choose the relationship you truly deserve.Key Topics Covered:Overcoming trust issues and dating after disappointmentWhy “mixed signals” usually aren’t confusing—and what they really meanHow to tell if he’s looking for short-term fun versus long-term commitmentDo men actually listen to what women say in dating and relationships?The difference between being ready to date and simply craving validationThe hard dating truths divorced women often avoid—but need to hearThe most common red flags women ignore early onWhy dating apps are a necessary part of modern datingIntimacy early in dating and how to know when the timing is rightThe best dating advice people hate hearing—but works“It’s not right versus wrong, it’s effective versus ineffective. If what you’re doing is working for you, then keep doing it.” - Evan Marc KatzAbout Our Guest: Evan Marc KatzRenowned dating coach and relationship expert Evan Marc Katz, who’s helped thousands of smart, successful women find lasting love. He is the author of four books, his Love U Podcast has nearly 3 million downloads, and he has been featured in hundreds of media outlets, including Today, the New York Times, and the Wall St. Journal.Who This Episode Is For:Women navigating modern dating and relationship burnoutAnyone struggling with trust issues or mixed signalsDivorced or newly single women reentering the dating worldThose questioning whether a relationship has real long-term potentialListeners are ready to raise their standards and choose healthier loveConnect with Evan Marc Katz:Website:  https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we sit down with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby—licensed psychologist, marriage and family therapist, board-certified life coach, and founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching—to venture down a dark and winding tunnel: rebound relationships. Together, we explore what makes rebounds so powerful, unpack the biological forces driving them, and examine how to survive the heartbreak that often follows when the adventure ends.If you think a rebound could never happen to you, think again. It’s not about how smart, experienced, or “healed” you are—these relationships have a way of sneaking in. This episode helps you recognize the signs, understand the dynamics, and navigate rebounds with clarity and compassion.Key Topics Covered:What a rebound relationship is—and the key identifiers that help you recognize oneWhy rebound relationships are so irresistibleWhy do rebounds hurt more and feel more devastating than the long-term marriage or partnership you leftThe biology behind rebound dynamics and how your body responds when you’re in onePractical tips for healing and recovering from the heartacheCasual sex and its impact on womenWhether physical and sexual attraction can grow if it isn’t present at the beginningWhat a truly healthy relationship feels likeIMPORTANT: Not all therapists are the same, and not all are equipped to help you effectively process and heal from heartache.“If somebody can't answer why their relationship ended and how they co‑created what happened, it's very likely they will drag the same things into whatever partnership they get into again.” - Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyAbout Our Guest: Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyDr. Lisa Marie Bobby is a licensed psychologist, marriage and family therapist, and board-certified life coach. She is the founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching, where she helps individuals and couples build healthy, meaningful relationships and navigate major life transitions. Known for blending evidence-based psychology with warmth and real-world insight, Dr. Bobby is also a sought-after speaker, author, and podcast host dedicated to helping people create lives—and relationships—that truly work.Who This Episode Is For:Anyone who has found themselves in a rebound relationship—or worries they might be in one nowPeople who have separated or divorced and believe they don’t fall into the rebound categoryThose who consider themselves self-aware or “healed,” yet want to understand why rebounds still happenListeners seeking clarity on what healthy love actually feels like before entering their next relationshipAt Growing Self, we have a team of amazing clinicians who specialize in love, happiness, and success, many of whom have expertise in Heartbreak Recovery and Divorce Counseling. Check it out by clicking on this link: https://www.growingself.com/divorce-counseling/ Connect with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby:Website: www.growingself.com Social Media: @growing_selfConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we explore a more positive side of divorce. While high-conflict divorce can be messy and emotionally draining, not every breakup stays that way. Host Ksenia Muench sits down with Doug Sandler to hear his personal story—from the challenges he faced during his difficult divorce to how he eventually found resolution and growth. This episode offers insights into navigating breakups, coping with divorce, and finding hope even in tough times. Listen in to discover Doug’s journey and see that not every divorce ends in heartbreak.Key Topics Covered:The pivotal moment that sparked change during a difficult divorce.How support from friends, mediators, or time helped navigate challenges.Letting go of limiting beliefs and shifting perspectives on an ex-partner.The role of empathy and understanding in fostering civility.Changes in communication and the importance of setting respectful boundaries.Choosing civility over conflict, even when anger resurfaces.Differentiating between forgiveness and cooperation in co-parenting or separation.Personal growth and lessons learned through the divorce process.Advice for navigating the “ugly” phase of a breakup.Reflection on what truly matters in moving forward after divorce.“To stay together and be miserable makes no sense. Either figure out how to be happy or move on and be happy. Those are really your only two choices.” - Doug SandlerAbout Our Guest: Doug SandlerDoug Sandler is an entrepreneur, bestselling author (Nice Guys Finish First), and podcast host (The Nice Guys on Business). With over 30 years of experience, he helps people build meaningful connections, navigate challenging conversations, and grow personally and professionally—even through difficult life transitions like divorce.Who This Episode Is For:Individuals going through a divorce are looking for guidance and hope.People seeking strategies to communicate more respectfully and maintain civility with an ex.Anyone interested in personal growth and learning from the challenges of breakups.Listeners curious about real-life stories of transformation and finding resolution after divorce.Connect with Doug Sandler:Website:  https://www.dougsandler.com/ , https://turnkeypodcast.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/doug-sandler/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we sit down with Vikki Stark, psychotherapist and author of Runaway Husbands, to explore why some men emotionally or physically disappear during marriage or divorce.We unpack what defines a runaway husband, the role of emotional avoidance, fear of conflict, and identity loss, and how sudden withdrawal and lack of closure impact spouses, families, and children. This conversation offers insight for anyone navigating divorce, separation, or emotional abandonment—and a deeper understanding of men’s emotional coping in modern relationships.Key Topics Covered:What the “Runaway Husbands” phenomenon really meansWhy do some men emotionally or physically disappear during marriage or divorceEmotional avoidance, conflict fear, and identity loss in menThe psychological impact of abandonment on spouses and familiesWhether runaway husbands are becoming more common todayWhy closure is often missing—and how to heal without itWhat women wish they had understood sooner about emotional withdrawalHow to move forward after a sudden separation or divorceWho This Episode Is For:Women experiencing sudden separation or divorceAnyone dealing with emotional abandonment or lack of closureListeners interested in relationship psychology and divorce recoveryThose seeking clarity around men’s emotional behavior in relationships“Life will go on, and you will have a new chapter, and it might be a very nice chapter.” - Vikki StarkAbout Our Guest: Vikki StarkVikki Stark is a psychotherapist and author specializing in relationships, marriage breakdown, and emotional abandonment. Her work focuses on helping individuals understand the dynamics of sudden marital disengagement and healing after divorce.Connect with Vikki Stark:Website:  https://www.vikkistark.com/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In today’s episode, we explore the often-confusing intersection between civil divorce and Catholic annulment, unpacking what each process truly means—and what it does not. We discuss the legal, emotional, and spiritual weight carried by both, especially when faith, identity, and high-conflict relationships are involved. This conversation centers on clarity, boundaries, and honoring lived experience in the midst of profound change.Key Topics Covered:Divorce and annulment serve different purposes ⁃ Divorce provides legal closure around property, finances, and custody. ⁃ A Catholic annulment is a spiritual process declaring a sacramental marriage invalid from the start. ⁃ One does not replace or override the other.Both processes carry deep emotional weight ⁃ Divorce can trigger grief, anger, guilt, relief, or ongoing pain, especially with children involved. ⁃ Annulment may feel like erasure, rejection, or betrayal, particularly for non-initiators. ⁃ All emotional responses are valid and deserve compassion.Annulment cannot be enforced through civil law ⁃ Courts have no jurisdiction over Church annulments. ⁃ A spouse cannot legally require an annulment as part of a divorce settlement. ⁃ Using annulment as leverage is manipulation, not a legal or moral obligation.High-conflict dynamics can weaponize faith ⁃ Annulment may be used to protect reputation or shift blame. ⁃ It can rewrite shared history and compound emotional harm. ⁃ Ongoing contact, especially through co-parenting, can slow healing.Your lived experience remains valid ⁃ Church decisions are made by human institutions and are not infallible. ⁃ An annulment outcome does not define your worth or negate your memories. ⁃ Healing comes from truth, clarity, and self-protection—not control.“Annulment does not erase memories, children, or emotional bonds. It's a spiritual declaration, not a reset button.” - Ksenia MuenchGrab this handy tool to see the differences side by sideLegal Divorce Vs Catholic Annulment Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered dives into entrepreneurship with the founder and the managing partner of Esse Law, Shaheen Sheik-Sadhal. We talk about the right corp structure for your goals, financing, do’s and don’ts for investors, exit strategy, and much more.Did you know that out of $330 billion invested (yes, BILLIONS), only 2% was invested into female-founded businesses?Tune in to find out more.Key Topics Covered:Legal Structure for your business. ⁃ We discuss legal business structures that go over the differences between when you are doing it on your own and when you are looking for investors. ⁃ We cover the mistakes new founders make and some practical advice on what founders should do before raising money.Looking for Capital ⁃ In this part of the conversation, we go over what investors are looking for before writing a check. ⁃ Shaheen covers what a good pitch looks like and why it is important to present in a concise manner: Investors invest in YOU. ⁃ “Fun” fact: men founders get funded more easily compared to their female counterparts - why do you think that is?Exit strategy ⁃ We discuss when it may be the right time to exit, and the answer may surprise you. ⁃ Shaheen goes over the proper planning strategy prior to your planned departure.Final Thoughts ⁃ We are having some fun with a rapid Q&A session with our guest. ⁃ We cover key takeaways for the brave souls who want to make a difference in this world and how to do it right. ⁃ Connect with our guest.“You have to be brave and optimistic, but not overly confident… If you can feel like you're on purpose and either that you are being inspired or that you're inspiring other people - If you can make it something larger than just yourself, it will get you through some of those darker, tougher times.” - Shaheen Sheik-SadhalConnect with Shaheen Sheik-Sadhal:Website:  https://esselaw.com/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Life after divorce doesn’t end when the paperwork is finalized. In this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we explore how divorce can become a catalyst for emotional healing, personal growth, and empowered relationships.I’m joined by JJ Flizanes, empowerment strategist, relationship and wellness expert, and podcast host, who shares powerful insights on emotional awareness, identity shifts, and intentional healing after divorce.In This Episode, We Cover:Why the emotional aftermath of divorce can last for yearsThe anatomy of emotion and why emotional reactions are normalWhy therapy alone isn’t always effectiveHow divorce reshapes identity and creates emotional blocksWays to release emotional patterns and rebuild self-trustLetting go of the “old self” and stepping into a new identityMoving from survival mode to true empowermentShifting focus from lack to possibility14-day Manifestation Challenge starting January 5thhttps://jj-flizanes.mykajabi.com/14-day-manifestation-challenge-1Bonus Resource:A downloadable worksheet is available to help you reflect on emotional patterns, reconnect with yourself, and begin the healing process discussed in this episode.Life After Divorce Worksheet “Your comfort zone keeps you comfortable, but if you want more or better, you have to pass through the comfort zone into something scary.” - JJ FlizanesConnect with JJ Flizanes:Website: https://jjflizanes.com/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I explore why more women are choosing to stay single—and why this shift is accelerating. Current statistics show that over 37% of women are opting out of romantic partnerships, with projections suggesting that number could reach 50% by 2035. So what’s driving this change?I share my personal story that led me to opt out of dating, and unpack more reasons behind this shift. The biggest threat to men's loneliness is not another man, but a woman who is fed up with half efforts, not being seen or heard, and who finally knows her worth and chooses herself.Whether you’re single by choice, happily in a relationship, or feeling frustrated by today’s dating dynamics, this episode is for you. Get comfortable—and let’s get into it.Topics Covered in This Episode:Why women are choosing to stay singleModern dating challenges and dating fatigueEmotional labor and relationship imbalanceWomen, independence, and self-prioritizationRedefining love, fulfillment, and partnershipPerfect For Listeners Interested In:Women and singlenessModern dating cultureRelationships and emotional healthPersonal growth and independenceFeminine empowerment and choice“Why we're choosing to stay single? Because it feels lighter. It feels more peaceful. There is no drama.” - Ksenia MuenchConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered uses the metaphor of a toxic relationship to unpack what happens when your car turns out to be a “lemon.” Ksenia sits down with lemon law attorney Michelle Fonseca-Kamana of West Coast Lemons APC to explain how lemon laws actually work, what qualifies as a defect, and the myths that confuse most buyers.Michelle breaks down why repeated repair attempts matter, how safety issues can fast-track your rights, and why documentation is your strongest protection. They also discuss attorney fees, strict timelines, and the risks of used cars, “as is” sales, and new or experimental brands.It’s an empowering conversation that helps consumers, especially women who are often dismissed at dealerships, understand their rights, protect themselves, and walk away from bad cars before they become toxic relationships.Key Topics Covered:Lemon Car “red flags.” ⁃ The Lemon Law is legally defined ⁃ What makes your car a lemon? ⁃ Does having a warranty mean you can’t file your case under Lemon Law?“Breakup” Process ⁃ We are discussing steps to take once you think your car is a lemon. ⁃ How long does the process usually take? It really depends. ⁃ Worst car manufacturer to deal with. ⁃ The most frequent car brands with a lemon.“Rebound” Rides ⁃ Are there “healthier” car brands to try post lemon “breakup”? ⁃ We dive into tips on how to avoid getting another lemon. ⁃ We also break down new vs certified pre-owned vs pre-owned: know the difference and don’t believe everything you hear at a dealership.Final Thoughts ⁃ Our guest shares things she wishes you knew about cars. ⁃ Tips on how to be effective and get the results you want when working with a lemon law attorney. ⁃ Reach out to West Coast Lemon APC to get the exclusive Car Buying 101 guide.“Knowledge gives you confidence. Once you have that roadmap, you’re better able to stand up for yourself at the dealership.” - Michelle Fonseca-KamanaConnect with Michelle Fonseca-Kamana:Website:  https://westcoastlemons.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-fonseca-kamana-lemonlawattorney/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/westcoastlemons/?hl=en Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In today’s episode, I’m getting a little personal and diving into the often-overlooked topic of boundaries in the dating world—yes, those things we all pretend to have until feelings get involved. I’m sharing my own experiences and breaking down what dating single moms can really look like. Spoiler: it’s not always snack time and superhero movies… but sometimes it is. We’ll also get into why some people tap out before they even tap in, and trust me, the reasons can be wild. It’s all real talk, a little laughter, and hopefully a clearer picture of what you’re signing up for—or running from.Key Topics Covered:Current Dating Culture ⁃ Dating after divorce is unavoidable unless you decide to swear it off for good. ⁃ How to lose a guy in 10 days today.Dating Single Moms ⁃ Is it a fun time or a boundary? ⁃ Why dating single moms is a privilege. ⁃ Why dating single moms is a no-fly zone.Boundaries in Dating ⁃ Why I don’t date single dads, and it has nothing to do with the children. ⁃ Why ex ex-partners always have a special place in our hearts when we share children? ⁃ It is never over with the ex-partner if you have a cordial and mutually respectful co-parenting relationship.Lessons Learned ⁃ I talk about emotionally processing statements that can be hurtful or offensive. ⁃ I discuss how to filter out and let go of things that are not relevant or have no impact on our lives. ⁃ I cover how these experiences teach us to establish stronger boundaries and help us elevate.“Dating is an inevitable part of after-divorce life, unless you decided to swear off dating for good, which is not that challenging, considering how messed up dating culture is today.” - Ksenia MuenchConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Today we’re sitting down with the incredible Life Coach, Jacqueline Hawk Crichton, who helps us explore what truly happens when we give ourselves permission to ask — to ask for what we want, to set boundaries, and to allow ourselves to be seen and heard.Have you ever wondered what might have happened if you had simply asked? Because now you know what happens when you don’t — you’re living that version of your life today.In this conversation, we’ll dive into how to overcome the fear of being labeled as “too much,” “harsh,” or “entitled,” and how to face the fear of rejection head-on. We’ll also explore how to stop standing in our own way so we can reach our goals and create the life we dream of.So get comfy, grab a snack, and let’s dive in!Key Topics Covered:Psychology and Mindset of Asking ⁃ Common fears behind asking ⁃ Is there a difference between a powerful ask to advocate for yourself and being entitled?Effective Way of Asking ⁃ Core principles of the ask ⁃ Does reading your audience in terms of timing and context matter? Or is it using, looking for a way to hide? ⁃ Common mistakes to avoidHow the ability to ask can change your life ⁃ Professional career growth ⁃ Personal fulfilling relationships ⁃ The outcome of the divorce settlementQuestions to ponder  ⁃ What is the best ask you have ever made? ⁃ Is there an ask you regret? ⁃ Would you rather ask or regret not asking?Final Thoughts ⁃ The struggle to ask is real ⁃ We all seem as if we are waiting for permission without realizing we already have it ⁃ How to learn to feel empowered to advocate for yourself, and why it is easier as we get older“We will regret more not asking for something than if we do.” - Jacqueline Hawk CrichtonConnect with Jacqueline Hawk Crichton:Website:  https://www.soarcc.com/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, I’m diving into answering a million-dollar question - Is It Truly ever Over?The divorce papers are signed, the court dates are behind you, and legally — it’s over. But what happens when your ex just won’t let go? Today, we are unpacking one of the most difficult and emotionally challenging realities: life after a high-conflict divorce, especially when one person can’t — or won’t — move on even if on the surface it looks like they have.We explore what “final” really means when you're dealing with an obsessive ex, the signs of post-divorce harassment or emotional entanglement, and how to protect your peace, your boundaries, and your future. From co-parenting challenges to stalking, manipulation, or continued legal threats, the fight can often continue long after the ink is dry.If your divorce is final but the drama continues, this episode is here to remind you that you’re not alone.Key Topics Covered:Forced Presence of Ex ⁃ When your ex continues to show up in your life despite the divorce being final. ⁃ How do they create situations where you’re forced to interact or respond?Tactics used to maintain engagement and control ⁃ What “no-contact” ideally looks like — and why it’s hard in high-conflict cases. ⁃ Indirect contact through mutual friends, kids, or social media. ⁃ Provoking responses through others or triggering situations. ⁃ Unspoken threats Obsession vs Closure ⁃ Signs that your ex is not just angry — but obsessed. ⁃ What if it looks like they have moved on, but still won’t let you go?Why? ⁃ Does WHY really matter? ⁃ Shifting focus from their motives to your protection.Light at the end of the tunnel ⁃ The slow burn of situations improving over time in high-conflict divorces. ⁃ What you can do to protect yourself. ⁃ Advice from listeners?“Will it ever stop? It will take years and a lot of actions on her part—creating distance, managing her responses, and letting her boundaries evolve and adjust based on her former spouse’s actions.” - Ksenia MuenchConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Have you ever found yourself wondering, “Will it ever be me?”—when it comes to love, relationships, and finding the right person? If so, this episode is for you.Today, we’re joined by Christina Gonzales Hicks, who shares her unique dating journey. Together, we dive deep into what it means to rediscover yourself, align with your highest good, and attract the love you truly deserve.In this episode, we talk about green and red flags in dating, advice we wish we hadn’t taken, and much more.Key Topics Covered:Christina’s story ⁃ Divorce and dating with a twistThe inner work: making powerful internal shifts ⁃ Rediscovering yourself ⁃ Staying authentic and aligned with your core values ⁃ Understanding the balance between masculine and feminine energyNavigating the challenges of modern dating culture ⁃ How to avoid getting stuck in unfulfilling dating dynamics ⁃ Spotting the right person and knowing when it’s realGAME Time  ⁃ In this part of the interview, I ask our guest rapid-fire, simple questions that reveal some secrets women don’t want you to know, what matters to us, some icks, and more.Final Thoughts ⁃ Don’t give up - live in the moment and know it is like riding a train: you know your stop is coming up.“One of the best pieces of advice I got was to do things that you enjoy... because a lot of times where you end up meeting someone that you really want to be with is on whatever you like to do for fun.” - Christina Gonzales HicksConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, I’m stepping outside my usual comfort zone and doing something I don’t do often — sharing a personal story. It’s a moment in my life that changed the way I see the world, and more importantly, the people in it. Sometimes, it takes a simple experience to truly reveal the character of those around you — who’s genuinely there for you and who only shows up when it’s convenient.This story is one of those turning points — a situation that, in a way, 'fixed' my vision and helped me see everything more clearly. If you've ever had an eye-opening moment like that, I think you’ll relate.So, tune in to hear what happened, how it shifted my perspective, and why I believe these experiences, though painful, are necessary. And if you’ve gone through something similar, I’d love to hear your story too.Key Topics Covered:Compliments ⁃ Do we know how to accept a compliment? ⁃ Is it cheesy or sincere?Responses Incoming ⁃ Responses are split into camps of “heck yeah” and “ewww” ⁃ Who is your friend and who is your foe?Teenager perspective ⁃ Take compliments at face value  ⁃ Your true friends celebrate happy moments with you ⁃ Foes make you feel less thanDivorce and friends ⁃ Your experiences update your social circle, with people dropping out and new people coming in ⁃ Is having a small circle of friends good or bad? ⁃ What kind of experiences fix your vision?“We learn from mistakes way more than we learn from victories.” - Ksenia MuenchConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, we sit down with Ruchita Shah, Senior Director at CBIZ Forensic Consulting Group, to uncover how forensic accounting can bring truth and clarity to complex divorces. With years of experience tracing hidden assets and analyzing marital finances, Ruchita reveals how a forensic CPA helps ensure fair settlements and financial transparency when trust has broken down.We discuss what red flags may signal the need for a forensic expert, how lifestyle analysis shapes spousal support, and why documentation and early action are key to protecting your financial future. Through real-world examples and practical advice, Ruchita shows how understanding your numbers can be one of the most empowering steps in your divorce journey.Key Topics Covered:○ Forensic accounting 101 ⁃ Understanding the role of a forensic CPA in divorce litigation ⁃ Differences between traditional and forensic CPAs ⁃ How financial investigations help achieve transparency and closure○ Lifestyle analysis and marital standard of living ⁃ How lifestyle assessments shape spousal support and property division ⁃ Income-based vs. expense-based lifestyle methods ⁃ Why clarity about marital expenses helps both spouses○ Spotting financial red flags ⁃ Common signs that a forensic investigation may be needed ⁃ When income and lifestyle don’t align ⁃ Evaluating if an investigation is worth the cost and peace of mind○ The forensic process ⁃ Step-by-step breakdown of how CPAs review disclosures, tax returns, and records ⁃ How assumptions are made when data is incomplete ⁃ Working under an attorney's direction and collaborating with opposing experts○ Protecting yourself during a divorce ⁃ What to gather early: tax returns, bank statements, and key financial documents ⁃ Why you should file a support order as soon as possible ⁃ Importance of transparency, responsiveness, and involving a financial advisor early“It’s not just us accountants who learn from lifestyle analysis — it’s the clients too. They realize, often for the first time, what their true expenses are and what their life really costs.” - Ruchita ShahConnect with Ruchita Shah:Website: https://www.cbiz.com/about/people/ruchita-shah LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ruchita-shahcpa/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, I’m taking you on an adventure to uncover what a divorce team really is—and why having one can make all the difference in your journey.Divorce is not just a legal process; it’s an emotional, financial, and often spiritual transformation. And unless you’ve walked through it before, this stage—the “D” step—can leave you feeling completely overwhelmed, like a deer caught in the headlights. Today you’ll learn who should be on your team, what roles they play, and how each person can help you move forward with more clarity and confidence. By the end of this episode, you’ll see why you don’t have to face this alone.Key Topics Covered:Divorce Team - What it looks like - Why do you need a divorce team when you decide to go through with a D wordWho should you approach first? - Let’s talk about the order in which it is best to contact the team - What roles do each expert play in the divorce saga?Common misconceptions - My attorney is all I need. - I just know stuff, and I can handle it. - It is not going to be that bad.Results - Proactive vs reactive - More money in your pocket - More time in your day for: • You • Your family • Your dream life/career“Abuse can be very insidious. It’s not always visible. It doesn't always leave bruises.” - Ksenia MuenchConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, we sit down with immigration attorney Evelyn Moon with Evelyn Moon Law PC, to unpack the complex intersection between divorce and immigration status. Whether you’re a green card holder, conditional resident, or in the U.S. on a visa tied to your marriage, divorce can raise serious questions about your legal status. We discuss what happens to your immigration status if you divorce your U.S. citizen, how conditional green card holders can still remove conditions post-divorce, legal protections available to immigrants in abusive marriages, and common pitfalls and myths in immigration and divorce.Key Topics Covered:Immigration and Divorce - We cover the general, typical milestones of immigration status based on marriage, timeline, and conditions. - We discuss the differences between a conditional and permanent green card, and whether you are still able to obtain a green card after separation/divorce.Common Scenarios and Legal Guidance - When divorce happens during a pending adjustment of status. - A conditional green card holder going through a divorce before removing conditions. - Legal protections available for immigrant abused spouses and ways to defend yourself from potential retaliation of the abusive, soon-to-be ex.Let’s bust some immigration myths - Is there an “automatic” deportation after divorce? - We discuss what USCIS considers a fake marriage and what triggers the investigation.  - Can one be denaturalized? Expert advice - When should you be reaching out to an immigration attorney, and how does the immigration attorney fit into the divorce team? - We discuss the type of documents to collect and how long you should keep them to protect yourself. - Our expert shares the most effective way to navigate joint filings and what to do when you share children.“USCIS understands that circumstances can change... as long as you can prove that that initial marriage was entered in good faith, you're still able to remove that condition with the waiver of the joint filing requirement.” - Evelyn MoonConnect with Evelyn Moon:Website: https://evelynmoon.com/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Have you been feeling burned out, stuck, or unfulfilled? Have you ever wondered why everything around you seems to start falling apart when you seem to do everything right?In this episode, our guest Shadi Sadeghi, a transformational Coach and Energy Practitioner with 17 years of experience, will walk us through what it means to align with your deeper purpose and awaken to your True Self. Using tools like shadow work, dream interpretation, and active imagination, Shadi will show us how to boldly step into the next chapter of our lives with confidence and clarity.Key Topics Covered:What is energy work?- How does it affect your mind, body, and soul?- What does it look like when you are out of alignment?Tools and practices to rebalance- Easy practice to reconnect with your True Self.- How to differentiate intuition from ego.- Mindset shifts and lifestyle changes to help you tune into your Higher Self.Meditation- We are doing a live meditation and an active imagination session you don’t want to miss.Misconceptions about Transformation Coaching and Energy Work- How to respond to nay-sayers or better yet, don’t respond at all.- Things you wish people understood better about this type of work.Expert advice- What to do when you feel stuck or lost.- When to engage a Transformational Coach and how to determine if YOU are ready."You have to get through that dark tunnel before you can get to your true self, truly... that's what Shadow Work is..." - Shadi SadeghiConnect with Shadi Sadeghi:Instagram: @ThisLifeFulfilledConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this gripping episode, a seasoned criminal law attorney, Fred Thiagarajah with Right Choice Law, breaks down what happens when relationships take a dangerous turn. From warning signs of abuse to the legal steps victims can take, the episode explores how the justice system responds to domestic violence. The lawyer shares real-world cases, explains the difference between protective and restraining orders, the role of law enforcement, and offers guidance for those trapped in toxic or violent relationships. It’s an essential listen for anyone seeking to understand the legal and emotional complexities when love becomes a threat.Key Topics Covered:Understanding Domestic Violence - What is legally defined as DV? - Common types of chargesLegal Process - Reasons for arrest and what happens after - Can charges be dropped if a victim doesn’t want to press charges? - Understanding the difference between:Protective order and restraining order. How effective are they?No contact and protective order - Roles of a prosecutor and a criminal defense attorney in a DV caseChallenges in the legal world of DV - How are false accusations handled? - How does the legal system handle the victim’s fear of participation? - We discuss instances when DV cases involve children and custody during divorce. - Common misconceptions about DV.Closing thoughts - Advice for people seeking help. - Guidance for people accused of DV - Connect with our guest“False accusations are handled the same way actual accusations are handled. We have to go through all the evidence.” - Fred ThiagarajahConnect with Fred Thiagarajah:Website: https://www.fredthia.com/ Phone: (949) 265-7005Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Is your stuff stressing you out? In this episode, we dive into the powerful connection between physical clutter and mental overwhelm. You’ll learn how the things you hold onto might be holding you back — and how creating physical space can open the door to emotional clarity, focus, and peace of mind.Our guest, Nancy Eaton with Inspired Living by Nancy Eaton, shares practical tips for decluttering, explores why we get so attached to things, and offers a fresh perspective on how letting go of excess can help you feel lighter — inside and out.Key Topics Covered:Understanding decluttering - The difference between decluttering and organizing. - The struggle of letting go is real, and why.Mind and body connection - Does physical space mess affect your mental well-being? - We discuss the areas in your house that may impact your emotional state the most.Practical tips on DIY declutter - How to get started.  - Have friends join you, but invite those who can give real feedback. - Know when to engage a professional.Decluttering as a Self-Care - Folding laundry can be a great meditating moment - say what? - How can you achieve emotional freedom and energetic shift after letting go, especially during big life transitions? - Habits to maintain a clear space and a clear mind long-term.“Decluttering gives you an opportunity to take out the things that no longer serve you; it’s about letting go and opening space for you to grow.” - Nancy EatonConnect with Nancy Eaton:Website: https://www.nancy-eaton.com/   Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, we’re joined by a seasoned CPA, Allison Green with Green Zahn & Associates, to unpack the often-overlooked financial fallout of divorce—taxes. From filing status and alimony changes to hidden tax liabilities and asset division traps, we break down the key financial considerations that can impact your cash flow long after the divorce settlement is signed. Whether you're in the midst of a separation, thinking about filing, or supporting someone going through it, this conversation is packed with tips and insights to learn how to protect your finances, prepare for tax season post-divorce, and make informed decisions that set you up for a more secure future.Key Topics Covered:Divorce and Taxes - What makes taxes different during divorce - Filings statuses and rules - To TurboTax or Not To TurboTaxAsset Division and Tax Consequences - Is it tax-free? - Asset equalization vs asset liquidation - Transfers vs distributions - How to create a tax-smart settlementSpousal and Child support during taxes - Post-2019 rule changes on spousal support - Child support vs. dependency exemptions - What is the best filing status for you?Proactive Tax Strategies - When should you involve a CPA? - Common mistakes to avoid - Importance of updating W4“A little bit of planning in the beginning and having somebody there to talk to and to kind of tell you what to look at can make all the difference in the world.” - Allison GreenConnect with Allison Green:Website:  http://www.greenzahn.com/Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, Ksenia discussed the societal decline in humanity, prompted by the assassination of Charlie Kirk on September 10th. She condemns the celebration of his death, regardless of political views, and highlights the intolerance and violence it represents. She emphasizes the importance of kindness and tolerance, criticizing the focus on gun control as a solution to violence, arguing that it's people, not guns, that pull triggers. She draws parallels to the indifference shown in the stabbing of a Ukrainian refugee and the ugliness revealed in divorce, urging for a return to civility and respect for differences.Key Topics Covered:The danger of intolerance - Disagreements are escalating into violence rather than civil discourse. - Society is becoming less accepting of differing opinions and beliefs. - The inability to tolerate differences undermines the fabric of community.Recognizing violence as a human problem - Guns and weapons are not the root cause; people are. - Restricting access to weapons may not address the underlying issues of hatred and violence. - True change requires addressing the mindset and motivations behind violent acts.Divorce doesn’t create ugliness; it reveals it - The stress of divorce often brings out negative traits that were already present. - Disagreements in divorce should be handled with civility and respect. - The way people treat each other during divorce reflects deeper personal values.Restoring kindness and humanity - Everyone should strive to treat strangers and loved ones with more kindness. - Cherish family and relationships, as life is unpredictable. - Self-reflection and compassion are essential for healing society’s divisions.“The differences is what makes us beautiful, that’s what makes us human. When did it become that we cannot disagree with each other?” -  Ksenia MuenchConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, we tackle one of the most challenging parenting dynamics—co-parenting with a high-conflict ex. Whether you’re dealing with constant arguments, manipulation, or a lack of cooperation, this episode offers practical strategies to reduce stress and protect your children from the fallout.Whether you're fresh out of a contentious divorce or years into a rocky custody arrangement, this episode is your toolkit for finding peace in the “co-parenting” chaos.Key Topics Covered:What is High-Conflict Co-Parenting - The traits of high-conflict co-parenting  - Why does it happen?“Monkey in the middle” - Kids are used as pawns, but don’t let them be - What your children feel and go through when they get sucked into this “game” - How to protect your littles High-Conflict Parents’ New Boo(s)  - New “parent” or new partner? Power moves your ex may use by bringing a new person into the picture. - It may feel as if there are now 2 people against 1, and the one being you.Gameplan to Survive the Ex Showdown - Iron-clad co-parenting plan - nothing is left up to imagination. - Not every fight is worth your time and energy - be selective in what you engage in. - Keep your communications professional and focused on kids. Ensure everything is in writing. - Involve help if needed, whether it is legal or from a co-parenting therapist - there is no shame in asking for backup. - Radical acceptance, your ex might never change - approach this co-parenting journey as if you are a single parent and keep your focus on the kids. - High-conflict co-parenting is extremely challenging, but set your boundaries, keep your cool, and put your kids first. You’ve got this — even if your ex doesn’t.“Protect your sanity at all costs, walk away from fights. And I'm not saying, be a doormat, be the door. When you have control, you open it and you close it and say, ‘No, thank you. I am good.’” - Ksenia MuenchConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, we sit down with an experienced estate planning attorney, Jennifer Elliott with Ocean Estate Law, to discuss the intertwining of divorce and estate planning. From wills and trusts to beneficiary designations and powers of attorney, we explore how divorce can drastically impact your estate plan — and what steps you must take to protect yourself and your loved ones during and after the process.Whether you're in the midst of a divorce, recently divorced, or helping someone else through it, this episode offers practical advice and legal insights to ensure your estate plan reflects your new reality and is probate-proof. Key Topics Covered:Why estate planning mattersHow divorce impacts your estate plan - Mistakes people make when it comes to estate planning after divorce - Difference between emotional and legal closureDocuments to update and why - Wills and trusts - Beneficiary designations - Power of attorney and healthcare directivesLegal and financial implications - What happens if the estate plan is not updated? - Laws that may potentially protect you, but there are drawbacksCreating a probate-proof estate plan  - When is a good time to revisit an existing estate plan? - How soon after a divorce should you update the documents? - How long and how much on average does it take to put it in place?Final thoughts - Importance of working with the estate planning attorney vs an AI template - Tips on selecting a quality attorney“When you get divorced, the top three things you should do: understand your divorce judgment, redo your estate plan, and then go start chapter two and enjoy life.” - Jennifer ElliottConnect with Jennifer Elliott:Website:  https://oceanestatelaw.com/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, we sit down with an experienced mortgage broker, Chris Chudacoff with True Point Lending, to unpack the complexities of getting a home loan during and after a divorce. We explore how your marital status, credit profile, and income situation can affect your eligibility—and what lenders look for when your financial life is in transition. Whether you're looking to refinance, buy out your ex, or start fresh in a new home, this episode offers practical advice and strategies to help you move forward. So, grab your coffee, get comfortable, and let’s make this whole mortgage thing a little less confusing and stressful.Key Topics Covered:Types of loans available and what their differences areFinancial dynamics of divorce - First financial steps someone should take once divorce proceedings start. - Common challenges newly single individuals face when applying for a loan. Getting a loan during a divorce - Getting a loan during a divorce - What is considered income?  - Are there any legal or logistical limitations? - Practical advice - to do or not to do…Loan post-divorce - Establishing solo credit and individual financial identity post-divorce - Things to know about spousal and child support as an income - Specific requirements for self-employed - The importance of working with the right mortgage brokerStrategies to improve loan eligibility - The importance of working with the right mortgage broker  - How much down payment do you actually need? - Are co-signers a good idea?The biggest mistake our guest shares he sees as a mortgage brokerWhen and how to contact our guest“I still think real estate's a great investment. ... If you're going to own a home to live in that that's where you call home and build community, and you're going to have the home for more than five to six years, you're going to withstand, typically, any bad cycle of real estate anyway.” - Chris A. ChudacoffConnect with Chris A. Chudacoff:Website:  http://www.truepointlending.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-chudacoff/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this insightful episode, we dive into the complex intersection of real estate and divorce, exploring how property is handled during the dissolution of a marriage. Divorce doesn’t just split a relationship—it can split a home. We’re joined by Jennifer Purzycki of Purzycki White Real Estate, who brings her firsthand expertise to the table as we explore the often-overlooked challenges of handling property during a divorce. From emotional decisions to legal complexities, Jennifer shares practical strategies and real-world experiences that help make the process more manageable.Key Topics Covered:What makes selling a home during divorce proceedings different from a traditional sale - The importance of working with a real estate agent who understands and specializes in divorceEmotional and Legal Dynamics of the Sale - Remaining neutral when working with a divorcing couple - Communications if the parties are not speaking - Working with attorneys, mediators, and both spouses to reach fair outcomesLogistics of a sale - Sale price determination and pre-sale preparation - Sale vs buy-out and when to refinance - Division of sale proceedsReal-life examples - Jennifer walks us through her experience of working with divorcing couples - balancing neutrality, managing conflict, and keeping the transaction on track.Advice for making logical, informed decisions rather than emotional ones - How to select the right realtor  - How to treat it as a business transaction - How to connect with the guest“Selling a house during a divorce isn't just about the property. It's about dividing one asset between two people who have very different goals, have different timelines, and have a different emotional investment in that property. It's rarely just a transaction. There's part negotiating, there's a lot of counseling involved.” - Jennifer PurzyckiConnect with Jennifer Purzycki:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenphomes/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

Singlehood, far from being a void, is a powerful season of self-discovery. It teaches us to move through healing with gentleness, to embrace solitude as strength, and to redefine what love truly means. In this time, we grow emotionally independent, set healthy boundaries, and begin living with a purpose that aligns with who we truly are. By building a life you genuinely love, you’re not simply preparing for a partner—you become your own home first. And in doing so, you naturally attract what is aligned with your soul, not just what is conveniently available.Key Topics Covered:1. Singlehood is a Journey of Self-DiscoveryIt often begins with pain and uncertainty, but over time, it reveals growth, strength, and self-awareness.This chapter is not a pause but a passage into becoming.2. Healing Is Not LinearExpect waves of progress, setbacks, and revelations.Through self-reflection, honesty, and grace, the path still moves forward.3. Emotional Independence is EmpoweringLearn to validate your own experiences and find comfort in solitude.Being single is not a deficiency but a rich opportunity for personal development.4. Redefine Love and RelationshipsSeek partners who enhance, not complete you.Establish clear boundaries, know your worth, and release the myth that love defines value.5. Build a Life Rooted in AuthenticityPour into yourself. Pursue passions, rest, and grow.The right relationships will come not from desperation but from the natural pull of a whole, thriving life.“Your single era is where you define your values, your goals, and what you actually want outside of someone else's expectations.” - Ksenia MuenchConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In today’s episode, we’re joined by a remarkable guest who grew up navigating life between two homes. Now a successful attorney, devoted husband, and proud father of two, he reflects candidly on the challenges he faced as a child of divorced parents. He shares the emotional hurdles of growing up in a separated family and his ongoing journey to break the cycle, creating a stable, loving environment for his own family.Key Topics Covered:Personal story - It’s about time… - Separation of parents was easy - what came after was worse.Adjustment to a new life - Biggest challenges - Tools used to deal with the conflictDon’t want to turn it into a therapy session but… - What does it feel like for a child when one parent doesn’t stop talking negatively about the other parent? - Can I make it stop?Reflection (47 years later) - Does it get better? - The lasting effects of parental conflict on childrenAdvice for divorcing parents - Keep kids out of the conflict — no matter what (it does get complicated when only one parent follows this piece of advice) - When new partners come in, if they are loving toward your children, let them be loved. It is not a competition - loving and supportive parents can never be replaced by a new person in your kids’ lives.“We must be willing to let go of the life we've planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” - Jeff RobertsConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

In this episode, we're diving into a side of divorce that’s rarely talked about—but deeply felt by those who live through it. This is not your typical “we grew apart” story. We're exploring the dark undercurrent of high-conflict divorces—when a legal separation turns into psychological warfare. Not all divorces are created equal. Some become battlegrounds, filled with ongoing legal fights, custody disputes, refusal to co-parent, false accusations, manipulations, and financial sabotage. Today, we are going to talk about what makes high-conflict divorce so uniquely damaging, and—more importantly—how to protect yourself, your children, and your mental health when caught in the storm.If you're navigating this path—or know someone who is—this episode is for you.Key Topics Covered:What is High-Conflict Divorce - Relentless process that haunts you in court and at home - “Recipe” for High-Conflict coupleWhat Psychological warfare looks like - Gaslighting - Alienation of children - False accusations - Draining financesReal stories all sound the same - just different characters - Summary of how high-conflict divorces typically play out - It is a campaign to destroy the targeted party.Courts and high-conflict divorces - Both parties are seen as being difficult - Hard to prove abuse not seen by a naked eye - Tips to prepare your case for the courtSurvival tools - Limit communications to neutral or monitored channels like Talking Parents or Our FamilyWizard - Respond, don’t react - pause before replying - Reply only when it is warranted when it comes to custodial or peaceful matters, any other communication should be done through the attorneys - Build a safe circle of support - Engage with a therapist who specializes in this type of trauma - Choose your battles - Accept that parallel parenting is your best option.High-Conflict divorce is not for the faint of heart BUT you are not powerless and you are not alone. Books to consider:Too Good To Leave Too Bad To Stay by Mira KirshenbaumThe Gift Of Fear by Gavin De BeckerYour Pocket Therapist by Dr. Sherrie Campbell“Choose your battles. Not every fight is worth having, especially when the other person is just fighting to win, not to solve.” - Ksenia MuenchConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Email: [email protected] Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/