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Unfriendly Black Hottie

by Unfriendly Black Hottie

Hi. I’m Anneshirley. A black feminist, first generation Americana. I hope you learn something here, cause we’ll be discussing all things.

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Episodes

  1. S7:E1 CODEPENDENCY IS NARCISSISTIC

    i want to be clear that being a codependent person does not out you to be bad, but we have to be honest

  2. SEASON FINALE: RIDE OR DIE

    do men really prefer ride or die chicks

  3. S6 E6: STOP SETTLING

    Anneshirley discusses why the genders settle.

  4. S6:E5 WALK AWAY

    When is it time to leave a situetionship? There’s a universal way of knowing

  5. AGEISM IN DATING WHILE BEING A SINGLE PARENT

    This week let’s talk about the myths of being worthy because you’re single

  6. S6 E3: it’s the coochie they miss. not you sis

    how to tell when they’re faking intimacy?

  7. S6: E2 IF YOUR ANXIOUSNESS IS DRIVING DATING YOU ARE LOSING

    How do we manage our anxiousness and need for control?

  8. S6:E1 CAN I TRUST MYSELF TO CHOOSE BETTER?

    Let’s explore how we have allowed trauma to dictate our dating experiences

  9. WHY ARE WE SNACKING ON INTIMACY?

    Season 5 close. Let’s unpack our fear of intimacy.

  10. WHATS THE POINT OF A RELATIONSHIP IF ITS GOING TO BE IMBALANCED?

    All relationships that lack balance, fail.

  11. SHOULD YOU DATE OUTSIDE YOUR RACE?

    Let’s talk about the impact of being obligation and autonomy

  12. BLACK WOMEN ARE TIRED OF BEING STRONG

    Let’s talk about why being strong is outdated

  13. WHY DO I LOVE AND HATE THE PUSH AND PULL?

    Let’s talk about how the push and pull dynamic is a form of self sabotage

  14. HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM BUILDING THEM UP FOR SOMEONE ELSE?

    In this weeks episode, we’re discussing how to tell if you’re just wasting your time in the honeymoon stage

  15. WHATS COMMITMENT PHOBIA

    Hey y’all! In this weeks episode we discuss why folks are commitment phobic and how to identify them so you don’t waste your time

  16. WHO SAID BEING EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE WAS COOL?

    It’s the season 5 opener !!! Let’s talk. Why do we have trust issues?

  17. WHEN IS IT TIME TO CALL IT QUITS ON A SITUATIONSHIP?

    Hey! In this weeks episode we call out millennial dating and how situationhips are just exploitation

  18. HOW DO I MOVE ON FROM SOMEONE I WANT?

    This weeks' episode is looking at the ways you can center yourself when youre going through a breakup

  19. WHY DO I FEEL SO CONFUSED, AM I WASTING MY TIME?

    Have you ever dealt with someone not giving you the same energy you’re giving them? Here’s the tea

  20. WHY DOES HE CREATE DISTANCE WHEN I WANT TO GET CLOSER?

    In this episode we talk about attachment styles and how they influence love

  21. WHY DONT MEN LIKE WOMEN LIKE THEM BACK?

    Let’s talk about why men don’t like women who want them

  22. WHY WOULD I DATE A MAN WHO IS NOT FINANCIALLY STABLE?

    Should you be patient with men who don’t have it together?

  23. HOW CAN YOU SUPPORT WOMEN AND SUPPORT SIDE CHICKS?

    Let’s talk about how monogamous relationships aren’t for everyone.

  24. ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH POTENTIAL?

    Did you miss the signs that this was just potential?

  25. JUST BECAUSE HE DOESN’T WEAR A CONDOM, DOES NOT MEAN HE IS CLEAN

    Let’s talk about STI MYTHS

  26. WHY DO THEY CHASE IF THEY JUST GONNA GHOST?

    Let’s talk about love bombing. Can you identify when they’re interested?

  27. CODEPENDENT AND IN LOVE

    HAPPY NEW YEAR let’s talk about how we destroy our boundaries in order to avoid being abandoned

  28. POLYAMORY IS THE FUTURE

    Can dating multiple people at once save you from cheating?

  29. BIG DICK ENERGY

    YOU MUST BELIEVE IN YOU

  30. CHEATING IS NEGGING

    In this episode we talk about how this manipulative tactic is the core of a lot of issues

  31. POSSESION IS NOT LOVE: Unfriendly Black Hottie X Mark St.Rose

    This is our first guest speaker on our first episode of season 3, and we talk about how possession and love do not co-exist

  32. NEGGING IS NOT FLIRTING

    Being hypercritical is a power move.

  33. LOVE ADDICTION: they’re going to harm us in familiar ways

    Let’s explore why we can’t help but be drawn to certain people!

  34. YOUR VOICE MATTERS

    Let’s talk about how communication works with narcissistic folks.

  35. Self Sabatoge and the Boiled Frog

    This episode discusses how cognitive dissonance forces you to acclimate to poor thinking patterns.

  36. It doesn’t count if you didn’t come!

    Sex is the stimulation of your genitalia for orgasm.

  37. How you cope with pain effects everything in your life

    The way we think can create self sabotaging patterns.

  38. POWER & ATTRACTION

    In fact, even when you do everything to be there for them, it doesn’t matter.

  39. YOU ARE A THREAT TO TOXIC PEOPLE

    Don't give up

  40. MENTALLY ILL AND DATING

    Let’s have a frank talk about how mental illness can effect our relationships.

  41. Don’t let people shame you for your standards!

    Standards

  42. RKELLY, the Grinch and oppression

    Power dynamics are cyclical.

  43. Why are hoes winning?

    We’re taught it we close our legs, wait until marriage and don’t post on Instagram we’re getting married. But that’s not always the case?

  44. You’re being desperate sis

    Only you are responsible for your self esteem.

  45. 99% of men just want to sleep with you

    We need to break down the truth.

  46. What do you need to feel empowered in your relationship?

    Quickly quipping about how unions evolve over time

  47. CHILDHOOD INFLUNCES YOUR DATING

    Your childhood is your biggest influence

  48. Strong Independent Women

    Is there such thing as being “too independent”?

  49. Side Chick vs Main Chick

    Is it better to be honest with a cheating dude, or be the one in the dark about the cheating?

  50. ARE YOU A GODDESS

    Stay single for as long as you can.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Hi. I’m Anneshirley. A black feminist, first generation Americana. I hope you learn something here, cause we’ll be discussing all things.

HOSTED BY

Unfriendly Black Hottie

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