Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard

Send us Fan MailThe word “fatherless” gets thrown around online a lot—especially when people are criticizing women’s behavior. In this episode, I explore why childhood circumstances are so often used as adult insults, and why phrases like “fatherless behavior” and “your parents must be proud” seem to carry a particular stigma.Drawing from my own experience growing up without my biological father, I reflect on personal responsibility, dignity, family influence, and the tendency to reduce people to their upbringing.This isn’t about blaming fathers, defending bad behavior, or creating a battle between men and women. It’s about asking a simple question:At what point do we stop being defined by where we came from and start being judged as individuals?Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailI didn't plan to start the episode this way...but I've been noticing a shift in myself lately.Not burnout. Not sadness exactly. Just a quiet feeling of being a little off--less motivated, less connected, not quite like myself. In this episode, I talk through what that's felt like, how adjusting my hormone therapy may be playing a role, and how even small internal shifts can affect everything--from creativity to confidence to how we show up online.I also share how health anxiety, outside opinions, and the pressure to always be consistent can feel louder when you're not fully grounded in yourself. And something I've been thinking about more lately--how women are often taught to be agreeable, quiet, and "not too much"...and what happens when you start stepping outside of that. This isn't a how-to. It's not advice.Just an honest conversation about paying attention to your body, trusting your own patterns, and learning to come back to yourself when something feels off. Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailSexual confidence is empowering...until it isn't. In this episode, I explore why some women are applauded for their openness while others are reduced, judged, or dismissed for the same thing. Looking at examples like Alex Cooper and Dakota Johnson, I break down the role of status, perception, and "protection" in how female sexuality is received. This isn't about morality--it's about why the same behavior gets labeled so differently. Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard, I explore the strange dynamic of the attention economy online—where some forms of visibility are celebrated while others are condemned.  After seeing a viral post framing one woman as more “worthy” of attention than another, I started thinking about the deeper contradiction in how we talk about empowerment, objectification, and respect for women. Why do some expressions of visibility get applauded while others are shamed? And what role do audience reactions — especially from men and parents— play in shaping that narrative. This episode isn’t about attacking anyone. It’s about stepping back and asking a quieter question: are we being consistent in the standards we claim to care about? Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailWELCOME BACK! PART 2WHAT WOULD YOU ASK A SUCCESSFUL 50 YEAR OLD ONLY FANS CREATOR? 1. HOW DO YOU REACT WHEN SOMEONE RECOGNIZES YOU OUT IN PUBLIC BECAUSE OF "THOSE" VIDEOS?2. HOW DO YOU PLAN TO KEEP IT UP?3. WHEN DID THIS BECOME A SERIOUS THOUGHT?4. WHAT'S YOUR LEAST AND MOST FAVORITE THING ABOUT THE INDUSTRY? 5. HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH BURNOUT?6. WHAT'S YOUR BEST ADVICE FOR A BRAND NEW CREATOR?7. HOW DO I BREAK INTO SUCH A CROWDED MARKET AND STAND OUT TO DRIVE MORE TRAFFIC TO MY SITE?Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailANSWERING YOUR QUESTIONS --PART 11. Any regrets doing your content?2. Would you be offended if a follower said hello?3. What has been your biggest challenge?4. Who's more annoying to deal with--younger or older men?5. Did you start off with boundaries or limits or did they manifest because of your subs?6. Does a regular guy who isn't a creator have an actual chance at dating you?7. Who comes up with your ideas for content?8. Do you actually enjoy creating content or are you just giving the people what they want?9. Will you ever make content with anyone?10. Why did I leave Twitter?11. Do you really enjoy your work as a SW or it just the thousands that you make?12. How do you know what to post and how much time do you spend putting together content?13. What do you think was your hardest obstacle to overcome on your path to success?14. What are your favorite or least favorite types of content to engage in?15. Would you rather be happy and married at 50 than using your body on the internet?16. Have I been approached by the porn industry?17. Do you feel alienated from society?18. Why did it take 3/4 of the way through life to decide to make money....selling your hooohah.....?19. At what age did you start creating content and what inspired me to do so?20. How do I start?21. How can you tell if a person is being genuine and not just interested in you because of your content?Stay tuned for part 2 next Wednesday! Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailSome of the questions:Pros? Cons?Drawbacks and/or negative experiences?Worth it? Any regrets?How do you think your future self with feel about today's actions on OF?Any nudity?Any fetish that you were surprised existed?The video portion of the podcast will include photos of the LueMelit designs invented by Melissa (she_can_and_she_will_ on social media channels). She explains that her patented switch is in the UL stage and hopes to soon see them on shelves at Home Depot and other large retailers!Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailA large percentage of people believe that OF creators should not make as much money as they make. It's described as a talentless, no morals, no self-respect kind of occupation and as such should not be as lucrative as it is. I'd love to hear your thoughts and I'd talk to some male OF creators so if you know of one that would be willing, let me know! Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailSt. Louis teacher was put on leave after school district finds out about her Only Fans page. What is your opinion? Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailThe comment section can be wild! And the video you least expect is gonna go viral...trust me!But seriously... why do people want the older generation to conform to society's definition of a granny?Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailSupport the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailNext week....how to love me correctly!Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailSupport the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailAnswering more questions from IG...Tips on finding a unicorn if I know of any? Am I willing to have casual sex? Have I ever?Type of guy I'm interested in? Have a question? Ask!Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailWe're at episode 4 already!  What??!! I'm answering more questions again but also want to have a serious discussion circling back to the "why am I single" from last week. I talk about a post from a friend on IG that stated (long story short) women want the bad guy. It's important to open your mind to other people's perspective and ways to better understand them. This is especially important when you are in a relationship. Communication is key and I think that is a lost art. I'd love to hear from you, ladies and men, on why you think it's hard for a good man to find a good woman and vice versa!See y'all next week! Don't forget to subscribe on YouTube and watch the video portion;)Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailAnswering your questions ...part #1.  Are you interested in dating?2. Advice to young relationships3.  Beach house or cabin in the mountains for a week vacation4. What's your greatest accomplishment?5.  Will you do any boy girl content preferably interracial on your only fans?6. Views on work/life balance?7. Have you ever dated a black man? If so, for how long?8. Why are you single?** What's your perspective on the news pushing LGBTQ down your throat??**Have a question? Just ask!Follow me on social media platforms. Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan MailAnswering your questions from IG is always fun! Here are the questions that I chose to answer..What's my biggest pet peeve? What's my favorite sensual pleasure? What did I do before becoming an accountant?What are my music tastes?What am I wearing to a party to make sure all eyes are on me?How do I satisfy myself without a man?Learned from past relationships?What does Pixxarmom mean and how did I come up with it?What is the perfect date?Do I have a man/fwb?Have a question? Ask me!Support the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan Mail--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pixxarmom/messageSupport the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth

Send us Fan Mail• New episodes every Wednesday • Answering your burning questions • Insights from an over 40 female content creator & spicy accountant --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pixxarmom/messageSupport the showThanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard.These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle.If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world.And remember, visibility isn’t the same thing as worth