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We Just Out Here
by Nikki Byrom and Jocelyn Hyman
Real friends Nikki and Jocelyn discuss life, spirituality, and whatever else.
Episodes
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We Just Out Here Talking About Mother's Day
Since we didn't tackle an episode on Mother's Day, we decided to come through this week and talk about Mother's Day. Specifically, the relationships between mothers and daughters, the ones that aren't always social media worthy. The ones that take a little more work. Or not. The ones that don't...
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We Just Out Here Being Black Women Part Two
TRIGGER WARNING: Menstruation, Surgery, Death, Abuse. This week's episode had both of us breathing through and revealing truths. We're talking about being in community, with each other and with our bodies. How it is we build and maintain a village, what stops us, how Spirit will often run...
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We Just Out Here Being Black Women Part One
This week's episode is dedicated to Ma'Khia Bryant, Kira Johnson, Latasha Harlins, and all the other Black Women and girls who died just being Black women and girls. We're back from our hiatus and really just need to get some stuff off our chests. If you would like to join this discussion, come...
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We Just Out Here Being Heathens Part 1
In this week's episode, Nikki B. & J. Hy. talk about religion and spirituality. Of course we talk about our experiences with the church, patriarchy, and church folks. But this is part one, so there's definitely more coming. Don't forget to subscribe and share.
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We Just Out Here Bussin It On These Haters
No intro this week, we got straight to it. Inspired by the backlash Chloe Bailey received for doing the Bussit Challenge, Nikki B. and J. Hy. talk about haters, specifically, Black women tearing each other down. Where does it come from? What does it look like? Why is it so bad? Now, this isn't an...
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We Just Out Here Treating Us Right
This week's episode kind of piggy backs off of the negative self talk episode. Nikki B. and J. Hy. talk about why and how self-abuse rears its ugly head. We also look at the red flags that pop up when you don't do right by you, and how to fix things so you and your star player can get it right.
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We Just Out Here Talking To Ourselves
Not like that, but yeah, like that. This week your two favorite homegirls are talking Negative self talk. It's a spicy episode full of breakthroughs and the real talk you've come to love. We would say listen with your daughters, but...language. So listen and share what you learn with those you...
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We Just Out Here Letting It Go
Whew. In this episode, Nikki B. and J. Hy talk about letting it go. Whatever the it is in your experience. A bad relationship, a friendship, a habit. If it's no longer bringing you good energy, let it go. If you haven't listened to the Enough is Enough episode, this is the part two. The thing…
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We Just Out Here Being Patient
First episode of 2021 and we're talking about patience. How do you cultivate it? Why is it necessary? What makes us impatient? As usual, the laughs are abundant, the candor is unabashed, and your girls Nikki B. and J. Hy give you the real from their everyday. Follow us on social media and don't...
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We Just Out Here Pregaming for 2021
It's the last episode of 2020. In this episode Nikki B. and J. Hy. talk about getting ready for the year ahead. What's holding you back? What are you excited about? What lessons did 2020 teach you that you'll be carrying into 2021? Don't forget to follow us on social media and listen wherever you...
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We Just Out Here Having Enough
Truth is, we tired. Of doing things we don't want to do and dealing with people we should've left alone a long time ago. This week, Nikki and Jocelyn discuss when enough is enough. How to tell when you've had enough, what to do, what motivates you in your relationships and life in general, all of...
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Solve for P
We talk about what it means to solve for P, where P= Purpose. What is our purpose? How do we know when we've found it? What do we do when we know we aren't fully living it? How to find it, how to follow it, how to encourage our kids to seek it.
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The Flipside of Friendship
In our first episode, we discussed friendship. It's still one of our most popular episodes. This is the part two of that discussion... the flipside. What if it ain't all good with you and your people? Do y'all need to take a time out or is it lights out and game over ? Nikki and Joc have, as…
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Small Businesses, Not Small Minds
In this week's episode, Nikki and J. Hy put on their small business owner hats and discuss the ins and outs of dealing with people. This episode was inspired by the low ball. If you're a small business owner or know someone who is, this episode is the vent session you need. Make sure to like and...
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Deez Heauxs go Home for the Holidays... or not
This episode is for those people who have to deal with toxic family members during the holidays. That auntie, those cousins, that grandma, them people. And we get it. Even in a pandemic, they still wanna get together. What do you do? You've done the affirmations, lit the candles, wrote in your...
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The Self Care Episode
In the Season 2 opener, we pick up where we left off, talking shit and snitchin on each other. We discuss the election, coping with the pandemic, and taking care of ourselves. Follow us on IG and Facebook, @we_just_out_here2
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We Just Out Here Wrapping It Up
Now before you send us hate mail, we're wrapping up season one. This is our "No Cap Recap". We talk about the show, how it's changed us, what we've learned in our first season, trauma we've had to move through because of our conversations. There's a lot of laughs, some very candid moments and…
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We Just Out Here Trusting the Process
This episode is kinda random. We talk about trusting the process, the election, the impact of COVID and the pandemic on our spiritual lives, and a whole bunch of other topics. This week, we just let the conversation flow like we always do. Gems were dropped, points were made. Check it out. And...
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We Just Out Here Enduring... or Not?
This week's episode was inspired by a lot of things. We of course want to send our love to the loved ones of Chadwick Boseman (light for his journey) and hold space for them. We also discuss what it means to endure and why endurance, as we're taught, isn't really all it's cracked up to be. Come...
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Tablet part 2
In the middle of recording this episode, Nikki gets an unexpected surprise that changes the course of the conversation in good ways. We discuss childhood trauma, how time has to mean change, holding on to other people's bags, and why Honey Pot ain't witch craft. Check it out.
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What's on YOUR tablet? Part one
In this week's episode, we discuss the tabula rasa. What's on ours, how it got there, and what to do about it. We talk about going to college (and why we maybe should've waited), being okay with doing things in our own time, and what it really means to think about where our personality traits and...
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We Just Out Here Living Our Truth
This episode contains conversations about sex, and sexual/gender identity. We're telling you this just in case you haven't had conversations with your children yet about those subjects, and they happen to listen to the podcast with you. This week we're talking about living your truth, our new...
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Hey, Jealousy! Bye, Jealousy!
In this episode we talk about jealousy, haters, minding your own business, what to do when the ones closest to you turn out to be frenemies, and everything in between. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram @we_just_out_here2 for a chance to win this week's giveaway!
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We Just Out Here Growing
This week's episode is probably the realest one yet! This week we talk about growth, what it is, how to know it's happening, why it's important. We also talk about the giveaway and some new things we're adding to our Facebook group. Make sure you follow us on Facebook and Instagram...
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The Star Player Episode
This week, we're talking about our Star Players. How we found out about them, who they are, how to get and stay in tune with them, and why it's important. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @we_just_out_here2 for a chance to enter and win next week's giveaway!
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Boundaries: Set 'em And Don't Forget 'em
In this episode we talk about what boundaries are, how to set them, how to deal with ain't shit people (including family), and how to maintain your peace when people try you.
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We Just Out Here Being Accountable
This week, we're talking about what it means to be accountable, why it's often hard to do, why you should want it, and who not to let try your life. Got questions? Email us at [email protected]. Follow us on Instagram @we_just_out_here2.
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We Just Out Here Talking about Mental Health
In this episode, we talk about Black women and mental health. Our own struggles, triumphs, lessons we had to learn on our own, and tips and resources for anybody listening who needs some support. If you want to know more about the resources we mentioned, please don't hesitate to email us at...
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We Just Out Here Being Friends
In our first episode, we talk about Black women and friendship, our own friendship, and how the narratives about Black Women work to distract us from loving each other.
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