We Talk Back

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap Labor Day, from AJ buying a new bike to conversations about drinking, accountability, and why splitting the bill doesn’t qualify as a date. During “SINS,” they react to backlash over DaBaby’s Charlotte restaurant and its viral menu prices, sparking a debate about Black-owned businesses, food quality, customer expectations, and price gouging. They also discuss a viral video of a mother calling police after being attacked by her son, weighing safety and mental health against sharing family crises online, before unpacking a cruise scam involving $1,100, a canceled reservation, and a very public confrontation. After the break, Selling Tampa star Juawana Colbert joins AJ and TamBam to reveal what happens when reality TV meets real life. She opens up about production manipulation, restrictive contracts, and how appearing on television impacted her personal life and business, while sharing lessons from transitioning beyond the show. Juawana also discusses her continued work in real estate and entrepreneurship, including The Sip Room and Pilates and Pretty Vibes Charlotte, and how she’s building her next chapter beyond reality TV.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after low-key weekends before debating rising grocery prices, the cost of eating out, a wild DoorDash accident story, and AJ’s experience volunteering through the Be My Eyes app. During “SINS,” they dive into a shocking Canadian sperm donor case involving a father and son who allegedly fathered more than 600 children, raising concerns about donor regulation, genetic risks, and people turning to informal Facebook groups to find sperm donors. They also react to the conviction of Duane “Keefe D” Davis in the murder of Tupac Shakur after years of public statements surrounding the case, before unpacking viral scam stories involving a woman accused of faking her way into Duke’s physician assistant program and a man who allegedly impersonated a San Francisco 49ers player to scam 26 women out of $1.3 million. For the main conversation, “Till Debt Do Us Part,” AJ and TamBam tackle the uncomfortable realities of lending money to friends, family, and romantic partners. They debate proper repayment etiquette, whether paying someone back in installments is acceptable, how loans can complicate family relationships, and the warning signs that usually mean your money isn’t coming back. From setting financial boundaries to deciding whether some loans should simply be considered gifts, the hosts offer plenty of laughs and relatable lessons about money, relationships, and accountability—before sending one final message to everyone with an outstanding debt: if you owe somebody money, send it. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap a chaotic weekend, from AJ balancing nonstop work, family time, and a broken-pinky scare to Tam dealing with a home-improvement nightmare after installers allegedly drilled into a sprinkler line, flooding her home and leading to firefighters cutting into the wall to stop the damage. The hosts then turn to the latest viral conversations, discussing domestic abuse allegations involving social media relationship personality Yadon Yada and Aj'a, while emphasizing the importance of financial independence and recognizing unhealthy relationship dynamics. They also react to Texas tightening penalties around certain THC products and lighten the mood with a “men only” social media thread debating women’s fashion and beauty trends, including bonnets and oversized lashes. After the break, professional sports bettor Elizabeth Taylor Conley Marcel joins the show to break down sports betting for beginners, explaining everything from moneylines and point spreads to over/unders, prop bets, and understanding odds. She shares how research and strategy influence her picks, why disciplined bankroll management is essential, and how bettors can avoid making emotional decisions while remembering that sportsbooks are designed to maintain an advantage. Blending relationships, viral news, personal chaos, and practical sports betting education, this episode delivers another entertaining mix of humor, real-life conversation, and useful game.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a hilarious debate over South Carolina slang, arguing whether “bo” belongs to Charleston or Columbia before recapping their weekends and teasing the Patreon with details from AJ’s latest date. The conversation turns to Young Thug’s court-ordered school appearance, where the hosts react to reports that he told students “fame is the most important thing” and debate the potential impact of that message on young people. AJ and TamBam also unpack the complicated case of a surrogate who reportedly traveled to Texas to give birth after refusing to follow an abortion provision in her agreement when the baby was diagnosed with serious heart conditions, sparking a nuanced discussion about bodily autonomy, surrogacy contracts, parental expectations, and quality of life. After the break, the hosts lighten things up with “Smash or Pass: Lifestyle Edition,” putting modern dating, relationships, money, and everyday habits under the microscope. AJ and TamBam weigh in on dating someone with children, large age gaps, living together before marriage, long-distance relationships, separate bedrooms, joint bank accounts, splitting bills, quick engagements, prenups, lending partners money, and navigating major income differences. They also debate designer spending and financing, quitting a job while in a relationship, GLP-1 medications, Botox, long voice notes, bonnets in public, and plenty more. Funny, candid, and relatable, the episode explores which lifestyle differences are worth compromising on—and which ones are an automatic pass.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap an emotional and eventful weekend, from AJ attending Dolly Bishop Litticker’s wedding to Tam celebrating her best friend Janae’s birthday with a day on the water. The hosts then dive into “Stupid Internet News,” reacting to a viral conversation about male educators navigating puberty and appropriate boundaries with young girls while emphasizing that adults are responsible for protecting children and maintaining clear boundaries. They also discuss a disturbing case involving a police officer who pleaded guilty to sexually abusing handcuffed male detainees and debunk a bizarre TikTok myth surrounding menstruation and women’s health. The episode shifts into “Biohazard,” as AJ and TamBam take on modern dating, dating apps, and some of the wildest profile bios the internet has to offer. From demands involving sex, money, jealousy, control, vaccination status, and co-parenting to profiles that raise immediate safety concerns, the hosts debate the difference between refreshing honesty and undeniable red flags. Along the way, they unpack dating-app fatigue, relationship expectations, personal boundaries, and why meeting someone organically can feel more authentic than turning romance into a job interview. Funny, candid, and relatable, this episode explores the realities of dating in the digital age while reminding listeners that sometimes a bio tells you everything you need to know. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after an emotional weekend, with AJ reflecting on attending a friend's son's funeral before the conversation shifts to several of the week's biggest headlines. The hosts react to the arrest of reality TV personality Sidney Starr on multiple felony charges involving a minor, discussing the importance of protecting children while cautioning against broad assumptions about entire communities based on the alleged actions of an individual. They also weigh in on Ariana Grande stepping back from public scrutiny, conversations surrounding celebrity wellness and privacy, and broader discussions about the pressures of fame, public perception, and internet speculation. The conversation then turns to culture, economics, and power, sparked by reactions to Jim Jones' comments about dating and nightlife, before diving into the public debate surrounding Jay-Z's Target partnership. AJ and TamBam explore capitalism, consumer spending, Black economic empowerment, corporate influence, and the importance of building sustainable institutions within Black communities. They also examine wealth disparities, the effectiveness of boycotts, and why financial literacy, informed decision-making, and community support remain essential to creating long-term economic opportunities.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a recap of a relaxing weekend in Charlotte, including dinner at Dean's Steakhouse, before diving into several of the week's biggest headlines. The hosts react to the tragic death of TikTok creator Sarah Duffy in an alleged murder-suicide involving her estranged husband despite an active protective order, prompting AJ to share a deeply personal story connected to a former high school resource officer whose decades-old murder case recently came to a close. They also discuss a viral moment from an Usher concert after a fan appeared uncomfortable during an onstage interaction, along with social media personality ATL Tay's controversial claims from jail following a probation violation. The conversation shifts into a broader discussion about hip-hop, accountability, and the responsibility of artists versus parents, sparked by the backlash surrounding Yung Miami's latest release, "Spin That." AJ and TamBam examine whether music should be blamed for influencing behavior, debate the double standards women in hip-hop often face, and unpack conversations around "frequency," messaging, and personal responsibility. Blending current events, pop culture, and thoughtful commentary, the hosts challenge listeners to think critically about the media they consume while closing with a practical reminder to protect both their peace and their pockets: "Hold your money—don't spend it."  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekends, from AJ's unforgettable time at Jeezy's Black Tie Affair in Las Vegas—where she enjoyed performances from Mary J. Blige and reflected on the influence women have in relationships—to TamBam's birthday celebration in Washington, D.C., complete with a visit to the National Museum of African American History and Culture, a full day of self-care at the spa, and brunch with her sisters. The hosts also dive into this week's biggest headlines, including a class-action lawsuit alleging Workday's AI hiring technology discriminates based on race and age, growing concerns over airport facial recognition and biometric data collection, a viral catfishing story involving stolen photos, and a widow's shocking discovery after reading her late husband's emails. The conversation expands into discussions about cultural accountability, reacting to controversy surrounding an Argentina restaurant named "Big Nigga Burger" before exploring why so many people feel unfulfilled despite pursuing success. AJ and TamBam unpack the pressures of debt, subscription culture, inflation, and constant comparison in the social media era, while emphasizing the importance of gratitude, therapy, discipline, and protecting your peace.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast  @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up on an eventful weekend, from TamBam's hot yoga session and an overpriced brunch with her mom to AJ's unforgettable trip to New York for Jay-Z's concert. AJ shares the surreal experience of watching Beyoncé open the show, seeing Blue Ivy perform, enjoying exclusive backstage lounge access, and even being chased by an unexpected animal after the concert before missing the second night's performance due to massive crowds and locked entrances. The hosts also weigh in on Dame Dash's latest comments about Jay-Z, Boosie's reported attempt to recover money paid to lobbyists after a promised presidential pardon never materialized, and headlines surrounding Tommie Lee's legal issues after allegedly entering a FIFA match without a ticket. The conversation wraps with another entertaining edition of "Fashion Court," where AJ and TamBam debate style across generations, discussing confidence, body types, tailoring, trend culture, and the difference between wearing clothes versus letting clothes wear you. They also swap shopping recommendations, call out their biggest fashion pet peeves, and offer candid opinions on today's style trends. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast  @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap a relaxing Fourth of July weekend before diving into the latest viral headlines, internet debates, and cultural conversations shaping today's world. The hosts unpack a report claiming nearly one-third of American men are not working or actively seeking employment, sparking a broader discussion about dating, financial stability, modern hustle culture, and shifting relationship expectations. They also react to research on emotional intelligence and conflict resolution, debate Matthew Knowles' comments about his financial success before Destiny's Child, and explore everything from seasoning culture and healthy eating to the realities of America's food system. The conversation expands into the influence of social media and the internet on everyday behavior, examining viral trends like the crate challenge, "soft life," trad wives, Ozempic, and the rise of performative online culture. AJ and TamBam also discuss AI's growing impact on music, fashion, and digital storytelling, while questioning how much of what people consume online is authentic. From couples sharing passwords to the consequences of filming strangers for content, this episode blends humor, cultural commentary, and thoughtful discussion about technology, relationships, and navigating an increasingly online world with intention. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast  @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with an unfiltered conversation about the realities of women's health, venting over period struggles, the rising cost of menstrual products, and the ongoing debate over pads, cups, and other feminine hygiene options. With their signature humor, they question why essential products aren't more accessible before diving into a series of bizarre viral headlines, including an amateur sleuth who dated a convicted murderer to help solve a missing person's case, an 11-year-old who ordered an Uber to the airport with dreams of flying to Japan, and a retail theft suspect who allegedly exposed themselves through social media. The conversation shifts into another installment of the fan-favorite "Dumb B*tch Files," where AJ and TamBam react to jaw-dropping listener submissions involving relationship drama, workplace scandals, and unexpected betrayals. From a therapist with questionable boundaries and a workplace affair uncovered through company phone records to a business partner caught speaking behind someone's back and a woman navigating unexpected feelings for her best friend, AJ and TamBam offer their candid advice, hilarious commentary, and hard-earned perspectives on trust, accountability, friendships, and modern relationships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast  @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by filmmaker Big Stevo for a candid conversation about trust, loyalty, and the real-life experiences that inspired the Trust Nobody franchise. The trio explores the emotional impact of betrayal, the challenges of maintaining integrity in relationships and business, and how personal experiences shape the way people navigate trust. Big Stevo also shares insight into the realities of independent filmmaking, the sacrifices required to bring creative visions to life, and the importance of producing quality work in an increasingly competitive entertainment landscape. The discussion expands into modern relationships, friendship dynamics, and the difficult choices people make in pursuit of money, love, success, and validation. AJ, TamBam, and Big Stevo unpack how ego, finances, and social media influence behavior, while examining loyalty, accountability, and the true cost of betrayal. From debates about fame versus wealth to reflections on masculinity, gender roles, self-respect, and personal values, this episode delivers an honest and thought-provoking look at trust, character, and what it takes to stay true to yourself in a world that constantly tests your principles.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast  @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, personal stories, and social commentary as AJ recaps her recent trip to Costa Rica, including moments of relaxation, adventure, and a frightening near-drowning experience. The conversation then shifts into deeper discussions surrounding the Karmelo Anthony case, racial justice, and the influence of social media on public perception and accountability. The hosts also unpack recent business moves involving Jay-Z and Target, exploring the complexities of capitalism, consumer activism, and the challenges of creating meaningful change while navigating economic realities. The discussion expands into conspiracy theories, dating culture, friendships, and the evolving dynamics of modern relationships. AJ and TamBam debate the realities of online dating, the expectations people bring into relationships, and the impact of financial status and social media on how individuals present themselves to the world. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast  @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Originally aired March 26th, 2026 In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam turn weekend chaos into a meaningful conversation about relationships, household responsibilities, and emotional connection. Joined by comedian and author Jordan Carlos, they unpack themes from his book Chore Play, exploring how everyday tasks like cleaning, cooking, and shared responsibilities can strengthen intimacy and partnership. The discussion highlights how upbringing shapes expectations around domestic roles and why modern relationships require more balance, effort, and intentional communication. The conversation also dives into division of labor, emotional intelligence, and relationship dynamics, offering practical advice on recognizing signs of strain and improving connection. AJ, Tam Bam, and Jordan emphasize the power of small gestures, mutual respect, and understanding each partner’s background to build healthier, more supportive relationships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on birthdays, solo travel experiences, spiritual cleansing, and the lessons that come with personal growth. The conversation explores the realities of modern relationships, societal expectations, and the influence of social media on how people perceive success, dating, and self-worth. Through candid anecdotes and trending news stories, the hosts unpack the complexities of wealth, gender dynamics, and the pressures of navigating adulthood in an increasingly image-driven world. The discussion shifts into a lively debate over what behaviors qualify as “broke,” “bougie,” or “basic,” covering everything from dining etiquette and dating expectations to airport snacks, travel habits, priority boarding, and first-class flights. AJ and TamBam also examine friendship dynamics, luxury lifestyles, social media flex culture, and the motivations behind financial decisions people make for status or perception.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast  @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, culture, and relationship talk while recapping their weekend adventures, including a night out at a dessert bar and conversations around popular films and viral moments. The duo dives into the intersection of crime and law enforcement through humorous commentary, while also unpacking ongoing debates surrounding “gold diggers,” financial expectations, and modern dating standards. They discuss public conversations involving Floyd Mayweather Jr. and child support, using the topic to explore the broader realities of money, responsibility, and perception in relationships. The conversation expands into the evolving dynamics between men and women, focusing on ambition, attraction, communication, and societal expectations in modern partnerships. AJ and TamBam examine how financial success often shapes male identity, while many women seek emotional connection, support, and intentionality beyond money alone. From discussions around masculine and feminine energy to power, submission, and relationship balance, this episode offers an honest and entertaining perspective on navigating gender dynamics, emotional needs, and healthier communication in today’s dating culture.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into candid conversations about healing, relationships, identity, and the realities of personal growth in today’s world. Through humor and personal stories, the duo reflects on everything from weekend experiences and evolving friendships to the challenges of navigating societal expectations, parenting, and relationship dynamics. The discussion also touches on sensitive topics like fetishization, self-perception, and how change can impact the way people connect and communicate with one another. The conversation expands into love languages, toxic friendships, and the importance of setting boundaries while prioritizing self-respect and emotional well-being. AJ and Tam explore coping mechanisms, authenticity, and the growing influence of AI and digital culture on human interaction, while emphasizing the need to remain grounded in self-awareness and personal discipline. Blending honesty, humor, and real-life insight, this episode offers a relatable perspective on evolving relationships, protecting your peace, and becoming a healthier version of yourself.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on Mother’s Day and unpack the emotional layers surrounding motherhood, relationships, and modern dating expectations. Through personal stories and honest dialogue, they explore the pressures women face around love, family, and self-worth while discussing how societal standards shape perceptions of desirability and relationship value. The conversation also tackles trust, communication, and the impact of infidelity, offering candid insight into the realities of navigating relationships in today’s culture. The discussion expands into sexuality, burnout, and the everyday pressures of balancing work, personal life, and emotional well-being. AJ and TamBam examine how media influences ideas around sexuality and self-image while addressing the shared exhaustion many women experience as they juggle responsibilities and expectations. From aging and body image to self-care and emotional health, this episode delivers a relatable and thoughtful perspective on the challenges of maintaining balance, protecting peace, and showing up authentically through life’s evolving seasons.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their eventful weekend adventures, from filming a reality show to attending social gatherings, while diving into candid conversations about modern relationships, dating culture, and social media dynamics. The duo discusses everything from movie experiences and hot yoga to the unexpected role of air fryers in relationships, using everyday moments to unpack larger conversations around gender norms, sexuality, and personal expectations in dating. Their relatable storytelling offers an entertaining yet thoughtful perspective on navigating romance in today’s culture. The conversation deepens into the importance of boundaries, consent, and emotional awareness in intimate relationships. AJ and TamBam explore why people—particularly women—sometimes compromise their personal limits to please partners, while discussing the emotional consequences that can follow, including guilt, shame, and self-violation. Emphasizing communication, accountability, and mutual respect, the episode encourages listeners to better understand and protect their boundaries while fostering healthier, more intentional relationships rooted in trust and self-awareness.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack a weekend in Atlanta while diving into serious conversations around domestic violence, relationship dynamics, and cultural headlines. From reacting to a shocking incident at a Mercedes-Benz dealership to discussing the latest surrounding Megan Thee Stallion, the hosts blend real-time commentary with deeper reflections on safety, accountability, and emotional awareness. They also explore the idea of the “good man” in today’s dating landscape, referencing Russell Wilson as a point of debate while breaking down expectations, values, and partnership standards. The conversation expands into modern relationships, focusing on communication, honesty, and the personal growth required to attract and maintain healthy connections. AJ and TamBam discuss the balance between discipline and freedom, the importance of privacy in relationships, and how public exposure can impact personal lives. With candid insights and relatable perspectives, this episode offers a grounded take on navigating love, self-care, and evolving relationship standards in today’s culture. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam dive into a thought-provoking conversation on Black women’s empowerment, mental health, and the realities of navigating relationships in today’s culture. The duo unpacks the complexities of the justice system, the rise of therapy language in everyday conversations, and how terms like gaslighting and narcissism are often misunderstood or misused. They also explore the impact of social media on mental health awareness, highlighting how online narratives shape perception, accountability, and emotional expression. The conversation deepens into personal experiences with trauma, PTSD, and the emotional labor often expected in relationships, while addressing the importance of clear communication and self-awareness. AJ and Tam also touch on parenting, nutrition, and the responsibility of fostering healthier environments both at home and in partnerships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam blend humor with hard truths as they recap their weekends—from fasting challenges to a wild Cardi B concert—before diving into trending topics like taxes, prank call dangers, digital likeness rights, and celebrity divorce drama involving Kimora Lee and Russell Simmons. What starts as lighthearted conversation quickly shifts into deeper discussions about accountability, ownership, and the unexpected risks people face in today’s digital and real-world environments. The episode takes a serious turn as the hosts address the tragic case of Ashley Janay, using it as a catalyst to discuss women’s safety, situational awareness, and self-defense. AJ and Tam emphasize the importance of recognizing red flags, trusting your instincts, and being prepared for dangerous situations—especially for Black women navigating unique societal challenges.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam blend humor and real talk as they unpack trending topics and personal experiences, from weekend recaps to rising gas prices and headlines involving Offset. The conversation dives into street culture, music industry drama, and viral moments involving artists like Gucci Mane, Poo Shiesty, and Trick Daddy, while exploring how these situations reflect deeper conversations about balance, accountability, and priorities in everyday life. The discussion also shifts into self-care, aging, and redefining success, as AJ and Tam Bam reflect on the pressures of hustle culture, evolving friendships, and the realities of maintaining relationships while chasing career goals.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam mix humor with real-life commentary as they recap their weekends and react to trending headlines, including Angela Simmons’ controversial dating advice, viral internet moments, and unexpected tragedies that spark deeper conversations about accountability and awareness. The hosts also unpack airline drama, the realities of no-fly lists, and how everyday situations can quickly escalate—bringing their signature blend of humor, storytelling, and unfiltered perspective. The conversation shifts into bigger-picture topics like AI, cyber warfare, and emergency preparedness, exploring how technology and global instability are shaping the future. AJ and Tam discuss the importance of survival skills, community support, and staying ready in unpredictable situations—from natural disasters to worst-case scenarios. Balancing comedy with insight, the episode encourages listeners to think critically, stay informed, and prioritize resilience in an ever-changing world.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam turn weekend chaos into a meaningful conversation about relationships, household responsibilities, and emotional connection. Joined by comedian and author Jordan Carlos, they unpack themes from his book Chore Play, exploring how everyday tasks like cleaning, cooking, and shared responsibilities can strengthen intimacy and partnership. The discussion highlights how upbringing shapes expectations around domestic roles and why modern relationships require more balance, effort, and intentional communication. The conversation also dives into division of labor, emotional intelligence, and relationship dynamics, offering practical advice on recognizing signs of strain and improving connection. AJ, Tam Bam, and Jordan emphasize the power of small gestures, mutual respect, and understanding each partner’s background to build healthier, more supportive relationships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam blend humor, pop culture, and relationship talk as they recap weekend stories and trending headlines. The hosts react to reports of a home invasion attempt at Rihanna’s residence, discuss the controversy surrounding Dak Prescott’s canceled wedding over a prenup dispute, and revisit the music industry conversation around Adina Howard’s career challenges.  The discussion shifts into a candid debate about dating, marriage, and gender dynamics, exploring the emotional labor women often carry in relationships and the different ways men and women approach commitment. AJ and Tam Bam unpack topics like attraction, compatibility, settling in relationships, and the societal expectations placed on both genders—ultimately emphasizing the importance of communication, compromise, and self-awareness in building healthy partnerships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam sit down with filmmakers Laura Dyan Kezman and William Howell to discuss their powerful documentary Cycle, which investigates the tragic police killing of 18-year-old Tyrese West in Racine, Wisconsin. The conversation explores the challenges of turning real-life tragedy into impactful storytelling, the resistance the filmmakers faced while uncovering the truth, and the responsibility of presenting sensitive cases with journalistic integrity and accuracy. Kezman and Howell also reflect on the broader implications of police violence, media narratives, and systemic injustice, while sharing how the documentary aims to break the recurring cycle of outrage followed by public forgetfulness. Through personal insight and honest dialogue, the episode highlights the role of documentary filmmaking as activism—encouraging viewers to engage with the story, confront uncomfortable truths, and work toward meaningful awareness and change. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam re joined by returning special guest Jackie Woodyear and unpack a mix of pop culture and relationship dynamics, from their weekend recaps to the story of Juanita Jordan and the ongoing tension between 50 Cent and T.I. They break down how celebrity drama reflects deeper themes of loyalty, ego, and public perception. The conversation shifts to male-female friendships, exploring the realities of “work husbands” and “work wives,” blurred boundaries, and hidden intentions. AJ and Tam Bam challenge listeners to examine trust, emotional safety, and the difference between genuine friendship and ulterior motives—reminding everyone that clear communication and strong boundaries are essential in modern relationships.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam are joined by special guest Jackie Woodyear for a candid, eye-opening conversation about the reality of the American Dream, home ownership, and financial empowerment — especially for Black women and underserved communities. The trio breaks down today’s housing market, rising debt, credit challenges, and the real barriers many people face when trying to buy a home and build long-term stability. They also explore financial literacy, generational wealth, gentrification, and hustle culture, unpacking how systemic inequality and economic pressure shape modern life and decision-making. With practical tips for first-time homebuyers and honest talk about money habits and mindset, this episode delivers both game and perspective for anyone navigating real estate, credit, and wealth building in today’s economy.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam unpack the real meaning of love, relationships, and self-care as Valentine’s Day approaches. The hosts share personal stories and honest reflections on dating, romantic expectations, and the emotional pressure that social media can place on modern relationships. From Valentine’s Day gift culture to relationship standards, they challenge fairytale narratives and encourage more grounded, intentional connection. The conversation explores love languages, communication in relationships, self-love, and partner expectations, highlighting how couples can better understand each other without performance or pressure. With humor and transparency, AJ and Tam Bam remind listeners that healthy relationships require clarity, reciprocity, and emotional awareness — not just grand gestures for the timeline.  Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 Roses Are Red, Flags Are Too | Season 6 PremiereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this upbeat episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam reconnect after quiet weekends, turning everyday moments into laugh-out-loud commentary. From battling freezing temperatures to candid reflections on weight loss, wellness goals, and body changes, the hosts unpack the realities of trying to live healthier in real life—not just on social media. They also explore trending health topics like peptides, diet shifts, and lifestyle discipline, offering honest takes on what works, what doesn’t, and what’s simply hype. The conversation flows into hilarious and relatable discussions about dating standards, personal quirks, and the chaos of modern relationships, blending humor with real-life observations. The episode closes with a celebratory reflection on the podcast’s growth, marking five seasons of unfiltered conversations, friendship, and laughter.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and Tam Bam catch up on personal health updates and weekend highlights before diving into timely conversations around pop culture, celebrity relationships, and the latest moments from the Golden Globes. They break down Hollywood dynamics, public image, and how fame often complicates relationships behind the scenes.The discussion then shifts to financial literacy and emotional spending, with the hosts examining how money habits are often tied to self-worth, relationships, and personal healing.   Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam ease back in after the holidays with candid conversations about rest, reflection, and resetting for the new year. They touch on evolving health and wellness trends, shifting attitudes toward alcohol consumption, and an unexpectedly generous moment that sparks a broader discussion about kindness, reciprocity, and human connection.The episode also explores personal growth, navigating romantic relationships, and the importance of self-care, boundaries, and choosing joy in everyday life. With their signature humor, AJ and Tam share lighthearted “dumb b*tch story" from a listener—rooted in past missteps that offer lessons on self-awareness, confidence, and growth.   Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Originally aired October 16th, 2025 In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by the ladies of Good Moms, Bad Choices - Erica for a candid and entertaining conversation. They kick things off by recapping their low-key weekends and sand Milah haring hilarious stories from their time in New York and Miami. The discussion shifts to the realities of apartment hunting, highlighting the struggles of finding the perfect place to call home. The hosts then tackle trending internet news, including Cam Newton’s controversial remarks about women’s sexual histories, sparking a broader dialogue on judgment, respect, and double standards in modern dating. The episode wraps with their signature “Dumb Bitch Stories” segment, where everyone reflects on personal lessons learned from love, relationships, and self-growth—with honesty, humor, and sisterhood at the core.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @goodmoms_badchoices @watcherica @milah_mappSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam kick things off with weekend recaps, beauty tips, and candid reflections on navigating the hustle and pressure of the holiday season. The conversation deepens as they unpack the importance of accountability, intention, and manifestation, introducing the concept of “12 Days of Miracles” as a framework for personal growth and self-reflection. Moving through zodiac energy from Aries to Pisces, the hosts explore how astrology, discipline, and alignment can influence mindset and momentum. The episode wraps with a powerful discussion on surrendering control, honoring self-worth, and maintaining integrity while trusting the universe to meet you halfway on the path to your goals.  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ and Tam Bam recap highlights from a recent cruise while opening up about the real-life conversations that followed once the vacation ended. From the emotional realities of aging parents and family health concerns to the growing responsibilities that come with adulthood, the hosts reflect on how life shifts as priorities change. The discussion expands into modern relationship dynamics, with a sharp focus on financial boundaries, expectations, and independence. AJ and Tam Bam unpack topics like financial celibacy, navigating friendships with money disparities, being the so-called “broke bestie,” and how grief and healing play out publicly in the age of social media.  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam sit down with Dr. Kelly Elmore for a candid and educational discussion about perimenopause and menopause—two stages of women’s health that are often misunderstood and overlooked. Dr. Elmore breaks down the myths surrounding menopause, highlighting the benefits and risks of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and the crucial role of lifestyle choices in navigating this transition. They explore the impact of stress, nutrition, and intentional fitness on hormonal balance, as well as the importance of community support and open dialogue among women. Dr. Elmore shares her personal journey into medicine and emphasizes the need for proactive, holistic health care as women age. Together, they stress the importance of educating future generations about women’s health, empowering listeners to embrace menopause not as an ending, but as a powerful new phase of womanhood.  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back,  AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into a wide range of relatable topics—from weekend wins and personal milestones to cultural shifts around alcohol consumption and evolving body standards. They break down the influence of celebrity glow-ups, the rise of life coaches, and the emotional stability required to maintain healthy relationships. With humor and honesty, the hosts explore the dynamics of cuffing season, the importance of boundaries, and the role of self-awareness in dating. The conversation delves deeper into relationship expectations, examining emotional availability, communication, and the effort required to sustain meaningful connections. AJ and Tam discuss how to evaluate partners, identify toxic patterns, and date intentionally to understand personal preferences. They wrap with candid advice on how to exit unhealthy relationships gracefully, emphasizing self-worth, emotional safety, and choosing partners who contribute to real growth.  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the We Talk Back podcast, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam dive into a candid and entertaining conversation that spans personal stories, community recognition, and the realities women face around motherhood, relationships, and reproductive choices. They discuss the societal pressures surrounding abortion and motherhood, unpack the layers of friendship loyalty, and explore how celebrity relationships often mirror broader cultural issues. They also examine the impact of media narratives on women’s reputations, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness when navigating toxic relationships and life transitions. The episode wraps with a hilarious and revealing “Would You Rather” segment that showcases AJ and Tam Bam’s unique perspectives on personal growth, accountability, and the choices that shape our lives. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam serve up a lively and candid conversation centered around Thanksgiving gratitude, culinary responsibilities, and the pressure of holiday expectations. They explore the emotional weight of hosting, family dynamics, and the tradition-filled stress that comes with preparing the perfect holiday. The discussion evolves into a deep dive into Summer Walker’s recent relationship controversy, unpacking themes of self-worth, accountability, and emotional boundaries in modern dating. The hosts examine how societal expectations, especially for successful and financially independent women, impact romantic relationships and the perception of femininity. They also touch on Kandi Burruss’s rumored divorce, using it as a doorway to explore the impact of success, ego, and financial imbalance on partnerships. AJ and Tam highlight how ego—not success—destroys relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional security, support, and mutual celebration of wins. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holiday and TamBam explore the true characteristics of masculinity, breaking down what defines a “real man” in the context of modern relationships. They contrasts genuine confidence, emotional maturity, and self-awareness with the behavior of men who engage in negativity and performative opinions online. AJ emphasizes that while money may enhance a man’s appeal, true charisma and attraction come from inner confidence, presence, and authenticity. The conversation also delves into the influence of cultural figures like Kevin Samuels on men’s dating perspectives, self-image, views on relationships and the importance of emotional intelligence, accountability, and respectful communication in building healthy connections.  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back AJ & TamBam discuss the urgent need for support for communities in crisis, particularly in Jamaica. Also joining the episode is Michael Johnson, CEO of the Boys and Girls Club of Dane County, who shares his inspiring journey from adversity to leadership. The conversation covers the importance of community support, financial literacy, and the mindset needed for effective leadership. Michael emphasizes the role of empathy in leadership and the significance of building connections within the community. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to engage and support their local communities. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holliday and Tam Bam dive into an eclectic mix of topics—from their weekend escapades to the growing influence of blockchain technology and artificial intelligence in modern society. They unpack Gucci Mane and Keyshia Ka’oir’s recent interview, exploring the emotional depth and mental health challenges that often accompany celebrity relationships. The conversation also takes a reflective turn as they discuss Nicki Minaj’s controversial remarks, examining the power of public influence in today’s digital landscape. To close, the hosts share eerie and captivating ghost stories, blending historical accounts with personal experiences that explore the unseen energies shaping our world. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and Tam Bam dive into an honest and hilarious conversation about self-care, discipline, and the complexities of modern relationships. They share personal weekend stories, offer candid takes on hygiene and confidence, and critique the unrealistic standards of the modeling industry. The discussion expands into topics like emotional health, body image, and the ups and downs of dating in the digital age — including their experiences with dating apps. With humor and vulnerability, AJ and Tam highlight the importance of communication, self-worth, and self-awareness in relationships, closing with their signature “Dumb Bitch Stories,” where they reflect on love, growth, and lessons learned the hard way. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by the ladies of Good Moms, Bad Choices - Erica for a candid and entertaining conversation. They kick things off by recapping their low-key weekends and sand Milah haring hilarious stories from their time in New York and Miami. The discussion shifts to the realities of apartment hunting, highlighting the struggles of finding the perfect place to call home. The hosts then tackle trending internet news, including Cam Newton’s controversial remarks about women’s sexual histories, sparking a broader dialogue on judgment, respect, and double standards in modern dating. The episode wraps with their signature “Dumb Bitch Stories” segment, where everyone reflects on personal lessons learned from love, relationships, and self-growth—with honesty, humor, and sisterhood at the core.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @goodmoms_badchoices @watcherica @milah_mappSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam share their weekend highlights before diving into trending celebrity news, including Diddy’s sentencing and Porsha Williams’ new relationship. The conversation takes a candid turn as they explore the complexities of intimacy and sexual satisfaction, questioning whether women still fake orgasms in 2025. With humor and honesty, the hosts discuss the differences in sexual expectations between men and women, emphasizing the importance of communication, vulnerability, and mutual pleasure in healthy relationsh Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam reflect on their uneventful weekends, their shared love of scary movies, and the recent passing of Assata Shakur, a pivotal figure in Black history. They critique the controversy surrounding a poorly received Tina Turner statue and highlight Young Thug’s surprise community service concert. The conversation dives deep into personal fears—ranging from homelessness and illness to struggles with self-image and parenthood—while examining how authenticity and self-acceptance play critical roles in today’s social media-driven world. AJ and Tam also discuss the nuance of dating, the importance of financial independence, and the courage to ask for help. The episode ultimately encourages listeners to confront their fears head-on as a pathway to personal growth, stronger relationships, and emotional freedom.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam get candid about their personal dating experiences before diving into the buzz around Cardi B’s new album and its impact on the music industry. They also unpack the ongoing debates about freedom of speech, spotlighting the controversy surrounding David Anthony Burke. They also embracing the fall season, from wellness practices and seasonal rituals to cozy home décor ideas. The episode concludes with a guided meditation designed to welcome autumn with clarity and intention. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holiday and Tam Bam open up about personal grief and ongoing health challenges. The conversation explores the weight of political violence, systemic racism, and the pressures of Black excellence in today’s society. They also reflect on generational differences in work ethic, highlighting how cultural expectations around productivity often clash with the need for self-care and they also emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, prioritizing mental health, and redefining success on their own terms. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! This week, AJ and Tam Bam kick things off by sharing their weekend highlights, including AJ diving into a new reality series her friend is producing. In the S.I.N.S of the week, they break down the latest drama from The Real Housewives of Atlanta. Then, they take a nostalgic trip back to the ‘90s with a review of A Thin Line Between Love and Hate, unpacking the film’s portrayal of toxic relationships and the traits that fueled the chaos. Lets discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.