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Welcome to the Table

by Tom Weaver

We are providing hope and healing for folks struggling with sexual integrity, addiction, brokenness, betrayal or suffering from the ripple effects of the addiction. Thru our experience in this field we will providing valuable resources to those in need and a forum to ask questions and find solutions to help. Tom and Michele have walked this journey and here to help others walk out their journeys, turning what was intended for evil into something so powerful as the redemption and restoration of themselves and their relationships.

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Episodes

  1. The Importance of Empathy & Emotional Restitution after Betrayal

    Join Tom Weaver and guest Dan Drake, Founder of The Banyan Therapy Group, Co-Founder of Kintsugi Recovery and author as they discuss the importance of empathy, emotional intelligence and emotional maturity for couples as they walk through healing from sexual addiction and betrayal

  2. Honoring Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day

    Join us for the replay from Tuesday August 4th, for a special Live Stream in honor of Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day. We're bringing together some top name professionals, like Mark Denison, Eddie Capparucci, Matt Wenger and Matt Piciulo to name a few, who are dedicated to this important...

  3. Breaking the Stronghold: Finding Empathy in the Storm

    Finding Empathy, True Connection and the Pathway to Emotional Sobriety.Join Tom with Steve O'Connor from Catholics Fight Porn & Stronghold Freedom from Sarasota Florida as they discuss breaking the stronghold of sexual sin and helping the betrayed partners heal through true connection, empathy…

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  4. "The Rodney Coin"

    Join Tom and Rodney Wright of Pure Desire Ministries as Rodney discusses healthy sexual conversations about masturbation and is it right wrong, or what does that conversation look like. Rodney share his "masturbation coin" method that he uses with men in his groups! What a great conversation! For...

  5. Understanding the "Why" Behind Your Sexual Desire

    Join us as we have a candid discussion with Jay Stringer and his new book "Desire" | The Longings Inside Us & the Science of How We Love, Heal & Grow.Check Out Jay’s New Book! - https://jay-stringer.com/For more information email us at [email protected] or go...

  6. Long Term Healing & the Impact on the Family System

    Traci & Rodney Wright join us today talking about a healthy family system (HFS) and what that looks like over long term healing. An excellent conversation with 2 of our dearest friends being totally open and transparent about building relational healing and creates a Healthy Family System.

  7. Long Term Sexual Sobriety| Life Expectancy?

    Join Mark and I as we have an honest conversation about sobriety, what it is, what it isn't and the 6 most important things that keep it sustainable over Mark's years of sobriety.Questions go to www.tableministry.com or email [email protected] To reach Mark go to www.theresstillhope.org

  8. Betrayal, Your Sex Life & Menopause | The Perfect Storm

    Pull up a chair and listen as Michele talks with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck, a sex therapist, about how the devasting journey of betrayal trauma intersects with menopause and your sex life forming the "Perfect Storm" not many ever consider or know about. Dr. Crystal answers some extremely difficult...

  9. "Did He Ever Love Me?"

    Did he ever love me? It’s one of the most painful questions we face after betrayal. In our upcoming episode, Tom, Michele & Dr. Capparucci break down the difference between true love and infatuation, why “his best” wasn’t enough, and how unresolved emotional wounds quietly sabotage connection....

  10. From the Paper Shack to the Table: Finding Hope After Addiction and Betrayal

    Send us a text - This is a replay of a POD I did with Steve O'Connor from Catholics Fight Porn and wanted to share here as well. Enjoy the episode! In this episode, I sit down with Tom Weaver from Come to the Table Ministry to talk about the real struggles of sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and…

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  11. Do You Really Know??

    Tradition has a lot to teach us about how to connect our bodies and emotions to our theology in our relationship with God. Many men "know" they are loved by God but do not often, if ever, experience His love. Could be shame, family of origin issues or trauma and sexual addiction that can become...

  12. The Power of Truth - Honesty in the Healing Process after Betrayal

    Relational Honesty after Intimate Partner Betrayal - What does it look like? Is complete rigorous honesty necessary?Join Dan Drake, Founder & Clinical Director of Banyan Therapy Group, and I as we walk through the importance of honesty in the healing process after Partner Betrayal. We will…

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  13. AIR - Artificial Intimacy Relapse ™

    A view on what AIR - Artificial Intimacy Relapse™ is and how it just came into the light this week. These are my thoughts on a video that was released recently and the affect it has on recovery and the partner. And I didn't even touch on the neuroscience of it. This video has since been removed...

  14. The Real Truth about Polygraph's in Recovery

    Join Tom, Michele and Brad Hughes from Precision Polygraph's in Fairfax VA as they discuss the purpose of polygraph's during recovery from betrayal, how it rebuilds trust, the process of taking one & disputing some of the myths about them! Join us for a live conversation with Brad. Ask live...

  15. Preview of the 2025 Men's Retreat

    Come catch a preview of the 2025 Men Make Men Sexual Recovery Retreat with Tom and the speakers that will be there!

  16. Reintegrating Sex After Betrayal & Sex Addiction with The Raabsmith's

    Join Tom & Michele as they talk with Joanna & Matthew Raabsmith about the difficult topic about Sex and the difficulty or reintegrating sexual intimacy back into the relationship after the realization of betrayal, whether its porn, infidelity or a secret life now coming out of the darkness. When…

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  17. The Bridge to Intimacy Conference Follow-up Q&A with Dr. Steffens & Dr. Porter

    We heard you loud & clear! The "dynamic duo" of Dr. Jake Porter & Dr. Barb Steffens were an awesome team at the Conference. The Q&A session was so impactful & they both graciously gave some more of their time to come back and do this Livestream to answer more of your questions! Some from the...

  18. Reality of Sexual Sin & Partner Betrayal Trauma

    Two different realities that can share similar yet extremely different feelings. Similar but different, hope and healing - surviving and thriving towards restoration.

  19. His Realities.... Her Realities

    The realization of what happens upon the discovery of his secret life and the partner betrayal trauma and the reality of it

  20. The Damaging Effects of Partner Betrayal Trauma

    As we roll into the new year, coming off the "bye" week and re-evaluating our own recoveries, lets not forget or minimizing the impacts of sexual addiction on the spouse. The Partner is living thru their own "personal quake" and the tremors are felt over and over. Get healing from this…

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  21. The "BYE" Week - Evaluating Step 6

    Join Tom as he discusses the "bye" week and how to look at ways to "self scout" our own recovery. Maybe taking a walk thru your step 6 again, evaluating your defects of character, maybe some new ones that cropped up, maybe identifying the one that has been hindering your progress the most. Not...

  22. Reigniting in 2024 | Hope & Freedom from Sexual Sin in the Church

    Welcome to the Table. Have a seat sit back and lets talk about freedom from sexual sin and partner betrayal trauma. Its impact on the church, what our model at FBC may look like and future discussions and guests. We will have open Q&A live feeds starting in January and love to have folks chime in...

  23. The Journey to Healing After Betrayal | Returning to You - Part 1: A World's Creation - Dr Jake Porter (Princess Warrior Retreat 2023)

    Come to the Table Ministry hosted Pure Desire's Traci Wright and Dr. Jake Porter from Daring Ventures at its 3rd Annual Princess Warrior Retreat at Sandy Cove Resort in Northeast MD. What a healing weekend it was. Listen to Session 2 from Dr. Jake Porter on "The Journey to Healing After Betrayal…

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  24. Holding Her Heart with Dan Drake - "Lion Heart Breathing" | Episode 246

    Join us as Dan Drake returns for another Podcast. Dan will be discussing an exercise for Empathetic Attunement called "Lion Heart Breathing" that he uses in his therapy and specifically during the Disclosure Process. Please join us as Dan walks thru this exercise with us live. You won't want to...

  25. "Truth after Sexual Betrayal" with Dan Drake

    When, why, and how should I reveal sexual secrets to my wife? In this episode, disclosure expert Dan Drake will walk us through the process of full therapeutic disclosure from beginning to end. You'll learn how to restore truth in your relationship in a way that is healing rather than harmful.…

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  26. What's in a Name, Jedidiah - Robert Dorband | Episode 244

    Robert Dorband shares in Session 3 from the Men Make Men Retreat from Oct 2023. Robert is the author of "Beloved", former pastor, pilot and now fulltime Sex Addiction Therapist at 51to52 Counseling Center in Colorado Springs. Enjoy his final session in this series of healing from sexual…

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  27. "What's in a Name, Robert" - Robert Dorband | Episode 243

    Listen to Robert Dorband of 51to52 Counseling Center and Author of "Beloved" in Session 2 of the 2023 Men Make Men Retreat. This is week 2 of 3 replaying Robert's Sessions at the retreat! Enjoy!

  28. "What's in a Name, Bobby" - Robert Dorband | Episode 242

    Over the next three weeks we will be listening to 3 sessions of Robert Dorband at the 2023 Men Make Men Sexual Recovery Retreat! Who are we and what’s really in our name! Take a listen and love some feedback!

  29. "The Healing Church" | Episode 241

    What Churches get Wrong @ Porn. Join Tom today as he chats with Sam Black, Director of Recovery Education with Covenant Eyes. Sam discusses his new book "The Healing Church - What Churches Get Wrong @ Pornography AND How to Fix It". Sam will also be discussing a little about what is new at CE and...

  30. "Bridging the Gap" | Episode 240

    Bridging the Gap of relational recovery, that space in the first year walking thru recovery together. Come to the Table Ministry - tableministry.com https://linktr.ee/tableministry

  31. Welcome the "Turkey" | Episode 239

    Welcome BACK to the Table, just in time for some turkey and the Thanksgiving Holiday! After some much needed time off after the retreats we are back and will be bringing you more each week! Take a listen, get connected and share and follow! tableministry.com

  32. Partner Betrayal Retreat Recap | Episode 238

    Listen as the ladies share their experience from this years Princess Warrior Retreat from Come to the Table Ministry.

  33. Water Your Flower | Episode 237

    What does it look like to "water your flower" daily to keep it or HER feeling loved honored cherished heard and healthy? She depends on you to do that. Honor her in that way every day, starting today! Need help, go to Come to the Table Ministry (tableministry.com) and reach out to us! There is…

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  34. Princess Warrior's - A Special Invite

    Michele invites all you ladies to the 3rd Annual Princess Warrior Retreat on September 22nd - 24th. You won't want to miss it. Go to tableministry.com for more information.

  35. Aloe & a Maserati | Episode 235

    Rupture & Repair. We are Gods masterpiece and called to do good things.

  36. RAP it Up! | Episode 234

    Is your RAP solid?

  37. CPR of Recovery | Episode 233

    Guys, you are responsible for your recovery, not your wife. You must be willing to do it and not force her to be your "enforcer" and keep giving you "CPR Recovery". Man up and do it with a honest, committed and humble heart. Ladies let the men in his life be his support line, don't give him CPR…

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  38. The Mind Field | Episode 232

    Walking thru the mind field of recovery, a healthy recover. More than just a sober recovery! Don’t be the dry drunk!

  39. The Three Dailies | Episode 231

    Why it’s so imperative to build emotional maturity in the healing process of a marriage by doing the Three Dailies exercise and how to do them!

  40. Princess Warrior Retreat - Episode 230

    Ladies join other ladies walking similar journey's September 22nd - 24th for the 3rd Annual Princess Warrior Retreat at the Sandy Cove Resort in North East MD for an amazing weekend together!

  41. The Golf Ball | Episode 229

    Your mind is like the inside of a gold ball. So much to unwind!

  42. Falling Asleep at the Wheel! | Episode 228

    Don’t fall asleep at the wheel of recovery. It will take you down a long road of healing!

  43. Expiration Date? | Episode 227

    Does recovery have an expiration date?

  44. The Waterfall | Episode 226

    Welcome Back!! Today I discuss what a waterfall and disclsoure have in common and what is needed to "bridge" float or go by boat out of the dangers of the current of the "falls"!

  45. Episode 225 | The Shift

    Spread the word with your friends and join us as we transition into a new format snd go on a weekly basis as Michele and I share our journey thru betrayal and sex addiction and helpful insights and tips from our ministry and years of professional coaching experience navigate this journey! Contact...

  46. Same Thing.. | Episode 224

    Doing the same old same old?

  47. 1700 Lumens | Episode 223

    Shine bright today!

  48. Disclosure Support & Empathy Nuggets | Episode 222

    Guys help your spouse go thru disclosure and give it 100% of your effort by doing it right, with a professional and not staggering or making it a trauma filled confession. If you need help with a FTD call as at Come to the Table Ministry or look us up at tableministry.com

  49. Don’t Compare | Episode 221

    One foot in front of the other.

  50. Robert Dorband Invitation! | Episode 220

    Robert invites you to the Men Make Men Sexual Recovery Retreat at Camp Wabanna, Edgewater MD October 27-29. Robert, Author & Therapist, will be speaking. For more information go to tableministry.com or email [email protected] or purchase tickets at https://MenMakeMenRetreat2023.eventbrite.com

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

We are providing hope and healing for folks struggling with sexual integrity, addiction, brokenness, betrayal or suffering from the ripple effects of the addiction. Thru our experience in this field we will providing valuable resources to those in need and a forum to ask questions and find solutions to help. Tom and Michele have walked this journey and here to help others walk out their journeys, turning what was intended for evil into something so powerful as the redemption and restoration of themselves and their relationships.

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