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This episode is all about theory, listener! Carmen Maria Machado is an author, essayist, and finalist for the National Book Award with her impressive body of work around queer identity, but today she’s in the apartment to put her genius towards solving age-old queer conundrums! We discuss topping vs. bottoming as a lesbian, what that actually entails, how it manifests in practice, and the Renaissance Faire. Ashley and Jen accidentally ask a man for a threeway. Lizzy experiences cinematic heartbreak.  FOLLOW CARMEN MARIA MACHADO: Check out her books: https://linktr.ee/carmenmariamachado?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carmenmmachado/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@carmenmariamachado  Website: https://carmenmariamachado.com/image  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  FOLLOW JEN DAVIS @jenparkerdavis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis  FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/12QVX_B1-4c  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get affordable and personalized treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is lore heavy, listener! Brad Davis is a queer musician, tech artist, and my dear girlfriend’s little brother, but today he’s in the apartment to be my little BOTTOM! In addition, for the FIRST TIME… WHGS producer and man-behind-the-camera Alex Vrahas fills in as co-host. It’s a BOYS EP as we discuss romantic flings while abroad, anticipation in sex, coming out, being a very straight-passing gay, and what it’s like to be in the shadow of your super hot sister. Ashley recounts her first time meeting the Davis family. Alex got groped at Pride.     FOLLOW BRAD DAVIS: Listen to his music NOW: https://open.spotify.com/artist/2eLHhv4aVBI0ZVwiSGH6Q6  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcd_rom/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bcd_rom  Live shows: https://www.instagram.com/nfgxcollective/  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/ae8_eTpcgB4  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Head to https://Factormeals.com/gay50off and use code gay50off to get 50 percent off and free daily greens per box, with new subscription only, while supplies last until 09/27/202 HELIX: Go to https://helixsleep.com/gaysex for 27% OFF sitewide! Exclusive for listeners of the show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is the most inclusive, listener! NOAHFINNCE is a transgender pop-punk musician and YouTuber that’s been rocking the internet since 2015 with his incredible songs, but today he’s in the apartment to rock your BED! We discuss having a fivesome with every single person represented in “LGBTQ,” sexual dynamics when you have autism, horny fans, disabilities, and starting your career as a “My Chemical Romance” fan account. Ashley loves being the rebound. Artificial intelligence decides Lizzy is non-binary.  FOLLOW NOAHFINNCE: Listen to his music NOW: https://ffm.to/guotideluxe  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/noahfinnce  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenoahfinnce  Twitter: https://x.com/noahfinnadams  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/f-qjP8i_HvI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is depicting women correctly, listener! Halie Torris is an oil painter and visual artist whose incredibly detailed work you’ve seen go viral on TikTok/IG, but today she’s in the apartment to paint YOU like one of her French girls! We discuss the female gaze, how to define it, capturing it in your work, the artistic process in the modern attention economy, and having your gay little heart get broken over the vast and infinite sea —  It doesn’t get more gay than that. Ashley is combating the manosphere. Lizzy’s sex gets a little bit too wet. FOLLOW HALIE TORRIS: Buy her prints, art, and merch: https://bio.site/halietorris  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/halietorris/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@halietorris  Twitter: https://x.com/halietorris  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/e6Ct-Vx9yO0  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  HERS: Get affordable, personalized treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is philosophizing, listener! Chelsea Cutler is a singer, songwriter, producer, and one of your favorite queer musicians with over 3 billion global streams and worldwide tours, but today she’s in the apartment to take a tour through your BODY. In addition, we have the incredible comedian Emily Wilson filling in as co-host! We discuss queer identity, when one can claim that they’re gay, the power of music, and how queerness is, like, totally a dope space. Ashley found romance through Chelsea Cutler. Emily has a crush on Ashley. FOLLOW CHELSEA CUTLER: Listen to “Sorry I’m Obsessed With You” RIGHT NOW: https://chelseacutler.lnk.to/SORRY Videos and More: https://linktr.ee/chelseacutler  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chelseacutler/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chelseacutler  Twitter: https://x.com/chelseacutler  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW EMILY WILSON @therealemilywilson See her live in Austin, TX: https://www.therealemilywilson.com/  Watch her special, “FIXED,” now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9LL4lM3fbk  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therealemilywilson  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealemilywilson/  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/MoEMTkLqzKE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is going all in, listener! Andrea Allan is an unfathomably funny podcaster, comedian, and co-host of “Respectfully” alongside Lizzy Cassidy, but today she’s in the apartment to “respectfully” pipe you down! We discuss exploring your bisexuality in the Burning Man orgy tent, the dynamics of using a strap on, embracing the chaos of coming out, and getting diseases from butt-munching. Ashley needs sex therapy. Lizzy gets strapped down (poorly).   FOLLOW ANDREA ALLAN: Listen to “Respectfully” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/@respectfullypodcast  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreacomedy69/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@andreacomedy69  Weekly Stand-Up Show: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bitches-brew-free-comedy-stand-up-and-variety-show-tickets-172309360937   FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/fhaGOHz09J4  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FACTOR: Use code “gay50off” for 50% OFF and FREE daily greens at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is BI, listener! Franchesca Ramsey is an actor, comedian, writer, and producer known for her hyper-viral content and award-winning series “MTV Decoded”, but today she’s in the apartment to taste the sexual rainbow! We discuss bisexuality, polyamory, dating a man and a woman at the SAME time, coming out late in life, and encountering genital piercings so crazy that it stops sex. Ashley combats gay shame. Lizzy only dates long distance. FOLLOW FRANCHESCA RAMSEY: Listen to “Lemme Fix It!” NOW, on all platforms: https://www.youtube.com/@FixItpod  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chescaleigh/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@franchesca_leigh  Threads: https://www.threads.com/@chescaleigh  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/_Apr0VftjVw  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FEELD: Try Reflections by downloading the Feeld app or visiting https://feeld.co/reflections Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is POETIC, listener! Eileen Myles (they/them) is a celebrated poet, novelist, and journalist best known for “Chelsea Girls” and poems that queers everywhere tattoo onto their arms, but today they’re in the apartment to SEDUCE! We break format this episode to interview Eileen and learn about their career, history, and legendary love life. In-between, we discuss art, coming out, New York in the 70s, and how camp is the best place to have queer sex. Oh - and Ashley might even read one of her original poems… and BOY is it embarrassing. FOLLOW EILEEN MYLES Pre-order their upcoming book, “Bird Watching and Their First Three Books of Poetry”: https://fonografeditions.com/catalog/fono42-bird-watching-and-their-first-three-books-of-poetry-by-eileen-myles/  Read their other works: https://www.eileenmyles.com/books/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eileen.myles/  Twitter/X: https://x.com/EileenMyles  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/uaMwOiMNrto  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  HERS: Get personalized, affordable plans at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is DRY, listener! Sofie Hagen (Netflix, Fringe) is an award-winning Danish stand-up comedian, author, and podcaster that tours all around the world, but today they’re in the apartment for some SEX tourism because things have been dry! We discuss not having sex in 10+ years despite liking it, why that can be affected by the intersections of trauma, gender, and body image, and how you can absolutely positively FUMBLE the one opportunity to break said dry spell. Ashley gets called ugly. Lizzy prefers gay men. FOLLOW SOFIE HAGEN: See them live on her WORLD TOUR now! Get tickets at https://www.sofiehagen.com/ Listen to “Sofieland” NOW on all platforms: https://www.sofiehagen.com/sofieland  Check out her books: https://www.sofiehagen.com/books  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sofiehagendk/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sofie.hagen  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/WbjU37TrBOo  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is historic, listener! Jenny Zigrino (Conan, JFL, Don’t Tell) is a hilarious stand up comedian, writer, and performer that breaks boundaries, but today she’s in the apartment to thrust DEEP… into history. We discuss queer history in Colonial America, attraction to masculinity regardless of gender, drag, burlesque, and how bisexuals are pretty dang cool. Ashley has sex on a timer. Lizzy queens out with a taxi driver. FOLLOW JENNY ZIGRINO: Get tix to her show in Denver, 3/12: https://www.jennyzigrino.com/live  Watch her special, “Jen-Z,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PY9_iOjf2qk  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennyzigrino/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jennyzigrinocomedy  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/vU5DenTdDoE  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FEELD: Try reflections now at https://feeld.co/reflections  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you have the funds, Donate to Kylie’s GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kylie-kick-brain-lesion-ass  (TW \\ SA; skip 42:44 - 49:33 to avoid) This episode is SICK, listener! Kylie Vincent is a stand up comedian, writer, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she’s phoning into the apartment fresh out of the hospital. Kylie got a freaking BRAIN LESION, so we take some time to check in on how she’s doing alongside Ashley’s girlfriend, Jen Davis. We discuss her trials and tribulations in the hospital, the American healthcare system, disabilities, Multiple Sclerosis, and how in spite of it all — Kylie’s STILL banging baddies. Ashley is grateful for Jen. Jen is poisoning her face with makeup. FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENTGoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kylie-kick-brain-lesion-ass  Show & Tour Dates: https://beacons.ai/kylievincent  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/discover/kylie-vincent  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW JEN DAVIS @jenparkerdavis TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/VAc3EXEMLxQ  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Get 50% OFF your 1st box + free breakfast with code “gay50off” at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off  HERS: Visit https://www.forhers.com/gay to get personalized, affordable treatment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is a POWER BOTTOM, listener! Chrissy Chlapecka is an enchanting musician, content creator, and activist that’s about to kick off a nation-wide tour, but today she’s returning to the apartment for some verse activity as an out-and-proud LESBIAN! We discuss topping as a high-femme lesbian, methods to approach that with your butch GF, overcoming comphet, and the best queer scenes across the US. Ashley power bottoms for the first time. Lizzy gets spat on.  FOLLOW CHRISSY CHLAPECKA: She’s on tour! Get tickets in your city at: https://www.chrissychlapecka.com/shows-1  Listen to her new album: https://open.spotify.com/album/1fmhvHU2zF9Zcq4yibQMkh  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrissychlapecka/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chrissychlapecka  Twitter: https://x.com/chrissychlapp  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/XqsCVp46XMI  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is HORRIFIC, listener! Roz Hernandez is a mind-blowing stand up comedian, podcaster, actor, and paranormal export that has been sending people to the afterlife with laughter, but today she’s in the apartment to investigate the most GHASTLY ick she has ever encountered on a date! We discuss purposely being given the ick by people you’re trying to date, only dating queer people, identity, labels, and cruises. People try to make Ashley trans. Lizzy hooks up with a semi-famous celebrity. FOLLOW ROZ HERNANDEZ: Watch “Roz Hernandez: The Haunted Doll”: https://www.youtube.com/@rozhernandezthehaunteddoll  Listen to “Ghosted”: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjln_dcebJgWyojV_PuPlDWHsqFaBfBW9  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rozhernandez/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrozhernandez  Twitter: https://x.com/itsrozhernandez  Tour Dates & Mailing List: https://linktr.ee/rozhernandez FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/zJBxz4p_Siw  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Go watch Kate’s NEW stand up special RIGHT NOW: http://Of.tv/lmaof130 or https://bio.site/KateSisk. Kate Sisk is a beloved comedian, writer, and the former co-host / “cancel coach” of WHGS! But today, he’s BACK in the apartment to make a movie…and it’s RATED X! We discuss watching queer adult content, bizarre videos, seeing your friends in said videos, & suckin’ self. Oh yeah, and the set may or may not completely fall apart. Ashley got too high. Lizzy’s queer vices get exposed.  FOLLOW KATE SISK: Tour Dates & Mailing List: https://bio.site/KateSisk  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekatesisk  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/2UtbvrHDwYQ  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  HERS: Get a personalized & affordable health plan at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode has been years in the making, listener! It’s a DUO episode today as we are joined by Alayna Joy, an incredible queer therapist, content creator, and co-host on Ashley’s other podcast, Chosen Family. However today she’s coming into the WHGS apartment, because Ashley banged her doppelganger?! In-between the details of this epic story, we discuss getting married after coming out 6 years ago, compulsory heterosexuality, discovering bisexuality on YouTube, and melatonin. Enjoy! FOLLOW ALAYNA JOY: Listen to their podcast, Sleeping Around: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sleeping-around/id1766365018 alayna Subscribe to their Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/AlaynaJoy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missfenderr/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@missfenderr  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrzizGkW-Dgv9sN9vVHAN4Q  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/qfP0u9uXbNg  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Use code “gay50off” to get 50% OFF + FREE Breakfast at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off  DOWNLOAD HER! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is trying new things, listener! Sarah Keyworth (they/them) is an award-winning stand up comedian & podcaster that’s been taking the UK by storm, but today they're in the apartment from across the pond to teach us naughty students a lesson! We discuss your friends taking dominatrix lessons in their 30s, coping with bad times, biking, gaming, and how 3D printing is a massive turn off. Ashley beefs with a homophobic troll while gaming. Bre can’t pee.  FOLLOW SARAH KEYWORTH: See them live: https://www.sarahkeyworth.co.uk/  Listen to their gaming podcast, “Button Boys:” https://linktr.ee/buttonboys  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarah_keyworth/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahkeyworthcomedian  FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/sarahkeyworthcomedian/  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson Twitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamson Live Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/h_Vh9V5gUiQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is running experiments, listener! Carson Olshansky (they/them) is a fantastic stand-up comedian, writer, and creator that you’ve seen blowing up your social media feeds, but today they’re in the apartment to fingerblast you so accurately you’ll scream “Eureka!” We discuss a/b testing the best finger for bangin’, finding sexual compatibility, dating mascs with a complicated identity, and having LEGITIMATE trauma from Jimmy Buffet’s “Margaritaville.” Ashley gets boob-honked HARD. Lizzy’s anniversary is nearly ruined.  FOLLOW CARSON OLSHANSKY: Join their Substack, “Review Mode”: ⁠https://reviewmode.substack.com/⁠   Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/carsonolshansky/⁠  TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@carsonolshansky⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://x.com/carsonolshansky⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@carson-olshansky⁠  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/ashgavs⁠ Tour Dates & Newsletter: ⁠https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates⁠ FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://x.com/lizzaster⁠  Tour Dates & Podcasts: ⁠https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy⁠  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/⁠   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/WHGS⁠ Merch: ⁠https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin⁠ Watch on this YouTube: ⁠https://youtu.be/wqBVoq6kSD4⁠  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at ⁠https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is breaking new ground, listener! Vico Ortiz (HBO Max, Adventure Time) is an enchanting Puerto Rican drag king, actor, and activist that is pushing boundaries in the media, but today they’re in the apartment to pop our drag king cherry! In addition, all of our usual co-hosts are tied up, away, or sick, so Ashley’s girlfriend Jen Davis fills in as our temporary co-host! We discuss polyamory, relationship anarchy, decolonizing your life, tricking straights into reading queer smut, and being in a queer relationship with Mother Gaia. Ashley gets hit on by a man. Jen ruins a straight girl.   FOLLOW VICO ORTIZ: Join their Substack: https://ortizv.substack.com/  See their performances: https://www.youtube.com/@Vico_Patreon_BoriQueerProd  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/puertoricaninja/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vico_ortiz  Twitter: https://x.com/V_Vico_Ortiz  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW JEN DAVIS @jenparkerdavis TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/susjd2EGOow  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is saying all the wrong things, listener! Yvette Segan is a fan-favorite stand up comedian, actor, writer, and podcaster with over 400k followers across all platforms from her hilarious videos. However, today she RETURNS to the apartment because she’s finally in a queer relationship — she's dating a bisexual man! We discuss queerness in straight-passing relationships, being so in love that you’re writing poetry (gay), dating vs. self worth, and making dated assumptions about queers that we will NOT edit out of the pod. Ashley and Jen’s parents finally meet for the first time. Lizzy spreads vicious gay rumors about her uncle. FOLLOW YVETTE SEGAN: Listen to her podcast, "Friend Crush,” right now:  - https://www.youtube.com/@FriendCrushPodcast  - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/friend-crush-with-yvette/id1819272413  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yevit  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yvettesegan/  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/YMKhxspHxuE  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Get 50% OFF your 1st box + FREE breakfast for one year with code “gay50off” at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Happy Holidays, Bottoms! To celebrate everything you have done for us, enjoy this special highlight reel of some of the best moments from our Patreon bonus series, “You’re Having Gay Sex,” where we read and react to stories submitted by you! In addition, Ashley gives an extra long holiday message, answering some of your gayest questions about the holidays. Gather round your chosen family and get ready for some of YOUR most hilarious moments! Want even more bonus? SUPPORT THE PODCAST: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/k2lrdRBczOM  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincenthasrisen  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189  Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/  FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is risking it all, listener! Brandon Rogers is a massive queer actor, content creator, and comedian that’s had you laughing on everything, from YouTube sketches to shows like “Helluva Boss.” However, today he’s in the apartment to have you GASPING from the situations he has put himself in! We discuss your first time having gay sex getting interrupted by your partner’s family walking in, acting, representation, the depth & beauty of queer characters, and interior design. Ashley almost gets arrested. Lizzy lives in the queer underground. FOLLOW BRANDON ROGERS: Watch his content on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BrandonRogers  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brandonrogers  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonbored/  Twitter/X: https://x.com/hotbananastud  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/k2lrdRBczOM  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: MINT MOBILE: Shop Mint Unlimited Plans at https://www.mintmobile.com/gay  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is flirty, listener! Catherine McCafferty is an enchanting actor, stand-up, podcaster, and host of the hit internet series “Pretty Gay,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to make Ashley malfunction! In addition, beloved co-host Breanne Williamson joins us from the great North! We discuss crying because of a bad hookup, your friends stealing your bed, sexting, how to flirt with gorgeous gay women, and wanting nothing more than to be so good in bed that you ruin lives. Ashley tries sexting her GF. Breanne gets “whiskey strap.”  FOLLOW CATHERINE MCCAFFERTY: Subscribe to her show, “Pretty Gay”: https://www.patreon.com/PrettyGay Watch the clips: https://www.youtube.com/@PrettyGayShow  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@catherine_mccaff  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catherine_mccaff/  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson Twitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamson Live Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/MsGkYyzqBSI  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is taking its time, listener! Freddie Shanel (they/them) is an absolutely hilarious up-and-coming comedian whose work you’ve seen on your TikTok feed or Reductress, but today they’re in the apartment to work on shedding their long-time gay virginity! We discuss being a late bloomer in queer sex, how awkward your first time can be, the appropriate grammatical usage of neo-pronouns, and how Freddie’s girlfriend has been a WHGS fan since DAY ONE! Ashley bangs a pure lesbian. Lizzy doesn’t come out to her family. FOLLOW FREDDIE SHANEL Tour Dates: https://www.freddieshanel.com/standup  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freddieshanel  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freddie.shanel1/  Twitter: https://x.com/freddie_shanel  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/o9r0i_LLpgk  PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/  ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  HELLO FRESH: Get 10 FREE meals + FREE breakfast for LIFE at https://www.hellofresh.com/gay10fm  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is a MILESTONE, listener! To celebrate the 300th episode of WHGS, we are joined by beloved co-host and dear friend Ali Kolbert to bring things full circle: this podcast started alongside Ashley’s relationship with Jen, so it’s only right that we have another life milestone alongside an episode milestone! We strategize how Ashley should propose to her girlfriend, and even manage to fit in discussions about relationship mementos, intimacy kink, shadow work, boob reductions, and the powerful will-they-won’t-they of lesbian relationships. Enjoy, and thanks for all of your support through 300 EPISODES OF WHGS!!! FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/YiGHfBcsyaM PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is in Simlish, listener! Chloe Moriondo is an incredible singer-songwriter with over 1M monthly listeners, collabs with queer legends, and even music in THE SIMS, but today she’s in the apartment to play her music in your boomBOX (if you catch my drift). In addition, Kylie Vincent is joining us on a quick trip back from LA! We discuss song-writing, making music for The Sims, the internet, coming out as queer when young, and playing with ALL the pronouns in your gender presentation. Ashley fights to stay in the closet. Kylie hypes herself up with queer pop.  FOLLOW CHLOE MORIONDO: Pre-Save her upcoming deluxe album: https://open.spotify.com/prerelease/2DZbIBMjir1dZbkelGGSUg  Attend her album release party: https://www.ticketweb.com/event/chloe-moriondo-dj-set-night-club-101-tickets/14678143  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chloemoriondo/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chloemoriondo54  Twitter: https://x.com/kidzwithbugz  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincenthasrisen  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189  Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/qsjR8MHIlQg  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: MINT MOBILE: Get premium wireless for $15/month at https://www.mintmobile.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is queer history, listener! Gabe Dunn is an iconic writer, podcaster, and filmmaker that has pioneered queer content since the days of Buzzfeed Video, but today he’s in the apartment to break down the most iconic lesbian hookup in internet history! We discuss Gabe’s fabled hookup with Stevie Boebi and Anna Akana many years ago, activism in the modern age, how to fight back against an administration hostile to queer people, and the various problems within the queer community that are holding us back. Ashley dates an actor. Bre is a voyeur in hotels.  FOLLOW GABE: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabesdunn/  Follow his incredible Substack: https://athousandnaturalshocks.substack.com/  Listen to “A Thousand Natural Shocks” wherever you listen: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-thousand-natural-shocks-with-gabe-s-dunn/id1144712710  https://www.youtube.com/@gabesdunn/videos  Listen to “Just Between Us” wherever you listen: https://www.youtube.com/@JustBetweenUs  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/just-between-us/id1707127144  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson Twitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamson Live Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/rVC_8aYY3C0  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  BBOUTIQUE: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE Rose suction toy with their order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/werehavinggaysex-podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is non-binary, listener! Dan Docimo (they/them) is an incredible up-and-coming comedian that opens for some of the biggest comedy acts in the world, but today they’re in the apartment to open some LEGS! We discuss being non-binary in a very straight field, staying sane in a gendered world, dating not going well, and not putting in much effort at all to change all that, anyways. Ashley is a pincher. Lizzy goes butch on her toilet.   Follow Dan on IG, Twitter/X, & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/dandocimo/  https://www.tiktok.com/@dandocimo  https://x.com/DanDocimo  And see them live this Friday, 11/14, for New York Comedy Fest:  https://checkout.square.site/merchant/MLBV7Q7F9NG4G/checkout/G3XH3HZJ5ZEAMJHZSNGFTC74  https://punchup.live/dandocimo  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/4fM7EuMqmwg  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  BBOUTIQUE: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE toy or gift card! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/werehavinggaysex-podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is ALARMING, listener! Claire Sundbye is a queer stand-up comedian and writer that opens for Ashley all across the Midwest, but today she’s in the apartment to open up Pandora’s Box — because she’s suddenly BANGING MEN?!?! We discuss sleeping with men and enjoying it after living as a lesbian for your whole life, why this may have happened, the sexual and emotional trauma fueling it all, and growing up queer surrounded by the notoriously hateful Westboro Baptist Church. Also we talk about cruises.  Follow Claire on IG & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lilshrimpsnack/  https://www.tiktok.com/@lilshrimpsnack  And see here live in Chicago at one of her weekly shows: -https://laughfactorychicago.standuptix.com/events/fresh-faces-chicago-15  -https://www.eventbrite.com/e/comedians-you-should-know-cysk-at-timothy-otooles-pub-tickets-168198250495  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/vsQlFCgW3o4  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELLOFRESH: Get 10 FREE MEALS + FREE breakfast for LIFE at https://www.hellofresh.com/gay10fm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is deeply informative, listener! Harrison Browne is a transgender actor, filmmaker, and former professional hockey player in the National Women’s Hockey League, but today he’s in the apartment to silence the moral panic around trans athletes in sports ONCE AND FOR ALL! We discuss coming out as trans in a professional sports league, testosterone vs. athletic performance, the nuances of regulations around transgender players, and bizarre gay sex scandals in Boise. Ashley transitions into a woman-woman. Lizzy gets gay typecasted.   Check out his queer short film, “Pink Light:” https://www.instagram.com/pinklight.film/  Follow Harrison on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/hbrowne24/  https://www.tiktok.com/@hbrowne24  https://x.com/hbrowne24  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/bs8hvUxFy3U  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: MINT MOBILE: Get incredible coverage with no hidden fees at https://www.mintmobile.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is DEEP and PHILOSOPHICAL, listener! Gianmarco Soresi is a wholly unique stand-up comedian, podcaster, and writer with a new special, “Thief of Joy” out RIGHT NOW, but today he’s in the apartment to out HIMSELF! We discuss visiting Fire Island with your girlfriend in order to flirt with men, straight vs. gay sexual dynamics, Taylor Swift, and money’s effects on the creation of art. Ashley sleeps with a witch. Lizzy ponders language and comedy. Watch his new special, “Thief of Joy,” NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sB9eWtzTOq0  Listen to “The Downside” Podcast: https://www.gianmarcosoresi.com/the-downside-with-gianmarco-soresi  Follow Gianmarco on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/gianmarcosoresi/  https://www.tiktok.com/@gianmarcosoresi  https://x.com/GianmarcoSoresi  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/CKWq13Q-zWw  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is rock n’ roll CHAOS, listener! Leandra Earl is the stunning guitarist for The Beaches, one of the hottest rock bands working, but today she’s in the apartment to become the band’s LOVER?! We discuss fighting band-mate relationship allegations, coming out later in life, masc fashion tips, threesomes with friends, and much much more. Yeah, there’s also some tips about how to save your cat. And yeah, there’s a Trump-off too. Things really break format this time, listeners. See The Beaches live on tour NOW: https://www.thebeachesband.com/#tour  Listen to “No Hard Feelings” on all platforms: https://thebeaches.ffm.to/nohardfeelings  Follow Leandra on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/leandraearl/  https://www.tiktok.com/@leandraearl  https://x.com/beacheslele  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/8RIpB-yXsKI  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is RAUNCHY, listener! Lauren Chan is an iconic model, writer, entrepreneur, and the first ever lesbian to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, but today she’s in the apartment to show off what’s *underneath*, listener! We discuss compulsive heterosexuality, blowing up your marriage to be lesbian, couch sex, and findom. Ashley bangs a hippie. Ali tries to recreate a movie sex scene. Also, we unveil the first WHGS BABE OF THE WEEK!!!   Follow Lauren on IG and Tik Tok: https://www.instagram.com/lcchan/  https://www.tiktok.com/@lcchan  And watch her on The Traitors Canada, Season 2: https://www.ctv.ca/shows/the-traitors-canada  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/IWc78jMm294  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELLOFRESH: Get 10 FREE MEALS + a FREE ITEM for LIFE at https://www.hellofresh.com/gay10fm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is NERDY, listener! Gabby Bryan is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, actor, and Emmy-award winning producer, but today she’s cosplaying as a magical fairy wanting to dance in your forest! We discuss the Renaissance Fair and being an undercover weirdo, assuming a masculine role in lesbian relationships, the toxicity that can emerge from that, and how bisexuals most certainly cannot drive. Ashley has a bizarre podcast fan. Lizzy gets gay married / Chuck-and-Larry’d. Follow on IG, Tik Tok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/GABBYISBRYAN/  https://x.com/GABBYISBRYAN  https://www.tiktok.com/@gabbyisbryan  And get tickets to her New York and London shows: https://punchup.live/gabbybryan   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/NlJxMn8Qxec  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is deeply informative, listener! Stevie Boebi is an iconic queer sex educator, content creator, and OG lesbian YouTuber that has pioneered internet queer content, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to pioneer new ways to GET US OFF! We discuss polyamory, censorship of queer content, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS), unpacking sexual trauma, and a variety of other important topics! And at some point, Stevie Bobbi scissors on camera (but not really). Is Ashley polyamorous? Is Kylie bisexual? WATCH TO FIND OUT!  Follow Stevie on IG & Tik Tok https://www.instagram.com/stevieboebi/  https://www.tiktok.com/@stevieboebi  And watch her educational content on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCn_5GhTJXWOTVPbiFzksEDA  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/1qgwqzdvhhg  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189  Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is HILARIOUS and DARK, listener! Liz Miele (NPR, Comedy Central, Hulu) is an incredible stand up comedian with a new special, SPACE CAMP, out RIGHT NOW, but today she’s in the apartment to come out HERSELF! Not really, actually, we just discuss many heavy things. Also, amazing co-host Kylie is back in the building once again from a sabbatical in Los Angeles! We discuss strategies to repulse men, getting your cervix analyzed, the queer joys of crossfit, and abortion. Ashley takes a look at threats to gay marriage in the Supreme Court. Kylie is getting banned and followed home.  Follow Liz on IG, Tik Tok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/lizmiele/  https://www.tiktok.com/@lizmiele  https://x.com/lizmiele  And go watch “SPACE CAMP” right now: https://punchup.live/lizmiele/space-camp/purchase  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/0UFUr33n0S0  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189  Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF all mattress orders at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kylie’s old IG account got cancelled, so get her new account to 10K: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/. This episode is JEALOUS and HILARIOUS, listener! Fan-favorite Emma Willmann is a side-splitting stand up comedian and actor that’s RETURNING to the podcast once again to get down and dirty, but this time she’s airing out some straights trying to steal her girl! In addition, we have beloved co-host Kylie Vincent BACK from California for a slate of episodes! We discuss getting insanely jealous that a man is trying to share his fitness goals with your girlfriend, boundaries, being awful at making the first move, positive self-talk, and sleep scores. Lots and LOTS of sleep scores.  Follow Emma on IG, Tik Tok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/emmawillmann/  https://www.tiktok.com/@iamemmawillmann  https://x.com/iamemmawillmann  And follow her Patreon for exclusive stand-up: https://www.patreon.com/EmmaWilmannChaosClub  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189  Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF all mattress orders at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  HELLO FRESH: Get 10 FREE MEALS and a FREE ITEM for LIFE at http://hellofresh.com/gay10fm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode answers an age-old queer question, listener! Kimia Behpoornia is a comedian, actor, and improv MASTER that has been cracking you up on hit shows like Dropout and Abbott Elementary, but today she’s in the apartment to take a crack at the classic sapphic conundrum: what do you do when your in love with your BFF?! We discuss courting, dating, and eventually marrying your childhood best friend; the painful process of coming out; the flexibility of the human mind; and how the straights are way too open with us about their sex life. Ashley tries to bang her acting class partner. Lizzy gets a gay apology. Follow Kimia on IG: https://www.instagram.com/childclown/  Watch her comedy on Dropout: https://www.dropout.tv/videos/fourth-witch  Check her out in Abbott Elementary: https://www.hulu.com/series/abbott-elementary-7c33eeb2-5d16-4a10-ad9e-ee31f9fff15c  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/4-jZKSO8tVY  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is in a bold new era, listener! Hilarious stand-up comedian and fan-favorite Ali Kolbert RETURNS to the apartment for a duo episode, but this is the only girl-on-girl action she’s gettin’ because she is in her “straight girl” era! We discuss embracing the benefits that come with being newly single, strapping for the first time, exploring threesomes with women (and men), the Hunting Wives, and we debut the inaugural WHGS RAP BATTLE!!! Ashley has been bewitched by a lesbian dark lord. Ali is trying to snap her out of it.  Follow Ali on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Twitter/X: https://x.com/alikolbert  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/PyujRKSf4ug  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF all mattress orders at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FACTOR: Get 10% OFF your first year subscription at https://www.joinblvd.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is a BIG ONE, listener! G Flip is an award-winning singer, songwriter, multi-instrumentalist, and one of your favorite working queer musicians, but today they’re in the apartment to become one of your favorite LOVERS! We discuss having yearly weddings with your life partner, getting started in music, writing songs from a queer perspective, and dreaming about your teeth falling out. Ashley wants to be abused. Lizzy is watching TV (in a gay way). You can pre-save their upcoming album, “Dream Ride,” on all platforms: https://gflip.ffm.to/dreamride  You can get tickets for their upcoming tour NOW: https://www.gflipmusic.com/tour  Follow G Flip on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gflip/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gflipmusic  Twitter/X: https://x.com/gflipmusic  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/QTc65ibFiIc  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF all mattress orders at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FACTOR: Use code “GAY50OFF” for 50% OFF + FREE BREAKFASTS at https://factormeals.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is informative & hilarious, listener! Queer & trans sex educator Eva Bloom RETURNS to the apartment after many years to blow our minds with some knowledge, because we needed a break from blowin’ LOADS. We discuss late bloomers & coming out later in life, how to make moves on your crush, queer line dancing, and your girlfriend going to the emergency room after eating glass in her tofu. Ashley witnesses an epic rejection. Lizzy is the star of the relationship.  Follow Eva on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whatsmybodydoing/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whatsmybodydoing  Twitter/X: https://x.com/whatsmybodydoin  And you can listen to their new podcast, “Out In Bloom,” wherever you listen: https://open.spotify.com/show/6CATju3YR31MMwc5QRbB24  https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/out-in-bloom/id1817021251  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/gRZa2EEVkzE  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is relentlessly smooching, listener! Hilarious stand up comedian Robin Tran RETURNS to the podcast, and this time she’s in the apartment to teach us the most intense and freaky kink that exists in the bedroom: LOVE! We discuss kissing & intimacy kink, discovering your pansexuality, the ease of making positive changes in your life, and Asian earwax. Ashley finds the fire in her loins. Maddie’s rabbit comes out as bisexual. Follow Robin on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robintran04/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robintrancomedian  Twitter/X: https://x.com/robintran04   And you can watch her amazing new special, “Hear Me Out,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3QSPt258Ak  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/F2vdYU7Fb7w  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is gossip-filled, listener! It’s a catch-up today as beloved actor, content creator, and friend Breanne Williamson returns to the apartment, and in typical WHGS fashion, we go in-depth into the most popular queer reality TV show a month after everyone already forgot about it! We gossip about the newest season of The Ultimatum: Queer Love, making art, finding validation in the modern media landscape, and getting dunked on for trying to look nice. Ashley is a youth pastor for drunk queers. Breanne is outed as a LARPer. SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/dlNfg8e4Tfc  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson Twitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamson Live Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is gettin’ wet, listener! Actor, comedian, and content creator Georgia Bridgers returns to the podcast for the 5TH TIME, and today she’s in the apartment to tell us the tale of a petulant little SQUIRT, if you catch our drift! We discuss comphet, finding your orgasm, going to the doctor after mistaking your squirting for a kidney issue, and how pilates is for the people. Ashley is caught messing around in 4k. Maddie is a gay rabbit matchmaker.   Follow Georgia on IG and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/georgiabridgers/  https://www.tiktok.com/@georgialynnrose  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/qcw4GG-UcJw  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex BOULEVARD: Get 10% your subscription at https://www.joinblvd.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is challenging gender, listener! Brenna Jordan is an ICONIC trans content creator and comedian making her return to the internet, but today she’s making a return to the apartment to get wet and loose! We discuss adjusting to life a few years into transitioning, finding meaning beyond your trans identity, dating men safely in a world filled with gross fetishists, and the most trans thing ever: the Meisner Technique. Ashley is losing a relationship spark. Maddie confronts the downsides of appearing non-binary. Follow Brenna on IG and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/brennajordan/  https://www.tiktok.com/@brendanwjordan  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/JZ0ZGmv-DEA  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FACTOR: Use code “gay50off” to get 50% OFF + FREE SHIPPING at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is disabled and proud, listener! Tina Friml (Comedy Central, The Tonight Show) is an incredible stand up comedian and writer with cerebral palsy that has been taking the internet by storm, but today she’s in the apartment GIVING the internet some TIPS on banging in the world of disabilities! We discuss dating with disabilities and its in’s and out’s, managing social anxieties around your disability, how male gaze affects even male strip clubs, and embracing disability pride because the gay pride flag sucks. Ashley is letting girls into her apartment. Lizzy is having lesbian sex in a straight relationship. Alex is being pimped out for views. Tina taking a break from touring! See her LIVE while you still can: https://linktr.ee/tinafriml  Follow Tina on IG and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/tinafriml/  https://www.tiktok.com/@tinafriml  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/XhvnjwrSuXQ  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is chaos, listener! We have the return of fan-favorite Steph Tolev, one of today's best working stand-ups and actors with a NEW Netflix special out, “Filth Queen,” but today she’s in the apartment to undo her straight conversion therapy! We discuss being sucked out of the lesbian dating pool by a gorgeous man, maintaining a positive body image in the internet age, living life as a boy-girl, and freaking out at your girl-boy boyfriend. Ashley hits the double-date. Maddie self-sabotages.   Watch “Steph Tolev: Filth Queen” NOW: https://www.netflix.com/title/81764903  Follow Steph on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/stephtolev/  https://www.tiktok.com/@stephtolev  https://x.com/stephtolev  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/mD8N5XTs_0k  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: BOULEVARD: Book a demo at https://www.joinblvd.com/gay for 10% OFF your first year! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

GET LIZZY TO 10K, LISTENER! It’s free and it actually really helps her career: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/. You’ve been asking, so we’re delivering… It’s a FAMILY EPISODE today, listener, and our dear co-hosts and stand up comedians Maddie Wiener and Lizzy Cassidy are coming together to drive this apartment to RIFF CITY! It’s the gay virgin and the bi-with-a-boyfriend CLASHING, and we may not survive the collision of these epic titans. We discuss demisexuality, the asexuality spectrum, and code-switching your gay voice for the straights. Ashley witnesses Indiana ruin boobs. Lizzy senses some flirting. Maddie ponders their body image.  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/05b3yEnFmjI  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster  Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy   FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is thriving after chaos, listener! Fan-favorite Ali Kolbert is a fantastic stand up comedian, writer, actress, and dear friend of the show, and today she’s coming back onto it to tell us about life after one of the CRAZIEST breakups that you’ve ever heard. It’s a DUO episode today because all co-hosts were on tour, and we discuss Ali’s insane breakup, untangling your mind after gaslighting, reclaiming your agency, and moving beyond into greatness. We also talk about how Ashley may be the only example of a mainstream lesbian open relationship, and how this relationship was built in the pitiful dregs of comedy. Follow Ali on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert  Twitter/X: https://x.com/alikolbe And you can see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/YmxS-CU_Ooo  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FACTOR: Get 50% OFF + FREE SHIPPING with code “gay50off” at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is a lady killer, listener! Jared Freid is an amazing stand-up comedian, podcaster, and certified bachelor, and today he’s in the apartment for some gay-straight cultural exchange to give you tips for dating women that only a straight man could know! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the secrets to pursuit, how to plan a perfect date, ice cream adventures, and giving up everything to move to Florida. Ashley fights intense homophobia. Lizzy witnesses the pure, unadulterated gay experience.  Follow Jared on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreid/  https://www.tiktok.com/@wizardofha  https://x.com/jtrain56  And see him live on tour! Get tickets at https://punchup.live/jaredfreid  Follow Lizzy on IG, Twitter/X, and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  https://x.com/lizzaster  https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  And see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/64TmEfXn8PQ  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: BOULEVARD: Get 10% OFF your first year subscription at https://www.joinblvd.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is an ALL-TIMER, gamers! Ashly Burch is an amazing writer and voice actor who has voiced some of your favorite video game characters, but today we are in the apartment NOT having sex with ANYBODY because this episode is all about playing video games! We discuss queer representation in video games, growing up as a gamer, the absolutely sickening specifics of Final Fantasy, and knowing about all of these topics intimately before you remotely touch a woman. Ashley saves a young gamer from homophobia. Maddie needs her mechanical keyboards creamy.  Follow Ashly on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/ashlyburch/  https://www.tiktok.com/@ashly.burch  And you can watch her new web series, “I’m Happy You’re Here,” right now! Episode One: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5SavjMFRLg  Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3SfUO2QmxHM SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/Uj9zyHc0r0I  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices