What Do You Wanna Know?

Is there really “the one?” Or have we bought into a cultural idea that’s quietly damaging our expectations around dating and marriage? In this episode, we unpack the truth about soulmates, relationships, and why so many marriages hit friction early on. We talk about what actually happens after you say “I do,” why disappointment is inevitable, and how the idea of “deserving better” can lead people down a dangerous path. We also dive into dating: how to spot red flags, why people ignore them, and the importance of spiritual alignment in relationships. If you’ve ever questioned your relationship, struggled with expectations, or wondered how to approach dating in a healthy way, this conversation will give you clarity.Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

In this episode of What Do You Want to Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith set aside the typical format and just talk - two friends working through some of the questions Christians think about but rarely discuss out loud.They cover three big topics: what happens to our closest relationships in heaven, whether Christians can and should pursue wealth, and what the Bible actually says about tattoos.On heaven, Pastor David shares stories from near-death experiences and hospice nurses that point to something far more beautiful than we can imagine - and reminds us that whatever God has prepared will be better than anything we're afraid of losing.On money, Pastor David pushes back hard on the idea that less is always more spiritually - and makes the case that materialism is a heart condition, not a bank account balance. Generosity, stewardship, and faithfulness matter far more than the number of zeros in your paycheck.On tattoos, they look at what Leviticus actually says, why Jesus fulfilling the law changes the conversation, and why judging someone's tattoos while ignoring other ways we dishonor our bodies doesn't quite add up.This one is honest, deep, and a lot of fun.Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

In this episode of What Do You Want to Know?, we talk about one of the most important truths for every believer - our identity in Christ.Many people live with a distorted view of themselves, shaped by past mistakes, shame, insecurity, or the lies they've believed along the way. But through Jesus, our identity is completely transformed. Scripture tells us that we are sons and daughters of God - loved, accepted, and chosen.We discuss why identity can become so easily confused, how the enemy tries to twist our understanding of who we are, and why it’s so important to anchor our identity in what God says rather than what we feel or what others say about us.When we truly understand who we are in Christ, it changes everything - how we approach God, how we live, and how we see ourselves.Have a question? Ask here:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode 13: Freedom From Habitual SinIn this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith tackle one of the most common struggles Christians face: recurring sin and temptation.Why do believers still wrestle with sin even after giving their lives to Christ? Are we actually powerless against temptation, or have we misunderstood what the Bible says about freedom?This conversation dives into the difference between temptation and identity, why many Christians still live like slaves to sin, and how renewing our minds through God’s Word changes the way we fight spiritual battles.Instead of approaching the topic with shame or condemnation, this episode focuses on the authority, freedom, and transformation available through Jesus. If you’ve ever felt stuck in patterns you can’t break, this conversation will help you see what Scripture actually says about your ability to walk in freedom.Scripture referenced:Romans 6:6–14, Romans 8:1–2, Romans 12:2, 1 Corinthians 10:13Have a question you want answered? Nothing is off-limits—submit it using the link below.Have a question? Ask here:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode 12: The Question You Can't Avoid About EasterIn this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith dive into the heart of the gospel - the death and resurrection of Jesus - and why it’s not just a tradition we celebrate, but the foundation everything stands on.From unpacking the historical reality of the resurrection to answering questions about Holy Week, Easter traditions, and why the suffering of Jesus matters, this conversation brings clarity to what can often feel like familiar - but misunderstood - ground.If Jesus truly walked out of the tomb, then we’re not dealing with symbolism - we’re dealing with a moment in history that demands a response. They also explore:Why the resurrection validates everything Jesus claimedThe significance of reflecting on the crucifixion before celebrating EasterWhat makes the gospel “good news” in the first placePractical ways to prepare your heart during Holy WeekThis episode is both grounded and thought-provoking - helping you move beyond routine Easter rhythms into a deeper understanding of what actually happened, and why it still matters today.Scripture referenced:Matthew 27–28, Luke 24, John 20, Hebrews 4:15Have a question you want answered? Nothing is off-limits—submit it using the link below.Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode 11: Can I Lose My Salvation?Mark DeJesus - The Freedom & Healing Journey: www.youtube.com/@UC4d5DIxHBwHyXC2vYfkWMYA In this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith tackle a question many Christians quietly wrestle with: How can you actually know you're saved?For some believers, salvation feels secure. For others, it’s something they question over and over - especially after making mistakes, going through spiritual dry seasons, or hearing conflicting teaching about whether someone can lose their salvation.This conversation walks through what Scripture says about salvation, assurance, and the difference between genuine faith and constant fear. Pastor David and Venus discuss why some believers struggle with doubt, how misunderstanding grace can create anxiety, and how the Bible gives real confidence to those who trust in Christ.If you've ever wondered whether your faith is real or worried that you might somehow lose your salvation, this episode offers clarity, honesty, and biblical perspective.Scripture referenced:John 10:27–29, Romans 8:38–39, Ephesians 2:8–9, 1 John 5:13Have a question you want answered? Nothing is off-limits—submit it using the link in the description.Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

In this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith tackle one of the hardest challenges in the Christian life: forgiveness.After discussing conflict in the previous episode, the conversation now moves to what comes next - how do we actually forgive someone who has hurt us?What does the Bible really say about forgiveness? Is forgiveness the same thing as reconciliation? And what do we do when someone continues to hurt us or never asks for forgiveness at all?Pastor David shares personal stories, biblical insight, and practical steps for navigating forgiveness in real life - including situations involving deep wounds, betrayal, and long-term hurt.This episode explores how unforgiveness can quietly shape our hearts, why forgiveness is ultimately about protecting our own souls, and how the grace of Jesus empowers believers to release the debts others owe them.If you’ve ever struggled to forgive someone - or wondered what forgiveness actually looks like - this conversation offers biblical clarity and hope.Have a question you want answered? Nothing is off-limits - submit it using the link below.Have a question? Ask here:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

In this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith dive into one of the most unavoidable parts of life and relationships: conflict.From marriage and friendships to church life and workplace tension, conflict shows up everywhere. But the real question isn’t whether conflict will happen - it’s how we handle it when it does.Pastor David shares personal stories from ministry, marriage, and leadership while unpacking the biblical framework for navigating conflict in a healthy, Christ-centered way. Together, they explore the difference between peacekeepers and peacemakers, how unmet expectations create most relational tension, and why prayer before difficult conversations can completely change the outcome.This conversation also dives into how childhood experiences shape the way we respond to conflict, why the enemy loves division, and how believers can approach disagreements with humility, wisdom, and a heart for reconciliation.If you’ve ever struggled with confrontation, avoiding difficult conversations, or knowing when to address conflict and when to let it go, this episode offers practical guidance and biblical insight to help you navigate it wisely.Have a question you want answered? Nothing is off-limits—submit it below.Have a question? Ask here:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode: Can Christians Struggle With Mental Health?This episode discusses mental health and suicide. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, please contact 988 (U.S.) or seek help from a licensed mental health professional in your area.Resources & Counseling:Brian Robles, Oak Of Life Ministries: [email protected] Preston, Shadow Of His Wings Ministry: [email protected] Ministries Counseling - https://www.stchm.org/counseling-ministries/988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline - https://988lifeline.org/In this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith dive into one of the most important - and often misunderstood - topics in the church today: mental health.Is struggling with anxiety a sign of weak faith?Can a Christian experience depression and still deeply love Jesus?Where do prayer, therapy, medication, and spiritual warfare all fit into the conversation?From personal stories of OCD, ADHD, and real-life ministry experiences to navigating suicide, grief, and the stigma often attached to mental health in Christian circles, this conversation is honest, compassionate, and grounded in truth.This episode reminds us that mental health struggles do not disqualify you from faith - and faith does not eliminate the need for support. Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is ask for help.If you’ve ever felt ashamed of your struggle or confused about how mental health fits into your walk with Jesus, this conversation is for you.Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode: This Is Why Your Faith Feels StaleIn this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith unpack a question many believers quietly wrestle with:How do I actually form a real relationship with God?Is it just prayer? Worship music? Reading your Bible? Checking spiritual boxes?This conversation dives into what relationship with God really means - from understanding the context of salvation to moving beyond religious routines into true intimacy. Pastor David explains how our relationship with God begins (dead in sin, enemies of God) and how everything changes when Jesus initiates relationship with us.They also address the frustration many feel:“I’m praying. I’m worshiping. I’m listening to Christian music. I just don’t know if it’s going anywhere.”If you’ve ever felt like your faith feels mechanical, stale, or distant - this episode will help you shift from performance to intimacy.Because relationship with God isn’t about checking boxes.It’s about knowing Him - and being known by Him.Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode: Can You Wreck God’s Calling on Your Life?In this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith tackle a deeply personal and often unspoken fear: Is it possible to miss God’s will for your life?What happens when you look back and feel like you’ve wasted years? What if you walked away from God, made destructive decisions, or denied what you once believed He called you to do? Can you derail His purpose permanently?Through powerful biblical examples - David, Moses, and Peter - and a raw, personal story from Pastor David’s own life, this episode explores regret, surrender, second chances, and the truth about God’s calling. The conversation makes one thing clear: if you’re still breathing, God isn’t done.This is not about trying harder or cleaning yourself up. It’s about surrendering and trusting the God who restores what we think we’ve ruined.Scripture referenced:Jeremiah 29:11, Romans 11:29, Exodus 3, Luke 22:54–62, John 21:1–19Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode: The Gifts of the SpiritIn this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith tackle a topic that often creates curiosity, confusion, and sometimes controversy in the church: the gifts of the Spirit.What are spiritual gifts? Are they still active today? Why do some churches emphasize them while others avoid them altogether?Pastor David walks through what Scripture teaches about the purpose of spiritual gifts, how they are meant to build up the church, and why the Holy Spirit equips believers in different ways. The conversation also addresses common misunderstandings, fears, and practical questions about how these gifts function in everyday life.This episode aims to bring clarity and balance—encouraging listeners to stay grounded in Scripture while remaining open to how God works through His people.Scripture referenced:1 Corinthians 12, 1 Corinthians 14, Romans 12:6–8, Ephesians 4:11–13Have a question you want answered? Nothing is off-limits—submit it using the link in the description.Spiritual Gifts Assessment: https://www.cognitoforms.com/GreatOaksFellowship1/SpiritualGiftsInventoryAssessmentHave a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode 4: The Truth About TithingIn this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith take on one of the most uncomfortable - and most misunderstood - topics in church culture: tithing.Why does money make people weird? Is tithing still relevant in 2026? Is it Old Testament law, New Testament generosity, or something deeper going on in the heart?Drawing from Scripture, pastoral experience, and powerful personal stories, this conversation reframes tithing not as pressure, guilt, or manipulation - but as worship, trust, and positioning our hearts before God. They address common objections, practical questions, and the real reason Jesus paid such close attention to how people give.This episode is honest, pastoral, and grounded - no hype, no shame, and no avoidance.Scripture referenced:Genesis 4:3–5, Malachi 3:10, Acts 2:42–47, Mark 12:41–44, 2 Corinthians 9:6–7Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode 3: Does God Still Heal?In this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith address one of the most personal and emotionally charged questions Christians ask: Does God still heal today?From sickness and chronic pain to unanswered prayers and disappointment, this conversation creates space for honesty without losing biblical conviction. Pastor David walks through what Scripture actually says about healing, the role of faith and prayer, and why God’s goodness is not determined by outcomes we can see.Rather than offering hype or formulas, this episode invites listeners into a deeper trust—one that holds hope for healing while anchoring faith in who God is, not just what He does.Scripture referenced:Isaiah 53:5, Matthew 8:16–17, James 5:14–16, 2 Corinthians 12:7–10, Romans 8:28Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode: This Is Why Your Faith Feels StaleIn this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith unpack a question many believers quietly wrestle with:How do I actually form a real relationship with God?Is it just prayer? Worship music? Reading your Bible? Checking spiritual boxes?This conversation dives into what relationship with God really means - from understanding the context of salvation to moving beyond religious routines into true intimacy. Pastor David explains how our relationship with God begins (dead in sin, enemies of God) and how everything changes when Jesus initiates relationship with us.They also address the frustration many feel:“I’m praying. I’m worshiping. I’m listening to Christian music. I just don’t know if it’s going anywhere.”If you’ve ever felt like your faith feels mechanical, stale, or distant - this episode will help you shift from performance to intimacy.Because relationship with God isn’t about checking boxes.It’s about knowing Him - and being known by Him.Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode 2: Pursuing People: Sharing the Gospel Without Fear or WeirdnessIn this episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith explore how Christians can meaningfully share their faith with others. Many believers feel intimidated, unsure, or awkward when it comes to evangelism - but it doesn’t have to be that way.Drawing from scripture, personal stories, and years of ministry experience, Pastor David unpacks how to cultivate a heart for the lost, approach spiritual conversations naturally, and demonstrate the gospel through prayer, presence, and authenticity. Whether it’s coworkers, neighbors, or strangers, this conversation reframes evangelism as intentional love and pursuit rather than pressure or performance.Scripture referenced:Matthew 28:19–20, John 10:11–16, Genesis 3, Hebrews 4:12Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

Episode 1: What Is Fasting, Anyway?In the first episode of What Do You Wanna Know?, Pastor David Martin and Venus Griffith tackle one of the most misunderstood spiritual practices in the Christian life: fasting.As Great Oaks Fellowship prepares for a season of fasting, this conversation addresses what fasting actually is, what it isn’t, and why Jesus speaks about it as a normal part of following Him. This episode reframes fasting not as punishment or pressure, but as positioning ourselves to hear God clearly and grow in dependence on Him.Scripture referenced:Matthew 6:16–18, Matthew 9:15, Hebrews 4:12, Daniel 1Have a question you want answered? Nothing is off-limits - submit your questions here: Have a question? Ask here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform

What Do You Wanna Know? is an ask-anything podcast hosted by Pastor David and Venus Griffith, answering the questions people actually have about Jesus, faith, doubt, and life. No dodging hard topics. No surface-level answers. Get ready to dive in as we tackle real questions that you have with real conversation, biblical perspective, and space to wrestle with what it truly means to say yes to Jesus in every area of your life. Click here to submit a question: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEy8iXDYbXPkUpbYgqObR7hj4Ls07gVuaaQt5MQIYWrUaDIQ/viewform