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What The Relationship

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What The Relationship is a South African quirky and relatable show that focuses on relationships and loves' shenanigans from a millennials perspective. The hosts unpack these shenanigans often with questionable advice with the help of extra special guests. WTR’s advice is real, practical, relatable and funny.

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Episodes

  1. #66: When your Squad swipes left on your Bae!

    Hello Lovers, In this episode, we delve into the sticky situation of navigating family and friends who just can't seem to warm up to your significant other. With our guest Thato Ramepdi, we share our personal stories of when our families and friends have swiped left on our boo thangs! Visit our...

  2. #65: Let's go 50/50!

    Hello Lovers, In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of splitting finances equally in relationships and explore the dynamics, challenges & benefits of adopting a 50/50 approach. With our guest Mr. Zulu Gold, we discuss the importance of open communication, financial compatibility, and trust...

  3. #64: Maybe I'm the Red Flag...

    Welcome back Lovers. In this episode, we delve into the topic of self-introspection and relationships. We all know that relationships require work, and one of the most important aspects of that work is taking a good hard look at ourselves. When we are able to understand our own motivations,...

  4. #63: Parenting in the 21st Century

    Hello Lovers, Parenting in the 21st century can be challenging, complex, and expensive. In this episode, we are joined by our new Podcast Manager Emile where we explore the various and unique challenges that parents face in today's world while also reflecting on our desires to be potential…

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  5. #62: State of Love Address

    Hello Lovers, There has been a lot of noise in the "manosphere" about femininity and masculinity in relationships. There has been a lot of noise about friends dating their best friends' partners. We are addressing these concerns in this episode with extra special guest @zulugoku. Be sure to show...

  6. #61 Finding Love in a World of Expectations: The Male Perspective

    Hello Lovers, Welcome to another episode of What The Relationship. On today's episode, we're discussing the pressure men experience when it comes to modern-day dating with our extra special guest Makhubo The Chef Sbu. Do what lovers do: Listen & Share the episode! Co-hosts: @candice_chirwa &...

  7. #59: In 2022, Love Taught Me...

    Hello Lovers, What a year 2022 has been! Lots and lots of lessons have been learned, especially in the love department. We reflect on our own love journeys with our favorite girl: Bokang! Be sure to do what lovers do: like & rate the podcast! Co-hosts: Candice (@candice_chirwa) & Lungelo…

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  8. #58: Indoda Will Because #IndodaMust

    Hello Lovers, Ever wondered why men just choose to be a problem in relationships? Whether it's being confusing with their time and effort or switching up their behaviors, we unpack this crisis with the spokesperson for men: Lwazi Mandonsela. Be sure to do what lovers do: like & rate the podcast!...

  9. #57: You're Toxic

    Hello Lovers, When you did you realize that your ex was toxic? That's the question we tackle in this episode with sharing our stories about our past relationships. A lot of healing happened, but also a lot of venting, lots and lots of venting. Be sure to do what lovers do like and rate the…

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  10. #56: Clothing Ya Attraction

    Hello Lovers, Do you pay attention to clothing when dating someone? Does your partner's fashion sense impact the way you see your partner? Dress sense is important when you want to attract a new partner. What you wear can make a difference when someone is weighing up their attraction to you. So…

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  11. #55: Love Ya'Self

    Hello Lovers, We're back from our winter break. In the great words of RuPaul Charles: "If you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you going to love someone else?" And in this episode, It's all about self-love, particularly our relationship with our bodies. We sat down with our extra special...

  12. #54: Where is your Huzband?

    Hello Lovers, If you have been in a serious relationship and are thinking of ways of introducing your partner to your parents, have you ever considered that WHO you are dating might not live up to your parents' expectations? Have you ever spoken to your parents about your dating life? Have you...

  13. #53: Men(tal) Health Month

    Hello Lovers, Did you know that June is Men's Mental Health Month? Did you also know that men are less likely than women to seek help for depression, substance abuse, and stressful life events due to social norms?! We discuss about the real damaging impact it takes to be the Ultimate man with our...

  14. #52: Resisting Temptation

    Hello Lovers, It's common to be attracted to other people, however, it becomes a problem when you're using those thoughts to escape the reality of your relationship. Even worse if you're taking steps towards actually doing it. In this episode, we chat about different scenarios we've been tempted...

  15. #51: Marry Me Now or I DIE! #TheUltimatum

    Hi Lovers, After all of the hype from the Netflix Series, The Ultimatum, we reflect on the most shocking things from the show and dive into whether or not an ultimatum is necessary with our male perspective guest Kopano. Do what lovers do, like & subscribe to the podcast. Hosts: @candice_chirwa &...

  16. #50: So You're Dating A Red Flag...

    It is our 50th EPISODE. FIFTY! We reflect on our life journeys from episode one till now and we are venting & reflecting on what happens when finding out that you're dating a person who is a walking red flag. 🚩 Hosts: @candice_chirwa & @lunngii Do What Lovers Do: Like, Subscribe & Leave a Rating!

  17. #49: I got an STD from my Boyfriend's Wife

    Hello Lovers 💜, Everyone loves doing the deed. But when it comes to practicing it safely, well... that is another conversation which we are having with our eXXXtra special guest and super fan of the podcast: Lindo. In this episode, we chat about safe sex practices and also vent about a very very...

  18. #48: Mjolo & Money

    Hello Lovers, We get it. Talking about money is the LEAST sexy thing to talk about whilst dating. But the truth is Money TALKS. And when it comes to Mjolo, well, the dynamics can change when you start having real and honest conversations about goals, dreams, and who gonna pay for the bill? We…

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  19. #47: The Shaky Table

    Hey Lovers, Gender Roles. We've heard a lot about them. But we wonder what role they play in our interpersonal relationships. In this episode we're joined by our very own Kevin Hart look alike (Mthobisi), to share the male perspective. It gets a bit tense. Do what lovers do, like, comment & share...

  20. #46: Baby, Are You Coming?

    Hey Lovers, Ever thought about why sex is always seen as a taboo subject, especially in our relationships? Ever wondered why we can't talk openly about sex? And what's the tea about giving ratings In this episode, we're talking about ALL the GOOD things about sex and ALL the INTERESTING things...

  21. #45: Rock The Boat

    This week we are joined by Ayanda. We talk about the building of a relationship. What are the tools needed? Money? Communication? Looks? A relationship is like building a boat and each person need to bring the right tools in order to set the sails for your voyage. Be sure to Subscribe, Comment &...

  22. #44: Oh Valentines, Oh Valentines...

    Valentines has come and gone... And we're just reflecting in this episode on a number of things. Firstly, what is the right gift to get a guy? What is the obsession with oversized teddy bears? What's the tea with Kanye? We unpack it all on this episode in our temporary virtual podcast home. Be…

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  23. #43: The Speed Daters

    Hello Lovers, You know you can find love in a bar, or an app and allegedly at speed dating. Joined by our OG WTR Host, Kayla, we reflect on our experience of going on a speed dating experience at a place in Fourways that's all about Bums. Please leave us your rating & review!

  24. #42: Just Do It (But Ask First)

    Hello Lovers, Nothing is better than sex, but this episode comes close. Get it? Comes. In this episode, we get really deep and unpack how we've learned to define and understand sex in the 21st century. Joined by our extra special guest Mathabz aka Eddie who brings in the "male perspective."

  25. #41: New Year, Better Boo

    New Year, New Resolutions right? Welp, we are still kind of reflecting romantically on what lessons we've learned from 2021. And is it just us or is there some intense relationship agenda on a specific app?

  26. #40: Mixing the Decks of Love

    In This weeks Episode of WHAT THE RELATIONSHIP we welcome our guest DJ Jorontinah! We'll be talking all things Nightlife and the Trials and Tribulations of mixing the beats and the Heartstrings!

  27. #39: I'm Not All That

    Why do we never talk about impostor syndrome in dating? We will be navigating the ways that impostor syndrome can impact our personal relationships with our mental health guru Bradley Naicker.

  28. #38: Don’t Judge A Book by its' Size?

    Don’t Judge a Book by its cover. Or a comedian by the size of their microphone. Yes, Comedians. Comedians Deserve Love Too. On this episode, we chat with Phillip Dikotla (@phillipdikotla) on his recruitment process on finding Mjolo. He even gave Candice & Zanèl a Masterclass on conquering online...

  29. #37: The State of Online Dating

    We are chatting, ranting, venting about the state of online dating in South Africa with our EXTRA SPECIAL guest Lesego Thlabi.

  30. #36: Are You The One?

    So You Want to Find The One? On this episode we chat about our ideal partners and whether our expectations are realistic or not.

  31. #35: Growth In YOU = Growth in Relationships

    Relationships require us to look at ourselves and work to understand our past and how it shapes us today. We often get caught up in what we WANT, need and expect from our partner, but often neglect to look within first. With Our Guest: Kayla!

  32. #34: Is It Cheating If... ?

    Well. Listen to us virtually throw hands on tackling these all these what if questions with our cool kid content creator Phil Shidi. Producers Note: We'd like to apologise for the quality of this episode in advance. We had a technical issue that we are now addressing. The Content of this Episode...

  33. #33: Don’t Play Games With My Heart

    Let’s talk facts. We don’t like being played but we also want to understand why people play. In this episode, we chat with the master of playze - SamPlayze about Mjolo tactics & hookup culture.

  34. #32: Lovin' In A Panini

    Trigger Warnings: Black Girls who are over this pandemic. In this ranting episode we reflect on how COVID-19 has had an impact on dating and love life.

  35. #31: The Art of Private Relationships

    When you keep your relationship private, it doesn’t mean that you never talk about it or share what’s going on in your love life. It doesn’t mean that you have to bottle anything in either. In this episode, we’re chatting about the art of keeping things private with intimate relationships with…

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  36. #30: Did The Most 4 Love

    Love is a crazy thing. Lust is an even crazier thing. And thinking you like someone is the craziest thing of all. Because let's admit it, we do some crazy sh*t for the attention of our crush. On this episode, we are joined by Fitness Trainer & Thick Thighs advocate Moagi and our new co-host Zanél...

  37. #29: Embracing Singlehood

    There's nothing shameful about being single. The longest relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself. In this episode of WTR, we chat about embracing Singlehood with Foyin (@foyin_og).

  38. #28: Mixing Business with Pleasure

    They say to never mix business with pleasure... and yet a business partnership can be similar to a romantic relationship. It makes sense that many Couples & Romantic Partners work together on a baby of a different kind; a Company! In this episode, we're tackling the Dynamics of managing Your...

  39. #27: Interracial Love

    How would your life change if it was easy to enjoy your choice of partner? Some people are in mixed-race or interracial – couples themselves and see aspects of their own lives reflected in a specific royal couple’s experience.

  40. #26: Let's Get Grating on Love Island

    What’s your vibe? What’s your type? Tall, Dark and Handsome? How about Real, Genuine and Authentic with some ACTUAL DIVERSITY? In this episode of What The Relationship, we’re chatting about the unrealistic expectations love reality shows create for all of its audience.

  41. #25: Macho Man

    Well, we’re all familiar with masculinity in our lives. In our everyday lives we might ignore the implications of masculinity, but what happens when we miss out on the subtle signs of TOXIC masculinity depicted in men in a relationship? In this episode, we are joined by Media Owner, TEDx Speaker,...

  42. #24: Love Yo Self

    In the great words of Rupaul Charles, if you can’t love yourself how in the HELL are you going to love anybody else? On this episode of What The Relationship, we’re chatting about the impact mental health has in couple relationships.

  43. #23: The Patriarchy Made Me Do It

    The Patriarchy. We love to HATE it. But how do we navigate it in our relationships especially if our partners are upholders & gatekeepers of the Patriarchy? Bring your Feminist hats for this episode, we’re going to fight the Patriarchy.

  44. #22: You Up? (PG 20)

    PG 20 Content! Put seat Belts on your ears, this is going to be the ride of your life. On this episode of What The Relationship, we’re chatting about how to approach uncomfortable matters of the bedroom with your partner.

  45. #21: Long Distance Lovers

    There is nothing harder than being madly in love with someone and not being able to see them every day. In this episode of What The Relationship, we chat about Long Distance Relationships. Whether you live in another province or your partner works a lot, finding success in a LDR can be hard.

  46. #20: Thank you 2020, but NEXT!

    Dear 2020, we’re breaking up with you. Thank you, but next. On this episode, We’re throwing it back to all the memories we’ve had in 2020 and the lessons we learnt from them. We laugh, we cry but we mostly laugh.

  47. #19: John Vuli Relationship

    Open Relationships. Polyamory. Friends with Benefits? We don’t know. We’re figuring out what the tea on Open Relationships are about in this episode. Note: DSTV did not pay us for the promotion. But our DMs are always open.

  48. #18: Family Ties

    Family ties are precious things. Family ties are treasured things. But what happens when your family don’t tie with your bae? On today’s episode of the What The Relationship, we are talking about relationships and family dynamics.

  49. #17: Sex ALMOST Sent me to the ER

    Feautring @thefabipinheiro Tlof Tlof. We've had our fair share of good and mind blowing experiences, but on today's episode of What The Relationship, we are reflecting on when Tlof Tlof got a bit too much!

  50. #16: I Had Period Sex

    For all the taboos that have been dismantled, period sex is still a big one. Yes, you read right - period sex. But fret not, we are here to talk about goin' with the flo in your relationships and we also teach Kayla a thing or two!

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What The Relationship is a South African quirky and relatable show that focuses on relationships and loves' shenanigans from a millennials perspective. The hosts unpack these shenanigans often with questionable advice with the help of extra special guests. WTR’s advice is real, practical, relatable and funny.

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