What Would Love Do?

Why Do Some Men Expect To Split The Bill On A First Date? If you’re going out with someone for the first time, why do we call this a date? Seems to me like this is a meeting to decide if you both want to put in the time to date. And why do we still have the expectation that whoever asks for the date should be the one paying? Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why women expect men to pay for dates even though many midlifers live on a fixed income. Let’s talk about…Why Do Some Men Expect To Split The Bill On A First Date? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Say THESE Things and A Man Will Quickly Bond With You We say communication is the basis of a healthy relationship, but what does that really mean? Communication – or discourse – is more than just asking how was your day. We’re talking about getting deeper and having a curiosity about our beliefs and how our belief system came to be. Being curious about how the other person thinks and also being vulnerable enough to answer these questions honestly can raise a relationship to a higher level. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways you can have meaningful discourse with your partner that makes every conversation interesting. Let’s talk about…Say THESE Things and A Man Will Quickly Bond With You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Don’t Care About The Perfect Looking Woman… They Want THIS All of us have some level of insecurity about our looks. Sometimes that follows us from childhood or we develop insecurities from previous adult relationships. But are perfect looks as important in midlife? Sure, we want to be attracted to our partner but looks is only the first level of attraction. Getting to know someone on a deeper level will help you develop a more solid foundation for a relationship. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why searching for perfect looks can prevent you from finding the man of your dreams. Let’s talk about…Men Don’t Care About The Perfect Looking Woman… They Want THIS Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Will THIS Cause Men To Step Up Emotionally? Is being with your partner sweeter than your solitude? That’s a question that everyone should ask themselves throughout the dating process. Instead, so many people are super-focused on finding love and having chemistry with their partners. But what happens when you think about your partner in a neutral light? Is being with this person better than being alone? Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can protect our peace and solitude while also exploring a new relationship. Let’s talk about…Will THIS Cause Men To Step Up Emotionally? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Mature Love With Men Is Rare and What You Can Do About It One of the cornerstones of a solid relationship is communication and the first step toward great communication is active listening. Have you heard that term before? Active listening is the act of intentionally engaging with communication. The goal of active listening is to avoid misunderstandings and to examine thoughts and perceptions between the speaker and the listener. We are NOT talking about listening with one ear while you’re on your phone, nodding your head and smiling in agreement. This is about devoting your attention to the other person, making eye contact, and really hearing what they have to say. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can connect with our partners and promote better communication. Let’s talk about…Why Mature Love With Men Is Rare and What You Can Do About It Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Avoid Texting A Man Who’s A Time Waster | Do THIS There’s a certain safety factor in sticking with the messaging function on the dating apps. While this feature is convenient when first matching with someone, it limits your ability to really learn about a person. I’ve seen people who spend months and YEARS just texting and that to me is NOT a real relationship. Today I’m sharing my 3-2-1-3 advice about how long it should take before meeting someone in person. Let’s talk about…Avoid Texting A Man Who’s A Time Waster | Do THIS Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Is An Emotional Affair Really Cheating? Communication is everything in a relationship and this includes identifying your definition of cheating. Do you think cheating only involves physical intimacy? Is it cheating to daydream about your Hollywood crush? What about having private text conversations with a coworker? Let’s explore the DEEPER answers about what constitutes cheating and how to make strong communication a pillar of your relationship. Let’s talk about…Is An Emotional Affair Really Cheating? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

I’m Happy Being Single But I Still Want A Boyfriend How many comments have you seen online that men are awful or dating isn’t worth the effort because of men’s bad behavior? It’s fairly commonplace but two things can be true at the same time. Women are learning how to be happy single and not depending on a man for financial support but they can also want that companionship of a boyfriend. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways women differentiate between a relationship and ‘having a boyfriend’ and what spurs women to minimize relationships. Let’s talk about…I’m Happy Being Single But I Still Want A Boyfriend Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

There’s No Future With A Man If He Doesn’t Do THIS What’s YOUR definition of a serious relationship? If you don’t have a clear understanding of what you want, then finding the right guy becomes more difficult. We’re talking about my Dating Vows today and dissecting what each one means and how it can benefit your dating life to have these conversations early on before physical intimacy. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why casual relationships seem to be more popular than serious relationships in today’s dating world. Let’s talk about…There’s No Future With A Man If He Doesn’t Do THIS Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Relationships Need THIS To Survive and Thrive… Why is there so much ambiguity in the dating process? Have adults really lost the ability to communicate what they want? If you want a relationship, you need to identify what that means to you. Once you’re clear, then you can ask the men you meet the same question. THEN you’ll have a better idea of which guys are worth getting to know better. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons midlife adults have difficulty communicating and defining what type of relationship they want. Let’s talk about…Relationships Need THIS To Survive and Thrive… Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Is He In Love or Just Using You? Some men approach dating with an ‘exit plan’ already set up, saying they’ll commit when they find the right person. But does keeping this limited view allow men to recognize when the right person comes along? Let’s explore the DEEPER differences between those who are searching for a fantasy woman and those who are committed to commitment. Let’s talk about…Is He In Love or Just Using You? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Dating Over 50: What Actually Matters (From a Real Couple) Dating these days is overall very casual. It lacks decision about whether you’re looking for casual fun or a longtime relationship. Commitment, on the other hand, involves conscious decision-making. And this is where open communication comes into play because by middle age, you each (most likely) have some strong opinions about what’s important in your lives. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to create clarity about what values are important to you in a relationship and how to communicate those to your partner. Let’s talk about…Dating Over 50: What Actually Matters (From a Real Couple) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Brutally Honest Relationship Advice For Women Are you stuck in victim mode? Are you quick to blame others for things that go wrong in your life? Playing the blame game is quite common these days and I consider it the ‘easy way out’. When someone else is to blame, then that absolves you of responsibility. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can recognize our own shortcomings in finding love and how to change our outlook instead of placing blame on others. Let’s talk about…Brutally Honest Relationship Advice For Women Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Going Slow Gets You Into A Relationship Faster In this episode I’m joined by sweetheart Paula and we’re discussing how we didn’t force a connection but instead felt neutral about each other when we first starting talking. So many people are desperate for a connection that they force it or trick themselves into thinking there’s a connection instead of waiting for it to develop organically. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways you can develop a connection via strong communication and a willingness to dive deep into your thoughts and feelings. Let’s talk about…Why Going Slow Gets You Into A Relationship Faster Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Need THIS Emotion To Fully Commit To You When you hear the term ‘all in’ as it pertains to relationships, what does that mean to you? At this age it doesn’t have to mean that one partner pays for the living expenses of the other. Usually midlife adults are living independently and can take good care of themselves. Let’s explore the DEEPER meaning of being ‘all in’ in a relationship and what that means emotionally. Let’s talk about…Men Need THIS Emotion To Fully Commit To You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

THIS Texting Method Will Ruin Your Love Life Texting was NOT designed to build intimacy. It was meant for giving directions and quick answers to questions. And yet many people default to using texting as a way to connect with others. Is this really a desire to connect or is it avoiding the eye contact and authentic conversations of in person meetings? Let’s explore the DEEPER ways texting can hinder true love. Let’s talk about…THIS Texting Method Will Ruin Your Love Life Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

The First Kiss Is More Dangerous Than Sex Have you ever watched the movie Pretty Woman? In the movie, Julia Roberts (playing a sex worker) draws a boundary about no kissing because that’s too intimate whereas having sex with her clients was not on the same level. Somehow kissing has been demoted over time from a first step toward physical intimacy to a first date expectation. Kissing is not casual. It’s emotional electricity. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to make kissing important again in modern romantic relationships. Let’s talk about…The First Kiss Is More Dangerous Than Sex Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Most Men Are Scared To Face Calm Love So many of us equate chaos with connection. We believe that falling in love equals intensity and chemistry. And it’s easy to mistake adrenaline for intimacy. What would happen if you settled into love? In this case, you’re not “settling” in terms of lowering your standards for a partner. You’re settling calmly into a trusting relationship that your heart has been asking for all along. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons we often chase love instead of allowing it to happen calmly. Let’s talk about…Most Men Are Scared To Face Calm Love Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

How to Spot a Man in Love Many emotionally wounded people seek out (unintentionally) other wounded people and their bond is often mistaken for love. This type of foundation doesn’t usually work out for a multitude of reasons. In this episode I’m sharing some personal stories and sharing – from MY perspective – how love can appear in different, healthier ways. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways love can manifest when two people feel confident in the relationship and are not only seeking validation. Let’s talk about…How to Spot a Man in Love Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

5 Ways to Spot a Cheater I’m binge watching the series Mad Men, which is set in the 1960s and the main character is the definition of a player. The amount of workplace infidelity and the casualness of it all was surprising at first but then I realized this is a human problem that still exists today. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why wounded men cheat and why they seek out validation, often from women. Let’s talk about…5 Ways to Spot a Cheater Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

New Rules For Dating: Verify THIS Before You Trust We’re talking about a very important topic today: Romance Cons. In today’s AI world and with how popular dating apps have become, it’s more important than ever to protect yourself and your bank accounts from unscrupulous con artists who will pretend to love you but only want your assets. Let’s explore the DEEPER workings of con artists and how to protect yourself with Laurel House and Dr Alex del Carmen, hosts of the show RomConned. Let’s talk about…New Rules For Dating: Verify THIS Before You Trust Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

If He Goes Silent, He Might Really Need THIS Do men chase a fully committed relationship or are they chasing sex? Or are midlife men looking for companionship and connection without a permanent commitment? All of these things are possible in the midlife dating pool but men and women both can get caught up in their own fears. Fear of the unknown, fear of having to sacrifice, not wanting to settle. When these types of fears arise, going silent is often easier than having a conversation about those fears. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to keep fear at bay and how to open up communication without judgment. Let’s talk about…If He Goes Silent, He Might Really Need THIS Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Every Man Needs THIS Before Fully Committing To You When was the last time you were in a healthy, heart-centered relationship? You probably only remember those unhealthy relationships, yet so often we repeat the same cycles. Falling in love is often based on lust or limerence and that is certainly a fun experience. But is this TRUE love or love based on physical chemistry? Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to create a heart-centered relationship based on friendship instead of chemistry. Let’s talk about…Every Man Needs THIS Before Fully Committing To You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Respect Women Who Do THIS First Have you ever been on a date where the other person only talks about themselves? Or they are so focused on giving you the ‘right’ answers to your questions that they don’t ask any questions of you? Being present is a big sign of respect IMO. Showing an equal interest in the conversation and asking your own questions helps drive the conversation but also helps both parties determine if another date is worth pursuing. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to be present in the dating world and how to determine if your guy is looking for a way to move on to the next person. Let’s talk about…Men Respect Women Who Do THIS First Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

How to Tell If It’s Real Love or Just a Chemical Crush Have you experienced ‘love bombing’? Mostly women have this experience of receiving exaggerated feelings of love, often spurred by lust or limerence. Love bombing might feel good at first but it’s not an indication of true feelings. Lust is all about wanting to fulfill a sexual need and limerence is an exaggerated infatuation with a person. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it means to experience dopamine love and seratonin love (yes, they are different!) Let’s talk about…How to Tell If It’s Real Love or Just a Chemical Crush FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless? One of the most powerful things about being a human is that we have choices to make in every aspect of our lives. If you’re feeling hopeless about dating, I invite you to make a choice about how much negativity you watch or listen to online. Everyone has an opinion on every topic imaginable and if you CHOOSE to fill your mind with all the negative aspects of dating, that’s exactly what you’re inviting into your world. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about choosing to ignore the dating disaster negativity and embracing how dating can be a fun, positive experience. Let’s talk about…Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless? FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice In this episode I’m helping a listener, Jay, who wants to have a loving, long term relationship but feels his time is running out to find that special woman. We talk about the ways he ‘puts himself out there,’ how he socializes, and what his experiences with online dating were like. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to stay positive about finding love when it feels like you’re trying everything and you still don’t have that special person. Let’s talk about…Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally? Why can’t we keep the honeymoon phase of a new relationship going longer? Why do we seem to fall into a trap of having this phase and these feelings for only a short time before “real life” sets in? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what defines emotional and spiritual relationships and why very few people are good at examining their emotions. Let’s talk about…Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally? FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success In today’s world, women are able to take care of themselves financially. Gone are the days of the 1950s when women couldn’t buy their own home or get a credit card in their own name. With this empowerment, it’s no surprise that women are also more vocal about what they want in a relationship. Casual sex is great if that’s what both adults want. But long term relationships take more time to cultivate and these keys will help you build a strong foundation. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why it’s important to know what type of relationship you want and why there’s no harm in planning a future together. Let’s talk about…Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life? Psychics are not all created equally. Some do care about their clients and will use their intuition for good and others will give random answers just to make a buck. However, it’s less about the accuracy of the psychic and more about the willingness to be honest about what you truly want in your life. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how intuitives/psychics work and how they can lay out the possibilities for us that were hidden from view. Let’s talk about…Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life? FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love What types of men are you finding out in the dating world? Are they looking for a long-term commitment? Or are they just looking to fill a temporary void in their lives? There are 3 general categories that people fall into when it comes to relationships and YOU get to decide which one you want in your life. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why chemistry does NOT equal relationship success and what it means to be a “grower/builder”. Let’s talk about…If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Dating Is Hard, But Love Is Easy The whole dating process has changed considerably over the years and you’d think with the advent of dating apps, that dating would be easier, right? Dating is hard, I’m not going to sugar coat it. But so is losing weight or quitting smoking and I think we can agree that those are worthwhile goals. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about being consistent in the dating process and how to find fun in dating instead of letting it wear you down. Let’s talk about…Dating is Hard but Love is Easy FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love I’m pleased to have my friend, author and life coach Marni Battista, on this episode today and we’re here to share a secret… There are good men to date all around you. There’s no secret island where they’re all kept. They are not in fear of extinction. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how dating is so much more than strategies and which dating apps are the best. Let’s talk about…Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring Insecure love often feels like a roller coaster, with plenty of highs and lows. Healthy love is steady and safe, like floating on a still pond. Without drama and emotional turmoil, healthy love might feel boring, especially if you have bought into the idea that intense chemistry equals a strong relationship. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how healthy love allows you to find peace and grow emotionally while feeling safe and secure. Let’s talk about…Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

9 Keys to an Intentional Approach to Love How many times in the past have you experienced taking your partner for granted? Or maybe it was reversed, where you thought your partner was just along for a ride instead of really deepening your relationship. Being intentional is how you will find the partner and relationship that you desire. It’s not about going through the motions of dating; it’s about knowing in your soul what you want in life and learning how to express that to the men you meet in the dating scene. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about setting intentions about the type of relationship we want and knowing how to uphold that high standard. Let’s talk about…9 Keys To An Intentional Approach To Love FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns a Man On Think back to your childhood. I bet you were raised with the traditional gender roles of the men are hunters and the women are nurturers. Also included in that narrative was the idea that men shouldn’t show emotions or they would be labeled a ‘sissy’. When you throw in socialization, cultural and religious differences, it’s no wonder so many of us grew up not knowing what a healthy relationship looked like! Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how our old scripts from growing up combined with our external environment plus parental expectations shape our beliefs about relationships. Let’s talk about…5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns a Man On FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment Dating is about possibility and exploring a relationship is about potential. So many people focus on the level of attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical attraction while dating instead of thinking about the possibility of having a relationship with this person. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to change your focus about dating if you really want a long term relationship. Let’s talk about…If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You Today I’m joined by my dear friend, Bob Grant, and we’re chatting about men’s behavior and how they act in different stages of a relationship. For example, some men come across as very intense at the beginning of a relationship, which can lead to love bombing but will eventually fizzle out. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to understand behaviors based on intense chemistry versus real feelings of trust and love. Let’s talk about…What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why How can you create a long lasting relationship when you don’t necessarily trust yourself? Your chances are much better if you do the work to heal old wounds, practice self-love, and learn how to be present in your own life. My friend Barry Selby is here to explore this concept of emotional intelligence and why some men run away. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why women don’t trust men who run away emotionally and how to stop that run away impulse. Let’s talk about…Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips Communication is a key factor in having a successful and meaningful relationship yet in some ways it seems like the older we get, the less we want to share. It’s almost like we’ve barely evolved past the grunting stages of the cavemen era! Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why people are afraid to speak their truth or fear that their communication style is dysfunctional. Let’s talk about…How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS Both men and women in midlife are often caught in the ‘sandwich’ generation, where they get their kids out of the house and then a parent gets sick and needs attention. Or they might have a health scare themselves. Sometimes the pressure is enough to make a partner leave the relationship but that simply means they were not right for you. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how you know your guy is a keeper, especially when life throws its curveballs. Let’s talk about…Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women Today we’re revisiting the Kiss-cam seen around the world, where a cheating couple was caught on camera at a Coldplay concert. There was plenty of blame going around when the news broke but we’re going to dive into who cheats more and why. Are men always the ones who cheat or do more women cheat than we realize? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what leads up to someone cheating and the ripple effects an affair has on family members. Let’s talk about…Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love Let’s be real…guys have their “locker room talk” about their sexual escapades. Maybe you’ve only seen it depicted in movies or on TV but it’s true. Sex for most single guys is just something fun that anyone can do. But when an emotional connection happens, that’s what pushes the simple act of sex into lovemaking. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about transforming sex into a sacred act that bonds a couple together. Let’s talk about…7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth Many men are “flying blind” in the dating world. Not because they’re stupid or clueless but because they were never taught about emotional clarity. But do we really need to settle for guys who keep swiping aimlessly and strike up conversations hoping that something sticks? That sounds like wishful thinking instead of having an understanding of what they want in a relationship. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why emotionally available men need a long term dating strategy instead of a short term strategy. Let’s talk about…High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman Humans seem to value pleasure over substance and loyalty these days. In the early stages of dating, many are not concerned with building trust. They want the instant gratification of good sex through chemistry, thinking that’s the ultimate goal. But what happens when you decide you want a long-term commitment? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the different stages of commitment and why arranged marriages have a higher success rate than traditional marriages. Let’s talk about…What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not Human pair bonding is complicated, plain and simple. It gets more complicated when you question what men are looking for. Are they chasing a relationship or are they chasing sex? Midlife dating is different than dating in your 20s and 30s. We have divorce, health issues, and a slew of other baggage that is part of our persona. But all is NOT lost! Love IS possible in midlife so let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to discern if a guy wants a companion or a life partner and how that choice fits into your life. Let’s talk about…Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships Compatibility has always been complex but in our younger years, it was less complicated to find a partner because there was a clear purpose to the relationship: create a family. The problem we face in midlife is that we come with a vast array of different experiences and the purpose of a midlife relationship is often very unclear. Do you want someone for companionship or do you want a long term “til death do us part” relationship? And amid those broad terms, what do those types of relationships look like to you? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to determine what kind of relationship you want and how to express that to current suitors. Let’s talk about…Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You Many people believe that love is involuntary, that you’ll just be attracted and fall in love when the time is right. But I believe that love is a choice to let go of the past hurts, fear, and the fantasy of ‘involuntary love.’ Love and chemistry CAN grow over time. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why instant chemistry and attraction doesn’t mean anything without a foundation of friendship. Let’s talk about…Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women Today’s dating world is often based on a short term strategy which focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection all based on pleasure.  Throw in some ambivalence, arrogance, and/or naivete from men and you run the risk of hindering the development of a genuine connection. Those who are seeking a life partner instead of just a physical connection show up differently. These are the men who are willing to ask deeper questions than the standard, “How was your day?” They are the ones who hear you when you describe your values and life dreams. They are the ones who reflect on how they can improve life with you instead of shirking responsibilities. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to shift out of short-term mating strategies and embrace getting to know someone on a deeper level. Let’s talk about…Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common Emotionally wounded men look to online dating apps to find women who will act like therapists. These men *think* they just need to find the right woman and their wounds will heal but we all know that’s unrealistic. Let me remind you that no one can do this healing work for you. Ultimately you have to love yourself first, enough to find therapies that help you heal before opening yourself up to another person. Two broken people don’t heal each other; they pull each other under because they don’t know any better. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to shift from transactional relationships to emotionally mature relationships where values and lifestyles blend easily. Let’s talk about…Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends