What Would Love Do?

It’s Not Your Looks Men Fall In Love With, It’s THIS Let’s be real…looks absolutely play a part in being attracted to someone. Who catches your eye in person or while scrolling apps? The attractive guy. But looks only open the door to getting to know a person better. After that initial first meeting, getting to know that person’s values and inner workings is what becomes important. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can make our relationships stronger by focusing on the great things about our partners. Let’s talk about…It’s Not Your Looks Men Fall In Love With, It’s THIS Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Who Fear Commitment Rarely Reveal THIS I’m joined today by my friend Bob Grant from Relationship Headquarters, who also has 20 years in the relationship sphere under his belt and we’re talking about why the most obnoxious men make such a lasting impact on women. One note: not ALL men are obnoxious; there really are good guys out there whose values and dreams align with yours. Yet all the players seem to get the most attention and then women complain about why they never meet the ‘good guys’. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why some men are gun shy to committing to a woman, especially after a significant relationship ends. Let’s talk about…Men Who Fear Commitment Rarely Reveal THIS Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

The BIG Lie About Sex Men Don’t Want You To Know When it comes to discussing sex, men and women are often at opposite corners. Men often look at sex as a way to connect whereas women often need a connection BEFORE having sex. So, how do we meet in the middle, especially if we’re looking for a meaningful relationship and not a one-night stand? Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to encourage emotional and intellectual intimacy over chemistry. Let’s talk about…The BIG Lie About Sex Men Don’t Want You To Know Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

A Man Who Shares Your Values Still Might Not Do THIS If you want to attract a man with the same values, it’s imperative that YOU know and understand your own value system. Otherwise, how will you recognize a guy who’s on the same page as you? Also, just because WE think we’re good at something – such as communication – doesn’t mean our partner will agree, especially early on in the dating process. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to discover value systems with a partner and how to improve communication. Let’s talk about…A Man Who Shares Your Values Still Might Not Do THIS Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

When A Man Does THESE 4 Things, You’re In A Healthy Relationship This week Paula & I are sharing some of our own experiences and feelings about healthy relationships. As you listen, reflect on your own relationship and if your guy does these 4 things that we reveal. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways couples can be attentive and present in relationships. Let’s talk about…When A Man Does THESE 4 Things, You’re In A Healthy Relationship Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

THIS Activity Will Instantly Bond A Man To You We all have ideas of what being in love will feel like but how do we really KNOW until we’re in love? These fantasies get stuck in our heads but when the real thing comes along, oh how wonderful it is! Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to connect and feel deeper emotions with your partner. Let’s talk about…THIS Activity Will Instantly Bond A Man To You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Do Some Men Expect To Split The Bill On A First Date? If you’re going out with someone for the first time, why do we call this a date? Seems to me like this is a meeting to decide if you both want to put in the time to date. And why do we still have the expectation that whoever asks for the date should be the one paying? Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why women expect men to pay for dates even though many midlifers live on a fixed income. Let’s talk about…Why Do Some Men Expect To Split The Bill On A First Date? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Say THESE Things and A Man Will Quickly Bond With You We say communication is the basis of a healthy relationship, but what does that really mean? Communication – or discourse – is more than just asking how was your day. We’re talking about getting deeper and having a curiosity about our beliefs and how our belief system came to be. Being curious about how the other person thinks and also being vulnerable enough to answer these questions honestly can raise a relationship to a higher level. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways you can have meaningful discourse with your partner that makes every conversation interesting. Let’s talk about…Say THESE Things and A Man Will Quickly Bond With You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Don’t Care About The Perfect Looking Woman… They Want THIS All of us have some level of insecurity about our looks. Sometimes that follows us from childhood or we develop insecurities from previous adult relationships. But are perfect looks as important in midlife? Sure, we want to be attracted to our partner but looks is only the first level of attraction. Getting to know someone on a deeper level will help you develop a more solid foundation for a relationship. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why searching for perfect looks can prevent you from finding the man of your dreams. Let’s talk about…Men Don’t Care About The Perfect Looking Woman… They Want THIS Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Will THIS Cause Men To Step Up Emotionally? Is being with your partner sweeter than your solitude? That’s a question that everyone should ask themselves throughout the dating process. Instead, so many people are super-focused on finding love and having chemistry with their partners. But what happens when you think about your partner in a neutral light? Is being with this person better than being alone? Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can protect our peace and solitude while also exploring a new relationship. Let’s talk about…Will THIS Cause Men To Step Up Emotionally? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Let's explore the DEEPER ways we can connect with our partners and promote better communication.

Today I'm sharing my 3-2-1-3 advice about how long it should take before meeting someone in person.

Let's explore the DEEPER answers about what constitutes cheating and how to make strong communication a pillar of your relationship.

Let's explore the DEEPER ways women differentiate between a relationship and 'having a boyfriend' and what spurs women to minimize relationships.

Let's explore the DEEPER reasons why casual relationships seem to be more popular than serious relationships in today's dating world.

Let's explore the DEEPER reasons midlife adults have difficulty communicating and defining what type of relationship they want.

Let's explore the DEEPER differences between those who are searching for a fantasy woman and those who are committed to commitment.

Let's explore the DEEPER ways to create clarity about what values are important to you in a relationship and how to communicate those to your partner.

Let's explore the DEEPER ways we can recognize our own shortcomings in finding love and how to change our outlook instead of placing blame on others.

Let's explore the DEEPER ways you can develop a connection via strong communication and a willingness to dive deep into your thoughts and feelings.

Let's explore the DEEPER meaning of being 'all in' in a relationship and what that means emotionally.

THIS Texting Method Will Ruin Your Love Life Texting was NOT designed to build intimacy. It was meant for giving directions and quick answers to questions. And yet many people default to using texting as a way to connect with others. Is this really a desire to connect or is it avoiding the eye contact […]

The First Kiss Is More Dangerous Than Sex Have you ever watched the movie Pretty Woman? In the movie, Julia Roberts (playing a sex worker) draws a boundary about no kissing because that’s too intimate whereas having sex with her clients was not on the same level. Somehow kissing has been demoted over time from […]

Most Men Are Scared To Face Calm Love So many of us equate chaos with connection. We believe that falling in love equals intensity and chemistry. And it’s easy to mistake adrenaline for intimacy. What would happen if you settled into love? In this case, you’re not “settling” in terms of lowering your standards for […]

How to Spot a Man in Love Many emotionally wounded people seek out (unintentionally) other wounded people and their bond is often mistaken for love. This type of foundation doesn’t usually work out for a multitude of reasons. In this episode I’m sharing some personal stories and sharing – from MY perspective – how love […]

5 Ways to Spot a Cheater I’m binge watching the series Mad Men, which is set in the 1960s and the main character is the definition of a player. The amount of workplace infidelity and the casualness of it all was surprising at first but then I realized this is a human problem that still […]

New Rules For Dating: Verify THIS Before You Trust We’re talking about a very important topic today: Romance Cons. In today’s AI world and with how popular dating apps have become, it’s more important than ever to protect yourself and your bank accounts from unscrupulous con artists who will pretend to love you but only […]

If He Goes Silent, He Might Really Need THIS Do men chase a fully committed relationship or are they chasing sex? Or are midlife men looking for companionship and connection without a permanent commitment? All of these things are possible in the midlife dating pool but men and women both can get caught up in […]

Every Man Needs THIS Before Fully Committing To You When was the last time you were in a healthy, heart-centered relationship? You probably only remember those unhealthy relationships, yet so often we repeat the same cycles. Falling in love is often based on lust or limerence and that is certainly a fun experience. But is […]

Men Respect Women Who Do THIS First Have you ever been on a date where the other person only talks about themselves? Or they are so focused on giving you the ‘right’ answers to your questions that they don’t ask any questions of you? Being present is a big sign of respect IMO. Showing an […]

How to Tell If It’s Real Love or Just a Chemical Crush Have you experienced ‘love bombing’? Mostly women have this experience of receiving exaggerated feelings of love, often spurred by lust or limerence. Love bombing might feel good at first but it’s not an indication of true feelings. Lust is all about wanting to […]

Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless? One of the most powerful things about being a human is that we have choices to make in every aspect of our lives. If you’re feeling hopeless about dating, I invite you to make a choice about how much negativity you watch or listen to online. Everyone has an […]

Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice In this episode I’m helping a listener, Jay, who wants to have a loving, long term relationship but feels his time is running out to find that special woman. We talk about the ways he ‘puts himself out there,’ how he socializes, and what his experiences with […]

Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally? Why can’t we keep the honeymoon phase of a new relationship going longer? Why do we seem to fall into a trap of having this phase and these feelings for only a short time before “real life” sets in? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what […]

Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success In today’s world, women are able to take care of themselves financially. Gone are the days of the 1950s when women couldn’t buy their own home or get a credit card in their own name. With this empowerment, it’s no surprise that women are also more vocal about […]

Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life? Psychics are not all created equally. Some do care about their clients and will use their intuition for good and others will give random answers just to make a buck. However, it’s less about the accuracy of the psychic and more about the willingness to be honest about […]

If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love What types of men are you finding out in the dating world? Are they looking for a long-term commitment? Or are they just looking to fill a temporary void in their lives? There are 3 general categories that people fall into when it […]

Dating Is Hard, But Love Is Easy The whole dating process has changed considerably over the years and you’d think with the advent of dating apps, that dating would be easier, right? Dating is hard, I’m not going to sugar coat it. But so is losing weight or quitting smoking and I think we can […]

Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love I’m pleased to have my friend, author and life coach Marni Battista, on this episode today and we’re here to share a secret… There are good men to date all around you. There’s no secret island where they’re all kept. They are not in fear of […]

Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring Insecure love often feels like a roller coaster, with plenty of highs and lows. Healthy love is steady and safe, like floating on a still pond. Without drama and emotional turmoil, healthy love might feel boring, especially if you have bought into the idea that intense chemistry equals […]

9 Keys to an Intentional Approach to Love How many times in the past have you experienced taking your partner for granted? Or maybe it was reversed, where you thought your partner was just along for a ride instead of really deepening your relationship. Being intentional is how you will find the partner and relationship […]

5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns a Man On Think back to your childhood. I bet you were raised with the traditional gender roles of the men are hunters and the women are nurturers. Also included in that narrative was the idea that men shouldn’t show emotions or they would be labeled a ‘sissy’. When […]

If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment Dating is about possibility and exploring a relationship is about potential. So many people focus on the level of attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical attraction while dating instead of thinking about the possibility of having a relationship with this person. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about […]

What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You Today I’m joined by my dear friend, Bob Grant, and we’re chatting about men’s behavior and how they act in different stages of a relationship. For example, some men come across as very intense at the beginning of a relationship, which can lead to love bombing […]

Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why How can you create a long lasting relationship when you don’t necessarily trust yourself? Your chances are much better if you do the work to heal old wounds, practice self-love, and learn how to be present in your own life. My friend Barry Selby is here to […]

How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips Communication is a key factor in having a successful and meaningful relationship yet in some ways it seems like the older we get, the less we want to share. It’s almost like we’ve barely evolved past the grunting stages of the cavemen era! Let’s have […]

Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS Both men and women in midlife are often caught in the ‘sandwich’ generation, where they get their kids out of the house and then a parent gets sick and needs attention. Or they might have a health scare themselves. Sometimes the pressure is enough to make a […]

Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women Today we’re revisiting the Kiss-cam seen around the world, where a cheating couple was caught on camera at a Coldplay concert. There was plenty of blame going around when the news broke but we’re going to dive into who cheats more and why. Are men always […]

7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love Let’s be real…guys have their “locker room talk” about their sexual escapades. Maybe you’ve only seen it depicted in movies or on TV but it’s true. Sex for most single guys is just something fun that anyone can do. But when an emotional connection […]

High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth Many men are “flying blind” in the dating world. Not because they’re stupid or clueless but because they were never taught about emotional clarity. But do we really need to settle for guys who keep swiping aimlessly and strike up conversations hoping that something […]