What Your Dad Didn't Teach You

Daan, a midget story, Tucker Max., hookups, OnlyFans, and why guys fall for fake online relationships.

What happens when you get good with women… but it stops improving your life? Niels and I dives into addiction to game, emotional instability, and the plateau most guys hit. We also unpack “aura,” why basics beat fancy tactics, and what high-level men actually look for. Oh and we shit on Bali a little.

In this episode we talk about brutal honesty between friends, identity traps, and why many successful men unknowingly sabotage their dating life.

She directed porn for a decade for big brands like Playboy and Penthouse. Now she edits Love Island. We break down attraction, rejection, fame, and why very hot people struggle with connection.

We unpack how social proof spreads, why women compete socially too, and how “local stardom” is the ultimate hack to get women.

I'm joined by Rose, a woman with endless options, to break down 9 male behaviors that kill attraction. Behaviors that lots of men exhibit without realising it.

Cole Hastings explains how identity shapes (dating) success. We unpack why men feel disconnected, how modern culture worsens it, and what worked for Cole.https://www.youtube.com/colehastingshttps://www.instagram.com/colehastings_/?hl=en

Niels and I accidentally end up as groomsmen in a Dubai wedding… for a guy I had never met. From napkin-swinging Arab dances to the groom’s secret hot sister, lore was farmed. We break down awkward approaches, the “May I meet you?” meme opener, and why most men misread rejection completely.Find Niels here: https://www.instagram.com/nielsthelawyer/

Former forensic psychologist turned fashion influencer Tinevcb breaks down men’s style from the female POV. We dig into the easiest fashion wins, the biggest mistakes, and how women judge your outfits. Sweatpants, underwear, jewelry, gym wear, ... This episode is going to make you see fashion in a completely new light.Tine's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tinvcb/Jacob Elordi picture: https://media.gq.com/photos/6650a54703b00c78e4da94a3/2:3/w_1800,h_2700,c_limit/Elordi-Bottega.jpg

Seth went from chaos, to prison, to peace. And in the process he finally met himself. We talk fear, freedom, and what it really means to be authentic.

Updates from the client with the racist girlfriend, Julius' open marriage, and Daan's throuple. PLUS, Daan and I discuss why some flirty convos die friendly and others turn electric, what you can learn from Love Island & Love Is Blind, and last but not least: libido past 30.To level up your dating life, hop on a free call with us: https://www.textgod.com/schedule-call

Imagine being 29, terrified of women, and shaking so hard you can’t hold your phone. Now imagine becoming the guy girls chase with their moms cheering in the background. This isn’t a fairytale, it’s the messy, hilarious evolution of a man who rebuilt himself one awkward compliment at a time.

Why is it always easier to seduce women anywhere that isn't where you live? Niels and I discuss the easiest, the hardest, and the best places to meet women. We cover Amsterdam, Bali, Munich, Helsinki, Brazil, Colombia, Thailand, Kiev, and many more.–––⚡Hop on a free call: https://www.textgod.com/schedule-call⚡The 10 Texts That Always Work (FREE): http://textgod.com/bonus-ten-texts-that-always-work/⚡ Niels' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nielsthelawyer/

Everyone preaches “be authentic.” But what if your authentic self is timid, boring, or straight-up unattractive? Niels and I break down when being yourself works, when it doesn’t, and how to level up without turning fake.–––⚡Hop on a free call: https://www.textgod.com/schedule-call⚡The 10 Texts That Always Work (FREE): http://textgod.com/bonus-ten-texts-that-always-work/⚡ Niels' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nielsthelawyer/

Today I am reading to you. Two short texts I wrote on my beef with virgins. And one bonus beef with "nice guys". Enjoy x

Thinking of dating younger women? Louis and Dan share uncensored stories, hard-earned lessons, and insights about what makes younger women attracted (and what instantly kills it)

After coaching him into a thriving dating life, one client came back with the craziest problem I’ve ever heard. His dream girl tells him he's perfect for her... Great dates, daily 3-hour calls, deep connection… but zero sex for a WILD reason. Daan and I dive into the screenshots, the laughs, and the hard truth of what he should do next.

What happens when you match two best friends… and they both want you? In this episode, TextGod coach Daan walks us through his summer in a throuple. The wild vacations, family freakouts, social pranks, and the moment his girlfriends faked a fight just to see if he’d cheat.

What happens when a guy tries to cockblock you by paying your bill? What if the secret to getting laid is being called a weirdo? And what if your type is ruining your love life? In today's episode you get three short dating stories.

In this episode, we go unfiltered on what actually happens when you open things up: the jealousy, the self-doubt, the sex, the identity crisis, and potential for infinite growth. You’ll hear what works, what often blows up, and what most guys get wrong. If you’re wondering whether you should ever open your relationship, this episode will help you find your answer.

When Justin got ghosted, his inner villain came out... and Operation Catfish began. Please sit back and relax the two dating adventures in this story telling episode.

“I don’t feel the chemistry.” That’s what two of my coaching clients kept hearing from women. Even though they are smart and successful. In this episode, coach Justin and I break down the 6 things that create sexual attraction on a date... and why most guys accidentally bomb it.

Imagine pouring your heart out to your friends about getting a girl back… while they secretly know she just had a foursome on the beach. That’s where Justin started. What follows is a wild arc of failure, confusion, fake “alpha” advice, and eventually finding something that worked. Meet TextGod dating coach Justin.

This one’s not really about porn. It’s about the quiet shame loop guys don't get talk about. It's about feeling disconnected, weird around sex, numb even when you’re with someone. Nate explains how it happens, why your body doesn’t trust you, and how to flip things back around again.You can set up a free consultation call with to Nate here

Phillip runs the biggest copywriting academy in Europe but he doesn't sit in an office. He flies around the globe, making money and meeting women. And today, this semi hippie semi capitalist gives you a peek behind his curtains.

Joey told every girl: “I’m dating three others. You okay with that?" And most said yes. This episode breaks down how honesty gave him power in the world of nonmonogamy.

Kenneth was one of our most active dating coaches. Nonstop dates and new girls every week. Today he has a girlfriend, three-hour calls, and withdrawal symptoms from not being in the game. In this episode, we unpack what it really feels like to go from player to partner. The validation, the overthinking, the porn, and the growth.

What happens when a dating coach goes full savage post-breakup? Bumble blew up. Girls got wild. And coach Daan is here to share the stories.

Ever feel like you have to prove your value every time you open your mouth? Whether it’s in convos, work, or flirting... this episode will smack you out of that habit. We break down the mindset shift that lets you speak freely, drop the performance, and stop chasing reactions.

5'4" and pulling girls most guys dream of. Joey’s story isn’t just a win for short dudes, it’s a blueprint for anyone who's ever felt “not enough.”

Love isn’t enough. In this episode, dating coach Daan De Ram shares why he ended his relationship while still in love, how men sabotage intimacy, and why most guys can’t actually handle real emotional closeness.

I sit down with my therapist Dave Wright, a hypnotherapist from Amsterdam. Dave helps me unpack the real reason most men feel stuck in dating... and in life. We dive into self-rejection, emotional triggers, setting boundaries, and how to finally feel like you’re enough.

Ramses was one of those guys. Charming, confident, dating like it was a sport. Until he fell in love. What followed was five years of passion, denial, emotional decline, and physical symptoms that doctors couldn’t explain. In this unfiltered episode, he shares what it really looks like to get lost in a relationship that seems amazing on the outside… and how he slowly found his way back.

It’s not about your looks. It’s not about your lines. It's something deeper, and it’s been steering your dating life for years. Dating coach for women Mathijs joins Louis and together they pull back the curtain on what's REALLY been holding you back.

You wanted more real-life stories, so here we go. In this episode, my close friend Niels and I share some of our wilder dating experiences. The kind of stuff that happens when you actually get good at the game. No theory, no over-explaining, just raw, unfiltered stories straight from real life. Enjoy!

Most guys stay stuck in the beginner or intermediate stage of dating because they keep making the same mistakes. Some never escape them. In this episode, we break down the most common beginner and intermediate mistakes. We’ll show you what’s keeping you stuck and how to break free, and burst through to the next level.

Is it time to move on, or are you just addicted to the chase? We discuss the emotional rollercoaster of high-level game, why some guys struggle to settle down, and the mental battles that come with shifting from short-term excitement to long-term fulfillment.

Think you’re just dating? Think again. Women test men in ways you don’t even realize, fake breakups, emotional swings, and subtle challenges designed to reveal who you really are. Are you a leader or a pushover? A confident man or a try-hard simp? Alyne is back to break down the hidden rules of attraction, what women are really looking for, and why most men fail the test before they even know it’s happening.

You know that gut-punch moment when an approach flops, the vibe’s off, and you’re ready to call it a night? Most guys tap out. Ram didn’t. And that’s where things got interesting. From brutal rejections to ridiculous wins, we break down why sticking it out—just one more time—can change everything. If you’ve ever felt like quitting, this episode might just change your mind.

Boxing, improv, and risk-taking... how much do hobbies matter in your dating journey? In this episode, we break down the skills that boost your attraction and expose the hobbies that don’t. Plus, guitar vs. surfboard: which one wins? Find out in this sequel to 'Hobbies That Make You A Better Man'

Some hobbies make you stronger, more confident, and naturally more attractive—others, well… not so much. In this episode, we debate which hobbies actually help you in life and dating, why certain skills make a difference, and whether gaming, salsa, or fixing a sink gets you more points. Plus, we get into why having just a little bit of "gay energy" might actually work in your favor.

Alyne shares why nerds who work out might just be the ultimate relationship hack. We discuss the allure of intelligence, emotional depth, and how to strike a balance between confidence and vulnerability in dating.

What really pulls people in? Bryan's journey takes him from a work-obsessed, socially unsure guy to someone who gets what makes women click. We dive into the unexpected traits that skyrocket your appeal and why doubling down on playfulness might just be your unfair advantage in the dating game.

Re-entering the dating scene? It can be daunting, unpredictable, and even frustrating at times. In this episode, Bryan shares how he transformed from newly divorced to the confident, self-assured man who calls the shots and chooses his connections on his terms. We dive into relatable challenges and surprising lessons that can transform your approach to relationships.

Are men and women just chasing status, money, and looks? In this this episode, join Niels and I as we challenge Red Pill narratives, explore phases of life and love, and asks why so many are drawn to surface-level attraction instead of genuine connection.

Not sure where to meet amazing women? My guest Dan and I have done the research for you! With humor, honesty, and a touch of science, we reveal the top five environments for meeting women and share the do’s, don’ts, and unexpected surprises of each setting.

Ever thought you had it all figured out, only to realize you were wrong? This episode dives into the humbling moments that teach us the most. Niels Paul and I talk about overconfidence, failures in dating and fighting, and how these lessons have shaped us. Whether you’re stepping into the ring or navigating relationships, this episode is packed with insights on growth and resilience.

Feeling overwhelmed by conflicting dating advice? In this episode, Louis Farfields and Daan De Ram break down the concept of bottlenecks in dating. Discover how to identify what’s holding you back and where to focus your energy to see results fast.

In this episode, Louis Farfields is joined by friend and dating coach Niels Paul as they unpack the 'Value Ceiling Theory'—a new perspective on why people often settle in relationships. They share personal stories, psychological insights, and practical takeaways for navigating dating and self-esteem.

Rejection hurts, but it also fuels transformation. In this episode, we share personal stories of overcoming dating struggles, the power of persistence, and how to channel pain into progress.