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What's A Good Guy?
by What's A Good Guy?
What's A Good Guy Podcast Airing Every Monday. Where Don P & Lashawn discuss multiple topics from relationships to current events in hopes to figure out what exactly is a good guy. Two Guys, Two perspectives, One objective!To stay updated, follow us on social mediaTwitter: @whatsagoodguyInstagram: @whatsagoodguyFacebook Page: @whatsagoodguyAlso follow us individually Don PTwitter & Instagram: @donpeezlyLATwitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/whats-a-good-guy/support
Episodes
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Episode 368: The Final Episode Of What's A Good Guy?
After 8 years, 360+ episodes, and countless personal sacrifices, this conversation asks one of the hardest questions any creator can face: when is it time to walk away? In this raw and emotional episode of What's A Good Guy, the guys unpack the real cost of oversharing, creative burnout, unmet...
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Episode 366: Multiple Hats
What happens when passion turns into pressure? In this episode of What's A Good Guy, we break down the real cost of wearing multiple hats as a creator, entrepreneur, and business owner — the burnout, the identity struggle, and the quiet pressure no one talks about. This conversation starts with a...
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Episode 365: Too Cool For School
Being called "nonchalant" can feel like an insult — but what if it's actually a symptom, not the problem? In this episode of What's A Good Guy, the guys unpack the real meaning behind being labeled too cool for school, emotionally unavailable, or "nonchalant" in modern relationships. They dive…
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Episode 364: No Contact
How do you really heal after a breakup? What happens when "no contact" becomes the only option — not because you want it, but because it's the only way to protect your sanity? In this raw and vulnerable episode, the guys break down the truth about no contact — the confusion, the emotional waves,...
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Episode 362: Back In My Day
"Back in my day, we didn't do that…" You've heard it. Maybe you say it. But what if your nostalgia is lying to you? In this episode of What's A Good Guy, the guys break down the dangerous comfort of living in the past — from "back in my day" speeches to people who secretly peaked in high school…
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Episode 359: You're Not Giving Me Enough
When someone tells you, "You're not giving me enough," are they wilding… or are you actually coasting? In this raw, hilarious and honest episode of What's A Good Guy, Don and LA break down what it really means to ask for more in relationships—more effort, more enthusiasm, more honesty, more of…
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Episode 357: Note To Self
This episode is your "Note to Self" toolkit—the simple, repeatable mental reminders that keep you steady through the day, week, month, and year. We break down self-talk scripts, rest vs. laziness, journaling cues, priority setting, and how to ask for help—so you can move from overwhelm to…
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Episode 356: Birth Order Executive Produced By T-Smooth
Are you the firstborn "trial run," the middle mediator, or the youngest free spirit? In this episode of What's A Good Guy, we unpack how birth order can shape your personality, habits, and relationships—from responsibility and independence to communication, boundaries, and even who parents…
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Episode 355: Get That Knot Out
In this episode of What's A Good Guy, the crew dives into the emotional "knots" we carry — unresolved beefs, old friendships, unspoken issues, pride, ego, and the way unhealed situations still control our reactions years later. Inspired by physical therapy and "getting the knots out," this...
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Episode 353: Feed My Ego
Do men really just want their ego fed—or is it deeper? In this episode of What's A Good Guy, Don & La unpack what "feed my ego" really means for men, how appreciation fuels commitment, and where the line is between healthy encouragement and manipulation. Using our "Rose–Bud–Thorn" check-in, we...
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Episode 352: Pain Tolerance
We all say "I'm good" when we're not. But what happens when you keep letting people stretch you past your breaking point? In this episode of What's A Good Guy, we explore how pain tolerance—both physical and emotional—affects relationships, communication, and mental health. From a hilarious story...
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Episode 350: Functional Freeze
Are you stuck in a functional freeze? In this episode we explore what it really means to be in a freeze response to stress, how to spot the signs, and most importantly, how to overcome functional freeze. We talk about the nervous system, burnout, and why being "functional" doesn't always mean...
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Episode 348: The Commute
In this episode of What's A Good Guy, we dive deep into the journey of self improvement—the commute of life. From reroutes and setbacks to discipline and delayed gratification, we explore how to balance faith, purpose, and perseverance while chasing growth. We share stories about life-altering...
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Episode 347: The Woman I Need Featuring YP
Dating while successful podcast episode! We dive into dating as a creative, the tension between standards vs settling, and why relationship advice for men is different when success changes the game. If you're balancing career and relationships, this is for you. When your career takes off, your…
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Episode 345: Stagnant Can't Be The Word
YP's Journey to Success: From the Bronx to Global Stages | What's Good Podcast #YoungPrince #whatsagoodguy #motivationalstory Join us on the What's Good Podcast as we sit down with Young Prince (YP), the dynamic host taking the world by storm! From his roots in the Bronx to hosting at Madison...
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Episode 343: Mute, Block and Unfollow Executive Produced By SkipFromBK
In this episode of What's A Good Guy?, produced by SkipFromBk, Don and LA dive deep into the unspoken rules of social media boundaries. We ask the tough questions: What makes you mute, block, or unfollow someone? Do you take offense when it happens to you? Is it about jealousy, insecurity…
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Episode 342: The Art Or The Bread
Passion vs Profit: Should Art Be for Love or Money? Should you create for the love of art or chase profit?:🎨💰In this episode of What's A Good Guy?, Don, Kojo, and LA dive into the passion vs profit debate—a conversation every creative, entrepreneur, and dreamer faces. The discussion kicks off...
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In The Real World Episode 8: Tone Police
Does tone matter more than words in communication? We've all heard it: "It's not what you said, it's how you said it." But is that really true? In this episode of What's A Good Guy? podcast, we explore how tone, delivery, and energy can completely change the meaning of your words. From heated...
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Episode 341: The Spark
Does a great relationship require that instant spark—or is true love built slowly over time? In this episode, we dive deep into the myths of attraction, chemistry, and how relationships really grow. From the excitement of butterflies to the security of a slow burn, we explore why so many people...
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My X Showed Me Episode 2: MMM (Mental, Money, Marriage)
This week, we dive into four viral posts that had the internet talking — and we break down the deeper conversations behind them. From unconditional love during mental health battles, to hidden opportunities stolen by the people closest to us, to the hard truth about inflation and financial...
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Episode 340: Being Intentional
In this episode, the guys dive into what it truly means to move with intention. From dating to friendships to personal growth — being intentional brings clarity, but it also comes with its own set of challenges. We explore the beauty of being clear about what you want and consistent in your…
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Episode 339: You're Never Too Old
Episode 339 of What's A Good Guy challenges the myth that your time has passed. In this honest and energizing conversation, we explore why society makes people feel like there's an expiration date on their dreams. Whether you're in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond — this episode is your reminder…
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Episode 338: Can't Have The Cake And Eat It Too
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Episode 337: Hood Rich Executive Produced by T Smooth
we tap into a topic that hits close to home — the "hood rich" mentality. Inspired by a thought-provoking message from our Executive Producer T-Smooth, we explore why some people still live in the projects while pulling up in luxury cars and wearing designer head to toe. Is it really about status…
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Episode 336: Be A Man Featuring Myles
After seven years, Myles returns to What's A Good Guy, and the growth is undeniable. In this powerful episode, we reflect on who Myles was then versus who he is now—a father, a man of deeper principles, and someone who's learned what it truly means to be a man. We dive into loyalty, morals, and...
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Episode 335: No Bad Blood
In this episode, the guys dive into what it really means to leave situations—jobs, relationships, or friendships—without bitterness. Inspired by Don's personal story of being let go from PBS only to be offered his position back later, this conversation unpacks the power of handling setbacks with...
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Episode 333: Who Are You Really? Featuring Vic
Who are you when no one's watching? And more importantly — are you comfortable with the answer? In this episode of What's A Good Guy?, we're joined by the multi-hyphenate himself — Vic: fashion designer, stylist, basketball referee, teacher of life, dean, devoted partner, and part of the…
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Episode 332: Comfort Zone
In this episode of What's A Good Guy?, the guys reflect on their latest Sunday adventure at Burgers & Bottles, where Lashawn surprised everyone by stepping out of his comfort zone and becoming the life of the party. As he navigated socializing and attracting plenty of attention, the crew dives…
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Episode 331: Slow Burn
Not every connection starts with sparks flying — some take time to heat up. In this episode of What's A Good Guy?, we explore the concept of a slow burn in dating: What does it mean to be one? What adjustments does it take to date someone who moves at a different pace? And what happens when…
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Episode 330: Where Are You Meeting Them?
We kick off this episode answering Bri's question: "Where are you meeting women these days?" That opens the door to a full conversation on how dating has changed — where men meet women, how we approach them, and whether real effort still matters in today's world. Then Kojo takes it deeper —...
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Episode 329: Know Your Privilege
This week on What's A Good Guy?, Quanny's still not letting Justin off the hook. After watching Forever on Netflix, he makes the case that Justin needs to recognize the privilege he was operating from — even if it wasn't loud, it was still real. That sparks a deeper conversation: Do people…
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Episode 328: You're A Bum Forever {Patreon Preview}
We watched Netflix's Forever… and let's just say, things got heated. Justin & Keisha's relationship? Justin's decision to skip school? His mom vs. dad's parenting styles? Quanny calling Justin a bum? Yeah… that turned into a full-blown debate on how we'd handle things if Justin was our son. The...
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Episode 327: Applying Pressure
This week on What's A Good Guy?, we're talking about the art — and the risk — of applying pressure when you're pursuing someone. Is there a fine line between showing genuine interest and begging for attention? Can consistency still look desperate in the wrong context? The guys open up about how...
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In The Real World Episode 5: Nobody Is Going To Save You
This week on What's A Good Guy?, we're switching things up. While the guys weren't able to record, we're publicly releasing a Patreon-exclusive episode from our bonus series: The Real World, hosted by Quanny. If you're new here, The Real World is where Quanny challenges social norms and calls it...
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Episode 326: Standing On Business
This week on What's A Good Guy?, Lashawn opens up about a week full of standing on business — whether it was handling professional moves, responding to 3 a.m. text messages, or dealing with someone who ghosted him suddenly spinning the block. The conversation takes a deeper turn when Kojo shares...
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Episode 325: My Muse
In this preview of Episode 325: My Muse, Kojo, Lashawn, and Don go back and forth over one of the most complicated creative inspirations we've seen: love. Dane opens up to Lashawn about how a new romantic connection pushed his creativity to new heights — but there's a twist. The muse? She's the...
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Episode 324: Negotiating With Grief
In this episode of What's A Good Guy?, we dive deep into the unspoken battle between logic and emotion — the true negotiation happening inside all of us. Inspired by Chris Voss' book Never Split the Difference, we explore how tactical empathy — not logic — became the FBI's greatest weapon against...
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Episode 323: My Own Worst Enemy
In this episode of the podcast, Don opens up about the palpable tension he feels in his workplace, grappling with the uncertainty of whether it's a product of his own overthinking or an actual issue at play. He reflects on the struggle of being his own worst enemy, caught in a cycle of self-doubt...
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Episode 322: Keep It To Yourself
Episode 322: Keep It to Yourself In this episode, Don leads a conversation on the power of privacy and the moments when saying less might actually mean more. From what people confide in you, to what you choose to share with your partner—we dive into the boundaries of oversharing, emotional...
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Episode 320: Red and Green Theory
In this episode, Kojo introduces his "Red and Green Theory," a concept that helps us reflect on how we categorize people in our lives—green meaning safe and aligned, red meaning harmful or misaligned. But what happens when someone you've placed in the green starts treating you like you're in the...
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Episode 318: Bread Crumbing
In this episode, we kick things off with a wild conversation about cheating culture. Lashawn shares a story about a coworker casually bragging about how much he cheats on his partner—leading us into a deeper conversation about the toxic patterns people normalize in relationships. That opened the...
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Episoode 317: Enough Is Enough
What happens when you reach your breaking point? In this episode, Don opens up about the moment he had to speak up for himself at work after feeling unsupported and unseen. He also reflects on the pressure of family expectations at his grandmother's 91st birthday dinner—navigating the questions...
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Episode 315: Equally Yoked
What does it really mean to be equally yoked? In this episode, we dive deep into the meaning behind this concept and how it plays out in relationships. From values to lifestyle choices, we unpack the hard truths about compatibility and alignment. LA shares his experience dating a drug dealer…
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Episode 314: 4 Agreements
In this episode, Lashawn introduces The Four Agreements, a powerful book that challenges us to reshape our mindset and approach to life. Along with the cast, we break down each agreement, discussing how they resonate with us and the ways we can apply them to our daily lives. Which agreement spoke...
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Episode 313: Sticky
Intimacy vs. Isolation – How 19-40 Shapes Success & Connection In this episode, we break down the stage of development between ages 19-40, focusing on intimacy vs. isolation—how this period defines our relationships, personal growth, and self-worth. We explore: 🔹 Success & Failure: Do we…
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Episode 312: Too Fast
In this episode, we dive into the wild turbulence of life—literally and figuratively. We kick things off with a discussion about the recent Delta flight incident that went viral and how it's got Lashawn feeling some type of way as a flight attendant. Then, we transition into the latest TikTok…
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Episode 309: The "With You" Is Silent
Episode 309: The "With You" Is Silent Eight years of What's A Good Guy—what a journey! We're celebrating in high fashion, giving flowers to the team for their new job roles, and reflecting on how far we've come. Then, we dive into the hot topics: Anthony Edwards openly tells a woman he doesn't…
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Episode 308: Montoya!!!!!!
Episode 308: "Montoya!!!!" In this episode, we're diving into revenge, forgiveness, and knowing when to let things go—or double down. We start with 50 Cent's viral posts about Irv Gotti, Big Meech, and Lil Meech. Were his posts distasteful, or was he completely justified in his response? Is…
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What's A Good Guy Podcast Airing Every Monday. Where Don P & Lashawn discuss multiple topics from relationships to current events in hopes to figure out what exactly is a good guy. Two Guys, Two perspectives, One objective!To stay updated, follow us on social mediaTwitter: @whatsagoodguyInstagram: @whatsagoodguyFacebook Page: @whatsagoodguyAlso follow us individually Don PTwitter & Instagram: @donpeezlyLATwitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/whats-a-good-guy/support
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