What‘s Your Position?
by Ashley Weller
SEX. Relationships. Love. Life. I want to know your opinion on these, and many more topics. I love statistics, research and all things human brain. Why we fuck, how often we masturbate, why do we cheat, why do we have children...why we don‘t have children. I sit with friends, family, educators, doctors and regular people...like you...and ask burning questions about hot button, cold shoulder, warm and wet topics. Join me and my new friends as we ask...”What‘s your position?”
Episodes
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FULL FRONTAL: FirmTech with Dr. Justin; It's Like Fitbit for Your Erections!
This week on What’s Your Position, we’re talking erections, testosterone, ancient gods, and a smart cock ring that tracks your nighttime performance. Yes, really. Ashley sits down with Dr. Elliot Justin, ER physician and founder of FirmTech, the company behind the TechRing, to unpack why…
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FULL FRONTAL: You Could Be Having Better Sex with Dr. Nicole McNichols; You’re Not Bad at Sex, You Were Undereducated
Hello Humans! Ever wondered how to take sex to the next level in your relationship? Well this episode is pure joy. 💛 I got to sit down with one of my absolute heroes, Dr. Nicole McNichols, and it somehow managed to be deeply insightful, nerdy as hell, laugh-out-loud fun, and genuinely moving all...
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FULL FRONTAL: The Day the Crying Stopped: Rae and the Beginning After Divorce
There was a time when Rae woke up every single day and cried. In the shower. In the car. Before work. After work. Sometimes for no clear reason at all. And then one day… she didn’t. In this deeply honest, brave, and beautiful episode, Rae shares what it was like to get married in her 20s, spend...
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FULL FRONTAL: Swinging from Sea to Sea; A journey around the world with two of our favorite swingers
Pack your passports and your pleasure maps because this Full Frontal we’re getting worldly. In this episode of What’s Your Position, we talk to “Hugh” and “Chris,” a married pair of digital nomads celebrating 20 years together and over a decade of consensual non-monogamy. From Colombia to...
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QUICKIE: 36 Questions for love; The research, the results and how to use them in your relationship
Ready to fall in love… scientifically? In this Quickie we dive into the famous 36 Questions That Lead to Love — the psychology-backed intimacy experiment that once made two complete strangers marry six months later. Created in 1997 by Dr. Arthur Aron, these questions have been shown to make…
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FULL FRONTAL: I was In a Cult; "Teen Mania" Survivors talk purity, brainwashing and life on the other side
In this Full Frontal with Matt and Corey—two former insiders of Teen Mania, the evangelical youth empire that packed stadiums, preached purity, and operated with the psychological control of a cult. With an estimated 10,000 cults currently active in the U.S. and cult survivors reporting PTSD at...
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QUICKIE: SCARED STIFF...Do haunted houses make you horny? Sexy Spooky Fun with WYP!
Ever wonder why haunted houses make your heart race and your jeans feel a little tighter? In this episode, we dive headfirst into the science of fear and arousal — where the line between being scared and being turned on gets deliciously blurry. We’ll explore how your amygdala, that tiny...
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QUICKIE: You're So Vain, You Probably Think This Size is About You...
ChatGPT said: In this episode of What’s Your Position?, we unzip the messy, seductive world of vanity sizing and how it quietly shapes our bodies, brains, and sex lives. From the hourglass worship of the 1940s and 50s to the waif-thin “heroin chic” of the 90s and the Instagram body of today, we...
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QUIKIE: The History of Sex Toys
On this quickie In this episode of What’s Your Position?, we take a playful, evidence-based tour through the history of sex toys — from sacred ancient objects and carved stone dildos to “respectable” medical massagers, all the way to the Bluetooth-enabled, app-controlled toys in your nightstand...
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QUICKIE: What's New In Sex Research?
Hello Humans! In this awesome, stat filled, research driven quickie we dive into some of the sex research currently shaping our world! From menstrual bloods MAGICAL healing powers to the first time we have had male broth control make it past phase 2, to research on strippers and ovulation! This…
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FULL FRONTAL: Light Bondage & Power Dynamics; How to introduce kink into your relationship with Sir Rucifer
In our first Full Frontal of Season 6 we talk to our FAVORITE BDSM sex-pert, Sir Rucifer, as he guides us on a kinky journey into gently introducing kink into your everyday routine. HE teaching Husband how to spank and teaches Ashley the "proper positions" (which we will post in our insta!). We...
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WELCOME TO SEXY SEASON 6!
IN this first episode of Season six we breakdown some amazing stats from Season 5, some listener questions, some great topics we will cover in season 6 and more! The Quickies are quicker and the Full Frontals are fewer! We introduce a new segment called "What's Bringing Your Joy?" Get ready for a...
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FULL FRONTAL: Breaking Binaries & Living OUTLOUD; With Trans activist and educator, Jessica Lynn
In this unforgettable Full Frontal of What’s Your Position, we sit down with the incomparable Jessica Lynn—international speaker, educator, and trans rights advocate whose personal story has changed laws, hearts, and minds around the world. With raw vulnerability and unapologetic brilliance,...
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FULL FRONTAL: Tales From The Sex Shops; Brick, mortar and butt-plugs
Hello Fellow Humans! For todays Full Frontal, slip into something a little more comfortable and join us for a steamy stroll through the aisles of desire. In this episode, we get intimate with “V,” a fabulous friend and fierce expert from a local California sex shop, as we uncover the surprisingly...
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CLITERALY IMPORTANT EPISODE: Full Frontal: WHAT"S IN THE BOX?!?! Arya; bringing intimacy and pleasure back into the bedroom
We are re-releasing some super important episodes to make sure you all got an earful the first time around! Be sure to check out our friends at Arya.FYI.com! Is your bedroom getting boring? Need a spice in your sex life? In this Full Frontal we are joined by Arya's own Head of Relationship...
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Afternoon Delight Part 3: Contraception Confessions; Your voices, Your choices
Welcome to part 3 of Afternoon Delight: Birth Control Chronicles! We’ve talked about the facts, we’ve broken down the methods, but now—it’s time to dive deep into REAL stories from YOU, our incredible listeners. 🫶 Over 10 submissions came through when I asked for your stories, and I was...
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Afternoon Delight Part 2: Hormonal Birth Control; From IUD's to poppin pills
We’re BACK, baby! 💃 If you thought we covered it all in Afternoon Delight Part 1, think again—because birth control comes in many forms, and we’re breaking them all down. Whether you’re popping a pill, slapping on a patch, or letting the ring do its thing, we’ve got the facts, the history, and…
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Full Frontal: Backwards Bordello; Kink, Burlesque and Queer Spaces
Hello Fellow Humans! Get ready to crank up the fun and kink factor at Backwards Bordelo! Join us for a playful romp through LA’s most outrageous queer kink event, hosted by the fabulous Carter—your guide to everything quirky, sexy, and delightfully subversive. 😘✨ In this episode, we celebrate...
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Full Frontal: Do You Do It Yourself? We talk all things Masturbation with Dr Eric Sprankle!
HELLO FELLOW SELF-LOVING HUMANS! Do we have a TREAT for you! After stalking his Instagram for YEARS, pre-ordering a signed copy of his book "DIY: The Wonderfully Weird History and Science of Masturbation" I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with the incredible Dr. Eric Sprankle—a sex...
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Afternoon Delight Part 1: Non-hormonal Birth Control; Wrap it, snip it, watch it, pull it
🎙️ EPISODE TITLE: "No Hormones? No Problem! 🔥 Non-Hormonal Birth Control 101" Episode Synopsis: No hormones? No Problem! In this first part of an all new Afternoon Delight series, w break down all forms of non-hormonal options for making love, without making babies love options. We love options...
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Quickie: Oral Extravaganza!
Hello Humans! In this quickie, we discuss all things fellatio and cunnalinugus! We go down on some amazing stats and give you awesome tips for better oral, including positions, topics to discuss with your partners, and ways to ensure everyone feels good! We tell some fun stories about oral sex,...
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FULL FRONTAL: The Courtship Gap with Dr. Dave Pincus
Ever find yourself wondering why men are still expected to pop the question or why dating apps feel like an endless loop of awkward encounters? Is your dating life one bad date away from becoming a monastic retreat? Trust us, you’re not alone. The dating scene is a bit of a rigged game, and we’re...
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AFTERNOON DELIGHT PT3: Creating Lasting & Meaningful Change, Gottman Style
AFTERNOON DELIGHT PART 3! How can we build healthier, happier relationships that withstand the test of time? In this episode, we delve into the groundbreaking research of Dr. John Gottman, a pioneer in understanding what makes relationships thrive. We’ll explore the infamous 'Four Horsemen' of...
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Christmas Quickie: The Naughty List Edition!
🎄🎙️ Christmas Quickie: The Naughty List Edition! 🎁🔥 Ho, ho, ho, you naughty little elves! In this festive quickie episode of What's Your Position?, we're slipping into something cozy (or maybe barely there) and unwrapping the spiciest holiday facts you didn’t know you needed. ❄️ Winter is...
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FULL FRONTAL: Ball Leash, Sapphic Playlists & Sex Dice: Athena from Arya joins us for discussions about deeper intimacy
Episode Title: Get Intimate with Athena and Arya! Hello Fellow Humans! This week on What's Your Position, we're thrilled to bring you a Full Frontal episode featuring the radiant and sultry Athena! As a product tester, playlist curator, and content creator for the oh-so-spicy Arya subscription…
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AFTERNOON DELIGHT PT2: Attachment Styles; How to deepen your relationships through self reflection
AFTERNOON DELIGHT PART 2: Ever wonder how your attachment style affects your relationships, from sparks to emotional hiccups? In this episode, we’ll dive into attachment theory and explore the four main attachment styles: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, and Fearful-Avoidant (also called Disorganized)....
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QUICKIE: Sex and Anxiety; Learning about the worlds most common disorder and how it affects our sex life
WE ARE THANK FUL FOR YOU! Enjoy this bonus episode of WYP for your long weekend of family gatherings! Ever find yourself wondering why men are still expected to pop the question or why dating apps feel like an endless loop of awkward encounters? Is your dating life one bad date away from becoming…
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AFTERNOON DELIGHT PT1: Love Languages; How to deepen your relationships through self reflection
AFTERNOON DELIGHT SERIES: We want to bring you ideas for better relationships. On part one we ask; Are the traditional five love languages still the best way to understand what we need in a relationship? According to recent studies, nearly 80% of couples who engage in each other’s primary love...
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Full Frontal: Between Butt Plugs and Bibles; Worship the Queen peasant with Sophia Domina
Hello Fellow Humans! On this episode we sat down with the captivating Sophia Domina for an in-depth, raw conversation about kink, religion, and empowerment. We dove headfirst into topics some might find shocking—like the juxtaposition of butt plugs and Bibles—and explored the complex ways…
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Quickie: Ghosts That F*ck; Incubi, Succubae and Spooky Sexual Encounters
Hello spooky Humans! Welcome to our annual Halloween episode! Did you know that in a study done on those with sleep disorders over 18% reported a sexual encounter with an unknown entity? On this years super scary episode we discuss the ghosts that haunt not just our houses, but our dreams too!...
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FULL FRONTAL: What the Hell is Ethical Porn; With the founder of Afterglow Lily!
Hello fellow humans Did you know that around 70% of humans consume some type of P*RN in their lifetime? ON today's Full Frontal we speak to Lily, the founder of XO Afterglow, an ethical sex-based media site that offers not just erotic films, but erotic classes or "Edu-p*rn"" as well as blogs…
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QUICKIE: RIP Dr. Ruth; Paying homage to a legend
On this episode of WYP we look back at the life of a legend, Dr. Ruth. Karola Ruth Siegel on June 4, 1928, in Wiesbaden, Germany, lived a life full of fascinating twists. As a Jewish child fleeing Nazi Germany, she was sent to a Swiss orphanage during WWII. Post-war, she moved to Israel and…
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FULL FRONTAL: Limitless Love with Ally Iseman; How to find your passport to pleasure
Hello Humans! In our first Full Frontal of Season 5 we sit down with Ally Iseman, owner and founder of Passport To pleasure; an expansive relationship guide that helps any couple looking to explore the concepts of ethical non-monogamy. She gives us the run down of her journey into this space and...
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Season 5 is Alive! Welcome back fellow humans!
Hello fellow Humans! We are back for season 5 of What's Your Position and boy oh boy do we have some exciting news! Check out our first episode and learn all about our new logo, and new website! We are featuring mostly in person episodes this season so if you see more "Quickies" that's why! We…
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FULL FRONTAL: We get Double Teamed with Cami and Niki: Smut, Bu** Plugs and Sun Signs
In this Full Frontal we are joined by the stars of the Podcast Double Teamed, twin sisters Cami and Niki as they share some of their wildest experiences and deepest fantasies! We talk about our shared love of smut novels and break down your sun sign into what you should be doing in the bedroom.…
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FULL FRONTAL: Hot Flashes, Hysterectomy's and Hormones; It's Menopause time! With Dr. Shyama
Hello Humans! Did you know perimenopause (the start of symptoms of menopause) begin on average in a persons early to mid 40's? Did you know that not all women get hot flashes? Did you know birth control can mitigate some symptoms of menopause/ NEITHER DID WE! In this episode we are joined again…
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FULL FRONTAL: Pour Sugar on Me and Tell Me I'm Pretty! All about the world of hair removal!
Hello humans! In this Full Frontal we have owner of Sacred Skin, Ciara Fisher, over to the studio to give us a history lesson and free armpit sugaring! We discuss the benefits, stats and go way back to Egypt to understand the longstanding desire to rip out body hair out with hot liquid. We also…
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Quickie: Over The Shoulder Boulder Holders! All about Bras!
In this quickie we visit the world of bras, the history of why we allow these torture devices in our lives and the advances in modern technology! We have some titalizing facts for you, some perky stats and some busty claims about bras during WW2! Join us as we stare directly at your...
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QUICKIE: Finding Confidence on the Pole; How pole dancing can improve your life
Hello Humans! On this quickie we talk to Erin, a former student of mine who took a pole dancing class as part of her final paper and had it change her life. We discuss how pole dancing came to be, the benefits of it not only physically, but mentally as well and we discuss the amazing humans who...
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FUUL FRONTAL: Don't Trip! How to Introduce Weed and Psychedelic's into your Sex Life with Ashley Manta!
Hello Humans! There has been a lot of talk recently about the benefits of weed and sex so we got award winning sex educator and author of The CBD Solution. We discuss so much in this episode including: Cannabis can help address the things that get in the way of pleasure, connection, and intimacy,...
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QUICKIE: All About Anal; I said what what in the butt
On this quickie we dive into all things anus and talk about butt stuff! Oral, toys, lube, positions and, of course, statistics. The butt puns are HEAVY in this bad boi, so maybe listen with headphones 😂 If you have an ass, this episodes for you!
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FULL FRONTAL: Labias, PCOS, Endometriosis & Robots; Talking all things vaginal with DR. Shyama Mathews, OBGYN
Hello Humans! On this INCREDIBLE Full Frontal we have DR. Shyama Mathews on to discuss everything you wanted to know about PCOS, endometriosis and ways to advocate for yourself and your pain! We dive into topics surrounding finding a good gyno, and her work as a robotics surgeon for numerous…
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FULL FRONTAL: Sensuality Tantra & Shibari With Jaqueline Michelle
Hello Humans! In this sexy, sensual full frontal we are joined by Jaqueline Michelle who is a Sensuality Mentor and Sensual Shibari Practitioner based in Miami, FL. She specializes in supporting women in connecting to their bodies, revolutionizing their sexuality and sensuality, and healing from...
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FULL FRONTAL: Know Your Yoni; Demystifying, destigmatizing and digging deep into Yoni massage W/ Freya Graf of Labia Lounge
In this Full Frontal, Ashley and guest Freya discusses the challenges in Yoni massage training and the lack of legitimate practitioners in the field. Freya also introduces her coaching services and her podcast, The Labia Lounge. We discuss her experiences in helping clients overcome pleasure…
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FULL FRONTAL: Playtime, Polyamory and Hot Wifeing with Front Porch Swingers
In this Full Frontal, Ashley interviews Brenna and Brian, hosts of the Front Porch Swingers podcast, about their experiences and insights into the swinging lifestyle. They discuss misconceptions about swinging, the importance of communication, and the evolution of their own swinging relationship....
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FULL FRONTAL: It Grows When You Touch It; Boners, Delay Spray and Penis Magic with Jeff from Promescent
HELLO FELLOW HUMANS! On this Full Frontal we talk with CEO of Promescent about premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and his incredible product, Delay Spray, which is an FDA clinically proven product to help people with penises make intimacy last longer. We touch on some social and...
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FULL FRONTAL: Thank You for Your Service; How to navigate sex and love in military marriages
On this Full Frontal we have Author and Relationship Coach, Courtney Boyer back on to discuss the intricacies of being married in the military. Courtney is married to a physician for the US Army and she coaches a lot of couples who have one or both persons in the military. It is this insight that...
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FULL FRONTAL: Herpes & Happiness; How to find solutions and live your life with HSV2
On this Full Frontal we speak to herpes advocate, educator and wellness specialist, Alexandra Harbushka. She has a Podcast, YouTube show and full wellness website called “Life With Herpes” where she helps others work through struggles and challenges that come with a herpes diagnosis. We discuss…
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QUICKIE: Origins of Valentines Day; From Lupercalia to Love Letters
Hello Lovers. On this quickie we breakdown the very beginnings of this love celebration known as Valentines day. We discuss crazy facts about monies spent, cards sent and the history of Galentines day. We also breakdown the Pagan festival that started it all; Lupercalia and all its bloody,...
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FULL FRONTAL: 6 Pillars to Mindful Dating; How to drop assumptions, get honest with yourself and manifest healthy relationships with Dr Marie Thouin
Hello Humans! On this episode we discuss how to cultivate a healthier relationship with dating by become more mindful in our desire, our drive, our self esteem and creating a space where we are able to date and be successful at it! Dr. Marie Thouin is a dating & relationship coach who helps folks...
About this show
SEX. Relationships. Love. Life. I want to know your opinion on these, and many more topics. I love statistics, research and all things human brain. Why we fuck, how often we masturbate, why do we cheat, why do we have children...why we don‘t have children. I sit with friends, family, educators, doctors and regular people...like you...and ask burning questions about hot button, cold shoulder, warm and wet topics. Join me and my new friends as we ask...”What‘s your position?”
Hosted by
Ashley Weller