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WHEN DOC SPEAKS🤍💋
by DOC HOLLIE
Hey Guys, It's Doc Hollie! I'm a Relationship Counselor, Love Practitioner & Advocate for Healthy Relationships living in the big state of Texas. Many of you already know me from my work in the Community and Church where I have been a servant leader and Pastoral Counselor for over 20 years. Welcome to my show, When DOC Speaks! A Podcast dedicated to Self Mastery, Finding Purpose and Growth Mindset. We discuss relationships, self care and love. Relationships are not hard, but they do require effort & consistency.Need advice, DM me on IG @whendocspeaks Be sure to subscribe, review and share.
Episodes
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Dating With Discernment: Are You Choosing… or Just Feeling?
Many people age 40+ aren’t struggling to find someone… they’re struggling to choose wisely.” Are you dating with discernment or loneliness? Are you evaluating a person’s character… or just enjoying their attention? Are you asking the right questions… or avoiding them because you like them?…
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Stop Dating Blind: The Conversations Mature Adults Must Have Before Commitment.
At 40+, we don’t have time for confusion. We should be dating with clarity, honesty, and intention. And the truth is this: The right person won’t be afraid of the conversations that lead to commitment.
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Marriage Readiness
Tune in for a Checklist of Questions to Ask before saying I do
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Men's Mental Health Awareness
Self Awareness & Self Mastery is the key. Prioritizing yourself is not selfishness. Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, also known as Men's Health Month, has been observed in June since 1994. The month was originally called National Men's Health Week and was signed into law by President Clinton....
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Singleness: Focusing on Me
Tune in to hear a few points on areas of focus while in your single journey. There is no greater time to be selfish than now by making yourself a priority.
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Soul Ties
Soul ties are not just unhealthy, there are healthy ones as well. As a Believer, I understand it is not about religion but relationship and is a spiritual connection. Tune in and listen to this podcast. Please share your thoughts with me.
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Green Flags in Dating
It is so common to look for Red Flags but if you desire a Healthy Relationships it's time to ensure you are looking for the Green ones.
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Episode 55- 40 plus dating is not 20 Plus Dating
Things have certainly changed and we definitely have to be more open minded and go on the road of discovery to learn what do we want out of this next relationship. Don't enter the dating scene out of need...do it because you want to and are confident.
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Episode 54 - Online Dating by way of IG & TikTok....Waitttt!!!!
Yes it is a thing. If you think about how social both platforms are, why wouldn't the use of IG or TikTok be used to connect for dating. Tune in and get my perspective on why it just may work🤍💋
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Episode 53- Let's Talk About....Intimacy
As a basis, there are 5 types of intimacy. Tune in and find out how to connect. However you won't be able to do it unless you are applying effort and attention.
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Episode 52- Fear of Falling in Love (Philophobia)
A fear of love can have a major impact of you desire to be in a long term relationship or marriage. No matter the reason...you can overcome it and there is help. Tune is as I discuss Fear of Loving and also sharing ways you can overcome it if you are not too far gone.
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Episode 51- Will I be Single Forever?!
When you have accessed that Singleness is Not where you want to reside....you may be concerned because it seems like you will be single forever. Don't get discouraged but take this time to evaluate if you are the one truly blocking the path. We have to be accountable to our process.
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Episode 49- I want to be seen, I want to be CHOSEN.
When we are intentional about our process of meeting someone for a long-term relationship or marriage...not being chosen can hurt. Let's have a talk about a little insight behind the mind of a woman about being seen and being chosen. If I've invited you into my life then I can see you as a…
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Episode 48-Omg!!! Is this really love???
Tune in as we discuss ways to observe whether the Love is real or not. There is really no way to measure it. However, there are some basics that can allow you to observe love in action that will make the picture vivid.
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Episode 47 - #GoodChemistry
Compatability is great for an initial connection but for sustainability Chemistry is needed and must be maintained.
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Episode 46 - When a Man Feels Less Than (Emasculation)
Let's start here...simply enough to be emasculated means to be made weak or ineffective. When a Man is emasculated he tends to look to his wife or significant other to make decisions and will just go with whatever she says. The reality is in relationships there is always going to be one that is...
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Episode 45- Mutual Interest
If the feelings are mutual, the effort will be equal. It's that simple.
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Episode 44- I'm Ready for Love
Listen....I get it. You're exhausted with all these first dates and want to get to the relationship. Tune in to here a perspective on how to get there.
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Episode 43 - Trendy Dating
We need to pay attention to trends, even in Dating. Every year, it is great to determine why you may have the experiences you are having in Dating so that you can be aware in your process and not defeated.
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Episode 42- Ladies, Be Careful of Looking Desperate
We've heard it all before...the dating scene is exhausting and at times you can become so frustrated that your interest intensifies when you meet someone amazing. However that could come off as being obsessed or desperate.
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Episode 41- The Classy Woman's Dating Standards & Preferences
A woman with class and caliber will never enter the dating pool before knowing exactly what her standards and preferences are and setting boundaries from the get go.
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Episode 40- I'm Sick of Online Dating!
I know, I know! I hear you. But did you know 39% of heterosexual couples meet online but the other 61%... They are outside!!!! That's exciting that many are still meeting the old fashioned way.
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Episode 39- Ohhhhh...THIS is why I'm Still Single!
Dating can be exciting but it also can feel like a chore. But have you ever took an introspect look as to why you keep meeting the people you meet? Why are these connections not working out? Let's do a little bit of soul searching in this week's podcast.
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Episode 38- Let's Talk about...Grief
Grief is a response to loss. There are so many levels to grief. Most of the time we associate grief to the loss of a loved one but the reality is...Grief is an experience associate with a loss of any form.
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Episode 37- Non-Negotiables In Relationships
A healthy bond requires ongoing effective communication and solid rules of engagement from both parties in a relationship. Set your relationship up for success by having discussions around non-negotiables, expectations and boundaries from the initial encounter of getting to know your potential...
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Episode 36-Video Dating
It's now the new norm and certainly a resource to make a quicker connection. Tune in for tips on how to be successful.
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Episode 35- Tips for Dating after 40
Connecting with people can be challenging. Seems like the more we age the more challenging it becomes. Being 40+, it becomes less common to meet people in social common places like bars, restaurants etc. But please have hope....Dating after 40 is alive for sure.
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Episode 34- Huh??? What do you mean by casual relationship?
Desiring a casual relationship could be trickier than you think.
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Episode 33- What is a Real Man?
The World is feeding us lies about what a Real Man is. Tune into this episode for some perspectives on the topic.
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Episode 32 - Getting Back to the Basics
We are deserving of a healthy relationship. It requires effort to create the bond so that it flourishes. Tune in as we discuss some points on cultivating this connection.
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Episode 31- Qualities of a Good Wife
We must be relentless in putting in effort to make our home a safe space for us as a family to grow, play and live.
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Episode 30- 15 Essentials Things that are Important in a Relationship
Love is not enough for a lasting relationship.
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Episode 29- 5 Stages of Dating
It's levels to it. Let's Explore the 5 Stages of Dating together.
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Episode 28 Purposeful Dating
Don't forget to Subscribe to My Channel. Looking forward to honest dialogue between adults, like share and comment. It's not just about having butterflies. We need to seek a deeper connection that aligns with our morals and values. We need to know why we are dating and what we want.
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Episode 27 - Childish Adults: Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is more common amongst adults than you think because with social media we now have a wide array of trolls and toxic people. We would think that our children are the only ones faced with this but yes, we have grown ups acting very childish by way of cyberbullying.
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Episode 26 - When Faced With Toxic People Just Remember...
Sometimes the most we can do is learn how to deal with challenging people as best we can and try to protect ourselves in the process.
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Episode 24 - I'm Sorry Wasn't Good Enough: An Apology
A sincere apology would come with changed behavior. Sometimes saying "I'm sorry" just isn't enough.
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Episode 23 - Before Committing, Questions You Need To Ask
For many single individuals it has been proven to be challenging moving forward to the next level when you've met a possible interest. But for those that have made the decision to choose the one you are about to commit to, you must ask these questions and be honest in full truth with your answers...
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Episode 21 - #YOUDESERVEBETTER
Life is too short for you to waste your time on people, places and things that serve you no purpose!
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Episode 19 - Am I Ready for a Relationship?
Going through heartbreak canbe so trying. But you need to deal witht he heartbreak in order to move forward into healthy dating.
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Episode 18 - Basic Traits of a High Value Woman
A high-value woman is many things, but above and beyond, she is a woman who knows her value and only wants people in her life who values her, too. She owns, loves, and respects herself and knows her life is no less abundant without a man in it-and that is what makes her a high-value woman.
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Episode 17 - Basic Traits of a High Value/ High Quality Man
What makes a high-quality/value man?
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Intro Music - WHEN D⭕C SPEAKS🤍💋
#youoweittoyourself Song Written and Produced by Nelson Roberts for When DOC Speaks ig:nelsonlroberts
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Episode 16 - Lack Of Consistency Can Kill A Relationship.
The Best Love Advice I have received was: "Be Consistent!"
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Episode 15 - Know Thyself: Emotional Triggers
One of the most powerful ways you can improve your mental health and relationship is to identify your emotional triggers and work on overcoming them.
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Episode 14 - What Do You Know About INTIMACY?
Intimacy is not just tied to sex or romance...it can be applied to any relationship.
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Episode 13 - Are You Dealing With a Broken Heart 💔
Breakups can be difficult but you do not have to be stuck in heart break. You can get through it!
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Hey Guys, It's Doc Hollie! I'm a Relationship Counselor, Love Practitioner & Advocate for Healthy Relationships living in the big state of Texas. Many of you already know me from my work in the Community and Church where I have been a servant leader and Pastoral Counselor for over 20 years. Welcome to my show, When DOC Speaks! A Podcast dedicated to Self Mastery, Finding Purpose and Growth Mindset. We discuss relationships, self care and love. Relationships are not hard, but they do require effort & consistency.Need advice, DM me on IG @whendocspeaks Be sure to subscribe, review and share.
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