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Welcome back to another compelling episode of Women of Impact! Today, we're diving deep into the world of personal boundaries, narcissistic family dynamics, and the power of self-preservation. Joining us is the insightful Terri Cole, an expert in boundaries and emotional intelligence. In this episode, our host Lisa Bilyeu opens up about her journey towards self-empowerment, particularly her desire to feel strong enough to leave a relationship in the event of infidelity.We'll explore the complexities of dealing with narcissistic mothers, the importance of setting and enforcing boundaries, and how to handle inappropriate or intrusive questions with confidence. Terri brings a wealth of strategies, from using humor to deflect provocations to preparing mentally for challenging family gatherings. She also emphasizes the significance of self-awareness, self-preservation, and the necessity of clear, open communication in maintaining healthy relationships.Whether you're struggling with boundary issues, dealing with a narcissistic parent, or looking for practical tips on maintaining your mental health, this episode is packed with valuable insights and actionable advice.Then, We'll dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with in-laws, the challenges of maintaining independence in a partnership, and the importance of clear communication. Whether you're dealing with toxic family members, navigating difficult in-law relationships, or simply striving for a healthier family dynamic, this episode is packed with valuable tips and powerful stories to inspire your journey.Tune in as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining personal authenticity and protecting your mental health amidst the complexities of family expectations and societal norms. It's a conversation you won't want to miss!SHOWNOTESChallenge invasive questions with "Why ask me that?"Strategically prepare to manage family gathering interactions.Setting boundaries takes time and practice.Understanding narcissistic mothers: It's a hidden struggle.Ineffective delegation leads to disordered boundaries.Betrayed friend's trust drops relationship level.Unwillingness to discuss toxic, narcissistic relationships.Stopped engaging due to unhealthy relationship dynamics.Overcame abuse; family reacted with disbelief, slander.Boundaries clash with cultural differences, acceptance needed.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and I’m PUMPED to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today about something SO important and SO hard to do, and that’s setting AND HOLDING your boundaries! And the amazinggggg woman here to help is the Boundary Boss herself, my homie Terri Cole.!Terri has been on the show a number of times because she is SO DAMN GOOD at empowering women to put toxic people in their place!! And in this episode, she’s sharing soooo many amazing tactics and insights into setting and holding your boundaries AND how to deal with the people in your life and exactly WHAT to say to those who don’t respect your boundaries. We go into:  - The 5 categories of boundaries & why you need health boundaries in all of them - Why boundaries are the best BRIDGES in your relationships, NOT BLOCKS!!- How to get away from the manipulator who is exploiting your good heart to get you to stay - Actual word for word Boundary scripts you can use to flip the conversation and power dynamic when someone is blatantly crossing your boundaries  - How to deal with someone who repeatedly & purposefully crosses your boundaries- And MUCH MORE! So listen up homie!! Cause your comfort and your feelings frikin’ MATTER, and the ONLY person’s feelings that are YOUR responsibility are YOUR OWN – it’s NOT your responsibility to take care of the feelings of others!!! Follow Terri Cole:Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/Podcast: https://www.terricole.com/podcast/Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever ask yourself, why does leaving a toxic partner have to hurt THIS much? Or why do even “normal” people become someone you don’t recognize during divorce?This episode is for the woman who’s drowning in manipulation, confusion, and that sneaky cycle of regret, wondering if fighting for your freedom is even worth it.Today I’m sitting down with divorce lawyer Holly J. Moore, who’s spent nearly two decades deep in the trenches of human behavior, breakups, and what our ugliest moments reveal.If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by threats, blamed for everything, or scared to start over, Holly’s seen it all, and she gets brutally honest about the hardest parts…and how to survive them with your soul intact.Here’s exactly what we dive into:The secret psychology of revenge during messy divorces (and why it’s NOT about the stuff)Why “normal” people act totally unhinged, and what’s REALLY fueling their actionsHow to handle emotional, financial, and physical abuse when you’re trying to leaveSmart moves to protect yourself, legally and emotionally, when the other side plays dirtyChapter TitlesRevenge Tactics: Emotional, Physical & Financial AbuseThe Survival Instinct: Why Threats Center on Kids (and Women’s Triggers)Hidden Money? Forensics, Accusations, and What Clients NEED to Know“Sometimes Staying Feels Easier Than Leaving”: Stories of ManipulationThe Real Pain Chart of Divorce (And Why You’re Not “Crazy”)When Playing the Victim Becomes a Legal StrategyTop Causes of Divorce, And What Holly Really Sees Behind the StatsMoney, Control, and Avoiding the Conversations That Kill RelationshipsWhen Your Past Is Used Against You: Celebrity Divorce ExamplesAddiction’s Role, and The Heartbreak No One Talks AboutPerimenopause, Power, and Why Women Walk Away NowWho Plots, Who Grieves: Divorce Games That Reveal Gender DifferencesThank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Holly J Moore:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollyjmooreMoore Family Law Group: https://www.moorefamilylawgroup.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MadeForMooreFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to the second half of this illuminating episode of "Women of Impact!" The conversation with Afrika Brooke continues as she shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming fears rooted in childhood and how these experiences shape her current approach to brave, honest expression. Lisa and Afrika dive into actionable strategies for handling disrespectful behaviors, especially within family dynamics, and stress the importance of establishing firm boundaries.Listeners will gain valuable insights into the art of pausing and reflecting before reacting, maintaining integrity while being empathetic, and building confidence through consistent, truthful actions. Lisa and Afrika also explore the concept of self-betrayal, setting the stage for practical advice on navigating social pressure, groupthink, and developing effective communication skills both personally and professionally. Tune in to discover transformative strategies for asserting yourself and living authentically, no matter the situation.SHOWNOTES[00:00] Recap of Part 1 and diving into values alignment.[05:30] Honest communication: Balancing truth and relationships.[12:15] Navigating family dynamics and setting boundaries.[18:40] Groupthink and the courage to think independently.[23:50] Vulnerability: Building stronger relationships through honesty.[28:30] Closing thoughts: The ongoing journey of self-expression.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to another episode of "Women of Impact!" In this riveting first half, host Lisa Bilyeu sits down with the profoundly insightful Afrika Brooke. They delve deep into the nuances of honesty and accountability in our relationships. Afrika shares her powerful reflections on defensiveness in relationships, emphasizing the difference between desired and embodied values. We'll hear from Lisa as she opens up about her own journey with her husband, Tom, detailing how they navigate giving each other permission to hold one another accountable without slipping into defensiveness.Afrika and Lisa discuss the impact of direct honesty, the importance of practicing honesty to avoid self-righteousness, and how addressing insecurities can lead to true alignment with one's goals. This part of the episode sets the stage for understanding how self-awareness and emotional intelligence play critical roles in personal growth and intimate connections. Get ready to uncover groundbreaking insights that will transform the way you communicate and relate to others around you.SHOWNOTES00:00 Understand your fears before addressing patterns.19:01 Environment shaped my hyper independence and feelings.26:29 Fragmented identity led to decade-long alcohol struggle.38:24 Resentments led to manipulation in relationships.42:04 Shame and embarrassment hinder self-awareness.53:39 Ownership interrupts conflict through personal responsibility.01:01:45 Apologetic demeanor affects many, especially women.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you thought part 1 was jaw-dropping, you’re NOT ready for the second half. Gregory Hartley and I dive into one of the wildest “he said, she said” true crime stories, where the difference between life and death comes down to tiny, split-second clues in body language. Want to know how to spot a liar in real time? Or how to tell the difference between someone genuinely afraid and someone just putting on a show? This episode is filled with practical, empowering insight that you’re going to use for the rest of your life.We break down the testimony from a brutal attempted cliff murder (the Koenig case), showing you signs of lying, truthfulness, shock, and residual emotion, with step-by-step analysis you can apply to your own gut instincts. Plus, Greg gives us the science behind culture, gender, “women’s intuition,” and why some people refuse to see the truth (until it’s too late). There’s even a rapid-fire game to test your own skills. This isn’t just for true crime lovers, it’s survival 101 for every woman who refuses to be caught off guard ever again.SHOWNOTESComparing his and her stories: congruency, illustration, and the gestures that mean “truth”Adapting, stress, and grooming: The difference between nervous energy and a liar’s “tell”Why neither side wants to reveal every detail, and where the truth hidesMemory, trauma, and why big stress rewires what you actually recallCultures, gender, and why you can’t spot red flags until you know their baselineHarsh truths: Why the most dangerous men are the ones you already knowThe Pink & Blue Flag Game: Who lies better, who cracks first, and why women’s intuition can save your lifeFollow Gregory Hartley:Website: https://readbodylanguage.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thebehaviorpanelFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuThank you to today’s sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Do you ever wonder if you’d know how to spot a dangerous man before it’s too late? Or feel like your intuition is screaming at you, but you just can’t put your finger on why? This episode is an absolute masterclass in reading people, protecting yourself, and never again missing the signs that could save your life. I’m joined by one of the world’s top experts in body language, interrogation, and deception detection, Gregory Hartley. He’s spent decades training military, law enforcement, and intelligence agencies, and now, he’s here to give US the tools to see what others miss.We break down the infamous Scott Peterson case, why the man who murdered his wife fooled so many, and the real red flags that women too often overlook. Greg walks through the real signals of grief, shock, and deception (in the wild and in relationships), and gives me and all of you a crash course on how to spot liars, manipulators, and the body language tells that might literally save your life. Trust me, you’ll NEVER look at a first date,or a true crime story, the same way again.SHOWNOTESThe Scott Peterson case and why women miss red flagsShock vs. sorrow: How trauma affects emotional responsesLies of omission, lies of commission, and the “verbal bridging” techniqueThe brain under stress: How stress hormones make people slipThe 5 key body language tells: gestures, illustrators, regulators, adapters, barriersPsychopaths, stress, and why they don’t react to fear like you doPeterson’s baseline vs. performance: Spotting the real person through his voice Introducing the Koenig case: When a hike turns deadly and he said/she said gets realWhy “odd” isn’t always guilty, and how women (and horses!) are wired for riskThe logic test: How stories fall apart when the narrative is fakeUniversal emotional tells; why true fear and grief ALWAYS leak outFollow Gregory Hartley:Website: https://readbodylanguage.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thebehaviorpanelFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuThank you to today’s sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by ex-CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and renowned defense attorney Karen Conti for a riveting discussion on the complex interplay between power, money, and justice in high-profile cases. Focusing on Sean "Diddy" Combs, the panel unravels allegations of abuse, manipulation, and the concealed video evidence that has sparked intense debate.Our guests delve into the mechanisms of reputational protection, the ethics and legality of selective video management by hotels, and the broader implications of federal investigations that could ripple through the entertainment and financial sectors. They also touch on the societal idolization of celebrities and the reluctance to believe victims of abuse, especially in racially charged contexts.The conversation does not shy away from the darker aspects of celebrity culture, including the psychological and legal struggles victims face, and the role of powerful networks in perpetuating harmful behavior. Andrew and Karen provide insights into the strategic use of influence and blackmail, comparing Diddy's case to other notorious figures like Jeffrey Epstein and R. Kelly.SHOWNOTES-Prosecutor challenges: doubt, juror skepticism, evidence.-Normalization leads to acceptance of inappropriate behavior.-Narcissism fueled by adoration led to crime.-Hollywood power and blackmail delayed revelations.-The entertainment industry is extremely abusive.-Reputational protection industry safeguards high-profile individuals.-We define our own privacy, not others.-Diddy appears dazed; Cassie tries escaping situation.-Apology video seemed scripted and well-produced.-Professionals empathize with aggressors, differing amateurs.-Was his organization structured like a business?FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to another inspiring episode of "Women of Impact"! Today, our incredible host, Lisa Bilyeu, sits down with the brilliant and insightful Gretchen Rubin, best-selling author and happiness expert. Together, they explore the fascinating world of personal tendencies and how they shape our ability to meet expectations and form lasting habits. Gretchen delves into her "Four Tendencies" framework—obligers, questioners, upholders, and rebels—offering invaluable insights on how to leverage these traits to achieve personal success and happiness.In this episode, you'll discover the powerful role that outer accountability, self-awareness, and embracing individual differences play in our emotional well-being. Lisa and Gretchen highlight the importance of enjoying the journey rather than just the outcome, the impact of sleep, diet, and exercise on our moods, and the transformative effects of focusing on relationships and connecting through our senses.Gretchen also shares her wisdom from her latest book, "Life in Five Senses," and offers practical tips for using music, taste, and even scent to enhance our emotional states and deepen our relationships. Whether you're a rebel resisting the norm or an obliger thriving with accountability, this conversation will provide you with the tools and perspectives needed to craft your unique path to happiness. Tune in and get ready to be inspired!SHOWNOTES00:00 Seek new experiences, address loneliness, take action.05:27 Focus on actionable steps, not just outcomes.08:44 Questioning traps, obstacles, and external validation in happiness.13:40 Meditation didn't work, that's okay, I'm different.15:54 Four tendencies framework identifies individual personality types.18:47 Obligers need outer accountability for inner expectations.22:55 Questioners seek thorough understanding before taking action.26:36 Sweetheart not ideal as accountability partner.28:01 Empowerment through understanding habits and choices.34:29 Strong relationships, support crucial for happiness.36:26 Five senses are key to happiness and wellness.39:37 Lost memory leads to new taste experiences.45:19 Indulging senses can uplift and energize.46:14 Effusive praise for genius scent and yearning.49:28 Encouraging self-improvement through subscription and following.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know that feeling when you’re dismissed, underestimated, or downright disrespected, and you start to wonder if you’re the problem… or if the world is just stacked against you? Homie, THIS is your episode.I’m sitting down with Tracy Walder: Ex-CIA and FBI, one of the only women in history to serve as a special agent in both agencies, and literal expert at uncovering the truth when lives are on the line. But today isn’t just about spy stories. It’s about training YOU to stand your ground, outsmart manipulation, and build unbreakable emotional resilience…no matter who tries to make you small.From surviving toxic workplaces and “Malibu Barbie” insults to resisting gaslighting from the world’s most powerful men, Tracy shares the mindset, boundaries, and psychological tools you need to protect yourself and rebuild your confidence.Here’s exactly what we dive into:How to spot (and survive) subtle disrespect, from the boardroom to the bedroomReal-life “spy tactics” any woman can use to stay in control under pressureHow to recognize and resist manipulation, even when it’s weaponized kindnessHandling gaslighting, shrinking to “fit in,” and dealing with toxic womenChapter TitlesMale Allies: When Do You Clap Back, And When Do You Play the Long Game?Managing Emotions Under Fire: Should You Shut Down or Speak Up?The Art (and Cost) of Compartmentalization,And When It BackfiresManipulation Tactics: When “Kindness” Is Actually ControlGaslighting on the World Stage, And How to Hold Your Reality FirmThe Power of Evidence: Staying Grounded With Facts (Not Just Feelings)How Not to Shrink: Advocating for Yourself and Naming DisrespectWhen Women Tear Down Other Women: Isolation, Rumors, and Self-EsteemThe Secret to Building Resilience: Naming Emotions, Facing Fears, and Finding Your CrewFollow Tracy Walder:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunexpectedspyTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theunexpectedspyYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@theunexpectedspy Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuThank you to today’s sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today we are diving into the murky world of destructive cults and manipulative relationships with our expert guest, Rick Alan Ross. In this eye-opening discussion, we'll explore the sinister techniques of love bombing and conditional affection, the perils of manipulation and dependency, and the devastating impacts of isolation and indoctrination.We'll also delve into the challenging journey of leaving these toxic environments and the intricate process of recovery. Rick will shed light on the startling realities of female cult leaders, such as Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and discuss the role of intelligence and success in cult recruitment. We’ll get a closer look at extreme cult behaviors and the manipulative power of leaders like Charles Manson, while highlighting the importance of cult awareness in today's society, especially through social media.Additionally, we'll cover fascinating stories of high-profile cases like Susan Carlson’s “Love Has Won” and the notorious cult leader Keith Ranieri of nxivm, dissecting the dual-edge sword of the internet in both aiding and exposing cult activities. Join us as we delve into the psychological entrapment of cult members and uncover interventions that can potentially save lives.Whether you're familiar with cult dynamics or learning about them for the first time, this episode promises to be both informative and chilling. So sit back, get comfortable, and let's jump right in!SHOWNOTES00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control.04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency.08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following.12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors.15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle.18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover.21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults.25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame.29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives.33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation.35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family.39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation.44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns.47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions.51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact, where today’s conversation will take you deep into the world of cults and manipulative relationships. I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and joining me is cult expert Rick Alan Ross. In this episode, we unravel the insidious tactics of love bombing and conditional affection, the manipulation and dependency that cults and abusive relationships foster, and the isolation and indoctrination techniques that rob individuals of their autonomy.We also delve into the intricacies of leaving such environments and the intense feelings of shame and guilt that often accompany this challenging process. We'll discuss gender dynamics in narcissistic behaviors, the rise of female cult leaders like Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and the complex realities faced by cult members. From high-profile cases like Charles Manson’s manipulation tactics and Leslie Van Houten's eventual transformation, to the impact of modern social media in cult awareness, Rick offers invaluable insights into how cults recruit even the most intelligent individuals and celebrities.Plus, we explore the critical role of intervention and the journey towards recovery, touching on compelling stories like Elizabeth Smart’s and Patricia Hearst's abductions and subsequent reprogramming. Whether you’re curious about the psychological traps of cults, or looking for ways to protect yourself and others, this episode is a powerful guide to understanding and safeguarding your autonomy.SHOWNOTES00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control.04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency.08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following.12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors.15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle.18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover.21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults.25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame.29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives.33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation.35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family.39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation.44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns.47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions.51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you thought Part 1 was wild, just wait, because now, we’re flipping the script and digging even deeper into the mindsets and tactics you NEED to recognize if you want to protect yourself from psychological warfare. Writer, content creator, and, yes, openly diagnosed sociopath Kanika Batra is back for the second half of our conversation, going even deeper into the “rotation” of romantic partners, how sociopaths weaponize compliments, and the terrifyingly effective 4-act psychological cycle they use to keep you hooked and doubting your sanity.We even bring Kanika’s husband into the studio for a raw, honest look at what it’s like to love and live with a sociopath, and why it actually works (sometimes better than you’d expect). Plus: real talk on sobering up, finding faith, and what to do if you think you’ve got a sociopath in your circle.Learn the tricks (from mapping insecurities to reputational warfare) that could save you from the worst heartbreaks and con-games. And yes, find out what makes women harder to fool, why even “ride or die” friendships can go nuclear, and the crucial (sometimes tragic) differences between a sociopath and a narcissist in relationships.SHOWNOTESThe Perks (and WARNING SIGNS) of Being Friends with a SociopathThe “Rotation” and Dating Playbook: Regent, Placeholder, DecoyHow Women and Men Manipulate Differently, And Why Women Are Harder to FoolPsychological Terrorism: The 4-Act Formula for Gaslighting Inside Kanika’s Marriage: Stability, Manipulation, and Facing the TruthAddiction, Dopamine, and Getting Clean Confessions of a Sociopath: Rapidfire Truths and Petty WinsHow to Spot a Sociopath: Eye Contact, Yawn Test & the Deeper “Mask”Why Rules, Faith, and Structure Actually HelpKanika On Parenting, Self-Worth, and Building a Good LifeThank you to today’s sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Kanika Batra:Website: kankarose.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kanikabatra/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/kanikabatra Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wondered if you’d know if a sociopath was your friend… or even YOU? In this episode, I sit down with Kanika Batra: Author, beauty queen, and one of the most self-aware diagnosed sociopaths on the internet, to rip the mask straight off the stigma.Kanika doesn’t just talk about living with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD), she tells you exactly how a female sociopath thinks, strategizes, and manipulates, in brutal, unfiltered detail. But don’t get it twisted: this isn’t just about danger and darkness. Kanika is here so YOU can spot the manipulation and betrayal before it happens: Wether it’s in love, at work, or in your closest girls’ group chat. We’re bringing you the red flags, the psychology, and yes, the protection plan, so you never ever get caught off guard again.From “masks” and hot rage to psychological cages and the razor-thin line between loyalty and revenge, Part 1 lays everything bare, including how and why Kanika targets, tests, and treats people, plus what women need to watch for most.SHOWNOTESHow Sociopaths Lie and Manipulate, and Why You’d Never Know Understanding the Ingenue, Femme Fatale, and Therapist Masks “Snark Pages” and True Stories of Retaliation How Sociopaths Treat Their Real Friends vs. Everyone Else What Betrayal Means, and Why It Fuels Extreme Payback Inside a Female Sociopath’s Mind: Family, Childhood, and Hypocrisy Loyalty, Control, and the Calculus of FriendshipWhy (and How) Sociopaths Can Love Their Own Way “The Hidden Suffering of the Psychopath”: Loneliness, Loyalty, and Why Sociopaths Snap The Art of Psychological Cages: Obligation, Triangulation, and Blacklisting Reputational Warfare: How Female Sociopaths Destroy Without Violence Thank you to today’s sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Kanika Batra:Website: kankarose.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kanikabatra/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/kanikabatra Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols.In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she’s lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way.She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential.But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves.And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives.SHOWNOTES00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes.16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships.29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media.35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics.52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments.57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times.01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enLISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpactSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols.In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she’s lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way.She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential.But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves.And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives.SHOWNOTES00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes.16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships.29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media.35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics.52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments.57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times.01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience.CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSShopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaNetsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/womenCaraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchaseFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enLISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpactSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and I’m soooo frikin’ excited to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today!!Today’s guest has been singing about “GIRL POWER” since the 90s, but secretly dealt with abuse in her toxic marriage for 10 YEARS. She tried to leave SO MANY TIMES but kept going back to him and the vicious cycle of abuse before she finally got her power to leave, once and for all!! It’s the inspiring, cheat-print-wearing, the one and only “Scary Spice” of the Spice Girls, Mel B!!   She is getting so real and honest about how she finally escaped the abuse FOR GOOD and took back her power AND how now she’s helping spread the word and support the strong, amazing abuse survivors allllll around the world. Mel is here to help us spot the warning signs and GET OUT of toxic relationships before it's too late.  We cover soooo much in this interview, including:   - Why the abuser is SO GOOD at hunting you down & controlling you - How abuse slowly sneaks up on you and why IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT  - The 15 signs of what abuse looks like- Why it’s SO HARD to break the abuse cycle and how 1 promise Mel made actually helped her to leave FOR GOOD- The 2 words Mel has for ANYONE stuck in an abusive relationship- How shame and guilt will keep you trapped & hiding the toxic parts of your relationship- How to deal with the 2 questions you will be asked again and again after you stop hiding the abuse and leave - Why you should ALWAYS listen to your gut intuitionSo homies, listen to Mel B and don’t let your shame, guilt, and denial keep you abused, used, and trapped in misery!!!It’s time to stand up and take your GIRL POWER back and never let someone take it from you again!!! Follow Mel B:Website: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialmelbGet Your Copy of “Brutally Honest”: https://geni.us/brutallyhonestpbFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know that split-second when someone seems “perfect” (charming, vulnerable, smart) but your gut says run?Ever wondered how even the smartest women end up dating (or almost marrying) master manipulators, narcissists, or even psychopaths? Homie, this is your episode.Our guest this week is world-renowned forensic psychologist Dr. Eric Hickey. He has sat face-to-face with some of the most dangerous serial killers and predators in history, and what he reveals will blow your mind. This conversation pulls back the curtain on exactly how these men fool even the experts, the subtle red flags women miss, and why emotional needs can become our biggest blind spots.You’ll learn the psychological traps predators use, why low self-esteem isn’t just about looks, and the powerful, tactical moves you can make to protect yourself (and your friends). No fluff, only hard truth and big empowerment.Here’s exactly what we dive into:The mind games even trained professionals fall for (and how to outplay the player)How trauma from childhood creates cycles of control, both for women and for menThe personality traits that attract manipulators (and the mindset shift that disrupts those patterns)Real-world tactics for spotting red flags online, in public, and in your own relationshipsChaptersHow Predators Play the Nice Guy (and Why That’s Their Best Trick)Women as Targets: Intelligence & Articulation as WeaponsThe Marriage Manipulator: Real Stories of Emotional AbuseSerial Killers & Sexual Violence: The Dark Path of EscalationRed Flags You Ignore: From Prison Interviews to Everyday RelationshipsRoot Causes: Childhood, Dependency & How Strong Women Get TrappedThe Rationalization Trap: Why Women (and Mothers) Excuse AbuseStalking, Gaslighting & The Power of FearIn the Grocery Store: How Predators Engineer Their OpportunitiesCrimes of Passion vs. Calculated Evil: Can Anyone “Snap”?Domestic Violence: Death Rituals, Promises, and EscalationThe #1 Move to Protect Yourself (and Why Good Men Support It)Thank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaFollow Dr. Eric Hickey:Website: https://darkmatterspodcast.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/darkmatters.truecrime YouTube: www.youtube.com/@Dr.EricHickey Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this episode of Women of Impact with cold case investigator Paul Holes, where we’re continuing to dive deep into how dangerous manipulators and predators hide in plain sight and use subtle, everyday behaviors to manipulate and control without you even realizing it.And Paul’s breaking down exactly what these predators, manipulators, and dangerous offenders do to fly under the radar, and the subtle signs you need to be looking for so you can spot their manipulation before it’s too late and you're under their control!So don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Paul Holes. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSCaraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchaseOneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin!Follow Paul Holes:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holesPodcasts: https://www.smalltowndicks.com/ & https://open.spotify.com/show/4k4K2WpZFxlTGoCzY40hJbGet your copy of “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/4e2uQNxFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What do you do when someone you thought you could trust does something so out of character that you’re caught completely off guard?At first you don’t think too much of it, but then you start to notice there’s actually a pattern – of control, manipulation, and coldness. It’s those little manipulations where they deny something happened or downplay it that really start to chip away at your sense of reality, your confidence, and your sense of self – and before you know it, you don’t even recognize yourself anymore. The sad truth is, manipulators are masters at making you doubt your own reality, and by the time you realize what’s happening, you’re already trapped in their web. And that’s why on today’s episode of Women of Impact, we are diving deep into how these dangerous people – like psychopaths and predators you expect would be SO obvious to spot – are actually the ones hiding in plain sight and waiting for their opportunity. Here to pull back the curtain on exactly how dangerous people operate right under our noses is cold case investigator Paul Holes. This guy spent years hunting down some of the most elusive predators out there, including the infamous Golden State Killer. And what he’s sharing today is going to make you rethink everything you thought you knew about spotting danger. We go deep into: Signs to look for when dating or meeting someone new that could be giveaways that something is actually “off” about themWhy some of the most dangerous people are often the ones who seem the most “normal”How people like the Golden State Killer can hide in plain sight for DECADES, all while committing horrific crimesAnd how YOU can spot those subtle signs of manipulation and control that most people don’t see until it’s unfortunately too frikin’ lateThe reality is guys, that psychopaths are often hiding behind the “normal” people you see every day – the barista making your coffee, your co-worker that everyone loves, or even your boyfriend that you’ve been with for MONTHS. But by the end of this episode, you’ll know the giveaway signs that a predator is trying to trick you and blend into everyday life, and how YOU can protect yourself and the people you love from these predators, abusers, manipulators who just want to get power and control over you. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSCaraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchaseOneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin!Follow Paul Holes:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holesPodcasts: https://www.smalltowndicks.com/ & https://open.spotify.com/show/4k4K2WpZFxlTGoCzY40hJbGet your copy of “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/4e2uQNxFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

When was the last time you said your desires out loud…or even admitted them to yourself? In Part 2, Caitlin V and I dive DEEP into the heart of women’s sexuality: Body count shame, the “good girl” myth, what to do when sex fizzles in a long-term relationship, and why honoring YOUR truth (not just your partner’s) is the only path to lasting pleasure and freedom.We break down how women can restore their relationship with their own bodies, what to do if you and your partner want different things, and the rules I swear by in my own marriage to keep desire AND honesty alive. Learn the communication tools to revive intimacy after a sexual dry spell, plus the empowering strategies to clear resentment, heal shame, and finally, unapologetically ask for what YOU want, in and out of the bedroom. Homie, your sexuality is your superpower, let’s set it free.SHOWNOTES“Body count,” shame, and the female experience: Whose story are you living?Why feeling “too much” or “not enough” keeps us from pleasureMoving through betrayal, bed death, and starting the sex talk againNavigating mismatched desires and honoring YOUR needsWhy radical honesty (and permission to say “no”) changes everythingBuilding erotic creativity after years: Small steps for big changeWhy tying sex to love and worthiness holds women back (and how to undo it)Communication after “bed death”: From silence to true connectionThe single phrase that transforms your relationship (and your sex life)Thank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Caitlin V:Website: https://caitlinvneal.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/caitlinvictoriousx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinVFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Okay ladies, this one’s for YOU. Ever secretly wondered if your wildest desires, romantic daydreams, or untamed fantasies are “normal”? Or maybe you crave more passion, more play, and more pleasure, but aren’t sure how to even start that conversation? Enter the powerhouse Caitlin V: sex therapist, intimacy coach, and the straight-talking woman who's helped thousands of women discover exactly what THEY want in bed.In Part 1, we’re going behind the scenes of female fantasy: unpacking Twilight, Fifty Shades, why yearning to be desired is at the heart of so much, and how to finally own your erotic power without shame. Caitlin V breaks it all down: why scheduling sex is actually hot (and necessary!), how to safely explore archetypes and kink, and why women’s pleasure is far more creative and expansive than you’ve ever been told. If you’re done hiding, done playing small, and SO ready to claim the sex and intimacy you deserve, start here.SHOWNOTESWhy feeling desired is at the core of women's fantasiesScheduling sex vs. spontaneityBreaking down archetypes: Vampires, dominance, surrenderTwilight & the erotic pull of restraint and safetyTaboo, kink, and why your fantasy is more normal (and healing) than you thinkSafely claiming sub/dom play and power dynamicsErotic Blueprints: What actually turns women onHow to break down, name, and ask for your exact desiresExploring the edges: consent, taboo, and reclaiming shame as pleasureFantasies about threesomes and queerness: Normalizing what women wantThe animal, the goddess, and every archetype a woman can beThank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Caitlin V:Website: https://caitlinvneal.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/caitlinvictoriousx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinVFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this unbelievable conversation with Dr. Ramani where she is sharing with us her “cheat sheets” of all her best strategies for dealing with the relentless manipulation and games that a narcissist plays. Odds are you’ve encountered a narcissist before, and whether it’s someone in the workplace or someone in your own home, each encounter with them can make you question your worth, ignore warning signs, and even give up your power to them. In part 2, we get into: - Why you need to learn to listen to your body for the red flags- How to effectively deal with the charm AND lack of empathy of a narcissist- Dr. Ramani’s 3 steps to narcissistic resistance so you can break free from the abuse- & MORE!The reality is the narcissist will never change, so it’s up to you to make a change and take your power back so you can live your life without losing confidence in who you are. Don’t forget to order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book, “It’s Not You” here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fAnd if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniOrder “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another amazing episode of Women of Impact! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and today we’re tackling how to deal with narcissists in all sorts of situations, from the workplace and professional settings, to family, friendships and romantic partners. The amazing world renowned psychologist and narcissist expert Dr. Ramani is back and she’s got even more wisdom to share from her 20+ years of experience studying narcissists and working with narcissistic abuse survivors. With sooo much love and compassion, Dr. Ramani is giving us the advice we need, but might not WANT to hear when it comes to THAT narcissist in our lives. In Part 1, we’re going deep into:- Why you MUST DISENGAGE with the narcissist when they are playing the victim- How “soul distancing” can protect your well-being when the narcissist is gaslighting and invalidating you- The counter-intuitive way to take your power back & ending a narcissistic relationship - Why you WANT to explain & defend yourself to the narcissist, but NEVER, EVER should- & SOOOO much more!!! Let’s be real guys, we’ll all have to face a narcissist at some point or another, and this episode will arm you with the strategies you need to come out of each encounter without losing yourself. Be sure to order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book, “It’s Not You” here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniOrder “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know when heartbreak feels like it’s not just the loss of a person, but a total betrayal by LIFE itself? When every friend’s “just get over it” sounds like an insult, and you’re sick of pretending you’re OK? Well homie, then this is your episode. And Matthew Hussey is here to guide you through not just surviving, but actually thriving after heartbreak.In this juicy second half, we get real about what keeps women from healing (spoiler: it’s about WHO you let headline your life). Matthew breaks down the four main types of heartbreak, how to make sure you’re ACTUALLY mending (not just spinning), and the signs you’re finally ready for real, healthy love. Plus, how to spot the real green flags in men so you never waste precious years on toxic cycles again.SHOWNOTESStop blaming yourself: time wasn’t wasted, and anger is your friendWhy the pain threshold is often what finally sets you free (and why amnesia is your enemy)The hidden addiction to heartbreak, and why it keeps you “safe” but smallHyper-vigilance, wounds, and breaking the generational cycleYour pain serves a purpose, but does it deserve to be the headline of your next 20 years?Don’t let pain write your life: How to separate emotion from the story you attach to itMatthew’s “Five Days to Mend”, where to go now if you’re stuck in the darknessThe four green flags: consistency, feeling accepted, meeting you where you are, and surviving the hard stuffRapid fire game: Masculinity, femininity, and finding the person who will actually cherish ALL of youThank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Matthew Hussey:Website: https://www.matthewhussey.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thematthewhussey Join his free Five Days to Mend heartbreak event: https://www.mendweek.comFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever feel like love is just one giant, nerve-wracking gamble? Like the people who are supposed to love you the most end up hurting you beyond belief, and you’re left questioning your own reality? Trust me, you are not alone. In this raw and must-listen episode of Women of Impact, I sit down with Matthew Hussey, relationship coach, New York Times bestselling author, and the straight-talking Brit who has helped millions of women get real about love, self-worth, and healing after trauma.Matthew and I are diving deep into the sneaky world of coercive control, manipulation, and narcissistic relationships. We’re uncovering why nearly half of women find themselves with controlling partners, what keeps so many of us stuck in toxic cycles, and the miracle of breaking free. Learn the actual steps to stay guarded enough to protect your heart, but open enough to receive real love again. I demand honesty on this show, and you’re about to get it.SHOWNOTESThe case for slowing down: why we lose objectivity in loveAdvancing in love like a boxer: how to protect yourself without closing offThe context clues you must look for: how do they handle stress, family, friendships, conflict, and YOU when you’re sick?The science: up to 63.3% of women with abuse will develop PTSD, and why psychological wounds are the slowest to healThe cult of two: Why leaving is a miracle, not a failureWhy so many women opt out of dating, and the real risks of closing your heart for goodThe story of Gisele Pellicault, and how finding love again after unimaginable trauma is still possibleSelf-love after heartbreak: can the next chapter be the best one?Why going no contact with parents or partners is sometimes the only way (you are NOT a snowflake for protecting your peace). The four types of heartbreak: why you can feel grief for someone you never even datedThank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Matthew Hussey:Website: https://www.matthewhussey.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thematthewhussey Join his free Five Days to Mend heartbreak event: https://www.mendweek.comFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to this fascinating episode of Women of Impact with former CIA spy, Andrew Bustamante, where we're talking all about what to do to spot the liar from a mile away and crack their con before they even have a chance to gain your trust and use it to manipulate you!And we're going even deeper into the tools and tactics that secret undercover agents use so that you can protect yourself from manipulators, abusers, con men, narcissists, and even cult leaders and figure out whether someone is actually being genuine or actually fabricating a lie to manipulate and abuse your trust. Don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Andrew Bustamante. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Andrew Bustamante:Website: https://everydayspy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcastSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What up guys, it's Lisa Bilyeu here, and I'm going to tell you something that's an absolute frickin’ fact that no one wants to believe AND is the reason we find ourselves getting tricked, used, manipulated, cheated on, and gaslit…EVERYONE LIES!From small innocent white lies to really freaking hurtful, huge lies that are like a bombshell that ends up destroying your life, your relationship, and your confidence. Now the sooner we can just accept the fact that everyone lies, the sooner you can start to figure out how to spot the lies, uncover the truth, and take your power back so you won’t be manipulated ever again. And so here to help us uncover the web of lies and reveal the truth is former CIA spy and agent, Andrew Bustamante!! Andrew has literally been professionally trained in how to gain people's trust very quickly and how to use that trust to get information, and today he's going to be teaching us:- the three parts that go into building trust- what a con man, serial killer, or cult leader will do to gain your trust quickly - how to take control back and ask the right questions to test and reveal the true intentions behind someone’s actions- how famous people like P Diddy, Bill Cosby, and R Kelly were able to lie and manipulate and abuse people to the EXTREME This episode is a masterclass on how to become a human lie detector and crack the con!!!By the end of this episode, your tool belt will be full of the tools that top agents in the CIA use to crack the cons, expose the lies, and manipulate the manipulator so you can protect your own damn self-confidence, reveal the truth behind anyone's actions, and then take your power back in any situation!!Follow Andrew Bustamante:Website: https://everydayspy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcastSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ladies and gentlemen, get ready to explore the taboo world of sex, shame, and mental health with our very special guest, Emily Morse. As a sex and relationship expert, Emily has seen it all and is here to spill the tea on how shame can hold you back from experiencing true pleasure.In this episode, we're diving deep into the three types of shame that can wreak havoc on your sex life: rejection shame, exposure shame, and self-blame. Emily shares her insights on how these shame patterns can be traced back to childhood experiences and societal messages that leave us feeling disconnected from our own bodies and desires.But it's not all doom and gloom - Emily also shares her top tips for overcoming shame and embracing your sexuality. From challenging limiting beliefs to practicing self-love and communication with your partner, she's got the tools you need to take your pleasure to the next level.And let's not forget about the power of orgasms! Emily dishes on how getting busy can actually boost your mental health by reducing stress and increasing feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin. Plus, she shares some juicy stats on just how many women have experienced sexual trauma and how it can impact their ability to let loose in the bedroom.But don't worry, this episode isn't just a downer - Emily is all about empowering women to prioritize their pleasure and aim for at least 25% fun in their daily lives. She even gives a shout-out to the joys of solo play and how it can help you get in touch with your own body and desires.So if you're ready to break free from shame and embrace your inner sex goddess, grab a glass of wine, settle in, and get ready to learn from the one and only Emily Morse. It's time to get shameless and prioritize your pleasure like never before!SHOWNOTES00:00 Identifying the pleasure thieves: stress, anxiety, worry.04:12 Stress during sex may indicate underlying issues.07:52 Addressing physical and mental shame for confidence.11:11 Challenging limiting beliefs, embracing therapy for growth.16:18 Repressed sexuality stems from unsafe environments.18:04 Shame about masturbation can hinder sexual exploration.21:29 Untreated trauma worsens over time, seek help.22:56 Pleasure is essential for productivity and presence.28:12 Hidden side effects of medication impact sex life.29:27 Believe in your deserving of a healthy sex life.CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSShopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those moments you can’t shake, when everything looks perfect, but deep down you feel a chill that says, “something is wrong”?What if the real danger isn’t what you see, but what you don’t see: The hidden drives, the shadows, that play out behind closed doors?In today’s episode, I sit down with philosophy researcher and shadow work expert Previn Karian to expose the psychology of why women end up in cycles of pain, manipulation, and even abuse, and how recognizing the “shadow” in ourselves and our partners is the first step to walking away with dignity and power.This one is raw, honest, and truth-telling. We dig into uncomfortable places, but it might be the perspective shift that sets you free.Here’s exactly what we dive into:The “male shadow”: How to recognize when it’s not your job to “fix” him (and what to do instead).Why super successful, charming men aren’t always safe (the “bigger the light, the bigger the shadow”)The difference between sadism and masochism: How these hidden drives play out in both men and womenHow women’s own shadow makes us vulnerable to repeat cycles of abuseChaptersDon’t Get Seduced by “Light”: Why Success Isn’t SafetyHow Sadistic Drives Show Up: From Microaggressions to ViolenceThe Giselle Pellico Case: Shadows Hiding in Plain SightThe Masochistic Man: Nice Guys, People Pleasing, and Hidden RageSpotting the Difference: Explosive Rage vs. Quiet DepressionWhy Men Lack the Language for Their PainThe Core Shadow Wound of Women, And How We OvercomeCan Women Be Sadistic Too? Rewriting the NarrativeThe Masculinity Crisis: Feminism, Power, and the Red Pill BacklashThe #1 Thing To Do When You See His ShadowWhy You Can’t Rescue a Man (and What Real Support Looks Like)Thank you to this episode’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Previn Karian:Website: www.tec4mind.comThe Empty Chair Online (Facebook Community): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1119909063319697YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qyyU-JSsgE0&t=80sFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those moments when your gut is SCREAMING that something’s off, but everyone else just shrugs it off like, “You’re overreacting”? Homie, this is the episode that finally puts a spotlight on why your intuition is your biggest superpower, especially when the whole world tries to gaslight you out of it.Today, we’re diving DEEP into the body language, verbal gymnastics, and high-stakes manipulation behind one of the most infamous cases of our time. We’re breaking down Ghislaine Maxwell: Reading her cues, calling out the lies, and exposing the hidden “tells” that every survivor and truth-seeker NEEDS to spot. From depositions to prison interviews, and the voices of survivors, we don’t just talk about red flags, we put them under a microscope for you.Here’s exactly what we dive into:The #1 body language signal that screams deception (and what “effort” really means)Why narcissists act like the victim, even when they’re on trialHow to reframe victim memories (and why “I don’t recall” is such a calculated phrase)The psychology behind grooming and how powerful people protect each otherChapter TitlesRating Ghislaine’s Honesty: Why 5/10 Is a Red FlagWhen “I Don’t Recall” Becomes a ShieldNarcissism, Victim Mentality & High-Stress ResponseThe “Fifth Amendment” Defense: What That Really SignalsHot Seat Behavior: What Happens When The Truth Is UncomfortableThe “Gas Tank” Theory: When Liars Run Out of EnergyStatement vs. Responsibility: Who Does Ghislaine Blame?How Nefarious Was She, Really? The 9/10 ArgumentSurvivor Stories: How Grooming and Broken Trust BeginEye Movements: Truth, Memory, and Self-ProtectionAssessing Survivor Credibility: 8 Out of 10 HonestMaxwell & Epstein Photos: The Real Power DynamicThank you to this episode’s sponsors: K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.comOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Andrew Bustamante:Website: https://everydayspy.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this episode of Women of Impact with the amazing Terri Cole. If you're ready to stop the cycle of overgiving and burning out, then my homie, you're in the right place. And we’re getting even deeper into the nitty-frikin-gritty of: - how to spot self-destructive patterns- how to set solid boundaries no one can push- taking back your power & your voice This episode gives you a blueprint for how you thrive – not just survive – within a relationship, including the one that you have with yourself!!And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Terri Cole:Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/Pre-order “Too Much”: https://hfcbook.com/FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you’re always the one: jumping in to fix things, taking care of everything, and helping everyone with their problems – then my homie, listen up, coz this episode of Women of Impact is for YOU!! Today we're diving into the world of high-functioning co-dependency with none other than my girl, Terry Cole. Terry Cole is a licensed therapist and bestselling author who empowers women to break the cycle of living without boundaries so they can have better boundaries, more effective communication, healthier relationships, and less B.S. in their lives!!! And she is breaking down:- how to actually start building strong personal boundaries- recognizing the patterns of high functioning codependency- why getting your validation fix from others is super frikin damaging- understanding the blueprint for prioritizing yourself- the ways you might actually be attracting a narcissistic partner This episode will help you to take your power back and create a life that is genuinely fulfilling, where you're not actually sacrificing your sake for everybody else. This is the thing that could actually be holding you back from going after that job, that relationship, or anything else in your life – and you don’t even realize it!!Follow Terri Cole:Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/Pre-order “Too Much”: https://hfcbook.com/FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those relationships where you’re told you’re “too sensitive,” “too needy,” or you just “can’t take a joke”… but your gut says, run? This is the masterclass on narcissists, emotional predators, and the cunning manipulation tactics they use to rope women in, keep them stuck, and leave them doubting their own sanity.I sat down with Richard Grannon, renowned psychological educator and author, who’s made it his mission to expose the dark science behind narcissistic abuse. If you’ve ever felt like you were the only one trapped in someone else’s reality—gaslit, guilted, or forced to play games you had no idea how to win—homie, you are not alone. In Part 1, we break down the actual playbook of narcissists, how they bait their partners, and the psychological patterns that keep women vulnerable to these emotional predators. Whether you’re in it, healing from it, or supporting a friend—this episode will shake you awake.SHOWNOTESCan a narcissist truly love or commit? Psychopaths vs NarcissistsHow narcissists perform vulnerability to hook caring women Sex, intimacy, and the weaponization of desire: what narcissists really wantWithholding sex as control: Why it hits women at the core of identityCommitment and marriage in the narcissist’s worldviewChildren as pawns: what having kids means for a narcissistThe terrifying truth about intergenerational narcissismRelationship violence: gendered patterns and the hidden dangersThe predators playbook: scanning and selecting vulnerable targetsThank you to this episode’s sponsors: K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.comOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFOLLOW RICHARD GRANNON:Follow Richard Grannon:Website: https://www.richardgrannon.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/richardgrannonYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RichardGrannonSTAR Network: https://www.star-network.org.ukFOLLOW ME (Lisa Bilyeu):Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever been hit so hard by rejection that it felt like your entire world was falling apart? Whether it’s getting passed over for that dream job, being ghosted after a date you thought went great, or dealing with a partner who betrayed you – rejection can be absolutely soul-crushing.But what if I told you that rejection could actually be your secret weapon?In this episode of Women of Impact, preacher, business executive, and author Nona Jones is sharing how she mastered the art of turning rejection into the best thing that ever happened to her. Nona faced constant rejection from her mother, endured sexual abuse, and even struggled with suicidal thoughts as a child. And yet she overcame it all to build herself the amazing life that she has now, and she’s sharing it all in this interview!!We also cover:- How to flip the script on rejection and see it as a gift- Nona’s 4-step O.P.E.N. method to help you unlock the potential hidden in every rejection- The sneaky ways rejection can lower your expectations and how to break free from that trap- Why reclaiming your power after rejection can change your life in every possible wayIf you've ever felt the pain of rejection to the point where you start to believe that you're not good enough, whether that's from a relationship or a job or your family, then my homie, you need to frikin’ listen to this episode because we need to stop giving our power away to other people that reject us and we actually need to start finding the purpose hidden behind it so that we can start to own our power again. Follow Nona Jones:Website: https://www.nonajones.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nonanotnora/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NonaNotNoraGet Your Copy of “The Gift of Rejection”: https://a.co/d/2tRyA2VFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those times when you KNOW something is wrong, but everyone around you gaslights you into thinking it's all “in your head”? Or when a woman finally speaks up about abuse, only to be dismissed as “crazy” by her family, the police, even doctors? Homie, grab a pen: This one is going to drop truths that might just save a life.I'm sitting down with the powerhouse psychologist and best-selling author, Dr. Jessica Taylor. She’s known for her unfiltered work helping women who have experienced abuse, writing bombshell books like Why Women Are Blamed for Everything and Sexy But Psycho, and training police and legal pros on the REAL ways women get silenced by the mental health system. Jessica is here to break down why the quickest way to shut a woman up is to call her “mad”, and exactly how this dangerous narrative gets weaponized against women who speak out.We tackle why society is obsessed with pathologizing women, how the court system often falls for it, the horrifying old-school roots of “hysteria,” and how women start to believe these lies about themselves (sometimes with deadly results). And trust me, Dr. Jessica Taylor is about to shatter every stereotype you think you knew.SHOWNOTESWeaponizing Mental Health: Silencing Women Who Speak OutHistory of silencing women through psychiatric labelsBig public examples: Britney, Kesha & the media’s mental health narrative How victims reporting abuse get labeled psychotic—and not believed The case of “the man in the attic” and the failures of mental health assessmentsMental health used to excuse perpetrators—while discrediting victimsToo “attractive” or “unattractive”? Either way, women lose in courtInternalized misogyny: Why women so often judge and silence other womenThe truth about female stalkers—and why they mostly target other womenRom-coms, commercials and the cultural romanticizing of stalkingHow pathologizing language is used to erase abuseHysteria, wandering wombs, and the insane medical history that still haunts usThe history: Women thrown in asylums for reading, thinking, not marryingPractical tools: How to stop pathologizing yourself and protect your realityFollow Dr Jessica Taylor:Website: https://drjessicataylor.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/drjesstaylor Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@drjessicataylor9164 Victim Advocacy Research: https://www.victimfocus.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuThank you to today’s sponsors:Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comShopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaHomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this POWERFUL episode of Women of Impact with the world’s #1 narcissist expert, Dr. Ramani!And guys, we just. keep. frikin’. digging DEEPER into the complex emotions and feelings that come up when you’re in a toxic relationship and how to heal from the abuse. We cover…- How shame deeply affects your actions AND the narcissist’s actions - How confusion & despair wear down your spirit and energy for life- The 3 Rs that keep you trapped in the toxic web- How to finally move on with the “recover from the lie” method Don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Dr. Ramani. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniOrder “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today we’re joined by the world’s #1 narcissist expert who is here to help you actually heal and move on from narcissistic abuse!As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the behaviors and patterns that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. Most people don’t know this about her, but my girl Dr. Ramani has actually been a victim of narcissistic abuse many times throughout her own life. And in this episode she is sharing some of the lessons she learned from her own experiences and the knock-on effects those experiences still have on her to this day.In this episode, we’re diving into:- Societal myths about narcissists that diminish the seriousness of their abuse - The best way to approach someone you think is in a relationship with a narcissist (and how to respond if YOU’RE the one approached!)- The self-blame spiral that has you thinking it’s YOUR fault & why you MUST escape it to take your power BACK from the narcissist!- AND SOOOO MUCH MORE!! And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! So if you’re ready to finally frikin’ MOVE ON from that toxic person in your life then grab a cuppa and listen close homie, because this episode does NOT disappoint! Order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniOrder “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This conversation picks up RIGHT where we left off: Digging even deeper into the mind of a self-aware psychopath and how these traits can play out in relationships, success, and personal transformation. In Part 2, Lewis Raymond Taylor gets brutally honest about what it means to feel nothing (not even guilt or remorse) when you hurt someone, why some boundaries come across as ruthlessly cold, and how true self-awareness becomes the ONLY chance at redemption or change.We myth-bust even further: Can you really spot a psychopath in a crowd? Are they born or made? Why are so many powerful leaders, surgeons, and CEOs edging into the dark triad? Plus, Lewis details how he’s used his condition to fuel business, personal growth, and, yep, a global movement of impact, without ever pretending to be anyone but himself. You’ll never look at boundaries, logic, or emotional detachment the same way again.SHOWNOTESCommunication Hacks: Explaining Need, Not Crying For Comfort The Thanksgiving Test: How Misunderstandings Play Out In Real Life Why Setting Boundaries Doesn’t Come With Guilt—Ever Mythbusters: Can Psychopaths Cry? (And Why They Mimic Your Emotions)Resting “Bastard Face,” Masking Energy, and Selective Warmth Are Psychopaths Born or Made? How Nature and Nurture Collide Childhood Abuse, Emotional Voids, and The Birth of Significance-Seeking Can You Spot a Psychopath in a Lineup? The World’s Best Chameleons Why Society Needs Psychopaths—And Why Some Become LeadersCan Psychopaths Change? “Transmuted Psychopathy,” and What Redemption Looks LikeThe Gifts of the Dark Side: What Really Drives Lewis (And Why He’s Grateful For His Diagnosis) Thank you to today’s sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaHomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.comFollow Lewis Raymond Taylor:Website: https://www.lewisraymondtaylor.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewisraymondtaylorYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lewisraymondtaylorFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wondered what it’s like to love someone who literally feels… nothing? In this jaw-dropping episode, I sit down with Lewis Raymond Taylor: serial entrepreneur, author, and self-proclaimed diagnosed psychopath, to dismantle all the myths, fears, and confusion that swirl around relationships with men who have antisocial and psychopathic traits. We go raw and real, from his diagnosis and childhood trauma to explosive first loves, love bombing, manipulation, self-harm, and why your version of “I love you” might not mean a thing to him.Ladies, if you’ve ever doubted your sanity, found yourself reasoning with a man who seems immune to empathy, or been stunned by hot-and-cold affection that makes you question your worth, Lewis pulls back the curtain. You’ll walk away not just with eye-opening warning signs, but with a new perspective on what psychopathy is, how to spot its most deceptive traits, and,most importantly, how to protect yourself from unhealthy relationships before you’re in too deep.SHOWNOTESWhat “I Love You” Actually Means to a Psychopath When Love Dries Up: The Breakdown of His Marriage After Childbirth Love Bombing: Why Lewis Does It, And Why He Tells His Partners Upfront The Dangerous Difference: Predatory vs. Self-Aware Psychopaths Debunking Psychopathy Myths: Not All Psychopaths Cheat Impulse Control, Violence—and Why Morals Are a Choice Childhood Trauma and the Origins of Lewis’ Emotional Detachment Manipulation, Self-Destruction—and How Suicide Threats Trap Partners From Expulsion to Prison: Breaking Rules and the Cost of No ConsequencesThe Dangers of Reasoning With a Psychopath—And Why You Can’t Change Him Warning Signs You’re Being Used (and Why Some Manipulators Don’t Even Know It)The Heartbreak of Wanting Empathy From Someone Who Can’t Give It Thank you to today’s sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaHomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.comFollow Lewis Raymond Taylor:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewisraymondtaylorFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/LewisRaymondTaylorOfficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lewisraymondtaylorFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Real talk: How do you quit falling for dangerous charmers, manipulative narcissists, or men who only reveal their true colors after you’re already invested? Welcome to Part 2 of my mind-blowing conversation with Dr. Gad Saad: Evolutionary Behavioral Scientist, best-selling author, and relentless unraveler of human behavior. We go ALL IN on the psychology of self-sabotage, how to finally take ownership of your choices, and why your “type” might be holding you back. In this unmissable second half, we dissect self-serving bias, breaking destructive patterns, and how to stop being your own worst enemy. Plus: what is “Alpine Divorce” (and why is it blowing up right now!), what the heck is the dark triad, the evolutionary roots of psychopathy, sperm wars, why men AND women cheat, and how your bundle of traits determines lifelong happiness. It’s not just about finding the right partner: It’s about understanding YOURSELF and protecting your heart before it gets broken (again). SHOWNOTES Why Empathetic Women Fall for Narcissists How Childhood and Attachment Styles Influence Your Choices Ambition as Bait: How Predators Use Your Dreams Against You Lisa’s Personal Story: From People-Pleaser to Powerhouse What Is an “Alpine Divorce” and Why Is This Trend SO Messed Up? The Dark Triad (And Why You Need to Watch for It) Machiavellianism: Always Bad, or Sometimes Useful? Why Are Some People Psychopaths? The Evolutionary Argument Personality Types, Tribe Dynamics & Why “One Size” Does NOT Fit All Why Evolution Didn’t Erase Psychopathy Would You Rather Face a Bear or a Man in the Woods? (The SURPRISING Answer) What Women REALLY Fear, and What Evolution Says About It Why Women Cheat (and When). Science vs. Stereotype The Sperm Wars Theory & Hidden Truths of Monogamy Do Men Cheat When Their Wives Are Pregnant? How Fatherhood Changes Male Testosterone (and Behavior) When Men’s Testosterone Spikes, And What It Means for Your Relationship When Winning (Or Losing) Drives Sex and Violence Why We Choose the Wrong Men: The Problem with Shallow “Types” The Secret to Lasting Relationships: Bundle of Attributes > One Trait Thank you to our sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Gad Saad X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/GadSaad YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/ Book: “The Parasitic Mind” (and pre-order “Suicidal Empathy”) FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You guys know I am obsessed with understanding why we do the things we do, especially the things that get us hurt. And today’s guest is the perfect guide. Dr. Gad Saad is an evolutionary behavioral scientist, professor, bestselling author, and one of the world’s boldest truth-tellers when it comes to the hard science behind jealousy, abuse, attraction, and the dark side of human relationships. If you’ve ever wondered why the “bad boy” draws you in, why jealousy can be so dangerous, or why some relationships escalate into control and even violence, this is the episode you need. Dr. Saad pulls no punches, and you’ll be SHOCKED by how much of your love life can be explained by ancient evolutionary pressures. In Part 1, we dig deep into the evolutionary truths behind why women are repeatedly drawn to the same red-flag men, why men get so possessive and jealous, and the biological reasons behind dangerous behavior in relationships. Get ready to have your mind blown (and maybe cringe a little) as we unpack child abuse, infidelity, the real meaning of jealousy, red flags to watch for, and why “dangerous” is sometimes so damn attractive. SHOWNOTES Why Your Husband Is Statistically the Most Dangerous Person In Your Life Child Abuse, Step-parents & the Cinderella Effect The Lion Analogy: Brutal Nature, Brutal Lessons Different Types of Abuse: Stepmother vs. Stepfather Why Men Evolved Jealousy & Rage Over Infidelity Evolutionary Explanations Aren’t Excuses Lisa’s Story: Taking Ownership After Staying Silent How to Vet for Jealousy: Traits & Red Flags Controlling Partners: When Jealousy Becomes Dangerous Situational vs. Dispositional Jealousy & Fundamental Attribution Error Opposites Attract? Or “Birds of a Feather”? (What Actually Works) The Height Rule: Why Almost No Women Pick Shorter Men What Makes “Alpha” Men So Risky? (From Lions to Epstein) Ostrich Parasitic Syndrome: Why We Ignore Red Flags Why Some Women Fall for Predators: Ambition, Gut Instinct, and Dangerous Men Parental Investment Theory & Women’s “Calibration” The Fantasy vs. The Reality of Taming Bad Boys “Mate Value” and Why High-Value Women Don’t Settle for Red Flags Why High-Status Men Cheat (and What Unlocks Male Power) What Women Really Want: Social Dominance, Empathy, and the Right Amount of Power When Power Spills into Abuse Why Certain Famous Men are Sex Symbols for Some, Not All The Real-Life “Fifty Shades” and the Power of Arrogance Sneaky F*cker Strategies: How “Soft Boys” Manipulate Empathy Serial Killer Tactics: The Wounded Bird Routine Lisa’s Real-Life Crime Story: Trusting Your Gut, Not Your Empathy Thank you to our sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Gad Saad X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/GadSaad YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/ Book: “The Parasitic Mind” (and pre-order “Suicidal Empathy”) FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever blamed yourself for someone else’s chaos, or worried that “genius” gives people a hall pass for bad behavior, Part 2 is your game-changer. In the second half, ex CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and I dive even deeper into the psychological maze of Kanye West. From his infamous Sway interview to his viral Piers Morgan clashes, we dissect the moments that had everyone screaming “Narcissist!”, and reveal why the truth is far more complicated, painful, and urgent for every woman dealing with emotional instability in her world. We dig into the impact of brain injury, bipolar disorder, and why some people never develop the filters that keep their emotions (and outbursts) in check. Most importantly, we talk about what to do when love collides with someone’s untreated (or undiagnosed) mental health struggles, and how to protect yourself when patterns are clear but solutions aren’t. Here’s how you spot the difference between manipulation and genuine developmental challenge, and why YOU are always your own hero. SHOWNOTES “I am the most impactful artist of our generation”—how to decode self-aggrandizement The Sway interview: repetition, rage, and spectrum behaviors No eye contact, mic awareness—signs of autistic spectrum Creative talent meets developmental challenge: Where the myths fall apart Emotional escalation and de-escalation: The validation pattern Body language: manufactured confidence, defensive posture, and what’s different (Piers Morgan) Answering like a child: What the “look at my view” moment really tells us Cognitive struggle, stalling, and stunted adaptation Male competition, showmanship, and abrasive deflection Shifted tone, no aggression, and dissociative energy—possible signs of medication The letter: Car accident, frontal lobe injury, and newly diagnosed bipolar I Excuses vs. explanations: What medical trauma DOES and DOESN’T excuse Shared responsibility: How to protect yourself, love wisely, and make the safest next decision Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy Twitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspy FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when you’re transfixed by someone’s words, but what’s lurking underneath is screaming for your attention? Or when you wonder, is this person unpredictable out of passion, pain… or something darker? Today’s episode is the breakdown you didn’t know you needed. I’m joined by Andrew Bustamante, a former CIA spy, elite operations officer, and real-life human lie detector. Together, we analyze the one and only Kanye West (Ye): his outbursts, emotional swings, the public meltdowns. Is Kanye simply a misunderstood creative genius? Dealing with undiagnosed mental health struggles? Or is he, as many headlines have suggested, a classic narcissist? We use real clips, direct transcripts, and Andrew’s expertise in body language and behavioral analysis to pull back the curtain on one of pop culture’s most polarizing figures. This is your crash course in influence literacy, learning to spot red flags and decode the truth: Whether you’re dealing with a superstar, a partner, or your own inner circle. And trust me, by the end, you will never look at these behaviors the same way. SHOWNOTES Outbursts, danger, and childish tantrums—what’s really going on? Andrew analyzes emotional outbursts vs. creative personality Is this mental health, narcissism, or something else? Clues from Kim Kardashian: When personalities change Chemical imbalance, neurodivergence, and non-physical aggression Autism spectrum, developmental issues, and family reactions Validation, childlike reactions, and the power of emotional response Breakdown: Manipulation vs. intimidation: Narcissist or something deeper? Medication, hospital visits, and the suppressed self Kris Jenner’s calm: Recognizing long-term family patterns Why validation works and how patterns help partners cope Storming off: The sensory overload escape Why not all coping mechanisms are intentional Hollywood, interviews, and new layers of Kanye behavior Body language breakdown: aggression, openness, confusion Structured thinking, repetition, and spectrum tells The man-child trap: Obligation vs. manipulation in relationships Repetition, grandiose demands, and the difference between narcissistic and developmental thinking Mimicry, mental stunting, and what disrupted Kanye’s growth Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy Twitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspy FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You ever get hit with that gut-wrenching moment when your bestie ghosts you for zero reason, or you’re stuck in a toxic group chat that makes Mean Girls look like a Disney movie? Or maybe you’re STILL overanalyzing that friendship you let go of a decade ago and wondering… did I really do the right thing? Homie, grab your coffee and let’s talk. Because today, it’s just YOU and ME! And we’re getting real about all the juicy, complicated, and heartbreaking friendship dilemmas you sent in for our very first Q&A episode! I’m peeling back all the layers on friendship breakups, boundaries, frenemy betrayal, toxic family, ghosting, and why trusting yourself is the first step to never abandoning who you really are. If you’ve ever felt alone, confused, stuck, or alone in a room full of “friends”… This is YOUR episode. And if you love this, smash that follow button, slide into my DMs with your burning questions, and let’s make this the most supportive, unfiltered space on the internet. SHOWNOTES When to Let Go Of a Friendship (And How to Know It Was the Right Call) Setting Boundaries with Toxic In-Laws (or Anyone!) Getting Ghosted By Your Friend: Surviving Without Blaming (or Losing) Yourself How to Set Boundaries Without Drowning in Guilt The Phone-Off Weekend: My Bravest Boundary Move Ever Dealing With Pushback & Teaching Others to Support Your Needs Why True Friends Show Up Even When Plans Change Ending the Cycle of Confusion, Guilt & Second-Guessing Understanding you can’t “fix” other people—only YOUR response How to show up strong after betrayal… and still let in the good ones Thank you, EVERY single one of you, for sending in your most vulnerable questions and stories. You are NOT alone in this! Want more? Make sure to follow, share your story, and DM me on Instagram! This Q&A series is just getting started. FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever stared at your phone, rereading a text from a so-called friend and thinking, “Am I crazy, or is she actually sabotaging me?”... Homie, THIS is the brutal-but-liberating episode you need. Part 2 dives HEAD FIRST into the most insidious, covert tactics that female narcissists and manipulators use to keep you confused, isolated, and doubting your own self-worth. Licensed psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno seriously takes us to school on how reputation poisonings, smear campaigns, and performative loyalty can destroy your confidence in ways a bad boyfriend never could. We go deep into survival strategies, how to rebuild your self-trust, spot toxic patterns (even with family. Yes, we go FULL IN on mother-daughter dynamics), and the concrete steps that can get you OUT for good. This part is ALL about healing, reclaiming your reality, and setting unbreakable boundaries. SHOWNOTES: How Smear Campaigns Start Before You Even Meet Golden Child, Scapegoat, and Narcissistic Mothers Reputation Poisoning—Being Judged Before You Even Walk In How to Rebuild Your Reality Confidence, Step by Step Name the Behavior: Why Language Changes EVERYTHING Spotting the Pattern: Liking or Not, It’s Still There Accept It Was Intentional: The Truth About Manipulation How to Validate Your Perceptions & Stop Gaslighting Yourself Setting Boundaries: Contracting with Yourself for Integrity First Steps Out: Education, Community & Freedom Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those friendships where you keep giving and giving but somehow end up feeling drained and confused every single time? Or the “bestie” who makes sly comments that just don’t sit right, but you talk yourself out of it because… girl code? I have BEEN there, and today is the day we’re finally breaking it all DOWN. For this very special deep dive I called in Dr. Peter Salerno licensed psychotherapist, author, and a true expert on narcissism, manipulation, and what happens when toxic “friendships” start eroding your confidence and warping your reality. You guys have seriously flooded my inbox about female narcissists, toxic girl groups, and why it’s so damn hard to spot the sabotage when it’s coming from another woman. So buckle up: Part 1 is THE must-listen guide to understanding the dark tactics that thrive in female friendships, from weaponized secrets all the way to emotional blackmail. SHOWNOTES What Makes a Female Narcissist Different? Why Do We Trust Women More? Cultural Blind Spots Exposed The Engine of Narcissism in Friend Groups Weaponizing Secrets & False Confiding How Narcissists Use “Girl Code” as a Weapon Healthy Skepticism - How to Protect Yourself from Emotional Manipulation Passive Aggressive Jokes vs. Covert Aggression Triangulation: Pitting Friends Against Each Other The Power of Loyalty & How It Gets Exploited Self Doubt, Gaslighting and the Shame Spiral When Things Turn DARK: Borderline, Psychopathy, and Group Retaliation Friendship Betrayal, Cognitive Dissonance, and Second Guessing Yourself Performative Friendships vs. the Real Thing How Friendship “Cult Leaders” Make You Doubt Your Own Reality Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this absolutely FIRE episode of Women of Impact with the ultra-inspiring marketer, entrepreneur, and frikin’ resilient confident badass, Coach Stormy!!  And she is sharing with us allllll her secrets to unbelievable resilience. Even as she faced the death of her mother, divorce and postpartum depression, and went from her highest highs to her lowest lows, she embraced her SPICE, got vulnerable, and rebuilt herself better than before!  We also talk about:  - Strategies to take ownership of your life and your dreams (instead of stuffing them in the closet!!) - Her tactics for killing your ego so you can finally become unstoppable - And sooooo many more gems of wisdom!  So my homie, don't miss out on the final part with my girl, Coach Stormy.  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Coach Stormy: Website: https://stormywellington.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachstormy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachstormy?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachstormy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever looked at someone who’s crazy successful and thought, “Wow, they must be one in a BILLION, and there's NOOOO way I can be or do that”???  Well, my homie, get ready because today's episode of Women of Impact is all about showing you that YOU absolutely can be that anomaly too, no matter wherever you're starting from. It’s totally possible homie, IF, and that’s a BIG IF, you have the right mindset, the right strategies, and the right approach.  And that’s why today I’ve brought on the amaaaaaazing frikin’ badass Coach Stormy. She is known for her massive success in marketing and direct sales, but few know she grew up with a lot of adversity (including drugs, stripping, food stamps, and more).  Get ready to learn what it takes to be the anomaly, because Coach Stormy is breaking down: - Exact steps she took to rebuild herself AND her confidence to go from being a teen mom stripping and on food stamps, to a multi-million dollar entrepreneur and inspiration to women around the world - Her R-I-C-H strategy that you can use to stay grounded, authentic, and focused on your journey to transform your life and become a more confident badass - Tactics you can use to stand up for yourself in a respectful way when someone disrespects you - Actual steps you need to take to go from your lowest low, to developing amazing, resilient, badass confidence!!!  Once you’re done absorbing the FIRE wisdom from Coach Stormy, you’ll be ready to start rebuilding your life IMMEDIATELY and believe for a frikin’ fact that no matter where you are right now, you can change your life if you take responsibility and make it happen! Follow Coach Stormy: Website: https://stormywellington.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachstormy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachstormy?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachstormy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There are SO many pressures that are put on us women – like to get married, to have kids, to have an amazing career – ALL at the same time and before it’s “too late”.  So it’s sadly no surprise at all how many women end up succumbing to the MASSIVE pressures and just give up on finding Mr. Right, or the job that they’re actually passionate about, and settle in the hopes that it will make everyone else (even the mailman) happy.  And we all know how that goes, right?? You end up living everyone else's life and you are left feeling like an empty shell of that amazing woman that you either used to be or the woman that you know that you can be! So on this episode of Women of Impact, I wanted to bring on someone who stood her ground despite the INSANE pressures, broke the mold of what everyone expected of her, and got back up, even when life kept knocking her down!  This inspiring woman has it ALL - the career, the marriage, and the family - without giving in or settling. BUT (and of course there’s a catch), she didn’t do it until she was frikin’ 48 years old and most people said it was too late for her.  Today’s guest is journalist, talk show host, and author Tamron Hall!!  Now homies, you KNOW I believe in my core that age is just a number and you should NEVER let it stop you from making your dreams come true, and Tamron couldn’t be a better frikin’ role model to learn from!  In this episode, we dig into:  - How to maintain your confidence and get back up, even when you’ve been fired, left ANOTHER bad relationship, or feel like you’re “past your prime” - Why you need to bet on yourself if you want to actually make changes in your life   - Tamron’s genius way of thinking about everything in your life as preparation  - How to handle people calling you difficult  - How to stay open to a man coming into your life, even when you think it’s “too late” for you - And so much more!!   Let me tell you guys, by the end of this episode, you will know exactly what you need to do to, no matter what age you are, to take your power back in your life, not let challenges knock your confidence down, and do what you need to frikin’ do to make your dreams a reality WITHOUT settling or succumbing to anyone else's pressures in life!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices