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You know those moments when your gut is SCREAMING that something’s off, but everyone else just shrugs it off like, “You’re overreacting”? Homie, this is the episode that finally puts a spotlight on why your intuition is your biggest superpower, especially when the whole world tries to gaslight you out of it.Today, we’re diving DEEP into the body language, verbal gymnastics, and high-stakes manipulation behind one of the most infamous cases of our time. We’re breaking down Ghislaine Maxwell: Reading her cues, calling out the lies, and exposing the hidden “tells” that every survivor and truth-seeker NEEDS to spot. From depositions to prison interviews, and the voices of survivors, we don’t just talk about red flags, we put them under a microscope for you.Here’s exactly what we dive into:The #1 body language signal that screams deception (and what “effort” really means)Why narcissists act like the victim, even when they’re on trialHow to reframe victim memories (and why “I don’t recall” is such a calculated phrase)The psychology behind grooming and how powerful people protect each otherChapter TitlesRating Ghislaine’s Honesty: Why 5/10 Is a Red FlagWhen “I Don’t Recall” Becomes a ShieldNarcissism, Victim Mentality & High-Stress ResponseThe “Fifth Amendment” Defense: What That Really SignalsHot Seat Behavior: What Happens When The Truth Is UncomfortableThe “Gas Tank” Theory: When Liars Run Out of EnergyStatement vs. Responsibility: Who Does Ghislaine Blame?How Nefarious Was She, Really? The 9/10 ArgumentSurvivor Stories: How Grooming and Broken Trust BeginEye Movements: Truth, Memory, and Self-ProtectionAssessing Survivor Credibility: 8 Out of 10 HonestMaxwell & Epstein Photos: The Real Power DynamicThank you to this episode’s sponsors: K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.comOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Andrew Bustamante:Website: https://everydayspy.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this episode of Women of Impact with the amazing Terri Cole. If you're ready to stop the cycle of overgiving and burning out, then my homie, you're in the right place. And we’re getting even deeper into the nitty-frikin-gritty of: - how to spot self-destructive patterns- how to set solid boundaries no one can push- taking back your power & your voice This episode gives you a blueprint for how you thrive – not just survive – within a relationship, including the one that you have with yourself!!And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Terri Cole:Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/Pre-order “Too Much”: https://hfcbook.com/FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you’re always the one: jumping in to fix things, taking care of everything, and helping everyone with their problems – then my homie, listen up, coz this episode of Women of Impact is for YOU!! Today we're diving into the world of high-functioning co-dependency with none other than my girl, Terry Cole. Terry Cole is a licensed therapist and bestselling author who empowers women to break the cycle of living without boundaries so they can have better boundaries, more effective communication, healthier relationships, and less B.S. in their lives!!! And she is breaking down:- how to actually start building strong personal boundaries- recognizing the patterns of high functioning codependency- why getting your validation fix from others is super frikin damaging- understanding the blueprint for prioritizing yourself- the ways you might actually be attracting a narcissistic partner This episode will help you to take your power back and create a life that is genuinely fulfilling, where you're not actually sacrificing your sake for everybody else. This is the thing that could actually be holding you back from going after that job, that relationship, or anything else in your life – and you don’t even realize it!!Follow Terri Cole:Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/Pre-order “Too Much”: https://hfcbook.com/FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those relationships where you’re told you’re “too sensitive,” “too needy,” or you just “can’t take a joke”… but your gut says, run? This is the masterclass on narcissists, emotional predators, and the cunning manipulation tactics they use to rope women in, keep them stuck, and leave them doubting their own sanity.I sat down with Richard Grannon, renowned psychological educator and author, who’s made it his mission to expose the dark science behind narcissistic abuse. If you’ve ever felt like you were the only one trapped in someone else’s reality—gaslit, guilted, or forced to play games you had no idea how to win—homie, you are not alone. In Part 1, we break down the actual playbook of narcissists, how they bait their partners, and the psychological patterns that keep women vulnerable to these emotional predators. Whether you’re in it, healing from it, or supporting a friend—this episode will shake you awake.SHOWNOTESCan a narcissist truly love or commit? Psychopaths vs NarcissistsHow narcissists perform vulnerability to hook caring women Sex, intimacy, and the weaponization of desire: what narcissists really wantWithholding sex as control: Why it hits women at the core of identityCommitment and marriage in the narcissist’s worldviewChildren as pawns: what having kids means for a narcissistThe terrifying truth about intergenerational narcissismRelationship violence: gendered patterns and the hidden dangersThe predators playbook: scanning and selecting vulnerable targetsThank you to this episode’s sponsors: K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.comOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFOLLOW RICHARD GRANNON:Follow Richard Grannon:Website: https://www.richardgrannon.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/richardgrannonYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RichardGrannonSTAR Network: https://www.star-network.org.ukFOLLOW ME (Lisa Bilyeu):Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever been hit so hard by rejection that it felt like your entire world was falling apart? Whether it’s getting passed over for that dream job, being ghosted after a date you thought went great, or dealing with a partner who betrayed you – rejection can be absolutely soul-crushing.But what if I told you that rejection could actually be your secret weapon?In this episode of Women of Impact, preacher, business executive, and author Nona Jones is sharing how she mastered the art of turning rejection into the best thing that ever happened to her. Nona faced constant rejection from her mother, endured sexual abuse, and even struggled with suicidal thoughts as a child. And yet she overcame it all to build herself the amazing life that she has now, and she’s sharing it all in this interview!!We also cover:- How to flip the script on rejection and see it as a gift- Nona’s 4-step O.P.E.N. method to help you unlock the potential hidden in every rejection- The sneaky ways rejection can lower your expectations and how to break free from that trap- Why reclaiming your power after rejection can change your life in every possible wayIf you've ever felt the pain of rejection to the point where you start to believe that you're not good enough, whether that's from a relationship or a job or your family, then my homie, you need to frikin’ listen to this episode because we need to stop giving our power away to other people that reject us and we actually need to start finding the purpose hidden behind it so that we can start to own our power again. Follow Nona Jones:Website: https://www.nonajones.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nonanotnora/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NonaNotNoraGet Your Copy of “The Gift of Rejection”: https://a.co/d/2tRyA2VFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those times when you KNOW something is wrong, but everyone around you gaslights you into thinking it's all “in your head”? Or when a woman finally speaks up about abuse, only to be dismissed as “crazy” by her family, the police, even doctors? Homie, grab a pen: This one is going to drop truths that might just save a life.I'm sitting down with the powerhouse psychologist and best-selling author, Dr. Jessica Taylor. She’s known for her unfiltered work helping women who have experienced abuse, writing bombshell books like Why Women Are Blamed for Everything and Sexy But Psycho, and training police and legal pros on the REAL ways women get silenced by the mental health system. Jessica is here to break down why the quickest way to shut a woman up is to call her “mad”, and exactly how this dangerous narrative gets weaponized against women who speak out.We tackle why society is obsessed with pathologizing women, how the court system often falls for it, the horrifying old-school roots of “hysteria,” and how women start to believe these lies about themselves (sometimes with deadly results). And trust me, Dr. Jessica Taylor is about to shatter every stereotype you think you knew.SHOWNOTESWeaponizing Mental Health: Silencing Women Who Speak OutHistory of silencing women through psychiatric labelsBig public examples: Britney, Kesha & the media’s mental health narrative How victims reporting abuse get labeled psychotic—and not believed The case of “the man in the attic” and the failures of mental health assessmentsMental health used to excuse perpetrators—while discrediting victimsToo “attractive” or “unattractive”? Either way, women lose in courtInternalized misogyny: Why women so often judge and silence other womenThe truth about female stalkers—and why they mostly target other womenRom-coms, commercials and the cultural romanticizing of stalkingHow pathologizing language is used to erase abuseHysteria, wandering wombs, and the insane medical history that still haunts usThe history: Women thrown in asylums for reading, thinking, not marryingPractical tools: How to stop pathologizing yourself and protect your realityFollow Dr Jessica Taylor:Website: https://drjessicataylor.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/drjesstaylor Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@drjessicataylor9164 Victim Advocacy Research: https://www.victimfocus.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuThank you to today’s sponsors:Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comShopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaHomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this POWERFUL episode of Women of Impact with the world’s #1 narcissist expert, Dr. Ramani!And guys, we just. keep. frikin’. digging DEEPER into the complex emotions and feelings that come up when you’re in a toxic relationship and how to heal from the abuse. We cover…- How shame deeply affects your actions AND the narcissist’s actions - How confusion & despair wear down your spirit and energy for life- The 3 Rs that keep you trapped in the toxic web- How to finally move on with the “recover from the lie” method Don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Dr. Ramani. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniOrder “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today we’re joined by the world’s #1 narcissist expert who is here to help you actually heal and move on from narcissistic abuse!As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the behaviors and patterns that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. Most people don’t know this about her, but my girl Dr. Ramani has actually been a victim of narcissistic abuse many times throughout her own life. And in this episode she is sharing some of the lessons she learned from her own experiences and the knock-on effects those experiences still have on her to this day.In this episode, we’re diving into:- Societal myths about narcissists that diminish the seriousness of their abuse - The best way to approach someone you think is in a relationship with a narcissist (and how to respond if YOU’RE the one approached!)- The self-blame spiral that has you thinking it’s YOUR fault & why you MUST escape it to take your power BACK from the narcissist!- AND SOOOO MUCH MORE!! And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! So if you’re ready to finally frikin’ MOVE ON from that toxic person in your life then grab a cuppa and listen close homie, because this episode does NOT disappoint! Order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniOrder “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This conversation picks up RIGHT where we left off: Digging even deeper into the mind of a self-aware psychopath and how these traits can play out in relationships, success, and personal transformation. In Part 2, Lewis Raymond Taylor gets brutally honest about what it means to feel nothing (not even guilt or remorse) when you hurt someone, why some boundaries come across as ruthlessly cold, and how true self-awareness becomes the ONLY chance at redemption or change.We myth-bust even further: Can you really spot a psychopath in a crowd? Are they born or made? Why are so many powerful leaders, surgeons, and CEOs edging into the dark triad? Plus, Lewis details how he’s used his condition to fuel business, personal growth, and, yep, a global movement of impact, without ever pretending to be anyone but himself. You’ll never look at boundaries, logic, or emotional detachment the same way again.SHOWNOTESCommunication Hacks: Explaining Need, Not Crying For Comfort The Thanksgiving Test: How Misunderstandings Play Out In Real Life Why Setting Boundaries Doesn’t Come With Guilt—Ever Mythbusters: Can Psychopaths Cry? (And Why They Mimic Your Emotions)Resting “Bastard Face,” Masking Energy, and Selective Warmth Are Psychopaths Born or Made? How Nature and Nurture Collide Childhood Abuse, Emotional Voids, and The Birth of Significance-Seeking Can You Spot a Psychopath in a Lineup? The World’s Best Chameleons Why Society Needs Psychopaths—And Why Some Become LeadersCan Psychopaths Change? “Transmuted Psychopathy,” and What Redemption Looks LikeThe Gifts of the Dark Side: What Really Drives Lewis (And Why He’s Grateful For His Diagnosis) Thank you to today’s sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaHomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.comFollow Lewis Raymond Taylor:Website: https://www.lewisraymondtaylor.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewisraymondtaylorYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lewisraymondtaylorFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wondered what it’s like to love someone who literally feels… nothing? In this jaw-dropping episode, I sit down with Lewis Raymond Taylor: serial entrepreneur, author, and self-proclaimed diagnosed psychopath, to dismantle all the myths, fears, and confusion that swirl around relationships with men who have antisocial and psychopathic traits. We go raw and real, from his diagnosis and childhood trauma to explosive first loves, love bombing, manipulation, self-harm, and why your version of “I love you” might not mean a thing to him.Ladies, if you’ve ever doubted your sanity, found yourself reasoning with a man who seems immune to empathy, or been stunned by hot-and-cold affection that makes you question your worth, Lewis pulls back the curtain. You’ll walk away not just with eye-opening warning signs, but with a new perspective on what psychopathy is, how to spot its most deceptive traits, and,most importantly, how to protect yourself from unhealthy relationships before you’re in too deep.SHOWNOTESWhat “I Love You” Actually Means to a Psychopath When Love Dries Up: The Breakdown of His Marriage After Childbirth Love Bombing: Why Lewis Does It, And Why He Tells His Partners Upfront The Dangerous Difference: Predatory vs. Self-Aware Psychopaths Debunking Psychopathy Myths: Not All Psychopaths Cheat Impulse Control, Violence—and Why Morals Are a Choice Childhood Trauma and the Origins of Lewis’ Emotional Detachment Manipulation, Self-Destruction—and How Suicide Threats Trap Partners From Expulsion to Prison: Breaking Rules and the Cost of No ConsequencesThe Dangers of Reasoning With a Psychopath—And Why You Can’t Change Him Warning Signs You’re Being Used (and Why Some Manipulators Don’t Even Know It)The Heartbreak of Wanting Empathy From Someone Who Can’t Give It Thank you to today’s sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaHomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.comFollow Lewis Raymond Taylor:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewisraymondtaylorFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/LewisRaymondTaylorOfficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lewisraymondtaylorFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Real talk: How do you quit falling for dangerous charmers, manipulative narcissists, or men who only reveal their true colors after you’re already invested? Welcome to Part 2 of my mind-blowing conversation with Dr. Gad Saad: Evolutionary Behavioral Scientist, best-selling author, and relentless unraveler of human behavior. We go ALL IN on the psychology of self-sabotage, how to finally take ownership of your choices, and why your “type” might be holding you back. In this unmissable second half, we dissect self-serving bias, breaking destructive patterns, and how to stop being your own worst enemy. Plus: what is “Alpine Divorce” (and why is it blowing up right now!), what the heck is the dark triad, the evolutionary roots of psychopathy, sperm wars, why men AND women cheat, and how your bundle of traits determines lifelong happiness. It’s not just about finding the right partner: It’s about understanding YOURSELF and protecting your heart before it gets broken (again). SHOWNOTES Why Empathetic Women Fall for Narcissists How Childhood and Attachment Styles Influence Your Choices Ambition as Bait: How Predators Use Your Dreams Against You Lisa’s Personal Story: From People-Pleaser to Powerhouse What Is an “Alpine Divorce” and Why Is This Trend SO Messed Up? The Dark Triad (And Why You Need to Watch for It) Machiavellianism: Always Bad, or Sometimes Useful? Why Are Some People Psychopaths? The Evolutionary Argument Personality Types, Tribe Dynamics & Why “One Size” Does NOT Fit All Why Evolution Didn’t Erase Psychopathy Would You Rather Face a Bear or a Man in the Woods? (The SURPRISING Answer) What Women REALLY Fear, and What Evolution Says About It Why Women Cheat (and When). Science vs. Stereotype The Sperm Wars Theory & Hidden Truths of Monogamy Do Men Cheat When Their Wives Are Pregnant? How Fatherhood Changes Male Testosterone (and Behavior) When Men’s Testosterone Spikes, And What It Means for Your Relationship When Winning (Or Losing) Drives Sex and Violence Why We Choose the Wrong Men: The Problem with Shallow “Types” The Secret to Lasting Relationships: Bundle of Attributes > One Trait Thank you to our sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Gad Saad X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/GadSaad YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/ Book: “The Parasitic Mind” (and pre-order “Suicidal Empathy”) FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You guys know I am obsessed with understanding why we do the things we do, especially the things that get us hurt. And today’s guest is the perfect guide. Dr. Gad Saad is an evolutionary behavioral scientist, professor, bestselling author, and one of the world’s boldest truth-tellers when it comes to the hard science behind jealousy, abuse, attraction, and the dark side of human relationships. If you’ve ever wondered why the “bad boy” draws you in, why jealousy can be so dangerous, or why some relationships escalate into control and even violence, this is the episode you need. Dr. Saad pulls no punches, and you’ll be SHOCKED by how much of your love life can be explained by ancient evolutionary pressures. In Part 1, we dig deep into the evolutionary truths behind why women are repeatedly drawn to the same red-flag men, why men get so possessive and jealous, and the biological reasons behind dangerous behavior in relationships. Get ready to have your mind blown (and maybe cringe a little) as we unpack child abuse, infidelity, the real meaning of jealousy, red flags to watch for, and why “dangerous” is sometimes so damn attractive. SHOWNOTES Why Your Husband Is Statistically the Most Dangerous Person In Your Life Child Abuse, Step-parents & the Cinderella Effect The Lion Analogy: Brutal Nature, Brutal Lessons Different Types of Abuse: Stepmother vs. Stepfather Why Men Evolved Jealousy & Rage Over Infidelity Evolutionary Explanations Aren’t Excuses Lisa’s Story: Taking Ownership After Staying Silent How to Vet for Jealousy: Traits & Red Flags Controlling Partners: When Jealousy Becomes Dangerous Situational vs. Dispositional Jealousy & Fundamental Attribution Error Opposites Attract? Or “Birds of a Feather”? (What Actually Works) The Height Rule: Why Almost No Women Pick Shorter Men What Makes “Alpha” Men So Risky? (From Lions to Epstein) Ostrich Parasitic Syndrome: Why We Ignore Red Flags Why Some Women Fall for Predators: Ambition, Gut Instinct, and Dangerous Men Parental Investment Theory & Women’s “Calibration” The Fantasy vs. The Reality of Taming Bad Boys “Mate Value” and Why High-Value Women Don’t Settle for Red Flags Why High-Status Men Cheat (and What Unlocks Male Power) What Women Really Want: Social Dominance, Empathy, and the Right Amount of Power When Power Spills into Abuse Why Certain Famous Men are Sex Symbols for Some, Not All The Real-Life “Fifty Shades” and the Power of Arrogance Sneaky F*cker Strategies: How “Soft Boys” Manipulate Empathy Serial Killer Tactics: The Wounded Bird Routine Lisa’s Real-Life Crime Story: Trusting Your Gut, Not Your Empathy Thank you to our sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Gad Saad X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/GadSaad YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/ Book: “The Parasitic Mind” (and pre-order “Suicidal Empathy”) FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever blamed yourself for someone else’s chaos, or worried that “genius” gives people a hall pass for bad behavior, Part 2 is your game-changer. In the second half, ex CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and I dive even deeper into the psychological maze of Kanye West. From his infamous Sway interview to his viral Piers Morgan clashes, we dissect the moments that had everyone screaming “Narcissist!”, and reveal why the truth is far more complicated, painful, and urgent for every woman dealing with emotional instability in her world. We dig into the impact of brain injury, bipolar disorder, and why some people never develop the filters that keep their emotions (and outbursts) in check. Most importantly, we talk about what to do when love collides with someone’s untreated (or undiagnosed) mental health struggles, and how to protect yourself when patterns are clear but solutions aren’t. Here’s how you spot the difference between manipulation and genuine developmental challenge, and why YOU are always your own hero. SHOWNOTES “I am the most impactful artist of our generation”—how to decode self-aggrandizement The Sway interview: repetition, rage, and spectrum behaviors No eye contact, mic awareness—signs of autistic spectrum Creative talent meets developmental challenge: Where the myths fall apart Emotional escalation and de-escalation: The validation pattern Body language: manufactured confidence, defensive posture, and what’s different (Piers Morgan) Answering like a child: What the “look at my view” moment really tells us Cognitive struggle, stalling, and stunted adaptation Male competition, showmanship, and abrasive deflection Shifted tone, no aggression, and dissociative energy—possible signs of medication The letter: Car accident, frontal lobe injury, and newly diagnosed bipolar I Excuses vs. explanations: What medical trauma DOES and DOESN’T excuse Shared responsibility: How to protect yourself, love wisely, and make the safest next decision Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy Twitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspy FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when you’re transfixed by someone’s words, but what’s lurking underneath is screaming for your attention? Or when you wonder, is this person unpredictable out of passion, pain… or something darker? Today’s episode is the breakdown you didn’t know you needed. I’m joined by Andrew Bustamante, a former CIA spy, elite operations officer, and real-life human lie detector. Together, we analyze the one and only Kanye West (Ye): his outbursts, emotional swings, the public meltdowns. Is Kanye simply a misunderstood creative genius? Dealing with undiagnosed mental health struggles? Or is he, as many headlines have suggested, a classic narcissist? We use real clips, direct transcripts, and Andrew’s expertise in body language and behavioral analysis to pull back the curtain on one of pop culture’s most polarizing figures. This is your crash course in influence literacy, learning to spot red flags and decode the truth: Whether you’re dealing with a superstar, a partner, or your own inner circle. And trust me, by the end, you will never look at these behaviors the same way. SHOWNOTES Outbursts, danger, and childish tantrums—what’s really going on? Andrew analyzes emotional outbursts vs. creative personality Is this mental health, narcissism, or something else? Clues from Kim Kardashian: When personalities change Chemical imbalance, neurodivergence, and non-physical aggression Autism spectrum, developmental issues, and family reactions Validation, childlike reactions, and the power of emotional response Breakdown: Manipulation vs. intimidation: Narcissist or something deeper? Medication, hospital visits, and the suppressed self Kris Jenner’s calm: Recognizing long-term family patterns Why validation works and how patterns help partners cope Storming off: The sensory overload escape Why not all coping mechanisms are intentional Hollywood, interviews, and new layers of Kanye behavior Body language breakdown: aggression, openness, confusion Structured thinking, repetition, and spectrum tells The man-child trap: Obligation vs. manipulation in relationships Repetition, grandiose demands, and the difference between narcissistic and developmental thinking Mimicry, mental stunting, and what disrupted Kanye’s growth Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy Twitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspy FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You ever get hit with that gut-wrenching moment when your bestie ghosts you for zero reason, or you’re stuck in a toxic group chat that makes Mean Girls look like a Disney movie? Or maybe you’re STILL overanalyzing that friendship you let go of a decade ago and wondering… did I really do the right thing? Homie, grab your coffee and let’s talk. Because today, it’s just YOU and ME! And we’re getting real about all the juicy, complicated, and heartbreaking friendship dilemmas you sent in for our very first Q&A episode! I’m peeling back all the layers on friendship breakups, boundaries, frenemy betrayal, toxic family, ghosting, and why trusting yourself is the first step to never abandoning who you really are. If you’ve ever felt alone, confused, stuck, or alone in a room full of “friends”… This is YOUR episode. And if you love this, smash that follow button, slide into my DMs with your burning questions, and let’s make this the most supportive, unfiltered space on the internet. SHOWNOTES When to Let Go Of a Friendship (And How to Know It Was the Right Call) Setting Boundaries with Toxic In-Laws (or Anyone!) Getting Ghosted By Your Friend: Surviving Without Blaming (or Losing) Yourself How to Set Boundaries Without Drowning in Guilt The Phone-Off Weekend: My Bravest Boundary Move Ever Dealing With Pushback & Teaching Others to Support Your Needs Why True Friends Show Up Even When Plans Change Ending the Cycle of Confusion, Guilt & Second-Guessing Understanding you can’t “fix” other people—only YOUR response How to show up strong after betrayal… and still let in the good ones Thank you, EVERY single one of you, for sending in your most vulnerable questions and stories. You are NOT alone in this! Want more? Make sure to follow, share your story, and DM me on Instagram! This Q&A series is just getting started. FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever stared at your phone, rereading a text from a so-called friend and thinking, “Am I crazy, or is she actually sabotaging me?”... Homie, THIS is the brutal-but-liberating episode you need. Part 2 dives HEAD FIRST into the most insidious, covert tactics that female narcissists and manipulators use to keep you confused, isolated, and doubting your own self-worth. Licensed psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno seriously takes us to school on how reputation poisonings, smear campaigns, and performative loyalty can destroy your confidence in ways a bad boyfriend never could. We go deep into survival strategies, how to rebuild your self-trust, spot toxic patterns (even with family. Yes, we go FULL IN on mother-daughter dynamics), and the concrete steps that can get you OUT for good. This part is ALL about healing, reclaiming your reality, and setting unbreakable boundaries. SHOWNOTES: How Smear Campaigns Start Before You Even Meet Golden Child, Scapegoat, and Narcissistic Mothers Reputation Poisoning—Being Judged Before You Even Walk In How to Rebuild Your Reality Confidence, Step by Step Name the Behavior: Why Language Changes EVERYTHING Spotting the Pattern: Liking or Not, It’s Still There Accept It Was Intentional: The Truth About Manipulation How to Validate Your Perceptions & Stop Gaslighting Yourself Setting Boundaries: Contracting with Yourself for Integrity First Steps Out: Education, Community & Freedom Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those friendships where you keep giving and giving but somehow end up feeling drained and confused every single time? Or the “bestie” who makes sly comments that just don’t sit right, but you talk yourself out of it because… girl code? I have BEEN there, and today is the day we’re finally breaking it all DOWN. For this very special deep dive I called in Dr. Peter Salerno licensed psychotherapist, author, and a true expert on narcissism, manipulation, and what happens when toxic “friendships” start eroding your confidence and warping your reality. You guys have seriously flooded my inbox about female narcissists, toxic girl groups, and why it’s so damn hard to spot the sabotage when it’s coming from another woman. So buckle up: Part 1 is THE must-listen guide to understanding the dark tactics that thrive in female friendships, from weaponized secrets all the way to emotional blackmail. SHOWNOTES What Makes a Female Narcissist Different? Why Do We Trust Women More? Cultural Blind Spots Exposed The Engine of Narcissism in Friend Groups Weaponizing Secrets & False Confiding How Narcissists Use “Girl Code” as a Weapon Healthy Skepticism - How to Protect Yourself from Emotional Manipulation Passive Aggressive Jokes vs. Covert Aggression Triangulation: Pitting Friends Against Each Other The Power of Loyalty & How It Gets Exploited Self Doubt, Gaslighting and the Shame Spiral When Things Turn DARK: Borderline, Psychopathy, and Group Retaliation Friendship Betrayal, Cognitive Dissonance, and Second Guessing Yourself Performative Friendships vs. the Real Thing How Friendship “Cult Leaders” Make You Doubt Your Own Reality Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this absolutely FIRE episode of Women of Impact with the ultra-inspiring marketer, entrepreneur, and frikin’ resilient confident badass, Coach Stormy!!  And she is sharing with us allllll her secrets to unbelievable resilience. Even as she faced the death of her mother, divorce and postpartum depression, and went from her highest highs to her lowest lows, she embraced her SPICE, got vulnerable, and rebuilt herself better than before!  We also talk about:  - Strategies to take ownership of your life and your dreams (instead of stuffing them in the closet!!) - Her tactics for killing your ego so you can finally become unstoppable - And sooooo many more gems of wisdom!  So my homie, don't miss out on the final part with my girl, Coach Stormy.  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Coach Stormy: Website: https://stormywellington.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachstormy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachstormy?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachstormy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever looked at someone who’s crazy successful and thought, “Wow, they must be one in a BILLION, and there's NOOOO way I can be or do that”???  Well, my homie, get ready because today's episode of Women of Impact is all about showing you that YOU absolutely can be that anomaly too, no matter wherever you're starting from. It’s totally possible homie, IF, and that’s a BIG IF, you have the right mindset, the right strategies, and the right approach.  And that’s why today I’ve brought on the amaaaaaazing frikin’ badass Coach Stormy. She is known for her massive success in marketing and direct sales, but few know she grew up with a lot of adversity (including drugs, stripping, food stamps, and more).  Get ready to learn what it takes to be the anomaly, because Coach Stormy is breaking down: - Exact steps she took to rebuild herself AND her confidence to go from being a teen mom stripping and on food stamps, to a multi-million dollar entrepreneur and inspiration to women around the world - Her R-I-C-H strategy that you can use to stay grounded, authentic, and focused on your journey to transform your life and become a more confident badass - Tactics you can use to stand up for yourself in a respectful way when someone disrespects you - Actual steps you need to take to go from your lowest low, to developing amazing, resilient, badass confidence!!!  Once you’re done absorbing the FIRE wisdom from Coach Stormy, you’ll be ready to start rebuilding your life IMMEDIATELY and believe for a frikin’ fact that no matter where you are right now, you can change your life if you take responsibility and make it happen! Follow Coach Stormy: Website: https://stormywellington.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachstormy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachstormy?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachstormy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There are SO many pressures that are put on us women – like to get married, to have kids, to have an amazing career – ALL at the same time and before it’s “too late”.  So it’s sadly no surprise at all how many women end up succumbing to the MASSIVE pressures and just give up on finding Mr. Right, or the job that they’re actually passionate about, and settle in the hopes that it will make everyone else (even the mailman) happy.  And we all know how that goes, right?? You end up living everyone else's life and you are left feeling like an empty shell of that amazing woman that you either used to be or the woman that you know that you can be! So on this episode of Women of Impact, I wanted to bring on someone who stood her ground despite the INSANE pressures, broke the mold of what everyone expected of her, and got back up, even when life kept knocking her down!  This inspiring woman has it ALL - the career, the marriage, and the family - without giving in or settling. BUT (and of course there’s a catch), she didn’t do it until she was frikin’ 48 years old and most people said it was too late for her.  Today’s guest is journalist, talk show host, and author Tamron Hall!!  Now homies, you KNOW I believe in my core that age is just a number and you should NEVER let it stop you from making your dreams come true, and Tamron couldn’t be a better frikin’ role model to learn from!  In this episode, we dig into:  - How to maintain your confidence and get back up, even when you’ve been fired, left ANOTHER bad relationship, or feel like you’re “past your prime” - Why you need to bet on yourself if you want to actually make changes in your life   - Tamron’s genius way of thinking about everything in your life as preparation  - How to handle people calling you difficult  - How to stay open to a man coming into your life, even when you think it’s “too late” for you - And so much more!!   Let me tell you guys, by the end of this episode, you will know exactly what you need to do to, no matter what age you are, to take your power back in your life, not let challenges knock your confidence down, and do what you need to frikin’ do to make your dreams a reality WITHOUT settling or succumbing to anyone else's pressures in life!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

So you want to know if your partner, or your boss, or literally ANYONE, is lying to your face? Welcome to the masterclass. In Part 2 with Lena Sisco, we go even deeper into the art of lie detection, breaking down the infamous Bill Gates interviews, and teaching you the “triangle of truth” every woman needs. You’ll learn exactly how to decode red flags in body language, rate of speech, and verbal dodging in real-time… no lie detector needed. We get fiercely practical too: you’ll uncover the invisible biases that trap smart women into trusting the wrong people, plus the 4 reasons why people lie (and what each motive reveals about the person across from you). Want to know the key question to crack ANY liar? Or the one body movement that exposes deception 100% of the time? It’s all here: With scripts, breakdowns, and pop culture case studies so you’ll never be blindsided by a manipulator again. SHOWNOTES How reading body language reveals your own hidden insecurities NBC Interview: Gates’ admission, omission, and the smirk that says everything The “cat ate the canary” grin: What every liar leaks Frozen faces, head turns, and why body orientation screams avoidance The 6 subconscious biases that get women hurt: Stereotype, similar-to-me, halo effect, “if they’re doing it,” bond, and confirmation The cult playbook: How charisma + credibility can fool anyone Groupthink, the bond bias, and losing your intuition Why knowing your own bias matters as much as reading the other person The four reasons people lie—and how to recognize each motive Can people believe their own lies? Why not even psychopaths are exempt Why polygraphs fail (and how to spot a liar without one) How to use lie type to shape your questions and crack the truth The biggest mistake women make: Minimization, and why never to use it The script & strategy: How to actually confront your partner about cheating The step-by-step checklist for confronting lies (and when to run) Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com  FOLLOW LENA SISCO: Website:https://lenasisco.com LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/lenacsisco/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lenasisco11/  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ ⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you ever get the gut feeling someone’s lying…but you can’t quite prove it? Or worry that you’re missing all the red flags because the liar in your life is just that convincing? Then today’s episode is about to be your best weapon. I’m sitting down with the incredible Lena Sisco, former Department of Defense interrogator and literal human lie detector. She’s faced off against terrorists, cheaters, and manipulative masterminds, and now, she’s giving YOU the tools to decode deception in any relationship. We’re tearing back the curtain on lie detection: body language, micro-expressions, the four types of lies, and the sneaky “text bridges” and red flags cheaters use to get away with it. Plus, get the tools to build unbreakable psychological safety and trust in high-stakes conversations. We even break down viral cheating scandals and call out exactly what liars do on camera! No one is off limits. Buckle up, because you’ll never watch an interview, go on a date, or ask your partner a tough question the same way again. SHOWNOTES The #1 question to ask your partner if you suspect cheating Inside Lena Sisco’s background as a military interrogator and deception expert The science of “overselling” and why liars embellish simple answers Getting confessions: The power of trust and psychological safety Why never forcing a confession is the key to honest answers How to build trust in the first five minutes Reading personality and motivations through conversation Analyzing body language: Real-time breakdowns The Bill Gates & Epstein Scandal: Dissecting Melinda Gates’ interview What stress really looks like: swallowing, lip purses, blinking Four Types of Lies: Omission, false statements, embellishments, distortion Text bridges: The “and then…” excuse cheaters always use Why body language is a science (and how Botox throws it off!) Deep dive: Smirks, muscle tension, palms, and unspoken contempt The power of words and avoidance: “Those people,” withholding details Red flags in responses: Over-explaining and evasion Why congruency is everything (words + body + tone) Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com  FOLLOW LENA SISCO: Website:https://lenasisco.com LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/lenacsisco/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lenasisco11/  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another episode of Women of Impact and this one is FILLED with science-backed methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner!  Today we are joined by the world’s leading relationship scientists, Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Gottman. Together they have more than 50 years researching couples and relationship health, and they have SOOOO much information to share if you want to build a strong, long-lasting relationship! In this episode, we’re diving into: - The signs that all but guarantee your relationship won’t last, AND what you can do before it’s too late - Why you MUST go deep into the conflict to truly understand why you’re fighting - How to fight right and keep it from getting out of control with their “Repair checklist” - Ways you and your partner can come together and find solutions or compromise  - The 5 steps to ACTUALLY heal an emotional injury in your relationship - Why cheating is a symptom of a problem in your relationship, and not the CAUSE of the problems - How contempt in a relationship can lead to physical illness  - And soooo much more!   The Gottmans are dedicated to helping couples repair and strengthen their relationship, and their research has truly been revolutionary and unmatched! From fighting, to cheating, to sex and SOOOO much more, in this episode, you’re getting a research-based MASTERCLASS on strengthening relationships.  Be sure to get a copy of “Fight Right” here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow The Gottmans: Website: ⁠https://www.gottman.com/⁠ For Couples: ⁠https://gottmanconnect.com/⁠  Order Your Copy of “Fight Right”: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another episode of Women of Impact and this one is FILLED with science-backed methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner!  Today we are joined by the world’s leading relationship scientists, Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Gottman. Together they have more than 50 years researching couples and relationship health, and they have SOOOO much information to share if you want to build a strong, long-lasting relationship! In this episode, we’re diving into: - The signs that all but guarantee your relationship won’t last, AND what you can do before it’s too late - Why you MUST go deep into the conflict to truly understand why you’re fighting - How to fight right and keep it from getting out of control with their “Repair checklist” - Ways you and your partner can come together and find solutions or compromise  - The 5 steps to ACTUALLY heal an emotional injury in your relationship - Why cheating is a symptom of a problem in your relationship, and not the CAUSE of the problems - How contempt in a relationship can lead to physical illness  - And soooo much more!   The Gottmans are dedicated to helping couples repair and strengthen their relationship, and their research has truly been revolutionary and unmatched! From fighting, to cheating, to sex and SOOOO much more, in this episode, you’re getting a research-based MASTERCLASS on strengthening relationships.  Be sure to get a copy of “Fight Right” here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow The Gottmans: Website: ⁠https://www.gottman.com/⁠ For Couples: ⁠https://gottmanconnect.com/⁠  Order Your Copy of “Fight Right”: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another episode of Women of Impact and this one is FILLED with science-backed methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner!  Today we are joined by the world’s leading relationship scientists, Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Gottman. Together they have more than 50 years researching couples and relationship health, and they have SOOOO much information to share if you want to build a strong, long-lasting relationship! In this episode, we’re diving into: - The signs that all but guarantee your relationship won’t last, AND what you can do before it’s too late - Why you MUST go deep into the conflict to truly understand why you’re fighting - How to fight right and keep it from getting out of control with their “Repair checklist” - Ways you and your partner can come together and find solutions or compromise  - The 5 steps to ACTUALLY heal an emotional injury in your relationship - Why cheating is a symptom of a problem in your relationship, and not the CAUSE of the problems - How contempt in a relationship can lead to physical illness  - And soooo much more!   The Gottmans are dedicated to helping couples repair and strengthen their relationship, and their research has truly been revolutionary and unmatched! From fighting, to cheating, to sex and SOOOO much more, in this episode, you’re getting a research-based MASTERCLASS on strengthening relationships.  Be sure to get a copy of “Fight Right” here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow The Gottmans: Website: ⁠https://www.gottman.com/⁠ For Couples: ⁠https://gottmanconnect.com/⁠  Order Your Copy of “Fight Right”: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another episode of Women of Impact and this one is FILLED with science-backed methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner!  Today we are joined by the world’s leading relationship scientists, Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Gottman. Together they have more than 50 years researching couples and relationship health, and they have SOOOO much information to share if you want to build a strong, long-lasting relationship! In this episode, we’re diving into: - The signs that all but guarantee your relationship won’t last, AND what you can do before it’s too late - Why you MUST go deep into the conflict to truly understand why you’re fighting - How to fight right and keep it from getting out of control with their “Repair checklist” - Ways you and your partner can come together and find solutions or compromise  - The 5 steps to ACTUALLY heal an emotional injury in your relationship - Why cheating is a symptom of a problem in your relationship, and not the CAUSE of the problems - How contempt in a relationship can lead to physical illness  - And soooo much more!   The Gottmans are dedicated to helping couples repair and strengthen their relationship, and their research has truly been revolutionary and unmatched! From fighting, to cheating, to sex and SOOOO much more, in this episode, you’re getting a research-based MASTERCLASS on strengthening relationships.  Be sure to get a copy of “Fight Right” here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow The Gottmans: Website: ⁠https://www.gottman.com/⁠ For Couples: ⁠https://gottmanconnect.com/⁠  Order Your Copy of “Fight Right”: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this awesome conversation with dating and confidence coach Matthew Hussey!  The EYE-OPENING insights into dating, cheating, and overall life happiness just DON’T. STOP. COMING!!!!  We’re covering:  - 5 reasons WHY you say YES to people that are bad for you - How the EMPOWERING idea of being “happy enough” can help you take your MAGIC back - Why toxic guys are WORSE than a drug addiction  - The HARSH reasons why you’re NOT holding him to your standards  Ohhhhh girl, this one is goooooood, you won’t want to miss it!!!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this awesome conversation with dating and confidence coach Matthew Hussey!  The EYE-OPENING insights into dating, cheating, and overall life happiness just DON’T. STOP. COMING!!!!  We’re covering:  - 5 reasons WHY you say YES to people that are bad for you - How the EMPOWERING idea of being “happy enough” can help you take your MAGIC back - Why toxic guys are WORSE than a drug addiction  - The HARSH reasons why you’re NOT holding him to your standards  Ohhhhh girl, this one is goooooood, you won’t want to miss it!!!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What’s up, guys! It’s Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is SO DAMN FIRE and alllllllll about dealing with heartbreak and cheating and coming out better on the other side.  Today I’m joined again by my super close homie Matthew Hussey. You may know him as a world-leading dating and confidence coach who shares authentic, insightful, and practical advice to help women not only find love, but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness! This time, we’re talking about eeeeevery woman’s WORST nightmare - the crushing event of being cheated on.  We dig into…  - The signs in your relationship that they may betray you, and why you might be ignoring them - How to tell the difference between a bad choice vs. a character flaw - Dealing with the SHAME and BLAME of being betrayed    - Why avoiders are worse than liars, and how YOU might be HELPING them - How to escape the “victim” mentality and protect your self-esteem and self-worth if they ARE unfaithful - The REAL reason you’re NOT asking the TOUGH questions  LISTEN CLOSE and get ready to have your mind blown! Because I’m telling you homie, this interview had EVEN ME seeing cheating in a completely different way, and that says A LOTTTT coming from me!! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What’s up, guys! It’s Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is SO DAMN FIRE and alllllllll about dealing with heartbreak and cheating and coming out better on the other side.  Today I’m joined again by my super close homie Matthew Hussey. You may know him as a world-leading dating and confidence coach who shares authentic, insightful, and practical advice to help women not only find love, but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness! This time, we’re talking about eeeeevery woman’s WORST nightmare - the crushing event of being cheated on.  We dig into…  - The signs in your relationship that they may betray you, and why you might be ignoring them - How to tell the difference between a bad choice vs. a character flaw - Dealing with the SHAME and BLAME of being betrayed    - Why avoiders are worse than liars, and how YOU might be HELPING them - How to escape the “victim” mentality and protect your self-esteem and self-worth if they ARE unfaithful - The REAL reason you’re NOT asking the TOUGH questions  LISTEN CLOSE and get ready to have your mind blown! Because I’m telling you homie, this interview had EVEN ME seeing cheating in a completely different way, and that says A LOTTTT coming from me!! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this AMAZING conversation with urologist & pelvic surgeon, Dr. Rena Malik.   Dr. Rena continues debunking the lies we’ve been told about sex, (like bigger is better, you’ll get loose from too much sex, etc.), and shedding light on important sexual health misconceptions that are setting us up for failure in the bedroom.  We also cover why mediocre sex is a GOOD thing and why a sex toy is juuuuuust like a microwave!!  So tune in now and learn how to have more pleasure, more orgasms and better relationships!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Rena Malik: Website: https://renamalikmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@renamalikmd Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this AMAZING conversation with urologist & pelvic surgeon, Dr. Rena Malik.   Dr. Rena continues debunking the lies we’ve been told about sex, (like bigger is better, you’ll get loose from too much sex, etc.), and shedding light on important sexual health misconceptions that are setting us up for failure in the bedroom.  We also cover why mediocre sex is a GOOD thing and why a sex toy is juuuuuust like a microwave!!  So tune in now and learn how to have more pleasure, more orgasms and better relationships!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Rena Malik: Website: https://renamalikmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@renamalikmd Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The second part of this conversation with Cindy Trimm on Women of Impact is just as packed with gems of wisdom as the first part. In this half, we move into the power of boundaries, brokenness, and the gift of communication in every one of these areas. “Every crisis is a gift, every problem is an opportunity, and every adverse circumstance is my most valuable teacher.” -Cindy Trimm If you've ever wondered, "Is staying single worth it?" Before you settle for that partner your gut keeps warning you about, you HAVE to listen to this episode. This heart-to-heart with Cindy Trimm, a woman who turned her broken pieces and unstoppable ambition is a powerful inspiration for anyone. Cindy got married at 60 (yes, you read that right!), proving that it's never too late to find happiness. She believes that we attract who we are, not who we want. So, if you're dreaming of an amazing partner, let’s get back into this conversation with the unstoppable Cindy Trimm.! Follow Cindy Trimm: Website: ⁠https://iweighcommunity.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jameelajamil/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/jameelajamil⁠  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The second part of this conversation with Cindy Trimm on Women of Impact is just as packed with gems of wisdom as the first part. In this half, we move into the power of boundaries, brokenness, and the gift of communication in every one of these areas. “Every crisis is a gift, every problem is an opportunity, and every adverse circumstance is my most valuable teacher.” -Cindy Trimm If you've ever wondered, "Is staying single worth it?" Before you settle for that partner your gut keeps warning you about, you HAVE to listen to this episode. This heart-to-heart with Cindy Trimm, a woman who turned her broken pieces and unstoppable ambition is a powerful inspiration for anyone. Cindy got married at 60 (yes, you read that right!), proving that it's never too late to find happiness. She believes that we attract who we are, not who we want. So, if you're dreaming of an amazing partner, let’s get back into this conversation with the unstoppable Cindy Trimm.! Follow Cindy Trimm: Website: ⁠https://iweighcommunity.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jameelajamil/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/jameelajamil⁠  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to Women of Impact ! This two-part conversation with Cindy Trimm is PACKED with wisdom bombs you wish you heard 10 or 20 years ago. Cindy shares her story of transforming her broken pieces into powerful lessons, and how she found love at 60! We unpack the value of being single and why you never want to settle. The encouraging part in all this is that you attract who you are, not who you want. Cindy gives practical tips and gems  on how to make yourself the priority and not the option. We dive deep into Cindy's 20-year vision plan and how she developed the mindset of choosing adventure over security. We discuss hard-hitting questions like, "Can he handle all that you want to grow and evolve into?" It's time for you to stop playing the supporting role in other people's stories. “Your feet will never take you where your mind has never been.” -Cindy Trimm If you're ready to step into your own story as the leading lady, this episode is a must-listen! Remember, you're worthy of happiness, and we're here to help you achieve it. Stay unstoppable, ladies! Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review for more empowering conversations like this one. Follow Cindy Trimm: Website: ⁠https://iweighcommunity.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jameelajamil/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/jameelajamil⁠  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Women of Impact ! This two-part conversation with Cindy Trimm is PACKED with wisdom bombs you wish you heard 10 or 20 years ago. Cindy shares her story of transforming her broken pieces into powerful lessons, and how she found love at 60! We unpack the value of being single and why you never want to settle. The encouraging part in all this is that you attract who you are, not who you want. Cindy gives practical tips and gems  on how to make yourself the priority and not the option. We dive deep into Cindy's 20-year vision plan and how she developed the mindset of choosing adventure over security. We discuss hard-hitting questions like, "Can he handle all that you want to grow and evolve into?" It's time for you to stop playing the supporting role in other people's stories. “Your feet will never take you where your mind has never been.” -Cindy Trimm If you're ready to step into your own story as the leading lady, this episode is a must-listen! Remember, you're worthy of happiness, and we're here to help you achieve it. Stay unstoppable, ladies! Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review for more empowering conversations like this one. Follow Cindy Trimm: Website: ⁠https://iweighcommunity.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jameelajamil/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/jameelajamil⁠  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this amazing episode of Women of Impact with my girl Rahdi Devlukia-Shetty with more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before! In part 2, we’re getting into:  - How to respond and stand strong when everyone has an opinion - Releasing emotions & feeling proud - Listening to & trusting your body  - Tactics for not allowing negativity energy into your life - And so much more! You won’t want to miss the conclusion of this incredible episode!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Radhi Shetty: Website: ⁠https://www.joyfullbook.com/⁠  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this amazing episode of Women of Impact with my girl Rahdi Devlukia-Shetty with more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before! In part 2, we’re getting into:  - How to respond and stand strong when everyone has an opinion - Releasing emotions & feeling proud - Listening to & trusting your body  - Tactics for not allowing negativity energy into your life - And so much more! You won’t want to miss the conclusion of this incredible episode!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Radhi Shetty: Website: ⁠https://www.joyfullbook.com/⁠  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What up, guys! It’s Lisa here with another BOMB episode of Women of Impact and if you’re practically a walking masterclass on people pleasing and questioning yourself, this episode will help you finally stop the validation-seeking behaviors and break the “Nice Girl” habits that keep you stuck in your comfort zone.   Today my girl Radhi Devlukia-Shetty is back for another super honest & inspiring conversation about the power of facing your fears, not allowing anxiety to stop you, and standing strong when everyone has an opinion. In case you didn’t already know – Radhi is a mission-driven entrepreneur, a fitness & well-being enthusiast, a plant based cook and recipe developer, and a trained dietitian, nutritionist and ayurvedic student & counselor.  In this episode, we’re diving into: - Breaking the bad habits that keep you playing small - The secret to taking action even when you want to run in the other direction - Separating love from the boundaries you need to have for yourself without feeling guilty - Combating negative self-talk - Comforting food for the mind and body - And so much more! And that’s just in the first part! Make sure you catch the rest of my convo with Radhi in part 2 for more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before! Follow Radhi Shetty: Website: ⁠https://www.joyfullbook.com/⁠  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What up, guys! It’s Lisa here with another BOMB episode of Women of Impact and if you’re practically a walking masterclass on people pleasing and questioning yourself, this episode will help you finally stop the validation-seeking behaviors and break the “Nice Girl” habits that keep you stuck in your comfort zone.   Today my girl Radhi Devlukia-Shetty is back for another super honest & inspiring conversation about the power of facing your fears, not allowing anxiety to stop you, and standing strong when everyone has an opinion. In case you didn’t already know – Radhi is a mission-driven entrepreneur, a fitness & well-being enthusiast, a plant based cook and recipe developer, and a trained dietitian, nutritionist and ayurvedic student & counselor.  In this episode, we’re diving into: - Breaking the bad habits that keep you playing small - The secret to taking action even when you want to run in the other direction - Separating love from the boundaries you need to have for yourself without feeling guilty - Combating negative self-talk - Comforting food for the mind and body - And so much more! And that’s just in the first part! Make sure you catch the rest of my convo with Radhi in part 2 for more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before! Follow Radhi Shetty: Website: ⁠https://www.joyfullbook.com/⁠  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today I've got something really special for you. I recently had an incredible live Instagram session with the amazing Thais Gibson, a true expert on relationships and attachment styles. I'm so excited to share this conversation with you because we dive deep into understanding these vital aspects of how we connect and communicate in our relationships. Thais breaks down the four major attachment styles—securely attached, anxious/preoccupied, dismissive/avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and how each of these shapes our subconscious beliefs about love. We chat about how our childhood experiences mold these styles and the profound impact this has on our adult relationships. I also get a bit personal in this episode, opening up about my own journey and struggles with health and hormones, as well as my path from being dismissive avoidant to becoming securely attached. Thais shares practical strategies for identifying and transforming our attachment patterns, which I found incredibly empowering. And guess what? We even touch on the exciting idea of a dating app based on attachment styles! Plus, we delve into the crucial topics of self-validation and emotional regulation. If you're looking to understand your own attachment style better or hoping to improve your relationships, this episode is jam-packed with actionable insights. SHOW NOTES: 00:00 Exciting guest, curiosity for growth, and health journey. 03:09 Attachment styles impact relationships; understanding leads growth. 09:22 Securely attached parents facilitate secure relationships. 12:46 Adults seek consistency, love due to childhood lack. 15:12 Anxious attachment style can hinder self-care. 19:51 Conscious mind reprograms subconscious for emotional growth. 21:00 Learning to rely on internal cues, distractions. 24:28 Childhood emotional neglect can lead to shame. 28:23 Greek upbringing stifled emotional expression, causing avoidance. 30:17 Childhood observation shaped emotional strength and suppression. 36:23 Trust is built on being seen, known. 37:13 Considerate communication and trust build stronger relationships. 40:56 Girl, you were fire! Keep up the work. 43:46 Prioritize what matters; podcast release soon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I've got something really special for you. I recently had an incredible live Instagram session with the amazing Thais Gibson, a true expert on relationships and attachment styles. I'm so excited to share this conversation with you because we dive deep into understanding these vital aspects of how we connect and communicate in our relationships. Thais breaks down the four major attachment styles—securely attached, anxious/preoccupied, dismissive/avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and how each of these shapes our subconscious beliefs about love. We chat about how our childhood experiences mold these styles and the profound impact this has on our adult relationships. I also get a bit personal in this episode, opening up about my own journey and struggles with health and hormones, as well as my path from being dismissive avoidant to becoming securely attached. Thais shares practical strategies for identifying and transforming our attachment patterns, which I found incredibly empowering. And guess what? We even touch on the exciting idea of a dating app based on attachment styles! Plus, we delve into the crucial topics of self-validation and emotional regulation. If you're looking to understand your own attachment style better or hoping to improve your relationships, this episode is jam-packed with actionable insights. SHOW NOTES: 00:00 Exciting guest, curiosity for growth, and health journey. 03:09 Attachment styles impact relationships; understanding leads growth. 09:22 Securely attached parents facilitate secure relationships. 12:46 Adults seek consistency, love due to childhood lack. 15:12 Anxious attachment style can hinder self-care. 19:51 Conscious mind reprograms subconscious for emotional growth. 21:00 Learning to rely on internal cues, distractions. 24:28 Childhood emotional neglect can lead to shame. 28:23 Greek upbringing stifled emotional expression, causing avoidance. 30:17 Childhood observation shaped emotional strength and suppression. 36:23 Trust is built on being seen, known. 37:13 Considerate communication and trust build stronger relationships. 40:56 Girl, you were fire! Keep up the work. 43:46 Prioritize what matters; podcast release soon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

[Original air date: 11-18-17]. Today, we're discussing how to keep your relationship strong through the holiday season! FOLLOW LISA: Lisa’s Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Women of Impact Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/womenofimpact/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ FOLLOW TOM: Tom’s Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/⁠ Impact Theory Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/impacttheory/⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en⁠ Tom’s Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/tombilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

[Original air date: 11-18-17]. Today, we're discussing how to keep your relationship strong through the holiday season! FOLLOW LISA: Lisa’s Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Women of Impact Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/womenofimpact/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ FOLLOW TOM: Tom’s Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/⁠ Impact Theory Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/impacttheory/⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en⁠ Tom’s Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/tombilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today we're shedding light on a rampant issue – the overflowing, toxic dating advice online. In a sea of 950 million search results on relationship advice, almost 99.9% of it is misleading and might be holding you back from the love and romance you're looking for. If you're tired of chasing men who simply aren't serious and ready to step into your Bad B*tch Era, we’ve got you covered! No more watered-down versions of yourself, and no more tip-toeing around what you really want in a relationship. My guest is none other than the dynamic Sabrina Zohar – a dating expert and relationship hero who's been there, done that, and broken the cycle. She's debunking the overused, underwhelming dating tips that are great for online quotes but terrible for your love life. Before you strut your stuff in those "bad bitch" boots, you need to get crystal clear on what you want and how you want it, and that’s what we’re about to get into! Original air date: 2-1-24 Chapter Markers:  [00:00] Introduction to Toxic Advice ⚡ [09:36] Bumper Sticker Love Tips 🚘 [18:32] No-Text Trigger Healing 🤳 [25:29] First Date Romance 💋 [31:32] Put Out Situationship Fire ❤️‍🔥 [39:42] Are You The Red Flag? 😜 [48:57] Not Everyone Is Ghosting You 👻 [56:48] Change Your Dating Style 💅 [1:03:27] When You Can’t Avoid Triggers 🫠 Power Insights from Sabrina Zohar: “If you’re dating somebody and who you are isn’t working for them, consider this a blessing and walk the f*ck away.” “The pinch doesn’t match the ouch.” “A girl knows she wants to date but not if she wants to f*ck you. A guy knows if he wants to f*ck you but not if he wants to date you.” ‘I didn’t ask for the anxious attachment style, but I’ll sure as f*ck heal through it.” “A trigger is my problem, not yours.” “Meet yourself with compassion or meet yourself with blame. You get to choose.” Follow Sabrina Zohar: TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrina.zohar⁠   Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sabrina.zohar/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@sabrina.zohar⁠.  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we're shedding light on a rampant issue – the overflowing, toxic dating advice online. In a sea of 950 million search results on relationship advice, almost 99.9% of it is misleading and might be holding you back from the love and romance you're looking for. If you're tired of chasing men who simply aren't serious and ready to step into your Bad B*tch Era, we’ve got you covered! No more watered-down versions of yourself, and no more tip-toeing around what you really want in a relationship. My guest is none other than the dynamic Sabrina Zohar – a dating expert and relationship hero who's been there, done that, and broken the cycle. She's debunking the overused, underwhelming dating tips that are great for online quotes but terrible for your love life. Before you strut your stuff in those "bad bitch" boots, you need to get crystal clear on what you want and how you want it, and that’s what we’re about to get into! Original air date: 2-1-24 Chapter Markers:  [00:00] Introduction to Toxic Advice ⚡ [09:36] Bumper Sticker Love Tips 🚘 [18:32] No-Text Trigger Healing 🤳 [25:29] First Date Romance 💋 [31:32] Put Out Situationship Fire ❤️‍🔥 [39:42] Are You The Red Flag? 😜 [48:57] Not Everyone Is Ghosting You 👻 [56:48] Change Your Dating Style 💅 [1:03:27] When You Can’t Avoid Triggers 🫠 Power Insights from Sabrina Zohar: “If you’re dating somebody and who you are isn’t working for them, consider this a blessing and walk the f*ck away.” “The pinch doesn’t match the ouch.” “A girl knows she wants to date but not if she wants to f*ck you. A guy knows if he wants to f*ck you but not if he wants to date you.” ‘I didn’t ask for the anxious attachment style, but I’ll sure as f*ck heal through it.” “A trigger is my problem, not yours.” “Meet yourself with compassion or meet yourself with blame. You get to choose.” Follow Sabrina Zohar: TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrina.zohar⁠   Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sabrina.zohar/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@sabrina.zohar⁠.  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.