You Forgot That I Existed
by Joanna & Sue
You Forgot That I Existed is conversations between two friends with moms with Alzheimer's Disease. Joanna's mom is currently in a memory care facility. Sue's mom has passed from this cruel disease. While Joanna and Sue are not experts in the field of Alzheimer care, they will share what they have learned re: assisted living , finances, and legally caring for aging loved ones. The hosts keep it light by peppering in stories of their college kids, dogs, books, & pop culture.
Episodes
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Finding Mary Smith w/ Author Al Isaacs
Send us Fan Mail We have a supersized episode for you today! Al Isaacs , author of Finding Mary Smith, shares his extraordinary journey of discovering his adoption and reconnecting with his birth family through DNA testing, old documents, and relentless research. We're talking about identity,...
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It's Our Leather Anniversary!
Send us Fan Mail It's our 3 Year annivrsary this week. Can you believe?!? This week we are updating you on GAGA, promoting the Dallas Dementia Symposium in Dallas SEPT 18, & introducing you to GUIDE, a federal program that can help provide cargiving help. This episode starts off strong with…
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Search Party
Send us Fan Mail This Week! Sue, her friend Michelle, and Tina from Ruby Care Senior Advisors set out on a search for memory care for Michelle's awesome dad! Sue explains what Ruby Care does and how beneficial this service is when looking for senior living. Sue & Joanna discuss MAID, University…
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Robot Wheelchairs
Send us Fan Mail We're all over the place today! Our Bff gets married. Katie Couric gets amnesia. The UK continues to make breakthroughs in Alzheimer's research. Hearing loss contributes to dementia. Robot wheelchairs at LAX. Booty padded undies. Enjoy! Thanks For Listening! Joanna Anderson & Sue...
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Can I Ask You a Question? #10
Send us Fan Mail This Week! Listener's Questions! More crafty scams are targeting you. Recognize the signs of a scam and protect yourself and loved ones. Dying with Dignity...Where do you stand and is this even considerable for Alzheimer's or Dementia patients? Father's day ! Gift ideas and when…
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Grad Season!
Send us Fan Mail We're celebrating 2 graduations this week! Joanna graduated from Flight Attendant training (again) and Sue's son graduates college! Also! We have and update on Gaga, talk GLP-1 for Alzheimers, and preventative health screenings and vaccines. Things we are loving this week…
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Wildest Dreams
Send us Fan Mail This Week! Special Guest Suzanne McElhaney shares her journey through caregiving for her mother, navigating emotional and physical challenges, and finding support and coping strategies. Discover practical advice, community insights, and mindfulness techniques to support…
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When Working Together Doesn't Work
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Joey Shewee, a seasoned Enneagram expert and author of When Working Together Doesn't Work, shares her deep understanding of this personality system and how it can transform personal and professional relationships. Whether you're new to the Enneagram or looking to...
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How Old Are You Today?
Send us Fan Mail This week Sue chats with author Glenna Hecht who shares her inspiring journey of caring for her mother with dementia, introducing her transformative game that rekindled their relationship and offers practical insights for caregivers. This episode explores emotional resilience,...
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Sko Buffs!
Send us Fan Mail This Week! We discuss a recent study out of CU Boulder , The other 'Alzheimer's protein': The quest to prevent toxic tau buildup in the brain. CU Boulder Today | University of Colorado Boulder We're always looking for hope in Alzheimer's treatment and want to share latest...
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Bonus! Talking TV
Send us Fan Mail This week we chat about television shows and the comfort or escapism it provides. Do you escape into Reality TV? competition shows? Medical dramas? We love it all! We also preview what's coming up on the pod! Thanks For Listening! Joanna Anderson & Sue Nicolaidis...
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Can I Ask You A Question? #9
Send us Fan Mail We love answering listener's questions! This week we answer a question that comes up a lot! Is Joanna always so cheery? The answer is of course, no, and trigger warning, we play an audio of her in the depths of sadness after a rough visit with Gaga. When do you look into rehoming...
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I Don't Want To Wait
Send us Fan Mail Are you putting off any health or cancer screenings? Please make that call. What are you waiting for? This week we discuss our disappointment in finding out a revered longevity Dr. is in the E Files & You don't truly understand challenges until you experience them yourself....
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A Little Help From Our Friends
Send us Fan Mail This Week! We reached out to members of our facebook group and asked what advice they would share with someone starting a caregiving journey. The information and advise is really great!! Things we had never thought of before. Good Stuff! Thanks For Listening! Joanna Anderson &…
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A Bridge Too Far
Send us Fan Mail This week! We reflect on recent violent events, & discuss the implications of current events on personal lives. -navigate the complexities of power of attorney and guardianship. - define the role of ombudsman in care facilities. What's Up With Gaga & Tales from the Bus Barn!…
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Shannon Beard : Rock On part 2!
Send us Fan Mail Friend of the POD, Shannon Beard, is back to share her journey of caring for her mother with dementia, detailing the challenges faced in medical care & the importance of guardianship. She discusses the changes that occurred after her mother's placement in a care facility, the...
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Back To Reality
Send us Fan Mail YAY!!! We're Back! We have updates on our holiday experiences, family dynamics, and the challenges of raising adult children. Sue was ordained and performed her first wedding ceremony! Joanna had a family filled Christmas vacation and shares What's Up With GAGA! As we transition...
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Can I Ask You A Question # 8
Send us Fan Mail We're going to start our Holiday Hiatus but first .... Joanna & Sue answer some listener's questions regarding the upcoming holidays. We celebrate TX passing Prop 14, which will fund Dementia research including Alzheimer's and Parkinson's. Tales From The Bus Barn, the benefits of...
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Proposition 14 !!!
Send us Fan Mail In the upcoming November 4, 2025, election, Proposition 14 is a proposed Texas constitutional amendment to create and fund the Dementia Prevention and Research Institute of Texas (DPRIT). If approved, the proposition would establish the largest state-funded dementia research...
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Finger Fun!
Send us Fan Mail Can hand coordination exercises really increase cognitive functions? In this episode, Joanna & Sue discuss a variety of topics ranging from brain health exercises to the importance of strength training and the challenges of parenting. They share personal anecdotes, explore…
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Changes
Send us Fan Mail Change is inevitable. Sometimes exciting, sometimes sad. This week Joanna attends her 30th HS class reunion and realizes so much can change but still be exactly how you remember it. We also talk about Gaga's decline and how this recent change effects Joanna and her strategies…
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Tales From The Bus Barn
Send us Fan Mail We share some life updates that include Joanna's hilarious stories from the bus barn with her amazing pre-schoolers. This is going to be fun. We highlight Emma Willis' new book, The Unexpected Journey: Finding Strength, Hope, and Yourself on the Caregiving Path. Our Fave Things...
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Bonus Tracks!
Send us Fan Mail This Week we were playing with a new sound and camera situation and this ended up being some bonus content! A caregiver team hit with new challenges. Getting the kids moved for fall semester and new jobs! Joanna's newest side hustle. The positive effects of a Parks and Rec…
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Showgirls!
Send us Fan Mail This Week! We discuss Taylor Swift's upcoming appearance on the New Heights podcast. You're Welcome! Explore fascinating research on lithium and its potential benefits for Alzheimer's. Navigate the complexities of Filial Responsibility Laws. Please Vote for this panel to be...
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Meet Susanne White, Caregiver Warrior!
Send us Fan Mail Joanna talks with Susanne White, the Caregiver Warrior, about her personal journey as a caregiver and the lessons learned along the way. They discuss the importance of self-care for caregivers, coping strategies, and the emotional toll of caregiving. Suzanne shares insights on...
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The Wheels On The Bus
Send us Fan Mail This Week! Joanna is back behind the wheel of the big bus! Navigating Health Insurance Mind-Bending Medical Advances: Dogs Detecting Parkinson's "Walk With Me " Upcoming documentary about navigating early onset Alzheimer's Some favorite things this week are The Hunting Wives &...
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Alzheimer's, Ozempic, & Bears! Oh My!
Send us Fan Mail Sue is back from hiking in Montana with BEARS! Joanna masters cooking rice. Are weight loss / diabetes medications reducing your risk of Dementia? Listen to WUWG segment to see what Gaga is getting up to this week. Some favorite things are docs My Mom Jayne (hbo), & Amy Bradley…
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Truth, Strength, & Clarity w/ Sandy Moss Moder
Send us Fan Mail Meet author Sandy Moss Moder! This conversation delves into the deeply personal journey of caregiving for a loved one with frontotemporal degeneration (FTD). Sandy wrote a stunning memoir, If I Have One More Brain Thing..., chronicling her experiences, the emotional and physical...
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Call Her Gaga!
Send us Fan Mail Fun Episode with lots of updates on our Favorite Gaga! Her personality and musical talents are shining! We highlight Lauren and Seth Rogan's collab with Caring Across Generations. We need to understand the potential cuts to Medicaid and call our legislation and try to prevent.…
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Meet Karen Klassen, Encourager
Send us Fan Mail This week we welcome Karen Klassen to the pod. Karen shares her experiences from her time in the corporate world , caregiving for her parents, and starting her multiple businesses. She reminded us that caregiving, while challenging, is also a powerful teacher. There’s so much...
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Smell The Rosemary Sharpen The Mind
Send us Fan Mail Joanna is back from her big girl work trip to Greece! Yay! This Week *A new blood test for diagnosing Alzheimer's, emphasizing the importance of early detection. *Rosemary and it's brain benefits! *The Handmaid's Tale finale, Sirens, The Better Sister, and Pee Wee As Himself are...
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Mother's Day
Send us Fan Mail This week we reflect on the complexities of Mother's Day, sharing personal stories of loss and remembrance, discussing the emotional challenges faced by those who have lost their mothers or have complicated relationships with them. The conversation shifts to recent developments…
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Telepathy Tapes & Taking Care
Send us Fan Mail This Week - Joanna & Sue saw Kendrick & SZA :) We discuss an episode of The Telepathy Tapes where a man begins telepathically communicating with his nonverbal wife w/ Alzheimer's. Check out the documentary Taking Care by Lauren Miller Rogen and Seth Rogen. We learn how caring for...
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Can I Ask You A Question? #7
Send us Fan Mail This week we share recent experiences with Easter celebrations, family traditions, and the challenges of caregiving, particularly in relation to Alzheimer's. We answer listeners questions about holidays and Assisted Living, Adult Day Care, and when your loved one loses their...
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Understanding Medicare: What You Need to Know
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Joanna, Sue, and guest Rory Payne discuss the complexities of Medicare and insurance, focusing on the different parts of Medicare, the costs associated with it, and the importance of long-term care and final expense insurance. Rory explains the differences…
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Hormones, Herpes, and Gaga's Need For Speed
Send us Fan Mail This week's Takeaways... Don't make hair decisions when you have PMS. Herpes, Antiviral Meds, and Alzheimer's. Read about this study at cle.clinic/ALZstudy When Gaga mentions she misses driving, Joanna takes her to the grocery store to drive a scooter cart. She was a pro! We also...
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Only The Young
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Joanna and Sue interview Emma Lewis and Morgan McCrea, first-year PhD students in the Developmental and Regenerative Sciences program at UTSA. They discuss their research in neuroscience, particularly focusing on Alzheimer's disease, and share their personal...
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Lady Brains & the Key To Alzheimer's
Send us Fan Mail Do women's brains hold the key to Alzheimers? Can eating 2 eggs a day reduce Alzheimer's risk? We're sharing everything we learned this week re: this research. Also chat about the passing of Gene Hackman, Medicare Questions, and the delightful escape show With Love, Meghan w/...
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Oral Health, Alzheimer's , and The Oscars!
Send us Fan Mail This week we recap the Oscars, Get an update on our amazing Gaga, and chat about the potential link between Oral hygiene and Alzheimer's disease. Thanks For Listening! Joanna Anderson & Sue Nicolaidis https://www.instagram.com/youforgotpod/?next=%2F…
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Little Lies
Send us Fan Mail Sometimes you gotta lie, fib, and fabricate a story to break news to your loved one. The term "Compassionate Deception "sounds so much nicer. We discuss creative approach to breaking difficult news and share how one family used celebrity Cameo messages to tell their dad he was...
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Remembering Janet on her Birthday!
Send us Fan Mail This week Joanna and Sue welcome Sue's brother Tom to the podcast! Janet would have been 91 today so we wanted to celebrate her and share some memories! Tom & Sue reflect on their mother's life, her influence as a single parent, and the challenges they faced as a family. They...
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When We Were Young
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, hosts Sue and Joanna discuss the significance of family letters, and the importance of documenting memories. They read touching letters from GAGA, reflecting on family history and the emotional connections that come with it. The conversation also explores tools…
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Meet Joyce Logan! Founder of Ruby Care Senior Living Advisors
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Joanna & Sue discuss the importance of finding the right senior care options with Joyce Logan, owner of Ruby Care. Joyce shares her personal journey that led her to create Ruby Care, a service that helps families navigate the complex world of senior living. The...
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2024 Favorite Things
Send us Fan Mail This week Joanna and Sue are reunited after the holiday hiatus. They list favorite books, movies, concerts, and food of 2024! Thanks For Listening! Joanna Anderson & Sue Nicolaidis https://www.instagram.com/youforgotpod/?next=%2F https://thenokbox.sjv.io/POkLyN Order Your Nok Box...
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"Hey Jack...I Remember You!"
Send us Fan Mail This week we explore various themes surrounding aging, dementia, and the impact of pop culture on awareness. Two new series, Man On The Inside & The Penguin, along with holiday movie Our Little Secret , all have characters with dementia. We're they portrayed fairly? We recap...
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Can I ask you a question? #6
Send us Fan Mail Happy Thanksgiving! Joanna & Sue discuss preparations, traditions, and the emotions of navigating grief and dementia during family gatherings. They share personal anecdotes about their own holiday experiences, the challenges of caring for loved ones with Alzheimer's, and the...
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Navigating Alzheimer's with Kathy Bryant
Send us Fan Mail Kathy Bryant is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Texas and has a Master’s degree in Education. She has over 40 years of experience working as a school counselor and also providing individual therapy in a psychiatric office. During the last ten years she has focused on…
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Cheri On Top!
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Joanna sits down with her cousin Cheri Tatum to discuss proactive health measures essential for cognitive health, especially with a family history of Alzheimer's and Dementia. Cheri decided to have extensive cognitive testing done so she can plan for the future...
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Alzheimer's Walk, TV Debut, & Voting with Dementia
Send us Fan Mail Joanna & Sue discuss their participation in an Alzheimer’s walk, their recent television debut, complexities of voting rights for individuals with dementia, and their electric experience in NOLA @ The Era's Tour. What's Up With Gaga is all about Halloween! Thanks For Listening!...
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Speak Now
Send us Fan Mail This week we sit down with Amanda Ahmed, MA,EdM,CCC-SlP, to discuss the vital role of speech therapy in addressing communication challenges faced by individuals with Alzheimer's and other dementia-related disorders. Amanda, a speech therapist and owner of Summit Therapy Services,...
About this show
You Forgot That I Existed is conversations between two friends with moms with Alzheimer's Disease. Joanna's mom is currently in a memory care facility. Sue's mom has passed from this cruel disease. While Joanna and Sue are not experts in the field of Alzheimer care, they will share what they have learned re: assisted living , finances, and legally caring for aging loved ones. The hosts keep it light by peppering in stories of their college kids, dogs, books, & pop culture.
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Joanna & Sue